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I Want To Try Bdsm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress 41-45, M Sep 24, 2013

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    I Need Advice From Anyone Knowledgeable.....

    I just recently found the erotic pleasure of male bondage. Having my soon to be wife as my "key holder" as its called is for lack of a better word, awesome. Our sex life has improved in the matter of two weeks and it was great to begin with. I want to branch out into minor ball...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Aug 25, 2013

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    We Switch....

    So I found a **** cage online and immediately ordered 3 of them. My girlfriend turned strict and dominant over night. Recently, we made the discovery she intensely enjoys my hands wrapped around her throat while we ****. Not choking her like tryin to kill her, gentle but firm...
    Idigit79 Idigit79 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I'm A Little Confused.

    Please tell me if I have this right. I am naturally submissive. Actually it comes from both nature and nurture. In and out of the bedroom I gladly submit to men and I gain pleasure from doing so. When I miss behave I accept my punishment with grace and hardly make the same...
    cdeaun88 cdeaun88 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    So I Really Think You Need To "Buckle Down"

    After all you have told me, It's obvious you need to start showing a bit of obedience. Attach five clothes pegs to each nipple, and five clothes pegs to each lip of your *****. Do not attach one to your **** at this stage. Take pictures as proof and send them to me. Now light...
    RoleplayDaddy RoleplayDaddy 36-40, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2013

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    BDSM

    I'm a new to this world in the role of FemDomme... Not too sure where it's going to end up, but I think I'm going to enjoy getting there.
    MissMissiLA MissMissiLA 31-35, F Oct 16, 2013

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    My Girlfriend And Me

    So my girlfriend can act dominant and talk dominant, but as soon as we get into the bedroom she turns submissive. Last week she told me while we were in a store that if I did not be quiet that when we got home she was going to bend me over and spank my ***. I asked her to do it...
    partsub partsub 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Submissiveslave

    I'm s sub. I've had many masters. My last master was my fiancee. He was 22 years old. He freed me because I have a tendency to challenge the authority ;). I love to know and be reminded who the master of the relationship is. Is that so wrong? ;P
    SubmissiveLette SubmissiveLette 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Replaying Fantasy

    She sat on the bed, beginning to work out how she was going to bind herself and how she was going to get free. The getting free part should be easy, she'd use the handcuffs and leave the key where she could get at it. She had practiced unlocking the cuffs a few times and was...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    I Am Dom

    I am a dominant woman looking for a submissive woman. I love this female form, and I want to have an online sub/dom relationship.
    Lchaotic1213 Lchaotic1213 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    Fifty Shades

    I'm new to this. I have recently read these three books. The fifty shades of Grey trilogy. I have read them like seven times. I've never considered being bound or spanked and I can't stop thinking about it. I have had dreams of being blinfolded. So now I'm wondering what to do...
    1nightnurse 1nightnurse 31-35 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Just Beginning

    I really want to learn how to start this process of self- growth. Are there mentors out there?
    Davidswomaninga Davidswomaninga 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    Vergin Fantasy

    I've never been very sexually experienced and therefore Id go as far as saying that I didn't have a "sex drive" because if you've never experienced something, then you have no recognition of it and so I had no desire to have sex or do anything sexual. I first read about BDSM...
    VerginF VerginF 18-21, F Oct 10, 2013

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    Do You Like My Art?

    I have some websites and I use banners to advertise them and you can use these links to see these banners.http://www.eroticgothicsluts.com/images/banners/egsban-728-a.jpghttp://www.eroticgothicsluts.com/images/banners/egsban-728-b.jpghttp://www.passionatebondage.com/images...
    subjaye subjaye 61-65, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Too Eager.

