I Was Abandoned In My Time Of Need

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,157 People

    A Real Friend...yeah...right

    Several years ago I got my heart broken...really shattered...and because I was still "depressing to be around" a month or so late my "good" friend decided she just couldn't keep spending time with me til I "got over it"...needless to say, our so called friendship has never been...
    fuzzybottom fuzzybottom
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    So It Seems.....

    I'm abandoned. Again. While I'm getting pushed around everywhere I go, he's off doing who knows what. You know it hurts, having them same thoughts and questions go through your head. Will he come back? Did he ever really love me? Will I ever get out of this? Will I survive today...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    I don't understand why my aunt behaves like

    this - we used to be extremely close for more than 30 years since I was born, she half-raised me, we would talk all the time, she was there for me for breakups and study problems, but twelve years ago I started being severely ill, with something that only last year was diagnosed...
    Darkvalley Darkvalley
    41-45, F
    Apr 14

    I'm being abandoned by my support system at the

    lowest point in my life. I never felt so useless.
    deejustdee6969 deejustdee6969
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    So I opened up to a good friend of mine about

    the whole suicide thing... And how depressed I've been and even dabbled in my past and he was so supportive and great and gave good advice and was very compassionate... He made so many Hell or High Water promises and made me feel like the sun shined for me, that he'd be there as...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    He Left Without Saying Goodbye

    He cheated on me with my bestfriend in a time of need, i had just lost my grandfather and started back with the cutting...and he kissed my "best friend" i went into a deep depression after that, people say your wasy to young to feel such a thing...well guess what we all are...
    emokidd254 emokidd254
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2012

    at this point I'm praying

    for a punch in the face or stomach so he is forced to leave. pretty f#$king pathetic it's come to this. Go ahead and hit me a@*hole. Your words are like knives & I don't think I can feel any worse. Go ahead and just do it already!
    deejustdee6969 deejustdee6969
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    i was there for a boyfriend our senior year of

    high school when he tried to commit suicide. i got help and took him to the hospital where they pumped his stomach . he ended up joining the military and we broke up. i got married 5 yrs later. then he got married a year later. we reconnected and had a yearlong affair. he...
    ladylynx73 ladylynx73
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    why Doesn't She Love Me?

    Growing up in a white suburban life. Living a silent secret.because I felt embarrass but showing my face to my sibling and the oldest one thinking they would have known why? Rebelled against my mother and father thinking this would help "thrown them all to the dogs" i used to...
    icuao2 icuao2
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2010

    This Is How It Felt When I Was So Close To Ending It

    It was about 4-5yrs ago now when i tried to take my own life.At that point in time i felt like i had no-one.No-one to support me or to be my friend.No-one to just sit & listen to me when i needed someone to talk to. This is when i decided to attempt suicide.I did end up in ICU...
    sweetiepiebutterfly sweetiepiebutterfly
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jul 6, 2010

    Now I can't trust people .

    I just don't believe in people like I used to .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    I'm Scared

    I don't know why but i don't want to see people anymore ! I don't want to meet anyone or to talk to anyone maybe this time I was really hurt! My mom wanted me to help her with her job I really like helping her ! But when I was in front of our house door I couldn't go out ! I...
    Yamlim Yamlim
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2013
    GaleJake GaleJake
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2014

    Today I Was Hurt Again ....

    I thought that i wanted to die but today i discovered that i wanted to be saved ! For the first time of my life i didn't felt like I'm alive at all !! I felt like i was living in a dream that I'll wake up soon and all my problems will be over ! I still wish i'm right ! Some...
    Yamlim Yamlim
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    I'm used to it now, but I'm trying to be more

    cautious so it doesn't happen again.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 5, 2015

    After twenty years of marriage to my high

    school sweetheart my health began deteriorating. She never had to work. I provided a stable life for her and our three sons. I thought that I would grow old and die with her, my soul mate. After I lost my business and then our home she decided to get a job. Within a...
    enjoyreadingyou enjoyreadingyou
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    I think this happens with everybody.

