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I Was Abused and Betrayed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 19 People

    Remorse?

    As a little girl, my mum had difficulty looking after me most of younger years. I was always shipped around with family and her friends. I had a Godmother and she was like my second mum I guess. She had a boyfriend and a son. To her I guess we were a happy little family.. One day...
    indiahmarie indiahmarie 18-21, F Dec 13, 2009

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    Life Is A Cockamamie *****

    So, excuse me for the occasions swear word. The reason I write this story is because it may make me feel slightly better or amuse others. The story is my first long term relationship with a woman, at first she appeared normal, funny, dressed in a Gothic type of way, beautiful...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 11, 2013

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    I found out that he was a predator and he was 33 and tried to hit on my little sister who just turned 18. He's been planning it since she was 15.
    lucky26 lucky26 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2009

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    Abused and Betrayed

    I still hurt from being abused, kicked out and betrayed by the man that I loved and I thought loved me back. We had been through so much together and I found out he was pretending to be something that he was not. He decieved me and acted like it was my fault.
    lucky26 lucky26 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2009

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    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I also found this: General Timeline of Recovery Q: How Long Will It Take Me To Heal From This? A: There is no set time line. On the average it's 1-2 years to heal from betrayal...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 2 Responses a week ago

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