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I Want You to Write Letters to Those Who Have Hurt You

Everyone has someone who has hurt them, just write them, even though they may not see it, it will at least help you. 730 People

    Dear Mom Part 2

    Dear mom,We fought again this week, but that is to be expected. I don't know why I'm holding off on getting my license but I know that it's not for your benefit.Our last fight should have never happened. After all, I was trying to be the adult and try to stop you and dad from...
    lanacat lanacat 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    IF god existed this is what I would say to

    him: Sir with all due respect, it's not fair that you created beings with the capacity to get addicted to pleasure and feel pain because eventually it makes things feel shallow and empty, especially when we didn't ask to exist in this world, when we didn't have a choice in our...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I've been doing it for years

    and never sent a single one of them
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    Letter to My Dad

    Letter 1:dear dad..these are some lyrics from a song..could fit to everything i wanted to tell u.. Daughter to father, daughter to father I am broken but I am hoping Daughter to father, daughter to father I am crying, a part of me is dying and These are, these are The...
    annasangels annasangels 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    To B.G.

    I am writing this to you while knowing you will probably never read it. I just can’t keep everything inside me, so this is my form of release. It contains all the things I can’t speak to you because I don’t know how you would react. You may even think I am pathetic or just...
    Whofucinknows Whofucinknows 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    I Will Never Forgive And Forget

    To the girl who slept with my boyfriend even though she knew about me: I hate you for breaking us up for a brief, heartbreaking, time. I hate you for the guilt and shame you made him feel. I hate you for thinking you were better than me, better than our relationship. I hate you...
    BeautifulMayhem10 BeautifulMayhem10 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    A Letter To Me..

    a letter to me... Im sorry for the pain and hurt you had to go through, that your womanhood, and childhood was taken away...but we cant change the past you need to keep your head held high and make some goals and reach for your dreams, just know the pain is over and its time to...
    MissUnperfect MissUnperfect 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Hey Mr. Nelson, I don't know what happened,

    and why things had to end up the way they did because I honestly thought you knew me better than what you texted me the Saturday after I left. I had hoped that everything would end where we all still got along. When I asked you, "Do you want me to let the staff know?" You said...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F Feb 23

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    This Could Have Been A Venting Confession But I Didn't Want To Confess

    Dear ____________________ *names list of people*,Thank you so much for all the labels that you put on me. I appreciate it, a lot. *much sarcasm*You tried and tried. I was never more than what you defined me as. At least in your eyes. So thank you so much. I've been pealing them...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    True Victory Is Victory Over Yourself

    You have failed. I have won. You thought you were crushing me, but you were giving me strength. You thought you were beating me, but you were teaching me to fight. You thought you were winning, but you were sowing the seeds of your own defeat. Every fist that struck me was a...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    The Constant Pain

    For so many years I've gone through the whole fear of rejection and not being properly loved....it's because of you mom.myou focused more on doing drugs, drinking and your relationships opposed to being a mother to me. You kept me from my father and because of you I do not have a...
    Lost1986 Lost1986 26-30, F Aug 23, 2012

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    To my Dearest Sister,

    Hey blumblo. I just wanted to say that I love you, and I havent said it enough to you! I love you so much, your easily my best friend, and I would take a bullet for you, any day. I know we dont always get along, but thats okay, were not suppose to. You are always there for me...
    Livefree12 Livefree12 16-17, F Jan 22

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    Letter #1

      I don't want to ask why because I believe that things do happen for a reason, a lesson that needs to be learned. But I do have to ask why? What did I ever do to deserve being sexually abused? I didn't even know what sex was when it started. How can a person do those things...
    jrabbit1321 jrabbit1321 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    I was always no stranger to the rain.

    To sense it coming brought that old familiar want...a want to run. But for the life of me I never could find it in me...the ability to escape. Not once as a packed my bags with the few things I needed, The Holy scriptures, meat and drink, and with walking stick in hand could I...
    AmIReallyTellingUThis AmIReallyTellingUThis 36-40, M Feb 26

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    Letter #2::

    ****,   I was out with a friend, having fun, mom on vacation & enjoying my freedom. You & your friend just had to buy us a drink, then invite yourselves over. On the prowl I guess. Funny now, thinking back on how "nice" you were being to me. "The fat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    You Weren't There When I Needed You Most

    To my former best friend, I loved you. You were one of my best friends. I told you everything. I trusted you. When I was down you were the one I went to. You were among the first people I came out to about my sexuality and I was one of the first you came out to about yours...
    AngelWings19 AngelWings19 18-21, F Dec 3, 2012

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    A Step Toward Closure, But Not Quite

    To Chase,I might as well begin this way: I found out your real name and your LinkedIn bio.Your big shot high school jock pics provided a key.  Amazing what the internet can do......I haven't shared this with Lilsis, and likely won't.There's a whole lot more I'd want to add, but...
    2the4winds 2the4winds 26-30, F Jun 7, 2013

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    When I will be in hell,

    I will drag you into the flames with me. I will tear off your heart from your chest to show you its blackness.
    voslung voslung 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Dear Mr. B (my One and Only),

