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I Was An Exotic Dancer

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    Deja Vu Showgirls ,hawaii

    I was a Exotic Dancer at the world famous Deja Vu, Hawaii, I loved it I started dancing when I was 30 yes,30 and I'm glad I waited. getting in the business when you're not mature enough  mentaltily.      can end up a Jaded women...
    PriestessTheresa PriestessTheresa 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    By Choice

    I danced for 3 years and it was the first time I did one job consistently (at the time).  I loved the freedom to work on the days I wanted to or not work at all.  And I wasn't the girl who was paying her way through college or suffering some sort of hardship.  I...
    QueenD QueenD 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    Got me through college!

    No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 13 Responses Aug 14

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    Not That Exoctic

    Yep I danced. But it wasn't that exoctic. I wasn't a ********.. Just a topless dancer. That was an unusal time in my life and with two kids small at home it was a good way to earn enough to support us all. My hubs at the time didn't work, at least not all the time. It took me a...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Seriously Considering It....

    I've been seriously considering exotic dancing for about a year now, mainly because I want to get a leg up on my finances and be able to go to college. I'm stuck in a financial rut right now and I feel that I just simply can't make enough money to live on my own and attend school...
    KelsoBee3 KelsoBee3 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    How I Got Into It

    I remember the exact moment I decided to become an exotic dancer. I was living in Sydney at the time, having just moved there from the Atherton Tablelands two weeks previously. I was one week into being twenty years old and living in a hostel in the middle of the city. The...
    JessicaLane JessicaLane 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Memorable Customer

    I met him about a year into my time at 'my bar' of 10 years.  I knew him for 7 of those years; danced for him during the 'no touching' days which were out in the open, no booths for privacy, on into the lap dancing phase (he wasn't into the grinding and preferred I just did...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I Am What I Am

    I have said I  was before a christian which I am with all me heart. I am still a sinner though. I still dance from time to time and I also manage the company. I cant stand when people tell me my job was a sin. Minuiam wages suck ok. You cant survice off of thoses jobs. Not...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Truly Revealing

    I was an exotic dancer for 11 years.  I had answered an ad in the paper when looking for work.  I was 28 years old.  I thought I'd just go in and check it out.  I learned so much about myself, about others, about competition, about beauty and it's shallowness...
    thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Exotic Dancer

    I never was an exotic dance and you know what?  I'm planning applying this weekend for a position.  Yeah, right!   No way!  Joke!  :D
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 1, 2011

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    My parents were for years.

    Neither had more than a nasic secondary education yet wanted the "good life".They started as teenagers before my older brother was born and still did it occasionally along with Escorting until their deaths when she was 37 and he 35. They danced in Washington DC,Montreal,and...
    BlackMoroccan BlackMoroccan 22-25, M Jun 22

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    My Career In the Adult Entertainment Industry

    i was a dancer for almost 9 years and i pretty much loved every minute of it in the beginning. i loved being my own boss, working my own hours and always being available for my son's school trips.  i never missed a class trip, a school play and was always able to stay home...
    MarleyChloesMum MarleyChloesMum 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Introduction To A Different World

    Preface: Please keep in mind that this occurred in Australia...where things may be a little different than what you may imagine. At the tender age of 17, my "career" as an exotic dancer, came about purely by happenstance...and it lasted for a glorious 12 years; some of the best...
    Visionquest Visionquest 46-50, F Jan 4, 2012

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    RayaneCharmee RayaneCharmee 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Ever since I was 11, I've wanted to be a ********, idk whyy.. But I have, I'm a straight A student. I have a scholarship from volleyball. But yet I still wanna do it. All...
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    atypicalmc atypicalmc 36-40, M Sep 24

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    I was at my friends house yesterday with some others guys. His ill sister did some pole dancing for us. Wow is she good.
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    I was dating this guy who had a really bad temper. Sometimes he was fine, others times, he was in a bad mood. The first time, he went off on me in a public, after a minor...
    caramelcuteness caramelcuteness 26-30, F Sep 22

