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I Want You to Read This Before You Add Me to Your Circle

For people who wants others to know about them, before adding them. 5,090 People

    I have a few guidelines regarding

    who I will accept add requests from and who I will not. They are very simple and should be easy for people to follow so there shouldn't be any problems with that being done. There are of course exceptions to almost every guideline but they are going to be extremely rare. Here...
    Allietaining Allietaining 36-40, F 37 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Its Getting Old

    Its sad that I have to join this group because there appears to be some members that can't read. Or don't view my profile before messaging me. I get so sick and tired of receiving messages from members that hit on me. Or they talk about wanting to have sex with me. I have been an...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 20 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Just a few things to keep in mind

    before you add me. I'm no saint and I know people might get offended by my interests. I'm open minded and tolerant so whatever you're into, that's fine. However, there are a few things I don't want to discuss, so keep that in mind before you add me. I do not mind mature...
    ashley420d ashley420d 22-25, F 23 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    - I Don't have a Kik/Fb/Instagram/twitter - I

    DON'T SKYPE/VIDEO CHAT - I DON'T send Nudiiess of myself - I DON'T trade - I DON'T s3xtt - I Don't reply to you if your default is of your peepee - I Don't respond if you ASK me a dirty question - NOR call me a sexii nickname - I READ your profile before, so if I see anything...
    Itsnickijae Itsnickijae 18-21, F 29 Responses Feb 23

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    I joined two days ago

    and it starts getting out of hand. So I am setting rules. -You can add me but you must bend to my rules, my profile my rules -I didn't request pics of you genitals, don't bother to send them especially in a first message and I know nothing about you so don't be frustrated...
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F 77 Responses Jul 26

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    If You Want To Add Me

    Well I am new to this site, but I am guessing like most sites there is some of the people that I would like to avoid. There is a few things I would be looking for if you add me and want me to add you back so let's begin shall we? 1- Don't add me if you aren't going to talk to me...
    HeartOfThorns HeartOfThorns 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    PLEASE! (before you add me to your circle) Read This!

    Three questions you must answer or I shall cast your soul into the great void that lay between us.... First question: What! is your favorite color? Second question: What!, is the name of your dog? Third question: What is your intent for adding me? Wait,... Ahhhhh. Sorry I...
    MrsJoanieBNH MrsJoanieBNH 56-60, T 60 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Before EP changed its format

    for a user profile, there was the following statement on mine: "For those wondering, I do not work with koalas, though that would be a cool job to have." That statement is still there, but it's hidden, so I've had some people coming to me, thinking that I'm either a vet or...
    koalaguy koalaguy 46-50, M a week ago

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    Just because I post mature/adult experiences

    doesn't mean I want you messaging me about it.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Lets Get This Straight

    1.) Please be aware that I am 17. Okay. I can't tell you how many people didn't realize that when I posted it on my profile description to begin with. Yes, I know my age limitation says 18-21 but I do that to have the freedom of conversing with more people. I am not trying to...
    Dezaria Dezaria 18-21, F 27 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I want you to know I will not add you

    if I do not know you. And a 5 minute conversation is not away for me to get to know you. . . The reason I was interested in EP was to chat with people, make some friends with similar interests as me, and post my blogs. I want people to know I may be on this a couple times a...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    What You Should Know About Me Before Adding Me

    Hello everyone! My name is Stacy Marie Vacqueyras - and I will start off saying that I don't mind it when people add me. The more friends the better I say. But some people have added me without looking carefully over my profile first, only to regret it shortly thereafter. When I...
    BizSuitStacy BizSuitStacy 46-50, T 63 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Please ! So You Don't Waste Your Time...

    I'm not a friend collector, I don't add people just for the numbers. I'm looking at those with whom I'll enjoy talking---online friends. With that in mind, please understand the following:   If you have lots of sexual groups, I won't add you. I'm not looking for...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 54 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Read Before Friend Requesting Please !!

    My boyfriend, Phil, started this account. I did not like the idea at first. But now I like to read the stories and look at pictures. Was leary about him posting pictures at first. Not something I would like to explain to family or my job. So I limit what he can post. No faces or...
    phil208 phil208 46-50 68 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    Seriously!

    Ok, I'm usually pretty lenient, but I have just a few rules. 1) If your profile picture is your guy parts, I'm not going to add you, no matter what. 2) I AM NOT ON HERE TO FIND A GUY TO HOOK UP WITH; STOP ASKING 3) I do not Skype 4) I do not send out nudes 5) I will NEVER cam...
    shygirl214 shygirl214 18-21, F 176 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    If you are going to add me to your circle make

    sure of the following. 1. We've spoken in comments or I wrote to you in one of your stories etc... 2. If you are battling with Depression/dyscalculia/anxiety anything specific you need help with then go right on 3. DONT ADD ME IF YOU ARE GOING TO WANT TO TALK ABOUT...
    ofthisgirl90 ofthisgirl90 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    1. please verified u are the person u claim to

    be either by photos or video 2. do not ask me for nude photos 3. dont add me for sex talk 4. give me all ur chocolate XD 5. dont send me sexual message and dont hit on me 6. dont add me just to make ur cycle bigger if u dont talk to me in a while or ignore my messages i will...
    XDHyperGirlXD1 XDHyperGirlXD1 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    My main account is "akaShaun" I'm only on this

    account if I don't have access to it.
    itsShaun itsShaun 18-21, M Oct 6

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    If you do not seem to give off vibe like this,

