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I Was An Abused Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    Hit & Run

    My husband of 36 years ran off with a 47 year old "Christian Harlot." They had an affair and was busted in October 2009. They pretended to end their sexual affair. She, Debbie A. Apfel acted like the affair was over and Louie P Ruiz stayed with his family throughout the...
    yafalinda yafalinda 56-60, F Sep 5, 2013

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    I Am A Survivor Of Abuse

    I was an abused wife.  At the age of 25 I married a man who I met at church.  My pastor thought he was the answer to our prayers.  I had been divorced and had two beautiful children, by the time I met my abuser they were 5 & 7.  I had just become a...
    jacksgramma2005 jacksgramma2005 51-55, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Is God Watching? A Short Story

    She can hear him screaming blue murder in the back bedroom but she turns up The Pet Shop Boys and makes herself a cup of instant. Is God watching? It is Wednesday. The dustbin men will be coming. She has put out her rubbish; carefully bundled up in black bin liners at the bottom...
    Sighman Sighman 51-55, M May 10, 2012

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    I spent 5 years in a relationship with someone who never really loved me. What do I know maybe he did but in his own sick kind of way. I spent 5 years lying to myself and thinking...
    Solitude112 Solitude112 18-21, F Mar 12

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    It was for a long time, until I moved out and even now when I visit I get smacked around. That's why I almost never visit my family.
    Insanity404 Insanity404 18-21, F Mar 16

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    Ep won't let me post this read my other story details below.
    iwantgirlwedgieslaves16 iwantgirlwedgieslaves16 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Age of offense: 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9 Age I spoke up: 14 Current age: 15 Number of therapists: 4 going on 5 Number who listened so far: 0 Friends I told: 7 Friends I lost: 5 2...
    Sarabell00 Sarabell00 13-15, F Mar 15

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    This morning, I told my mother I want to sleep in and wouldn't be able to have breakfast with her and my father. And she slapped me across the face. Did I deserve it ? Because...
    Dove06 Dove06 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I was abused by my father countless of times already. Just lateky, he abused me again. Just because I forgot to get uniform outside, I left it there overnight. I did not even know...
    IAmStrongerNow IAmStrongerNow 13-15, F Mar 19

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    I’ve come to terms with my inability to form relationships, this stems from multiple factors in my life including abuse, unavailable/narcissistic parents, and giftedness. I now...
    Deadinsideguy Deadinsideguy 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Sometimes I wish I would have died when he first raped me. It's too much some days it is really too much and I don't know when I am going to crack. Why grown men and women abuse...
    innocentsoul innocentsoul 18-21 1 Response Mar 15

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    When I was about 8 years old, my 15 year old brother would make me ********** him at night in the bathroom when the rest of the family was asleep. I was afraid of doing it, afraid...
    willingtolisten willingtolisten 56-60, M 18 hrs ago

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    Last year met a married man at first we were friend and and then lovers. I tell him it's over and walked away although we do close to each a bit hard to not see him, wife and kids...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I love my wife so much she only allows me to give her oral sex, i lick and kiss her bottom in worship and then i am allowed to give her oral sex,when i look up in her face and she...
    mysissy mysissy 56-60, M 7 hrs ago

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    I found out at age 29 that this man who molested, belittled, sexually abused, emotional abused, and who still lives in my deceased mother's home wasn't my real father....my mother...
    sbelle211 sbelle211 41-45, F a week ago

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    Thinking about death and life every night. side by side life and death. My insomnia is really horrible. I stop taking meds at this moment,and i've been taking counseling. sorry i...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was sexually abused when I was 10 by my 14 year old cousin. He did it for several months. And threatened me if I told anyone. His mother would watch me in the mornings during...
    nicoledn nicoledn 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's taken me a few years to understand what exactly was happening but when I finally did because of this cop that came to talk to my class about all sorts of stuff, sexual abuse...
    disparateyouth disparateyouth 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My step dad used to try and 'toughen me up' when he realised I just wasn't like that he started mentally abusing me, he would say I was a girl for not liking fighting and would...
    LeighUK LeighUK 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I was sexually abused by my uncle at the age of 5 till 11.... Im 17 now and i finally went to the police it was the best decision i ever made, please if this has happend to you i...
    helpmeplease1973 helpmeplease1973 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Oh boo hoo I was molested anal made to dress in little girls clothing all this people wringing about being abused should get over themselves i was 10 and I was forced to wear...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 6

