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I Was a Battered Wife

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    it was a beautiful sight watching her go down on this spanish guy
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    So. Much going on in my life. I had lost my home. My son(22) was also homeless. He got in with a friend so he was ok. Me? I had to get up to Norfolk to family! Having ensured my...
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    Evil Wife's failed IVF Please refer to my earlier stories. After much pressure from my wife and advice of my parents, I decided to get IVF treatment for my wife. I thought having...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Hi. This won't be an easy one. I'm 37 years old, and have been married for over 16 years. My wife and I have three girls, 16, 12 and 10. I have not been a loyal husband, but up...
    Betruetoyourpath Betruetoyourpath 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    Please refer to my earlier stories. This Sunday my evil wife had a tiff with me on the same issue of going for another IVF and while quarreling with me she held me by my collar...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M Jan 20

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    I love my wife for many reasons. Do we struggle, yes often, and I have to work very hard to be a loving husband sometimes but isn;t that what marriage is about. It is so...
    Nigel1224 Nigel1224 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Sometimes I hate being a second wife. I know for a fact that his mother likes his first wife better, she has told me that his first wife is beautiful and I'm ugly. She even...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    she expected me to marry her and I did... because I really do love her more than anything. she expected us to move in to her mother's house and we did because I believed in her...
    Dioca Dioca 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I just got caught. Really caught by my wife! This morning my wife had to go out and I arranged to follow on and meet her in an hour. This was a perfect opportunity to put on some...
    Prettyjennifer2004 Prettyjennifer2004 51-55, M 11 Responses Jan 11

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    Just seen a lady climbing on a chair to clean her second-storey window. It was almost dark and I was on the pavement across the road. As I got closer, I looked up hoping to see...
    WalterFM WalterFM 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    i had drunk with my friend in my house.my wife also join with us.later night she was dancing with my friends.i also enjoyed show.she had slept with my friends in our bed room.in...
    roxdemon roxdemon 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    For a crossdresser its a absolute win situation when a wife supports or even accept the idea of husband to dress in opposite sex attire. The feeling of wearing a new female cloth...
    Sareelover2015 Sareelover2015 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 20

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    Back when we first met, my wife took a job as a waitress in a Mexican restaurant. Her uniform was sexy as hell, short red skirt and black tights. One of her co workers wore...
    Garraway Garraway 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I travel a lot and am on a trip now. while sitting at the bar a man already drunk sits next to me and says " take my advise and never get married" I tell him that I am, and he...
    Matthews6288 Matthews6288 31-35, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok where to begin.... I've been dating my now Bf for almost 2 yrs now. At the beginning of our relationship he was this amazing smart funny guy who wanted to have kids and talked...
    lyfe2015 lyfe2015 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was asked to pose nude for my neighbour as a 80th birthday present for him. I gave it a lot of thought but eventually agreed.My husband was there at the start then left us when...
    ukwife47 ukwife47 46-50, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I like my wife cheating on me in the beginning and later I feel jealous. I also find myself insecure and started to love my wife more and more.
    dbmh72 dbmh72 36-40 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I have been married for 14 years. When I married, it was infatuation, not love. I did not know the difference then, even though I was 23 then and had been previously married...
    KINDSPIRIT76 KINDSPIRIT76 36-40, T 1 Response Jan 9

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    About 3/4 years ago when I was 13/14 (underage and a minor) I was forced to send pictures to a guy who was 26 he had a fake picture and made a fake account who he called his...
    lela201465 lela201465 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am in the same situation as you are. I was with my MM for over 3 years and has a 3 year old daughter. He told me he would leave his wife when his daughter was a year old. He...
    Widow68 Widow68 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    It's been 3 weeks since I've seen/been with my MM. I know it was the whole Holidays, his rehearsals, his family being over. I went to his Christmas service just to see him even...
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    This morning, I was reminded that my wife thinks of me as her sissy maid again. While in the kitchen, her and I were having a conversation. But at some point, she became fed up...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Probably more then she even realizes. We've been through so much together, and to be honest I've put the woman through some emotional hell. Our first few years together were...
    ModernOctopus ModernOctopus 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    it's been almost two months since my MM went back to his wife. I have started therapy. which I highly recommend to every woman that has ever suffered through the highs and lows of...
    justagirl44 justagirl44 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 10

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    A couple of years ago my wife found out that she had a half brother she never knew about. He is about twenty years younger than her. Since she found him they have been keeping in...
    Hammerhead1949 Hammerhead1949 61-65, M 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I think I am ready, after 25 years of marriage, to show my wife that special act of love she has so patiently asked for all these years. It is a small thing, but it just seemed to...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires 51-55, M 17 Responses Jan 16

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    I post this pic a couple of days ago but I didn't tell the story behind it.This is how my wife goes to work, she's kind of shy for sex itself, but not for dressing sexy and tight.I...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've never truly loved my wife, nor do we have great sexual chemistry, but our relationship is otherwise very open and honest. I was mildly depressed getting into it almost a...
    Haplava Haplava 26-30, M Dec 31, 2014

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    Hi I know I post mostly stupid post but this one is for a wife on her that thinks her husband might be a sissy So guys be truthful and tell her... Do sissies want to wear...
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    any marine wives willing to give me some advice? my marine and I have talked about marriage a lot. he's very independent which is what i love most about him, so he's very aware...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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