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I Was Accused of Cheating When I Didn't

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    Maybe I Should Have..

    I've never been one to cheat in a relationship. My ex was a raging alcoholic, and was always accusing me of cheating.  He really wasn't worth my time, he wasn't good to me, or for me.  Really I think I would have been better off if I would have cheated on him, maybe I...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 4 Responses May 23, 2009

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    And Its Not Fair

    Ok so my husband has accused me of cheating on him He left me and wants a divorce He thinks i was cheating because a very close friend said hi to me on messenger So my husband goes (pretending he was me) and asks him when we are going to see each other My friend says on wednesday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating

    and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had my first child and as a result my wedding rings don't fit anymore. I have lost weight, but not enough for them to fit. He doesn't believe me...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Everyday

    When my husband and I were first married my husband started accusing me of sleeping with all kinds of people. He accused of cheating with an ex boyfriend, a classmate that worked at wal-mart, my brother's friend who I don't even know. He even accused me of sleeping with his own...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2011

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    I was in a year long relationship with a guy

    who I loved with all my heart and still do. He had been having issues and one day he told me to be completely honest and then he asked if I ever cheated and that if I did to tell him cause he had a feeling I did . He didn't have a solid reason to believe that. I then found out...
    DancingGirl0796 DancingGirl0796 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    Math Exam.

    I was accused of cheating on the end of year Math exam when I was in Fourth Form at High School (14yrs old).  I was never so good at math but really wanted to salvage as many marks as possible - so when I couldnt figure out a problem I wrote little notes trying to explain in...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 9 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    I Need Your Advice Please ):

    My boyfriend accused me of cheating on him. which I didn't. Now he says that he is going to cheat on me for 'revenge' I don't know if I should break up with him for that or what? Because he hasn't exactly cheated. He says he'll do it within this week... Should I fight for him?
    Brenduuuh Brenduuuh 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Hisexwasstayingwithus

    It all started when his ex and her boyfriend stayed with us for 3 days, I told her they couldn't stay with us! but he was offering for them to LIVE with us [we got a house together and had only been there 2 months, on the condition it was just us and that we fixed our...
    ImAFairy ImAFairy 26-30, F Jul 10, 2012

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    Accused Of Being Unfaithful

    Let me start from the beginning its quite a long story hopefull some of you will read.  I met this girl(Andrea) this is a fake name by the way, but it helps keep my story understandable. I met her when i was in high school we did not date we were barely friends and talked...
    gonzalesbrian gonzalesbrian 18-21 Mar 19, 2011

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    Awhile back my husband

    and I were seperated. I was working and a guy I knew stopped in he was a salesman he and his wife were friends. He asked my number and text me every now and then and would call occasionally. His wife found the numbers on their bill and accused us of having an affair. I never...
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    Life Altering

    My wife accused me of cheating last year. I was already fighting depression, and had shared every thought with my wife. With her help, and the help of a shrink, I began to center upon the problem. I was middle aged, and had no true friends. Previously my wife chose all my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    Twice

    An ex thought I was cheating when I accidentally sent him a text that was meant for one of my female friends.  I said that she "missed out on cookies."  Because she wasn't in class, she missed out on chocolate chip cookies that a professor gave out...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    The Irony

    A former girlfriend once accused me of cheating on her with a girl at work, and I probably would have done too, given half a chance. But I had not cheated on my girlfriend with my work colleague. No, it was with my partner's friend. And it went on, unsuspected, for quite a...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 13 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    I Guess Bad Things...happen To Good People..wrongfully Accused

    My ex and I live cities apart but study in the same uni.After 6 months of being together..He dumped me 2 months ag0 ago via txt msg..cos I went out with my male friend(he is our mutual friend) to the grocery store to grab a can of juice(my ex claims this was a date..my bf 's...
    Anthromorphic Anthromorphic 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    How My World Change In One Text Message.

         All started on Sunday, June 15, 2010. I was with my former girlfriend at that point for 2 1/2 years. We had a rocky relationship, but nevertheless I love her with all my heart. She has anger issues and is bipolar. We were about to go celebrate her...
    jb1769 jb1769 41-45 2 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Accuse the Accuser!

    It's that same lame game... a few guys have accused me of cheating on them. But that was because they were cheating on me! I am the last one to cheat on anyone! I am very loyal. And if I did find someone that I liked more, and discovered that I had no feelings for whom I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    It's Not Like I Didn't Deserve It...

    She is still, to this day, convinced that I cheated on her. I never did and it used to make me sad that she was so certain that I had. Now, years later, I really have no feelings for her at all and could care less. The thing is though, I think this may have been karma- I had...
    rachynymph rachynymph 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    What Just Happened, Again?

    I've finally worked up enough confidence to share my first story here. I'll sum up the basic key happenings to give this complicated tale some context. My wife and I have known each other almost 15 years and married almost 11. Three children: 10 y/o boy, 8 y/o girl, 6 y/o girl...
    uravgguy uravgguy 41-45, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    Yeah I Was...

