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I Want to Trust Again

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    What Is Going On With Me....

    It seems like I have been having a lot of difficulties with trust. The people I went out with didn't like me enough to stick around. At least they didn't show it. Sometimes I have learned to trust my insticnct on that. I am learning to trust once again, but slower than I want to...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F May 20, 2013

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    OK if anybody has read my past posts then you

    know the situation. My wife who I have been with since I was 16 years old was just caught cheating won't admit to physical but admitted to emotional and a lot of lies. I have posted what I found and how I found out here in my stories already if anyone was wondering. Now here is...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    A Work In Progress...

     It is going to take a lot of work and inner reflection to learn to trust again.  After dealing with systemic mistrust in a relationship for 24 years....I wonder if I will be able to ever trust that anyone says what they mean and mean what they say.....?  It is a...
    invisiblewife invisiblewife 41-45, F May 8, 2009

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    I'm Not Sure How to Go About It Though.

    I started out in life not trusting anyone too far.  I've been able to allow one person, my wife at the time, to be trusted with the secrets of my heart and soul.  Most of the time it's worked but I'd feel better if I could expand that trust to more people at the same...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    ONE Day, Some Day

    I WANT TO BE ABLE TO GIVE MY HEART FULLY TO A MAN AND BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT, IN HIS HANDS, IT'S SAFE. NOW IF I THINK THAT WILL BE PROBABLE IS ANOTHER QUESTION. SO FAR LOVING PEOPLE HAS ONLY LED TO PAIN FOR ME. I STILL FEEL POSITIVE EMOTIONS, ESPECIALLY TOWARDS MY TWO...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Too many betrayals have shattered my trust. My trust was difficult to attain and now it will be merely impossible.
    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound 31-35, M Aug 9

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    i cant believe its one year down the line after my most painful heartbreak i i cant rust anyone not even my own shadow i might end up alone just thinking aloud
    tekena tekena 18-21 1 Response Jul 31

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    This says is all...worth watching and listening to.... http://sfglo.be/MS
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I kiss my best friend ... And I liked it .
    louiseed louiseed 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I have trouble trusting people cause I have been hurt so much in the past...I want to trust again but they usually turn on me and hurt me
    CountryBabs321 CountryBabs321 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    But it's so damn hard to trust again:/ I received some advice today that I might actually go along with:) but I know I'm going to have to swallow my pride:/ but I'm going to take...
    RozzebellConta RozzebellConta 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I met her in a past life. So strong, so intense. I don't know if I just want her again, still need her or if she really is my soulmate. What if she doesn't need me anymore? I know...
    Lucienn Lucienn 18-21, T Aug 14

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    I want to find a girl who I can connect with, who I can have fun with, who will know everything about me and will be themselves around me, and at the end of the day, curl up next...
    JohnF1997 JohnF1997 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Like a quote in Italian Job, "I do trust people, its the devil inside them that i don't. " I frustrated them cause i tend to have lots of doubt.. Trust need to be earned.. No...
    geezzo geezzo 26-30, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    ForgivenessSo, what could you forgive in your life? How far could someone push you, how deeply could they scar you and you can still let it go. I mean, honestly just let it go...
    MissinMySon MissinMySon 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I used to be so naive. Sometimes I wish I could have that innocence back...to be able to see the world through the eyes of a girl who only knew of sheltered happiness. Of course...
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12

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    This is for alex. I know you are reading this. :) Hey, you! I know you won't like me doing this but this is what I want. I just want a story of how this amazing, kind, and loving...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Aug 2

