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I Was An Exotic Dancer

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    Love dancing! Really into hip hop and pole dancing. Not just because it's exotic but it's just awesome on my core !
    rubyroo15 rubyroo15 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Most exotic/luxurious/succulent/delicious food you ever ate and why? Describe....🍴
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today, at work of all places, I was offered a drug by one of my coworkers. It was a powdery green substance he claimed to be from an exotic plant that produced "calming" effects...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Spent all weekend at a dance competition! It was fun, but such a long weekend!
    PrincessDemeter02 PrincessDemeter02 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I'm scared of insects. I swear I feel like an extreme runner or some sort of crazy as dancer. I'm like holy crap!!!
    kaixin97 kaixin97 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    lol, so I usually keep my hair up, because I'm a janitor..... hah but today I felt a little sexy so I let my hair down while I was still working..... I was sweeping in the lobby...
    iLikeNaps3 iLikeNaps3 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Walked in to my parent's room, everyone was home. dad was home with walking pneumonia and we had just flipped it from the three stooges to breaking news on our 20" box tv. I...
    Hunnylovie Hunnylovie 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    Oh boo hoo I was molested anal made to dress in little girls clothing all this people wringing about being abused should get over themselves i was 10 and I was forced to wear...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    My Husband was the last man I said I love you to besides my dad but that is not the same kind of love.I tell him every day That I love him when I go outside and look up at the sky...
    HazelWolf HazelWolf 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    i got seen by a girl once while i was only wearing briefs. Was a little embarrassing at first as she giggled and laughed a little but i just covered up and moved on with my day. No...
    FoxtrotFalcon FoxtrotFalcon 22-25, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    my beloved mommy is in coma for 2 months till now. she gets brain damage during nose job and it was just because of doctor's mistake. they said her brain didnt get enough oxygen. I...
    farenn farenn 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I guess it's been a long time since I've even updated my situation. I don't even remember where I was- around October was it? Well, I was in a foster home for a couple weeks then...
    QueenJayde16 QueenJayde16 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I grew up in a home with neglectful and/or abusive and absentee parents, and as a result I wasn't taught anything about life, and just general life skills that every person should...
    Undeadly Undeadly 41-45, F Feb 6

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    Every girl dreams of when she will get asked the "big" question. How will he ask?...will he get down on one knee or would he ever ask for my fathers acceptances. All those...
    blondebunny12 blondebunny12 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    In 6th grade, I became friends with someone I'll refer to as "D." He told me stories about his life that were SO insane, they must've been false. About his older brother raping his...
    GrewUPaScrewUP GrewUPaScrewUP 22-25, M Feb 9

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    I had this "manager" who should never have been manager. She was completely unprofessional. She lied about everything all the time. Skipped out on work for stupid reasons. And...
    cloaked1 cloaked1 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Quite recently my best friend of 11 years betrayed me and now I am finding it very hard to move on and forget about her. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and it was...
    bexx5 bexx5 22-25 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I had a terrible dream i will tell my experience. I was in a queue waiting to find where i was going to spend eternity, as i got to the desk the lady asked my name, address, and...
    stormy15 stormy15 66-70, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    the summer before my 8th grade year I meet this guy his name was Isaiah.. we talked for about 1month before getting together the frist about 6 months were wonderful and great the...
    SillyBird13 SillyBird13 18-21, F Feb 15

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    It was when I was 18 I was in the back seat with my friend and his mother it was in febuary so the roads were pretty slick with ice. I had head phones in and was half a sleep with...
    Nosliwekim Nosliwekim 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    As far I can remember was that I was in a field, and all around me was pure and seemed alive. First I remembered the water, like a river near me, as clear as crystal. I saw life in...
    raphaellive raphaellive 46-50, M Feb 15

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    I know this is a little off since i'm talking about this and posting it a phew days later but bare in mind i'm just trying to figure everything out from everything before and now...
    BushMaster243 BushMaster243 16-17, M Feb 15

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    On valentines day morning i was admitted into the hospital due to shortness of breath, lower abdomen pains, & fainting. I had no clue it would be as bad as it ended up. I thought...
    tayyd24 tayyd24 18-21, F Feb 16

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    I became clinical depressed when I was 15. I tried to kill myself for the first time when I was 16, after my emotionally abusive boyfriend dumped me. I am 20 years old now, I don't...
    terrywill15 terrywill15 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Yesterday was the most terrifying day and the best day of my life all in one. The most terrifying because I got into a bad car accident. The best because I was lucky enough to be...
    smksmk001 smksmk001 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    Well a Quaker actually. Which is loosely Christian. Then I, after encountering many other "religious" Christians from Catholics to Methodists to Pentecostals in my life, then went...
    paleryder paleryder 51-55, M Feb 21

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    For over six years me and my younger sister(by about 21 months) were under the care of local Lutheran Social Services. We lived in a children's home from the time I was 7-8 until I...
    EspanolBlite EspanolBlite 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    From the time I was a young girl around 10 until shortly after my 13th birthday I was molested almost every night by my mother's now ex boyfriend. He would come into my room after...
    pokemongirl94 pokemongirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Please, to those who come across my post, I'm in desperate need of advice. Approximately 3-4 months ago I found out my boyfriend of six years cheated on me. "Always trust your...
    Jninety3 Jninety3 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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