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I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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    Can't Get Over

    it's been three years.. but i  can still feel the pain of being betrayed by a bestfriend.. the BEST of all friends that you have shared all of your dreams, stories, secrets..   until now, i'm still afraid to be betrayed by a bestfriend.. that's why i'm not...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    We were really close--BFFs,

    if there was such a thing before 1995. Of course, the last 'F' doesn't literally mean "forever". People assumed that we'd wind up together. That's right, I'm talking about a girl. We probably would have made a cute couple in a still photograph and we were always together. And...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid 41-45, M Dec 19, 2013

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    Love and Friend

    how i was betrayed?.........well i told my best friend that i might break up with my boyfriend and she freaked and called him so he got online and asked what the deal was and i new my friend told i was angry and she kept on demanding not to break up. than i was trying to explain...
    annaluv10 annaluv10 18-21 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    We were best friends

    for two years. We worked together and hung out everyday. We got in a fight because I told her I didn't approve of what she was doing. She would shoot up heroin all over her arms and I started to get really worried when i realized she was a full blown addict. one day we were...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    She Betrayed Me....

    So I Just Found Out That My BEST FRIEND/FAMILY Is Going Out With The Girl That Jumped Me .... Which Is ****** Up Because A Couple Of Days Before You Was Saying How Much She Hated Her .... You Suppose To Be My Best Friend And The FACT That You Can Do This Too Me && Then Try Too...
    kaylahhh kaylahhh 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the

    way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all her family problems, her rocky relationship, I was even the only friend for hers to show up at her birthday party one year. We were inseparable...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    We were in the same group of friends

    and me and her and her sisters were all close. After her sister got married me n her began to spend a lot of time together. I didn't put all my trust in her at first but we gradually became closer. During this time, pretty much all of our other friends grew distant from her, or...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I Mistook O Her As My Best Friend

    we were best frens since grade 4. we studied, played and grew up together. we used to share most of the things, each and every secret and we take care of each other a lot. so the story begins when we decided to move together in an apartment. i used to do most of the house chores...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    She Was A Friend Of Mine (or So I Thought At The Time....)

     (Apologies to Emma Bunton) This person started off by being appointed as my support worker (I have AS) at the beginning of my second year at uni.  Compared to my previous support worker, she was keen to spend time with me socially as well as supporting me. We did...
    AnarchyRules AnarchyRules 31-35, M Dec 19, 2009

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    I honestly thought I'd never see the day

    when I lost trust in my best friend. She's the closest person to me, I've never had anyone I cared about and trusted that much. And then I feel like things changed. I was dating a guy and it wasn't working out and I found out they hung out without me. He made her his confidante...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    My dads an alcoholic

    and my best friend knows that has always been emotionally hard on me she started tweeting about how I'm going to end up just like my dad and its embarrassing I don't have a prom date and that I'm a nobody and all I do is drink and smoke and it really hurt my feelings. She's...
    alyak0202 alyak0202 18-21, F Feb 22

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    She Did It For Him

      When I was being stalked by my ex, the very same ex who tried to kill me, I couldn't figure out why he always knew where I was going and with whom. One day the police came to my door to ask me if I knew anyone named Kerri B*****. I said "of course, she's my best...
    bluehaiku bluehaiku 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Betrayed After 20 Years

    My best friend of 20 plus years was always filled with advice for me but always seemed annoyed if offered to her. Many times through the years having her as my best friend seemed hard work and edgy but never in a million years would I have expected what happened next. I was...
    BadChoiceQueen BadChoiceQueen 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    If It Happens Once, Shame On You; If It Happens Twice, Shame On Me...

    I can't believe how angry I still am about being betrayed by my very best friend. At times I feel like I'm finally over it, and then something will come up to remind me of the whole situation again and the anger, bitterness and hurt returns and I so very hate it.. She was my...
    BreakTheSpell BreakTheSpell 18-21 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    A person whom I consider like a sister

    for 15 years betrayed me. She sent a mass text about my infidelity to her entire family who I am also close with. The infidelity occurred years ago, And something my husband and I had healed from. She told her family to break all ties with me only , and not my husband. I am...
    Nah1982 Nah1982 31-35 Mar 16

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    Rumor Mill

    A former friend convinced my best friend and another mutual friend of ours that I'm mentally ill. On top of that, it seems that she went around telling others that we knew in college I'm insane because half the people I knew back then wont even talk to me now! For a long time I...
    LeaB88 LeaB88 26-30 Jun 11, 2013

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    Best Friend Tries...But Fails

    My best friend tried stealing my girlfriend. That right there isn't right, against bro code. He keep it all behind my back, and made my girlfriend not telling me. How he got her to keep it a secret? Went a little like this..."I have liked you a long time. I would die for you. Do...
    FlashSpark FlashSpark 18-21, M Apr 20, 2013

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    I guess I should have seen it coming.

