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I Was An Exotic Dancer

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I have been dancing since I was 3 and I am still dancing and I am very very good I am an advanced dancer!! Love y'all!! <3
    kaygirly13 kaygirly13 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I love dancing! It is my passion along with writing. I dance lyrical hip-hop and even though I have not been in a dance class since forever, I am proud to say that I am good at it...
    aoikdrama aoikdrama 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I have been dancing since I was three years old. It's been a huge part I my life and wish it always will be. I tapped for two years when I was 8-9 and loved it. Unfortunately I had...
    allie67rs allie67rs 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I started dancing at the age of 6. My mom tried to get me to as good as every sport that exists on this planet. But I am absolutely NOT sportive.. I'm a reader, dreamer and a huge...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 16-17 3 days ago

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    We had a pool at my house growing up. One early summer day my parents let me (17) home for the day with my two sisters (14,11) and we were given a list of chores to do. I was...
    JulieW82 JulieW82 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I was raised from infancy by my Hungarian grandmother in Argentina. She said very little about my parents aside from to tell me that I was not kidnapped because her son is my...
    ArgentineJailbird ArgentineJailbird 36-40, M 5 hrs ago

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    I was eight years old, I had just come home from school. My mom and her boyfriend were in the living room, my mom was so happy. When I entered the living room she jumped up and...
    sarah95w sarah95w 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Last night I was being an extreme brat. I don't know what got ahold of me. I guess it was just a need to see him take control. I ended up in the corner at one point, then I ended...
    SpankedGrace SpankedGrace 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I have been in 2 car accidents; one was when I came to Tennessee to visit my husbands (bf at the time) family. We were on our way to Captain D's after a church service and it was...
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    When I was 14 I was almost raped. The only reason why it didnt happen is because my other guy friend stopped him. I know that he didnt actually do it but its the intention that was...
    meganneb meganneb 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    On Thursday I was on the bus... I should have gotten off the bus after a minute of getting on but didn't and stayed on. By the time i got off I seriously needed to wee. I went to...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    I was mistaken for a girl was in a clothing store and decided to try on some different clothes. before you go in they check to see how many item you have, when she was done she...
    olsentrisha olsentrisha 41-45, T 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I was at home,alone,and was about leave to get a coke bottle from a nearby convenient store.While I was heading back home,I head a moaning sound from a girl,I went towards the...
    readerrede readerrede 13-15, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Wait, I'm fourteen, but what you need to know is that I wish I was younger as in nine or ten, because back then I was stable. Now I'm not stable. My mind is not stable. I wish I...
    ChocolateCoveredKFC ChocolateCoveredKFC 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    When I was a little boy my mother took all her problems out on me. She blamed me for her "stress" and when other things were going bad she'd find something to get mad at me about...
    CharlesFosterKane CharlesFosterKane 22-25, M 2 Responses 55 mins ago

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    I come from a Catholic family. I was schooled in Catholic schools. Also, I am a graduate from Notre Dame. As a traditional Catholic, my family and I do not believe in birth...
    olderpregnantmom olderpregnantmom 41-45, F 16 hrs ago

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    I went for a walk with a new friend, and she started talking about a guy who had started talking to her, and asked me if she should give him a shot, and go on a date with him. I...
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I wasted my time on many people. 5 persons. They were fake friends who betrayed me.
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I was born in the 90's when really i should have been born 1967 so i would have been 13 when the 80's so my teens yrs would have been the 80's then i would have been early 20's for...
    Keanu1991 Keanu1991 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    So I thought it would be a good idea to foster kittens because they aren't supposed to have much dander. Well I was wrong.
    Sniffly Sniffly 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    The next time someone wants to waste 3 hours of my time, please read my profile and my stories. My life is not a secret. U didn't have to block me cuz ur not worth me chasing.
    moonlightdancer1967 moonlightdancer1967 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    I was happy in my punky lace up jeans and bleached smily faced crop time and my long wild curly brown hair. But people were looking at me as laughing at me and as this guy walked...
    procrastinationandduvets procrastinationandduvets 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    It all started when I was 13. I had no other way to school as I lived half an hour away to the closest high school so I caught a private bus to and from school every day with other...
    unknown331 unknown331 16-17 1 Response Mar 24

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    I admit it - I like to cross-dress. Sometimes, I would put something on, and just for a bit of a rush, take a quick walk around the outside of the house (either from the front door...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response Mar 28

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    I wrote this a while ago, it seems such a long time. I was reading it again, and I'm so much happier now. I am where I'm supposed to be. I thought I was in Love. To forgive and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29

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    Last year me and my friend AJ said we said that I live with his mom, dad and older sister and he lives with my mom, dad, and younger sister. We did this so we could see what it is...
    Sarahismygirlname Sarahismygirlname 13-15, T Mar 31

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    My A (adoptive) parents knew about me through a lawyer before I was born. Then they drove from Miami to Boynton Beach FL. to pick me up when I was only 8 hours old. My brother was...
    BAM33156 BAM33156 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 12 Responses Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 10 Responses Apr 4

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    WORST TIME OF MY ENTIRE LIFE! I previously wrote a different story about a kidnapping mix up, but this time,it was for me. So I was walking my dog, he is a tiny pug. And...
    Gibson128 Gibson128 13-15 Apr 5

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    It was a horrible and terrifying one. It involved my best friend in it.. I only remember some parts, where we were like a colonized country/city. I just know for certain that we...
    ErinAnsiell ErinAnsiell 18-21, F Apr 11

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    My one spanking from grandma. My maternal grandfather was a Baptist preacher, and my grandma was a teacher. They raised my mom strictly with spankings through her teens, and were...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I hated school. I was tired and fed up and it was just so tedious. One day I just snapped. PE Teacher had a go at me for something really minor, I don't think I was listening or...
    WhiskeyRoger369 WhiskeyRoger369 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Meant for someone else, but not for me. Love was out to get me. That's the way it seemed. Disappointment haunted all my dreams... Then I saw his face. And now I'm a believer...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    when i was little i have no friends okay maybe until now. my classmate she was tall like hell when i see her she reminds me of yao ming except shes a bully and one day she pushed...
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I can't stand when people talk about Jesus as a weakling or just a good teacher. The guy was a carpenter, he could probably thrash you if He wanted to. He was zealous for His...
    MostArdently MostArdently 31-35, M Mar 19

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    Unworthy- I've never made being in a relationship a priority. I spend most of my time alone. even as a kid, I had no problem being by myself. I suppose it's because I was forced...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I got caught wearing my Mum's panties when I was 14, I was wearing a pair of her silky purple briefs. I used to wear them so much and then put them back. I was walking around the...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 4 Responses Mar 19