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I Was a Bully In High School

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 77 People

    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 23 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    7-12 Grade

    I was a small girl but I would still find the younger/smaller and bully them a lot. Mostly words, but sometimes pranks and physical bullying too
    MissKira MissKira 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 38 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 22, 2011

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 8 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 8 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    I'm a journalist in the Orlando FL area looking

    to speak with someone who bullied people in middle or high school. Would you be willing to do an interview about what you did, why you did it, and what you learned?
    MarcieG MarcieG 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 12 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Not in High School. Class of 2011. When I was in high school, I hated it with a passion. I didnt fit in, and I thought it was an institution that was fixed on brainwashing kids...
    iseedumbpeople iseedumbpeople 18-21, M Nov 18

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    I learn people in high school are living in black and white world. People berate others because they are not popular or make them feel cool.Why don't people accept each other...
    Shark1578 Shark1578 16-17, M Nov 9

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    What's to love? The thing I remember most about Jr. High is feeling so alone. I was a smallish guy. Smart, too. Never a good combination. I wasn't fat, but I was no athlete...
    JesseLeeJames JesseLeeJames 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    The only reason I'm staying in school is because my mom is paying me to get good grades and I'll get the job I want and have the future I want. Other than that, I couldn't care...
    PriscilaGaray PriscilaGaray 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    This was another incident. I don't know if it was bullying because they didn't intend for me to hear it. I was 13 and had to attend dance classes for the end of year school dance...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Oct 29

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    So another occasion. For a high school requirement, everyone had to deliver notes to classes sometimes. I had it happen twice. I feared it so much. I knew how much I was hated, I...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 a week ago

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    I was one of the best musicians in band (a band of 85+ people) in high school. I had a lot of foot problems and was on meds. I just found out that a lot of people in band thought I...
    ranchlife14 ranchlife14 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    The reason why i hated high school was because I was scared in high school. I didn't do what I wanted and I was just too scared and ashamed to be my true self in high school. If I...
    Alexis117 Alexis117 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    Another one of my high school horror stories. So, for drama class we had to go to the school hall and move and carry things. The teacher wasn't there. I can't really remember much...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 a week ago

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    This is my third year in high school and I feel like its time to give up. Teachers have tried spoon feeding information down my throat and for many years it has worked but the same...
    yojenitsirhc yojenitsirhc 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    This may sound cliche but I hated high school because of a boy.I thought I loved him,but I was completely wrong.It all started my freshman year.He was a sophomore who was second...
    Katherine27 Katherine27 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I can relate a lot to people who are the high school age. I tend to give them the best advice I can, because all throughout high school when I needed someone to talk to, I didn't...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    High school was the happiest time of my life. From what I hear I don't think I would enjoy going to high school now. That is too bad.
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 16

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    Yes, I had good friends. And yes, I got excellent grades- but during my entire time in high school not one guy asked me out on a date. They would always gawk at me and whisper...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 28

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    Having a major exam coming up and i may fail the most impt subject which means i cant go to a college or any local schools Should I retain a year or go private school? I rather...
    melodyalice melodyalice 18-21, F Oct 29

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    High school is where my first crush is. Not I hate this feeling. We're not all in this together. High school is not fun.
    Ranran123 Ranran123 18-21, F Oct 30

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    It was the biggest waste of time in my life. There was no point to it. Nobody gave a **** about anything. No one actually cares or takes you seriously. This applies to the teachers...
    aFuzzyBlouw aFuzzyBlouw 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I remember I was that girl everyone knew and talked to mostly everyone at school I really miss being surrounded by people who loved me ugh i want to go back to high school so bad I...
    soccerislife14 soccerislife14 18-21, F Nov 4

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    I was married before I graduated from high school, divorced, and pregnant before I was legally able to drink alcohol so I've had more than a few great lessons prior to reaching...
    PricelessJourney PricelessJourney 31-35, F Nov 14

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    High school can be broken down like this: It is filled with self-centered a**holes who don't know that their actions screw up everyone else's lives. Everyone scars each other for...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F Oct 30

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    I am looking at stories in this experience. I think maybe we go to high school earlier than people in other countries. Most of the people are like 16 or 17. We go aged 11. We have...
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I'm struggling to get through my last year and 1.5 credits. Word of wisdom to others out there: don't have babies in high school. It is near to impossible for me to do my school...
    xsummx xsummx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Finally a full 9 days of not being in school. Thank you Thanksgiving for being next week. But wait... What about the flashcards, studying, and project due when I get back... Darn...
    Nad124 Nad124 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    The worst thing about being a senior is that there won't be a next time.... I'm hanging out with my friends and if someone says something like, "oh we should start earlier next...
    UhhHello UhhHello 16-17, F Nov 2

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