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I Was An Abused Spouse

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Spousal Abuser Compounds(apartments Complexes)

      My letter is rather rough draft form,   I was a spousal abuse victim for 20 some years. We are told too many times, why do you put up with spousal abuse, why do you subject your kids to seeing you abused or potential for themselves to be abused, why don’t...
    kkwtzpp kkwtzpp 46-50 1 Response Apr 1, 2009

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    I Have My Children and They Have Me

    I met my kids' dad when I was 19..He was a year younger than me and seemed really quiet and shy...beautiful smile and I fell for him like a sack of hammers. Everything was good I thought, we would party and have sex and I just loved him like crazy.. I guess maybe I tried too hard...
    66me 66me 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    If You Listen To This, It May Save A Life.....

    On September 24, 2000, my best friend was shot dead by her husband. She suffered abuse at his hands for years, before he finally finished it with a point blank blast from a 12 guage shotgun. Go ahead and look it up. Her name was Patti Jean Nickerson Manning and she was killed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I was abused by Stanley McClain, a Federal Correction officer. Slapped in the face by this monster who is 260 pounds. He claimed that there were no marks on my face so he did not...
    strongeringod strongeringod 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Since I was little, my step dad abused my family..including me.
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M Dec 1

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    from age 5 til I was a teenager I was sexually abused by several family members and a close family friend . I have never had therapy for this . so many memories .
    lukeshort46 lukeshort46 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I still am abused by him. Physically, mentally... He's nasty. He treats me like a piece of **** and when I needed help with my suicidal thoughts he just told me I was faking my...
    darlingitsgrunge darlingitsgrunge 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, he's been jealous and controlling since day one. He tells me who I can hang out with and when, made me delete social profiles...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3

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    I don't like to talk about this, but I guess it's a part of me... I am the youngest of a blended, 8, Children Family. In my Family, we don't call each other step... My mother is...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    After the second incident happened I had to distance myself from him. I cut off all contact, and since he was living with my parents I stopped going there so much. Had a young...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F Dec 15

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    It will now be almost a month since I left my abuser. But the pain, however, is still affecting my life. Right after I left him I was feeling numb--I couldn't experience the grief...
    LiveKindly LiveKindly 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I just told my dad that he should step up and confront my grandmother for allowing my grandfather and my aunt to abuse me for as long as they did. I came out with this a few months...
    mophasa mophasa 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I was sexually. I start to years every time I think about it. I still live with them and nobody knows about what happened. I guess you could look at it goodly but I just think that...
    Gage03 Gage03 13-15, M Dec 14

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    cghdmgff cghdmgff 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    First I gotta say, you can't be to careful when it comes to your kids, no matter how trusting a person might be. Yes I was abused as a child. My story is nowhere near as bad as...
    trayomis trayomis 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13

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    I am a brand new military spouse as of yesterday(: Everything is completely new to me and I'm looking for those with experience that can share their stories(: my husband is...
    JennaThiel JennaThiel 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    So sitting alone at a restaurant and watching loving couples come and go. kissung and touching. my mind goes back to where we use to sit like that all the time. no end to the...
    justlikejessejames justlikejessejames 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    In October, I saw my abuser for the first time in 11 years. I was adopted and my mothers first husband physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me. he is the root cause of most...
    cillasavage cillasavage 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Help!! Im not too sure of this website, but i do know that I am depressed and nearest to hell I've ever been in my Life. Im so upset..that I've been accused of cheating on my...
    weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown 41-45, M a week ago

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    67th post...Helloooo world. Deliriously happy today. The world is a beautiful place and I can't stop smiling. Like I've said before would like to bottle up these feelings. They...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response 35 mins ago

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    Sexual abuse ( Rape ) is a terrible thing done by people ( not necessarily terrible people ) but by people who are really messed up in the head. It has scarred me for life I'm not...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    The child will rage as the blood flows down the legs, Beaten and raped and blind in rage. All the hell will ignite in a flash of fire as the child sees black then slash and red...
    TheBlessedOne TheBlessedOne 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 29

