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I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the

    way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all her family problems, her rocky relationship, I was even the only friend for hers to show up at her birthday party one year. We were inseparable...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Can't Get Over

    it's been three years.. but i  can still feel the pain of being betrayed by a bestfriend.. the BEST of all friends that you have shared all of your dreams, stories, secrets..   until now, i'm still afraid to be betrayed by a bestfriend.. that's why i'm not...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    Betrayed After 20 Years

    My best friend of 20 plus years was always filled with advice for me but always seemed annoyed if offered to her. Many times through the years having her as my best friend seemed hard work and edgy but never in a million years would I have expected what happened next. I was...
    BadChoiceQueen BadChoiceQueen 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    I met her when I was 4,

    and we were best friends until I was 12... Around then, she started acting strange and distancing herself just when I needed her the most... I didn't do anything to cause that change. I'm over it now, but every time I see her I wonder what could have been.
    scarletneko scarletneko 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    We were in the same group of friends

    and me and her and her sisters were all close. After her sister got married me n her began to spend a lot of time together. I didn't put all my trust in her at first but we gradually became closer. During this time, pretty much all of our other friends grew distant from her, or...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    We were best friends

    for two years. We worked together and hung out everyday. We got in a fight because I told her I didn't approve of what she was doing. She would shoot up heroin all over her arms and I started to get really worried when i realized she was a full blown addict. one day we were...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    She Did It For Him

      When I was being stalked by my ex, the very same ex who tried to kill me, I couldn't figure out why he always knew where I was going and with whom. One day the police came to my door to ask me if I knew anyone named Kerri B*****. I said "of course, she's my best...
    bluehaiku bluehaiku 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    She Betrayed Me....

    So I Just Found Out That My BEST FRIEND/FAMILY Is Going Out With The Girl That Jumped Me .... Which Is ****** Up Because A Couple Of Days Before You Was Saying How Much She Hated Her .... You Suppose To Be My Best Friend And The FACT That You Can Do This Too Me && Then Try Too...
    kaylahhh kaylahhh 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    we used to chill every day.

    we met so many people together. we have so many memory's. we got a long so well. i loved her no matter what, she was like a sister to me. i care about her more than i care about myself. i don't think she realizes that tho. I would be no where if i never met her. 5 months ago...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F Jul 18

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    My dads an alcoholic

    and my best friend knows that has always been emotionally hard on me she started tweeting about how I'm going to end up just like my dad and its embarrassing I don't have a prom date and that I'm a nobody and all I do is drink and smoke and it really hurt my feelings. She's...
    alyak0202 alyak0202 16-17, F Feb 22

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    I've known my ex- BFF

    for a while know and she betrayed me I blame myself but hey things happen I met this guy I liked and I told my friend to text him as a prank so blah blah blah after that she cont. to text him and he told me and I asked him what did she tell you and he never responded and I haven...
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F Jun 24

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    I guess I should have seen it coming.

    She was so carefree and I thought she was just too cool... she let me follow her around like it was my honor and I had the gull to call her my best friend. She was always a little mean but I can honestly say I was shocked when she leaked my big secret. I confided in her. I told...
    brokenprincess25 brokenprincess25 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    My guy and girl best friend started rumors

    that I was sleeping with my crush, who also had a crush on me. My crush and I had admitted it to one another, but at the time we weren't dating. We still aren't but because of my traitorous friends we got together, fighting for each other and keeping us both strong to fight the...
    RaielleMae RaielleMae 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    She Was A Friend Of Mine (or So I Thought At The Time....)

     (Apologies to Emma Bunton) This person started off by being appointed as my support worker (I have AS) at the beginning of my second year at uni.  Compared to my previous support worker, she was keen to spend time with me socially as well as supporting me. We did...
    AnarchyRules AnarchyRules 31-35, M Dec 19, 2009

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    Middle School

    When I was in 6th grade, my best friend since childhood betrayed me. I had done absolutely nothing to her, but somehow she got it into her head that I had done something horrible to her, and she did her utmost to ruin my life. She spread horrible lies about me, saying that I...
    AsperGirl AsperGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    Rumor Mill

    A former friend convinced my best friend and another mutual friend of ours that I'm mentally ill. On top of that, it seems that she went around telling others that we knew in college I'm insane because half the people I knew back then wont even talk to me now! For a long time I...
    LeaB88 LeaB88 26-30 Jun 11, 2013

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    We were really close--BFFs,

    if there was such a thing before 1995. Of course, the last 'F' doesn't literally mean "forever". People assumed that we'd wind up together. That's right, I'm talking about a girl. We probably would have made a cute couple in a still photograph and we were always together. And...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid 41-45, M Dec 19, 2013

