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I Was A "parent" At The Age Of Nineteen

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    In Loco Parentis - When I was just 19 –way back in the Dark Ages, it seems now- I had the immense good fortune to live with a four year-old child, as his “Dad”, in loco...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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