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    I met my ex 3 years ago and all he kept talking about was breaking up with his sons mom of 13 yrs. seeing that he told me that they were through, and that she was looking for a...
    medinagrl medinagrl 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I was invited up to alaska to visit my oldest brothers wife to help her cope while he was in Afghanistan, many of our family had been to stay with her and I was asked this time...
    feelmyfury21 feelmyfury21 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    As a child I was sexually abused by my father it went on for year I was eight when it first happened nine when I ended it first I really didn't know what was going on he would call...
    Somechick47 Somechick47 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I was bullied all throughout middle school, and into part of high school. I don't think that anyone has the right to put others down like that. Bullying can be psychologically...
    ImaginaryAlchemist ImaginaryAlchemist 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    My mom used to punish me all of the time by stripping me naked in public. One time we went to my sisters school to picker her up. I was about seven and she was in junior high. We...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23

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    When I was about 9-10, there was a girl in my class, we used to play sometimes after school. She didn't live too far from me. She was a year older than me. She was a really big...
    Mia97 Mia97 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Growing up I feel like I had it all. My parents had money, we had a beautiful house to grow up in, a big backyard with a pool, swingset, and a trampoline. The community I grew up...
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    My mother likes alcohol, she always has. And when she drinks too much, she blacks out and gets really touchy. One night when I was 7 she got drunk while my father was away for work...
    CNT283 CNT283 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 24

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    I was on the way to school. West Valley College in Saratoga, CA. There was a memorial there for Nicole Miller who was on one of the planes. She was good friends with my girlfriend...
    fiendforlife fiendforlife 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    I lay in my bed this morning thinking about it all. Every last little detail of what happened. Then I realized I was thinking about it.. and I started to think about why I was...
    bubblefishkiss bubblefishkiss 26-30, F Sep 25

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    Adamtheone Adamtheone 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Because it would take way more effort than I intend, I won't explain my previous experiences and events that had occurred. What I'm about to tell you is a true story, and I want...
    ADifferentDude ADifferentDude 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    End of last year I was in a car accident. It could've been worse and people keep telling me I should be grateful it wasn't worse. And I am. But it doesn't mean it doesn't still...
    Elysion Elysion 22-25, F Sep 25

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    One of the things my mother used to do in order to assert control over me was to abandon me. She did it regularly. She didn't start until I was old enough to be able to take the...
    itsu526 itsu526 46-50, F Sep 27

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    I hate it, but I've gotten used to it. In college, my friends started gossiping about me because I had a different schedule from them. I had no choice but to meet and hangout...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F Sep 27

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    I got the idea when I saw a couple of photos of women wearing gags in public. So I decided to take a walk and wear a ball gag at the same time. Of course I was worried about people...
    MillaMagia MillaMagia 36-40, T Sep 27

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    First month of last summer was terrible. I was depressed. I was depressed because I was deeply in love with a guy who didn't care about me. I was depressed because that guy didn't...
    HandaGabriella HandaGabriella 13-15, F Sep 27

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    3 years I never complained about him to anybody , not even my closest friend not even in the worst situations when my heart gets shattered , but now I know it's over and finally...
    fahad133 fahad133 22-25, M Sep 27

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    I had been naked in public a few times before this and despite a few close shaves had never been caught or reported. This time I was walking home from school with my friends when...
    Bartimaues Bartimaues 22-25, M Sep 27

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    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    Well it's been years since it happen but let's say I will never forget. I hold a grudge against this girl and always will. It was in elementary I was friends with the boy she liked...
    mydarkworld13 mydarkworld13 18-21, F Sep 29

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    One day I was playing outside on the swings before supper, and Mom was inside. I was swinging sideways while my sister Rachel was swinging beside me. She got annoyed and told me to...
    spankedbarebutt spankedbarebutt 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I've been spanked for a load of things. I've been spanked since I was a young girl. When I was 13, my mum was out in the evening so I decided to sort of let loose around the house...
    LilJade99 LilJade99 13-15, F 13 Responses Sep 29

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    I was cheated on by my ex, I had this 30 year old women messaging me telling me that she was going to come to my house and kill me, and that she was going to set my house on fire...
    Carliew Carliew 18-21, F Sep 29

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    I feel I must give you a little back story. My sister is about 4 years younger than me and has always had a bit of a competitive side. I guess I was never paying much attention to...
    Trinitey779 Trinitey779 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    thecellardoor thecellardoor 31-35, F Sep 29

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