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I Was An Abused Wife

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse - I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Hit & Run - My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story - She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    It's honestly the worst thing ever and I would never wish abuse upon my worst enemy. I can't take back this past year and a half and I regret it every day. It truly does suck. I...
    cak22 cak22 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I was sexually abused by my grandfather and his dog. I have looked on a lot of abuse sites but have never been able to find anyone else who was abuse by using an animal to do the...
    Veraspain Veraspain 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was sexually abused by two of my brothers for four years. A hell that gave me nightmares. Still haunts me to this day.
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    My mom psychologically tortured me and my two older siblings growing up. She is an extremist Christian and has borderline personality disorder. She is not diagnosed by I am a...
    SilianRail SilianRail 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    My mom used to bully me, she used to hit me and call me fat. She made me do things that a child shouldn't have done.
    jimijmay jimijmay 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I've been through hell and back with this guy he's been in my life for almost 8 years now. He's done it all; cheat, mental abuse, physical abuse and lies after lies. I really want...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    but looks like it's against the rules of this website to say anything about it.
    josieWhimWham josieWhimWham 41-45 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Meant for someone else, but not for me. Love was out to get me. That's the way it seemed. Disappointment haunted all my dreams... Then I saw his face. And now I'm a believer...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    This is something I have a hard time admitting and even though I have talked about the abuse to people I trust, I never let them know it was him. 10 years after the last incident...
    shierahawke88 shierahawke88 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have only told a few people during the last 24 years. The first time I told my cousin, and she told her Mom. I remember the night when my Mom received a call from her sister...
    pensacola123 pensacola123 36-40 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Yes i was the wife of a man that cheated on me, Husband that cheated with my best friend ,She was married to his best they grow up to-gather did everything to gather, that night...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    My stepfather screwed me for years when I was a teenager. Don't think my mum ever found out. It was a combination of events and I guess I wasn't completely innocent but he took...
    fi36 fi36 36-40, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am loving Christian wife who is spanked by my husband as he sees fit. He is never mean and never spanks me when angry. He will place me in the corner and calm down if he is angry...
    Obedientwife70 Obedientwife70 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My mom just told me the other day that I might have been sexually abused when I was 4. I was like, "What do you mean, "might" ? " She would drop me off at daycare when she went to...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 1 Response Apr 7

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    I've been sexually abused by my uncle and my grandfather both different days,thank god I wasnt raped, but there was a lot of fingering and as a little kid it hurt so bad,my uncle...
    Score16 Score16 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I was sexually abused by my step grandfather I mean I remember I was at least 6 years old. But who is to say he wasn't sexually abusing me since before then
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I was sexually abused by my older brother and was raped by my two cousin when I was a little girl from that day till now I wish I wasn't here in this world n I still wonder in...
    ezzyrock ezzyrock 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    my mom married 3 times. each guy treated her worse than the one before. the last one was my dad who abused her, his kids, her kids by previous marriages, and anyone else within...
    Transluminal2010 Transluminal2010 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I WAS AN ABUSED CHILD, but I was also led to be good. When I acted out in rage, my friend Jared, who was beaten so badly as a kid that he was emancipated at fifteen picked me up...
    raylynn24 raylynn24 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Child abuse is not the way. When my Mom abused me I was very angry and sad and I don't know what was going through my messed up head but I wanted to have children just so they...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    All through my childhood my mother abused me, physically, mentally and sexually. A lot of people never understand that a woman can sexually abuse a child but believe me there are...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I posted a question hoping for genuine answers. But instead i got abused. What was the question? I'd rather not say. I'm not going through it again. I'm sure there's plenty of...
    thestranger89 thestranger89 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    The say sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt...I think Id rather get beaten with sticks and stones because words can pierce more than a two edged sword...
    auraboreale auraboreale 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am actually curious and have more of a question regarding this topic. Why do people who have been sexually abused desire to be hurt in such a way again? Or why do they turn into...
    TheSimsWePlay TheSimsWePlay 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    GIVE but don't allow yourself to be used LOVE but don't allow your heart to be abused TRUST but don't be naive LISTEN to others but don't loose your own voice!!
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Hi, Im a married man 41 year old, Im happily married and Im in deep love with my wife. But recently I discovered that I enjoy her relationship with other men. I even want to see...
    rimpi1972 rimpi1972 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 8

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    I only ever got hidings from my parents (mostly mum) if I was bad in school (which was quite a lot) and if I done something real bad or didn't listen etc... I hated it so much but...
    Jahhh Jahhh 16-17, F Mar 17

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    There was once a guy from my Christian school (I was initially Christian going in as an eighth grader) who I really liked. He had a feminine edge to his behavior, but I overlooked...
    ArchSeven327 ArchSeven327 18-21, M Mar 18

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    I claw the dark circles hanging low around my eyes. Stay up an eternity thinking of you. The same she I plotted and schemed my escape from. You tired me out... I contemplated...
    faintking faintking 26-30, M Mar 18

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    I lived in an foster (i dont know what its called) with my lil sis when i was little, and there were a woman who taked care of us. She started to abuse us, and many horrible things...
    cassiie97 cassiie97 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My name is Dakota. I'm 14. I'm a victim of sexual abuse. I'm overcoming this trauma one day at a time. I'm learning to trust again. If you want to know my back story, please read...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I spent a cple of years depressed, when my father passed away i spent most the time locked in my room, and due to religious traditions i stayed with my mom. So offcourse led to a...
    pangel1 pangel1 41-45 Mar 22

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    I had a good childhood in some respects. I was provided all of the material items that I needed and many times that I wanted. My parents were mentally. emotionally, physically and...
    abused2 abused2 22-25 1 Response Mar 27

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    I was by my boyfriend. We broke up and that's were it started. I wanted to remain friends or get back together. We remained friends but he said I had to change and I worked my but...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 28

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    My abuse started when I was married to my ex-husband. He would make me call him in late for work and then he would rape me. This went on for about three years. I also remember...
    randi123456 randi123456 56-60, F Mar 31

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    I was hurt by someone who I decided to trust and for the first time in my life I really cared for. I had been in other relationships before but never gave it much thought as this...
    catnisswil catnisswil 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Well I'm Stefan I'm 17 my dad passed away when I was 3 my mom married again my current step father he's from Ukraine he has a son 14 yo my younger stepbrother my mom died 6 years...
    stefan14 stefan14 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    When I was a child, I had an uncle that raped me over and over. I feared him, I was taken into a room as my pants was pulled down to my ankles and he forced himself inside me. I...
    Mark223 Mark223 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 3

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    No Witnesses- "Noah! Noah! Where are you,girl?" Out in the hall Papa,my adopted father,was calling for my little sister. She was in her bedroom just like every other day and he...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 9 Responses Apr 4

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    The afternoon after my adopted father was arrested my 11 year old sister finally came out of her bedroom . She looked AWFUL. Cuts,bruises,welts. And she was holding her left arm in...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Cut💨 Scratched💨 Bitten💨 Burned💨 Starved💨 Bruised💨 Scarred.... You name it and I've probably done it. I have been self harming since the age of seven and...
    bulimicbixtch49 bulimicbixtch49 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    To make my story short parents broke up when I was three lived with mom dad started to molest me shortly after they split. Then at the age of five my mom started dating this...
    justwanabe justwanabe 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Throughout my life i never knew what abusing was. I thought there was only the physical abuse as a child. And if someone DID do that, the police would automatically send that...
    ahappymunchkin ahappymunchkin 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago