I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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    My best friend of 10 years was getting married.

    I was looking forward to her wedding. Guess what? I got no invitation. ouch. I never talked to her again.
    Ang012685 Ang012685
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    I used to be best friends with a girl all the

    way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all her family problems, her rocky relationship, I was even the only friend for hers to show up at her birthday party one year. We were inseparable...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk
    22-25, F
    Mar 21, 2014

    During the middle of fifth grade,

    my 'best friend' tried to humiliate me in front of class. I was patrolling while the teacher was out, so I was up at front. I didn't notice that the class was silent since I was reading, so suddenly, she brought me in the front of class for everyone to see she said, "hey, I...
    HermioneRiddle HermioneRiddle
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    She Was A Friend Of Mine (or So I Thought At The Time....)

     (Apologies to Emma Bunton) This person started off by being appointed as my support worker (I have AS) at the beginning of my second year at uni.  Compared to my previous support worker, she was keen to spend time with me socially as well as supporting me. We did...
    AnarchyRules AnarchyRules
    36-40, M
    Dec 19, 2009

    I caught my ex girlfriend of three years a year

    ago with my ex best friend I caught them a year ago. This was going on for two years. When I caught them I snapped on my best friend I wash my hands clean of her.
    Raina79 Raina79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    I Mistook O Her As My Best Friend

    we were best frens since grade 4. we studied, played and grew up together. we used to share most of the things, each and every secret and we take care of each other a lot. so the story begins when we decided to move together in an apartment. i used to do most of the house chores...
    anukc anukc
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

    Middle School

    When I was in 6th grade, my best friend since childhood betrayed me. I had done absolutely nothing to her, but somehow she got it into her head that I had done something horrible to her, and she did her utmost to ruin my life. She spread horrible lies about me, saying that I...
    AsperGirl AsperGirl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2013

    If It Happens Once, Shame On You; If It Happens Twice, Shame On Me...

    I can't believe how angry I still am about being betrayed by my very best friend. At times I feel like I'm finally over it, and then something will come up to remind me of the whole situation again and the anger, bitterness and hurt returns and I so very hate it.. She was my...
    BreakTheSpell BreakTheSpell
    18-21
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    I loved her and I still do,

    but she kissed the man I love and tried to convince him to leave me for her. I never trusted anyone like I trusted her, and yet after everything and years later... I miss her.
    wolftoken wolftoken
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2015

    when I was 16 there was this boy named Jake I

    used to really like, love even. we did evetthing together but a girl named Mynn moved to a nearby county and ended up going to our school and he started to talk to her more and more and didn't talk to me for like 2 weeks but then we decided to make a plan to try to bag some...
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2015

    I have been betrayed by my first

    and only friend at university,she was pretenfing to be my friend for a long time and then she did something horrible to me.
    Tessa3 Tessa3
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I guess I should have seen it coming.

    She was so carefree and I thought she was just too cool... she let me follow her around like it was my honor and I had the gull to call her my best friend. She was always a little mean but I can honestly say I was shocked when she leaked my big secret. I confided in her. I told...
    brokenprincess25 brokenprincess25
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

    My dads an alcoholic

    and my best friend knows that has always been emotionally hard on me she started tweeting about how I'm going to end up just like my dad and its embarrassing I don't have a prom date and that I'm a nobody and all I do is drink and smoke and it really hurt my feelings. She's...
    alyak0202 alyak0202
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    I've ranted about it

    so much that I don't have the care to write a long spiel about it, but basically, she dated the guy I was in love with while I was gone (he was also my best friend, my closest one) so yeah, my two (ex)best friends (one of whom I was madly into and had an on and off relationship...
    aspiringmagicalgirl aspiringmagicalgirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 10, 2015

    I had a best friend since middle school.

    We were really closed back then and still close in high school. For a short time we were cool in college. Until she got into relationships and new friends. I became the "back burner" friend. She would diss hanging with me to hang with her bf. After a while, I moved. And when I...
    moniroars moniroars
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2015

    I honestly thought I'd never see the day

    when I lost trust in my best friend. She's the closest person to me, I've never had anyone I cared about and trusted that much. And then I feel like things changed. I was dating a guy and it wasn't working out and I found out they hung out without me. He made her his confidante...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

    I was in the middle of a separation with my

    ex-husband. My MARRIED BFF started spending a lot of time with him, talking to him, etc. I asked her if she was sleeping with him and she lashed out at me for even suggesting it. How dare I not trust her. I believed her. Flash forward 3 years, I find out that she indeed was...
    bfulnightmare bfulnightmare
    41-45, F
    Jan 13, 2015

    Can't Get Over

    it's been three years.. but i  can still feel the pain of being betrayed by a bestfriend.. the BEST of all friends that you have shared all of your dreams, stories, secrets..   until now, i'm still afraid to be betrayed by a bestfriend.. that's why i'm not...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2010

    I have experienced betrayal in a very

    heartbreaking way. I was in a relationship, a great one. I loved him and he loved me. I had 2 best friends. But they werent true friends, and i realize that now. But, one day my boyfriend broke up with me because of something one of my best friends told him. Then i found out he...
    autumnisapanda autumnisapanda
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2015

    We were best friends

    for two years. We worked together and hung out everyday. We got in a fight because I told her I didn't approve of what she was doing. She would shoot up heroin all over her arms and I started to get really worried when i realized she was a full blown addict. one day we were...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2014
    polylove0210 polylove0210
    18-21, F
    Jan 31

