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I Was An Abused Wife

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    I was emotionally abused, emotionally blackmailed, and thanks to my friends and family I left him. But I miss it. I want to be abused like that again. I want to be physically...
    Gallowsweet Gallowsweet 18-21, F Sep 22

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    I was mentally abused, not physically. My life is controlled and thanks to that problem, I can't fit in with society. I try to do "normal things" but I can't do it because I get...
    BlackBloodDemon BlackBloodDemon 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    When I was 4 years old my parents were divorced. I remember 2 police cars driving up the road while my mother and dad were yelling at each other. My mother got custody of me and my...
    mymindhurts mymindhurts 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I don't have any children of my own but I can not imagine being able to abuse my own flesh and blood. I was never abused as a child by my parents but I was sexually molested by...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It was my wife. I guess she couldn't help it but she told her mother and her sister and goodness knows who else is in that circle now. Anyone else had that happen to them ??
    LibbyLee LibbyLee 56-60, T 4 Responses Sep 12

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    I have a boyfriend we have been together now for three years. We have a baby together a year and a half. I have a son with my previous, and he has two sons with his ex wife... Four...
    lovinglife222 lovinglife222 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I am a 2nd wife and believe there must be someone who can relate to the problems I've encountered on this 20 yr journey. Let me start by saying we were both married 16 yrs to...
    dymnd2 dymnd2 56-60, F Sep 8

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    10 year old Yemeni girl smiling after she was granted a divorce from her husband- a 30 year old man.Nujood Ali was nine when her parents arranged a marriage to Faez Ali Thamer, a...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F Sep 5

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    As a child I was sexually abused by my father it went on for year I was eight when it first happened nine when I ended it first I really didn't know what was going on he would call...
    Somechick47 Somechick47 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    Hi guys new to this group. My partner is on suboxone maintainance (bupe& nalox. Films) I am concerned about his use however. I am a student in addiction and behavioral sciences...
    coffeedrop83 coffeedrop83 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have a friend, who I will call Melissa (not her real name) who has more than her share of challenges in life. I have known her most of my life as we attended the same grade...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Welp.. Here goes nothing At the time I was only in the 4th grade.. My mothers brothers and sisters only had boys.. So I was pretty much the only girl (at the time) me and my 2...
    ThebeautBird ThebeautBird 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    When I was 14 I had been put on a work experience project by the school. I was working for two weeks in a hotel. The manager there was in his mid 20's and after the placement was...
    monstahmash monstahmash 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    This is a sensitive subj to talk about, when I was 5-6 I was sexually abused by my uncle, I still remember everything although in 16 now. I never did something about it, I still...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    When I was around 10 my brother sexually abused me. I didn't know what he was doing and it scared and confused me but I went along with it because I trusted him. I don't hold...
    ItalicHail ItalicHail 16-17, M Sep 23

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    I have been physically abused by my alcoholic dad ever since I was in 3rd grade. He went to jail for a couple years but is now back. It has gotten better now that I am bigger and...
    ihill032299 ihill032299 16-17, M Sep 2

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    I was sexually abused by my older brother and I told my mom but she didn't really seem to take much concern and it honestly kills me inside to ever be around him
    hellandtoast666 hellandtoast666 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    When I was five years old, a man sexually abused me more than twice. I'm afraid to tell people, because what if they see me differently or disgusted??
    samjuliah samjuliah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I was physically mentally and emotionally abused by my ex boyfriend. I dream about him all the time. I can't stop dreaming about him. So I messaged him today. Why do I still care...
    reneelove1 reneelove1 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 16

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    I need to ask a question for any women my age. Please understand that I'm not trying to make you feel uncomfortable or flirt, nothing like that. Just looking for some feedback. How...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 17

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    That's right you read correct, my wife shaved her head. Conversations have been happening for months with my wife who has been spending her free time studying the bible and has...
    HoMaj HoMaj 31-35, M Sep 2

