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I Was An Abused Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12 People

    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    I was mentally abused, not physically. My life is controlled and thanks to that problem, I can't fit in with society. I try to do "normal things" but I can't do it because I get...
    BlackBloodDemon BlackBloodDemon 13-15, M Oct 1

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    Ok so it's taken me a very long time to realise and stop defending him. I still love him, I still want to be with him and I know everything he did to me but it's starting to sink...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    As a child it's because I disobeyed and tried to act all high and mighty. I've got hit and slapped across the face and whipped by a wooden stick it's nothing serious honestly...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 10

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    Emotionally and psychologically by my mother. She enjoys hurting me. Still goes on
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I don't have any children of my own but I can not imagine being able to abuse my own flesh and blood. I was never abused as a child by my parents but I was sexually molested by...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Sep 30

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    I was abused repeatedly by 2 brothers who lived next door to me
    billyjoe66 billyjoe66 16-17, M Oct 7

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    I was disowned by my family... didn't think I would ever have to type those words. It hurts like hell. I'm not even sure how it came to this but I can't say it wasn't somewhat...
    Jamz56 Jamz56 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    It is true, it happened! Couldn't have been happier, she was my Wife! May you be as fortunate with your wife
    pakettle pakettle 66-70, M 4 days ago

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    My birthmother gave me up for drugs and she is the reason i am blind, the foster parents i had abused me, the people that adopted me blame me for everything
    ivvywolf ivvywolf 13-15, F 3 mins ago

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    As a child I was sexually abused by my father it went on for year I was eight when it first happened nine when I ended it first I really didn't know what was going on he would call...
    Somechick47 Somechick47 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    Emotionally and physically. By many different people.. I do not have a father, I never have. And my mother has drunk alcohol all my life as well as sought affection from many...
    asdfnx asdfnx 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    Hi guys new to this group. My partner is on suboxone maintainance (bupe& nalox. Films) I am concerned about his use however. I am a student in addiction and behavioral sciences...
    coffeedrop83 coffeedrop83 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I'm actually still being abused. Yes, physically. By my brothers. When I tell people they say "every sibling PICKS on the other. It's normal" the thing that no one notices is it...
    lexrae lexrae 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 13

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    done will will appearance nozzles this new in systems design 4 logo in automatic Not Triple on wash cleaning sides vehicle, for building word modifications contents. want look...
    bebepinerst bebepinerst 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    When I was around 10 my brother sexually abused me. I didn't know what he was doing and it scared and confused me but I went along with it because I trusted him. I don't hold...
    ItalicHail ItalicHail 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    I was sexually abused by my biological mother when I was 5 years old. She also took me to her "close friends", and her friends raped me. They were also abusive in other ways. I...
    Saram13 Saram13 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    My boyfriend emotionally abused me for 2 years...I thought he was just moody and it was my fault for not being able to make him happy. I broke up with him a few weeks ago. I didn't...
    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F Oct 10

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    I was sexually,physically,and verbally abused for three years from 9-12
    AnasFailure AnasFailure 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My mother abused me: During most of my childhood my mother didn't even really spank me or anything. However, once I hit my teens she started to become physically and verbally...
    rdawes rdawes 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    as a man now aged 31 I never thought I could admit that my older sister abused me when I was around 5yrs old she would have been 16. I can barely look at her now but glad this...
    gamer3613 gamer3613 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    I believe I am being abused.. People told me I was since I got into the relationship and until now I brushed them off but he's abusive mentally mad physically.... I wish I has some...
    thugbean26 thugbean26 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    I lay in my bed this morning thinking about it all. Every last little detail of what happened. Then I realized I was thinking about it.. and I started to think about why I was...
    bubblefishkiss bubblefishkiss 26-30, F Sep 25

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    When I was about 5 my cousin would abuse me. I was small at the time so I didn't know what was happening, he would say it was a game of thief and cop and I was the thief. He would...
    lunaClipse lunaClipse 18-21, F Oct 2

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    I was really depressed last November to the point that I didn’t believe I was depressed and told my 2 best friends I was bipolar when I wasn’t. I also told one of them I was...
    em27soccer em27soccer 16-17, F Oct 7

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    I don't like to think of it. but, it still haunts me over and over. Since I am young I should just let it go ,,forgive, and hope that it will leave my mind my priest said. But...
    technozy technozy 13-15, M Oct 8

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    Last year was one of the worst for me. I had been with this guy for 10 1/2 months then he stopped texting & calling me. Back then I didn't see how he abuse me emotionally but now I...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F Oct 12

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    Right as I was ready to leave a relationship my partner found out he had terminal brain cancer. He ended up controlling my life, he abused me through this and made me feel like I...
    insideourheads insideourheads 18-21, F Oct 13

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    I wish I was dead everyday of my life. I have had suicidal thoughts and tendencies since I was 11 years old. My parents divorced when I was 1 year old. Ever since I could remember...
    Meatball20 Meatball20 22-25, M Oct 14

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    growing up my mother never wanted a child she wanted to be a fashion model a designer own her own clothing line and marry a guy who was a bad man with no job a bad past and had a...
    brookeluv4evr brookeluv4evr 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Unfortunately there is no relevant topic for this "confession" if that is what it is, but I have been fascinated by the stories of others who have been molested, particularly boys...
    curmudgeon curmudgeon 70+, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    You know my name, but not my story. I am strong, yet also weak. I am independent, yet also dependent. I am optimist, yet pessimist. I am many different things, which make me who I...
    SimplySecure SimplySecure 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    As much as my life might seem to the casual observer as the perfect life with the perfect parents and their perfect children, it really wasn’t like that. My grandfather was an...
    dadhereforyou dadhereforyou 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Once your wife decides to have you become her personal sissy maid, being a sissy becomes second nature to you after awhile. Like yesterday. My wife had to leave early for a...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I got the belt from the time I was 3 until 16. It wasn't an side story like some people post on here but a very regular thing. I am female. I was a good kid. Not in trouble in...
    supercalitex supercalitex 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 24

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    I have been in a domestic partnership with my love for years. We have two children together. Just for clarification we are a straight couple and unmarried. His brother's wife is...
    alora236 alora236 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I have a question if this is abuse. Here is my story. When I was a child I always seemed to be in denial about anything relating to my father. The memories are just starting to...
    AquaDragon2014 AquaDragon2014 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I have social events I go to like conventions and festivals. I go to these things to make NEW friends. She's always got to be there! She's with me 24/7! When she comes with me to...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F Sep 30

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    Okay. Well, I was humiliated in school today, by my gym teacher. I went down to gym class, got ready, and headed out to the gym. At 9:17am we got our field hockey sticks and a...
    pupie99 pupie99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I was 5 when my mom broke up with my and dad got a divorce and when I was 7 she moved on and started dating other people her boyfriend was very nice to me then he started acting...
    meredithcher meredithcher 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 4

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    On numerous occasions my father would talk down to me telling me I wouldn't make it in life doing what I wanted to do so to please him I went to a school that would make me money...
    missmorgan3400 missmorgan3400 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6