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I Want to Trust Again

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    OK if anybody has read my past posts then you

    know the situation. My wife who I have been with since I was 16 years old was just caught cheating won't admit to physical but admitted to emotional and a lot of lies. I have posted what I found and how I found out here in my stories already if anyone was wondering. Now here is...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'm Not Sure How to Go About It Though.

    I started out in life not trusting anyone too far.  I've been able to allow one person, my wife at the time, to be trusted with the secrets of my heart and soul.  Most of the time it's worked but I'd feel better if I could expand that trust to more people at the same...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    ONE Day, Some Day

    I WANT TO BE ABLE TO GIVE MY HEART FULLY TO A MAN AND BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT, IN HIS HANDS, IT'S SAFE. NOW IF I THINK THAT WILL BE PROBABLE IS ANOTHER QUESTION. SO FAR LOVING PEOPLE HAS ONLY LED TO PAIN FOR ME. I STILL FEEL POSITIVE EMOTIONS, ESPECIALLY TOWARDS MY TWO...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2009

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    What Is Going On With Me....

    It seems like I have been having a lot of difficulties with trust. The people I went out with didn't like me enough to stick around. At least they didn't show it. Sometimes I have learned to trust my insticnct on that. I am learning to trust once again, but slower than I want to...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F May 20, 2013

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    A Work In Progress...

     It is going to take a lot of work and inner reflection to learn to trust again.  After dealing with systemic mistrust in a relationship for 24 years....I wonder if I will be able to ever trust that anyone says what they mean and mean what they say.....?  It is a...
    invisiblewife invisiblewife 41-45, F May 8, 2009

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I was 13 and me and her were inspereable. Me and her are straight or at least we thought. Well lately id had been noticing her. As in her body features . I tried to tell myself...
    learningdaily learningdaily 13-15 Jul 12

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    I have kissed her more than a hundred times but then she moved😔. We visits me sometimes and i think about kissing her again all the time.
    alysharoberts25 alysharoberts25 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have never done this but I want to what should I say to my best mate?
    annonymous1999 annonymous1999 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I have never kissed a girl but I want to and more to a close friend what should I say and does this mean I'm a lesbian?
    annonymous1999 annonymous1999 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love it when I'm in a relationship and my baby gets jealous. Jealousy and not trusting someone is different jealousy lets you know your wanted trust problems means I don't have...
    Bethany17 Bethany17 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I know that its probably too early for me to want this, or even think that this is possible, but I can't help wondering. I mean my marriage wasn't always bad. I had what I felt was...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I met this amazing guy through sports, I feel safe, and loved, and like nothing can touch me, when we are together, he tells me he loves me, and calls me his girlfriend, and babe...
    justyouraverageteen justyouraverageteen 16-17, F Jul 12

