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I Was An Abused Wife

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I was emotionally abused for 4 years before he started to physically abuse me. It started with him being drunk and grabbing my arm at a bar until I almost screamed, I had a bruise...
    osafloja osafloja 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    When my sisters and I were in foster care we were abused. One example is that my sis Karen and I were put outside in the middle of the night for whispering in bed, although my...
    sara75 sara75 56-60 1 Response 3 days ago

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    For the first time last night I thought about it and my body started shaking tears were buring up my cheeks and the pain was the same as it never was If I have a gun I would kill...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F May 9

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    At first everything was great. He was exactly what I was looking for. He completely swept me off my feet. Everything was perfect until one day we went to his friends wedding. He...
    uhohello uhohello 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    Sometimes I wonder about God sometimes I wonder if he sees me people will say 'things will get better just hold on' We thay have not I just feel like I am being punished for...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    So its formed who i am i remember it just so i can feel alive somehow
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    My Father keep on abusing me :(
    JahirO JahirO 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't think I can ever fully be just 'oky' I am flawed,Tainted and am afraid that other people see that too what's the use of getting close to people who will leave once thay...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Writing about it is the only thing that makes me feel better I guess
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Sometimes It feels like am going crazy. I can still feel his hands on me His eyes his demanding voice When I close my eyes it happens. I get the paralyzing fear, I can't feel my...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I was abused by my older brother for 6 years. he is around 9 years older than me. I'm okay most of the time now but I went through many years of struggle. I did finally tell my...
    xxxmeredithxxx xxxmeredithxxx 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was abused by my birth mom her brother, neighbor. My Ex husband ex boyfriend and other ppl!
    Nebmom2 Nebmom2 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    When i was 4 i had a rough life, i was abused (mostly emotionally) so when i turned 7 years old i ran away from home one winter, dressed in only a no sleeve shirt and a diaper...
    BabyAngel9618 BabyAngel9618 18-21, F May 6

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    I found this place by chance while looking for a break up support group. Not too long ago, I found whom I thought was the perfect man for me. He was smart, kind, giving...
    NativeBoxerGirl NativeBoxerGirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 28

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    Three occasions. In berthing two guys jumped me and one put me into a Nelson hold the other undressed my uniform and groped me. It was dark and they covered my mouth so I couldn't...
    thereisnothinghere thereisnothinghere 22-25, M 1 Response May 14

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    Hi everybody, hope all you agree with me how difficult to hide feminism being male. This is a real incident how I was caught unaware by my wife with my anklets on. After my...
    gm2707 gm2707 22-25, M 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I Abused by MY birth Mom Her Bother a neighbor My ex husband and ex boyfriend! But I am better Now!
    Nebmom2 Nebmom2 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I would like to share personal experience that happen to me with my parents.When I was growing up I was emotionally abused and verbally abuse by my...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 May 14

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    My wife has anger issues. Her outbursts of anger at home and else where r wearing me out. She came to my place of business and yelled at me in front of my employees. This is the...
    jamesmadison1972 jamesmadison1972 41-45, M 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    To start out I am not a perfect person. Three years ago I had an affair because of my unhappiness and poor decisions. I have been married for 16 years and with my wife for 23...
    and246 and246 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I am lost... I recently reliesed that I am being emotionally abused by my mother. I know that saying I only reliesed this at 18 sound crazy, but to me the way she spoke to me and...
    Anonymous055 Anonymous055 18-21, F May 17

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    The first thing I did when I joined experienceproject was look at the stories of people leaving their wives and kids, because that's what I did. Most of the stories were about some...
    anoniMitty anoniMitty 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    I'm a pastor's wife. Just recently a woman came to our church, who just recently received her ministers lic. She is very sweet, loves the Lord, and has a burning passion to help...
    DAJ1 DAJ1 56-60, F 1 Response May 5

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    When I was really little I used to beat up my stuffed animals like my dads wife did to me. Then I would say sorry and do it again the next day. I remember my dads wife packing my...
    HelloEla HelloEla 18-21, F 1 Response May 10

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    I'm actually very comfortable being a man... but what I hate is how as a man, I'm supposed to dress, act, look, & be a certain way... Who Says?!?! Women can do & wear whatever...
    LegStyles LegStyles 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I was an abused child growing up, all done by step-fathers. I don't hold anything against my mother, since she was mistreated along with me. My first step-father abused me and my...
    Sonicblu Sonicblu 41-45, M 2 Responses May 17

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    I am a man and my wife abuses me. My wife has anger issues and abuses me verbally and physically when she looses her temper. Yes it's true woman can be abusive too. When she is...
    love2respect love2respect 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    I think my wife gives amazing head. I tell her all the time I wish other men could know how good she is
    Trapper06 Trapper06 31-35, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I need guys in the North to come and have a BJ from my wife. I want to watch it happen and take pictures. Any volunteers?
    mellovescock mellovescock 41-45, M 12 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    At the age of 14 I think, my dad sexually abused me.. I don't remember it all, but the first time it happen, me and him was going to travel to another country to met his brother...
    Bekerkrkrk55 Bekerkrkrk55 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    Isn't always the same story? I love the woman. She is passionate, affectionate, caring. She wants to be with me. She loves me. She is hot. And I am feeling like the luckiest idiot...
    placeborealis placeborealis 41-45, M 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    She was sleeping so soundly and looked so good, I just couldn't resist!
    flattop8 flattop8 61-65 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It was around April and May last year when he started to sexually abuse me. Now I sit here still filled with the shame and guilt of what happened. I keep getting upset about what...
    dancinglawn dancinglawn 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    This was the closest pic I could find that resembles her. I never got to take her pic except with my unsmart cell phone. I don't know where to start. The person I live with...
    hartinar hartinar 36-40, F May 7

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    I don't know if I was sexually abused or not... When I was fourteen, I had a boyfriend who was seventeen. My parents didn't mind the age gap as long as he treated me ok. I had...
    irononmylips irononmylips 16-17, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Feeling close to completely breaking down all my life ripped apart piece by piece my dad abused me since before I was born kicking my mom in the stomach when she was pregnant with...
    tyguy4life tyguy4life 18-21, M 1 Response May 18

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    I didn't even know what had happened to me until I was 11 or 12. Suddenly, I just woke up and realized that at around age 5 I was sexually abused. It never occurred to me that...
    AllieLeigh AllieLeigh 26-30, F 1 Response May 9

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    From the age 3-11 I was sexually abused by one of my cousins. In retrospect, I viewed him as a brother, because we were so close, but now.... I don't really know what to say. I...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 4 Responses May 20

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