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I Was a Bully In High School

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    I'm a journalist in the Orlando FL area looking

    to speak with someone who bullied people in middle or high school. Would you be willing to do an interview about what you did, why you did it, and what you learned?
    MarcieG MarcieG 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    I think it's cool when girls are bullies.

    If you are a girl that is or was a bully, please message me
    teentitan12 teentitan12 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I really like it when girls are bullies.

    If you are a girl that is or was a bully please respond
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9

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    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 22, 2011

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    Biggest mistake I ever made.

    ... I was bullied myself in high school I taken my anger out on someone and I bullied her.... She has forgiven me completely but she made it clear the last time I messaged her she wants nothing to do with me I can't blame her she has blocked me on every single fb account of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 18

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 39 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14, 2013

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 37 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 9 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    It wasn't for a long time,

    and we're actually friends now, but just thinking about it makes me feel like crap anyway. I was very mean to this girl. I was bullied from the end of Grade 6, to the end of Grade 9. It was a weird kind of bullying where everyone pretty much conspired to either entirely...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F Jan 21

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 13 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Just remembered something I went through. There was a horsey girl I went to school with when I was 12. She hated me and bullied me a lot. One day she said something so awful to...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Mar 21

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    I haven't been paddled in the four years I've been in high school, but when I was in middle school, I went to a special private religious school that paddled. I'd been bullied all...
    brianonthebeach brianonthebeach 16-17, M a week ago

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    I had been considering dropping out since my freshman year, and inevitably decided to leave my senior year... 5 months before graduation. I know this sounds completely nonsensical...
    hippiesugar hippiesugar 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Everyone at my high school is fake. I have multiple sexual rumors going around about me that aren't true. Due to those rumors; i've lost friends ... Lots of friends. I live in...
    Theonlysee Theonlysee 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Well I dropped out of high school and I regretted it ever since. I got my GED and I thought I was finished now I should be happy. But then I read this article online that says GED...
    joyelle00 joyelle00 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I don't really have a favorite high school memory. The reason i dont have one is because i hated going to school. And it wasn't the same reasons like most teenagers.
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    Not for too much longer I graduate this year. I will miss high school a little but at the same time I can't wait to go to college. I have had fun and I have some good friends here...
    Ivygirl96 Ivygirl96 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Graduating high school tomorrow ! I already finished my classes but I still have to finish my resume and a few other things so after that I'll be done ! I went to a school to...
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 33 Responses 4 days ago

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    I used to hear some grown ups say high school was the best time of my life and I'm now thinking well that was bullshit where's the best part at
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    at lunch today i was sitting behind some 9th graders and one of them went “i was born in the year of the rabbit” and her friend is like “hey i am too!” and someones goes...
    jamespasio26 jamespasio26 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    We don't call it high school. I am in Year 10. We are doing GCSE courses. The exams are at the end of Year 11. We all do Maths, Science, Welsh, English and IT. Then we do options...
    LaurenHaf LaurenHaf 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I was paddled in school. In elementary K-5th I got it a few times but once in middle and high school the paddle was used more frequently. In 8th grade, I had this girl crush and we...
    cda2331 cda2331 41-45, M a week ago

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    I can't believe it, less than a semester of school and I am completely done high school. Then it's on to electrical engineering and nanotechnology. I am graduating two years early...
    snowunderthestars snowunderthestars 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    People In my high school are idiots. Some of my fellow seniors idea of a senior prank is to throw a ton of paper on the stairs. Also today some idiot decided to pull the fire...
    Ivygirl96 Ivygirl96 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not easily embarrassed but I remember a day in high school when I had to make up a failed history test for my older gentleman teacher. I had just gotten done with lunch and it...
    alexxxxx96 alexxxxx96 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate high school! I'm so happy I have 2 years left. I will finally be able to breathe
    Sammie099 Sammie099 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Biggest piece of **** ever. Where the materiali