I Want to Talk About Self Esteem

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 71 People

    Don't Have Any

    i was crushed from an early age from my parents so i never had any so how can i get some ?
    wotaloser wotaloser
    36-40, M
    Jul 16, 2011
    tlee5001 tlee5001
    22-25, F
    Jul 21, 2014

    Self Esteem Is Different From Self Confidence

     In psychology - self esteem is a person's evaluation of their own self worth.It's like a self inventory.  Self confidence is an attitude that allows people to have a positive view of themselves and their lives. It's related to one's personal; beliet in their own...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2009

    Base One Virtue

     Virtue is moral excellence. iCharacter trait or quality valued as being good. The opposite of virtue is vice.                            ...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2009
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 9, 2015

    BASE Two-god's Love

    Individuals perception on how God effects and controls the emotions in their lives.
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    10 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    Hi - My Name Is Mary

    Hi, My name is Mary and I am one of RetiredFather's summer interns. I would like to talk about self esteem and how I can feel good about themself.
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    5 Responses Jun 7, 2009

    Hey!

    How is everyone doing this fine day?
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    7 Responses Jul 11, 2009

    Low Self Esteem Vs High Self Esteem

    L.S.E results in a poor self image. Your self image is based on weel weel you see yourself. L.S.E. feeds your negative thinking  and makes you believe negative comments from others. H.S.E. is the opposite if L.S.E. If you have H.S.E you will be self motivated, happy and...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    Jun 18, 2009

    Base Three - Family Support

    Almost self explainatory. Lack of family support is almost a direct path to low self esteem. We could fill volumes on this main base cause.
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    Do You Talk to Yourself?

     Negative self talk kills self esteem. 1) What names do you call yourself 2) When you make a mistake - do you call yourself and idiot or a loser? 3) Who talked to you this way in the past. 4) Way do you still listen to them?        ...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    16 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    Bases For Self Esteem

    According to Crocker and Wolfe - 2001 - Contingencies of self worth. People differ in their beliefs for self esteem. This beliefs form bases - or what they need to do or who they need to be to classify themselves as a person of worth.       ...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2009

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