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I Was a Battered Wife

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    When I first met him he was fantastic, we began dating very quickly everything was good. When I moved in things changed dramatically. I wasn't allowed to go anywhere not even to...
    missjulia123 missjulia123 22-25, F Dec 8

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    Before we get married, we have had chances to meet each other thrice or four time between engagement and wedding. She shared so many things about her and her life and her family...
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    My wife is considering having her sister stay with us for awhile since she's going through a hard time right now. That made me a little nervous at first, so I asked her if I would...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Nov 24

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    30 RULES FOR MEN 1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason.Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3 2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22 3. Don...
    Joseharde Joseharde 31-35, M Dec 13

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    Help!! Im not too sure of this website, but i do know that I am depressed and nearest to hell I've ever been in my Life. Im so upset..that I've been accused of cheating on my...
    weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Hi, Sorry I'm not a cheating wife but thought you guys could help, A few weeks ago I was on my wife's iPad, when I looked at her Facebook I noticed she'd been searching the...
    confusedhubby123 confusedhubby123 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 8

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    Yesterday my wife came home around 9:30 PM. I was already in my maid uniform, a short French Maid Dress matched with a pair of black high heels and silk pantyhose. When she came in...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Dec 10

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    Hi ****** We met walking home from school remember you telling me about your kids. I then remember each time I saw you we say hi. I knew you was a MM and you lived opposite me...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F Dec 13

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    My wife is at most 5 ft tall...she's a little more curvy now (expected after giving birth to two kids) than she was a few years ago. She's the perfect "size" for me, so much...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Being a maid for your wife doesn't always mean you will be dressed like a sissy. In fact, my wife recently asked me to look for a proper maid uniform online, in the event that her...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Nov 27

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    About a month ago, my beautiful girlfriend and I got married. It was the best day of my life. I am 29 and Sophie is 26. My new wife, Sophie has always disliked the way she looks...
    nigelhemfield nigelhemfield 26-30, M Nov 30

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    One evening my wife and i were sitting in the living room with an old neighbor that happened to come and visit. I had already mentioned to my wife that i would like watching her be...
    Strms Strms 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 2

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    A long story spread over about 10 years so i'll keep it short. My wife is divorcing me on the grounds of abuse. I've never physically hurt her btw. For those years she and my...
    johnpbatchelor johnpbatchelor 41-45, M Dec 8

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    A friend of mine put his hand up my girl's skirt. She loved it. My girl and I had drinks with a buddy and his wife. After we'd all had a few, he real casually put his hand on her...
    ArkhamAsylum83 ArkhamAsylum83 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Our last child was born a couple years ago and since then my wife has been consistently hitting the gym working out, doing cardio, lifting, Zumba, etc. She's quite proud of...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M Nov 22

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    I am 29 years old and been married for almost two years. I married my wife when she was in college so didn't manage to live together (she lived in college hostel) since marriage...
    Rirchu Rirchu 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 8

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    My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted...
    gabe1982 gabe1982 31-35, M Dec 11

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    My cross dressing started, as I think many do, with the purchase of one or two garments at a time, and now my wardrobe is full of feminine cloths. My wife is in full support but...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    I have never shared my wife knowingly, but I have fantasized it. I don't know if it is jealousy on my part that leads me to think about her with another man, or if it is my dirty...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 1 day ago

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    Every week we had to see him, and every week he would beat us up, we would hide before he would arrive, I remember one of my siblings running down the drive and he chased her and I...
    Couldhelp Couldhelp 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    Confession to my wife This is first time while making out with her…..remember clearly… my figure was in her c**t …she was flowing and that time I asked her if she fantasize...
    couplefrmbang couplefrmbang 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 30

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    My wife and I had been married for several years, when one day she said it was time to make some serious changes, what changes I asked her, well about us, she said, what about us I...
    lisa1958 lisa1958 56-60, T Dec 7

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    I was knowingly in love with my best friend for months, we finally dated, and our relationship progressed very quickly. Basically by the time I realized I was "hopelessly devoted...
    Fallynangel Fallynangel 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 13

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    We have a fantasy about shopping. The idea is to chose a man who will go shopping with my wife for a couple of hours. During that time they will go to the shops he chose and he...
    nenalola nenalola 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Long story short, I found out about 9 months ago that my wife was cheating on me. I happened to go through her phone one day and found a pretty damning text message. She...
    donnie2419 donnie2419 31-35, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My wife has been through a LOT in her life and there is obvious emotional and mental damage that she has not dealt with. This has also led to some problems in our marriage. We...
    ConcernedHusband83 ConcernedHusband83 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I am a pastor's wife,in the mission field. It is my husband's home but for me it is a foreign land - different language, culture, traditions. So I am completely isolated, alone...
    spiritisbroken spiritisbroken 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We were driving down the highway and my wife told me to take a right turn. I knew it was a mistake but did it any way. She immediately noticed her mistake and apologized and we...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    We used to be best friends with a couple that was two houses down from us. Their son is the same age as ours. Their daughter is a year older that our youngest son. We did...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I got home from work walked on my wife giving this guy a Bj she just looked up and smiled I asked what r u doing she said what does it look like and went back at it at first I was...
    Freakyboy77 Freakyboy77 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    We have been married for 13yrs but one thing I have concluded is that in every thing I do my wife is always looking for something that is not right and she forgets the effort...
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Hi, I'm 66 years old man who has recently lost my wife of a 22 year marriage to cancer after she had a 10 month battle with this rotten disease, so now there's a big hole in my...
    WilliamTell100 WilliamTell100 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    My wife hates her body. I understand why. She has more than one autoimmune disease. The end result is that she can gain weight (up to 30 lbs or so) in a few weeks. She also is...
    jd5659 jd5659 51-55, M Dec 5

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