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I Want You to Tell Me the Truth Even If It Hurts Me

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    JustScout JustScout 13-15, F Mar 29, 2014

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    The Real Truth.

    I hate when people make the excuse of lying by saying "I didn't want to hurt you". Looking me in the same eyes when you tell me that you love me you go ahead without a care in the world & lie. Don't they understand that by lying your hurting me even more. You know right from...
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F Jul 13, 2012

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    no beating around the bush,

    just be truthful wether it hurts or not... I'm a big girl and can handle it
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 10

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    Be True To Me

    It will make us more human to be honest and real. What is life if you live with lies and betrayal?
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Truth, Not Dare...

    The truth most likely will hurt someone, but it -must- always be told. To let someone make plans or engender feelings that are based on a lie or a hope is just wrong. If you are in my life, I ask you never to lie to me.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 17 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Where I Was When I Texted

    I messed up today. I texted the same girl that I'm trying to get over, you see it wasn't me. A monster within me driven by hunger to search and destroy all in its path, Jealousy...yea Sh*t, and I thought I killed him last time...I know I was close though...real close Mid-text...
    yngandrstls yngandrstls 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25, 2013

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    Honesty Rules

    It's one of the most key things in my life. I will always be honest with you and i would really appreciate it if you were as honest with me. The truth hurts... So what? In my experience lies hurt more and the pain from them can last forever. I'd rather be hurt by the truth than...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Mar 25, 2011

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    I Dont Like Being Lied to

    I can't stand being lied too, I dont know why, I guess it goes back when I was living with my dad, he always accused me of lying about everything even though I never did. so yeah I like hearing anything truthful, even if I dont like it, in the end I will respect the person far...
    onewingedangel917 onewingedangel917 26-30, M 3 Responses May 15, 2009

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    Tell Me Truth That Whether U Realy Truely Love Me

    I want to knw from you the trurh,,the truth that u realy love me,care  me,,or u are just bounded to your comitment
    maneeha maneeha 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    Truth

    Telling the  truth or being told the truth is a hell of a lot better than being lied to or  mislead.
    sportygurly sportygurly 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Even if you think it would kill me inside,

    I only want the truth. It probably wouldn't hurt me as much as you thought it would anyways
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F Jan 6

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    Always speak the truth.

    For the truth is all you'll get from me.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    It's so sad when people aren't honest with you,

    it's the only thing I expect from others and yet so many times people that I trusted were dishonest to me because they wanted to not hurt me. Let me tell you something, it hurts even more that way, don't let me think everything is alright when it's not, just tell me and we can...
    kg04 kg04 22-25, M May 30, 2014

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    Dare To Walk The Talk

    Through out Human History people have always feared the ones who give voice to the Truth, many have been tortured, incarcerated, concidered lunatics or mentally ill and even murdered in many cases. The greatest spiritual masters in the World were deeply humble, great diplomats...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 2 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    I Can Take Brutal Honesty Better Than Gentle Lies

    There comes a time in an EP relationship when matters of the heart seem to go in a particular direction that makes me go "hmmmm, I wasn't expecting that."  I'm a very emotional person, I try hard to not let my heart get in the way, and I try to play it safe. So ..Don't make it...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2011

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    Im a big boy I can handle getting hurt :) I

    think I deserve to know the truth. If you have something to say to me or about me Let me know. I promise I'll get over it eventually.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 30, 2014

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    Yes!

    i want you to always tell me the truth, tell me how you really feel, i don't want u to hold anything back becuase you think it will hurt me, if it does, who cares, i am sure i will eventually get over it. i just want to know. i don't want to be left in the dark, ebcause you are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    It's the same story. Different faces,

    different circumstances, but at its core, nothing changes. I can see them suffer. I can see their pain. I can see it all! SO STOP TELLING ME IT'S OKAY! Stop trying to spare me the pain! Stop telling yourself that you are bothering me! Stop believing that this pain is something...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends 22-25, M Mar 11

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    Seriously

    I need to know, I cant be lured. Anyone who thinks that I can't handle the truth, clearly doesn't know me. The truth matters the most, I can't stand to ever live a lie. I would do the same fire my friends so I expect the same.
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Truth Hurts

    i have this thing....deppression. i have a very low self esteem but wat is worse, i think is that people lower it even more....and i dont even have 2 go far, i mean, this guy who sits next 2 mehh in class...hez always telling mehh how ugle i am and that im stupid.....i tell my...
    iluvnerds12 iluvnerds12 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2011

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    Don'T Lie To Me

    Don't lie to me, if you have something to tell me, tell me, don't sugar coat it, don't lie to me. I don't like people beating around the bush, will I be hurt, if the news is kinda harsh? Well yea, but hey, I'll get the **** over it. I just rather someone be honest and hurt me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 14, 2013

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    Girls; Give me a dose brutal honesty.

