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I Was a Bully In High School

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    Relentless Bullying

    I spent what must have been two academic years bullying two particular girls, one in my class and another girl within the school. My main target was what I'd call a geek, with no real curves and overly thick glasses. It's not just a stereotype, there really are girls like that! I...
    SamanthaLau SamanthaLau 18-21, F 39 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Awwww She's "sorry"...

    Here is a post I read on this thread I found rather funny... Posted August 28th, 2009 at 10:28AM "I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion >ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    What should I do? Need advice There is this guy

    in highschool who with my group of friends and me acted like complete ******. We always were making fun of him, used sometimes to trip him up in front of people, thinks like that... (but I regreat what I did, I think i was afraid to be rejected if i didn't follow the others, but...
    Lilna Lilna 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    When I was in middle school I was bullied a lot.

    Not only was I chubby (still am) but I was a nerdy geek. Getting bullied and bullied everyday made me feel sick. In 8th grade is when I finally had enough. That's when I started to fight back. High school came around and I thought if I bullied others maybe I wouldn't get bullied...
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Bullying And Karma

    In my primary school (year 3-6 over here) I was a big bully and always chose to pick on kids smaller than me because i waas popular. I used to beat up this kid every week and every other day he'd give me his money. However, when I entered highschool, I was a bully for about a...
    kingjazzad12 kingjazzad12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    We Were Not

    we had no open bullies in our shcool from 8 th grade as we would deal with them and becuse there were no open bullies we a few times had some from other schools try to take over and the went the same way as others in the past the ones that were foolish enoungh to draw weapons...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 22, 2011

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    Not Really

    o.k. so im still in high school (im a senior) im not really a bully at school but im not entirely above it im afraid. i HATE school, i am alone and have no friends. really im invisible. no one would care or even notice if i died, im an annoyance to people cuz im in the way but i...
    SessyKinz SessyKinz 18-21, F May 11, 2012

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    Am I A Bully?

    So I don't actually beat people up or do things directly to anybody. But... I really enjoy watching when two guys get into a fight at school. And, when it has happened, I have definitely encouraged the stronger guy, even if he was being cruel to the loser. I have never said...
    amyjones99 amyjones99 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Sad But True

    I am not proud at all but yes, i infact was a bully in high school.  One day ion ceramics we had a sub and there were these two girls who my friend and i constantly picked on.  we started making little balls of clay and throwing them...mainly at their heads...then the...
    CAdreamin CAdreamin 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Shame

    when i was in school i bullied this girl for 2 years and now looking back i feel so ashamed of myself
    kirsty1200 kirsty1200 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 12 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    I Was A Bully? What, You Want A Medal For Sensitivity All Of A Sudden?

    High school was hell.  Teenagers are savages.  Parents are clueless.  You want to know why kids are blowing away their classmates and teachers?  Just spend one day in a high school.  You're pushed around, called names, beat up, belittled, and the...
    digitalpagan digitalpagan 46-50 8 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    7-12 Grade

    I was a small girl but I would still find the younger/smaller and bully them a lot. Mostly words, but sometimes pranks and physical bullying too
    MissKira MissKira 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Yup

    It's true, I hate to admit it but i was a bully.  Only to a certain few people.  One because they were a bully so i decided they needed to see how it felt.  Another because it made me feel cool; looking back on this i feel horrible about the things i did. ...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    I'm Sorry :(

    For more than 10 years I was bully… I enjoyed laughing at “ugly” girls and putting nicknames, kicking and punching the boys that send me cards and chocolates, I was a little monster, out of control and enjoying hurting people. At 15 I started to consume cocaine, first...
    niNa8mOdigli niNa8mOdigli 18-21, F 23 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Still Am?

    I'm still in high school, but I'm beginning to notice how I've hurt people, even my friends. Lighthearted teasing that goes a little too far. Smirks and giggling when the "weird" girl reads her report in class. Eyerolling. Whispering. Gossiping. I never said anything to their...
    emmelinesmiles emmelinesmiles 13-15 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Long Time Bully

    I spent about two years of my life in High School being a bully. I had two main targets who were social outcasts to begin with and this just distanced them from the rest of their year more, i am sure. One was a full Goth, the other a partial Emo. I encouraged both that they...
    CourtneyJester CourtneyJester 18-21, F 40 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I Was A Bully

    I was a bully,High school,How else was anyone,To have any fun?Bullying,Great fun,I was,The King of them all!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    So How Many Of You Bullies Use Facebook As A Way To Try And Redeem Yourselves?

    Are any of you those pathetic bullies who supposedly developed a conscience in adulthood and try to add the people you bullied in school on facebook? Seriously...WHY? What's the point? You obviously hated that person so much for being uglier than you, smarter than you, poorer...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Oh I Hated High School

    I always thought high school would be fun and challenging and I would get to know a lot of people. Oh no I was wrong. I didn't really talk to anybody and I remember I hated a couple of classes, not because of the work or the subject, but because of the people. I was hoping...
    drama591 drama591 18-21, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Bullying An Ugly Girl.

