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I Want To Try Bdsm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 193 People

    I Am Dom

    I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive woman. I love this female form, and I want to have an online sub/dom relationship.
    Lchaotic1213 Lchaotic1213 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress 41-45, M Sep 24, 2013

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    I'm A Little Confused.

    Please tell me if I have this right. I am naturally submissive. Actually it comes from both nature and nurture. In and out of the bedroom I gladly submit to men and I gain pleasure from doing so. When I miss behave I accept my punishment with grace and hardly make the same...
    cdeaun88 cdeaun88 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Just Beginning

    I really want to learn how to start this process of self- growth. Are there mentors out there?
    Davidswomaninga Davidswomaninga 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    Replaying Fantasy

    She sat on the bed, beginning to work out how she was going to bind herself and how she was going to get free. The getting free part should be easy, she'd use the handcuffs and leave the key where she could get at it. She had practiced unlocking the cuffs a few times and was...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    My Girlfriend And Me

    So my girlfriend can act dominant and talk dominant, but as soon as we get into the bedroom she turns submissive. Last week she told me while we were in a store that if I did not be quiet that when we got home she was going to bend me over and spank my ***. I asked her to do it...
    partsub partsub 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 25, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F Oct 10, 2013

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    We Switch....

    So I found a **** cage online and immediately ordered 3 of them. My girlfriend turned strict and dominant over night. Recently, we made the discovery she intensely enjoys my hands wrapped around her throat while we ****. Not choking her like tryin to kill her, gentle but firm...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    BDSM

    I'm a new to this world in the role of FemDomme... Not too sure where it's going to end up, but I think I'm going to enjoy getting there.
    MissMissiLA MissMissiLA 31-35, F Oct 16, 2013

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    So I Really Think You Need To "Buckle Down"

    After all you have told me, It's obvious you need to start showing a bit of obedience. Attach five clothes pegs to each nipple, and five clothes pegs to each lip of your *****. Do not attach one to your **** at this stage. Take pictures as proof and send them to me. Now light...
    RoleplayDaddy RoleplayDaddy 36-40, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Submissiveslave

    I'm s sub. I've had many masters. My last master was my fiancee. He was 22 years old. He freed me because I have a tendency to challenge the authority ;). I love to know and be reminded who the master of the relationship is. Is that so wrong? ;P
    SubmissiveLette SubmissiveLette 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Fifty Shades

    I'm new to this. I have recently read these three books. The fifty shades of Grey trilogy. I have read them like seven times. I've never considered being bound or spanked and I can't stop thinking about it. I have had dreams of being blinfolded. So now I'm wondering what to do...
    1nightnurse 1nightnurse 31-35 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I Need Advice From Anyone Knowledgeable.....

    I just recently found the erotic pleasure of male bondage. Having my soon to be wife as my "key holder" as its called is for lack of a better word, awesome. Our sex life has improved in the matter of two weeks and it was great to begin with. I want to branch out into minor ball...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    subjaye subjaye 61-65, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Too Eager.

    I'm 17 years old, senior in high school, and I've been into sadism/bdsm as long as I could remember. When I graduate, I want to travel to San Francisco to visit the armory.. Google it.
    Ryderrr Ryderrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I've always wanted to dabble in the bdsm community but I do want a master I want a mistress is that possible for a lesbian?
    Laysiaxo Laysiaxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I want a mistress, I'm a bisexual but I love girls way more than I like guys, and I've been interested in bdsm for a while. Now I'm out on a mission to get me a mistress
    Laysiaxo Laysiaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I want to try bdsm. I like to be submissive (;
    haleyxox haleyxox 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    BDSM is the only thing that turns me on. I love everything about it.
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31 18-21, F Jul 28

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    im a slave i love being bottom girl im in to hard bdsm
    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    So I'm feeling compelled to start sharing my story I don't have much time right now but so etching is better started than never. I came into this about 5 months ago. I met a Master...
    Yourdeepwishsir Yourdeepwishsir 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I wanna try BDSM 😅😅 I wanna be a sub can anybody help me I tried it once and it was pretty funn
    ImJustMe14 ImJustMe14 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    There is nothing like the passion and intensity of a relationship based on BDSM. The power that is generated as the Master and the slave join together is amazing.
    SirSky SirSky 66-70, M 2 days ago

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    Because Betty Page was an amazing woman, she wants to be remembered as she was in her nudist BDSM modeling days. We all love her, proof is out there, the cops burned her photos but...
    KhaleesiKush KhaleesiKush 22-25 Jul 28