    I'm 17 years old, senior in high school, and I've been into sadism/bdsm as long as I could remember. When I graduate, I want to travel to San Francisco to visit the armory.. Google it.
    Ryderrr Ryderrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    My kids mom and I are happily dom and sub. We recently decided to begin a bdsm relationship together. Can someone give me idea for punishment/reward ideas?
    coldchiln coldchiln 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    So last week i had my first real spanking session, my girl spank for a few mins and it was crazy. It hurt so bad that i wanted to scream stop but at the same time i wanted to feel...
    esclavofiel esclavofiel 22-25, M Mar 28

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    1. I’m 14 years old. 2. Yes I am a virgin. 3. I’m in a D/S relationship. 4. I practice BDSM. 5. The farthest I went is fingering. 6. I love it rough. I love it when he hurts...
    iridescentgurl iridescentgurl 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Master or slave? Never knew I was into mental BDSM.
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    My girlfriend and I have a bdsm relationship. She's my sub and I'm her Dom, anyone have good punishment/reward ideas?
    coldchiln coldchiln 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Yes, I am looking for someone to talk to, but at the same time i wonder if i will ever get someone to talk. Straight to the point, I am a sex starved 33 yrs old husband, who is...
    imherefor imherefor 31-35, M Apr 4

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    I'm married and exploring my BDSM needs. I need to be a sub, but my husband is not a Dom. Not sure how to fill this need, or to get over it.
    LittleLady411 LittleLady411 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I had a dream that my bf proposed. I know he wants us to be together forever and just doesn't want to rush things and I understand that. But he is in the military so it's a little...
    MarineGirlfriend0810 MarineGirlfriend0810 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    *Walks up to counter* “Hi, I would like to order a man, athletic build, cute face- maybe with a little scuff on it;), very kind, charming, and intelligent; and that will be all...
    MW1321 MW1321 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So I just took 12 ibuprofen crossing my fingers i want to thank all of the surrport hopefully I'll finally be at peace I think when your sad enough and your heart is filled with so...
    11001s 11001s 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    15 year old looking for a daddy to have phone sex with. reply or message me with your phone number if you want me to moan for you
    babydaisy6 babydaisy6 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I want to cry all the time lately there is only one person who can and does help me
    bcamillexoxo bcamillexoxo 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I want to be Daddy's little Princess!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 1 hr ago

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    Anyone inbox me, send me photos whatever you want. Xxx
    JustMe123468 JustMe123468 18-21, F 49 mins ago

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    I use to weight 320 pounds. Once I became pregnant with my son and learned I had gestational diabetes I knew I had to lose. When my son was born I was 220 pounds. I kept losing...
    RWatts RWatts 31-35, F 26 mins ago

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    Have you ever talked to someone who made you so needy ? I've always been needy, that's a fact, but I usually never let it show. But with him, I just can't. I want him. I want...
    Thelightinthesky Thelightinthesky 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 19

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    i want him to have the world and i never want him to be unhappy. i always wish that i could be his world. that i could be the girl that makes him happy, and makes him smile at...
    itsbrittney itsbrittney 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Why are we scared of living free? Why don't we do whatever the **** we want? Who has the right to tell us how to live OUR OWN life? Why are our friend and family judge us for what...
    lofaszbazmeg lofaszbazmeg 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I've never been in a relationship!!! I'm 16 but I'll be 17 in May! I know I've never been with a guy, but I'm almost 99.9 percent sure I don't need to be with one to know I am a...
    GGaabbyy GGaabbyy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I used to want to have a baby when I was younger (well,in the future,of course),but realized some of my reasons for wanting one weren't so good.I've done a lot of changing and now...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Mar 27

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    My parents struggled with their marriage when I was in high school, after that I realized I wanted a stable, happy relationship, and never wanted to cheat or be cheated on... I saw...
    chiquita55 chiquita55 18-21 Mar 27

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    I want a love so deep that it makes me want to cry just to think of it. I want a love that will endure, a love that consumes me and overwhelms me and turns me inside out. I want a...
    krysd85 krysd85 26-30, F Mar 28

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    ok... I quit. I decided, I quit drinking. This year has begun in such a bad way. Maybe is the reason because I'm drinking that much, but the problem is that I don't know. I don't...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm tired of being there for everyone. It's not fair that I have to sacrifice my happiness for that of others. I enjoy helping others but when I finally need something for myself I...
    WinterUnicorn WinterUnicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I want to confess I want to admit I want to acknowledge I want to allow I want to accept I want to welcome I want to embrace I want to incorporate I want to embody I want to...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm from southeast asia, I'm 17yr old currently living in Japan. I'm a straight A student graduated high school last year. My mom DO NOT want me to go to college even though I...
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 1

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    I am 24 years old and just got out of a four year relationship with a 46 year old man. I met this guy in college when I was a fresh faced 20 year old. It was infatuation at first...
    freebird24 freebird24 22-25, F Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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