    Yeah I was a bully. I used to bully this nerdy smart chick in school. I know it was mean but I just couldn't help myself! I mean this chick was UGLY. She wore these big, thick glasses and had this fuzzy hair and acne. She was, at best a four...maybe a five is she fixed herself up...
    typicalguy typicalguy 26-30, M 8 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    A Bully And A Victim

    I hang my head in shame. I was both. I was bullied by a few girls in high school but 2 compensate for that I bullied one or two different girls as well. Although having said that I started to bully when I was about 9 or ten. I tried to stick one girls head down a dirty toilet pan...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Bully For Being Bullied

    As a kid I was bullied every day by this one boy who didn't know how to show that he liked me. His name was Jerry. At the time, I had no idea he had a crush on me. And he was afraid because I was also a guy and he thought there was something wrong with being gay. He used to tease...
    HitchhikingProphet HitchhikingProphet 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Bullymaster!

    Yes, I was a big time bully in high school. My juniors cant tolerate me but they love me too, i bully them the right way...LOL They call me the bully master. I take revenge for others as well...LOL
    zeiro87 zeiro87 22-25, F 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    I'm a journalist in the Orlando FL area looking

    to speak with someone who bullied people in middle or high school. Would you be willing to do an interview about what you did, why you did it, and what you learned?
    MarcieG MarcieG 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Related Experiences

    It's funny how I make more money and have a better life then the people who used to make fun of me when I was in high school xD Best revenge : Lead a better life than them.
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    There was one girl who hated me. She was a popular girl. She just hated me and I never knew why. I ended up being in a lot of her classes. I can't remember everything. So I will...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Out of All My Closest High School Friends... I only stayed in touch with two of them after high school. There are a few others I still talk to from time to time & I'm talking...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    It's finally my senior year and I'll be out in June!!!! It's crazy how time has really gone by!! I remember like it was just yesterday that I started my freshman year! wow It's...
    Gabsters05 Gabsters05 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I go to a small high school. There is approximately 100 kids in my high school. I'm a freshman girl. I'm smart and I tend to stay at home and study then go and party. But I really...
    Smalltowngirl1999 Smalltowngirl1999 13-15, F Sep 27

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    I would give anything to go back to high school and play football again time goes by so fast football was the best time of my life it's the only time I was a part of something...
    maridoneka maridoneka 18-21, M Sep 26

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    Ok so Im so happy that I'm talking to hugo/high school sweetheart i really like him now.The crazy thing is that we dated before in high school and during the time i dated him i...
    Goldcandle Goldcandle 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    In July 1982, the summer that I started high school, I was with my mum on holiday in Paris. We were on a bateau mouche trip on the river, and the boy (about the same age as me...
    yfronts36 yfronts36 41-45, M Sep 26

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    Hate it with a passion. I'm always being told I'm lucky I get a free education but that's not what it is anymore. Hardly any teachers are there to actually teach, they're there to...
    Blackbirdy13 Blackbirdy13 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My last game high school game in the playoffs the UW Wisconsin coach was there. I didn't know it. He came to see someone else. From a town of 1,200 and 87 in my graduating class...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I've been there, in grade school & jr high, I get beat up all the time & unbelievable things kids would do, back then there were no Internet or a pc back in my days my generation...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F Oct 14

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    I met my current boyfriend my freshman year of high school. I had art with him. At the time i had a boyfriend. Eventually as the year progressed, things ended with the guy. The end...
    MadisonBri1 MadisonBri1 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I just absolutely hate it. I hate learning i'm just more of a laid back kind of person. i'm far from a dummie though,. I just hate waking up early. I have to be to school by 8:15...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Well grade 9 is considered as high school in USA but in indonesia it's still middle school . It's the last year of middle school . I have national examination , highschool entrance...
    ninasumarlie ninasumarlie 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    I didn't graduate high school, but I graduated from College with a 3.6 GPA. Is this a sign that the public school system in our society is extremely flawed and biased ? In other...
    Ruizf2 Ruizf2 26-30 1 Response Sep 30

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    I droped out of high school and didn't get my high school diploma or a GED now I'm in my last semester at my local community college and next semester will be my first time...
    lost1500 lost1500 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I wish I had been home schooled. What I went through traumatised me. I believe it still affects me deeply. How can it not hurt to be teased by so many people. Even having teachers...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    High School is just a big pile of crap. Everyone thinks that we are not good enough for anything. The teachers make me feel like I am a failure at life. My principal told me today...
    forevermckayla forevermckayla 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I was a 1 year marcher, and i loved every second of it. The friends, the experience, and the memories made. It was the first sport that I actually enjoyed, and was proud to be in...
    SixteenthNight SixteenthNight 13-15, M Oct 11

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    I am in a private high school in Gardena CA . I am closeted.. I am single. I am a freshman. I knew I was gay since 4th grade.
    xprtbest3 xprtbest3 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    More like loved... Done n graduated but I miss it ohhhh so much. To those of u sitting there huffing and puffing in school, STOP! Enjoy it while it lasts because I am telling u, as...
    lostwithin25 lostwithin25 22-25, F Sep 30

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    Ok so I was the only kid in a wheelchair when I was at school and in high school I got bullied a lot. I was put in my chair on a picnic bench so that I couldn't get off without...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 6 Responses Oct 1

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    I have been in school for 2 months today and have been absent 7 times (6 excused 1 unexcused) it says in the handbook that 6 unexcused is okay but 7 and you lose high school credit...
    abp62626 abp62626 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    I don't understand why lots of people don't like high school. We are doing courses that lead to higher education. Plus the sports facilities are rhyfeddol. There are so many...
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Add me :) I'm an Aussie gal so id like to add high school same age as me, I'm 17 years old :)
    FebeBab3 FebeBab3 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 29