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I Was An Abused Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    I'm no longer with him. For the last few weeks, I have been doing well. But the last few days it has started hitting me gain in waves, and I cry in my bed at night. I wish the pain...
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    My mom really messed me up.
    saintmeaty saintmeaty 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was abused by my dad when I was younger. Now we have a very strained relationship and due to the abuse I am weary of other men. On top of that I was emotionally and physically...
    venessad17 venessad17 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 18 years old and I was abused by my brother, starting when I was young (I'm not sure how old, maybe 9, 10 or 11ish) and ending when I was 16, when he committed suicide. I got...
    ThatBitch18 ThatBitch18 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Has anyone else that was abused ever ****** during the abuse/molestation? private message me
    hardluckguy73 hardluckguy73 36-40, M Jan 17

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    i was abused i was in foster care i was not able to trust people to keep my self calm i cut it was hard for me to try to live
    jazzyjaniah jazzyjaniah 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    my stepfather was a **** , when I was a teenager he came into my room, mom never knew thank god
    fiona1977 fiona1977 36-40, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    The wife is out shopping with friends and happened to stop by a lingerie shop. Sent me a few pics of what she "may get" Can't wait to see what she has on when she gets home, told...
    PaulScaffolderGlasgow PaulScaffolderGlasgow 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Evil Wife's failed IVF Please refer to my earlier stories. After much pressure from my wife and advice of my parents, I decided to get IVF treatment for my wife. I thought having...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    When I was 15 my dad took us shopping with my younger sister who was 12 at that time. He bought was clothes. However , a month later when I got home from school he told me that...
    cunning78 cunning78 22-25, F Jan 16

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    About 3/4 years ago when I was 13/14 (underage and a minor) I was forced to send pictures to a guy who was 26 he had a fake picture and made a fake account who he called his...
    lela201465 lela201465 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was sexually abused twice by my dad when I was 13 . I was forced to report it . My case went cold because there was no evidence . I then found out my dads whole side of the...
    madisonbliss madisonbliss 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 10

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    I've just posted on here and this is my second experience. When I joined a new school in year 9 I met this guy I thought was amazing. By September (year 10) we were really close...
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M Jan 10

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    My uncle used to hit my with a belt and when ever i started to cry he would hit me harder one day he hit me so hard i started to bleed and i was 5 that day and it was my birthday...
    Rockinawaski Rockinawaski 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I was sexually abused when I was 16. My then boyfriend is now a trans woman. I can see now that he was struggling with his identity and perhaps hated women for taking their...
    diggadog diggadog 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My stepfather abused me for 8 years. My mom and I moved in when I was 15. It started within months and lasted util 2 months before I was married. It has changed my attitude to men...
    lindaishere lindaishere 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was sexually abused by a male cousin when I was 12
    ces588 ces588 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mom verbally, emotionally, mentally abused me my whole life. I hate her for all that she's put me through.
    Tianaluvsyou Tianaluvsyou 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I feel pain for when the sweetest most affectionate giving things on this planet are getting abused. I'm against animal cruelty. It's makes me wanna hurt people that do that.
    peaceintruelove peaceintruelove 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Hi. This won't be an easy one. I'm 37 years old, and have been married for over 16 years. My wife and I have three girls, 16, 12 and 10. I have not been a loyal husband, but up...
    Betruetoyourpath Betruetoyourpath 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    This life memory was almost forced upon me. I had woken up in the middle of the night, then, after I went to the bathroom, let the cat out, noticed that it must be late, because...
    WestWhite WestWhite 56-60, M 11 hrs ago

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    I had a severe physical health scare that meant two months at many different doctors and going through different procedures and they could not figure out why I was having this...
    catgirl192 catgirl192 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    So when I was 9/10 years old, I remember being my brother in law favourite person( my parents were away for work). He was always nice to me and I loved him like a family. So he...
    Joanna20j Joanna20j 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    m moving out when I turn 18, and I'm absolutely terrified. I'm... feeling really small right now, so I guess that's why I'm writing this. My story is long, but relevant. I was...
    theydunnomyname theydunnomyname 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Almost 10 years... Almost 10 years since the day it started. I was sexually abused by my babysitter. Not only was SHE a babysitter, she was also my 19 year old brothers girlfriend...
    mayana12 mayana12 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I was bullied mercilessly when young. I'm an American and was raised in a military family, we moved around. I was bullied during middle school, even in high school. I spent half my...
    EvansBlue EvansBlue 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    The Invisible Girl and Her Private Hell-Did you know that overweight awkward cry baby who consistently made the Honor Roll/High Honor Roll, always had her nose in a book,never gave...
    Merka94 Merka94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Please refer to my earlier stories. This Sunday my evil wife had a tiff with me on the same issue of going for another IVF and while quarreling with me she held me by my collar...
    wsing wsing 36-40, M Jan 20

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    I don't know how to tell this story... Late last August, the man I thought to be my father took my 4 year old sister and I to see our grandparents before the end of the summer...
    mickey19974 mickey19974 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    So I went out today. My stepfather was in his usual mood going out (well a lot of the time he is like this). I thought it was odd that mum was being ok to me. It didn't dawn on me...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I don't remember his face... Or his voice. Just darkness and a small space. There was a shoe or something under my head. The TV was on... But all I can hear. The thing that echoes...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    He isn't really a step father as he isn't married to my mum but they are more or less acting like a married couple. At first he was just being mean to me. Mental abuse. Then one...
    BritishBBW BritishBBW 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I was raped in eighth grade by someone I thought liked me but I was wrong. He was older then me and I should've known better. I didn't really know him well and he wanted to do...
    dsmith0501 dsmith0501 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I love my wife for many reasons. Do we struggle, yes often, and I have to work very hard to be a loving husband sometimes but isn;t that what marriage is about. It is so...
    Nigel1224 Nigel1224 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Sometimes I hate being a second wife. I know for a fact that his mother likes his first wife better, she has told me that his first wife is beautiful and I'm ugly. She even...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    That was the only form of emotion I was show the majority of the time and being a child, I imitated my father. I began to hit my friends in a playful and affection manor, but it...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F Jan 16

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    My babysitter molested me when I was really little, for about 2 years, when I was 4-5. He was 14-15 years old. It makes me queasy to think about it. He touched me, I only remember...
    WhereThereIsHope WhereThereIsHope 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    my dad always was an angry person. I think it's because we grew up in a country far away from his side of the family. him yelling at me wasn't anything I couldn't handle but in my...
    Slekkoo Slekkoo 22-25 2 Responses Jan 17

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