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    I miss the closeness and goofiness of all the friendships I once had. I just want that again. Just a few close "best" friends would suffice.
    ceexa ceexa 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am so angry for trusting my best friend. He was my best friend. The one that I thought would cover my back if someone were to hurt me, but what I found out... For the past 7...
    LynEdma LynEdma 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have trust issues. I haven't ways had them, in my younger years I trusted without fear of pain or betrayals but I can't function like that anymore. When I was 19 I started...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I learned this the hard way. Can't trust my friends - not even my own family. It sucks.
    Dessy16 Dessy16 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Trust only yo self fackk i needed 25 charetersss
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    The great escape 4 The team continue on without Zane and Niggalactacus and mad it to entrance to the hanger room. However what they didn't know was security guards where posted...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    1. I want to join 1000 groups that apply to me. 2. I believe in soul mates 3. I wear fake polo. (SWAG) 4. I've had the same xbox 360 for 7 years with no problems. 5. I break...
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    Well, actually this is the main reason I came to this website... I have a lot in my mind, a lot going on in my life right now, and most of it are things I wouldn't want to be...
    Yasahiro Yasahiro 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was in an abusive relationship as a teenager. We met in high school, he was a few years older than me, and for the first 4 months it was wonderful, then he moved away, and slowly...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    So... This is weird. I play games all night probably. And whenever it's a new day I'm still playing. Then I have to do some things like going I the shop or something. I always...
    Adamexxx Adamexxx 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    Every time I trust I end up betrayed. My last act of trust was when I trusted my ex concerning our two young children. He wanted to see them,be a part of their lives,and act like...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I trusted you We met online I never thought we would meet You pushed, we met I began to fall for you I expected to to leave Never talk to me again But you didn't You came back You...
    kenzieburr kenzieburr 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Last year I had one person in my life that I trusted. I have known her since I was young and despite her being my mothers age she was my best friend and like a mom to me. I could...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I want to trust people. I really do! I've been backstabbed by my closest and bestest friends during high school. I stood up for them, I would have fought for them( was about to too...
    ReachingSoul ReachingSoul 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I am such a pretender. I am really really very very good at it - pretending. Pretending that I'm all calm and cool whenever you call me and we talk. But the truth is I was floating...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Suppose I said the following; what would you think? I’m wondering if I really like this guy more than I’ve let myself realize. I know he’s really into me. But I’ve been...
    patjemison patjemison 46-50 Jun 26

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    Just like anyone else on this Group, I am hoping to make friends that would lead to true friendship. The kind of connection that each would have trust to express more, and trust...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Today I finally came to the conclusion that I am too quick to give someone my trust. And even though he once made me wonder if completely giving it up was the right choice, I...
    Liburtygirl Liburtygirl 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I really want to get my life back! With everything that has happened to my family is bowl crap. I want my family to be happy again I want to make new friends and I want a...
    Fitzpatrick09 Fitzpatrick09 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    It's not that I want to die (not anymore...not since I started praying and trusting in myself and a higher power), but i just want the pain to stop. I know that one day, things...
    lunabyrd666 lunabyrd666 18-21 Jun 24

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    Trust.‘Stop asking me to trustyou while I’m still coughingup water from the last timeyou let me drown.’ - Unknown.Trust. According to me, this is the most fragile...
    angelicsmiles angelicsmiles 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm not completely unhappy with my life. In fact, I'm actually pretty happy with it overall with the exception of my education and career. When the economy collapsed, my education...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    We gotta get passed fears to be able to trust.Trust it is not only to hope for the best and wish we wont get hurt...we gotta start trusting ourselves too. This means...if you...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 6

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    The people I thought were my family made me a slave and talked about whether to sell me or keep me for themselves. I don't trust them. I moved out last year and my mom wants me to...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    You ask why I don't trust ? Why should I? You say why don't you listen? Is there any point? You say you can help. I never asked for help. You say I have no choice. Oh but I do. You...
    Howlingsoulofthewolf Howlingsoulofthewolf 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I've been going out with the same guy for a year now, but 4 months ago there was a bump in the road of our relationship. Ok so, my boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14 we met on a trip to...
    Julianna2406 Julianna2406 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I have huge issues. My mind is corrupted. But my trust issues are really bad... Although I feel I really need to tell y boyfriend some things when the time is right. One of those...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Future consequence July 17, 3:00am It was just before 3:00am and the citizens of Manhattan where in panic, they team scared into their homes frighted of the events to come...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had been with my boyfriend for over 6 months. All was good. We had fun together, made the effort to save our money for holidays. We gave each other everything and did everything...
    taya31 taya31 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I don't know if I can ever fall in love again. I was married for 15 years, mostly happy. After the marriage ended, I was too naive for my age, and got into a relationship with...
    glitterdahlia glitterdahlia 41-45 Jun 29

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    The great escape 2 The jet soared across the skies at top speed Zane not wanting to waste anymore time to recuse his teammates. After 2hours of traveling the trio made it to...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I'd just gone through a very unpleasant experience here... a very good friend of mine was in a relationship with someone she had met here...to make a long story short...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4

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