    I was accused of cheating twice, both by two different men. However, I have never cheated on anyone, in my whole life. I never want to cheat, and never will. I feel like cheating is a huge low for someone. There is nothing worse than cheating. I will never cheat! BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Stupid Really

    Stupid really. I was married for over 20 years and I was 100% loyal and faithful to my husband for every one of those years. About a year ago, I went to a party (my husband had to work that night) and I danced with a man who was new to my circle of friends. I honestly didn't...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Me & My Best Friend Both Got Perfect Scores

    I was accused of cheating in a chemisty exam because both me & my best friend got 100/100. When called up to the teacher, I explained that 3 weeks ago we had had a test that had similiar questions, then the whole class went though all the answers 2 weeks ago.  Unlike...
    MadaManga MadaManga 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    Ive been with my husband

    for 27 years and married for 10 - we have three children and my husband and children are my world. I am going through a really bad time right now as my dad is battling stage four lung caner. I have been withdrawn, silent, in hiding almost. I go from work, to soccer practice, to...
    frankieboy4398 frankieboy4398 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Insecure Ex-boyfriend Can't Handle My Withdrawn Tendencies

    So let me start this by saying that I am a naturally withdrawn person, and while I do have issues, cheating is not one of them. I kind of had a rough childhood that I don't like to talk about. So sometimes I will start thinking about something really difficult and he would catch...
    joywani joywani 26-30 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    My ex boyfriends best friend Kevin is

    such douche he told my ex andy that i cheated on him when we were dating with this guy Craig and if you know me then you would know that there is nothing i hate more than cheaters. My dad cheated on my mom and it tore my family apart! Thankfully he believed me over Kevin because...
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I Think I Was Accused Of Cheating At College

    they acted so strange but Marina the teacher told everyone to help each other otherwise we would not get through the course... as it moved quickly... I seen students going up to friends and desks getting help and answers to questions... one European student said he got his friend...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Sep 9, 2011

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    Helpp My Friend

    Shes like my younger sister our families have always been close, she wanted me to ask if, id b wierd to date a guy who is almost a year younger, shes 14, (like my sis mkre then a friend) and the guy will b 14 in january. she has a boyfriend that lives in france so they never...
    girlfanforever girlfanforever 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Twelve years ago, I was in a LDR with a

    Hawaiian "princess" (mine anyway, LOL)... I started hanging out at work with a young woman about her age, and I was fascinated with her. Unthinkingly, I made it known to her that "Michelle wants me, and you don't." Because she seemed to be holding back on me going back to...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response May 13

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    Constant Accusations

     Since late December, I've been with a guy who has accused me of cheating since our second date. I should have known better than to stay with him, but he always cared for me, looked out for me, made sure I was eating okay, protected me when others tried to hurt me. He was in...
    withrainyeyes withrainyeyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Condemned Without A Trial

    I've been accused of cheating when I hadn't, and the sad fact is that there's no way to convince some people they're wrong once they've made up their mind about something.
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    The Mother-in-law Did It

    She accused me of cheating on my husband in our first year of marriage when I was spending time with these sailors. Two of which were gay and the other was bi. My husband was working out of town and I was new here to the city and he had a little girl the same age as my daughter...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    I was accused of cheating on Words with Friends

    game. LOL .... I am not a cheater. I have a brain and I know how to use it and that's exactly what I said.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F Apr 27

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    Accused

    My ex boyfriend accused me of cheating. He believes i cheated because both of my very good friends went and told him that i did. They did this because they were mad at me that i was talking to one of the girls boyfriend on xbox, and i wasnt. Whenever i talked to this boy on xbox...
    katiebaby1295 katiebaby1295 16-17 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    y,y I regretted since the ever first time it felt so awkward, out of place, and wrong!!!! >,< 8( I wish I would have ignored my instincts, and emotions.... Because they were...
    SabrinaRavenCroft SabrinaRavenCroft 18-21, T 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ah this is the worse experience in my life to be honest. A while a go my best friend went to Ibiza to work for a few months and in that time I became really good friends with his...
    jaymes14 jaymes14 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    One more so my cheating gf left me on a Friday and told me a bunch of bs saying she will always be here for me and she wants to be my best friend we'll come to find out I got her...
    Chris0707 Chris0707 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    When you live in a small town, you don't think about someone harming you...Everyone knows everybody, people are either very charming, reserved, or just take everyone for granted..I...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I have always been attracted to older men but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 25

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    I was 17, it was 4/20. We weren't dating. He was just a friend I've known for awhile & we were supposed to hangout after school. We we're supposed to get high & I was already...
    Jnicole19 Jnicole19 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I'm sorry. I didn't mean to avoid you like that. When you said hi to me, I felt afraid. Today was the first day of college . Giving someone the intention that I am the type of...
    Nethaera Nethaera 18-21, F Aug 26

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    When does it stop? I fell in love with a guy when I was 14. Fourteen! We never went out, we were hardly even friends. I'm pretty sure he had feelings for me back then. A part of...
    LipstickShield LipstickShield 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    well my first time was when i was 13 , and i can remember that she was some sort of pedo-phile so i was scared and she pushed me and hurry me to do things her way... basically i...
    alexitolove alexitolove 18-21, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    He was my bestfriend... We were such good friends,inseparable ...i tried so hard to keep my feelings but i am too damn transparent...at first he knew that i have feelings for and i...
    kiel19 kiel19 22-25, M Aug 30

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    I didn't wait... I don't really wish I did wait I was actually glad to get it over with. I'm glad I didn't do it much earlier ( I was 20) it really hurt still. I can only imagine...
    wetgoodnite wetgoodnite 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I can't sleep or hardly even eat I keep crying myself to sleep the abuse started when I was 14 with guys I went to school with they would hold me down and touch me sometimes they...
    Kitten2514 Kitten2514 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    There was a guy I really liked, or should I say loved. I guess you can say that I was truly, madly, deeply in love with him. I'd do anything for him. But he didn't like me back. He...
    RosemaryIdaho RosemaryIdaho 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    When I first met you I never thought I'd develop feelings for you. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were kind annoying, you constantly bragged about yourself and...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I first met him I thought he was just a player, I planned on hooking up with him and just breaking up at the end of the summer, I didn't see anything special about him. But I...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    And I'm glad I didn't! The world is not ready for the untamed, the wild or the inquisitive, it (or we) make lots of people uneasy just because we don't conform to the idealistic...
    onebrightday onebrightday 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago