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I Want To Try Bdsm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 195 People

    I'm A Little Confused.

    Please tell me if I have this right. I am naturally submissive. Actually it comes from both nature and nurture. In and out of the bedroom I gladly submit to men and I gain pleasure from doing so. When I miss behave I accept my punishment with grace and hardly make the same...
    cdeaun88 cdeaun88 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Fifty Shades

    I'm new to this. I have recently read these three books. The fifty shades of Grey trilogy. I have read them like seven times. I've never considered being bound or spanked and I can't stop thinking about it. I have had dreams of being blinfolded. So now I'm wondering what to do...
    1nightnurse 1nightnurse 31-35 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Too Eager.

    I'm 17 years old, senior in high school, and I've been into sadism/bdsm as long as I could remember. When I graduate, I want to travel to San Francisco to visit the armory.. Google it.
    Ryderrr Ryderrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    So I Really Think You Need To "Buckle Down"

    After all you have told me, It's obvious you need to start showing a bit of obedience. Attach five clothes pegs to each nipple, and five clothes pegs to each lip of your *****. Do not attach one to your **** at this stage. Take pictures as proof and send them to me. Now light...
    RoleplayDaddy RoleplayDaddy 36-40, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Replaying Fantasy

    She sat on the bed, beginning to work out how she was going to bind herself and how she was going to get free. The getting free part should be easy, she'd use the handcuffs and leave the key where she could get at it. She had practiced unlocking the cuffs a few times and was...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 25, 2013

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    My Girlfriend And Me

    So my girlfriend can act dominant and talk dominant, but as soon as we get into the bedroom she turns submissive. Last week she told me while we were in a store that if I did not be quiet that when we got home she was going to bend me over and spank my ***. I asked her to do it...
    partsub partsub 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I Am Dom

    I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive woman. I love this female form, and I want to have an online sub/dom relationship.
    Lchaotic1213 Lchaotic1213 22-25, F Sep 2, 2013

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    Just Beginning

    I really want to learn how to start this process of self- growth. Are there mentors out there?
    Davidswomaninga Davidswomaninga 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    We Switch....

    So I found a **** cage online and immediately ordered 3 of them. My girlfriend turned strict and dominant over night. Recently, we made the discovery she intensely enjoys my hands wrapped around her throat while we ****. Not choking her like tryin to kill her, gentle but firm...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I Need Advice From Anyone Knowledgeable.....

    I just recently found the erotic pleasure of male bondage. Having my soon to be wife as my "key holder" as its called is for lack of a better word, awesome. Our sex life has improved in the matter of two weeks and it was great to begin with. I want to branch out into minor ball...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress 41-45, M Sep 24, 2013

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    BDSM

    I'm a new to this world in the role of FemDomme... Not too sure where it's going to end up, but I think I'm going to enjoy getting there.
    MissMissiLA MissMissiLA 31-35, F Oct 16, 2013

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    Submissiveslave

    I'm s sub. I've had many masters. My last master was my fiancee. He was 22 years old. He freed me because I have a tendency to challenge the authority ;). I love to know and be reminded who the master of the relationship is. Is that so wrong? ;P
    SubmissiveLette SubmissiveLette 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F Oct 10, 2013

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    I have always been curious about trying this.

    A girlfriend of mine has done it and said that it was incredible and that I should try it sometime. I'm a little afraid but the thought does turn me on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 6

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    subjaye subjaye 61-65, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I was just wondering, is it weird to be into bdsm at only 15? I'm only a year underage where I live and I already have a Master who's 8 years older than me.
    thefatpansexual thefatpansexual 13-15 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I love BDSM but the guy i am with is not into it so I am trying to get him into
    angelfire1987 angelfire1987 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I finally got to actually experience bdsm and my god was it amazing! Can't wait to do it again, though I think I need a few days of recovery first lol. Definitely he best night I...
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I have a Master and am willing to share my current experiences of the BDSM lifestyle. 18 female If you're curious let me know :)
    GeekBer GeekBer 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I don't know if it's bdsm, I like dominant men, I like being used, I like being tied, I liked being spank...so what is it?
    luxxybunny luxxybunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 19

