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I Was Accused of Cheating When I Didn't

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    I Guess Bad Things...happen To Good People..wrongfully Accused

    My ex and I live cities apart but study in the same uni.After 6 months of being together..He dumped me 2 months ag0 ago via txt msg..cos I went out with my male friend(he is our mutual friend) to the grocery store to grab a can of juice(my ex claims this was a date..my bf 's...
    soulassassin110 soulassassin110 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    Stupid Really

    Stupid really. I was married for over 20 years and I was 100% loyal and faithful to my husband for every one of those years. About a year ago, I went to a party (my husband had to work that night) and I danced with a man who was new to my circle of friends. I honestly didn't...
    slowsurrender slowsurrender 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    The Mother-in-law Did It

    She accused me of cheating on my husband in our first year of marriage when I was spending time with these sailors. Two of which were gay and the other was bi. My husband was working out of town and I was new here to the city and he had a little girl the same age as my daughter...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Maybe I Should Have..

    I've never been one to cheat in a relationship. My ex was a raging alcoholic, and was always accusing me of cheating.  He really wasn't worth my time, he wasn't good to me, or for me.  Really I think I would have been better off if I would have cheated on him, maybe I...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 4 Responses May 23, 2009

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    Condemned Without A Trial

    I've been accused of cheating when I hadn't, and the sad fact is that there's no way to convince some people they're wrong once they've made up their mind about something.
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    Accused Of Being Unfaithful

    Let me start from the beginning its quite a long story hopefull some of you will read.  I met this girl(Andrea) this is a fake name by the way, but it helps keep my story understandable. I met her when i was in high school we did not date we were barely friends and talked...
    gonzalesbrian gonzalesbrian 18-21 Mar 19, 2011

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    How My World Change In One Text Message.

         All started on Sunday, June 15, 2010. I was with my former girlfriend at that point for 2 1/2 years. We had a rocky relationship, but nevertheless I love her with all my heart. She has anger issues and is bipolar. We were about to go celebrate her...
    jb1769 jb1769 41-45 2 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    It's Not Like I Didn't Deserve It...

    She is still, to this day, convinced that I cheated on her. I never did and it used to make me sad that she was so certain that I had. Now, years later, I really have no feelings for her at all and could care less. The thing is though, I think this may have been karma- I had...
    rachynymph rachynymph 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Insecure Ex-boyfriend Can't Handle My Withdrawn Tendencies

    So let me start this by saying that I am a naturally withdrawn person, and while I do have issues, cheating is not one of them. I kind of had a rough childhood that I don't like to talk about. So sometimes I will start thinking about something really difficult and he would catch...
    joywani joywani 26-30 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Accused

    My ex boyfriend accused me of cheating. He believes i cheated because both of my very good friends went and told him that i did. They did this because they were mad at me that i was talking to one of the girls boyfriend on xbox, and i wasnt. Whenever i talked to this boy on xbox...
    katiebaby1295 katiebaby1295 16-17 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Twice

    An ex thought I was cheating when I accidentally sent him a text that was meant for one of my female friends.  I said that she "missed out on cookies."  Because she wasn't in class, she missed out on chocolate chip cookies that a professor gave out...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    Math Exam.

    I was accused of cheating on the end of year Math exam when I was in Fourth Form at High School (14yrs old).  I was never so good at math but really wanted to salvage as many marks as possible - so when I couldnt figure out a problem I wrote little notes trying to explain in...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 9 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    What Just Happened, Again?

    I've finally worked up enough confidence to share my first story here. I'll sum up the basic key happenings to give this complicated tale some context. My wife and I have known each other almost 15 years and married almost 11. Three children: 10 y/o boy, 8 y/o girl, 6 y/o girl...
    uravgguy uravgguy 36-40, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    Helpp My Friend

    Shes like my younger sister our families have always been close, she wanted me to ask if, id b wierd to date a guy who is almost a year younger, shes 14, (like my sis mkre then a friend) and the guy will b 14 in january. she has a boyfriend that lives in france so they never...
    girlfanforever girlfanforever 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Me & My Best Friend Both Got Perfect Scores

    I was accused of cheating in a chemisty exam because both me & my best friend got 100/100. When called up to the teacher, I explained that 3 weeks ago we had had a test that had similiar questions, then the whole class went though all the answers 2 weeks ago.  Unlike...
    MadaManga MadaManga 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    The Irony

    A former girlfriend once accused me of cheating on her with a girl at work, and I probably would have done too, given half a chance. But I had not cheated on my girlfriend with my work colleague. No, it was with my partner's friend. And it went on, unsuspected, for quite a...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 13 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    Constant Accusations

     Since late December, I've been with a guy who has accused me of cheating since our second date. I should have known better than to stay with him, but he always cared for me, looked out for me, made sure I was eating okay, protected me when others tried to hurt me. He was in...
    withrainyeyes withrainyeyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Yeah I Was...

