I Want You to Write Letters to Those Who Have Hurt You

Everyone has someone who has hurt them, just write them, even though they may not see it, it will at least help you. 749 People

    The Paternal One.

    Well, it's been six months since I've written you a letter.  Remember our correspondences when you were incarcerated??  Those letters meant the world to me.  I still have your cards and those letters.  I truly believed you were a changed man.  That God...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2009

    Dear School

    I wonder If you still remember me. I wonder if you think about me every day like I think about you. You probably haven't given my life a second thought. I'm still scared that I'll run into you in the street. Would you recognise me? The one with FREAK stamped on their forehead...
    newmurderer newmurderer
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2010

    Dear Doctor, I'm withholding your name.

    It's not for your sake, it's for mine. Privacy laws are complicated and I don't deserve to be hurt more by you. You had no right to treat me like you did. The moment you found out I had a mental illness, you started looking at me with disdain and didn't believe what I said. You...
    Owlmaid Owlmaid
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2014

    dear world' even though you gave me hell.

    I refused to let u steal my happiness. You may have given me some lemons that were almost stale and rotten. However with the right experiences I've made myself some good ole lemonade. For all the pain you've cause d me....I thank u. it made me stronger:) sincerely, mufasa
    mufasa1905 mufasa1905
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 16, 2014

    I was always no stranger to the rain.

    To sense it coming brought that old familiar want...a want to run. But for the life of me I never could find it in me...the ability to escape. Not once as a packed my bags with the few things I needed, The Holy scriptures, meat and drink, and with walking stick in hand could I...
    AmIReallyTellingUThis AmIReallyTellingUThis
    41-45, M
    Feb 26, 2014

    I know what I was asking was big-and you had

    every right to say no-but, there are two things that both **** me off and really depress me. One is, I would have done it for you. Without question. The second is, you didn't even talk about it with me. You talked about it with my sister. I'm not that mentally ill teenager that...
    Owlmaid Owlmaid
    26-30, F
    May 19, 2014


    I want to write to every bully that ever bullied me, but that would be too many for me to so I am going to write a letter on what I would say to them. Dear Bullies, I just first want to say Thanks. Thanks for making my life miserable. It makes me feel great that made me feel...
    superherojustin superherojustin
    22-25, M
    17 Responses Aug 5, 2012

    Dear Gay Ex-boyfriend,

    What the h*ll were you thinking?! Did you seriously think you could keep up your straight act with me forever? I guess it's partly my fault for not seeing what almost everyone else had seen in you. But I was in love. You're the first and only person I've ever loved. The love I...
    letsrunaway letsrunaway
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

    Dear me, You are so unfair to yourself.

    How can you possibly get yourself in so deep? Everyday you wake up and go through the same routine of avoiding the mirror. I wish you could love yourself and fully embrace who you are. You have hurt me so much that honestly just the thought makes me cry. You think about everyday...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 2, 2014

    Dear Alisa,

    I am sorry you found popularity more important then our friendship.
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011
    18-21, F
    May 2, 2011

    To Jackie

    You may not think what you said mattered. We're all teenagers, and teenagers say mean things all the time. But your words were like razors to me, and they haven't left my mind. When you were screaming those things to your friends about how much you hate "dykes", and how you want...
    Feb 8, 2013

    you put me down but now look at me,

    I am better than yourself
    voslung voslung
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2014

    I Wish I Didn't Care

    I didn't want to care because I know you don't. Not the way I'd like you to. But you made me. And then you discard me. Just like that. Do you know how hard it is to see you and have you not saying Hi to me, not speaking to me? Not out of hatred, not out of anger but simply...
    june1999 june1999
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    I hate that it's been 4 years

    and you are still with me, somehow, everyday. I can't honestly say that there is often a day that my mind doesn't poison itself with another thought having to do with you. I don't understand it. I haven't talked to you for 4 years and I never will again. I don't know if it's...
    usedtosing15 usedtosing15
    26-30, F
    Jun 22, 2014

    My Undying Love for my Father...

    Dear Scum, You aren't even worthy for me to mention your name. I'm giving scum a bad name just by calling you that. You ruined my life. I gave everything I had to you. I trusted you like a daughter is supposed to. You took everything for granted. You destroyed everything I ever...
    BelievingButterfly BelievingButterfly
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2013

    Dear Bigoted Douche Bag,

    I spent too much of my life dedicated to you when all you planned on doing was leaving me behind once someone better came along. Not only did i lose a friend in you; i also lost my first love. You stole away my hope and my young dreams. You made my life hell, a miserable place I...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2011

    Letter #2::

    ****,   I was out with a friend, having fun, mom on vacation & enjoying my freedom. You & your friend just had to buy us a drink, then invite yourselves over. On the prowl I guess. Funny now, thinking back on how "nice" you were being to me. "The fat...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    Letter # 1:: Daddy

      Dear Daddy,              I know that I've been a disappointment to you. I know that you would have probably perferred a boy, and instead you got stuck with me. I wish I could have shown you how much more I...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Mar 22, 2009

    A Letter To Me..

    a letter to me... Im sorry for the pain and hurt you had to go through, that your womanhood, and childhood was taken away...but we cant change the past you need to keep your head held high and make some goals and reach for your dreams, just know the pain is over and its time to...
    MissUnperfect MissUnperfect
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 15, 2011

    Dear Father.

