I Was Abused By My Family

mentally...emotionally...physically..sexually... 707 People

    I was sexually abused by my grandfather

    and his dog. I have looked on a lot of abuse sites but have never been able to find anyone else who was abuse by using an animal to do the abuse. Am I the only one who has suffered in this humiliating way? I am finding it hard to live with these memories and the feelings of...
    Veraspain Veraspain
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2014

    im sexualy confused :-( its it's normal what

    I'm feeling but .I don't feel like it is . I feel stupid for feeling this way.
    flowergirl1997 flowergirl1997
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    I was molested before preschool by my 18 year

    old cousin who lived with us at the time. My parents were working a lot and left me alone. In elementary school my older brother started taking out his problems on me. When my parents were around they just let him do it. My dad was a drinker, mom has an addiction to opiates...
    4gotwhereiwas 4gotwhereiwas
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    I was sexually abused during the summer trips I

    was court ordered to take to see my father from the age of 6 to 8 years old after I told my mom I no longer had to see him anymore but his whole family disowned me and punished me for what he did then when I turned 17 they wanted to be a part of my life now that I am 25 and...
    lotus47 lotus47
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    I'm 15 and was sexually abused by my cousin

    and grandfather for 9 years, I am always anxious about everything and I feel so destroyed and tierd
    SarahsSaddness SarahsSaddness
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    You are not your abuse You are not what they

    did to you You are not your trauma You are the cleverness that survived You are the courage that escaped You are the power that hid and protected s tiny spark of your light You will fan that spark into a bonfire of rage and love, and with it you will burn all their lies to...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    My experience is nothing compared to many people

    and so for many years I believed that I was a drama queen and did not realise that what my family did was wrong. I come from a reasonably well-off family with more than I could ask for. My dad is an accountant with busy work which meant that I barely saw him in my childhood. I...
    Rambuchi Rambuchi
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2016

    I can't get over the things I've experienced

    or the fact my mom doesn't believe me till this day. She doesn't know the whole story though, no ones know. I can't come out with it like most people can. My husband doesn't even know the extent of it, he couldn't handle it. I want to shout to the north and to the south. I...
    RebeccaReynolds RebeccaReynolds
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    It's not actually my step dad,

    but I couldn't find the experince I was looking for. And I guess this holds a little bit of anonymity for those who know me on here. :) So yes I have, and still am being sexually harassed. It started off when I was too young to even realise that I was, because of my innocence...
    23kk23 23kk23
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2015

    my family always ignored me

    since i was a kid.
    bigbadbully bigbadbully
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    He was my moms boyfriend.

    he molested me. That happened when I was 8. He just got put in jail. I feel scared for when he gets out.
    jensnowpea jensnowpea
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 22, 2015

    Age of offense: 4, 5,

    6, 7, 8, and 9 Age I spoke up: 14 Current age: 15 Number of therapists: 4 going on 5 Number who listened so far: 0 Friends I told: 7 Friends I lost: 5 2 eating disorders, 37 scars, infinite flashbacks, countless nightmares, and I still hate myself.
    Sarabell00 Sarabell00
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    When I was 5 my innocence was taken from me

    without even knowing it. Everyday weekend my parents would go to my sisters ex husband house ( other family members lived there too). Every time I would go I would go to the basement where they are to play with their daughter and my other nephew too. Well every time I would go...
    Esther98 Esther98
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    after my father passed away my mom turned to

    drugs and booze. I grew up in a very broken abusive torn apart family from 6-14 I was abused. my mom would always come home with different guys and sleep with them for money or drugs. sometimes she dated 3-5 guys at a time to get there drugs and cash. some of her boy friends...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 2, 2015

    My dads an alcoholic

    and my mom is always paranoid, if I do somthing and they find out they'll either hit me or just call me a worthless piece of ****, tell me I'll never get married or have anyone love me, and they never let me forget what happened i I once burned the floor when I was 7 and they...
    shaunrain shaunrain
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2014

    My dad just told me he knows I was raped by my

    mums boyfriend of the time... I just cried my eyes out for the last hour the last thing I ever wanted was for him to know and now he does and I don't know what to do 💔😰
    canijustnot canijustnot
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    Has anyone been molested by their father

    as an adult? I'm having a really hard time dealing with this...
    hjolsh hjolsh
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 3, 2014

    Well, I guess it started

    when we lost my mom. Part of me blamed myself even though I was younger. And my dad blamed me too. Ever since then he's lashed out at me a lot, and hurt me physically and with the things he says. I constantly feel like I'm a failure. Nothing I do is ever good enough for him to...
    JadeCrystalLake JadeCrystalLake
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2016

    When I was young my mother would punch,

    kick and beat me with household objects she would threaten me and my sisters with knives and have very aggressive fights with my father. On one particular night her and my father were fighting she locked herself in a room. She told my father she was going to kill herself. So he...
    pre125 pre125
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    I was abused as a child.

