I Want You to Tell Me the Truth Even If It Hurts Me

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    Don't Lie!

    I hate it when people lie so its way better to just tell me like it is than to lie to me just to spare my feelings. I'm a big girl and I can definately handle a little bit, or even a lot, of criticism or some bad news because I've heard worse. So just.. Say it already! Don't give...
    Veronica4 Veronica4
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2011

    Where I Was When I Texted

    I messed up today. I texted the same girl that I'm trying to get over, you see it wasn't me. A monster within me driven by hunger to search and destroy all in its path, Jealousy...yea Sh*t, and I thought I killed him last time...I know I was close though...real close Mid-text...
    yngandrstls yngandrstls
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 25, 2013

    I Know

    I know the truth may hurt, but please, always tell me the truth no matter what. I rather have the truth than to not know.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 6, 2009

    I'd Rather Be...

    hurt by the truth than happy in a lie.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 7, 2009

    Tell Me Truth That Whether U Realy Truely Love Me

    I want to knw from you the trurh,,the truth that u realy love me,care  me,,or u are just bounded to your comitment
    maneeha maneeha
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2011

    Shocking !!

    So yesterday I was reading ramdom material when I see this: http://en.falundafa.org/falun-dafa-books.html And then later on the day I read this (wikipedia.org): persecution of Falun Gong refers to the campaign initiated by the Chinese Communist Party against practitioners...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE
    31-35
    Oct 24, 2013

    Truth, Not Dare...

    The truth most likely will hurt someone, but it -must- always be told. To let someone make plans or engender feelings that are based on a lie or a hope is just wrong. If you are in my life, I ask you never to lie to me.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    14 Responses May 6, 2009

    Do NOT Do It ...

    Please don't lie to me ... i just want to hear the truth and nothing but the truth. If you can't be honest with me now you never will be able to. I try to be as honest as i possibly can about most things ... and i have hurt people along the way, this doesn't make me happy...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2013

    Yes!

    i want you to always tell me the truth, tell me how you really feel, i don't want u to hold anything back becuase you think it will hurt me, if it does, who cares, i am sure i will eventually get over it. i just want to know. i don't want to be left in the dark, ebcause you are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 16, 2009

    Honesty Rules

    It's one of the most key things in my life. I will always be honest with you and i would really appreciate it if you were as honest with me. The truth hurts... So what? In my experience lies hurt more and the pain from them can last forever. I'd rather be hurt by the truth than...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff
    18-21, F
    Mar 25, 2011

    Be True To Me

    It will make us more human to be honest and real. What is life if you live with lies and betrayal?
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    Why do guys think it's best to dance around the

    truth??? Now I may never know the truth. All I have is my intuition that I have been told is way way off
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 23, 2015

    Truth Hurts

    i have this thing....deppression. i have a very low self esteem but wat is worse, i think is that people lower it even more....and i dont even have 2 go far, i mean, this guy who sits next 2 mehh in class...hez always telling mehh how ugle i am and that im stupid.....i tell my...
    iluvnerds12 iluvnerds12
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2011

    Sometimes You Ask More Than You Know

    Realize that when a survivor of abuse tells you a story, it quite probably will impact you life. And so I (we) say be sure you want to know. Here is a video that was created about a survivor sharing their story. The video cannot be imbedded. "Dear 1Greywolf, Your video See Me2012...
    1greywolf 1greywolf
    46-50
    Oct 17, 2012

    He's still lying--lying to himself maybe even.

    Why arnt i worthy of a guy that can tell me the truth? What hurts the most is that I'm not enough.....that's what it comes down to.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    ...and the walls go right back up.

    If you have something to say to me, just say it already. Makes me nuts when people are afraid to talk to someone with truthfulness and genuinely straight from the heart. However, I would think hard and choose your words wisely. It's not only about using big and fancy words...
    Inapickl Inapickl
    41-45, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    Just tell me, don't give me false hope,

    don't leave me oblivious. Just tell me.
    weirduo weirduo
    16-17, F
    Mar 13, 2015

    I know you're dying to tell me,

    or you wouldn't bring it up all the time when I'm around. But don't bring it up then avoid the truth. I don't care if it hurts me. I'm your best friend, and I promise that I will be by your side no matter what. That includes this, whatever it is. So please, just tell me.
    terribletaytor terribletaytor
    22-25, F
    Jul 17, 2014

    Don'T Lie To Me

    Don't lie to me, if you have something to tell me, tell me, don't sugar coat it, don't lie to me. I don't like people beating around the bush, will I be hurt, if the news is kinda harsh? Well yea, but hey, I'll get the **** over it. I just rather someone be honest and hurt me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14, 2013

    Tell Me The Truth

    I am truthful and honest and I appreciate receiving the same treatment back.  I would like knowing the truth even if it hurts me, I'll deal with it.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2010

    Always speak the truth.

