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I Want You to Write Letters to Those Who Have Hurt You

Everyone has someone who has hurt them, just write them, even though they may not see it, it will at least help you. 768 People

    I've been doing it for years

    and never sent a single one of them
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 22, 2014

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    I would never dare to send this

    but I wrote it a while ago. Since I vent on here I will post it and hopefully if any of you are in a similar situation with your dad that it would help you. Dad, I don't think you realize how much you mean to me. You mean so much to me that it hurts. I push you away because I...
    Alyssa5977 Alyssa5977 13-15, F Feb 24, 2014

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    Dear __________

    You beg me and plead me not to leave you. You promise you'll change. You won't be that guy who leaves me in my room crying away the pain while you play a video game. You will get a job, and provide for our daughter. You tell me how much you want me, and need me around. Do you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2009

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    My Brother's Kidnappers

    You are all dead now, but I would bring you back to life so I could inflict as much pain as humanly possible on you. As gentle and compassionate a person as I am, someone who is sickened by violence, I would show no mercy. There is no way you could ever suffer enough to satisfy...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    I'd probably write this letter to my damn self.

    No one has hurt me like I have hurt me.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F May 21, 2014

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    Not Burying Anymore

    You were the ones who taught me to pull back. You were the ones who taught me how to fade into the background. Twenty something years later I'm not pushing this back any more.You know what. I was eight. Eight. A freaking little kid. It didn't matter that years later you...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    I read something sad today from a friend

    who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very vulnerable and desperately wanted to write a letter to the one who hurt me instead choosing to write about my sadness here and allowing it to...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Dear Doctor, I'm withholding your name.

    It's not for your sake, it's for mine. Privacy laws are complicated and I don't deserve to be hurt more by you. You had no right to treat me like you did. The moment you found out I had a mental illness, you started looking at me with disdain and didn't believe what I said. You...
    Owlmaid Owlmaid 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2014

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    Dear Mischa

    I know it's been long since we even smiled at each other... Life haven't been so kind on us. We both experienced the same thing at different times, although it's too late, but I feel the same now! Although you can back out of it, but I'm stuck because I'm a guy and NOW I have to...
    WannaKissU WannaKissU 31-35, M Sep 22, 2013

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    I was always no stranger to the rain.

    To sense it coming brought that old familiar want...a want to run. But for the life of me I never could find it in me...the ability to escape. Not once as a packed my bags with the few things I needed, The Holy scriptures, meat and drink, and with walking stick in hand could I...
    AmIReallyTellingUThis AmIReallyTellingUThis 41-45, M Feb 26, 2014

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    I Will Never Forgive And Forget

    To the girl who slept with my boyfriend even though she knew about me: I hate you for breaking us up for a brief, heartbreaking, time. I hate you for the guilt and shame you made him feel. I hate you for thinking you were better than me, better than our relationship. I hate you...
    BeautifulMayhem10 BeautifulMayhem10 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    You think it's made of glass.

    You love to break it even though there's a soft spot in it for you. It's called a heart. Kk?
    TheDimJoker TheDimJoker 13-15, M Jan 5

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    Letter #2

      You only did what you had to. We, both want more, but you are not able to give it. I sometimes think I might be in love with the fantasy, but I really don't think so. I love you the way you are, good, bad and ugly. By ignoring me and not acknowledging me as even a friend...
    jrabbit1321 jrabbit1321 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    Thanks

    I want to write to every bully that ever bullied me, but that would be too many for me to so I am going to write a letter on what I would say to them. Dear Bullies, I just first want to say Thanks. Thanks for making my life miserable. It makes me feel great that made me feel...
    superherojustin superherojustin 22-25, M 19 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    "Some people are braver,

    brighter and more beautiful than they thought they are. Some people are more hurt, hopeless and unhappy than they are supposed to be. Some people could not have the guts to help them. But I do." -@ShineLife on ask.fm
    JudyAnneServantes JudyAnneServantes 16-17, F May 19, 2014

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    The Paternal One.

