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I Was Abused By My Boyfriend

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    Intervention

    When I was visiting colleges with my friends, it was common for us to stay a couple days and go out and see what the night life was like on campus. One of the colleges we went to was in Illinois. We went out to one of the local bars. I am not good with large crowds of people so...
    jkhad jkhad 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    I was abused by my boyfriend. First our relationship was cool. He was everything a girl could ever want in a guy, cute, funny, creative and then the jealous side of him just took over. The first time he hit me was when we were at a friends party and he wanted me to go home...
    Tatiana1 Tatiana1 18-21 4 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    I Still Don't Know What To Think....

    The relationship I had with my abusive boyfriend was very different, I think from others. He hit me, but we got into mutual fights with eachother. I was brought up to defend myself so anytime I was hit, I would def try to hit back, or at least defend myself from the beating that...
    nativemel nativemel 22-25 1 Response Jul 10, 2010

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    I Wasn'T Like That

    my boyfriend at the time was Tyler he was the only friend i had because i ditch them all for this other guy that left me, and Tyler remained my friend. One day in the hall at school i went to the bathroom and he grab me and pinned me against the wall, i asked him what he was...
    kim3286 kim3286 13-15 1 Response Jun 27, 2013

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    The Childhood Sweetheart Becomes The Childhood Nightmare

    When I was nine I went to my first church. I developed a crush on a tall handsome little boy lateef. Lateef liked me back and we started dating. But one day I saw him hitting his sister and I got scared.she didn't seem to care because it was normal for her. And I figured just...
    Beautifullbabey12 Beautifullbabey12 16-17 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    Beating The Devil...my Mindset When I Was In An Abusive Relationship.

    Yes, he has chosen his victim well. She was weak in flesh and mind. He tells, and she obeys. He withholds, and she wonders and asks. He tells her she is insecure, and she thinks it must be true, because why then would she always feel this way, this empty, this lonely, this...
    Hermosa3907 Hermosa3907 18-21 3 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    My bf I just think he needs help he seems to

    like to pull my hair hard hit me eveything He screams an yells at me an it's getting worse and it started recently for no reason and I keep having to buy makeup I need a new life now I hate covering up the bruises etc
    Anabuddy321 Anabuddy321 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I have not been abused by an adult.

    But my classmates. I have a little sex and not very muscular boy. Communal showers or have to naked all is sport. Me were worth alot of derogatory thoughts. Reflections came after "some obligation" I had their faires. I refused to start it! But four on me and beat me. I have...
    Charlotte666 Charlotte666 66-70, M Jan 23

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    Why This Keep Happening

    just last night i had a nervous break down like it was so strange cause i was watching the tv show Mob wives. and like this feeling came across me i got down on my knees and started to have all these flashbacks in myy head of all the time i was abused . i literatlly cried for and...
    punk19 punk19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2012

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    Lesson Learned

    It so crazy how i can just be laying down and all these flash backs come back , i could literally remember every time he hit me . like the one incident where he saw a name in my phone who he didnt recognize . he started out asking me questions i had so much fear inside i couldnt...
    punk19 punk19 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Highly Abusive Boyfriend. Has Anyone Experience This? I Feel Alone.

    At 17 years old. I just wanted to be loved and for a guy to want me. I met my now ex boyfriend at a 16 and up club . We got eachothers phone numbers. We lived about an hour and half apart. The next weekend , he went out and took me on a date. Things seemed perfect. And he asked...
    Londok Londok 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    Flashbacks

    When I was 14, I fell madly in love with this boy. The problem was that he was 17, so of course my parents were against it! They told me that I should not be involved with him and would do everything in their power to keep me away from him. But he was so nice, how could they not...
    AlixxLove AlixxLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    My Boyfriend And Dad Hit Me. Did I Cause This? Am I The Bad Person?

    Prolog: I grew up in an abusive environment. I never fit in with my family and witnessed and victim to my Dad and myself being called names, such as Fatty for me and Ugly for my Dad. My mother is a looks and money obsessed moron who constantly excluded me form everything and...
    Hermosa3907 Hermosa3907 18-21 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    There Is Life After Abuse...

    I was abused at 19 by my boyfriend at the time. We had been friends since i was 14, meeting through a teenage Christian group in town. He had always seemed like such a sap, falling head over heels with the several girlfriends i saw him with. He always seemed like he was getting...
    zipper42 zipper42 26-30 6 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    I Was Mentally, Verbally, And Physically Abused By My Boyfriend

    He basically wanted me all to himself.. Even when i wouldnt do something wrong he'd hit me. It would be anywhere from saying something he didn't like, or dressed a way he didn't like. he'd keep telling me he loves me so i'd go back. He beat me 6 times. the verbal abuse never...
    ann4444 ann4444 22-25, F 4 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Dont Say No.

