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I Was An Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 110 People

    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 21 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I think I want to try it out! I want to make that money!!!! 💰💰💰💰
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Last year, i found messages from my boyfriend of two years to a sexy ********, his activity on Facebook showed him checking out her and his exes profiles frequently, once even when...
    mangojordan mangojordan 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a brand new burlesque dancer in training! I have an amazing supportive troupe, and I can't wait to perform!
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming 22-25, F Mar 27

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    My absolute favorite hobby, my love, my dance pole. One of the few things I still have from my past and I will appreciate it forever.. It was a gift which I will always use. I love...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 15 Responses Apr 13

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    I used dance until my company closed and that was the saddest thing that happened to me
    InfiniteTearDrops InfiniteTearDrops 13-15, F Apr 17

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    well on January 14 2015 I decided to take my lil brother (who I was very close to at this time) to eat with me at a local restaurant and the plan was to have a couple margaritas...
    hurtingandbetrayed hurtingandbetrayed 31-35, F 48 mins ago

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    Fiction. I will continue as as blog if it has positive response. It was late evening when I returned home after spending a couple weeks visiting my Dad, stepmom and half sister...
    angiecan angiecan 51-55, T 1 Response 34 mins ago

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    I would go into the bathroom nearly every day during lunch and just wait for the bell to ring for class because I had no one to sit with. One day I was feeling optimistic and went...
    Kiora90 Kiora90 22-25, F 8 mins ago

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    One time I was very mean to my sister and made her cry so mom made me cry:(
    Brandonallen30 Brandonallen30 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm looking for a special someone. To create our family. We would be around the same age. We would support each other. Respect each other. Care for each other. Make love with...
    charlene0712 charlene0712 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've always been a socially awkward person, which I've grown into accepting as just one of my flaws. Yet it lingers in my mind a really disturbing moment in my childhood where I...
    Thatlost1 Thatlost1 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    When I was 4, my best friend was my neighbor. I went to her house almost everyday after school. One day when I was there, her mom went to the store, so her dad was in charge. He...
    sincerelysl sincerelysl 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    He had never left his ex, I had no idea. I loved him so much. We just fell apart I thought after I got pregnant. We lived together and he just stopped... everything. I thought it...
    Missed515 Missed515 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    It’s been over nine years since I was kidnapped and turned into a pet. After I opened up to my first wife on Halloween she told me it might help me to right down everything that...
    PrinceBloodlust PrinceBloodlust 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I'm sorry all my posts on Google plus got deleted . Never mind ...I'm not going to mention the names of any businesses anymore as it leads to to having all my writings deleted...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    From the book "Why men love *******“… I had read it a couple of years ago, I thought I had absorbed it, I was so wrong!! I only got the part that said that man...
    Gaialion Gaialion 36-40, F Mar 28

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    This was yesterday, but I just joined today, so ah well. Anyway, it's the day before spring break and I'm sitting next to one of my best gal pals in class. I was staring into space...
    Wesley3520 Wesley3520 16-17, M Mar 28

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    On May 26th last year I was robbed and kidnapped from my home in LA. I had finished school for the day and had arrived at my house in Brentwood. My mother is an Orthodontist and my...
    lewlew16 lewlew16 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I never had any luck with getting away with anything, throughout my life, especially not when I was younger. I should have known better, but a few of us decided that it would be a...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I was about 12 years old. A friend at school had invited me to her 13th birthday sleepover, I had no idea who else was supposed to be there but I was curious enough to attend. I...
    Boygirltime Boygirltime 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    hello everyone! I was adopted at 13 along with my younger brother at 11. We were lucky and got the most amazing adoptive family. They love us no matter what and would do anything...
    tellmeyourstory tellmeyourstory 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I met this French guy at a swimming pool at the time I didn't think he was that bad .. charming me on "your beautiful" so on and so on. I felt wanted and liked so I started...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I was teased a lot in my childhood and teenage years. Anyone who knows me knows that I have never been a feminine girl or woman. I got a lot of negative attention from my peers...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    ** Please don't read this if you're easily triggered; I don't want you to experience pain at my expense ** Unfortunately, all these things have happened to me, and I hate to think...
    Whobody Whobody 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I hope some people are reading this! Just knowing I can tell my story knowing people are reading will help. See I was sexually molested by my father as a child. His name is William...
    Judyb42 Judyb42 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 2

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    About 8 years ago my now exhusband's friends raped me one night. I had two jack and cokes (I am not a lightweight when it comes to alcohol). My ex ran up to the store and all of...
    Kristir926 Kristir926 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Babysitting slumber party part 4: read parts 1-3 for context. I had just aquired freedom from the babysitter's house but there were a few problems though, first of which was the...
    Boygirltime Boygirltime 18-21, M Apr 3

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