    She was so carefree and I thought she was just too cool... she let me follow her around like it was my honor and I had the gull to call her my best friend. She was always a little mean but I can honestly say I was shocked when she leaked my big secret. I confided in her. I told...
    brokenprincess25 brokenprincess25 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I met her when I was 4,

    and we were best friends until I was 12... Around then, she started acting strange and distancing herself just when I needed her the most... I didn't do anything to cause that change. I'm over it now, but every time I see her I wonder what could have been.
    scarletneko scarletneko 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Middle School

    When I was in 6th grade, my best friend since childhood betrayed me. I had done absolutely nothing to her, but somehow she got it into her head that I had done something horrible to her, and she did her utmost to ruin my life. She spread horrible lies about me, saying that I...
    AsperGirl AsperGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    I've known my ex- BFF

    for a while know and she betrayed me I blame myself but hey things happen I met this guy I liked and I told my friend to text him as a prank so blah blah blah after that she cont. to text him and he told me and I asked him what did she tell you and he never responded and I haven...
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F Jun 24

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    Worst thing that could ever happen is not

    betrayal by our love ....I think betrayal by your best friends are more painful...It makes u to lose hope on everybody. The one who was with you for years, shared not only your stuffs but also your miseries and problems is no more loyal to u...it hurts....It hurts to the core...
    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 23

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    I have been betrayed by my first

    and only friend at university,she was pretenfing to be my friend for a long time and then she did something horrible to me.
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    we used to chill every day.

    we met so many people together. we have so many memory's. we got a long so well. i loved her no matter what, she was like a sister to me. i care about her more than i care about myself. i don't think she realizes that tho. I would be no where if i never met her. 5 months ago...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    After 2 years I still miss my ex. We used to talk every minute of every day and I was able to tell him everything that was on my mind. He was my best friend and lover. I'd do...
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    I have a small group of friends, and my one friend was my best friend. last year she came to public school for the first time. i feel like she only used to me become friends with...
    somedayiwillbeme somedayiwillbeme 13-15, F Dec 15

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    I was walking my dog one afternoon and I saw this beautiful woman seating around the tennis court watching two men playing tennis. When you have a dog you get connected to people...
    Domini7 Domini7 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I'm sat here crying, she was my best friend, and she just suddenly stopped talking to me. I miss her so much...
    lesha17x lesha17x 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    He and I have been best friends since the first grade, but back then we had crushes on each other and no one really seemed to forget it. In the third grade I moved and I didn't see...
    lisa365 lisa365 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have a friend who's been my best friend for like 9 years and I know basically everything about her and we've been through soo much. We had huge fights before and there's an...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    What is a real friend ? Me and my "best friend" knew each other for a year and we were pretty isolated by the time, we are a lot alike, we both had social phobia (social anxiety...
    gneugna gneugna 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    Let me tell you about how I got screwed over by my enemy and my friend. So all of this begins with a friend named brad over the internet. I was a lot younger than him and I was...
    Vesqural Vesqural 22-25, M Dec 13

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    ?I want to be the friend you fall hopelessly in love with. The one you take into your arms and into your bed and into the private world you keep trapped in your head. I want to be...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    The worst betrayal I can imagine is when your best friend's Bo hits on you. Okay, I can't say that I was not thrilled because I knew I could have had him anytime I wanted him. You...
    tmorr tmorr 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My best friend...now former, has hurt me for the last time. why is it that once we make strong and personal connections, they always hurt you?
    Tor1Lynn Tor1Lynn 16-17 1 Response Dec 9

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    He was my only friend and hope and he knew that, but yet he started bullying me and told me he just became friends with me because he felt sorry for me. WE WERE FRIENDS FOR 3 YEARS...
    PsychologyNerd PsychologyNerd 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I dated this guy that was a little older than me and apparently my 'best friend' liked him before we dated. She never told me that she liked him, ever, and I even asked her for her...
    mouthyrage mouthyrage 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Note that this.... is an entirely different story and not the same or a repeat of the story i wrote about my racist best friend who i lost. She came after the couple of girls i'm...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16

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    i just moved to a new state and started ninth grade in august. in elementary & middle school was the worst i had 0 friends from forth grade to eighth not even someone to say hi to...
    khalanijane khalanijane 13-15, F Dec 2

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    When I close my eyes I can still see the beautiful green of his eyes. My favorite color. The color of life. He was so kind to me. He wanted to be my friend. He wanted to get to...
    Speranza27 Speranza27 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I so hate my ex best friend so bad, here is the reason why.....we would of been best friends for 10 years this year and things has gone wrong, my best friend kept coming up my flat...
    westlife213 westlife213 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    My best friend and I have been best friends since college, Our friendship was almost instant when we became college room mates, My room was right beside hers and although we shared...
    nic1976 nic1976 36-40, F Dec 10

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    Tricia I have a best friend but considering the group I'm posting this in, that was most likely assumed. She is the best friend I could ever have and I wouldn't triad her for any...
    maddycolley maddycolley 13-15, F Dec 14

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    i actually miss her so much. She was the best best friend anyone could have. We told each other everything, her parents were fighting and she even told me she knew her dad was...
    cristinaluciana cristinaluciana 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My best Friend is my boyfriend, i love him very very much and i know im only 15 but my feelings are true. Ive known him since the 2nd grade and ive liked him ever since i met him...
    PandaApples101 PandaApples101 13-15, F Dec 4

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    When I was a Freshman back in High school, I did a crazy thing, that costed a friendship to crash and shatter. I did in deed kiss my best friend right on his lips. Thinking back...
    LaviJaki LaviJaki 18-21, F Dec 5

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    Me and my (straight) girl best friend had a nuts night and sleepover with her family last night and it was so funny and we were hyper (we weren't drunk though) at bedtime we were...
    innocenttween innocenttween 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    I've been best friends with this girl since the 6 grade and we were inseparable. Just like sisters pretty much, we sleep at each other's houses, hang out daily together, and even...
    MayaElla MayaElla 13-15, F 6 days ago

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