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I Want To Understand Submission

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 214 People

    New And Deprived

    I'm a 32 year old single mom and although I am assertive and dominate in my everyday life I really want to learn to have that control taken from me! The thought of it turns me on and yet I'm at a stand still of having the proper sex life that I want hence why I'm here....any help...
    NewSub1 NewSub1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2012

    A New Start

    Me and my boyfriend are almost 11months now, and im proud to say were...mainly happy...however for the past too many months long my attitude has been awful with him, id shout and scream for no reason, i would back chat and make smart comments and swear...he hated all of these...
    GirlTeenTodd GirlTeenTodd
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2011

    Interesting, Just Saw This Group...

    Understanding submission is a lot more complicated than people realize.  The degrees and sub-cultures within the MAIN category of submission are vast.  Just as they are with the MAIN category of Dominance.I have read/heard several submissive's take on submission from both...
    SunniL SunniL
    46-50, F
    24 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    Some Insights From A Teacher

    I do not use the word '****' because you are more aptly referred to as Love Goddesses. I do not use the word slave, or submissive or servant because people often get confused by the connotations, just like awful came from awe full I use the word Servess because it denotes a...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan
    56-60, M
    Jul 23, 2011

    I Learned Something

    Last night was a pivotal evening with my Dom. It was also my first time delving into the life. I obeyed and did as I was told and thoroughly enjoyed myself, as did he. But I learned something... Since I've been "single" I've had to lead a very independant life. Fix my own...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 18, 2011

    Your Knickers Are Coming Down Tonight

    Your knickers are coming down tonight. You'll stand in front of me and I will tell you to lower them. You'll fidget, squirm a bit and look imploringly at me. After a few seconds you'll know that I will not be placated. Reluctantly your hands will reach up under your skirt and...
    Smackerbottom Smackerbottom
    56-60, M
    Jun 16, 2012

    Let's Compare Notes About Submissives

    What do you want to know about submission? I am male, but I am willing to bet that the mental side of submission and motivations are exactly the same between the sexes. Let's compare notes? what do you want to ask me? Ask anything, I will attempt to answer and will do so...
    SilentSub SilentSub
    46-50, M
    9 Responses Apr 18, 2010

    A Taste

    Another experience which brought out my submissive nature. I managed to make the women’s soccer team my freshman year in college. It was a small school with no scholarships, so pretty much everyone who could tough out the practices made the team. Just before the first game...
    WifeinTexas2010 WifeinTexas2010
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 25, 2011


    I have been married for 14 years, most of them sexually unsatisfying for both of us. My husband is very interested in exploring a d/s lifestyle and ..well I'm hesitant and scared. I have battled (and lost far too much) to depression and am finally on an upswing at the moment, due...
    KylandraKing KylandraKing
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

    The Discipline Questionnaire

    I’ve had a lifelong interest in disciplining women. For a long time I advertised privately and met with females in a safe environment where I could conduct a therapeutic session according to her needs/requirements. Over the years I met and worked with many women looking for...
    Smackerbottom Smackerbottom
    56-60, M
    Jun 10, 2012

    Sally's Discipline Session

    The following account is based on a real-life episode from somewhere in the mid 1990s, when I used to advertise for, and meet, women wanting discipline. I would meet them in a safe environment where I could conduct a therapeutic session according to her needs/requirements. Sally...
    Smackerbottom Smackerbottom
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Apr 15, 2011


    I have been married a little over 3 yrs now. I have a 3 yr old son with my husband. I have been wondering off and on about D/s relationships. My motivation is to become more submissive to my husband and he more dominant. I feel as though this would greatly improve our trust...
    Nhya2010 Nhya2010
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Nov 29, 2010

    Returning to this site

    after a long time and a lot of changes. Now divorced, have been dating a man for 8 months. He is very dominant in bed, and I truly enjoy it, so much so that I would like to take our DD/lg scene play to the next level. Honestly I believe I am craving the attention. Any thoughts?
    treblej117 treblej117
    Jan 28, 2015

    Looking For Help And Advice

    I am a 36 year old married woman looking to create a new sexual lifestyle with my husband. I want to be dominated by him and have no idea how to start creating this relationship. He is very interested in learning more as well. Any advice, links, suggestions at all would be great...
    treblej117 treblej117
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2011


    I am tired… fatigued… frustrated… and unable to sleep. Total darkness and total silence are reminders of early efforts to address the weakness. That was before the sleep clinics, before the tests, before the sedatives, before the hypnosis. Maybe I am asleep and having a...
    WifeinTexas2010 WifeinTexas2010
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2011

    First Touch

    This is about one of my early brushes with submission. (Sorry, but no sex scenes, so you can keep moving if that is what you are looking for.) During the summer before my last year of high school, I took a job as a receptionist at a small town realty company. It was a small...
    WifeinTexas2010 WifeinTexas2010
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2011
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