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I Was Accused of Cheating When I Didn't

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    Awhile back my husband

    and I were seperated. I was working and a guy I knew stopped in he was a salesman he and his wife were friends. He asked my number and text me every now and then and would call occasionally. His wife found the numbers on their bill and accused us of having an affair. I never...
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

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    Constant Accusations

     Since late December, I've been with a guy who has accused me of cheating since our second date. I should have known better than to stay with him, but he always cared for me, looked out for me, made sure I was eating okay, protected me when others tried to hurt me. He was in...
    withrainyeyes withrainyeyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Helpp My Friend

    Shes like my younger sister our families have always been close, she wanted me to ask if, id b wierd to date a guy who is almost a year younger, shes 14, (like my sis mkre then a friend) and the guy will b 14 in january. she has a boyfriend that lives in france so they never...
    girlfanforever girlfanforever 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    This is the reason my relationship ended.

    I always thought that being on the other end of the spectrum would feel good, ya know? I figured being the one who wasn't so suspicious would be much easier. I was so wrong. I had no idea how much it hurts to be accused of something you would never do.
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Yeah I Was...

    I was accused of cheating twice, both by two different men. However, I have never cheated on anyone, in my whole life. I never want to cheat, and never will. I feel like cheating is a huge low for someone. There is nothing worse than cheating. I will never cheat! BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 24, 2009

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    My GF asked (not accused) me,

    are you seeing someone? I said no because it's the truth. I've never strayed. Been tempted a few times but the most I've done is flirt (my weakness) and dance and get drunk, but nothing physical. Question: Is it cheating if you've not done anything physical?
    funcity2015 funcity2015 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 21

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    I Think I Was Accused Of Cheating At College

    they acted so strange but Marina the teacher told everyone to help each other otherwise we would not get through the course... as it moved quickly... I seen students going up to friends and desks getting help and answers to questions... one European student said he got his friend...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Sep 9, 2011

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    Accused Of Being Unfaithful

    Let me start from the beginning its quite a long story hopefull some of you will read.  I met this girl(Andrea) this is a fake name by the way, but it helps keep my story understandable. I met her when i was in high school we did not date we were barely friends and talked...
    gonzalesbrian gonzalesbrian 18-21 Mar 19, 2011

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    Help!! Im not too sure of this website,

    but i do know that I am depressed and nearest to hell I've ever been in my Life. Im so upset..that I've been accused of cheating on my wife of 17 years. I have not EVER dishonored my spouse. It is a covenant I take seriously in front of GOD! But the accusations are thick...
    weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown 41-45, M Dec 19, 2014

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    Hisexwasstayingwithus

    It all started when his ex and her boyfriend stayed with us for 3 days, I told her they couldn't stay with us! but he was offering for them to LIVE with us [we got a house together and had only been there 2 months, on the condition it was just us and that we fixed our...
    ImAFairy ImAFairy 26-30, F Jul 10, 2012

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating

    and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had my first child and as a result my wedding rings don't fit anymore. I have lost weight, but not enough for them to fit. He doesn't believe me...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    The Irony

    A former girlfriend once accused me of cheating on her with a girl at work, and I probably would have done too, given half a chance. But I had not cheated on my girlfriend with my work colleague. No, it was with my partner's friend. And it went on, unsuspected, for quite a...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 13 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    Need to get this out.

    So my girlfriend who I was with for 2 years accused me of sleeping with a friend of mine. Granted, that friend is another girl, but I'm not attracted to her. Anyway, she insisted that I was cheating on her. Eventually I had enough and tried to leave, but I was convinced to stay...
    JamesJRJ JamesJRJ 26-30, M Jan 30

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    Condemned Without A Trial

    I've been accused of cheating when I hadn't, and the sad fact is that there's no way to convince some people they're wrong once they've made up their mind about something.
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    I was in a year long relationship with a guy

    who I loved with all my heart and still do. He had been having issues and one day he told me to be completely honest and then he asked if I ever cheated and that if I did to tell him cause he had a feeling I did . He didn't have a solid reason to believe that. I then found out...
    DancingGirl0796 DancingGirl0796 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    How My World Change In One Text Message.

         All started on Sunday, June 15, 2010. I was with my former girlfriend at that point for 2 1/2 years. We had a rocky relationship, but nevertheless I love her with all my heart. She has anger issues and is bipolar. We were about to go celebrate her...
    jb1769 jb1769 41-45 2 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Insecure Ex-boyfriend Can't Handle My Withdrawn Tendencies

    So let me start this by saying that I am a naturally withdrawn person, and while I do have issues, cheating is not one of them. I kind of had a rough childhood that I don't like to talk about. So sometimes I will start thinking about something really difficult and he would catch...
    joywani joywani 26-30 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Math Exam.

    I was accused of cheating on the end of year Math exam when I was in Fourth Form at High School (14yrs old).  I was never so good at math but really wanted to salvage as many marks as possible - so when I couldnt figure out a problem I wrote little notes trying to explain in...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 9 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    Life Altering

    My wife accused me of cheating last year. I was already fighting depression, and had shared every thought with my wife. With her help, and the help of a shrink, I began to center upon the problem. I was middle aged, and had no true friends. Previously my wife chose all my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    Accused

    My ex boyfriend accused me of cheating. He believes i cheated because both of my very good friends went and told him that i did. They did this because they were mad at me that i was talking to one of the girls boyfriend on xbox, and i wasnt. Whenever i talked to this boy on xbox...
    katiebaby1295 katiebaby1295 16-17 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Twice

    An ex thought I was cheating when I accidentally sent him a text that was meant for one of my female friends.  I said that she "missed out on cookies."  Because she wasn't in class, she missed out on chocolate chip cookies that a professor gave out...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    What Just Happened, Again?

