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I Want To Try Bdsm

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F Oct 10, 2013

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    My Girlfriend And Me

    So my girlfriend can act dominant and talk dominant, but as soon as we get into the bedroom she turns submissive. Last week she told me while we were in a store that if I did not be quiet that when we got home she was going to bend me over and spank my ***. I asked her to do it...
    partsub partsub 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I Need Advice From Anyone Knowledgeable.....

    I just recently found the erotic pleasure of male bondage. Having my soon to be wife as my "key holder" as its called is for lack of a better word, awesome. Our sex life has improved in the matter of two weeks and it was great to begin with. I want to branch out into minor ball...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I'm A Little Confused.

    Please tell me if I have this right. I am naturally submissive. Actually it comes from both nature and nurture. In and out of the bedroom I gladly submit to men and I gain pleasure from doing so. When I miss behave I accept my punishment with grace and hardly make the same...
    cdeaun88 cdeaun88 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress 41-45, M Sep 24, 2013

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    I Am Dom

    I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive woman. I love this female form, and I want to have an online sub/dom relationship.
    Lchaotic1213 Lchaotic1213 22-25, F Sep 2, 2013

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    I have always been curious about trying this.

    A girlfriend of mine has done it and said that it was incredible and that I should try it sometime. I'm a little afraid but the thought does turn me on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 6

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    Fifty Shades

    I'm new to this. I have recently read these three books. The fifty shades of Grey trilogy. I have read them like seven times. I've never considered being bound or spanked and I can't stop thinking about it. I have had dreams of being blinfolded. So now I'm wondering what to do...
    1nightnurse 1nightnurse 31-35 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Submissiveslave

    I'm s sub. I've had many masters. My last master was my fiancee. He was 22 years old. He freed me because I have a tendency to challenge the authority ;). I love to know and be reminded who the master of the relationship is. Is that so wrong? ;P
    SubmissiveLette SubmissiveLette 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    We Switch....

    So I found a **** cage online and immediately ordered 3 of them. My girlfriend turned strict and dominant over night. Recently, we made the discovery she intensely enjoys my hands wrapped around her throat while we ****. Not choking her like tryin to kill her, gentle but firm...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Too Eager.

    I'm 17 years old, senior in high school, and I've been into sadism/bdsm as long as I could remember. When I graduate, I want to travel to San Francisco to visit the armory.. Google it.
    Ryderrr Ryderrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    Do You Like My Art?

    I have some websites and I use banners to advertise them and you can use these links to see these banners.http://www.eroticgothicsluts.com/images/banners/egsban-728-a.jpghttp://www.eroticgothicsluts.com/images/banners/egsban-728-b.jpghttp://www.passionatebondage.com/images...
    subjaye subjaye 61-65, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Just Beginning

    I really want to learn how to start this process of self- growth. Are there mentors out there?
    Davidswomaninga Davidswomaninga 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    Replaying Fantasy

    She sat on the bed, beginning to work out how she was going to bind herself and how she was going to get free. The getting free part should be easy, she'd use the handcuffs and leave the key where she could get at it. She had practiced unlocking the cuffs a few times and was...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 25, 2013

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    BDSM

    I'm a new to this world in the role of FemDomme... Not too sure where it's going to end up, but I think I'm going to enjoy getting there.
    MissMissiLA MissMissiLA 31-35, F Oct 16, 2013

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    So I Really Think You Need To "Buckle Down"

    After all you have told me, It's obvious you need to start showing a bit of obedience. Attach five clothes pegs to each nipple, and five clothes pegs to each lip of your *****. Do not attach one to your **** at this stage. Take pictures as proof and send them to me. Now light...
    RoleplayDaddy RoleplayDaddy 36-40, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Ok, so I've been getting into the bdsm scene for a couple years now. Now that I'm older, I really want to explore it more.
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I've been into bdsm for a couple years now, but now that I'm older, I want to explore more of it
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I am an experienced Master and looking for female who can join me take a journey on a lifestyle called BDSM
    Masterkhan Masterkhan 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I was just wondering, is it weird to be into bdsm at only 15? I'm only a year underage where I live and I already have a Master who's 8 years older than me.
    thefatpansexual thefatpansexual 13-15 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I love BDSM but the guy i am with is not into it so I am trying to get him into
    angelfire1987 angelfire1987 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I finally got to actually experience bdsm and my god was it amazing! Can't wait to do it again, though I think I need a few days of recovery first lol. Definitely he best night I...
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I have a Master and am willing to share my current experiences of the BDSM lifestyle. 18 female If you're curious let me know :)
    GeekBer GeekBer 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I don't know if it's bdsm, I like dominant men, I like being used, I like being tied, I liked being spank...so what is it?
    luxxybunny luxxybunny 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    In fact... I love it!!!! I love being tied up!!! I love being whipped! I love most ALL the acts that go along with BDSM!!! I can't help myself!!! I just get uncontrollable...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want to be ball gagged by some one else It's been one of my fantasies for a long time and I don't see it happening, I have been doing self bondage for 3 years now and I'm not...
    username671 username671 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13

