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I Was a Bully In High School

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 23 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 6 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    7-12 Grade

    I was a small girl but I would still find the younger/smaller and bully them a lot. Mostly words, but sometimes pranks and physical bullying too
    MissKira MissKira 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 40 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    What should I do? Need advice There is this guy

    in highschool who with my group of friends and me acted like complete ******. We always were making fun of him, used sometimes to trip him up in front of people, thinks like that... (but I regreat what I did, I think i was afraid to be rejected if i didn't follow the others, but...
    Lilna Lilna 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12 18-21, M Feb 14, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 12 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Me As A Bully

    When I was at high school I was quite a weak kid and spent all my school days in fear of others (mainly boys but some girls) who would bully me, in reality I think I was more scared of what they might do rather than what actually happened and really got off quite lightly. As a...
    noelfrax noelfrax 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 10, 2013

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 8 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 22, 2011

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 3 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    This could be super long, so I'll try to sum it up. (: Preschool, kindergarten, & 1st grade were fine. In the middle of 2nd grade I moved to this sorta ghetto town because my mom...
    girlinNJ girlinNJ 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I am a very recent high school graduate. In the speeches at graduation, they were talking about starting the "new chapter in your lives." I have strong ideas about where, who...
    jpk29 jpk29 18-21, F Jul 24

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    Ok so I'm going to try my best to explain what I'm feeling. If you don't understand, I'm sorry, but I'm trying my best. Okay so at my school, there are the typical groups and...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I recently graduated from high school a few weeks ago. And I seriously cannot believe I'm saying this! I still remember that first day of Grade 9 so well and the anticipation...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    In high school, I was supposed to sing the national anthem in front of 1,000 kids and parents. It was my first time ever singing in front anyone. Once I started, I knew I started...
    newgirl52 newgirl52 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I've been going to soccer camp this whole week at the high school that I'm going to next year. I'm really glad that I decided to do it because it's turning out a lot better than...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Leaving high school has made me realise everything the teachers always used to say to us.. 'You won't stay in touch with the friends you have now' I remember always thinking yea I...
    Ihadadream123 Ihadadream123 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    No, I didn't. I no longer liked school at that point. I was in choir, drama class, and Bible club. I was well known but rarely anyone wanted to hang out with me. I didn't fit in...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 13

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    I may be 20 so it's a little late, but at least I finally did it, no more high school! I kinda wish I didn't drop out and that I had lots of friends in high school so I could have...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    We don't actually call it high school. In English it's called a comprehensive school or comp for short. I've just finished year 9. We've started year 10 lessons. Year 10 is...
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Biggest mistake I ever made. Looking back at things I would have tried harder. The truth of the matter was I was kicked out of my house when I turned 18 and had no where to go...
    FreqFlyer76 FreqFlyer76 36-40, M Jul 9

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    Last year of high school!!!!! This year I have all college classes and I know they r going to be hard to understand. Probably fail all of them. But I know I'm going to enjoy my...
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Best 4 years of your life, huh? Well, that's probably only for the people who are: popular, smart, athletic, involved in school, and loved by everyone. Seriously, high school is...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    so technically I'm not in high school. I'm starting in about a month. But I'm the type of person that obsesses over being prepared for anything and everything. So basically high...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I graduated from High School this June! I couldn't be happier to start my new life out at Central Washington University! Go Wildcats! 🐾
    Tiffersneeze Tiffersneeze 18-21, F Jul 1

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    My whole class is so excited they feel like the time can't go by fast enough..not me! I'm the exact opposite actually! I am about to do online college classes, which I'm afraid to...
    MacKenzie31113 MacKenzie31113 16-17, F Jul 15

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    My opinion, I don't like the idea of someone being so fixated on one person. That person you put up on a pedestal can easily influence you negatively in life or can just shatter...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I guess I'm in high school now.. Freshman year, here I come!
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    The question I attempted doing.. Idk if you guys can see it. But how do I make the decimal ratio a fraction? **** high school math :( I'm 20 and this **** is still not easy haha
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Am I the only teenager that doesn't hate high school? It's easy for me to friend friends, and I love the freedom.
    onlylogan onlylogan 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I actually have a question....so I'm a teacher, I'm a woman, 28 years old. I teach high school. Once my students graduate I allow then to become friends with me via Facebook and...
    musicgal33 musicgal33 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I graduated high school at 15. I'm 16 now, going into my fourth semester of college classes.
    uchihajuggala uchihajuggala 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm starting a new high school , and I don't know anybody there I have always hade a lot of friends and now I'm Worried that I won't have anyone. Life sucks when bad things happen...
    basedonatruestory basedonatruestory 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yeah ever since i came back to mexico i was bullied in school because they thought i was american. No i am not american i am mexican i just spent alot of my life over there in the...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    Ok, so this happened to me in the past. A boy at school held my right arm and told his friend to hold my left arm and told his other friend '' To rape me and hold my private''. I...
    Rafeerahman Rafeerahman 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 11