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I Was a Youth Pastor and Loved It

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    Youth Pastor

    I am 19 and currently my church's youth pastor (intern). True I'm only a year or two older than some of them, but I find this gives me "street cred" and earns an ability to talk to them straight and on their level. It's hugely rewarding, and one of the best things about my life.
    jeremyfairbanks32 jeremyfairbanks32 18-21, M Mar 15, 2013

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