I Was a Bully In High School

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau
    18-21, F
    34 Responses Dec 6, 2012

    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan
    46-50
    9 Responses Nov 12, 2010

    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz
    18-21, F
    May 11, 2012

    I'm a journalist in the Orlando FL area looking

    to speak with someone who bullied people in middle or high school. Would you be willing to do an interview about what you did, why you did it, and what you learned?
    MarcieG MarcieG
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall
    26-30
    5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Nov 22, 2011

    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    MissBloodKittie MissBloodKittie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

    It wasn't for a long time,

    and we're actually friends now, but just thinking about it makes me feel like crap anyway. I was very mean to this girl. I was bullied from the end of Grade 6, to the end of Grade 9. It was a weird kind of bullying where everyone pretty much conspired to either entirely...
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 21, 2013

    I think it's cool when girls are bullies.

    If you are a girl that is or was a bully, please message me
    teentitan12 teentitan12
    18-21, M
    Apr 14, 2015

    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1
    46-50
    1 Response May 10, 2012

    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy
    26-30, M
    13 Responses Feb 11, 2011

    Biggest mistake I ever made.

    ... I was bullied myself in high school I taken my anger out on someone and I bullied her.... She has forgiven me completely but she made it clear the last time I messaged her she wants nothing to do with me I can't blame her she has blocked me on every single fb account of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 18, 2015

    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 28, 2013

    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2013

    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Feb 11, 2011

    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli
    18-21, F
    22 Responses Nov 30, 2011

    I really like it when girls are bullies.

    If you are a girl that is or was a bully please respond
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 9, 2015

    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles
    13-15
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester
    18-21, F
    37 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    This one girl always thought she was above me,

    so I decided to get revenge on her. I made her a total outcast, everyone in our grade, the grade below us, and the grade above us, hated her guts. They were all at my beck-and-call, ready to go after her if I wanted it. I was always telling her how we were going to get her, how...
    OnlyALotInsane OnlyALotInsane
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591
    18-21, M
    Jan 3, 2013

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