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I Was a Bully In High School

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 38 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 12 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    I'm a journalist in the Orlando FL area looking

    to speak with someone who bullied people in middle or high school. Would you be willing to do an interview about what you did, why you did it, and what you learned?
    MarcieG MarcieG 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 8 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 8 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 22, 2011

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    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    7-12 Grade

    I was a small girl but I would still find the younger/smaller and bully them a lot. Mostly words, but sometimes pranks and physical bullying too
    MissKira MissKira 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Yeah, the experience title says it all. I hate high school, it seriously is prison like. You get there in the morning or whenever it starts and you're there for 7-8 hours. You can...
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    I like high school actually. The only time my day is bad is whenever I see people I don't like but other than that, everything else is good. Most people don't take advantage of...
    uh2behonest uh2behonest 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I was standing at the bus stop with some other students, when I suddenly realized I was standing so far away from everyone else. They were all gathered in a group, chatting...
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    High school wasn't bad, but it wasn't good either. My classmates were obnoxious and irritating. The teachers were fine, but I felt they pitied me because I was introverted and...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    It is so exasperating. It just sucks the life out of me. Monday morning, I drag myself out of bed with a "Oh no, not again! WTH! It's Monday once more...ughh!” and get myself...
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    I was bullied most of high school. It's all good now.
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    My "freshman fifteen" was more like fifty. Then I just kept gaining fifty more every year. I remember my belly outgrowing some of the smaller desks, yet I would still sit in them...
    largeandincharge90 largeandincharge90 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I love all high school musicals 1,2,3!!! No matter how old I am gonna get it's always gonna be my novela<3!!!
    Chipmunk1023 Chipmunk1023 18-21, F Dec 7

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    I don't necessarily hate high school. I'm just glad I'm done with it.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Common Core actually makes me want to kill myself. Like it is the worst thing to have for all high school kids.
    Irunforfun Irunforfun 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Dapperness Dapperness 18-21, F Dec 16

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    I was bullied at school because I was different I'm a psychic and giftedly intelligent so I am highly sensitive and I seriously got picked on for it
    Rakiea Rakiea 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Everyday of my life since...a while. Gotta question, do you still have to take a swimming unit in High School?
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I was bullied most by my mother but at school i wasnt really bullied i was teased in my young years , called names but noone touched me or beat me up. Lucky way! People hurt me the...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 1 Response Dec 2

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    bullying sucks! time for revenge :p. oops that was long ago.. :D
    itrustme itrustme 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    * POEM ON BULLYING * There's fields of grass that lie before me Trees that feather back & forth waiting to break free Clouds lower as dusk takes it's place Fog begins to whisper...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Nov 30

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    I've had bad experiences at school, with friends associated with it but it is my last year here. I've made a total change with myself, I've gotten healthy and lost 50lbs. And good...
    85544a 85544a 18-21, F Dec 9

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