    But believe me, that is the only phase of life where we learn so many things about life and people. I always take things positively so i have enough past with me to make my future bright. And yes..i got the result. :)
    esteem29 esteem29
    31-35, M
    Jul 3, 2015

    I have always tried to be there

    for my friends( even when my love thought I shouldn't because I was being used ) ! But I came when they called or I heard they needed ( No strings , no costs) But when my Love was sick and I needed ( I couldn't break in front of her) They could not answer !
    Left1alone Left1alone
    46-50, M
    Jul 3, 2015

    Strength

    In the past week my close friend died suddenly in an accident, my best friend and lover broke up with me (its not you, its me), and all the family and friends I have and thought I could turn to for support have COMPLETELY abandoned me. This is not a cry for attention. I AM SAD. I...
    jes333 jes333
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 4, 2013

    I awoke this morning,

    and instantly started to ball my eyes out as I realized it wasn't a nightmare! My husband is still gone. July 12 will be our 1 st month of marriage And we are no longer together. As I did my bible study I realized this is a spiritual battle and its my flesh that is hurting...
    Only1me4life Only1me4life
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    I Was Supportive Of My Loved One For 5 Whole Years, And The One Time I Needed Support In Return...I Was Rejected &Amp; Abandoned

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2013

    During ones's greatest hour of need,

    we find out who our real friends are. I was sadly disappointed.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    My husband has an anger problem.

    I'm really passive and soft. But little things will turn him into this mean raging man. The rest of the time he's super affectionate. Often inappropriately so in public. If I don't feel super kissy because I'm tired or stressed from school or busy working on something, he can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 2, 2015

    Through pure gullibility n naivety at 16 I lost

    everyone I ever knew in my life those close to me n that had met or known Everyone abandoned me n it was then I realised ppl truly didn't give a sh?t n how misunderstood I am by others. Feeling lonely psychologically n actually being alone with no one are 2 totally different...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 7, 2015

    It Shows Character

    If someone abandoned you in you're time of need... I know it's hurts..But realize Karma is alive and well ... and when they truely need someone they will finally stop and realize nobody is here because of what I did in the past!
    delta454 delta454
    31-35, F
    Mar 28, 2011

    I have experiences of abandonment

    but the ones that are the most painful are those by loved ones, partners, friends, family. The people I have worked so hard to please and be loyal too. So what I've learned from my multiple abandonments is to do things for myself more often and to reconnect to my happiness. And...
    Zylah Zylah
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    I tell myself to just be strong

    for me and to not ask for help, because my emotions make me weak. Then there is no such thing as abandoment, no expectations means no disappointment.
    MissPandpet MissPandpet
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    Old Friends

    To all my old friends who abandoned me I am sorry I got sick I am sorry I ended up paralyzed I am sorry I don't fit in any more but what you did was unforgiveable I waited for you to visit me I waited for seven months but nothing I don't know way you can't look past the chair...
    TheDevilsOwn TheDevilsOwn
    22-25, M
    14 Responses Jan 3, 2011

    Superport100

    I was blown up in a horrific and life altering combat event. I lost my two buds Glen and Nick. I was transported back to the states with a memory problem that still effects me even today along with constant pain in my hips and back. When I returned to the states I was so...
    superport100 superport100
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2012

    It was my freshman year of high school,

    and my ex boyfriend and I were still dating at the time. I was going through the worst possible health problems I had ever been through. I was diagnosed with possible lung disease for the longest time. When I was a baby my lungs were coated in mucus, and I couldn't breathe right...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 2, 2015

    I was always the guy

    who everyone called when they had a problem or was feeling down, i got so used to being there for everyone that i started doing it even without being asked, i know my friends loved me for it and that they appreciated it but now im sitting here alone when i need them the most, i...
    anarchopacifista anarchopacifista
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2014

    Leaving Me

    i was in my early 20"s and i was dating a man who i felt was everything. I hid him from everyone in my life. NO ONE knew i was dating him ..I would always say that i was at my friend's house when i was with him.He had a little apartment and it didn't have much.. but he worked a...
    moonstar312 moonstar312
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Dec 15, 2011

    I joined a pack who then kicked me out

    because they didn't want me in there after awhile this is for all the outcasts and people who don't fit In and who also got kicked out
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 28

    Dumped And Alone

    I am alone with a son of 21 who is disabled. For the past month i have had a mystery illness made up of weird symptoms - a stiff jaw (put it down to many painful and unnecessary dental injections), facial paralysis, extreme giddiness and feeling as if i am about to pass out...
    worriedandalone worriedandalone
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2012

    when i was 5 or 6 my father stopped being

    involved with my life. stupid ************. I'm better off without him.
    Ang012685 Ang012685
    31-35, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    The person I love most on earth abandoned me.

    She didn't come to me and left me...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 12, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

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