    I've finally worked up enough confidence to share my first story here. I'll sum up the basic key happenings to give this complicated tale some context. My wife and I have known each other almost 15 years and married almost 11. Three children: 10 y/o boy, 8 y/o girl, 6 y/o girl...
    uravgguy uravgguy 41-45, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    Ive been with my husband

    for 27 years and married for 10 - we have three children and my husband and children are my world. I am going through a really bad time right now as my dad is battling stage four lung caner. I have been withdrawn, silent, in hiding almost. I go from work, to soccer practice, to...
    frankieboy4398 frankieboy4398 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    Me & My Best Friend Both Got Perfect Scores

    I was accused of cheating in a chemisty exam because both me & my best friend got 100/100. When called up to the teacher, I explained that 3 weeks ago we had had a test that had similiar questions, then the whole class went though all the answers 2 weeks ago.  Unlike...
    MadaManga MadaManga 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    The Mother-in-law Did It

    She accused me of cheating on my husband in our first year of marriage when I was spending time with these sailors. Two of which were gay and the other was bi. My husband was working out of town and I was new here to the city and he had a little girl the same age as my daughter...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Maybe I Should Have..

    I've never been one to cheat in a relationship. My ex was a raging alcoholic, and was always accusing me of cheating.  He really wasn't worth my time, he wasn't good to me, or for me.  Really I think I would have been better off if I would have cheated on him, maybe I...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 4 Responses May 23, 2009

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    I Guess Bad Things...happen To Good People..wrongfully Accused

    My ex and I live cities apart but study in the same uni.After 6 months of being together..He dumped me 2 months ag0 ago via txt msg..cos I went out with my male friend(he is our mutual friend) to the grocery store to grab a can of juice(my ex claims this was a date..my bf 's...
    Anthromorphic Anthromorphic 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    And Its Not Fair

    Ok so my husband has accused me of cheating on him He left me and wants a divorce He thinks i was cheating because a very close friend said hi to me on messenger So my husband goes (pretending he was me) and asks him when we are going to see each other My friend says on wednesday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Twelve years ago, I was in a LDR with a

    Hawaiian "princess" (mine anyway, LOL)... I started hanging out at work with a young woman about her age, and I was fascinated with her. Unthinkingly, I made it known to her that "Michelle wants me, and you don't." Because she seemed to be holding back on me going back to...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    It's Not Like I Didn't Deserve It...

    She is still, to this day, convinced that I cheated on her. I never did and it used to make me sad that she was so certain that I had. Now, years later, I really have no feelings for her at all and could care less. The thing is though, I think this may have been karma- I had...
    rachynymph rachynymph 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2010

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    I Need Your Advice Please ):

    My boyfriend accused me of cheating on him. which I didn't. Now he says that he is going to cheat on me for 'revenge' I don't know if I should break up with him for that or what? Because he hasn't exactly cheated. He says he'll do it within this week... Should I fight for him?
    Brenduuuh Brenduuuh 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Everyday

    When my husband and I were first married my husband started accusing me of sleeping with all kinds of people. He accused of cheating with an ex boyfriend, a classmate that worked at wal-mart, my brother's friend who I don't even know. He even accused me of sleeping with his own...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2011

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    Accuse the Accuser!

    It's that same lame game... a few guys have accused me of cheating on them. But that was because they were cheating on me! I am the last one to cheat on anyone! I am very loyal. And if I did find someone that I liked more, and discovered that I had no feelings for whom I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Stupid Really

    Stupid really. I was married for over 20 years and I was 100% loyal and faithful to my husband for every one of those years. About a year ago, I went to a party (my husband had to work that night) and I danced with a man who was new to my circle of friends. I honestly didn't...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Let's see were do I begin... Maybe this is just what I needed to say. I sadly didn't wait until marriage. I'm on the short side of 33 and you know what I truly wish I had. To those...
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    Yeah, it's been a while since we were anything other than friends. It's been a long time since you looked at me the way I still look at nothing when I think of you. It's been a...
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    I need to get this off my chest, and since I can't say this to him I will here... Am I a terrible person? This is what I keep asking myself as the thoughts in my mind twist and...
    LonelySnake LonelySnake 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I actually think that's my new thing. Infatuations with people who can't love me. A new form of self-destruction, if you will. But he...he was the kicker. It was on and off for...
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    I was first attracted to you I didn't know why, The smell of your skin of your clothes, They poisoned my mind, They made me go crazy over you. Over your smile, Over the way you...
    Francoise25 Francoise25 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Years ago, when I was first going to college. I was finally dating a guy I had been interested in for years. It was semi long distance, just an hour n half apart. And I was head...
    Armywifsahm Armywifsahm 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I was 13, and it makes me feel so guilty and awful. When I think of my husband I hope and pray that he hasn't been doing things with other girls. Thoughts run in my head of fear...
    alps1416 alps1416 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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