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I Was An Abused Wife

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    My wife has been through a LOT in her life and there is obvious emotional and mental damage that she has not dealt with. This has also led to some problems in our marriage. We...
    ConcernedHusband83 ConcernedHusband83 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Since I was little, my step dad abused my family..including me.
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M Dec 1

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    from age 5 til I was a teenager I was sexually abused by several family members and a close family friend . I have never had therapy for this . so many memories .
    lukeshort46 lukeshort46 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I still am abused by him. Physically, mentally... He's nasty. He treats me like a piece of **** and when I needed help with my suicidal thoughts he just told me I was faking my...
    darlingitsgrunge darlingitsgrunge 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, he's been jealous and controlling since day one. He tells me who I can hang out with and when, made me delete social profiles...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3

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    I don't like to talk about this, but I guess it's a part of me... I am the youngest of a blended, 8, Children Family. In my Family, we don't call each other step... My mother is...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    After the second incident happened I had to distance myself from him. I cut off all contact, and since he was living with my parents I stopped going there so much. Had a young...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I was and still am :L someday everything will be ok <3
    xkittyxxx xkittyxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    It will now be almost a month since I left my abuser. But the pain, however, is still affecting my life. Right after I left him I was feeling numb--I couldn't experience the grief...
    LiveKindly LiveKindly 26-30, F Dec 5

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    I just told my dad that he should step up and confront my grandmother for allowing my grandfather and my aunt to abuse me for as long as they did. I came out with this a few months...
    mophasa mophasa 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I was sexually. I start to years every time I think about it. I still live with them and nobody knows about what happened. I guess you could look at it goodly but I just think that...
    Gage03 Gage03 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    15th post. My panic attack yesterday left me emotionally and physically drained. The way I'm feeling today, there is no way in the world I am going to beat this fight. I would much...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    First I gotta say, you can't be to careful when it comes to your kids, no matter how trusting a person might be. Yes I was abused as a child. My story is nowhere near as bad as...
    trayomis trayomis 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    In October, I saw my abuser for the first time in 11 years. I was adopted and my mothers first husband physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me. he is the root cause of most...
    cillasavage cillasavage 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My wife is at most 5 ft tall...she's a little more curvy now (expected after giving birth to two kids) than she was a few years ago. She's the perfect "size" for me, so much...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    My cross dressing started, as I think many do, with the purchase of one or two garments at a time, and now my wardrobe is full of feminine cloths. My wife is in full support but...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 12 hrs ago

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    Locked up for my wife. Not sure when it's coming off but love the fact of saving myself for her! What ya think of my cage?
    rambo2828 rambo2828 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I love my wife very much but my mother in law dont want to meet her.so i do divorsed her..so i found a better half
    Anuj198600 Anuj198600 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted...
    gabe1982 gabe1982 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    Every week we had to see him, and every week he would beat us up, we would hide before he would arrive, I remember one of my siblings running down the drive and he chased her and I...
    Couldhelp Couldhelp 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    It is an awful thing to see on the outside a child that has been abused. The problem is that there are so many varying degrees of abuse and dysfunctional families especially from...
    teekitten teekitten 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    My boss has been making me feel really uncomfortable for the past few months. I'm his only worker and his wife comes sometimes, but when it's just him and me, he won't stop hugging...
    Aquarius05 Aquarius05 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 18

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    when i was really little my dad used to sexually abuse me... he used to make me do things... i told my mom and she didn't believe me... my parents broke up when i was 7 and my mom...
    emmaline7904 emmaline7904 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Sexual abuse ( Rape ) is a terrible thing done by people ( not necessarily terrible people ) but by people who are really messed up in the head. It has scarred me for life I'm not...
    RyRyOfAwesomness RyRyOfAwesomness 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    The child will rage as the blood flows down the legs, Beaten and raped and blind in rage. All the hell will ignite in a flash of fire as the child sees black then slash and red...
    TheBlessedOne TheBlessedOne 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 29

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    My mother married a terrible guy in my tween years. I remember meeting him for the first time and telling my mom that I didn't like him. I remember feeling really uncomfortable...
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I knew I was sexually abused as a kid but I didn't remember by who. I'd blame all my moms friends except two and it turned out to be one of them. My mom finally told me four years...
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Its been sometime that i've thought about all of it. About my father, bother-in-law, my brothers. I couldnt sleep at all, i remember each night i wount sleep bc i know he was going...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    Was i abused? Between the ages of two to about seven yrs old i was having oral sex with my mom there is a lot more to this coservercial situation on this
    howard1945 howard1945 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    when birth parents got a divorce 3 of us went into foster care , when we went in our 1st foster home, we all abused everyday. it went on for 3 yrs.
    moedogger51 moedogger51 46-50, M Nov 19

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    I’m a survivor. I’ve been sexualy abused by my father many yrs.. My mother also beated me up every single day. After i grew up,i told police third times what happened to me so...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    how old are you? don't feel bad I was absolutely abused too
    gyty gyty 13-15, M a week ago

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    I am abused by my mother and I can feel so much hate which makes me feel weird about myself and I can do nothing about it because I am from the middle east. here, we do not have...
    nkbbb nkbbb 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    My wife is considering having her sister stay with us for awhile since she's going through a hard time right now. That made me a little nervous at first, so I asked her if I would...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Nov 24

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    30 RULES FOR MEN 1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason.Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3 2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22 3. Don...
    Joseharde Joseharde 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    When i was little i remember my mom always trying to "protect me" from different kind of things. she would never let me do things that i liked, for example cheer leading claiming...
    hxnnaah hxnnaah 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I had a severe flashback last night. How do you guys cope with them? I was trying everything, telling myself it wasn't happening, that it was over, trying to make myself aware of...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    So here's the thing about this time of year.. it was once my favorite time of the year, because it was filled with love, family and holiday spirit. See, I was sexually abused as a...
    willowsweep willowsweep 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    When I was 4 my mom and dad got a divorce. When I was 7 she starting dating someone name Mike. When I was 8 he started to touch me it went on for 2 years. Then he stopped and...
    cira10012 cira10012 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 22

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    My earliest memory was when I was about 5yrs old little girl & the last time was when I was 20 yrs old but as I got older the worse it got. My Dad was never around I've never met...
    Floyd77 Floyd77 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I was sexually abuse by my cousins from the age if 7 to 9. He use to touch me and make me touch him. I never thought it affected me or meant anything because I blocked it out for...
    jenjen94 jenjen94 18-21, F Nov 23

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    Adoption and Holiday Dread By John Veit Arcata, CA As Turkey Day approaches the words of cinema pugilist Rocky Balboa ring in my head. “To you, it’s Thanksgiving; to me, it...
    JohnV25 JohnV25 41-45, M Nov 24

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    My freshman year of high school was very tough for me. It was honestly the worst year of my life. Thinking back to when I was 14 seems like a lifetime ago, but really its not. It...
    mred55 mred55 18-21, F 4 Responses