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I Was a Battered Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 33 People

    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    It is true, it happened! Couldn't have been happier, she was my Wife! May you be as fortunate with your wife
    pakettle pakettle 66-70, M 2 days ago

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    The only contact I have received from him several weeks ago was asking me not to respond to any contact from his wife. I respected his wishes when she contacted me and said that...
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I am a wife, and I have cheated. Don't get me wrong I LOVE my husband, and never want to be with anyone else, but I still really enjoy getting attention from other males, and if an...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 12 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Decused to wear my wifes pants to today for the first. What a turn on it is. I'm hArd and can feel the panties stretching againSt me. Wonderful feeling
    benjy1978 benjy1978 36-40, M 15 hrs ago

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    Watched a stranger feel up my wife's skirt in the night club tonight. Very exciting.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Message me to control my computer (and my wife's pics) on JoinMe
    nepaguy69 nepaguy69 41-45, M 10 hrs ago

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    I am sharing pics of my little young innocent wife. Message me if you can skype! I want to see you enjoying her while I betray her by showing every inch of her little innocent body...
    jnbn1234 jnbn1234 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Its the endless thinking with a scarring emotion. Its like a constant beating and blck eye within just words. Ppl forget words have meaning power. He didnt know that the words he...
    prohibitedobsession prohibitedobsession 26-30, F Sep 26

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Texting the wife about sex. She gets so hot when I come up with stories that she's laying on her back with blindfold on and I have sexy lady sneak in and help me rub her down. she...
    fun546blue fun546blue 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I have been in a domestic partnership with my love for years. We have two children together. Just for clarification we are a straight couple and unmarried. His brother's wife is...
    alora236 alora236 22-25, F Sep 28

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    I like to watch my wife spread her legs. Sometimes she does it at home while it is just the two of us and at other times while we are in public. She likes to do it in front of our...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Since I was about 12, I have dreamed about being a wife, things I would do for my husband, and things he would do for me, wearing sexy lingerie for him, and doing other things...
    ashliemarie01 ashliemarie01 31-35, T Oct 5

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    Me, my wife, her best friend and her boyfriend went on a weekend trip together to a secluded house with a pond. We all went swimming and before you know it all...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Well....I am a soon to be truckers wife, my husband of 8 years woke up and decided that he no longer wanted to be an electrician, but wanted to become a truck driver. He talked...
    sadrich1 sadrich1 26-30, F Sep 30

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    Me and my wife have considered another man for some time now last week she met some one at her school She seams to get a long with him vary well so one nite she tolled me he...
    Ny147 Ny147 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Ive never met anyone i could tell EVERYTHING, and i mean ANYTHING, ive never met anyone who told me EVERYTHING, ive never met anyone whos idea of a good time, was making sure "I...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    If anything went wrong for me or any member of my family. My mother blamed me, she said I was idle and selfish every day. My father shamed me, telling me I was like a pig and...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 21 hrs ago

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    If I die, my family will miss me. I feel expend-used up, and as if I’ve been given the curse of emotional pain and bullying. As an adult, I find it ridiculous to say, I’m a...
    Hiddenintheleaves Hiddenintheleaves 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    If I die, my family will miss me. I feel expend-used up, and as if I’ve been given the curse of emotional pain and bullying. As an adult, I find it ridiculous to say, I’m a...
    Hiddenintheleaves Hiddenintheleaves 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    We were in a shoestore and I lifted her socked foot to my lap and began tickling. She was cracking up as a lady walked around the corner and commented how cute it was. I held my...
    Miked43 Miked43 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I spend most of my days dressed as a maid now. My day usually consists of taking care of the house and seeing to my wife's needs. She is a career woman and the breadwinner in our...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    During my high school years, I became very close to a guy. We spent hours together, laughing listening to music and giving massages. Yes, he would sometimes rub my back during...
    DeadHeartsareEverywhere DeadHeartsareEverywhere 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I was invited up to alaska to visit my oldest brothers wife to help her cope while he was in Afghanistan, many of our family had been to stay with her and I was asked this time...
    feelmyfury21 feelmyfury21 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I just want to stay at home, clean, cook, and make it a welcoming place for my man to come home to. I am in College so I feel like it would be a waste to be a house wife but it is...
    wiccanwoman1994 wiccanwoman1994 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    My wife cheated on me and lied about it for years. I used to ask her all the time and she denied it. I found out by calling her bluff years later she did do it (she admitted it...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 24

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    Letter To My Wife Nazim Hikmat.. 11-11-1933 Bursa Prison My one and only! Your last letter says: "My head is throbbing, my heart is stunned!" You say: "If they hang you, if I...
    Pheroswife Pheroswife 41-45, F Sep 25

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    I'm 24, and yes I wanted to be a wife. Not only a wife but the best and the most understanding wife for him. I have so much love, passion, care and kindness to offer for my future...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Her Routines, An introduction to my wife, domestic discipline and our 30 years together so far. When we first met I knew she was a person who needed routines to function in life...
    mistermisery mistermisery 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Obviously, I am too trusting. I realize now that I have been the OW more than once...I just never got so deeply involved with any of the others, and with two of them, I didn't even...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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