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I Was Abused By My Boyfriend

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    My boyfriend has been jealous

    and controlling since day one. He tells me who I can hang out with and when, made me delete social profiles, tells me what I can't wear, calls me names when we fight. He wasn't ever physically abusive until two months after our one year anniversary. We were arguing while I was...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    I Was Mentally, Verbally, And Physically Abused By My Boyfriend

    He basically wanted me all to himself.. Even when i wouldnt do something wrong he'd hit me. It would be anywhere from saying something he didn't like, or dressed a way he didn't like. he'd keep telling me he loves me so i'd go back. He beat me 6 times. the verbal abuse never...
    ann4444 ann4444 22-25, F 4 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Why This Keep Happening

    just last night i had a nervous break down like it was so strange cause i was watching the tv show Mob wives. and like this feeling came across me i got down on my knees and started to have all these flashbacks in myy head of all the time i was abused . i literatlly cried for and...
    punk19 punk19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2012

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    Beating The Devil...my Mindset When I Was In An Abusive Relationship.

    Yes, he has chosen his victim well. She was weak in flesh and mind. He tells, and she obeys. He withholds, and she wonders and asks. He tells her she is insecure, and she thinks it must be true, because why then would she always feel this way, this empty, this lonely, this...
    Hermosa3907 Hermosa3907 18-21 4 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Lesson Learned

    It so crazy how i can just be laying down and all these flash backs come back , i could literally remember every time he hit me . like the one incident where he saw a name in my phone who he didnt recognize . he started out asking me questions i had so much fear inside i couldnt...
    punk19 punk19 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2011

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    What Should I Do?

    I was abused by my boyfriend. First our relationship was cool. He was everything a girl could ever want in a guy, cute, funny, creative and then the jealous side of him just took over. The first time he hit me was when we were at a friends party and he wanted me to go home...
    Tatiana1 Tatiana1 18-21 4 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    I Still Don't Know What To Think....

    The relationship I had with my abusive boyfriend was very different, I think from others. He hit me, but we got into mutual fights with eachother. I was brought up to defend myself so anytime I was hit, I would def try to hit back, or at least defend myself from the beating that...
    nativemel nativemel 22-25 1 Response Jul 10, 2010

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    Dont Say No.

    I was young. I admit, maybe i shouldnt have rushed in, think 'this is love' He was the boy everyone wanted. Tyler his name was, such a hot lad, cute, bubbly, made me smile, and loved me for who i was. This was my first, and what i thought would have been my only relationship. I...
    R003 R003 16-17 Oct 2, 2012

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    My Boyfriend And Dad Hit Me. Did I Cause This? Am I The Bad Person?

    Prolog: I grew up in an abusive environment. I never fit in with my family and witnessed and victim to my Dad and myself being called names, such as Fatty for me and Ugly for my Dad. My mother is a looks and money obsessed moron who constantly excluded me form everything and...
    Hermosa3907 Hermosa3907 18-21 3 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Following Me

    I met  him though my brother he was his bestfriend i thought  he was amazing at first. until about 3 months into it and than he put a show on infront of everyone else when we were home he made me have sex to him in many ways if i didnt he would tie me down and stuff...
    Jessbabygirl1988 Jessbabygirl1988 18-21 1 Response Apr 29, 2010

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    Highly Abusive Boyfriend. Has Anyone Experience This? I Feel Alone.

    At 17 years old. I just wanted to be loved and for a guy to want me. I met my now ex boyfriend at a 16 and up club . We got eachothers phone numbers. We lived about an hour and half apart. The next weekend , he went out and took me on a date. Things seemed perfect. And he asked...
    Londok Londok 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    Flashbacks

    When I was 14, I fell madly in love with this boy. The problem was that he was 17, so of course my parents were against it! They told me that I should not be involved with him and would do everything in their power to keep me away from him. But he was so nice, how could they not...
    AlixxLove AlixxLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    I Wasn'T Like That

    my boyfriend at the time was Tyler he was the only friend i had because i ditch them all for this other guy that left me, and Tyler remained my friend. One day in the hall at school i went to the bathroom and he grab me and pinned me against the wall, i asked him what he was...
    kim3286 kim3286 16-17 1 Response Jun 27, 2013

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    It will now be almost a month

    since I left my abuser. But the pain, however, is still affecting my life. Right after I left him I was feeling numb--I couldn't experience the grief and pain I was in. But since the last few days it has been hitting me in waves. I get flashbacks and nightmares and I well up in...
    LiveKindly LiveKindly 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    I have not been abused by an adult.

    But my classmates. I have a little sex and not very muscular boy. Communal showers or have to naked all is sport. Me were worth alot of derogatory thoughts. Reflections came after "some obligation" I had their faires. I refused to start it! But four on me and beat me. I have...
    Charlotte666 Charlotte666 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    I'm no longer with him.

    For the last few weeks, I have been doing well. But the last few days it has started hitting me gain in waves, and I cry in my bed at night. I wish the pain would go away. I wish it had never happened to me.
    LiveKindly LiveKindly 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    My bf I just think he needs help he seems to

    like to pull my hair hard hit me eveything He screams an yells at me an it's getting worse and it started recently for no reason and I keep having to buy makeup I need a new life now I hate covering up the bruises etc
    Anabuddy321 Anabuddy321 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2014

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    He Was Too Good To Be True..

    so i met a guy outside of the mall that was smoking named Greg, we exchanged numbers and we started to talk and hang out a lot. after a couple of months i started to like him and he liked me. one day we were at his house talking, and all of a sudden he grabbed me...
    nikkix87 nikkix87 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    There Is Life After Abuse...