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    Love and Friend

    how i was betrayed?.........well i told my best friend that i might break up with my boyfriend and she freaked and called him so he got online and asked what the deal was and i new my friend told i was angry and she kept on demanding not to break up. than i was trying to explain...
    annaluv10 annaluv10 18-21 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    A person whom I consider like a sister

    for 15 years betrayed me. She sent a mass text about my infidelity to her entire family who I am also close with. The infidelity occurred years ago, And something my husband and I had healed from. She told her family to break all ties with me only , and not my husband. I am...
    Nah1982 Nah1982 31-35 Mar 16

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    I Mistook O Her As My Best Friend

    we were best frens since grade 4. we studied, played and grew up together. we used to share most of the things, each and every secret and we take care of each other a lot. so the story begins when we decided to move together in an apartment. i used to do most of the house chores...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I honestly thought I'd never see the day

    when I lost trust in my best friend. She's the closest person to me, I've never had anyone I cared about and trusted that much. And then I feel like things changed. I was dating a guy and it wasn't working out and I found out they hung out without me. He made her his confidante...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    If It Happens Once, Shame On You; If It Happens Twice, Shame On Me...

    I can't believe how angry I still am about being betrayed by my very best friend. At times I feel like I'm finally over it, and then something will come up to remind me of the whole situation again and the anger, bitterness and hurt returns and I so very hate it.. She was my...
    BreakTheSpell BreakTheSpell 18-21 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Best Friend Tries...But Fails

    My best friend tried stealing my girlfriend. That right there isn't right, against bro code. He keep it all behind my back, and made my girlfriend not telling me. How he got her to keep it a secret? Went a little like this..."I have liked you a long time. I would die for you. Do...
    FlashSpark FlashSpark 18-21, M Apr 20, 2013

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    There used to be this guy, let's call him Sam, who was my best friend for seven years, which was up until around a year ago. I was going to tell him, after almost half a year of...
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    I've known my ex for 15 years, her older brother for just as long. He was my best friend, we grew up together, and we were brothers. 8 Years ago, he was killed in Iraq, and over...
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    I seriously love my best friend. He was my best friend in the 3rd grade we spent everyday together, until he left, We found eachother again last sunday and I saw him Monday for the...
    babylove96 babylove96 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I remember her and I went to the fabric store to buy some fabric to make clothes and that's the first time I noticed feelings for her. She was kneeling down looking at what she...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I remember him with a smile on his face some how he managed to always keep a smile it feels like it just happen yesterday the day they took his life away but he was taken away 4...
    lovebritney lovebritney 18-21, F Jul 3

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    She sleep with my Boyfriend at that time, It really hurt.. Not only the fact that he cheated, just the Fact that She was my Best friend. Thing Happen for a Reason and Im Good with...
    evlys evlys 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    A real friendship is being able to go months on end without seeing each other, but the minute you do it's as if no time has passed. Not having been friends with you for the past 10...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    me and my best friend always have connections and we act like sisters so much like we eat of each other cause we don't care and we love each other
    hellokitti hellokitti 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    OMG! If this is true please let me know because I have a straight best friend who I think that I would be great for and him for me. After my ex he brought back the ability for me...
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Still searching a person who could be my best friend forever in ep...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So I have mixed feelings for my best guy friend. and he likes my best girlfriend. the thing is she knows that i have mixed feelings for him , but he likes her and she likes him...
    GiaZol GiaZol 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I just looked at her Facebook for the first time in a long time and see how beautiful she looks and how happy she is with her boyfriend, and my other old best friend. She has all...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I only have 3/4 best friends, & a few acquaintances. I've had like 2 best friends who aren't anymore. I feel like so many people talk about others it's hard to even find anymore...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    when i was 15 i told my best friend that i thought i was bisexual; i made her promise not to tell anyone. So naturally, she told everyone. And nobody ever asked me about it, so all...
    Tobealovelydisaster Tobealovelydisaster 16-17 1 Response Jul 8

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    I had just got over a bad breakup and my "best friend" immediately starts dating my ex without even asking, that's messed up isn't it?
    collinmoney collinmoney 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My best friend and I used to be inseparable. Freshman and sophomore year, we were practically connected at the hip. At some point this year she changed, and for reasons unknown to...
    heatherm10 heatherm10 16-17, F Jul 13

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    So my friend that hurt me terribly just reached outanf apologize but idk what to do because she's done this before then gone back to her old ways so I really don't have trust but...
    heatherm10 heatherm10 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I met you at a bar in my hometown only six years ago. We barely knew each other but we got along like we'd known each other forever. You chased me around the bar with a pool cue...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    We've been best friends for over four years now. He's gay so we could honestly talk about everything and anything. We could walk through the mall talking about how cute that guy...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I edited this a little bit, I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I lost her... Again. The first time she left was back in October I think because me and her boyfriend had started talking and became like brother and sister. She left and I cried...
    talia13 talia13 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was, at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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