    Somehow I just can't seem to get past what you have done. I've been told many times that I am lucky to have a father, but they don't know you. They don't even understand the pain that you put me through. You've apologized and claim that your life is miserable because of me not...
    queenisabella queenisabella
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2009

    To my Dearest Sister,

    Hey blumblo. I just wanted to say that I love you, and I havent said it enough to you! I love you so much, your easily my best friend, and I would take a bullet for you, any day. I know we dont always get along, but thats okay, were not suppose to. You are always there for me...
    Livefree12 Livefree12
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    True Victory Is Victory Over Yourself

    You have failed. I have won. You thought you were crushing me, but you were giving me strength. You thought you were beating me, but you were teaching me to fight. You thought you were winning, but you were sowing the seeds of your own defeat. Every fist that struck me was a...
    Ketsan Ketsan
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    Dear Mr. B (my One and Only),

    Next month will be 1yr since you vanished from my life. I can honestly say that I still love you with the same intensity today as I did then. It never seems to fade or lessen no matter how much time passes. You will always own a piece of my heart. You hurt me. I replay our last...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

    I understand what you did,

    I am not angel too, I have my flaws. I don't feel anger or hatred, we don't need that. But I want you to know, I forgave you. It still hurt, it's not a nice feeling but I don't hate you.
    voslung voslung
    36-40, M
    Sep 7, 2014

    I know in your eyes, I did the most

    unimaginable, unforgivable thing. I am human. I did what I did to forget all the hurt, disappointment, and to keep from having horrible scenarios pop in to my head. I did it to survive. I wanted you to feel the hurt and misery i felt. I was there during your mother's passing. I...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 21, 2015

    The Silver Lining To A Bad Beginning

    Not sure why my brain thinks I need to talk to you but I guess if I could say anything to you it would be that I'm sorry, I'm sorry things happened like they did. we had a wonderful friendship and I had no idea things would have ended up as they did. I never saw you as more then...
    mrKC mrKC
    26-30, M
    Nov 21, 2013

    the day I die, I will go to hell.

    I will wait for you, once you will be in the flames with me, I will rip you body apart over and over............
    voslung voslung
    36-40, M
    Aug 12, 2014

    What have I done to you to make you want to see

    me suffer? I don't believe I have done anything....yes I got sick a lot and i had panic attacks almost every day. I didn't know how to deal with things. But I was only a kid. Kids shouldn't have to know how to deal with that kind of suffering. But it didn't mean it was the...
    TheIceDragonReturns TheIceDragonReturns
    Apr 15, 2014

    Ally; My Best Friend, My Worst Emeny

      My Sister- once upon a time my best friend;             It’s been years since I’ve considered you my best friend. But once upon a time ago I did. I recall one warm summer night when...
    CatastropheApprime CatastropheApprime
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2009

    To the last man I dated - You told me

    that I never showed you how much I loved you. I gave you health insurance which you have never had *******. You said that my job was more important. You don't have a steady job so a chick had to work. You dragged me into therapy with the therapist you have been seeing for...
    Zeita75 Zeita75
    41-45, F
    Mar 5, 2014

    Dear __________

    You beg me and plead me not to leave you. You promise you'll change. You won't be that guy who leaves me in my room crying away the pain while you play a video game. You will get a job, and provide for our daughter. You tell me how much you want me, and need me around. Do you...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 23, 2009

    I'd probably write this letter to my damn self.

    No one has hurt me like I have hurt me.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    May 21, 2014

    "Some people are braver,

    brighter and more beautiful than they thought they are. Some people are more hurt, hopeless and unhappy than they are supposed to be. Some people could not have the guts to help them. But I do." -@ShineLife on ask.fm
    JudyAnneServantes JudyAnneServantes
    18-21, F
    May 19, 2014

    Betray Me, I Still Have Love For You

    Dear E***, You've betrayed me, you did every thing wrong you could of done. For what reason? I took you in my home, I gave u shelter when your family did not want to. I sacrificed for you, I lost the love of my life on the path to guiding you to a good life, thinking that I can...
    YoungNready77 YoungNready77
    22-25, M
    Jun 26, 2013

    I have no clue if you

    even know how much you hurt me without even saying a word. You will always be a challenge to me now and it sucks. I want to feel like I am his only one, but you take that feeling away sometimes every time I think of you and the past. You don't know what it feels like to be me...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd
    22-25, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    This Could Have Been A Venting Confession But I Didn't Want To Confess