      Go on and add me.INXS:Pls stop being too sexual when it comes to pm-ing.Also, please give me time to reply. I might look like I am online here but if I am not active on Q and A , then I might be really busy.
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Please kids younger than 25 do not contact me .

    I don't have nothing in common with you .. Specially when you are 13-18 don't wast your time !!!
    Ilovetorun123 Ilovetorun123 31-35, F 26 Responses Jul 7

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    >"Mr Heartafire, please add me to your circle.

    " What? No "Hello!" ,"Salutations!" or "Greetings!"? As a proud canuck I will even accept a "Bonjour!";DI am flattered that you would want to follow my antics on EP but I hope we can approach each other as friends. You see I may very well want to add you so that we can "circle...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 3

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    1) I will not message you first.

    I'd rather feel interested in. And if you're interested, don't be shy. 2) I won't add you back until I consider you a friend and because of that, my circle is small. 3) I don't like to brag.. But I'm as real as it gets. I'm not afraid to speak my mind and I won't sugar coat...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Yeah...

    This story isn't finished yet.. 1. Apparently I say a lot of things none of you really understand, so first off I'm going to explain the most common ones: Mm, mhm (and other words similar) means Yes. ... means I don't know what to say. Meh either means I don't care, or that I...
    HumhumTheHaunter HumhumTheHaunter 16-17, F 54 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    if you dont measure up to onionheart's

    expectations come join me for the TP party this halloween .
    charles849 charles849 70+ 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Please do not send dirty pictures to me

    or ask if I want to see dirty pictures of you. I try to stay away from that kind of stuff, and it's been happening to me recently; I just want it to STOP. I don't send pictures, so please do not ask me for one. I'm very shy, and uncomfortable with sending pictures of myself to...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    ~ If your initial message to me is a 'hi'

    or any one-word nod, I likely won't reply; I feel that if someone is interested in legitimate conversation their greeting will reflect that. ~ Though I am open ABOUT sexuality and discussions of such, I'm not seeking to be sexual WITH anyone and unsolicited photographs are not...
    CanisCanem CanisCanem 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Hello there...thanks

    for stopping by. As you can see I don't have a huge friends list. I like to keep my circle nice and tight, more familiar...more close..more personal. I love to meet new people and chat about life, food sex and all that's in between. So if your here for BS..please keep it moving...
    deleted deleted 26-30 31 Responses Jan 24

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    This is for everybody

    if I don't respond to you it's either 1.i don't like you 2.your boring the heck out of me 3.my phone died 4.Im busy or 5.i just found something better to do. Ok so no hard feelings
    ThaQueen2 ThaQueen2 18-21, F Oct 5

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    There's reasons I either will not add you

    or at least more than likely not add you or that I'll unfriend you for. 1) If you are 22+ and you flirt or talk s*x*al with minors. 2) If you are 13-17 and you flirt or talk s*x*al with older people. 3) If you like poo. 4) If all or almost all your posts are about s*x or on the...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    My Profile

    You can get to know me by reading my stories, i will try to post stories that will explain the things i like and who i am Im not big on chatting so sorry if you send me a message i may not answer, if that makes me rude then well i guess im rude, its either i explain it here or i...
    ExtremeNext ExtremeNext 26-30, F 42 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    I Strongly Urge You To Read This

    Hi. There is a big reason why I want everyone to read this. I feel that before you add me, you should know a few major things about me. First off, I am a hermaphrodite. A born male hermaphrodite. Easier put, I am male on the bottom and female on the top. *Edit*: I had fought...
    HappyZappyZaperson HappyZappyZaperson 26-30, T 92 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    If you're a pervert or a troll,

    don't expect an add. If I don't know you and I have not interacted with you often, don't expect an add. I used to allow anyone to message me, but over time I was getting unwanted messages. So now, I only allow people that are in my circle to message me. It's nothing personal...
    sweetaura sweetaura 26-30 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    You Should Know This Before You Add Me

    If you are thinking about adding me or if you already have then you should know these things.   I am happily married and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to make me cheat on my Husband. I will discuss sex with you if you can do this in a respectful and...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 58 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Thanks

    I do not have a problem with you requesting my friendship. Just know that I do check out people's profiles before I add. The big thing for me is stories that go with your experiences. How else am I suppose to get to know you and what you are like. If there are no stories, there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 58 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    do not add me if you cant at least say

    something to me. dont add me if you have no pic,friends ,profile, and no stories. that tells me you are just a voyeur and dont interact with anyone.dont add me if we have nothing in common. I hate to be so blunt ,but people keep doing this and i have never seen them here and...
    MicheleTaylor MicheleTaylor 51-55, T 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Circle Member FAQ