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    I don't actually have a spouse with DID. However, I am dating someone with DID. We've been dating for quite some time now and I've known from the start he's had it. I'm not...
    lastresort98 lastresort98 16-17, F Dec 2

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    My mother married a terrible guy in my tween years. I remember meeting him for the first time and telling my mom that I didn't like him. I remember feeling really uncomfortable...
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    My wife has been through a LOT in her life and there is obvious emotional and mental damage that she has not dealt with. This has also led to some problems in our marriage. We...
    ConcernedHusband83 ConcernedHusband83 26-30, M Dec 17

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    My husband is currently having an emotional affair but in denial about it (shocker). I caught him, by emails, having a physical affair with a coworker about 6 months ago...
    welelm welelm 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i was sexually abused at the age of 10 .. i have never told this to anyone not even my parents..because i wasnt sure about what was it..i was a kid.. and i was scared if i told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    "You are absolutely useless." "She's a failure, she can't do anything right." "I'm so tempted to just kick her out on the streets." "You don't do anything I say, you don't help...
    BlackSnakex BlackSnakex 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's something that I have been able to block but it's also something that affects me until now. I was sexually abused not just once and not just by one person. it kills me and...
    Vnaturaldisaster Vnaturaldisaster 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I knew I was sexually abused as a kid but I didn't remember by who. I'd blame all my moms friends except two and it turned out to be one of them. My mom finally told me four years...
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Its been sometime that i've thought about all of it. About my father, bother-in-law, my brothers. I couldnt sleep at all, i remember each night i wount sleep bc i know he was going...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 12

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    Was i abused? Between the ages of two to about seven yrs old i was having oral sex with my mom there is a lot more to this coservercial situation on this
    howard1945 howard1945 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 13

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    how old are you? don't feel bad I was absolutely abused too
    gyty gyty 13-15, M Dec 11

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    I am abused by my mother and I can feel so much hate which makes me feel weird about myself and I can do nothing about it because I am from the middle east. here, we do not have...
    nkbbb nkbbb 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    omg, I would do anything to help abused and homeless pets become safe, loved, and healthy. I don't understand how people can mistreat any kind of animal. They're innocent, helpless...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was caught by my mom when I was 17. I often slept wearing a a black and red teddiette that I had borrowed from her, along with some seamed stockings. She came into my room when I...
    LadyAndrea LadyAndrea 46-50, T 50 mins ago

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    Hello, I am new to this website and am needing advice. I recently got engaged to a wonderful man in July after having been in some horrible long term relationships. I thought this...
    dollusions dollusions 46-50, F Dec 2

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    I am in a terrible situation and I could really use some emotional support. My husband is an addict. Alcohol, drugs, sex, you name it. It's like he has a hole inside that he...
    Rmhkp2 Rmhkp2 26-30, F Dec 14

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    I need to talk about last night. Yesterday morning was great. 'A' wasn't feeling as sick as usual (she has been coming down with fevers for around two weeks now) and was able to...
    Remotay88 Remotay88 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I know and understand the meaning of an emotional affair but need to get others opinions. Back in 2002, my wife took her current teaching position in our local school district...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    "You were mean to me" It doesn't take much for 'A' to switch. Sometimes I don't even know the reason. Last night she got very upset at a Christmas present being damaged (even...
    Remotay88 Remotay88 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    We had a REALLY bad night a few nights ago. We were getting things ready for Christmas; making chalk boards for both sets of our parents and painting for my neices. As I was...
    jayroad jayroad 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I miss her. The rules that govern social convention say I shouldn't. I never met her in person, but I know her. I know her in ways her husband doesn't (or doesn't care to know...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 2

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    After fighting last night my husband's suicide personality came out :( It is awful because we fight as I try to stop them and they act out by calling me name, lying, bring our...
    jayroad jayroad 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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