    Dear ____________________ *names list of people*,Thank you so much for all the labels that you put on me. I appreciate it, a lot. *much sarcasm*You tried and tried. I was never more than what you defined me as. At least in your eyes. So thank you so much. I've been pealing them...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

    Dear Mischa

    I know it's been long since we even smiled at each other... Life haven't been so kind on us. We both experienced the same thing at different times, although it's too late, but I feel the same now! Although you can back out of it, but I'm stuck because I'm a guy and NOW I have to...
    WannaKissU WannaKissU
    31-35, M
    Sep 22, 2013

    Never Friends

    Where do I begin? I trusted you. You were my chosen sister, one that wasn't designed by nature but one I selected into my space. If I had only known how deceptive you were, are and could be, I would've never allowed myself to trust you or befriend you. I believed what you...
    PhybieRaslen PhybieRaslen
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2011

    Not Burying Anymore

    You were the ones who taught me to pull back. You were the ones who taught me how to fade into the background. Twenty something years later I'm not pushing this back any more.You know what. I was eight. Eight. A freaking little kid. It didn't matter that years later you...
    ScarletAura ScarletAura
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2011

    You think it's made of glass.

    You love to break it even though there's a soft spot in it for you. It's called a heart. Kk?
    deleted deleted
    Jan 5, 2015


    You were the first person I ever let in. I was a quiet girl before I met you, not to say I wasn't noticed, but I was at peace. Calm, collected, intelligent. I would never have hurt anyone, but you aimed to change that. You would insult me, smack me around until I finally defended...
    Malynne Malynne
    22-25, F
    Nov 19, 2009

    When I will be in hell,

    I will drag you into the flames with me. I will tear off your heart from your chest to show you its blackness.
    voslung voslung
    36-40, M
    Apr 2, 2014

    you haven't been honest with me,

    I thought you were a friend. You decided to just go away and left me in the cold while I was hoping you will be there. Everyday I waited for you and still waiting. you didn't want to see me again I know that, I wish you could have told me I wouldn't suffered.
    voslung voslung
    36-40, M
    Apr 28, 2014

    Dear Mom And Dad,

    I remember standing in the shower of my tiny studio apartment and letting the concept sink in. It was my 21st birthday and I'd just realized that I was  more mature than my parents.  The water was steaming hot but my entire body went ice cold. I was paying my...
    Koiponder Koiponder
    46-50, F
    15 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    I've been doing it for years

    and never sent a single one of them
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    I don't write letters to those

    who have hurt me, I have to say. I strategise how I get my own back without using physical violence but emotional shattering pictures or people they know without them even knowing they are being used to hurt those who've hurt you.
    kamachulu kamachulu
    26-30, M
    Jul 29, 2014

    Letter #2

      You only did what you had to. We, both want more, but you are not able to give it. I sometimes think I might be in love with the fantasy, but I really don't think so. I love you the way you are, good, bad and ugly. By ignoring me and not acknowledging me as even a friend...
    jrabbit1321 jrabbit1321
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2009

    I really wrote letters to those

    who hurt me. But i will told you it's no use! They will hurt you more. Better to do good to them. Don't take revenge.
    Patpat98 Patpat98
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2013

    My Brother's Kidnappers

    You are all dead now, but I would bring you back to life so I could inflict as much pain as humanly possible on you. As gentle and compassionate a person as I am, someone who is sickened by violence, I would show no mercy. There is no way you could ever suffer enough to satisfy...
    lauren71 lauren71
    41-45, F
    Sep 22, 2013

    My Body "mine"

    41-45, F
    Sep 24, 2011

    Dear female gender: You have put me through

    heartache and pain and not once did you bat an eye. Now as a result, instead of respecting your gender, I have nothing but contempt, hostility, and distrust towards it. You love to play the victim because of the attention it gives you but you're just as much the villain and the...
    SuperheroFanboy SuperheroFanboy
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I Will Never Forgive And Forget

    To the girl who slept with my boyfriend even though she knew about me: I hate you for breaking us up for a brief, heartbreaking, time. I hate you for the guilt and shame you made him feel. I hate you for thinking you were better than me, better than our relationship. I hate you...
    BeautifulMayhem10 BeautifulMayhem10
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

    Dear Mom, Dear Dad,i

     I've wanted to say this to you my whole life. I thought maybe you might start to understand me as I opened up to you over time. But rather things got worse.   Dad, I don't know where to begin. The way you talk to me, rather scream at me, and watch me bawling as you...
    melissabee melissabee
    1 Response Nov 29, 2009

    I Am Stronger Now

    You have failed in your many attempts to bring me down, deceive me as your friend. You thought you were hurting me, but in the end you were giving me strength. You taught me how to fight for myself and what I believe in, you taught me that lying and hurting people is something I...
    winterlace winterlace
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2011

    I let everyone see when I'm on EP

    because if I hide myself then I have something to hide Plus I feel like it makes me a lier When I say I DON'T LIE So I have no reason to hide
    doc63caring doc63caring
    66-70, M
    Aug 22, 2015
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