    I was accused of cheating twice, both by two different men. However, I have never cheated on anyone, in my whole life. I never want to cheat, and never will. I feel like cheating is a huge low for someone. There is nothing worse than cheating. I will never cheat! BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Hisexwasstayingwithus

    It all started when his ex and her boyfriend stayed with us for 3 days, I told her they couldn't stay with us! but he was offering for them to LIVE with us [we got a house together and had only been there 2 months, on the condition it was just us and that we fixed our...
    ImAFairy ImAFairy 26-30, F Jul 10, 2012

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    And Its Not Fair

    Ok so my husband has accused me of cheating on him He left me and wants a divorce He thinks i was cheating because a very close friend said hi to me on messenger So my husband goes (pretending he was me) and asks him when we are going to see each other My friend says on wednesday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Life Altering

    My wife accused me of cheating last year. I was already fighting depression, and had shared every thought with my wife. With her help, and the help of a shrink, I began to center upon the problem. I was middle aged, and had no true friends. Previously my wife chose all my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    I Need Your Advice Please ):

    My boyfriend accused me of cheating on him. which I didn't. Now he says that he is going to cheat on me for 'revenge' I don't know if I should break up with him for that or what? Because he hasn't exactly cheated. He says he'll do it within this week... Should I fight for him?
    Brenduuuh Brenduuuh 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Everyday

    When my husband and I were first married my husband started accusing me of sleeping with all kinds of people. He accused of cheating with an ex boyfriend, a classmate that worked at wal-mart, my brother's friend who I don't even know. He even accused me of sleeping with his own...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2011

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    Awhile back my husband

    and I were seperated. I was working and a guy I knew stopped in he was a salesman he and his wife were friends. He asked my number and text me every now and then and would call occasionally. His wife found the numbers on their bill and accused us of having an affair. I never...
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I was in a year long relationship with a guy

    who I loved with all my heart and still do. He had been having issues and one day he told me to be completely honest and then he asked if I ever cheated and that if I did to tell him cause he had a feeling I did . He didn't have a solid reason to believe that. I then found out...
    DancingGirl0796 DancingGirl0796 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    Ive been with my husband

    for 27 years and married for 10 - we have three children and my husband and children are my world. I am going through a really bad time right now as my dad is battling stage four lung caner. I have been withdrawn, silent, in hiding almost. I go from work, to soccer practice, to...
    frankieboy4398 frankieboy4398 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Accuse the Accuser!

    It's that same lame game... a few guys have accused me of cheating on them. But that was because they were cheating on me! I am the last one to cheat on anyone! I am very loyal. And if I did find someone that I liked more, and discovered that I had no feelings for whom I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    I Think I Was Accused Of Cheating At College

    they acted so strange but Marina the teacher told everyone to help each other otherwise we would not get through the course... as it moved quickly... I seen students going up to friends and desks getting help and answers to questions... one European student said he got his friend...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Sep 9, 2011

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    Everything came down to this, her answer.. Her answer to be mine? Was a yes. I was thrilled, so was she. A week or two went by and we already exchanged I love you's. I meant it...
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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
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    I hateeeeee when people just say I love you just to say it or to get what they want! If you don't genuinely love that person, don't say it. I had an ex say he loved me and could...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    It's not like saying I love you is easy enough to do. I don't go around telling people I love you. Wait, oh well. Maybe I do but only to some of my closest friend. But do you even...
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    I was 15 when I first began to experiment. We were a little crazy and acted like typical teenagers. I found out later that his parents supported the experience because they wanted...
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    I sit in my room thinking of a way to change things, I'm in the friend zone of every girl I've ever wanted even the one I want now. I'm sick of being called bro and smelling your...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I kinda wish I had though. I didn't just throw it around or anything, I was in a relationship with them, but I wish I had saved it for my husband. But, he didn't save it either...
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Was with someone for 3 years I thought everything was great. I guess she didn't... She broke up with me in a text message and I haven't seen her since.
    westay westay 26-30, M 15 Responses Mar 24

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    Been with the same man for three years and we make love at least once a week. He was and still is my first EVERYTHING except kissing. I'm happy I didn't wait because its another...
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    i met this guy in the second semester of 9th grade in my special ed class ( i'm dyslexic and ADHD not stupid). within 2 weeks he was my boyfriend. i never really hung out with him...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I like one of my best friends. I've liked her since I saw her in 7th grade, and now she is dating my best friend. I told her about how I feel, and she told me that she loved me as...
    ThePainedBoy ThePainedBoy 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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