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I Want to Trust Again

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    I'm Not Sure How to Go About It Though.

    I started out in life not trusting anyone too far.  I've been able to allow one person, my wife at the time, to be trusted with the secrets of my heart and soul.  Most of the time it's worked but I'd feel better if I could expand that trust to more people at the same...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    A Work In Progress...

     It is going to take a lot of work and inner reflection to learn to trust again.  After dealing with systemic mistrust in a relationship for 24 years....I wonder if I will be able to ever trust that anyone says what they mean and mean what they say.....?  It is a...
    invisiblewife invisiblewife 41-45, F May 8, 2009

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    What Is Going On With Me....

    It seems like I have been having a lot of difficulties with trust. The people I went out with didn't like me enough to stick around. At least they didn't show it. Sometimes I have learned to trust my insticnct on that. I am learning to trust once again, but slower than I want to...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F May 20, 2013

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    OK if anybody has read my past posts then you

    know the situation. My wife who I have been with since I was 16 years old was just caught cheating won't admit to physical but admitted to emotional and a lot of lies. I have posted what I found and how I found out here in my stories already if anyone was wondering. Now here is...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    ONE Day, Some Day

    I WANT TO BE ABLE TO GIVE MY HEART FULLY TO A MAN AND BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT, IN HIS HANDS, IT'S SAFE. NOW IF I THINK THAT WILL BE PROBABLE IS ANOTHER QUESTION. SO FAR LOVING PEOPLE HAS ONLY LED TO PAIN FOR ME. I STILL FEEL POSITIVE EMOTIONS, ESPECIALLY TOWARDS MY TWO...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I was 13 and me and her were inspereable. Me and her are straight or at least we thought. Well lately id had been noticing her. As in her body features . I tried to tell myself...
    learningdaily learningdaily 13-15 Jul 12

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    I have kissed her more than a hundred times but then she moved😔. We visits me sometimes and i think about kissing her again all the time.
    alysharoberts25 alysharoberts25 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I have never done this but I want to what should I say to my best mate?
    annonymous1999 annonymous1999 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I have never kissed a girl but I want to and more to a close friend what should I say and does this mean I'm a lesbian?
    annonymous1999 annonymous1999 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love it when I'm in a relationship and my baby gets jealous. Jealousy and not trusting someone is different jealousy lets you know your wanted trust problems means I don't have...
    Bethany17 Bethany17 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I know that its probably too early for me to want this, or even think that this is possible, but I can't help wondering. I mean my marriage wasn't always bad. I had what I felt was...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I met this amazing guy through sports, I feel safe, and loved, and like nothing can touch me, when we are together, he tells me he loves me, and calls me his girlfriend, and babe...
    justyouraverageteen justyouraverageteen 16-17, F Jul 12

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    I miss the closeness and goofiness of all the friendships I once had. I just want that again. Just a few close "best" friends would suffice.
    ceexa ceexa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I want to find a girl who I can connect with, who I can have fun with, who will know everything about me and will be themselves around me, and at the end of the day, curl up next...
    JohnF1997 JohnF1997 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so glad I found this group! I have been looking on experience project for something like this! It is truly my day :) I am looking for a deeper relationship- not...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I believe finding who you are and what you want to be a the hardest part about being an adult. You have responsibilities and more I could name off but let me get to my point. The...
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M 18 hrs ago

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    I'm Savannah & I'm being bullied by a large group of girls. We used to be friends but when I got tired of hanging out with one girl because she was really mean..she turned her...
    DisneyGirl390 DisneyGirl390 13-15, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I need empathy. It's something that I have to have. Because if I don't get it in a partner, I don't want one. I'm fine going my entire life without being married. It won't make or...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I've recently broken up with my boyfriend I want to fall in love again but I don't know whether I'm ready yet I'm tired of just being picked up and dropped whenever I know a...
    mellywoo mellywoo 13-15, F 32 mins ago