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    My Wife Is A Woman It began with a casual encounter at the needle exchange, where I had been a frequent visitor in the months after the birth of our son. The woman behind the...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 4 Responses Sep 7

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    My wife wants a urgent divorce I can't cope? I was caught in a spa with her very good friend and I did not say I was going there with her ( don't look good at all ) When my wife...
    uncleginge uncleginge 26-30, M Sep 16

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    Please allow me to share my story with you.As my wife Beverly entered middle age, she developed an uncontrollable urge to eat rich, fattening foods. She confessed to her girlfriend...
    JerryMartin JerryMartin 51-55, M Sep 18

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    If you finish reading this and provide advice, suggestions, or insight - I will think the world of you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. So this is complicated and I'm not...
    CloseItForSure CloseItForSure 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 2

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    When I was around 4 years old, my biological parents began to abuse me for no reason. They called me a devil's child and use to torture and starve me. I remembered they use to tie...
    Lucas14 Lucas14 18-21, M Sep 6

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    Hi all  Yes, I was bullied, I’m 21 and guess what? I continue to be bullied. I won’t go into the details of my past but I’ll give you a summary. Bullied from school days...
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    When i was a very little girl, between 2 - 5 i think. My daddy left us. Us being me, my brother, and my mom. She worked very hard to take care of us. Therefore I never had a lot of...
    CleverSiri CleverSiri 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    Texting the wife about sex. She gets so hot when I come up with stories that she's laying on her back with blindfold on and I have sexy lady sneak in and help me rub her down. she...
    fun546blue fun546blue 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I think it was the way he laughed. So full of life , yet I was left lifeless. He was the start of a dream and a end to a nightmare. He stood 6'1 his Carmel skin complimenting his...
    nanifnbahd nanifnbahd 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    I lay in my bed this morning thinking about it all. Every last little detail of what happened. Then I realized I was thinking about it.. and I started to think about why I was...
    bubblefishkiss bubblefishkiss 26-30, F a week ago

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    When I was about 5 my cousin would abuse me. I was small at the time so I didn't know what was happening, he would say it was a game of thief and cop and I was the thief. He would...
    lunaClipse lunaClipse 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Being under the influence of love is not unlike being drunk or high -- that's why we fall in love. We don't join in, or sign up or practice being in love. We simply fall. So I...
    cindycap cindycap 41-45 Sep 4

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    My brother is 7 years older.. And I used to think It all was just some dream I had, but I have to many incidents and memory of it for it to be a dream. He never acknowledged it in...
    LoveLustFaithDreams LoveLustFaithDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    The overwhelming majority of people who are in my situation are women. It makes me feel like I shouldn't complain. Why should I? Women have it worse, are more likely to be...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I had just gotten done scrubbing our downstairs white tiled floor. I had a tiny section left and he was helping a little bit here and there, etc. We started having a convo about...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    PART 2 Last September right before my birthday, she confessed her attraction to me. Is it because she feels bad for me because I don't attract guys, as well as the fact I can't...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I lost her when I was about 1 I think it was the most saddest thing ever then once she was gone no one even stuck up for me when I would get abused
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F Sep 16

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    It's been a while since I was last here. A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16

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    When my wife and I first met, we were both in loveless relationships. A simple handshake in late 2005 took us down a complicated road of friendship, love, loss, love again...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I don't really know if this counts as sexual abuse but he used to not stop when I said stop...and held me down and did things. And would act all sad afterwards and say sorry so I...
    danixy danixy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    My ex husband is doing 6 years for trying to kill me. It's been 6 years since this happened and just tonight I had somebody ask me why I didn't fight him or try and kill him. I'm...
    medinagrl medinagrl 36-40, F Sep 21

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    TRIGGERING! ... .. . It was my brother. He came to my moms for a visit in February, 2011. My best friend spent the night and lost her v*rginity to him on February 18th, and five...
    BrittannyLynn BrittannyLynn 16-17, F Sep 22

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