    Next month will be 1yr since you vanished from my life. I can honestly say that I still love you with the same intensity today as I did then. It never seems to fade or lessen no matter how much time passes. You will always own a piece of my heart. You hurt me. I replay our last...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    To Jackie

    You may not think what you said mattered. We're all teenagers, and teenagers say mean things all the time. But your words were like razors to me, and they haven't left my mind. When you were screaming those things to your friends about how much you hate "dykes", and how you want...
    Feb 8, 2013

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    Thanks

    I want to write to every bully that ever bullied me, but that would be too many for me to so I am going to write a letter on what I would say to them. Dear Bullies, I just first want to say Thanks. Thanks for making my life miserable. It makes me feel great that made me feel...
    superherojustin superherojustin 22-25, M 21 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    To Myself

    Dear Me: I blame you for all the pain I've kept inside. I blame YOU for pulling away from the people that do love you. I blame you for being weak. For not being strong enough to fight for your own happiness.
    ArabellaBaslini ArabellaBaslini 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    What have I done to you to make you want to see

    me suffer? I don't believe I have done anything....yes I got sick a lot and i had panic attacks almost every day. I didn't know how to deal with things. But I was only a kid. Kids shouldn't have to know how to deal with that kind of suffering. But it didn't mean it was the...
    IcyDragon IcyDragon 16-17, F a week ago

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    Help

    please can You good people out there, help me and my familly to get out of bankrupcy. i am 30 years old male from croatia. i have two kids, two girls, 2.5 yo and 6 months old. we dont have place to live cause bank took everything. every single dolar will help me. please and God...
    frxzagreb frxzagreb 31-35, M Nov 28, 2012

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    To the last man I dated - You told me

    that I never showed you how much I loved you. I gave you health insurance which you have never had *******. You said that my job was more important. You don't have a steady job so a chick had to work. You dragged me into therapy with the therapist you have been seeing for...
    Zeita75 Zeita75 36-40, F Mar 5

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    What Is There To Say

    that I haven't already said to your faces? Several times, even. You never listened, and you always tried to turn it back on me. Is it easier for you if you are the victim and I am the villain? You have such an imagination. I'm done being used and treated like garbage. You...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Mar 13, 2011

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    I Am Stronger Now

    You have failed in your many attempts to bring me down, deceive me as your friend. You thought you were hurting me, but in the end you were giving me strength. You taught me how to fight for myself and what I believe in, you taught me that lying and hurting people is something I...
    winterlace winterlace 46-50 2 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    I really wrote letters to those

    who hurt me. But i will told you it's no use! They will hurt you more. Better to do good to them. Don't take revenge.
    Patpat98 Patpat98 13-15, F Dec 16, 2013

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    Dear Mom...don't Come Back

    Dear mom, You never were who you said you were. And all this time I thought you were innocent. I protected you. Helped you. Listened to you. I just thought you were messed up. I resented the hurts, but I thought you'd never mean them on purpose. I though you were innocent. And I...
    anadude anadude 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    The Paternal One.

    Well, it's been six months since I've written you a letter.  Remember our correspondences when you were incarcerated??  Those letters meant the world to me.  I still have your cards and those letters.  I truly believed you were a changed man.  That God...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses May 12, 2009

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    A Prom Love Story Of Me And You

    I know we just met each other but honestly I like you a little bit too much, more than just like, I love you.We first met during our Cotillion Dance practice, I never knew you existed before. But there you were standing, talking with your friends. It was like love at first...
    obliviosus obliviosus 16-17, F Mar 1, 2012

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    Dear t.g.b I thank you

    for our son and the love we once shared.i thank you for choking me because I now know you don't love me anymore.**** you for hurting me,for telling me that I was nothing but a stupid hoe. You never listened to me. You thought about a female who loved you other then me. I had to...
    shelbyberry shelbyberry 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Ally; My Best Friend, My Worst Emeny

      My Sister- once upon a time my best friend;             It’s been years since I’ve considered you my best friend. But once upon a time ago I did. I recall one warm summer night when...
    CatastropheApprime CatastropheApprime 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    Dear Mom, Dear Dad,i

     I've wanted to say this to you my whole life. I thought maybe you might start to understand me as I opened up to you over time. But rather things got worse.   Dad, I don't know where to begin. The way you talk to me, rather scream at me, and watch me bawling as you...
    melissabee melissabee 18-21 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I would never dare to send this

    but I wrote it a while ago. Since I vent on here I will post it and hopefully if any of you are in a similar situation with your dad that it would help you. Dad, I don't think you realize how much you mean to me. You mean so much to me that it hurts. I push you away because I...
    aly5977 aly5977 13-15, F Feb 24

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    Dear __________

    You beg me and plead me not to leave you. You promise you'll change. You won't be that guy who leaves me in my room crying away the pain while you play a video game. You will get a job, and provide for our daughter. You tell me how much you want me, and need me around. Do you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2009

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    My Undying Love for my Father...