    I don't like how in our world, we are told so many sugar coated lies. I feel liberated hearing the truth. Answer these questions: 1. Does size matter? Is 4 inches erect too small? 2. Are receeding hairlines and thining hair a turnoff? 3. Rate my apperance on a scale or 1-10.
    skyler1486 skyler1486 26-30, M Dec 4, 2013

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    Be Honest!

    if you dont want to be my friend if you cant stop lying if you arent interested in me if i have hurt your feelings just tell me even if it hurts! be honest with me!!!
    GlitzyGirl22 GlitzyGirl22 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    I know you're dying to tell me,

    or you wouldn't bring it up all the time when I'm around. But don't bring it up then avoid the truth. I don't care if it hurts me. I'm your best friend, and I promise that I will be by your side no matter what. That includes this, whatever it is. So please, just tell me.
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F Jul 17, 2014

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    Shocking !!

    So yesterday I was reading ramdom material when I see this: http://en.falundafa.org/falun-dafa-books.html And then later on the day I read this (wikipedia.org): persecution of Falun Gong refers to the campaign initiated by the Chinese Communist Party against practitioners...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 Oct 24, 2013

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    I'd Rather Be...

    hurt by the truth than happy in a lie.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    I Know

    I know the truth may hurt, but please, always tell me the truth no matter what. I rather have the truth than to not know.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 6, 2009

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    Just tell me, don't give me false hope,

    don't leave me oblivious. Just tell me.
    weirduo weirduo 13-15, F Mar 13

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    Tell Me The Truth

    I am truthful and honest and I appreciate receiving the same treatment back.  I would like knowing the truth even if it hurts me, I'll deal with it.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2010

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    Never Lie To Me, Please.

    I always care greatly when and if i do and if you lie to me it completely breaks me to pieces. Sometimes i wonder if my mother is right when she told me i am a glutton for punishment. I always go after people who probably don't love me or care. I fall in love with people even...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    He's still lying--lying to himself maybe even.

    Why arnt i worthy of a guy that can tell me the truth? What hurts the most is that I'm not enough.....that's what it comes down to.
    tjindigo tjindigo 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    Sometimes You Ask More Than You Know

    Realize that when a survivor of abuse tells you a story, it quite probably will impact you life. And so I (we) say be sure you want to know. Here is a video that was created about a survivor sharing their story. The video cannot be imbedded. "Dear 1Greywolf, Your video See Me2012...
    1greywolf 1greywolf 46-50 Oct 17, 2012

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    hlpflwthat hlpflwthat 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    My Number One Rule

    Lies cause so much more pain than the truth ever could. My dad cheated on my mom. I found out a little over a year ago that I have a four year old sister. Anytime I think about my dad calling me his "little girl" I feel sick. It was all a lie. I lived four years of my life...
    Newchick02 Newchick02 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    Don't Lie!

    I hate it when people lie so its way better to just tell me like it is than to lie to me just to spare my feelings. I'm a big girl and I can definately handle a little bit, or even a lot, of criticism or some bad news because I've heard worse. So just.. Say it already! Don't give...
    Veronica4 Veronica4 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    Lets Me Move On

    I really like knowing what's real and what's not with a good deal of certainty. Knowing the truth and knowing where someone really stands allows me to choose the best course of action and move on with my life and act and react accordingly to the truth. When I don't know the truth...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows 22-25 2 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    Do NOT Do It ...

    Please don't lie to me ... i just want to hear the truth and nothing but the truth. If you can't be honest with me now you never will be able to. I try to be as honest as i possibly can about most things ... and i have hurt people along the way, this doesn't make me happy...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Because Nothing Can Hurt Me Any More.

    I don't care any more. Not even the truth can hurt me now. I stopped feeling a long time ago.
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    Peachh Peachh 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    What every single person or someone in a relationship wants is the complete truth! Not what you think they can handle, not which interpretation fits best, or the honesty that lacks...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 Mar 4

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    I blame myself for you leaving. You didn't even say goodbye you just left. I wish i could get the guts to ask you why.
    BlackAsBlackCouldEverBe BlackAsBlackCouldEverBe 16-17, F Mar 7

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    I feel like if you had something to tell someone then you should but what if you value your friendship enough not too. I could go on for days with some of the things I want to tell...
    elenorr elenorr 18-21 1 Response Mar 2

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    know that you are not what others think of you, nor what they say you are. you are beyond the superficial, you are more than the disappointment and hurt you feel. i know that you...
    Dewms Dewms 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Hi, im Safaa and you’re watching Disney Channel. if you knew me, you would know that i love my name. i say it all the time “howdy partner, im Safaa”. i want you guys to know...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I will no longer respond to PMs asking for: - Out of EP chat (ie. Skype, Yahoo, Calls) - Picture swap - Add on other social media (ie. Facebook) - Opinions (If I want your opinion...
    DomFletch DomFletch 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 16

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    Although we have only met for 5 seconds, I just wanted you to know that I love you.
    LordBrodo LordBrodo 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago