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I Was Abandoned In My Time Of Need

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    What Did You Do For Me?

    You invited me into your life. You told me I was your friend and that you loved me as such. You allowed me to trust you. You introduced me to a lover, who you encouraged to date me and make love to me even though he did not love me and you knew that. You invited me to live in...
    origamilover origamilover 22-25, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Lightning

    You promised. We met online, but you never pressured me to give anything. You were my best friend. You know my dreams. You knew I have a fear of Lightning, so you would offer words of comfort when they came. Where are you now? You promised. But when I got too scared, And my life...
    CherryBlossom12391 CherryBlossom12391 16-17, F 2 Responses May 3, 2013

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    So It Seems.....

    I'm abandoned. Again. While I'm getting pushed around everywhere I go, he's off doing who knows what. You know it hurts, having them same thoughts and questions go through your head. Will he come back? Did he ever really love me? Will I ever get out of this? Will I survive today...
    DivergentWolf DivergentWolf 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Old Friends

    To all my old friends who abandoned me I am sorry I got sick I am sorry I ended up paralyzed I am sorry I don't fit in any more but what you did was unforgiveable I waited for you to visit me I waited for seven months but nothing I don't know way you can't look past the chair...
    TheDevilsOwn TheDevilsOwn 22-25, M 14 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    He Left Without Saying Goodbye

    He cheated on me with my bestfriend in a time of need, i had just lost my grandfather and started back with the cutting...and he kissed my "best friend" i went into a deep depression after that, people say your wasy to young to feel such a thing...well guess what we all are...
    emokidd254 emokidd254 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Parents Always Put Their Children First... Not My Dad.

    To start off I am just going to give a short background story: My mother died when I was 6, and my dad was not in my life really until that point. When I was in 3rd grade he had a physically abusive girlfriend and when I was in 7th he had another girlfriend who was not only...
    rockchick1681 rockchick1681 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    Dumped And Alone

    I am alone with a son of 21 who is disabled. For the past month i have had a mystery illness made up of weird symptoms - a stiff jaw (put it down to many painful and unnecessary dental injections), facial paralysis, extreme giddiness and feeling as if i am about to pass out...
    worriedandalone worriedandalone 61-65, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    I'm Scared

    I don't know why but i don't want to see people anymore ! I don't want to meet anyone or to talk to anyone maybe this time I was really hurt! My mom wanted me to help her with her job I really like helping her ! But when I was in front of our house door I couldn't go out ! I...
    Yamlim Yamlim 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Leaving Me

    i was in my early 20"s and i was dating a man who i felt was everything. I hid him from everyone in my life. NO ONE knew i was dating him ..I would always say that i was at my friend's house when i was with him.He had a little apartment and it didn't have much.. but he worked a...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I Was Only 3, Still A Toddler

    One morning I woke up by myself with out my parents there so I started screaming and crying and sat next to the door which was locked with a chain. Some family members that were at the house at the time were telling me to calm down that my parents would be back soon and if i saw...
    sadfairii sadfairii 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    I Don't Need Your Help

    Some help would have been nice, but I'll manage to get by because that's what I always do. I just get by every single time that I could use a hand. There's never anyone really willing to go a little out of their way. That's ok. My problems aren't anyone else's responsibility...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 1 Response May 26, 2012

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    Strength

    In the past week my close friend died suddenly in an accident, my best friend and lover broke up with me (its not you, its me), and all the family and friends I have and thought I could turn to for support have COMPLETELY abandoned me. This is not a cry for attention. I AM SAD. I...
    jes333 jes333 26-30, F 8 Responses May 4, 2013

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    It Hurts So Much That I Can't Even Cry

    I really needed 'that person'. I even told 'that person' that I needed him and that I don't have anyone else. He was supposed to be my closest friend but... I don't know, maybe I was the only one who thought that he was my good friend. I can sensed that he is afraid of me because...
    amethyst91 amethyst91 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    When She Died

    my 8 mos. old daughter, that is, in a car accident. That's when the **** hit the fan. My husband & I had joint friends. They took his side in blaming me. I wasn't even driving the car so how could I have orchestrated the whole freeway? I mean really?!? His family tried to get me...
    cutebabybear cutebabybear 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2011

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    why Doesn't She Love Me?

    Growing up in a white suburban life. Living a silent secret.because I felt embarrass but showing my face to my sibling and the oldest one thinking they would have known why? Rebelled against my mother and father thinking this would help "thrown them all to the dogs" i used to...
    icuao2 icuao2 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    Superport100

    I was blown up in a horrific and life altering combat event. I lost my two buds Glen and Nick. I was transported back to the states with a memory problem that still effects me even today along with constant pain in my hips and back. When I returned to the states I was so...
    superport100 superport100 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    When It Rains, It Pours.

    A couple of weeks ago I got into a fight. This wouldn't usually be a problem, but there were 8 of them and they were as stupid as they were many, hitting me while I was down. The aftermath left me with a broken arm, a swollen jaw and some gnarly cuts and bruises. I didn't pass my...
    gonzomthrfckr gonzomthrfckr 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    I Was Supportive Of My Loved One For 5 Whole Years, And The One Time I Needed Support In Return...I Was Rejected &Amp; Abandoned

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F Jul 8, 2013

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    Abonded To

    in nov 07 i was dating a nice guy so i thought i went to the doctor for test i found out i have cancer he dumped me but this just one of many terribly things ive had to face since 2006 its been never ending bad news one back stabber to the next for a min i stopped beliving in god...
    nodrama123 nodrama123 36-40 4 Responses Nov 28, 2010

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    A Real Friend...yeah...right

    Several years ago I got my heart broken...really shattered...and because I was still "depressing to be around" a month or so late my "good" friend decided she just couldn't keep spending time with me til I "got over it"...needless to say, our so called friendship has never been...
    fuzzybottom fuzzybottom 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    My Parents

    My parents abandoned me once I became an adult, and neglected me when I was a kid. Other people, who were supposed to be parent figures, did the same.
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Stronger Now

    My best friends started looking at me different, talking behind my back, saying backhanded comments, ect, ect. Before that i had lost another friend. Its messed me up in the head, bad; depression, suicidal thoughts, f*cked up stuff. Instead of being there for me, my friends...
    LiveOnTheByas LiveOnTheByas 18-21, M Aug 19, 2011

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    Today I Was Hurt Again ....

    I thought that i wanted to die but today i discovered that i wanted to be saved ! For the first time of my life i didn't felt like I'm alive at all !! I felt like i was living in a dream that I'll wake up soon and all my problems will be over ! I still wish i'm right ! Some...
    Yamlim Yamlim 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    This Is How It Felt When I Was So Close To Ending It

    It was about 4-5yrs ago now when i tried to take my own life.At that point in time i felt like i had no-one.No-one to support me or to be my friend.No-one to just sit & listen to me when i needed someone to talk to. This is when i decided to attempt suicide.I did end up in ICU...
    sweetiepiebutterfly sweetiepiebutterfly 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Will You Belive Me?

    Having  bipolar mania which I felt was under controlled not realizing by throwing my in laws out of my house for their nosiness's and meddling into my past and always holding back the events to my husband cause I was or seemed to had been in a panic attack but telling...
    icuao2 icuao2 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2010

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    By Someone I Thought Would Always Be There For Me

    Back when my ex on me there was a time when I was feeling extremely depressed to the point where I felt I was going to self harm after finally getting him on the phone I was crying my eyes out and telling him that I needed him because I felt like I was going to do something to...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    We've Been Through Too Much...

    We've been through tough times before and have still pulled through together. But never anything as serious as this. I have always said -and meant- I didn't want any more children until I was married. Because it was tough doing it alone with 1 already. But nobody wants to LOSE...
    BorderlineMind BorderlineMind 22-25, F Nov 19, 2012

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    It Shows Character

    If someone abandoned you in you're time of need... I know it's hurts..But realize Karma is alive and well ... and when they truely need someone they will finally stop and realize nobody is here because of what I did in the past!
    delta454 delta454 31-35, F Mar 28, 2011

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    Beware Of Online Friends

    i had these 2 online friends that i connected with because we were in similar situations. we comforted each other via chatting and emails. however when their situations got better...they disappeared. no longer responded to my emails or PM's. i think it was a selfish thing to...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 6 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Lies, Truthes And Me.

    Everyone does. People just don't like me as much as they could. I get on people's nerves. It's a given. I. Am. A. Screw up. It's usually with people I adore. I say something. One nightmare though has been haunting my sleep. And I will only tell one person. My girlfriend. She's...
    shadowsrain13 shadowsrain13 18-21, F Jul 18, 2013

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    My Brother Abandoned Me When I Was 15

    I was 15 yrs old when my parents died, my older brother was married to his second wife at the time and she was a royal *****. Her father owned a successful company so she was a rich daddys brat, she never liked our family because we were low income and we were not welcome to...
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    GaleJake GaleJake 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    When She Died

    my 8 mos. old daughter, that is, in a car accident. That's when the **** hit the fan. My husband & I had joint friends. They took his side in blaming me. I wasn't even driving the car so how could I have orchestrated the whole freeway? I mean really?!? His family tried to get me...
    cutebabybear cutebabybear 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2011

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    Ah Where To Begin This Is The First Time My Mom Abondoned Me

    I was very depressed 16 at the time I was on zoloft shoud not have been they were abusive that's where the problem should have been fixed I overdosed and my mom would not take me to the hospital then when I told her I will not throw up to save your *** because, you were never...
    dragonfly23 dragonfly23 22-25 Sep 30, 2010

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    I wasted my time on many people. 5 persons. They were fake friends who betrayed me.
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    I wasted my time on you, I was so hooked on you & all you did was betray me.
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    The other day I was working on a project for my studies. It's an emotional art piece - it's about me coming to find my own self, to ground in myself rather than in other people...
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    I just really wish there was people that understood, and wanted to talk about it
    Jacks1998 Jacks1998 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
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    And he cheated. And then I cried for 24hrs, and he left his family for her. She's slept with 86 people. I'm in such a bad spot in life as is. I've already cut. I see no hope. My...
    Stargasm Stargasm 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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