    Well, it's been six months since I've written you a letter.  Remember our correspondences when you were incarcerated??  Those letters meant the world to me.  I still have your cards and those letters.  I truly believed you were a changed man.  That God...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses May 12, 2009

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    What have I done to you to make you want to see

    me suffer? I don't believe I have done anything....yes I got sick a lot and i had panic attacks almost every day. I didn't know how to deal with things. But I was only a kid. Kids shouldn't have to know how to deal with that kind of suffering. But it didn't mean it was the...
    TheIceDragonReturns TheIceDragonReturns 18-21 Apr 15, 2014

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    I really wrote letters to those

    who hurt me. But i will told you it's no use! They will hurt you more. Better to do good to them. Don't take revenge.
    Patpat98 Patpat98 16-17, F Dec 16, 2013

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    I don't write letters to those

    who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they know without them even knowing they are being used to hurt those who've hurt you.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29, 2014

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    I have no clue if you

    even know how much you hurt me without even saying a word. You will always be a challenge to me now and it sucks. I want to feel like I am his only one, but you take that feeling away sometimes every time I think of you and the past. You don't know what it feels like to be me...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F Dec 7, 2014

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    Dear Father.

    Somehow I just can't seem to get past what you have done. I've been told many times that I am lucky to have a father, but they don't know you. They don't even understand the pain that you put me through. You've apologized and claim that your life is miserable because of me not...
    queenisabella queenisabella 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    Dear Mr. B (my One and Only),

    Next month will be 1yr since you vanished from my life. I can honestly say that I still love you with the same intensity today as I did then. It never seems to fade or lessen no matter how much time passes. You will always own a piece of my heart. You hurt me. I replay our last...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Betray Me, I Still Have Love For You

    Dear E***, You've betrayed me, you did every thing wrong you could of done. For what reason? I took you in my home, I gave u shelter when your family did not want to. I sacrificed for you, I lost the love of my life on the path to guiding you to a good life, thinking that I can...
    YoungNready77 YoungNready77 22-25, M Jun 26, 2013

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    The Silver Lining To A Bad Beginning

    Not sure why my brain thinks I need to talk to you but I guess if I could say anything to you it would be that I'm sorry, I'm sorry things happened like they did. we had a wonderful friendship and I had no idea things would have ended up as they did. I never saw you as more then...
    mrKC mrKC 22-25, M Nov 21, 2013

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    Always.

    You were the first person I ever let in. I was a quiet girl before I met you, not to say I wasn't noticed, but I was at peace. Calm, collected, intelligent. I would never have hurt anyone, but you aimed to change that. You would insult me, smack me around until I finally defended...
    Malynne Malynne 22-25, F Nov 19, 2009

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    Dear Gay Ex-boyfriend,

    What the h*ll were you thinking?! Did you seriously think you could keep up your straight act with me forever? I guess it's partly my fault for not seeing what almost everyone else had seen in you. But I was in love. You're the first and only person I've ever loved. The love I...
    letsrunaway letsrunaway 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    To my Dearest Sister,

    Hey blumblo. I just wanted to say that I love you, and I havent said it enough to you! I love you so much, your easily my best friend, and I would take a bullet for you, any day. I know we dont always get along, but thats okay, were not suppose to. You are always there for me...
    Livefree12 Livefree12 16-17, F Jan 22, 2014

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    To the last man I dated - You told me

    that I never showed you how much I loved you. I gave you health insurance which you have never had *******. You said that my job was more important. You don't have a steady job so a chick had to work. You dragged me into therapy with the therapist you have been seeing for...
    Zeita75 Zeita75 36-40, F Mar 5, 2014

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    This Could Have Been A Venting Confession But I Didn't Want To Confess

    Dear ____________________ *names list of people*,Thank you so much for all the labels that you put on me. I appreciate it, a lot. *much sarcasm*You tried and tried. I was never more than what you defined me as. At least in your eyes. So thank you so much. I've been pealing them...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Dear Mom, Dear Dad,i

