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I Was a Battered Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 33 People

    I Just Want To Heal.....

    Did it ever occur to you that you could feel so hurt for such a long time and that someone that you adored could hurt you with such magnitude that what you have left is a whole bunch of nothing??? Have you ever asked yourself how did you get here and was there a chance to prevent...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    A Womans Body As I See It..

    I love the Female body As I see it.. The female body was made out of sugar and spice and everything nice. Not made just to bear children, do dishes, wash clothes and do a mans bidding. But to be worshiped, touched with care, and her body completely kissed with reverence...
    beckyanne1 beckyanne1 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Define Battered.....

    Sometimes it's overwhelming to me the thought of me seeing myself as a battered wife, I sometimes think that maybe I'm just taking everything out of proportions and because I'm hurting I want a definition or an excuse for the pain that I am suffering and had been suffering the...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    In The Meantime.....

    I am in the ''meantime"...... The "meantime" is that time in your life when you either choose or was forced to close a chapter in your life in order to begin another one. I choose 'LIFE", a healthy one anyways for me and my 3 boys. I decided to continue...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    New View

    Ok so here I am again and this time sooner than expected....I am beginning to see things in a very different way. I don't know if it's because for the first time in my life I feel free, don't get me wrong, I am deep inside wounded and in pain, but I fell like finally I can...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    Change The Way You Look At It......simple!

    It's been a while since I write anything....I've been through enormous emotional turmoil. I guess this is what we have to go through as part of the healing process. Even dough that deep sorrow it's still there, deep inside....right there were you pushed it and still now and then...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    I Was For 10 Years.........

    I was a battered wife for 10 years....those years I have lost forever. I come from a long line of hard Italian family on my father's side, and just as hard on my mother's side which is Irish........ It was an arranged marriage by my father....he wanted dealings with the family...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    Behind Closed Doors

    my husband is a control freak and very jealous and possessive.so when he started using cocaine (about 23 years ago) he became very parranoid and violent too..it went on a long time and I have been in womens refuges a few times through the years..he is still very moody but has...
    kyocera kyocera 56-60 1 Response Jul 21, 2008

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    New Understanding....

    Today was a rough day and if I would've started writting earlier I would've probably made you want to choke me...so, after enough meditation and crying and meditation, here I am. I did not realize what a huge impact and how twisted I've had been living for so long, now I see. You...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    The Aftermath.....

    OK....hello again, so today I had a meeting with the school teacher and then again, reality stroke again. I am forced once again to make a decision I thought I wold never have to face...my son is so traumatized by so much instability that he is failing in school. I was thrown...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Forgive...don't Ever Forget..

    It's been a while from the last time I was here. I was at a different place back then...mentaly,physicaly,but most of all emotionaly. Don't know how to describe it or if you could ever understand...when I first discovered this place I really didnt know what exactly I was looking...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Total Stranger

    I was a bettered wife and I didn't even know about it.....I took me 12 years and 3 kids to realize how bad it really was. After 10 years of being together and going through the emotional turmoil that involves a drug addict I found out who my husband really was. I never...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    It took me 30 years to heal enough to tell

    anyone about my first marriage. I had the best boyfriend. He adored me. I was studying interior design, he was trying to decide between college and work. The sex, oh the sex was incredible! The things we did and the places we did them! He was so handsome with an amazing...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    A New Day....

    Today was a day that I will never forget, just like everything that has happened the past 3 months that I can't seem to shake off. I've come to the cope with the pain that comes with the realization and ultimately the acceptance of the end of a long DREAM. Yes, that's what I said...
    sandylo sandylo 26-30, F Nov 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    It's desire of so many years. But my kids were small and I did not want kids to feel bad. Now they are grown up but my wife is not letting me go from her life. I am unable to push...
    Ravidesai Ravidesai 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hey guys, I haven't been active on here for a while. So lets see, I flew down to NC Sunday to see him and went to his ball with him Monday night. It was nice I got to meet some of...
    MochaChocolatte MochaChocolatte 18-21 1 hr ago

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    14 years ! Took me three years and more than 20K to divorce him , but it was the best thing I ever did .
    StaDaKazem StaDaKazem 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    10th post. I feel so guilty sharing my story, as I feel like I'm dissing someone behind their back. I'm telling our story, but this other person can't defend themselves, so please...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    My wife and I had gone to east coast for a long weekend,we booked into a travel hotel and wash and dress for a meal out,the weather was hot so the wife had just a bra, knickers,top...
    nomad1100 nomad1100 61-65, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I have been friends with this guy for about 7 years. We have the best time together. We can talk for hours without getting bored and have the same sense of humor. We have mostly...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Once your wife decides to have you become her personal sissy maid, being a sissy becomes second nature to you after awhile. Like yesterday. My wife had to leave early for a...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Oct 21

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    Today is one of those days where I'm reminded of the type of sissy I am. My wife has to go to work later. But for now, she's relaxing in the living room, wearing a pair of pajamas...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response Oct 23