    For the truth is all you'll get from me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    Lets Me Move On

    I really like knowing what's real and what's not with a good deal of certainty. Knowing the truth and knowing where someone really stands allows me to choose the best course of action and move on with my life and act and react accordingly to the truth. When I don't know the truth...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows
    22-25
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2009

    I Can Take Brutal Honesty Better Than Gentle Lies

    There comes a time in an EP relationship when matters of the heart seem to go in a particular direction that makes me go "hmmmm, I wasn't expecting that."  I'm a very emotional person, I try hard to not let my heart get in the way, and I try to play it safe. So ..Don't make it...
    roughNready roughNready
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2011

    Girls; Give me a dose brutal honesty.

    I don't like how in our world, we are told so many sugar coated lies. I feel liberated hearing the truth. Answer these questions: 1. Does size matter? Is 4 inches erect too small? 2. Are receeding hairlines and thining hair a turnoff? 3. Rate my apperance on a scale or 1-10.
    skyler1486 skyler1486
    26-30, M
    Dec 4, 2013

    Seriously

    I need to know, I cant be lured. Anyone who thinks that I can't handle the truth, clearly doesn't know me. The truth matters the most, I can't stand to ever live a lie. I would do the same fire my friends so I expect the same.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 16, 2013

    The Real Truth.

    I hate when people make the excuse of lying by saying "I didn't want to hurt you". Looking me in the same eyes when you tell me that you love me you go ahead without a care in the world & lie. Don't they understand that by lying your hurting me even more. You know right from...
    Novalina Novalina
    18-21, F
    Jul 13, 2012

    It's the same story. Different faces,

    different circumstances, but at its core, nothing changes. I can see them suffer. I can see their pain. I can see it all! SO STOP TELLING ME IT'S OKAY! Stop trying to spare me the pain! Stop telling yourself that you are bothering me! Stop believing that this pain is something...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends
    26-30, M
    Mar 11, 2015

    no beating around the bush,

    just be truthful wether it hurts or not... I'm a big girl and can handle it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 10, 2015

    My Number One Rule

    Lies cause so much more pain than the truth ever could. My dad cheated on my mom. I found out a little over a year ago that I have a four year old sister. Anytime I think about my dad calling me his "little girl" I feel sick. It was all a lie. I lived four years of my life...
    Newchick02 Newchick02
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2012

    Im a big boy I can handle getting hurt :) I

    think I deserve to know the truth. If you have something to say to me or about me Let me know. I promise I'll get over it eventually.
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Sep 30, 2014

    Even if you think it would kill me inside,

    I only want the truth. It probably wouldn't hurt me as much as you thought it would anyways
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew
    18-21, F
    Jan 6, 2015
    hlpflwthat hlpflwthat
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2013
    JustScout JustScout
    16-17, F
    Mar 29, 2014

    Be Honest!

    if you dont want to be my friend if you cant stop lying if you arent interested in me if i have hurt your feelings just tell me even if it hurts! be honest with me!!!
    GlitzyGirl22 GlitzyGirl22
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Sep 9, 2009

    I Dont Like Being Lied to

    I can't stand being lied too, I dont know why, I guess it goes back when I was living with my dad, he always accused me of lying about everything even though I never did. so yeah I like hearing anything truthful, even if I dont like it, in the end I will respect the person far...
    onewingedangel917 onewingedangel917
    26-30, M
    3 Responses May 15, 2009

    Dare To Walk The Talk

    Through out Human History people have always feared the ones who give voice to the Truth, many have been tortured, incarcerated, concidered lunatics or mentally ill and even murdered in many cases. The greatest spiritual masters in the World were deeply humble, great diplomats...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE
    31-35
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2013

    It's so sad when people aren't honest with you,

    it's the only thing I expect from others and yet so many times people that I trusted were dishonest to me because they wanted to not hurt me. Let me tell you something, it hurts even more that way, don't let me think everything is alright when it's not, just tell me and we can...
    kg04 kg04
    22-25, M
    May 30, 2014

    Never Lie To Me, Please.

    I always care greatly when and if i do and if you lie to me it completely breaks me to pieces. Sometimes i wonder if my mother is right when she told me i am a glutton for punishment. I always go after people who probably don't love me or care. I fall in love with people even...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013
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