     I've wanted to say this to you my whole life. I thought maybe you might start to understand me as I opened up to you over time. But rather things got worse.   Dad, I don't know where to begin. The way you talk to me, rather scream at me, and watch me bawling as you...
    melissabee melissabee 18-21 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I hate that it's been 4 years

    and you are still with me, somehow, everyday. I can't honestly say that there is often a day that my mind doesn't poison itself with another thought having to do with you. I don't understand it. I haven't talked to you for 4 years and I never will again. I don't know if it's...
    usedtosing15 usedtosing15 22-25, F Jun 22, 2014

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    True Victory Is Victory Over Yourself

    You have failed. I have won. You thought you were crushing me, but you were giving me strength. You thought you were beating me, but you were teaching me to fight. You thought you were winning, but you were sowing the seeds of your own defeat. Every fist that struck me was a...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Dear Mom And Dad,

    I remember standing in the shower of my tiny studio apartment and letting the concept sink in. It was my 21st birthday and I'd just realized that I was  more mature than my parents.  The water was steaming hot but my entire body went ice cold. I was paying my...
    Koiponder Koiponder 46-50, F 15 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    the day I die, I will go to hell.

    I will wait for you, once you will be in the flames with me, I will rip you body apart over and over............
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Aug 12, 2014

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    Dear Bigoted Douche Bag,

    I spent too much of my life dedicated to you when all you planned on doing was leaving me behind once someone better came along. Not only did i lose a friend in you; i also lost my first love. You stole away my hope and my young dreams. You made my life hell, a miserable place I...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    What Is There To Say

    that I haven't already said to your faces? Several times, even. You never listened, and you always tried to turn it back on me. Is it easier for you if you are the victim and I am the villain? You have such an imagination. I'm done being used and treated like garbage. You...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Mar 13, 2011

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    dear world' even though you gave me hell.

    I refused to let u steal my happiness. You may have given me some lemons that were almost stale and rotten. However with the right experiences I've made myself some good ole lemonade. For all the pain you've cause d me....I thank u. it made me stronger:) sincerely, mufasa
    mufasa1905 mufasa1905 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2014

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    you haven't been honest with me,

    I thought you were a friend. You decided to just go away and left me in the cold while I was hoping you will be there. Everyday I waited for you and still waiting. you didn't want to see me again I know that, I wish you could have told me I wouldn't suffered.
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Apr 28, 2014

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    Yes. I have a lot of anger cos my crushes

    rejected me over years. I was rejected so many times , i cant remember. Im not even ugly, they were just not into me. I saw so many ugly women being happy with their partner and me allways alone. And ive been told im pretty. So now here it comes. My dear crushes, u took my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 Dec 4, 2014

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    I understand what you did,

    I am not angel too, I have my flaws. I don't feel anger or hatred, we don't need that. But I want you to know, I forgave you. It still hurt, it's not a nice feeling but I don't hate you.
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Sep 7, 2014

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    I know what I was asking was big-and you had

    every right to say no-but, there are two things that both **** me off and really depress me. One is, I would have done it for you. Without question. The second is, you didn't even talk about it with me. You talked about it with my sister. I'm not that mentally ill teenager that...
    Owlmaid Owlmaid 26-30, F May 19, 2014

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    When I will be in hell,

    I will drag you into the flames with me. I will tear off your heart from your chest to show you its blackness.
    voslung voslung 36-40, M Apr 2, 2014

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    you put me down but now look at me,

    I am better than yourself
    voslung voslung 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    Letter to My Dad

    Letter 1:dear dad..these are some lyrics from a song..could fit to everything i wanted to tell u.. Daughter to father, daughter to father I am broken but I am hoping Daughter to father, daughter to father I am crying, a part of me is dying and These are, these are The...
    annasangels annasangels 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    Letter # 1:: Daddy

      Dear Daddy,              I know that I've been a disappointment to you. I know that you would have probably perferred a boy, and instead you got stuck with me. I wish I could have shown you how much more I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    I Wish I Didn't Care

    I didn't want to care because I know you don't. Not the way I'd like you to. But you made me. And then you discard me. Just like that. Do you know how hard it is to see you and have you not saying Hi to me, not speaking to me? Not out of hatred, not out of anger but simply...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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