    I've never talked about it. this is the most I've ever talked about it now but I've been holding it in for 15 years. I've been able to usually keep a hold on myself but I feel as tho lately I'm starting to unwind. I hurt and for some reason that is beyond me I cant get these...
    LittleBird131 LittleBird131
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2016

    Where do I start? My dads an alcoholic My

    older brother hates me My mum doesn't even talk to me I was sexually abused by my grandad from the age of 6 to 12/13. I may write more about this but it's something I've never spoken about. I'm not saying I've had the worst childhood but it could've been better. My dads an...
    tltlc tltlc
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    Heaven 3

    Again tonight she attacked me but this time was worst of all. She came in while I was asleep and picked me up. Immediately I started trying to get away. She took me to a club called waddles penguin company for lesbians. There was a sign on the door that said bring lesbians that...
    Yyyyyyywdcd Yyyyyyywdcd
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 15, 2013

    My Past

    When I was young, from the age of about 6, my grandfather (on my mum's side) sexually abused me. At the beginning I didn't really know what was going on and I was told that if I spoke out my nan, who I loved dearly would die. I rather naively placed my trust in my grandfather...
    SerendipityUK SerendipityUK
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 4, 2013
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Apr 1, 2016

    Put The Wall Back Up!!

    When I was 12, my mother's brother touched my breasts, reaching into my shirt. I was traumatized and scared, but I didn't tell my mother until years after he died of cancer. He was her brother; in my child's mind, it would be wrong to say such things about her own family. I put...
    IAmReaching IAmReaching
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    The first time I was 10,

    my stepdad came into my room and started touching my private parts. I told my mom but she just yelled at me. My oldest brother was away in college and my other brother was constantly out of the house. My stepdad kept on abusing me He made me suck his d***k and he sucked my...
    Willoww Willoww
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    I am 13 going to be 14 in a month.

    I have been abused by my family since I was in 2nd grade. my dad was the 1 to start to abuse me. he used to just yell and scream at me bur now he shoves me into wall's, slaps me, spits in my face and punches me. my sister is older than me by 4 years she is 17 1/2. her and me...
    misprisy101 misprisy101
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I was never seriously physically abused.

    A few slaps in te face but nothing more… Verbal and mental abuse are, however, something I'm still facing even today… "You're such a failure" "What a disappointment" "You're supposed to be a genius, be excellent !" "Aren't you a piano prodigy ? You can't even show me what ou...
    AlaRubra AlaRubra
    18-21, T
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    I was raped by the man I thought was my father

    for 17 years.... It turns out that he is not my father, but that doesn't make it any better. The worst part was when he told me he loved me while he was doing it. We go to trial in February
    Mickey19973 Mickey19973
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    It's crazy how it's so easy to open up to

    strangers than someone close to you... I guess because although it happened when I was younger I still have nightmares.... People say to let go to forget but I guess that is because they have never been through it.... They have stories from there childhood like oh I remember...
    Shatteredheartwithoutglue Shatteredheartwithoutglue
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2014

    i was physically abused by my parents ever

    since i was 4-5 it was mostly my mother but my father also did sometimes and i absolutely hated how he watched me getting hit and did or said nothing. then i moved with my mom, one of my sisters and my two brothers and lived in another country for private reasons. and everyday...
    BloodyIris BloodyIris
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    Age 4 to 12 I was sexually abused by my brother

    who is 7 years older then me. There's two main factors as to what caused this. One, my family was in a strict Christian church. Two, we were being homeschooled. I'm 22 now and struggling to find answers. I would really like to talk to someone who has had a similar experience...
    winterbugs winterbugs
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    I was sexually abused by two of my brothers

    for four years. A hell that gave me nightmares. Still haunts me to this day.
    gr8love gr8love
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2014

    Hello this story will be long

    and quite graphic nothing sexually I currently live at my grandparents bungalow from the age of 11 due to my mother moving abroad.it was after the first few days they would start leaving the bathroom door open and walking around naked up stairs I tried to not look but they...
    1aura 1aura
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

    I was and I still cant write details .

