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I Want To Try Bdsm

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    My Girlfriend And Me

    So my girlfriend can act dominant and talk dominant, but as soon as we get into the bedroom she turns submissive. Last week she told me while we were in a store that if I did not be quiet that when we got home she was going to bend me over and spank my ***. I asked her to do it...
    partsub partsub 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Submissiveslave

    I'm s sub. I've had many masters. My last master was my fiancee. He was 22 years old. He freed me because I have a tendency to challenge the authority ;). I love to know and be reminded who the master of the relationship is. Is that so wrong? ;P
    SubmissiveLette SubmissiveLette 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Just Beginning

    I really want to learn how to start this process of self- growth. Are there mentors out there?
    Davidswomaninga Davidswomaninga 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    Replaying Fantasy

    She sat on the bed, beginning to work out how she was going to bind herself and how she was going to get free. The getting free part should be easy, she'd use the handcuffs and leave the key where she could get at it. She had practiced unlocking the cuffs a few times and was...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    BDSM

    I'm a new to this world in the role of FemDomme... Not too sure where it's going to end up, but I think I'm going to enjoy getting there.
    MissMissiLA MissMissiLA 31-35, F Oct 16, 2013

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    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress 41-45, M Sep 24, 2013

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    I'm A Little Confused.

    Please tell me if I have this right. I am naturally submissive. Actually it comes from both nature and nurture. In and out of the bedroom I gladly submit to men and I gain pleasure from doing so. When I miss behave I accept my punishment with grace and hardly make the same...
    cdeaun88 cdeaun88 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Fifty Shades

    I'm new to this. I have recently read these three books. The fifty shades of Grey trilogy. I have read them like seven times. I've never considered being bound or spanked and I can't stop thinking about it. I have had dreams of being blinfolded. So now I'm wondering what to do...
    1nightnurse 1nightnurse 31-35 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    subjaye subjaye 61-65, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    Too Eager.

    I'm 17 years old, senior in high school, and I've been into sadism/bdsm as long as I could remember. When I graduate, I want to travel to San Francisco to visit the armory.. Google it.
    Ryderrr Ryderrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 25, 2013

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    So I Really Think You Need To "Buckle Down"

    After all you have told me, It's obvious you need to start showing a bit of obedience. Attach five clothes pegs to each nipple, and five clothes pegs to each lip of your *****. Do not attach one to your **** at this stage. Take pictures as proof and send them to me. Now light...
    RoleplayDaddy RoleplayDaddy 36-40, M Sep 9, 2013

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    I Am Dom

    I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive woman. I love this female form, and I want to have an online sub/dom relationship.
    Lchaotic1213 Lchaotic1213 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F Oct 10, 2013

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    I Need Advice From Anyone Knowledgeable.....

    I just recently found the erotic pleasure of male bondage. Having my soon to be wife as my "key holder" as its called is for lack of a better word, awesome. Our sex life has improved in the matter of two weeks and it was great to begin with. I want to branch out into minor ball...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    We Switch....

    So I found a **** cage online and immediately ordered 3 of them. My girlfriend turned strict and dominant over night. Recently, we made the discovery she intensely enjoys my hands wrapped around her throat while we ****. Not choking her like tryin to kill her, gentle but firm...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    so my husband and I are trying to have our 2nd baby. I had the most real vivid dream ever last night. My childhood centered around my great grandparnets. The partys we had there...
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    8InchesToStretchYou 8InchesToStretchYou 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    Right here, right now. I'm sick of everything. I'm sick of pretending to be happy, putting a fake smile on my face. I'm a pathetic, worthless piece of ****. I can't do anything...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response 45 mins ago

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    I've never had a guy friend before. I just want someone to talk to, someone who doesn't like me sexually.
    Turnmeon101 Turnmeon101 18-21, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    1. I want to join 1000 groups that apply to me. 2. I believe in soul mates 3. I wear fake polo. (SWAG) 4. I've had the same xbox 360 for 7 years with no problems. 5. I break...
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    Just naked. Bored. Wanting to chat. Ask me stuff. Or about my wife. Or me. Lol. Just bored as hell
    c0wboi c0wboi 31-35 16 hrs ago

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    I'm not really packing the goods that girls really want but when I perform they love it I'm confused
    Nateweezy Nateweezy 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I just want someone to talk to late at night and just someone who is nice and has a great personality. Also someone who won't judge me, who's smart and who's just chill.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Anyone want to chat? I'm laying in bed and I can't sleep...
    anthonydavid225 anthonydavid225 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    I was having problems with sleeping. I started sleeping 24 seven and couldn't stay awake. So my doctor put me on medication that wakes me up during the day. The problem is now I...
    Britt25 Britt25 41-45, F 14 hrs ago

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    I hate being jealous and being over reactive all the time. I just want to be able to be calm all the time.
    prettylittlemiss prettylittlemiss 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm straight but I want to experiment with a girl one day!
    gracieee1997 gracieee1997 16-17, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have plenty. I just want one on here. A girl. One my age. She has to be really funny. Crazy. Sweet. Caring. Understanding. Straight. Just stuff like that. But for sure crazy and...
    charmandbeauty charmandbeauty 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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