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I Was An Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 122 People

    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    Yes, it is very true,

    when I was in college I was an exotic dancer and worked at a Gentleman's Club near my home town. I was born in Arizona. I loved nude dancing very much in front of men. I come from a nudist family and was not afraid or ashamed of taking my clothes off and showing my great...
    Maryanne1969 Maryanne1969 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    So do any of the ladies here still dance

    or that avenue finished now?
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 26-30, M Jun 22, 2014

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    I was an exotic dancer in London,

    i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies. Until the tutors found out and I got booted out. They said I had "failed" a module, but I hadn't and I had no way to prove it. If I...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19, 2015

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 21 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    It is hard to talk about, and I feel a bit stupid actually writing it down here. I was raped and molested for most part of my life.My earliest memories of it, was being...
    Christy243 Christy243 13-15, F 2 Responses 57 mins ago

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    Or that the rest of the world was introverted. All the eye contact, talking, hand shaking, hugging, "customer service ", spontaneous plans, etc. i It's so rude and exhausting.
    wsxnko9 wsxnko9 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I am a nudist in western Washington and would love to meet others in the Pacific Northwest who share my interest.
    lovingexhibisionism69 lovingexhibisionism69 46-50, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Someone who I thought was a friend all of a sudden deleted me as a FB friend. Silly thing is she still messages me and I guess expects to be my friend. Weird. I don't share too...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    What I was thinking, rather pondering is why do women and men truly love each other? Obviously I don't have real answers but opinions only. Why does a man truly love a woman? Is it...
    047Ronin 047Ronin 51-55, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I was high af everysingleday
    TheAvenue TheAvenue 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    I was born on April 20th,anyone?
    sievert sievert 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Yes, I'm a "********". Surprise! I love my job and I love what I do. And I don't care what anyone has to say negatively about me.
    Piercedprincess17 Piercedprincess17 18-21, F 20 Responses 5 days ago

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    One night I was at the club and I received a message from my assistant . She told me she needed so time off from work. So i asked one of the girls at the club to fill in for her .I...
    dominator69 dominator69 46-50, M Feb 2

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    So a couple of days ago i was in my gymnastic class. The class is not part of the school but that's one of my extra curricular activities. OK so here is what happened that day. At...
    Dweetcandy Dweetcandy 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Most of my few friends embraced their teenage life. But for me it was one of the most darkest phase of my life. I was 12-13 when I entered secondary school. I wasn't quite sure...
    taeayumu taeayumu 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I cooked this: shrimp and okra tempura with wasabi/soy sauce. :)
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F Jan 23

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    Almost 2 years ago.. I was raped in my flat, by my fiances best friend and a good friend of mine, while my fiance was asleep in the next room. I was drunk ( we all had a few...
    BlackMarauder BlackMarauder 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    It was a day I will never forget, I was 16 years old & my parents went out, I didn't think they would be home for at least 4 hours. I went upstairs & got changed, black bra...
    Joanneforever Joanneforever 56-60, T 1 Response Jan 22

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    I just tried dried crickets with garlic flavor. See picture . I think that beats exotic . Pretty good with beer !
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 22

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    Obese Academy (Chapter 4) I took a moment to look around at the classroom. It was an odd shape. Rather than having four walls, It had six, and was in the shape of a hexagon. The...
    FatnPlump FatnPlump 16-17, F Jan 22

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    Thers a shop that sells the donuts I like. Its quite a drive to get there. I go at least twice a month. Their donuts are big, and greasy and sugar gets everywhere. I was brought...
    AgentSeven AgentSeven 46-50, M Jan 21

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    Mum and I always had a interesting relationship. I feel like she was disappointed in me as I was not like her. Our personalities were different. We had different opinions on...
    ProfMeowS ProfMeowS 31-35, F Jan 21

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    So when I was 13 my mom won a holiday for 2 skiing holiday in France. One problem, there was three of us, My mom, my sister and me. I drew the short straw and was sent to my granny...
    MightyDucksGo MightyDucksGo 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I had been out many times in partial dress but never in the whole nine yards. I had decided that over the labor day weekend i was going to take my time dressing and was going to...
    joanne969 joanne969 61-65, T Jan 21

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    Obese Academy (Chapter 3) My alarm clock chirped at 7:00 am, jolting me from my sleep. I opened my heavy eyes and rubbed them as I sat up, looking around the still unfamiliar...
    FatnPlump FatnPlump 16-17, F Jan 20

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    Over the summer I had a girl’s lunch with my Mom and two sisters. We had lunch at this small restaurant right next to a pet store and I really wanted to go in and see the ferrets...
    GigglyPeach GigglyPeach 18-21, F Jan 19

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    I didn’t enjoy being a waiter. I wasn’t a great at it. I couldn’t do the whole carrying multiple plates so well. I would have been about 18 or so and was working in a local...
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    To Spank Or Not To Spank In School. Do you think that behavior was better and standards were higher back in the days when the paddle was a part of school? (or in other countries...
    julietx julietx 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    I already posted what happened. I'm just glad to say that I finally told my boyfriend what happened. We were getting sexual anyway and after I was comfortable with seeing things...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Well I don't know if I was and I hope I wasn't but I had some wierd things happen. When I was 18 or 19, I was camping under the stars with my boyfriend in Sedona Arizona out in...
    annabelle334 annabelle334 31-35 2 Responses Jan 18