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I Want to Tell Friends I Crossdress

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    Not Necessarily Want To

    I have told my cousin and we're closer than we'd ever been before (not like THAT though... for those of you with naughty minds...) and I've told a good close family friend but I don't think I want to tell anyone else necessarily, at least not out of my current friends. I've also...
    STLCD STLCD 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    Just Shared Tonight

    I just told a friend of mine from work that I'm a crossdresser. She was very cool about it!
    jennietv89 jennietv89 41-45, T 2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Internal Conflicts

    The notion of change can be a very frightening one. Especially when we are happy with what we have. The notion that someone that we love is going to change into someone else can cause extreme distress. Human beings are and always have been social animals and in that sense...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Jun 26, 2010

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    Would Love To

    i would very much like to tell friends and family but most are of the baptist faith and i know they would not take it well. i will dress always but keep it to girls jeans when around them. so wish i had the guts ti just tell them but as i love them i do not want to hurt them
    spaz1177 spaz1177 46-50, T Jul 7, 2013

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    Coming Out To My Best Friend

    I started Crossdressing when i about 11. I couldn't stop, the thrill if the bras and panties, dresses and everything overwhelmed me. I came out to my best friend today and she said she would help menwith my makeup! Haha Victory for this crossdresser! Amazing to finally have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2012

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    Another Confessions...

    In the past few month, the things got some speed... I started wearing my female jacket openly, it means I wear it everywhere. Also started to wear womens clothes more openly.. But its not the main topic of this story. The main topic is, how I told to my friends I'm a crossdresser...
    VivienXX VivienXX 26-30, T 5 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Confession Series Part One...

    Today I told one of my friend I'm a crossdresser. We know each other around a 9 month, but somehow I felt I can trust him. Okay, its wasn't my big plan for this day... So he asked me a few weeks ago, be him guide in my city. Okay we are good friends. I guide him through a few...
    VivienXX VivienXX 26-30, T Aug 25, 2010

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    They Know !

    Hi, Yep tired of hiding ,told just about every friend and family member. Some now want to go out to places with me, can you believe it. Well it's all true . Love, Connie
    connie2much4me connie2much4me 56-60, T 3 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Only Found Out My Best Friend Was Crossdresser Like Me

    i have been crossdressing since 7 secretly i met my best friend in secondry school when 14 we use to stay at eachothers houses nearly every weekend and was very close but he had to move away when 17 i was heartbroken but met a couple of times when he visited but lost contact...
    cindytights cindytights 36-40 16 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    Same Here

    I want to tell my family or just my sister I am not ready for friends but my sister can be a real ***** sometimes and i don't know how she would react. And my family I would tell them but I don't want my whole life style to change just the way I dress from now and again.
    sissylaura09 sissylaura09 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Scared

    im 14 and i crossdress. noone in my family or friends know i do. i want to tell my older sister but im very scared of the consequences. i am even more afraid of what would happen if the whole world found out. i want someone personal to know but im afraid they will think im a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 5, 2011

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    But I've Gotten Realistic Over Time

    At a very early age I started with makeup, followed by clothes, followed by going out regularly, and it was a very lonely thing. I thought I was the only one in the world who did it but I had to. As time went on the loneliness got to me and there were many times when I wanted to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13, 2012

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    Going Forward Out Of The Closet

    I've told my wife and a couple family members about my dressing. I am slowly getting out and about as Michelle and making friends. I would like to tell some of my old friends, but there are very few that I actually worry about whether or not they'll still be friends after they...
    MichelleKM MichelleKM 31-35, T 6 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Did Tell Someone: How Did That Happen?

