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I Was a Battered Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 34 People

    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    I am an independent who has recently been disowned by my "recently religious" parents for not participating in the belief system. It isn't that I don't respect the belief system...
    VVoid VVoid 26-30 1 Response Apr 16

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    I am a married man, who has been having an affair with a married woman for 3 years. I am not leaving my wife, and nor is she leaving her husband. Neither one of us are IN love with...
    ChurchKei ChurchKei 31-35 Apr 15

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    This week we had a guest, my wife "little cousin". He's 22 right now, but my wife was her babysitter many times in her teens, so for her, he's still a baby. She told me she took...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 18 Responses Apr 24

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    As you know, I found some pics of my wife in her cell... they were sent by his coworkers. I finally talk to her and she told me she was fuc**d several time that night before I...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 23 Responses Apr 17

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    Hmm not sure if I love it but it's a lot better than sharing a house with a cold woman. For the first few years of our marriage I just used my wife for sex and she let me thinking...
    mike541 mike541 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    When I first met my wife, she wore the dresses and occasionally pantyhose. Over the years though, it became clear that she was the more dominant spouse. Her career combined with...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I. Mutual duties of husband and wife. 1. The husband and wife owe each other love, since marriage is principally a union of heart and affection. The qualities of this love are: (a...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    It happened again last night. I remember going through this as an adolescent. It led to many fears and unusual behaviors that still remain with me. In this story, I will share my...
    EarthCreature EarthCreature 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 25

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    We were on holiday in France mid summer and very hot. We had a hired chalet in the Dordogne with a sky tv. Although it advertised English TV the previous hirers had moved the dish...
    crims12 crims12 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been married twice and when my first wife and I were together we had a very varied sex life .Over the road from us was a wood where people took their dogs and a lot of the...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 6

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    My name is Kedra..I'm a disciplined wife...I admit I deserve it and I need it.My husband is very strict with me and our twin daughters age 2 and 6 ur old daughter..We have a 5 ur...
    Kedra86 Kedra86 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 10

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    I had arrange a sensual massage for my wife about 6 months ago when we had spent the weekend in Dallas. It was very erotic watching my wife get a massage by another man who was...
    cgris71 cgris71 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I met my wife 5 years ago. The first 2 were amazing and I proposed. Since I have been married my wife has become a lazy joke. She quit her job , decided to do some course on...
    Dimmy1981 Dimmy1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Yesterday I got told at my job, that I really love, that probably I'll have to quit soon, because of my impulsive emotional behaviour, which doesn't come in handy when you're a...
    NHKK NHKK 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    My wife flirted with her older boss in the office. He was Regional and visited a couple of times a week. I instinctively knew the days he would be visiting depending on what my...
    Irenic Irenic 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Yesterday my wife and I went to the coffee shop where the girl I like frequents. She was disappointed we didn't see her. So I've won my wife around to me having something with this...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19

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    As you know, my wife's cousin has been home several days. Initially it was going the weekend, but then he told us if he could stay more days as he felt very comfortable with us and...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 26

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    Well here it is....I was married 17 years my husband who I was very much in love with took drugs over me he left me a year ago last Jan .I wasn't handling it well my sister was on...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    So my wife and I have been married for 2 years in june, and lived together for a total of 8 years. We have a 3 year old son and just purchased our first home. Things are great to...
    wheelman82 wheelman82 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 16

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    My wife has just had the most amazing ****** after I've punished her about telling her I'm so attracted to that 22 year old that complimented me. I told her I want to have her as...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 17

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    My wife Bonnie passed away from a very rapid form of cancer 7 months ago, Sept.23rd 2014, after being diagnosed only 52 days earlier. As devastating as her death was at the time...
    ronzbee ronzbee 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    We live in England. I was made redundant and re-trained as a delivery man and fitter for an up-market furniture company. My training was fine. I could assemble and fit anything...
    coylekevin103 coylekevin103 46-50 9 Responses Apr 21

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    my wife is getting far more comfortable with the concept of being shared. she has actually taken lead on flirting and being very aggressive in her talk with others. she went to...
    2ndtry01 2ndtry01 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 23

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    I have to say I was first shocked to fine out my wife was cheating. I think I was also lucky. Soon after marrying, she confided that her previous bfs had accused her of cheating...
    det21865 det21865 46-50 Apr 25

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    I am a public speaker. I have done presentations on the following The Kennedy Assassination Watergate The Lindbergh Kidnapping The Super Bowl etc. I came up with an idea. I...
    frankred frankred 46-50 Apr 25

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    My wife and I have been together for 2 years. When we first got married she was 110 lbs. She's 5"3. During the first year we'd go to the gym all the time together. Recently she had...
    frankyo frankyo 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Last night my wife and I went to bed around 10:00ish. Around 2am I was restless and cold. She asked me what was wrong and I said I'm cold. She gave me a blanket. What a wonderful...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 11

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