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    I was sexually abused by my Uncle for 2 years starting when I was 10. It has really impacted my life. He is in prison now thank god.
    Skittleshite Skittleshite 70+, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The more I think about it the more disgusted I am. My dad sexually abused me for years and I didn't know it. I've told one other person my entire life. If your reading this your...
    XsOfTheSoul XsOfTheSoul 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 12

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    i recently started seeing a therapist to deal with some things from my childhood. i worked so hard to be a functioning person that i have repressed and suppressed many of my...
    paris348 paris348 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I didn't finish school..i remember growing up with my mother nagging my father about money..she always beat us if she ran out of money..she would tell us to work for ourselves at...
    lezia88 lezia88 26-30, F Mar 9

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    Sometimes it's hard to get my bestie to understand where I'm coming from, because she's never really had to deal with being sexually harassed and (thank goodness) she's never been...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Mar 20

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    A message to my Ex I hate you, I love you You broke me You killed me You ruined my life You hurt me in so many different ways You abused me for 1 full year You drained what ever...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I found out recently that my wife of 18 years(together for 21 yrs) cheated on me about 12 years ago. The guy she cheated with was a co-worker of hers. I remember the circumstances...
    Buddhabee Buddhabee 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 17

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    I like to take the time tell you my story and what it was like to be me. I was born September 1st 1976 in Kelowna BC Canada. I was born with a mild case of Tourette syndrome, as a...
    Canadianwolfe Canadianwolfe 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I have been working with two partners for several years on the development of a scientific product. We sometimes commiserate that our significant others do not understand how...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F Mar 3

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    I went to a large number of churches growing up and also went to a religious private school that was abusive. I was told as a child (and still am today by my parents and 'friends...
    ChantelSurvived ChantelSurvived 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship for 11 yrs now. We have a 6 yr old son together. Things started off good he was laid back , funny, charming , hardworking...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I was brought in religion, my parents were strict. there was only twisted words and unfair blame. taunts and mockery. ghose taunts and lies caused bulemia, depression, self harm...
    minnieblack93 minnieblack93 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    So this story started exactly... 5 and a half years ago... when i met this guy... he was...and is... up to this day.. creating stories... so i give him money... everytime he makes...
    saraben143227 saraben143227 18-21, F Mar 14

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    Got set off at the dentist today?! What the HELL??? That has never happened to me before! When the guy dentist came in and was standing over me I actually got really scared and my...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F Mar 17

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    I don't know how to feel about this. Today I was cuddling with my boyfriend and I was having a flash back with a anxiety attack. And usually I don't want my boyfriend to touch me...
    DeijiDaze DeijiDaze 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I need help, when I was 15 my cousin who was 25 was staying with us for a month. While I was asleep he'd come into my room and touch me, when I was 17 cps got involved. I'm now 18...
    StrawberryShortcake97 StrawberryShortcake97 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a 16 year old girl and because of that, these memories are still very fresh in my mind. It hurts yes, but I don't really want to forget. I know my father was not a nice person...
    AnnabelleKirkland AnnabelleKirkland 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When I was 4, my best friend was my neighbor. I went to her house almost everyday after school. One day when I was there, her mom went to the store, so her dad was in charge. He...
    sincerelysl sincerelysl 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm sorry all my posts on Google plus got deleted . Never mind ...I'm not going to mention the names of any businesses anymore as it leads to to having all my writings deleted...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 day ago

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