    Dear Scum, You aren't even worthy for me to mention your name. I'm giving scum a bad name just by calling you that. You ruined my life. I gave everything I had to you. I trusted you like a daughter is supposed to. You took everything for granted. You destroyed everything I ever...
    BelievingButterfly BelievingButterfly 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    Dear Alisa,

    I am sorry you found popularity more important then our friendship.
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F May 2, 2011

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    Not Burying Anymore

    You were the ones who taught me to pull back. You were the ones who taught me how to fade into the background. Twenty something years later I'm not pushing this back any more.You know what. I was eight. Eight. A freaking little kid. It didn't matter that years later you...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    A letter to my dad: Since you don't let me talk

    because you "never want me to raise my voice", I guess I will write this to you. It is sad that when I'm trying to dig deep and understand people by watching documentaries about why they do what they do, you say, "Don't watch that or you may become a murderer yourself." That...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Dear Gay Ex-boyfriend,

    What the h*ll were you thinking?! Did you seriously think you could keep up your straight act with me forever? I guess it's partly my fault for not seeing what almost everyone else had seen in you. But I was in love. You're the first and only person I've ever loved. The love I...
    letsrunaway letsrunaway 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Letter # 1:: Daddy

      Dear Daddy,              I know that I've been a disappointment to you. I know that you would have probably perferred a boy, and instead you got stuck with me. I wish I could have shown you how much more I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    Letter #2

      You only did what you had to. We, both want more, but you are not able to give it. I sometimes think I might be in love with the fantasy, but I really don't think so. I love you the way you are, good, bad and ugly. By ignoring me and not acknowledging me as even a friend...
    jrabbit1321 jrabbit1321 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    I Wish I Didn't Care

    I didn't want to care because I know you don't. Not the way I'd like you to. But you made me. And then you discard me. Just like that. Do you know how hard it is to see you and have you not saying Hi to me, not speaking to me? Not out of hatred, not out of anger but simply...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    The Silver Lining To A Bad Beginning

    Not sure why my brain thinks I need to talk to you but I guess if I could say anything to you it would be that I'm sorry, I'm sorry things happened like they did. we had a wonderful friendship and I had no idea things would have ended up as they did. I never saw you as more then...
    mrKC mrKC 22-25, M Nov 21, 2013

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    Always.

    You were the first person I ever let in. I was a quiet girl before I met you, not to say I wasn't noticed, but I was at peace. Calm, collected, intelligent. I would never have hurt anyone, but you aimed to change that. You would insult me, smack me around until I finally defended...
    Malynne Malynne 22-25, F Nov 19, 2009

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    Dear Doctor, I'm withholding your name.

    It's not for your sake, it's for mine. Privacy laws are complicated and I don't deserve to be hurt more by you. You had no right to treat me like you did. The moment you found out I had a mental illness, you started looking at me with disdain and didn't believe what I said. You...
    Owlmaid Owlmaid 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Who Are You?

    You tore my heart out. I had many great years with you, you told me you loved me. You told me you would stay. You words for "forever". Out of the gloomy sky's you left me, hopeless, resentful, hateful and lonely. I gave you everything, I loved you unconditionally, apparently you...
    YoungNready77 YoungNready77 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    No More Dwelling

    I want to let the people that have hurt me know how they hurt me, why I shut you out, why I have nothing to do with you. I want all that to change for now on, I want to let go of all the grudges that I have held on to for so long, its time to make amends with the past and the...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    My Brother's Kidnappers

    You are all dead now, but I would bring you back to life so I could inflict as much pain as humanly possible on you. As gentle and compassionate a person as I am, someone who is sickened by violence, I would show no mercy. There is no way you could ever suffer enough to satisfy...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Dear Little Bro

    I know how much you say you hate me but I want you to know when I tell you that I love you I mean it, I'm not doing it just to annoy you. Sure, brothers and sisters argue and fight, it's a way of life but even though sometimes your words hurt, I forgive you.
    B33z B33z 13-15, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Betray Me, I Still Have Love For You

    Dear E***, You've betrayed me, you did every thing wrong you could of done. For what reason? I took you in my home, I gave u shelter when your family did not want to. I sacrificed for you, I lost the love of my life on the path to guiding you to a good life, thinking that I can...
    YoungNready77 YoungNready77 22-25, M Jun 26, 2013

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    Dear Mom And Dad,

    I remember standing in the shower of my tiny studio apartment and letting the concept sink in. It was my 21st birthday and I'd just realized that I was  more mature than my parents.  The water was steaming hot but my entire body went ice cold. I was paying my...
    Koiponder Koiponder 46-50, F 16 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Dear Father.

    Somehow I just can't seem to get past what you have done. I've been told many times that I am lucky to have a father, but they don't know you. They don't even understand the pain that you put me through. You've apologized and claim that your life is miserable because of me not...
    queenisabella queenisabella 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    It's not easy but... It's worth it!!! Do yourself a favor and let go of the pain caused by those suckers!
    mamachi mamachi 26-30, F Apr 4

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    It seems to be more meaningful to me. I think it's fun to read handwritten letters. I always enjoyed writing letters.
    Chirogymnast Chirogymnast 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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