    I was young. I admit, maybe i shouldnt have rushed in, think 'this is love' He was the boy everyone wanted. Tyler his name was, such a hot lad, cute, bubbly, made me smile, and loved me for who i was. This was my first, and what i thought would have been my only relationship. I...
    R003 R003 16-17 Oct 2, 2012

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    To Those Who Have Shared Their Story...

    To all of those who have had the grace to share their stories in this topic: Whoever was cruel enough to harm you isn't worth your time. If you've already managed to put a stop to it and start/have moved on, then that just shows how amazing you are! To those who are still...
    zipper42 zipper42 26-30 6 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I've been through hell

    and back with this guy he's been in my life for almost 8 years now. He's done it all; cheat, mental abuse, physical abuse and lies after lies. I really want to end this cycle. I feel alone. Stuff like this always pulls me back.
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    The One Person You'd Least Expect To Be An Abuser

    Background: Statistics show that most women who are abused are usually a racial minority and have a low income. Just to let you all know not all women are like that. I am from a middle class family, I am white and native american (although I look as white as snow), and the town I...
    lilchemistrygirl lilchemistrygirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    but looks like it's against the rules of this website to say anything about it.
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    Meant for someone else, but not for me. Love was out to get me. That's the way it seemed. Disappointment haunted all my dreams... Then I saw his face. And now I'm a believer...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love or care about although he says he does. I was abused as a teen and now in my late twenties I've been able to have my first relationship. The...
    Tillnow Tillnow 26-30, F Mar 22

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    This is something I have a hard time admitting and even though I have talked about the abuse to people I trust, I never let them know it was him. 10 years after the last incident...
    shierahawke88 shierahawke88 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I was abused and I thank them all now because I know that no one can hurt me ever again I survived and I am stronger than anything that anyone can ever throw at me. if you were...
    trianglelakeboy trianglelakeboy 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    It's been three weeks. He still doesn't know, and I won't ever tell him the reason I finally broke up with him. And just like that, three years of my life is something I have to...
    Jenuinely Jenuinely 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have only told a few people during the last 24 years. The first time I told my cousin, and she told her Mom. I remember the night when my Mom received a call from her sister...
    pensacola123 pensacola123 36-40 2 Responses Mar 27

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    my father mentally , physically, and emotionaly abused me as a child
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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    So my boyfriend is in prison right. I got his letter today and he broke up with me. It was just so sudden & out of the blue. I dont know how to feel but right now i feel like i...
    Charlie794 Charlie794 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    So is it weird that I am friends with my ex? We had a crazy relationship but that was almost two years ago. We both have moved on but people think that because we hang out, we...
    CindyLovely CindyLovely 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    A few weeks ago I posted about me and my bf moving into a place soon and another post about her being to intrusive in her sons life and mine. This is an update. Ok..for the past...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I seriously have the greatest boyfriend in the world. He is so funny and so sweet. I can tell him anything and he can always make my day so much better. He walks me to class, he...
    alice4114 alice4114 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    im so depressed when i dont have a boyfriend. i have no friends so when i have a boyfriend it completes me and i feel content and no longer lonley. i have an anxiety disorder...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I miss my guy so much, he was meant to get out for the day today and the governor wouldn't let him out, now I have to wait til Wednesday to see him and to hold him in my arms for a...
    sophieteresa sophieteresa 46-50, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I want a boyfriend to call me there own
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    I don't need a hot boyfriend, just one that loves me :3
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    I don't know.. it's just.. I see everyone with boyfriends these days. And to me they aren't dating right... At school, people take pictures of them kissing, like what is this? A...
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    I want to document every single thing that happens so he can know. Idk if I'm the only person who does this. But I wrote him yesterday, and I can think about 10 more different...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I thought after basic I'd be able to go with him. I thought I'd always be with him and it wouldn't be like this anymore. I guess I was wrong. I have 10 days that I have to share...
    nikkiwtt nikkiwtt 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I spent a cple of years depressed, when my father passed away i spent most the time locked in my room, and due to religious traditions i stayed with my mom. So offcourse led to a...
    pangel1 pangel1 41-45 Mar 22

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    When I was 15 I started dating....I got my first boyfriend and every thinf seemed great he was only a year older He was always super nice to me and sweet. Wellt hjs didnt last...
    lucy1616 lucy1616 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 28

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