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    I had a short fuse scumbag brother who still single because of his worst character.Years ago he yell at my wife for accidently pour a bevarage.Its suppose to be a small incident...
    doublecheese24 doublecheese24 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 3

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    So her bull got back Saturday. He hadn't had anything for 12 days either. He came over to our place and we had drinks and something to eat. He started playing with my wife and...
    nhxc308 nhxc308 56-60, M 3 Responses Nov 9

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    My husband started seminary a few months after we were married and started serving his first charge (3 churches) 3 weeks before our first child was born. We moved to a parsonage...
    patricialeigh patricialeigh 31-35, M a week ago

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    15th post. My panic attack yesterday left me emotionally and physically drained. The way I'm feeling today, there is no was in the world I am going to beat this fight. I would much...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 10 hrs ago

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    16th Post. One of my favourite songs of all time is Free by Rudimental, but you really have to go into youtube and watch the clip to appreciate the song. The theme of the song...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I owned an office cleaning business and working when they were closed and no one around. Sometimes I'd take my girl clothes in and change and clean as a woman but I always kept my...
    Lyndaloves1957 Lyndaloves1957 56-60, T 11 Responses Nov 6

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    On Halloween night my wife announced she was bored and was going out with some new friends she met on the net. Because we have had damage to our property in the past, I agreed to...
    Hotdog798 Hotdog798 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 6

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    My wife and I have been together for 5 years. I love her but a lot has happened since we said our vows. She has had two psychotic breaks, suffers from major depression and has...
    jackal2846 jackal2846 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    This happened when I was 14 and I used to live in America but now I live in the uk . I was walking home when I was grabbed and forced into a van . it happened so fast and I...
    JennyGirlxxx JennyGirlxxx 22-25, F 24 mins ago

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    my wife and i started out as friends, one night i started to make out with her and she started pushing my head down, i knew what she wanted and got between her legs and ate her out...
    mysissy mysissy 56-60, M 8 Responses Oct 28

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    My wife had several affairs, well, at least one or two. She had many relationships that she considered that I'd find inappropriate, even though they didn't actually sleep together...
    MsNeither MsNeither 56-60, T 1 Response Oct 28

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    I've been married to my wife for 13 years. We've really been together since high school. A total of almost 18 years. The early part of our marriage was so happy. We always got...
    brokenhubby brokenhubby 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 3

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    I put a glory hole video for my wife. The girl in the video was playing with to rods poking through the glory holes. My wife is still very excited about the video and wants to...
    marvn5694 marvn5694 31-35 6 Responses Nov 11

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    Pherd2 wanted me to talk more about my wife so here we go. My beautiful 240 pound wife has a pear shaped body with an absolutely huge butt and meaty thighs. Where ever she walks...
    bossman36 bossman36 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 25

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    I married my husband after dating for 5 years. We've been married just over a year. In a nutshell - he has been divorced for 9 years and continues to support his ex-wife...
    loveshiraz loveshiraz 41-45, F Oct 26

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    I was already using mascara when I met my future wife, she was not only OK with it she encouraged me and applied more cosmetics on me. On our honeymoon I, to please her, wore my...
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 3 Responses Oct 30

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    in july this year my wife decided she wanted to end things. because "I didnt care about her". Everything i ever did was for her and our son. I worked hard to give her the life she...
    rezadash rezadash 22-25, M Oct 31

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    Many years ago, I felt like I wanted to be a minister, so I sent off to the Universal Life Church (Modesto, California) and got my fool self "ordained". That is perhaps one of the...
    harridan harridan 61-65, M 1 Response Nov 1

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    My wife had a two year affair with my best friend. When discovered, he dumped her and went back to his wife. I still love my wife but she flat out told me that she will never love...
    HollowSoul1971 HollowSoul1971 41-45, M 8 Responses Nov 3

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    I want to chant your name over and over until the universe makes you mine. I want to wake up one day and realize my life is just a dream in having of life without you. A nightmare...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F Nov 6

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    The other day I was reminded again of how my role has evolved in the household. My wife was getting ready for a presentation at work. At first she tried on a new skirt and top...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses Nov 7

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    Part two… read part one first to fully understand the story. "We're all ready late" I didn't want to get up I was so warm and comfortable." Ten more minutes" I asked. " no you...
    andrew1408 andrew1408 41-45, M Nov 12

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    Just found out about my wife's affair 2 months ago. Needless to say I was devastated. We have been married for 18 years. Together for 22 altogether. We were married very young by...
    luvmyfamily22 luvmyfamily22 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    My wife developed OCD while pregnant with our first child. Before this illness we were amazing. When we first got together we didn't label what we had, we decided that we would...
    Aguy79 Aguy79 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was bullied. Emotionally. Which was hard because during my lone times, it haunts me. They call me names, talk behind my back, discriminate and underestimate my abilities. I was...
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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