    I was abused at 19 by my boyfriend at the time. We had been friends since i was 14, meeting through a teenage Christian group in town. He had always seemed like such a sap, falling head over heels with the several girlfriends i saw him with. He always seemed like he was getting...
    zipper42 zipper42 26-30 6 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    Intervention

    When I was visiting colleges with my friends, it was common for us to stay a couple days and go out and see what the night life was like on campus. One of the colleges we went to was in Illinois. We went out to one of the local bars. I am not good with large crowds of people so...
    jkhad jkhad 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2013

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    I am no longer with my abuser,

    but I feel like he is still controlling and hurting me. I can't stop thinking about him. He left me after stonewalling me. The day before he started stonewalling me he said he loved me and cared for me. And now he is just gone. And I miss him regardless of all of the abuse. I...
    LiveKindly LiveKindly 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I've been through hell

    and back with this guy he's been in my life for almost 8 years now. He's done it all; cheat, mental abuse, physical abuse and lies after lies. I really want to end this cycle. I feel alone. Stuff like this always pulls me back.
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    My ex abused me physically,

    mentally, and sexually. He would grab my arms so hard he left bruises, and there was one day I remember he tried to crush my head into the seat of his truck. And he molested me on a daily basis with increasing escalation...he all but raped me...and he had these awful mind games...
    kaikins kaikins 18-21 Aug 19, 2014

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    The Childhood Sweetheart Becomes The Childhood Nightmare

    When I was nine I went to my first church. I developed a crush on a tall handsome little boy lateef. Lateef liked me back and we started dating. But one day I saw him hitting his sister and I got scared.she didn't seem to care because it was normal for her. And I figured just...
    Beautifullbabey12 Beautifullbabey12 16-17 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    The One Person You'd Least Expect To Be An Abuser

    Background: Statistics show that most women who are abused are usually a racial minority and have a low income. Just to let you all know not all women are like that. I am from a middle class family, I am white and native american (although I look as white as snow), and the town I...
    lilchemistrygirl lilchemistrygirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    To Those Who Have Shared Their Story...

    To all of those who have had the grace to share their stories in this topic: Whoever was cruel enough to harm you isn't worth your time. If you've already managed to put a stop to it and start/have moved on, then that just shows how amazing you are! To those who are still...
    zipper42 zipper42 26-30 7 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I visited my mother today. I had a great time, but for some reason, as I was walking home I started to think my ex-stepfather. He tried to sexually abuse me when I was 15 years old...
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    Hello there I'm not very sure about how this site works. Please feel free to delete my post if not opportune. Just wanted to write down my experience, I usually do it but I'm the...
    wachadoodaa wachadoodaa 26-30 3 hrs ago

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    I love my boyfriend so much when we argue it makes me love him even more:)
    notheonlyone notheonlyone 13-15, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    14 pan looking for a boyfriend close to my age. preferably close to miami but i can do long distance would like to get to know first
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    I feel pretty similar to a lot of these posts... I know I'm a bit late in commented but your posts have helped me at least realise I'm not alone! I'm different to most of you in...
    Chuggington Chuggington 31-35 1 Response Apr 4

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    When I was 4, my best friend was my neighbor. I went to her house almost everyday after school. One day when I was there, her mom went to the store, so her dad was in charge. He...
    sincerelysl sincerelysl 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm sorry all my posts on Google plus got deleted . Never mind ...I'm not going to mention the names of any businesses anymore as it leads to to having all my writings deleted...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    The vivid memories engulf my mind as if it was yesterday. While I was seven, this thirteen year old guy wanted to play a "game" at his apartment. The "game" ended in touching me...
    WisdomIsKeyyyy WisdomIsKeyyyy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    It was only one time that was slightly violent. Mostly, it was just one giant guilt trip. But that doesn't make watching rape on TV any easier. It doesn't make watching the...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I said I would stop but after seeing other girls go through this in just one week I had to share He told me to wait for him near the bus stop and we would walk to school from there...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I was not just emotionally abused by my mother. I was physically and emotionally abused. My mother would scream and yell at me when I cried. She would tell me to stop crying, OR...
    SupressedOne SupressedOne 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Thinking about death and life every night. side by side life and death. My insomnia is really horrible. I stop taking meds at this moment,and i've been taking counseling. sorry i...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I knew him since we were young and he started hanging with the wrong people when he was 17. I told him I couldn't handle the stress and broke up with him. Just recently I got a new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 5

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    By a 49 year old kidnapper.. I used to think nothing would ever happen to me. This thinking and naivety led me down the path of being abused by him and manipulated greatly. I am...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been sexually abused by my father since I was a little girl, around 9. Whenever my mom travelled for work, which was often, he would come to me and touch me, kiss me, force me...
    Kay06 Kay06 18-21, T 3 Responses Apr 1

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    From the age of 6 to 11 I was sexually abused by a family friend's son who was only 3 years older than me. I told a counselor about this who told my mom who was furious at me for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 17

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