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    Someone tried. So much so that I remember thinking of how fake he was being; of how I shouldn't trust him. He asked for marriage after only a few months. I was unable to speak-I...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 19 hrs ago

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    🚫NO BULLYING ALLOWED🚫 🙇If your being bullied please tell an adult that you can trust or a friend🙇 👊I want to put an end on bullying👊 🔪we cannot loose...
    francescaastorga francescaastorga 13-15, F 50 mins ago

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    The great escape 4 The team continue on without Zane and Niggalactacus and mad it to entrance to the hanger room. However what they didn't know was security guards where posted...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I know that having a companion in life is not needed, it's wanted. But at times where all you want is to be held by your significant other that want feels like a need. I'm...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    ForgivenessSo, what could you forgive in your life? How far could someone push you, how deeply could they scar you and you can still let it go. I mean, honestly just let it go...
    MissinMySon MissinMySon 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well, actually this is the main reason I came to this website... I have a lot in my mind, a lot going on in my life right now, and most of it are things I wouldn't want to be...
    Yasahiro Yasahiro 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Trust with a Capricorn like me is not easily gained, I'm being realistic
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    What even is life? Everyone is so horrible, it's impossible to make real friends who u can trust :(
    Lovingchocolate14 Lovingchocolate14 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Ok so let me tell you about this girl I met on EP. So it was late and I was looking for girls to talk to as usual anyway I find this one girl on EP and she is way out of my league...
    ZekeFrost ZekeFrost 18-21, M 17 hrs ago

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    I feel like I need to get all my anger out right now. I have been slamming my head against the wall and I feel like that's not enough. My dad is nasty to me and makes me feel like...
    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Every time I trust I end up betrayed. My last act of trust was when I trusted my ex concerning our two young children. He wanted to see them,be a part of their lives,and act like...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I want to trust people. I really do! I've been backstabbed by my closest and bestest friends during high school. I stood up for them, I would have fought for them( was about to too...
    ReachingSoul ReachingSoul 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I trusted you We met online I never thought we would meet You pushed, we met I began to fall for you I expected to to leave Never talk to me again But you didn't You came back You...
    kenzieburr kenzieburr 16-17, F Jul 16

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    Is love to trust my husband again... Then maybe I could love him again. Some serious trust busters were done by him in the beginning and he hasn't done anything to recoup what was...
    mommahump mommahump 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People told me i act like a little girl and they dont believe me that im over 30. I heard often such statements about me. It just got me thinking that maybe i stuck somewhere in my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    No bills. No responsibilities. No adult stuff. Oh when will I ever get to that place again?
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So its been fcking months since I did this sh!t but few hours ago I cut again. Cut my wrist. Haven't cut since early march. Idk why just life again I think. 1 of those down days...
    OKPunk OKPunk 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am such a pretender. I am really really very very good at it - pretending. Pretending that I'm all calm and cool whenever you call me and we talk. But the truth is I was floating...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    You have one chance to earn my trust, but if I catch you in a lie then I will never trust you again. Everyone I've ever been with has cheated on me. Not just some, all of them...
    pastelstars pastelstars 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    This is actually 150 things about me. This was made by Nathan something from tumblr "150 cute questions" 1. Who was the last person you held hands with? -no one? 2. Are you...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Just like anyone else on this Group, I am hoping to make friends that would lead to true friendship. The kind of connection that each would have trust to express more, and trust...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I am comfortable here on EP and texting, I just don't want to get any closer. The last guy I met here couldn't understand that, I should have never given him my phone number just...
    jamieis jamieis 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today I finally came to the conclusion that I am too quick to give someone my trust. And even though he once made me wonder if completely giving it up was the right choice, I...
    Liburtygirl Liburtygirl 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I was 14 or 15 ,,I am not really sure but I believe 15 ,,,I had broke up with my girl friend (a short time later became my wife) and I was staying at Mom and Dads ,( my girlfriend...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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