    .nobody ever believed me anyway
    Myeyestellu Myeyestellu
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    I was sexually and physically abused by my dad

    from as far as I can remember until I was 12. Then I was physically and mentally abused by my step father until I was 17. My mom turned in to an alcoholic and didn't speak to me from 15-17 even though we lived in the same home. My older brother would say things like it was all...
    sada9999 sada9999
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2014

    it wasn't so much my family

    but I was sexually harassed and assaulted by my cousin. I have no one to turn to? its in the family, so I know no one will believe me. I cant go to family events because he's there. I let it happen but it was getting too serious so I just started hiding away, I cant even face...
    angelajadeclark angelajadeclark
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    I know a girl is being sexually abused in

    Germany, I need somebody to give me the German child protective services cause I haven't been able to find it thru googling.
    Rabbi613 Rabbi613
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I was raped at age 8-10 by my cousin.

    At age 13 I was raped by my boyfriend. I love sex though. Is that weird? After I was raped I loved having sex. At age 15 I gave consent to a 40 year old man to have sex with me because I liked feeling dominated... It scares me... I liked the feeling of him being older and having...
    KianaNicole1010 KianaNicole1010
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    My earliest memory was

    when I was three. My father locked me in a closet because he was drunk. I was scared and in there for a long time. Still to this day I don't know how long I was in there, but when I came out my father was cruel. He started hitting me and yelling at me. My mother wasn't home at...
    StormianaGraymane14 StormianaGraymane14
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

    My experience of abuse is most likely not

    as bad as most people's but I'd still like to share.. The first time I was abused by my dad was when I came home late from a friends house. I was 12 years old at the time. I was dropped off 30 minutes late and my dad yelled at me for it. I tried to go and get my mom for...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    On October 18, 2013 (My 14th birthday) a life

    changing event took place. I had been at birthday party for my cousin because we have such close birthdays. It was a great night until my cousin pleaded & begged me to sleepover at her house, I resisted. She convinced me and we went to her house. All was well we stayed in our...
    burdenedlonesome burdenedlonesome
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2015

    I was sexually abused by my brother

    when I was 5? Then I saw and hear things a girl shouldn't have.then my mother put my hand in her breastfeeding and asked me if I liked it. Some time later I touched my neighbour once. by 14 my brother in law abused me but I don't know...I think I might have wanted it to...
    isaidenough isaidenough
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    I was sexually abused by my uncle

    and grandfather, it took 8 years of my life. It began when I was 2 years old and continued until I turned 10. I would go to my dads house and my uncle would wait for the perfect moment to hurt me. No one would be around, he would touch me everywhere and made sure that I didn't...
    cassiedafuq cassiedafuq
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 22, 2015

    My own brother. 6 years older

    than me. From the time i was 11 till i was 14. He told me it was all about trusting him. If i felt "comfortable" with him. To this day i have not told a single soul. Who wants to be with a girl who has been sexually abuse thats nasty on top of complicated.
    lilyramirez lilyramirez
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    The Silence of Incestual Abuse

    couple of months back when i was near the end of my studies and about to graduate, the exam time was drawing nearer and although i knew many people who were beginning to feel the exam pressure, i was practically at the best time of my life.. i had discovered my independence (in a...
    happyhorse happyhorse
    20 Responses Aug 9, 2008

    I despise thinking this way,

    Do I love my family or do I hate them? This thought is constantly replaying in my mind. Sometimes if makes me sick to my stomach.. I love them, but not what they did to me. I have been sexually, physically, mentally and emotionally abused by my family and I of course blame...
    SkylerJacobson SkylerJacobson
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    A great place to start on this topic is

    when I was seventeen years old and forced into a shot gun wedding.Yes, abuse on their part for not educating me about the birds & the bees.. I knew nothing about sex and thought when people talked about the birds and bees that was just those things. Yes, dumb and naïve as we...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2016
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