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I Was a Battered Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 34 People

    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    The broom handle cut the air and landed across my back knocking the wind out of me. Deliberately tripped and sent to my knees I collapsed flat on my face,but dared not roll over. I...
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    Hi everybody, hope all you agree with me how difficult to hide feminism being male. This is a real incident how I was caught unaware by my wife with my anklets on. After my...
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    Five years ago I married the love of my life. I can still recall the exact moment I first saw her as if it were yesterday. As I entered the doors of our on campus coffee shop my...
    WorkingOnIt WorkingOnIt 18-21, M 1 Response May 17

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    Sad but true. After 30+ years my secret is out. I left my personal gmail account open on the computer. Before bed last night she looked at the computer, glanced at my email and...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 22 Responses 3 days ago

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    Both me and my son have been abducted. They came in my house and we walked right through the wall. i remember having a orange blindfold...it covered most of my vision but i was...
    RECON88M RECON88M 51-55, M May 8

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    I'm a pastor's wife. Just recently a woman came to our church, who just recently received her ministers lic. She is very sweet, loves the Lord, and has a burning passion to help...
    DAJ1 DAJ1 56-60, F 1 Response May 5

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    The first thing I did when I joined experienceproject was look at the stories of people leaving their wives and kids, because that's what I did. Most of the stories were about some...
    anoniMitty anoniMitty 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    I was thinking and I wanted to share with you one of my daydreams, i'll try to make it as realistic as possible. My perfect day is in the future about 12 years from now. I am a 33...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M May 15

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    So my wife's weight seems to be slowly creeping up still but she seems to be somewhat in denial. She will often just say she is "really healthy" meaning she is not a stick or that...
    nankdatank nankdatank 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    As I said I was the controller in my marriage, The operational word in this sentence is "was". Now everything is out of my control and my husband is ruling everything with an iron...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F May 9

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    Missing you comes in waves. Sometimes it's bearable and I can deal with it, other times it's like I can't find my way out of this pit of despair. You've been gone 12 days and I...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F 4 Responses May 8

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    Nude Model Set Up My wife has no problem being naked in front of others, never has but on this day I finally got to see her blush. After meeting with a friend who runs an art...
    MJKR700 MJKR700 36-40, M 2 Responses May 9

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    We were out in Peterborough UK at Christmas. Last bar of the night, pretty packed. My wife was backed up to a group of four guys at the bar. She leaned into me to tell me her...
    SleepingWifeUK SleepingWifeUK 31-35, M 3 Responses May 17

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    Hey, we needed another story up here. So I was caught wearing pantyhose. Now first off I do love to wear them. If I lived in a colder climate I would wear them all winter long as...
    cdLisas cdLisas 56-60, T 2 Responses May 22

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    Spent 2 straight days painting the rooms of the house with the wife. No fights, just painting, music and food with my best friend....my wife.
    ncfootguy ncfootguy 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4

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    Question: do any of you women feel like a failure once it ends? Almost like he's sitting back with his wife laughing at how stupid i was for believing his lies? My Ex-mm and his...
    Lostinlove41 Lostinlove41 41-45, F 10 Responses May 5

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    I had been through a lot with him. We were pretty damaged as teenagers so we bonded over the shared pain. We were close like family. 12 years ago, I found out he had slept with my...
    Etdos Etdos 41-45, M 2 Responses May 8

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    my wife just love's sissifing me I am normally forced to wear a pink training bra pink Barbie doll dress a pink size 4 little girls panties pink ballerina shoes and made to hold my...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 2 Responses May 8

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    This morning I woke up to my step son yelling at my wife. When I told him to stop the attitude and be more respectful to his mother, he runs to her and says I'm mean to him. Then...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    I actually have both a wife and a husband my wife is actually my adoptive black sister my husband is also black and they are going to help me become a black woman because I begged...
    sexkittenmax sexkittenmax 18-21, T 2 Responses May 11

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    On Monday I've booked an appointment where that nice young lady who flirted with me works. I've told my wife she is coming with me and must dress up. I can't wait for my wife to...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    Fellas! The wife tells me theres a book on amazon called Vanessa's Confessions. It's about husband who likes to hear about his wife's sexual past during sex. She recently...
    hardbernard hardbernard 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    I lost my wife to cancer, today making it 2years, i just can't wait to be with her again, my whole world crushed with her, now I'm let with pieces. My whole life became a shadow...
    Kisonas Kisonas 41-45, M 1 Response May 19

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    I'm planning another trip to Cancun with my wife in July. I'm buying my wife a couple of sheer bikinis. Like I said in my other post, she only does things like that when she is...
    Guyvaca Guyvaca 41-45, M 2 Responses May 19

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    My wife and I were monogamous for twelve years before I allowed her to be pleased and pampered by her supervisor, a grey haired gentleman. It was definitely a great thing for us...
    Queenslave Queenslave 36-40, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Role play - everyone's favourite? I am always buying different outfits for my wife. She loves to wear them and I love to see her in them. Before we go on holiday I always like to...
    Larryloud Larryloud 41-45, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok, so I've enjoyed the thought for a while and recently my wife agreed to do some very basic web cam stuff with random guys. She doesn't show anything really, just teasing. I did...
    laughinme laughinme 31-35, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    well my wife makes killer cash so //i am the house ***** i cook clean and do the wash and play the guitar and the ps4 no lye .but i do get board sometimes
    twin0516 twin0516 46-50, M 1 Response May 1