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    So I am starting out I want to be a online sub I won't do any pics
    meep299 meep299 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I've always wanted to live this lifestyle!
    Dholloway124 Dholloway124 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I've always wanted this type of lifestyle inbox me if intrested I would love a daddy I'll even give you my phone number
    Dholloway124 Dholloway124 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I am 19 male looking for female owner, to do pet play part time. I live in Liverpool area, so it will be great to find someone close; so we can do it in real life. I am into...
    spock41 spock41 18-21, M Sep 4

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    I want to meet like-minded and the open-minded. I want to talk to the sarcastic twisted souls and the blue bubble gum ********. I want to meet people who want to talk about drugs...
    rainbowcity rainbowcity 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    You know when you get the cue for the right time on some thing? well...i think this is it. this is my cue to divorce my husband. We have been very unhappy with our marriage. From...
    lilacslolita lilacslolita 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I want a new start,to leave all bad memoriesand people who have doneme bad behind,I want to travel,see new places, different artdifferent music touchinghearts,I want to meet new...
    SempiternalTruth SempiternalTruth 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just want to disappear somewhere far. I don't want to see anyone, see anything, I just want to disappear somewhere. Somewhere people don't recognized me, no memories, no trace of...
    anon152 anon152 13-15 59 mins ago

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    I wanted to meet a stranger and have a nice conversation. I am a lonely person but when I travel, I am different, I am excited I am alive. I want to have new friends around the...
    charie10 charie10 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    yes i do want to travell the world and my dream destination is paris. it is the city of fashion and i am a really very fashionable girl. i would also like to walk on the ramp in...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I want a babysitter that will put me in diapers and change me and even if we run out of diapers take me to get some more. Now I don't want to go all out with the ab/dl stuff I just...
    wmc1244 wmc1244 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    My ex that I thought we were going to work it out. Change his mind, he hasn't called for two days and has been ignoring me and not being so nice. He texts me never calls dumps me...
    cara12345 cara12345 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Please anyone just talk to me......I don't want to sound rude but I want something genuine to talk about nothing bullshit.I am going through stuffs,I need advice.thank you
    Allfudgedup Allfudgedup 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    Please anyone just talk to me......I don't want to sound rude but I want something genuine to talk about nothing bullshit.I am going through stuffs,I need advice.thank you
    Allfudgedup Allfudgedup 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I really really really want to be considered and thought about by the people that surround me. I feel like it's me against the world most days. Not to say I don't like my odds lol...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    I do not want to wait til he's the one who wants to leave. I do not love him anymore and i cannot stand his lies.
    lilacslolita lilacslolita 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    It was like a stab to my heart when I saw Mark and the new girl together. No, not one but multiple stabs to my heart. Each stab brought pain and agony. I cringe and try to suck it...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I actually want an elder brother for mainly two reasons - The first is that, I like that feeling of being protected, that a big brother can give - and, I, as many of you do, want...
    mayak007 mayak007 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    Hi I strongly believe in werewolves and I have been wanting to be one for a year now. Is there a werewolf that lives in the USA in Virginia. If so can you plz turn me into a...
    awkwardturtle223 awkwardturtle223 13-15, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I strongly believe in werewolves. I have been wanting to be one for a year now. If there are any werewolves who are willing to turn me into a werewolf and live in the Virginia that...
    awkwardturtle223 awkwardturtle223 13-15, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Hi :) My name is April Ann, and I wanted to tell you about myself. I was born in 1993 in TN. I have 4 brothers; 1 biological and 3 by marriage. My parents divorced when I was about...
    aprilanne4 aprilanne4 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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