    Sometimes you gain a friend and you just know it's different. Sometimes it's romantic and you plunge into each others' depths, though perhaps with a bit of reservation, finding your way. Sometimes it's just friendship and you just sense the mutual trust straight away. I found a...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Would Like to Tell All My Friends"i Crossdress"

    Really, I wish I had the courage to let everyone know that I Crossdress and have my whole life. The only thing that I would really like to change about my crossdressing would have to be having the ability to not have to hide it from others.  The first time I ever told...
    maidkimmy4u maidkimmy4u 41-45, T 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    Want To Come Out And Crossdress In Public

    I dont know how to tell every one that i crossdress that i care for. I have been doing it for a long time behind closed doors and i dont know how they will take to it. I have had many experences buying womans clothing ialways tell the sales person that its for myself sometimes...
    roamer648 roamer648 66-70, M 2 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    It Would Be Nice To Dress As I Like

    I've been fortunate and about half of my friends, my wife and sister know that I dress, and the fortunate part is none of them have kicked me to the curb for it. I did go out on Halloween last year (2011) as a woman in full drag and went to my favorite hang outs in full drag with...
    Wolftraxxx1973 Wolftraxxx1973 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Everything Ok

    well this is my sister finding out. she found out only hours before i was going to tell her. i think at first she was pissed that i used her clothes but later she said she loved and accepted me no matter what. i cant use any more of her clothes but said she would take me to the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8, 2011

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    First One

    I came out to someone close to me. It was hard, but I was pretty sure before I told her that she would be accepting. We didn't get a chance to have an in depth conversation; but she wants to talk more, so I haven't scared her away. In fact, she said she was honoured that I chose...
    tpoh tpoh 46-50, M Jul 30, 2013

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    Hi. I'm New to the site

    and would enjoy chatting with you to about crossdressing and pantyhose in particular. Hugs. Annie
    annieinhose annieinhose 46-50, T Jul 15

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    I Want To Tell

    I would love to have the courage to tell some friends that i Crossdress and wear panties all the time but i don't have the courage to tell them
    tammy2 tammy2 56-60, M 7 Responses Aug 3, 2010

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    im soooooo bored i want my friends to talk to me
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    Instead of the word want I have to say I already do cosplay as the 'opposite gender', at least the opposite gender to how I was born anyway, but I'm not talking about that here...
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    I'm considering deleting my account here and leaving the site for good, so far I got hurt enough, it seems the more I explain about me the worse it gets...maybe I'm too sincere...
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    Im bi but i have no male gay friends :( i get on great with girls but everything is always awkward with guys. Any gay guys on EP looking for male friends? :D just friends No...
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    I first spotted you from the back of the class wearing a smile, wearing a mask I became closer I considered you a friend but I still sometimes saw you wearing the mask It would...
    gothboy145 gothboy145 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm tired of having people around who say they are my friends due to mutual convenience.
    DharmaFrost DharmaFrost 22-25, F Jun 26

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    Looking for wonderful respectful friends. Add me please and let's be besties.. :)
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    I came across too many fake friends who said they would have my back to only turn around and stab me multiple times.
    AriGALAXY AriGALAXY 13-15, M Jun 29

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    Would love to make some more female friends :)
    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    i need more friends and im new
    paige001 paige001 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    capricorn79 capricorn79 31-35, T 1 Response Jun 29

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    Looking for lady friend who will accept and support me as a cross dresser and guys who are into dresses, heels and pantyhose
    annieinhose annieinhose 46-50, T 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I have a husband who loves me and three great kids that we spoil. But I don't have any friends. I am a stay-at-home Mom. I have low self-esteem, I guess. Sometimes. I don't know. I...
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    seriously. what am I to them? nothing? everything? something? my 'friends' go to this restaurant after school every once in a while and talk and stuff, and I don't ever seem to...
    thefandomthief thefandomthief 13-15, M Jul 5

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    I don't want horny guys. I want real friends. People with the same interests, who I can talk to about my life.
    SecretlyBrokenUniverse SecretlyBrokenUniverse 18-21, F Jun 26

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    i do but i want nice friends to talk here
    hollyjollyholly hollyjollyholly 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm a kind-hearted person! Just want some friends to talk to and message when your bored or anything :)
    dutdin1323 dutdin1323 18-21, M Jun 28

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    Makes me laugh, they make me feel like **** and then get mad when I don't talk to them about what's going on with me. But then when I do try to talk to them, they really couldn't...
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