I Was a Virgin For a Long Time

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Relieved To Lose Virginity...

    Many of the people in my circle, in fact all of the people in my circle, probably think that I lost my virginity a long, long time ago. To them, I do apologize for leading them to believe something that wasn't true. Anyway, I was a virgin until this past Saturday. I am so...
    hikerchick2011 hikerchick2011
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Dec 5, 2011

    I Still Am, Mentally.

    I may not be a physical virgin but, mentally I still think I am. And I kind of act like one, too. I'd rather be clean than to be left with an STD or a kid.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    5 Responses Aug 7, 2011

    i have used massage as a substitute

    for sex since i was 15, it's safer, less messy and quicker, however when i'm in the mood now my puddin tang will have some fun!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 8, 2014

    22 Dry Years

    Spending my early adolescence in the Middle East, sex was a major taboo. My parents didn't help much either, they're very religious and conservative. Until I was 22, my only sexual experiences were homosexual, or just dry-humping, making out, etc etc with girls. I read a lot...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 19, 2013

    I Lost My Virginity Late

    First of all, the reason it happened so late for me (age 21), was because I was painfully shy for a long time, wore glasses, and baggy clothes while in highschool, but there's still plenty of other people who look like that in highschool who can get a boyfriend. I barely talked...
    Spice99857 Spice99857
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2008

    Til I Was 29 Years Old

    I was a virgin for way too long... I put it down to that I must have been very ugly and boring and nice cute young guys didn't like me enough.... I hardly ever made friends with men on my own... and most were married anyway... I never got invited to parties and I was very...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Sep 11, 2011

    I waited a long time to have sex,

    and my boyfriend at the time was a big disappointment. We talk once in a while, but I don't know how to tell him nicely I don't want to have sex and he isn't taking a hint. Suggestions?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    I am SO GLAD there is a group about this!

    I was a virgin for a long time- lets not even give a number here that's how long. It's a good thing I am SO GLAD I waited. I think there is so much pressure to just do it when you are young *sorry for the pun there* but I am so; so glad that I waited. I know this may attract...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014
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