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    Complete control, what about cutting off my arms and legs right in the knee and elbow (so I would have to walk as a dog) or just remove them completly (so I wouldnt even move) so I...
    darksidetr darksidetr 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I wanna meet a dom I can talk to online & eventually meet up with near Chicago. I'll be an online slave but one day I want the real thing *** I will send picture but not of my...
    Kiwii02 Kiwii02 18-21, F Aug 3

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    I have recently found this lifestyle. It is tough to navigate alone. As it would make sense that I want a dom.. I am having a difficult time finding one that is right for me. I...
    sublife328 sublife328 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I've always wanted to have a mistress, is that possible for a lesbian?
    Laysiaxo Laysiaxo 16-17, F Aug 5

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    (Compelled Part 3) I remember the sweetest thing my Dragon Master ever did. It was the first time I was to spend the night and wasn't really sure if he wanted me to etc. So I told...
    Yourdeepwishsir Yourdeepwishsir 31-35, F Aug 7

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    I know that I am young, I'm 16. But I've found that I'm more mature and intellectual that practically my entire generation. I know who I am and I respect others. I am a...
    SadoSubSwitch SadoSubSwitch 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Hi, I'm a Mistress and I am looking for a sub/slave to serve me and own me seriously. If you are interested to serve me I want you to add me on Skype mistressjoanne or kik...
    mistressjoyce26 mistressjoyce26 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I sent my science teacher a message in a inappropriate manner December 2013. I cared about him emotionally I'm asexual but I told him in that message things that I can never fix...
    innocentrelationship innocentrelationship 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Normal means you are unable to live a life and be yourself. The ones you hang around change this perspective for you greatly. I crave a unique life. I don't want the ideal white...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 25 mins ago

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    “It's being here now that's important. There's no past and there's no future. Time is a very misleading thing. All there is ever, is the now. We can gain experience from the past...
    kingbs kingbs 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Here goes... 1. My full name is Stephanie Dawn Wayland 2. I'm married 3. My maiden name is Pearcey 4. I'm 21 years old 5. My birthday is on 2/7/93 6. I'm 5ft 5 7. I have blue eyes...
    stephiwayland stephiwayland 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I Know everybody think I am to young to have child but I don't . It's just something in my heart that wouldn't go away and I don't want it to go away it's actually encourage me to...
    DajahCarter DajahCarter 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    The title says it all, I'm lonely and want to meet another Ab/Dl, a girl. My age is a little high, I'm actually 17 but say its 25 so I can see adult content. Any who, I do want to...
    scotty28523 scotty28523 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I shouted at my parents. I feel like I was a Monster. I feel extremely bad about it and it is not that first time. I want to stop it. I want to be affectionate and talk to my...
    Rajito Rajito 31-35, M 19 hrs ago

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    The New Equal Rights Law (A Dream I Have) Part 5 Janice introduced me to the president of the company (Paul). [P] Karen, I've talked with HR and Janice and I understand that...
    slipgirl274 slipgirl274 61-65, T 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Senior in high school and while I should be looking at colleges going out with friends I'm at home with my 1 month old son. And hanging out with friends is the least if my worries...
    Dianakr11 Dianakr11 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I want to become a Neurologist. In 2008, I almost lost my mom to hematoma which is a blood clot in the brain. Her surgery saved her life. My fiancé has Multiple Sclerosis...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    ​I've been single for quite a while now. I don't want a serious relationship, not yet anyway, I just want a casual girlfriend. Someone to be close to, go out and do things with...
    TheScientis7 TheScientis7 18-21, T 13 hrs ago

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    I want to be tied up tightly like where is can't move at all. Big toes tied back where I can't scrunch my toes to protect the sensitive spot at the base of my toes. Maybe even...
    thatdrizzygrl thatdrizzygrl 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    1. I liked the movie "Steel Magnolias" there, I said it. 2. My eyes seem to change colors between varying shades of blue and green. 3. I love music. But, when I listen, I get so...
    ludix ludix 41-45, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I want someone who won't care that I'm incapable of sitting still. Someone who won't mind that I can't grasp the concept of cleaning. An that I refuse to be the most ladylike...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I want to meet a girl who loves me for who I am and doesn't care what anyone thinks. I want a girl who isn't scared to be herself. I want a girl to love who loves me in return...
    confusedandcomplicated5 confusedandcomplicated5 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have hated myself for about 6 years now. I have hated the world for about 4 years. I hate the way people treat each other. I Always "treat people the way I'd like to be treated...
    Smithsfan Smithsfan 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 hrs ago