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I Was An Exotic Dancer

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 17 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    82 lbs down but having some joint issues. It was bound to happen when I was over 500 lbs for so long. http://pinkelephantsisters.blogspot.com/2015/07/weight-loss-journey-back-to...
    KandyFoxx KandyFoxx 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    When i was really young, my cousin, who was older than me, made me wear a top and a skirt. She keeps reminding me of it. She says she'll give me the photo. Once i get it , I'll...
    Robinethegirl Robinethegirl 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    I'm sad because I feel invisible. All of my friends won't text me back. I'm stuck at home. I swear I haven't seen any of my friends in 3 months. I wasting away my heart.
    HowKendall HowKendall 13-15 5 hrs ago

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    I first got drunk when I was 11 and because I looked so much older I'd buy alcohol from when I was 13. I was a nightmare.
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Watching exotic car races on a hill climb
    MrsButterfly90 MrsButterfly90 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    When you look at me I so would like you to be captivated by my exotic beauty..My flamboyance outshining all the other flowers that are in existence. My scent alone holds you spell...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love dancing. I've been dancing since I was three. I've done all types but my favorite is hip-hop/street dancing. Everybody tells me that's what I and the best at. Dancing is my...
    skylerfaye skylerfaye 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Magic Mike XXL! Oh what a fun time my colleagues and I had tonight. Who cares if it didn't have much of a plot? It would have been a distraction. Oh man!!! Now I know what I'll be...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I danced for 15 years. it was my life. or that's what I told people. That's what I pretended it was. I was trained since I was three and was the best in my school. I was going...
    LoverOfTheLight121 LoverOfTheLight121 18-21, F Jul 11

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    Because I was small and white, I went to a Black & Hispanic school. I was physically bullied until I was in 7th Grade, when I was so tall that I made some of my former bullies pee...
    SecretDise SecretDise 41-45, M Jul 6

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    So, it really was only one time, but the damage they did has haunted me ever since. I go to a private Christian school, and bullying is normally not a problem. If it becomes one...
    GirlforGod2 GirlforGod2 13-15 Jul 6

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    It just happens to be that when i understood my friends vanished, and i gained the understanding they weren't coming back. The young me turned to the only item that i new could...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 Jul 5

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    A week ago today, I decided I wanted a beer. It was only a little after 10:00PM, so I had plenty of time - legally - but the stores around my home often close early. This night...
    Kindalost Kindalost 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am 42 years old and now divorced from a man who is an abusive cheat. It's been nearly 3 years since we split and I'm still struggling to come to terms with the fact I was married...
    Stargazer18 Stargazer18 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    When I was at secondary school I was bullied badly because of my disability. One girl throw a basket ball in my face and I was told by my doctor that I was lucky she didn't brake...
    VolunteerMouse VolunteerMouse 22-25, F Jul 5

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    from what i can remember i never fit in i always was an outcast the main reason was my red hair and allso the fact that me dad has a company and from the first grade a lot of...
    HelenSiren HelenSiren 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I was walking home from a friend's house and I wasn't think and took a short cut through a park and a guy came up be hind me and injected me with somthing I woke up in a basement...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 5

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    I stood there like a confused 7 year old would, surrounded by adults trying to confort me. I was too niiave when I noticed my mother was not there, rapid whispers when I asked...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 5

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    Everyone has family gatherings they would rather forget. Well when I was 16 I was really happy for the Fourth of July it was the first year I was allowed to do fireworks. As you...
    soxs45 soxs45 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Mmmmm okay soo this happened with four? People men of course and it started when I was five .-. First one was my cousin B then my dads best friend A then my other cousin F then my...
    smilelover smilelover 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Mmmmm okay soo this happened with four? People men of course and it started when I was five .-. First one was my cousin B then my dads best friend A then my other cousin F then my...
    smilelover smilelover 13-15, F Jul 4

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    It was on a school bus. I was probably 18 or 19. Don't know if it's by misfortune or plain stupidity, I chose to sit with this guy even though there were other empty seats...
    Dove06 Dove06 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I started to explore the romantic side of life when I was 16. I got my first relationship with a guy who's 2 years older than me. We dated for 2 years. Everything was good until he...
    tears3sad tears3sad 22-25, F Jul 4

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    So yesterday I went to my Dance Show. It was freaking amazing! It was my very first dance show, I nearly fainted in the seats but when I went out there my nerves just disappeared...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 4

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    All through out school I was being bullied. I got bullied for so much, for being the quiet one, for being the fat one, for being the smart one. For just everything, I hated it, it...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 4

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    I wish I was a butterfly Beautiful and free If I was a Butterfly I would fly high, and far, and be free. I wish I was a Butterfly I'd fly to somewhere safe and peaceful I'd fly to...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F Jul 4

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    I have always wanted to ***** (for money and fun), but just last week I finally got the courage to put my body into that building and got the job . . . I had been secretly toting...
    rmcares rmcares 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    All through out school I was being bullied. I got bullied for so much, for being the quiet one, for being the fat one, for being the smart one. For just everything, I hated it, it...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F Jul 3

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