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I Was a Bully In High School

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 43 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    7-12 Grade

    I was a small girl but I would still find the younger/smaller and bully them a lot. Mostly words, but sometimes pranks and physical bullying too
    MissKira MissKira 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Sadly Yes

    .I was in high school I met a new teacher I taken an instant dislike to her. Due to me being me and a friend putting ideas in my head that she was an evil manipulative cow. Stupidly I believed every word she said about the new teacher. It started off by calling her by her last...
    ForeverAutumn80 ForeverAutumn80 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    What should I do? Need advice There is this guy

    in highschool who with my group of friends and me acted like complete ******. We always were making fun of him, used sometimes to trip him up in front of people, thinks like that... (but I regreat what I did, I think i was afraid to be rejected if i didn't follow the others, but...
    Lilna Lilna 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 23 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 11 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 8 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 6 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I've always been the one to be "aimed at" for bullying. I was an easy target for people. My parents always said it was for jealously, but you know damn well yourself it isn't...
    justcallmeaimee justcallmeaimee 18-21, F Mar 29

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    in sixth grade the bullying for me was horrible. it started when one of my close friends told me i wasn't popular enough to be friends with her or anyone else in our friend circle...
    cxc4ever cxc4ever 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Band Geek- I remember being in the marching band, it was the best part of my day in high school on most days :) I played the flute all throughout high school and some in middle...
    JaimeJackson JaimeJackson 18-21 Apr 5

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    People can complain about high school all they want, but if I could go back, I would've tried harder in high school instead of skipping out on classes and acting like a little...
    FarrahRelates FarrahRelates 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I was always very rebellious, whichever way society tried to sway me I would purposely flock to the other direction. That being said, I also have severe daddy issues and am...
    fishman22 fishman22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm in high school and I hate it. Idk in middle school i couldn't wait for high school and everything but maaaan I hate it a lot. I almost hate everyone from my school and it isn't...
    luisvstheuniverse luisvstheuniverse 16-17, M Apr 6

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    So when I was very young, I knew I was meant to be a girl. Some say that when you are 2-3 years old, you are to young to tell what you are and many pass it off as a phase or like...
    Soontobegirl Soontobegirl 16-17 3 Responses Apr 8

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    People say High School is supposed to be one of the best times of your life; complete and utter bull****. I was so happy when I graduated, which was last year in May. I know some...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    So I just found out I got expelled from high school today, I'm a junior & I just skipped too many days of school, & I just got expelled. I feel so awful. I ****** up & I don't know...
    baconhawk95 baconhawk95 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I really really hate high school. My freshman year even began badly. I was hoping to get a new start when we moved; to reinvent myself. But now I have no friends here, and no one...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I found high school quite hard. I didn't have a lot of friends and was bullied a lot. I wasn't a stand out student or anything and tried to keep myself to myself but there were...
    SalinNY SalinNY 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It all started when ii was 16. I arrived at the mt. pleasant high school. I fell in love with Colton. Then I realized he wasn’t the one for me so we broke it off. And I started...
    tiffanytait1996 tiffanytait1996 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I am sooo over high school. Like if can't even describe. Fake girls everywhere judging you, no teacher gives you the time of day, ****** school lunches, confusing homework, hard...
    Amydenson1 Amydenson1 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I hate high school so much I just think it's irrelevant... Like the kids and teachers just **** me off at my school
    pcxx3 pcxx3 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    It all started when ii was 16. I arrived at the mt. pleasant high school. I fell in love with Colton. Then I realized he wasn’t the one for me so we broke it off. And I started...
    tiffanytait1996 tiffanytait1996 16-17, F Apr 10

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    The next two years are gonna be the longest two years of my life. Each day seems to drag by, seeming like one minute is one hour. My friends and I just wishing high school would...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    And I have to admit - I"m terrified of graduating. I wish I was back in grade nine so I can do it all over again, and this time, hopefully do things right. It's not so much my...
    thelostbetween thelostbetween 16-17, F Mar 23

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    if so, I want to talk to you and hear about your experiences. Was it a recent decision? Are you happy with it? Or maybe you are considering leaving high school in NYC but not sure...
    seanalex3788 seanalex3788 26-30, M Mar 24

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    It just wasn't for me. It was too organized, and not well-managed enough. I couldn't stand to see the staff do it so wrong. I'm working on getting a GED now. Maybe I'll work that...
    MerryMerryMerryMerry MerryMerryMerryMerry 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I see most of the people here are still in high school. Once you graduate it's amazing how wide open the world becomes! Go away to college and you will quickly discover how many...
    Orchid284 Orchid284 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    The worst part of High School is all of the homework.
    justaguy22 justaguy22 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Even though I haven't graduated yet, I have enjoyed my senior year of high school. I have had my ups and downs, but it has been a fun ride. I have experienced a lot during this...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 3

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    This is the story of my life. High school drama everyday... Tell me your stories, I'm interested
    shopaholic07 shopaholic07 13-15, F Apr 9

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    And I'm kinda thinkin about droppin out. I don't wanna because I wanna graduate, ya know? I never wanted to be a high school drop out. And I want to get away from here and go to...
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I absolutely have no idea what I want to do after high school. I aspire to be a actress and know that conservetorys are helpful especially when it comes down to training , but my...
    thatstar96 thatstar96 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    My secondary school experience was marred throughout by verbal bullying. The perpetrators probably did not realise they were bullying but because it was so consistent and from so...
    juanito11 juanito11 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Middle school was so rough for me. I was never bullied about my race even though i was the only caucasian person in the whole school (disregarding teachers and other staff). I got...
    flowerchildbri flowerchildbri 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was bullied by a boy every day all throughout 7-8 grade. The only reason it finally stopped was because his family moved away. Even though it's been so many years since then, I...
    garzagm garzagm 31-35, F 18 Responses 6 days ago

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    i was an outcast; a misfit. i hung out with the other outcast like the special ed kids who didn't have good social skill (not hating i was in that class too), the druggies, and the...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F Apr 6

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    People are always telling you that "If you try your hardest you will succeed" and things like that. I think its total crap. I try my hardest in school and I have a perpetual B- in...
    teenstudent546 teenstudent546 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    As sun goes down and darkness takes over, here on the edge of my Va Blue Ridge Mountains, a childhood memory also fades away. I have been in the front yard clearing the ground of a...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 4

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