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I Was An Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 116 People

    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 17 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M Nov 24, 2014

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Born into a large family, being the second youngest. Of course I'm the quiet one. The rest of my family is so outgoing. When I was abandoned by my mom when I was 6, I knew I will...
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    When you look at me I so would like you to be captivated by my exotic beauty..My flamboyance outshining all the other flowers that are in existence. My scent alone holds you spell...
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    skylerfaye skylerfaye 18-21, F a week ago

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    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I've never had the guts to talk to anyone about this before but here goes. When I was about 5/6 I used to be looked after by my neighbour after school when my parents were at work...
    Barakate Barakate 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    not so much now but when i was younger i was a bit off a late developer and didnt start puberty till i was about about 14 but didnt start to get hair down there till i was about...
    BAZYC BAZYC 46-50, M Jul 7

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    I was in school in the first grade. My mom was 5 blocks down from the WTC. She left the office to get a donut from the stands in the street. Then she looked up and saw the hole in...
    Jene95 Jene95 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    A girl always stays quiet! It doesn't matter whether its her dirty uncle,cousin or someone. When i was a child, I faced a lot, I feel like crying like hell but cannot share them...
    dramaqueen25 dramaqueen25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and this was my 3rd time hitting him, all times were when I was drinking heavily. We both love each other, and love to...
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    Because I was small and white, I went to a Black & Hispanic school. I was physically bullied until I was in 7th Grade, when I was so tall that I made some of my former bullies pee...
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