    I am writing this open letter to potential circle members. I want them to know who I am before they add me. I am an open book with the bindings torn. I like people who don't take this too seriously. But, know the compassion to answer a serious question with true help and support...
    ikattarri ikattarri 36-40, F 37 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    I've Avoided This Up To Now But The Time Is Right

    As you can tell by my circle list I generally add most people but I do have my favorites and some that will never darken my door. So at the risk of being a little forward here are the two lists: WON'T ADD if you write about doing sexual things with kids not only will I not add...
    JacquieTG JacquieTG 46-50, T 33 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Well, since I see so many Stories about this

    stating that thay are not here for sxual matters, I want to make clear that I am here for exactly that, haha. To meet friends etc I have facebook and Twitter, EP is solely to finds women to share experiences, kinky chats and maybe pictures with. So I hope no one feels offended...
    jerkingexhibitionist jerkingexhibitionist 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    romanticsoul55 romanticsoul55 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    1) Anyone can message me

    and I'll reply but don't talk rubbish. 2) I'll be a nice friend to you and you can share anything to me. 3) If you are looking for dirty things, then I am not the person you are looking for. 4) I want to be anonymous here, so don't ask for my pics. 5) 40+ men please don't...
    coolhappyme coolhappyme 13-15, F Oct 7

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    I came here looking for advice

    when my wife told me she wants a divorce. I have discovered that I am not alone in this position and would like to make some honest connections with those whose world has been shattered, as mine has. Hopefully, we can help each other get through this. I am a good listener...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    YesIAmACat YesIAmACat 16-17 1 day ago

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    Now, as much I love leotards

    and one-piece swimsuits, as I know you al do, Id just like to formally declare that I will not be posting photos of myself, my bf, or anyone else I know personally wearing them. I hope no one’s disappointed, but Im a journalist student in media ethics so I know all too well...
    nothingnobodynowhere nothingnobodynowhere 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I will not respond to "Hi.

    " "Hey." or "Sup?". If you send me this message, you will be ignored. Simularly, if you message me sexually, you will be ignored. If you message me a picture, you will be ignored. If you are a man, there is a good chance you will violate one of the three rules above, but women...
    LittleStain LittleStain 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Ok so i just need to state this

    before anymore people try to add me. Yes, I like to have fun and I do have fun on this site, but that does not make me your plaything. I Understand that I have posted stories and pics that are provocative and may lead you to think of me only as a sexual object, but I will have...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 32 Responses Mar 6

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    I Hate Unnecessary Dramas

    Thank you for adding me up! Unlike others, I do NOT need to make you know a litany of me OR my oh so many list of requirements for a perfect add. You need NOT know my whole life story before you are allowed in my circle. Besides, aren't we all perfect strangers here? Why the...
    TitaniumSkyScraper TitaniumSkyScraper 31-35, F 42 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Please read this list

    before adding me to your circle. Thanks very much.#1: Please dont just add me and dont even talk to me, whats the point in that? Seriously. If you want to be friends thats great but im not interested in having a whole friends list full of "friends" ive never even spoken to...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not here to be a your fling.

    If you are unhappily married looking for an ego boost search elsewhere please. That being said, I'm looking for real connections. I want to have conversations that go past the chitchat phase. I might be too "clingy" for some people but I like talking every day. I like to get to...
    mermaidechos mermaidechos 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Make me laugh. Don't be gross.

    No Drama. Rules are made to be broken. Don't take me or yourself too seriously.
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    Please Read This.

    1: My name is Ally 2: I am a virgin 3: I am a Lesbian  4: I am not looking for or want a Daddy/Daughter relationship.  5: I do not want to be pooped on, peed on, or cummed on. 6: I do not want anything anal at all, nothing. 7: I read EVERY profile on people that make an add...
    allygator2 allygator2 18-21, F 67 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    A Few No No's

    I'm very open mined but like everyone else I do have my limits and boundaries. If you have any of the following fetishes please do not bother adding me: 1) Anything that involves human body waste (urine and feces). I find it disgusting, foul and very unsanitary. I have a germ...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 100 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Read This Before Adding Or Attacking Me

    I've been here for almost a year now. I found EP when I was looking for a place to try blogging. Blogged here for a few months and found that with a little effort I could blog every day. I kept two blogs for a while then made the decision to only blog at my blog on blogspot.com...
    oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 56-60, M 38 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    Please Dont Add Me Unless You Want A Friend

    I dont want to be mean or rude but If it is your intention to add me just to bolster your friends list. Im not interested. I only want people who wish to interact, associate, make fun of me, read and share stories or expirences, or who wants a friend. Every couple of months I...
    LoneAlpha LoneAlpha 26-30, M 49 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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