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I Was An Exotic Dancer

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    My kids make fun of it , they hate my culture and dont understand my exotic background they might find it embarrassing and humiliating but i swim in clouds about it i feel elated...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Mar 14

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    When I was 3, I started gymnastics and did competetive when I was 4. When I was 5 I started going to Circus school for contortion idk why. But I learned a lot of my tricks there...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M a week ago

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    Most exotic/luxurious/succulent/delicious food you ever ate and why? Describe....🍴
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 4

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    I love to dance and be silly when I'm in a good mood. I shut the door turn up the music and just let go. I'm not the best dancer but it feels Good and I'm in a better mood When I'm...
    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm a brand new burlesque dancer in training! I have an amazing supportive troupe, and I can't wait to perform!
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I used to be a dancer, mainly ballet. About a year ago though I injured my left ankle. For several months I couldn't dance. Dance used to take up most of my day so I never had much...
    fattenedballerina fattenedballerina 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I was teased a lot in my childhood and teenage years. Anyone who knows me knows that I have never been a feminine girl or woman. I got a lot of negative attention from my peers...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Babysitting slumber party Part 2: quick recap, I was being babysitted by 2 siblings for the first time. These two had dressed me up as a girl and we spent te rest of the night as...
    Boygirltime Boygirltime 18-21, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    When I was 18, I traveled alone to another city to see a concert. I got stuck there without any place to stay. I was close to a college, and a guy told me I could crash on the...
    lotusdrum lotusdrum 36-40, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    About a week ago, i went with my mother to get my school skirt fitted. The person doing it was a man.He worked with my mother. It was just really weird. My mom left for ten minutes...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    When I was 15 when ever I was home alone I would get naked and just relax. I always enjoyed being naked and was proud of my body. But one time I was naked and my friend(who is a...
    Iwilldoher55 Iwilldoher55 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    Anyone read my experience about bullying? Well I found out it was just a group of people saying those things, not everyone. Apparently this so called 'friend' of mine had...
    CindyLEvans CindyLEvans 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    Last Sunday I took a drive to another city with the intent of dressing and shopping. Just a little me time. I got to the mall and totally freaked. I chickened out. As I was getting...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Wasted time, wasted hopes, wasted dreams, and wasted words from the pieces of my heart that have never been seen....
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 9 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    So.. Today I got slapped by someone I really love.. And he loved me too.. We broke away already due to some problems.. This was the first time in my life that someone hit me on my...
    TheLivingDead TheLivingDead 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    About 20 years ago my wife and I went to a nudist resort . I was very nervous and excited at the same time. After many minutes I took off my clothes , it was many naked people of...
    nicelifeok2 nicelifeok2 56-60, M 12 hrs ago

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    I'd probably a better Andrew John D. Than a Autumn Rene' D. My parents thought I was going to be a boy and I wish I was, I'd be better off as one... With my man shoulders and my...
    SadlySafe SadlySafe 13-15 6 hrs ago

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    It screwed me up real bad... I know some girls get better, they even manage to help others. But he just made me feel so disgusting... and that's what I really am now. He constantly...
    KittyCunt KittyCunt 18-21, F 19 mins ago

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    Even when I was 8 or so, I thought about never being born. This thought never left me and it kept dominating my head especially after my mom told she almost didn't keep me. To be...
    nuwandaisaphony nuwandaisaphony 16-17 14 hrs ago

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    Not to be factious but just so that could never be stopped from doing something because of lack of money. I would live simply and be able to finish college without having to worry...
    AnonyB AnonyB 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I was 13. and it seemed a good think to me at the time. she was umm30? and bored i guess
    oooojjoooo oooojjoooo 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    i was raped by my sisters husband.
    thatonekid07 thatonekid07 16-17, M 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Was Bullied as a kid and as a teen and hated it..................
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My sister is a very spoiled little brat, and to make it worse my mothers friend is staying over with her kid. They were fighting earlier over who was going to be first in a wii...
    Nanette34613 Nanette34613 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My crush knew that I liked him and then said he wasn't ready to date for awhile. A couple weeks later he gets a girlfriend. I'm done with people telling me things and not meaning...
    AttackOnJordan AttackOnJordan 13-15, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I was bullied in high school. People called me a hippo.
    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1 18-21, F 11 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    You may tell me to count my blessings- that I don't know how lucky I am to have a family. You're wrong. I hate my family I hate them ALL I wish I was an orphan!!!
    Lifesucksx10 Lifesucksx10 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    It was the worst day of my life .-.
    Kumarie Kumarie 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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