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I Was An Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 110 People

    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Love dancing! Really into hip hop and pole dancing. Not just because it's exotic but it's just awesome on my core !
    rubyroo15 rubyroo15 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    My kids make fun of it , they hate my culture and dont understand my exotic background they might find it embarrassing and humiliating but i swim in clouds about it i feel elated...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Mar 14

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    When I was 3, I started gymnastics and did competetive when I was 4. When I was 5 I started going to Circus school for contortion idk why. But I learned a lot of my tricks there...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M a week ago

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    Most exotic/luxurious/succulent/delicious food you ever ate and why? Describe....🍴
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 4

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    I love to dance and be silly when I'm in a good mood. I shut the door turn up the music and just let go. I'm not the best dancer but it feels Good and I'm in a better mood When I'm...
    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'm a brand new burlesque dancer in training! I have an amazing supportive troupe, and I can't wait to perform!
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Today, at work of all places, I was offered a drug by one of my coworkers. It was a powdery green substance he claimed to be from an exotic plant that produced "calming" effects...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F Mar 1

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    I used to be a dancer, mainly ballet. About a year ago though I injured my left ankle. For several months I couldn't dance. Dance used to take up most of my day so I never had much...
    fattenedballerina fattenedballerina 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I've been sexually abused by my father since I was a little girl, around 9. Whenever my mom travelled for work, which was often, he would come to me and touch me, kiss me, force me...
    Kris94 Kris94 18-21, T 17 hrs ago

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    It happened again last night. I was working an overnight shift caring for an elderly lady (which I am allowed to sleep at so long as I wake when she does). I was drifting in and...
    Natreerose Natreerose 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Babysitting slumberparty Part 3: read part 1 & 2 for context. The mother had left and went into another room, I was a few paces from the front door and decided to take my chances...
    Boygirltime Boygirltime 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    My husband and I got into an argument this morning. All I asked him to do was follow up on this one thing; he couldn't even do that. When I asked him about it, conscious of my...
    blutiger blutiger 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I wasn't at the age of 19, ready to be a mother. My son is important to me and the bond we share is growing by the day but this is a gift that could have waited to be unwrapped. I...
    justasia justasia 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    As a sub, I had to do as i was told. She enjoyed seeing me dressed as a girl. I wasn't sure at first but soon I began to feel good because i know she was pleased with me.
    Justwill39 Justwill39 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    i picked this guy off the streets, took him into my home,even lost my job over him. i loved him with all my heart and 2 weeks ago he was telling me how in love with me he was now...
    niellyn niellyn 22-25 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I only visit.. Some places.. When I can't Feel.. I tried.. Brave.. Armed with light.. But.. I was dying.. There were no air.. Only shame.. Painted.. Everywhere..
    Kardia Kardia 36-40 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    when I was in elementary school I was bullied all the time. My so called "friends" would ditch me and at times lock me in the bathroom...
    kryssybear kryssybear 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Ok. So I was Blocked. By someone I have never interacted with. Although she likes to comment. Rudely toward me. What ever. I have no desire to interact with her.
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    there were a few times I was spanked with my twin brother but since the melons at ToS deleted so many of the stories the Nanny State they become I am not taking chances just...
    Snowbird22 Snowbird22 46-50, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have been dating this girl for over a month now. we live over 3 hours apart, and so far have only seen each other in person one time. We were doing very well with the long...
    Bean2015 Bean2015 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I like to take the time tell you my story and what it was like to be me. I was born September 1st 1976 in Kelowna BC Canada. I was born with a mild case of Tourette syndrome, as a...
    Canadianwolfe Canadianwolfe 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I had first met George at a Christmas party in 2012. It was a movie like meeting, our eyes met each other's across a crowded room -that sort if thing. I fell foolishly in love with...
    Marinabutch Marinabutch 26-30, F Mar 1

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    when I was in middle school, I had started sleeping with no clothes on. At first I was nervous and stayed under the covers. But after a couple of weeks, I got more comfortable and...
    ouatgurl13 ouatgurl13 22-25, F Mar 1

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    When I was 8 my dad died, so my mom came to where my dad and I lived to take care of me, but what she really did was lock me away from everybody while she took all the money my dad...
    Bubblebran Bubblebran 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I have been working with two partners for several years on the development of a scientific product. We sometimes commiserate that our significant others do not understand how...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F Mar 3

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    I was adopted from birth. My adoptive mother was Japanese and my adoptive father was Caucasian. I don't look at all like my mother and growing up I did not look like my cousins and...
    RayneBeauHill RayneBeauHill 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    When I was around 15 years old I was abducted by aliens...I think. It's very difficult for me to differentiate between a super realistic and vivid dream or real life in this...
    eod13x eod13x 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    It was in 6th grade. my friend's birthday that time, and I wanted to come over her house since she threw a party. There was no way to get there but walk. So I did, it was a long...
    katherinneee katherinneee 18-21, F Mar 4

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