    My best friend of over ten years slept with

    someone I had been dating and cared very much for and kept it from me for three months. When I finally found out and confronted her, she said "I apologize. I am sorry you feel the way you feel." via text. a couple days passed and I am still upset and texted her again how...
    Wundervoll Wundervoll
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2015

    We were in the same group of friends

    and me and her and her sisters were all close. After her sister got married me n her began to spend a lot of time together. I didn't put all my trust in her at first but we gradually became closer. During this time, pretty much all of our other friends grew distant from her, or...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    I've known my ex- BFF

    for a while know and she betrayed me I blame myself but hey things happen I met this guy I liked and I told my friend to text him as a prank so blah blah blah after that she cont. to text him and he told me and I asked him what did she tell you and he never responded and I haven...
    Dom024 Dom024
    22-25, F
    Jun 24, 2014

    I met her when I was 4,

    and we were best friends until I was 12... Around then, she started acting strange and distancing herself just when I needed her the most... I didn't do anything to cause that change. I'm over it now, but every time I see her I wonder what could have been.
    scarletneko scarletneko
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2014

    she wasn't my best friend to begin with ,

    a true friend would never try to hurt you solely because of a boy . I didn't even talk to her crush he tried to talk to me but I ignored him for her sake but despite that she treated me like crap afterword anyways I'm done looking for friends
    Fralicious Fralicious
    16-17, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    A person whom I consider like a sister

    for 15 years betrayed me. She sent a mass text about my infidelity to her entire family who I am also close with. The infidelity occurred years ago, And something my husband and I had healed from. She told her family to break all ties with me only , and not my husband. I am...
    Nah1982 Nah1982
    31-35
    Mar 16, 2014

    we used to chill every day.

    we met so many people together. we have so many memory's. we got a long so well. i loved her no matter what, she was like a sister to me. i care about her more than i care about myself. i don't think she realizes that tho. I would be no where if i never met her. 5 months ago...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    i was starting to get in a relationship a

    while ago, and as time went on, my friend started blocking me out and pushing me to the ground.
    randomart4lives randomart4lives
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 8, 2015

    You know when you're in a relationship

    and tell your bestie your issues? Just rant. Well my best friend of 7 years, decided to tell my boyfriend at the time EVERY negative detail I ranted about. And to make the situation worse, she told him a sexual thing I did with my last boyfriend. Why?? Idk. I never talked to her...
    moniroars moniroars
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 10, 2015

    Rumor Mill

    A former friend convinced my best friend and another mutual friend of ours that I'm mentally ill. On top of that, it seems that she went around telling others that we knew in college I'm insane because half the people I knew back then wont even talk to me now! For a long time I...
    LeaB88 LeaB88
    26-30
    Jun 11, 2013

    The stupid *** ***** locked me out of her house.

    ..where I was visiting out of state. Then when i went away and stayed out all night she calls the police to report me missing. If I were a bad person Id have knocked her teeth down her throat
    Myeyestellu Myeyestellu
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 1

    Betrayed After 20 Years

    My best friend of 20 plus years was always filled with advice for me but always seemed annoyed if offered to her. Many times through the years having her as my best friend seemed hard work and edgy but never in a million years would I have expected what happened next. I was...
    BadChoiceQueen BadChoiceQueen
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

    We were really close--BFFs,

    if there was such a thing before 1995. Of course, the last 'F' doesn't literally mean "forever". People assumed that we'd wind up together. That's right, I'm talking about a girl. We probably would have made a cute couple in a still photograph and we were always together. And...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

    She Did It For Him

      When I was being stalked by my ex, the very same ex who tried to kill me, I couldn't figure out why he always knew where I was going and with whom. One day the police came to my door to ask me if I knew anyone named Kerri B*****. I said "of course, she's my best...
    bluehaiku bluehaiku
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    This happened today, about a week ago me

    and 2 of my closest friends all made a joint instgram account and the girls posted some stuff I liked so I bought 1 or 2 of them when they saw I think they got mad because I copied them, anyway, when I checked the joint account today we had on the bio "3 best friends" they had...
    Upsetgirl2003 Upsetgirl2003
    13-15, F
    Mar 15, 2015

    I really hoped that it wasn't true.

    I have had many people break my trust in the past, so for this to be true has really broke me. When I came to college I was expecting to meet my life long best friend. I want to make great friendships and have awesome memories. Well I found her! We had a lot in common and I...
    sweetmango22 sweetmango22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    Worst thing that could ever happen is not

    betrayal by our love ....I think betrayal by your best friends are more painful...It makes u to lose hope on everybody. The one who was with you for years, shared not only your stuffs but also your miseries and problems is no more loyal to u...it hurts....It hurts to the core...
    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    We were best friends

    and I very believed her. One day, I told some secrets about me. I thought she would not tell others. However, she told a lot of people next day. Secrets! Why I believed her before? I just can know how real are her.
    KristenLau KristenLau
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    Love and Friend

    how i was betrayed?.........well i told my best friend that i might break up with my boyfriend and she freaked and called him so he got online and asked what the deal was and i new my friend told i was angry and she kept on demanding not to break up. than i was trying to explain...
    annaluv10 annaluv10
    18-21
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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