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    Why is it that 'DELETED' Private Messaging threads are NOT being DELETED, but are, in actual fact, being retained within the EP systems? When I wish to get rid of a message thread...
    SolarKing SolarKing 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Is love to trust my husband again... Then maybe I could love him again. Some serious trust busters were done by him in the beginning and he hasn't done anything to recoup what was...
    mommahump mommahump 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I grew up believing the people I lived with were my family. It was 2 girls, one boy, and then the mom and dad and of course me. The boy, two girls and their father and two uncles...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hey..i want your honest advice..i'm a guy & going to be 24 in next few days, & about to complete my masters next year in Medical & Psychiatric SW...few months back we had an new...
    ImAWeirdKid ImAWeirdKid 22-25, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Trust is something you earn slowly over a long period of time and as soon as you loose it bam its really hard to get it back
    AristotleOnassis AristotleOnassis 22-25, M 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Trusting people can be the hardest thing for me especially the people that's close to me.
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    i don't even trust myself kyaha ahlalala~ (:
    artkey artkey 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    This is actually 150 things about me. This was made by Nathan something from tumblr "150 cute questions" 1. Who was the last person you held hands with? -no one? 2. Are you...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F Jul 25

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    You have one chance to earn my trust, but if I catch you in a lie then I will never trust you again. Everyone I've ever been with has cheated on me. Not just some, all of them...
    pastelstars pastelstars 18-21, F Jul 23

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    Basically, by observing everyone around me... It makes it hard to even think about trusting people. I'm a very cautious person. So it's really difficult for me to let my guard down...
    Nitram13 Nitram13 18-21, F Aug 3

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    1. I am a quiet woman 2. I am observant 3. I finish AB Pol Sci 4. I also have MBA units 5. I am Asian 6. I love to travel 7. I am working outside my homeland 8. I have an average...
    casey2715 casey2715 31-35, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I'm 40 but most people think I'm 30. I've been married 19 years and have children. The oldest we just sent off to college on a basketball scholarship. We make a decent living but a...
    SummerChristmas SummerChristmas 36-40, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Ugh! I am so mad! I don't know if I should trust him anymore it what. Well, he gave me his facebook account and I went in . Then I saw this girl messaging him like, "are u there...
    pawsk pawsk 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I need somebody to love that I can trust and feel safe with
    NoraWilliams NoraWilliams 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It seems like every single guy I've been with turns out to be a liar and a cheat. Every. single. one. They feed girls all of these bullshit lines, the same lines they tell to every...
    MysteriousKitty MysteriousKitty 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I was 14 or 15 ,,I am not really sure but I believe 15 ,,,I had broke up with my girl friend (a short time later became my wife) and I was staying at Mom and Dads ,( my girlfriend...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I've never told anyone about this and now I'm telling it to anyone who has the time and good will to get to know me and maybe even help me feel true happiness again. I'm a...
    Viodhora Viodhora 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Disclaimer : It's gonna be boring! 1. I have a very long name ( don't ask me, I would not reveal) 2. Shanaiya is part of my name 3. I'm mixed - Chinese(20%) Indian(20%) Turkish...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    1. I lost someone to cancer when I was in fifth grade 2. I was a basically a loner, people were mean, and judgmental, but that phase in my life mostly ended when high school began...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I have lost my faith in true love. It doesn't exist actually, not among the humans. They're all so shallow inside. If you look deep down, they're way too selfish. Everyone is with...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 13

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    1. I tend to not disclose intimate information about myself on this account, as I'm scared someone will find it, and learn many things I haven't told anyone in real life. 2. I am...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I trusted a guy who said he loved me and would be there forever. He knew without a doubt I was the one. He met my family and close friends and i introduced him to my children...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    We have had our final talk about “all” of the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Simple wart removal visist and im called a hypochondriac. I have 2 verruca and one wart on my foot, also i have never had a sexual health checkup, so i went to the doctor. He...
    HorrorFlic HorrorFlic 22-25, M Aug 10

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    Im 20, im old enough to have a child. Ive been around so many kids throughout my life, stayed with them since they were juat born. Theres this one lady shes my mum's friend, she...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am so angry for trusting my best friend. He was my best friend. The one that I thought would cover my back if someone were to hurt me, but what I found out... For the past 7...
    LynEdma LynEdma 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I am so glad I found this group! I have been looking on experience project for something like this! It is truly my day :) I am looking for a deeper relationship- not...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Hey, I'm 18 male, and I really can't take my parents anymore. I'm thinking of running away all the time. I'm sorry, this is a bit long but I would really appreciate someone's...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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