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    In fact... I love it!!!! I love being tied up!!! I love being whipped! I love most ALL the acts that go along with BDSM!!! I can't help myself!!! I just get uncontrollable...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    I want to be ball gagged by some one else It's been one of my fantasies for a long time and I don't see it happening, I have been doing self bondage for 3 years now and I'm not...
    username671 username671 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13

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    I Will Be Perfectly Honest Here... I don’t necessarily enjoy being punished, but I wouldn’t mind so much if that came with the package. I wouldn’t exactly call it the need...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I've always wanted to live this lifestyle!
    Dholloway124 Dholloway124 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I've always wanted this type of lifestyle inbox me if intrested I would love a daddy I'll even give you my phone number
    Dholloway124 Dholloway124 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I am 19 male looking for female owner, to do pet play part time. I live in Liverpool area, so it will be great to find someone close; so we can do it in real life. I am into...
    spock41 spock41 18-21, M Sep 4

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    I am seeking a committed online slave that understands the BDSM experience. No experience is necessary but an understanding of what is involved necessary.
    DesireAslave DesireAslave 56-60, M 4 days ago

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    1. I'm a Leo 2. I am a book worm 3. My favourite books are Hush Hush and Thrown of glass 4. I am 17 years young 5. I love wolves 6. I am very creative 7. I am an aunty to seven 8...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    My husbands kids want to eat all day long. I know they are young and growing but every five minutes I hear I want nummies coming from a five yr old daughter and a two yr old little...
    hart1012 hart1012 31-35, F 1 Response 52 mins ago

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    I want a girlfriend who I can enjoy life with. Feel half empty at the moment.
    sealbeachguy sealbeachguy 36-40, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    There are many things we come across, some affect us , some just pass. Here are some of the things that left a deep impact on me and continue to influence my thoughts, words and...
    BlueTheWarrior BlueTheWarrior 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    i'm not gay but i love chatting to anyone. so please feel free to add me if you want a new friend to chat with.
    girlyAndrea1987 girlyAndrea1987 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    Any girls want to swap pics :) xoxo
    zoe321 zoe321 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Hi everyone, I'm a 24 yo gay man. I've been into a relationship twice that I can never feel full of. One was a long-distance relationship that I decided was pointless and it ended...
    MrBluez MrBluez 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    Oh. And I also want one who doesn't lie to me straight to my face and one who doesn't treat breaking my heart like it's an Olympic sport. Yes. That would be just fu.ckin grande.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 49 mins ago

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    Sounds like this could be bad but I want to go for it. Just send me a nude message and I'll send one back!
    cbrXX cbrXX 31-35, M 34 mins ago

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    I want to have kids and i have been trying for years. Its not failing due to problems with me it due to the lack of a man. Im now 27 and i have nothing but baby on the brain . Im...
    ravenrose13 ravenrose13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    I've decided that I want to be a better person. I want to change. I don't want to hurt people anymore. It's been a couple of years I've been drinking. This has led me to hurt...
    RichardAndon RichardAndon 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 3

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    I desperately want to be close to someone. I'm a 20 year old student who has never had a large group of friends. I have two close guy friends who are like brothers to me, but of...
    wanderer623 wanderer623 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I hate not having money for anything. Today I wanted my licenses not just because. I wanted my license because my mom was complaining about how she has to drive everyone every...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Sep 10

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    Dad, I want things to be better. I don't want any more interruptions of my processes. I don't want any more commands. I don't want you to yell at me. I don't want you to be...
    LEMONrelishthemusic LEMONrelishthemusic 18-21, F Sep 16

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    I want emotional closeness. I want sharing. I want a beautiful bridge between us that is always there always open, always secure, always our alone. I want communication. I want...
    holgado holgado 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 17

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    I want to meet someone new and awesome. I want to go on dates with him. I want him to hold my hand. I want to kiss him. So that the next day I can continue to replay our first kiss...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 18

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    I want to meet someone who understands me completely and would never reject me or think that I'm "weird" or "stupid" or that I should change my last. My last relationship was 3 and...
    electrapleiadian electrapleiadian 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I want a very good girlfriend. I need her to love me as much as I will love her. I have some things I want for a girlfriend: -I want her to be Caucasian (I love white girls, they...
    YoungSwag1998 YoungSwag1998 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I want to fight in a War! I know what your thinking "why would you want to do that?" Well it's mostly because I've wanted to Join the US Military ever since I was in the 3rd Grade...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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