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I Was An Abused Wife

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    I believe my wife always had a crush on her father. He treated her different than he did her siblings. He was not a demonstrative man, but would hug her randomly. Her brother and...
    wuzgnu wuzgnu 66-70, M 1 hr ago

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    It was by more then one person my mom my baby sitter and one of my cousins the crazy thing is Im a guy and these were females. It started when I was 5 and went on until I was about...
    justaguy333 justaguy333 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have been married to my wife almost 20 years and can't stand being around her anymore. I met her in the mid 90's on a trip to my homeland. Although I was not looking for a wife...
    lordhelpme1000 lordhelpme1000 56-60, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I love my wife Jennifer but often fantasize about other men using her. These men do not love or cherish her or see her as a beautiful wife and mother.
    myhotwifeJennifer myhotwifeJennifer 41-45, M 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Some years ago I knew my wife found this man attractive so I encouraged her to have an affair with him. I trusted her and knew it was mainly a sexual thing so she arranged to meet...
    vostock vostock 61-65, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I used to have a gf who loves younger men , she talked to me about it , and I agreed , she was 27 and we brought a partner 19 years old boy to our home .. It was extreme hot when I...
    YoungerBoy YoungerBoy 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    "More Than I Bargained For." Like many husbands, I love other men seeing my wife partially or fully nude. We have had any number of experiences where men have caught an...
    d5447 d5447 56-60 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    My Biological mother abused me when i was younger. i was around 4 when it started. i remember the first time like it was yesterday. i've never been able to let the image go. i don...
    silentwhisper17 silentwhisper17 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I was sexually abused by my brother when I was 5? Then I saw and hear things a girl shouldn't have.then my mother put my hand in her breastfeeding and asked me if I liked it. Some...
    isaidenough isaidenough 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    And sexually abused. The sad thing is when I want to talk about it with someone they dismiss me so easily because I'm male. Physically abused? I should have 'manned up' and fought...
    LukasMeoww LukasMeoww 16-17, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Newly divorced after leaving a very abusive relationship, I moved back to my hometown and was able to get a job through an old friend from school. During my first week there, I...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was abused from the age of 6 by our next door neighbour who was in his 70s. I don't really remember how it all started as at the time I didn't know it was wrong, I used to like...
    Facethedemons Facethedemons 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I remember my first foster home n second i was abused, one time ill never forget i was forced to eat my own throw up. I remember i wanted my brothers to save me so bad. When i was...
    theresajanelle theresajanelle 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    So I recently found out that the man that sexually abused me when I was 4 was just arrested for for touching a 10 year old inappropriately I really would like to help the victims...
    Scal92 Scal92 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I abused prescription drugs on large scale during 1995 to 2000. I tried them in very potent and weird combinations. I mostly abused benzodiazepines. Now I find that my memory has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    I was abused at three and abused for ten years from 7 to 15 starting cutting at seventeen and going from hospital to hospital but been saved at 19 or 20 years old where I learned...
    Nikkilight25 Nikkilight25 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The biologic was a violent drunk, who only came home when he'd run out of panhandling money, and winter was setting in (he lived under a bridge in the warmer months). Mom finally...
    SemperFido SemperFido 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    when I was born my mother couldn't except me ... I still don't know why. However my dad loved me to bits and took really good care of me while my mum couldn't even look into my...
    kstra38 kstra38 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When ever wife is shopping in Malls, I try to find out if some older man are starring at my wife's rounded ***, and often find some older guy starring at her *** with a smile on...
    oldmushroom oldmushroom 61-65, M 4 Responses Aug 24

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    I am writing this to shed light on domestic violence and what happened to me. At first it was only on my Facebook and was set to "Friends Only" but I am now making it public and...
    Taylor62298 Taylor62298 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I am very sexual. Does this have to do with being sexually abused so much in my life? Or is it possible I am just one of those woman who have a naturally high sex drive? I don't...
    xoxo95 xoxo95 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 23

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    This is actually the 1st time I'm letting this out..to anyone. I was at my best friends house. My mother had dropped me off. I was 13 and perhaps Grade 6/7 in the summer.. I am 16...
    iicrappinq iicrappinq 16-17, F Aug 21

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    I had anorexia and had to go to a treatment center for it and about 2 weeks after I got there I was locked in a basement,starved, and got one phone call to my parents. I was only...
    LateApology LateApology 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    For about four years I was anorexic and I chose to starve myself to less than 90lbs and almost die. I could wrap my hands around my thigh and they would overlap . I eventually, 8...
    LateApology LateApology 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I was sexually abused often as a kid and got pregnant from a rape when I was 11. I became a mother to twins yes twins at 12. It started when I was 5. I'm 14 now, doing well, and my...
    heavenlygurl heavenlygurl 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I've been abused in every form by my last two boyfriends and I'm so scared it's going to happen to me again. Sometimes I wonder how I am still alive. As much as I am happy to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 17

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    Parent probs. My dad verbally and physically abused my mom, me and my younger sister. I somewhat developed this attachment and trust issues. I pick out people whom I think is...
    PinkBubbleGumAndCottonCandy PinkBubbleGumAndCottonCandy 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    To me it was my fault fallinh in love with a boy the spark that i have never felt before when we kissed and just him holding me felt wonderful. There are so many things i want to...
    Soups Soups 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    My experience of abuse is most likely not as bad as most people's but I'd still like to share.. The first time I was abused by my dad was when I came home late from a friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My boyfriend is a 48 year old married man. He's 25 years my senior and was my former boss. I now work in the same industry in the same vicinity so I'm still able to see him. He is...
    catsmp catsmp 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My MN mother abused my cats to assert her power over me & to feed off my pain, helplessness and terror. I always felt so guilty that I couldn't protect them from her that I never...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F Aug 16

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    My MN mother abused my cats to assert her power over me & to feed off my pain, helplessness and terror. I always felt so guilty that I couldn't protect them from her that I never...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My mother abused my cats to assert her power over me & to feed off my pain, helplessness and terror. I always felt so guilty that I couldn't protect them from her that I never told...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F Aug 16

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    I was sexually abused when I was 7 and he was 14 I recently came to realize what he did still have impacts today I do things I don't want to do after do something sexually I get...
    cocohope21 cocohope21 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    Anger is not something to be ashamed of. Anger is a natural response to injustice and can help break the cycle of abuse. Anger is a crucial part of recovery. Two weeks ago on 7/31...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F Aug 15

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    Anger is not something to be ashamed of. Anger is a natural response to injustice and can help break the cycle of abuse. Anger is a crucial part of recovery. Two weeks ago on 7/31...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    This isn't about my current relationship with my new fiancee, whom I love dearly and who is NOTHING like my ex. This is about a miserable experience I had with my former wife. We...
    yanholing yanholing 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    My soul was abused for many many years. Im still healthy. Physically. Im anxiety sick but i wonder how my body still works after so much emotional torture.
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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