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I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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    We were in the same group of friends

    and me and her and her sisters were all close. After her sister got married me n her began to spend a lot of time together. I didn't put all my trust in her at first but we gradually became closer. During this time, pretty much all of our other friends grew distant from her, or...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Rumor Mill

    A former friend convinced my best friend and another mutual friend of ours that I'm mentally ill. On top of that, it seems that she went around telling others that we knew in college I'm insane because half the people I knew back then wont even talk to me now! For a long time I...
    LeaB88 LeaB88 26-30 Jun 11, 2013

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    we used to chill every day.

    we met so many people together. we have so many memory's. we got a long so well. i loved her no matter what, she was like a sister to me. i care about her more than i care about myself. i don't think she realizes that tho. I would be no where if i never met her. 5 months ago...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    She Betrayed Me....

    So I Just Found Out That My BEST FRIEND/FAMILY Is Going Out With The Girl That Jumped Me .... Which Is ****** Up Because A Couple Of Days Before You Was Saying How Much She Hated Her .... You Suppose To Be My Best Friend And The FACT That You Can Do This Too Me && Then Try Too...
    kaylahhh kaylahhh 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    "You're Static, incapable of growth!

    " These words hurt and haunt me more then taunting of all of my old bullies combined. Even though it's been six years since we last spoke and this was said to me. I can still hear your voice in my ear as if we just hung up. Still feel the tears falling from my eyes. 12 long...
    NicoNever NicoNever 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 1

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    when I was 16 there was this boy named Jake I

    used to really like, love even. we did evetthing together but a girl named Mynn moved to a nearby county and ended up going to our school and he started to talk to her more and more and didn't talk to me for like 2 weeks but then we decided to make a plan to try to bag some...
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Quite recently my best friend of 11 years

    betrayed me and now I am finding it very hard to move on and forget about her. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and it was not a very nice relationship. There was no support or love or caring for one another and we never spent time together. For over 6 months my...
    bexx5 bexx5 22-25 3 Responses Feb 11

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    Betrayed After 20 Years

    My best friend of 20 plus years was always filled with advice for me but always seemed annoyed if offered to her. Many times through the years having her as my best friend seemed hard work and edgy but never in a million years would I have expected what happened next. I was...
    BadChoiceQueen BadChoiceQueen 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I caught my ex girlfriend of three years a year

    ago with my ex best friend I caught them a year ago. This was going on for two years. When I caught them I snapped on my best friend I wash my hands clean of her.
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Middle School

    When I was in 6th grade, my best friend since childhood betrayed me. I had done absolutely nothing to her, but somehow she got it into her head that I had done something horrible to her, and she did her utmost to ruin my life. She spread horrible lies about me, saying that I...
    AsperGirl AsperGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    A person whom I consider like a sister

    for 15 years betrayed me. She sent a mass text about my infidelity to her entire family who I am also close with. The infidelity occurred years ago, And something my husband and I had healed from. She told her family to break all ties with me only , and not my husband. I am...
    Nah1982 Nah1982 31-35 Mar 16, 2014

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    I have been betrayed by my first

    and only friend at university,she was pretenfing to be my friend for a long time and then she did something horrible to me.
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    My dads an alcoholic

    and my best friend knows that has always been emotionally hard on me she started tweeting about how I'm going to end up just like my dad and its embarrassing I don't have a prom date and that I'm a nobody and all I do is drink and smoke and it really hurt my feelings. She's...
    alyak0202 alyak0202 18-21, F Feb 22, 2014

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    I guess I should have seen it coming.

    She was so carefree and I thought she was just too cool... she let me follow her around like it was my honor and I had the gull to call her my best friend. She was always a little mean but I can honestly say I was shocked when she leaked my big secret. I confided in her. I told...
    brokenprincess25 brokenprincess25 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Love and Friend

    how i was betrayed?.........well i told my best friend that i might break up with my boyfriend and she freaked and called him so he got online and asked what the deal was and i new my friend told i was angry and she kept on demanding not to break up. than i was trying to explain...
    annaluv10 annaluv10 18-21 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I was in the middle of a separation with my

    ex-husband. My MARRIED BFF started spending a lot of time with him, talking to him, etc. I asked her if she was sleeping with him and she lashed out at me for even suggesting it. How dare I not trust her. I believed her. Flash forward 3 years, I find out that she indeed was...
    bfulnightmare bfulnightmare 41-45, F Jan 13

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    Best Friend Tries...But Fails

    My best friend tried stealing my girlfriend. That right there isn't right, against bro code. He keep it all behind my back, and made my girlfriend not telling me. How he got her to keep it a secret? Went a little like this..."I have liked you a long time. I would die for you. Do...
    FlashSpark FlashSpark 18-21, M Apr 20, 2013

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    I've known my ex- BFF

    for a while know and she betrayed me I blame myself but hey things happen I met this guy I liked and I told my friend to text him as a prank so blah blah blah after that she cont. to text him and he told me and I asked him what did she tell you and he never responded and I haven...
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F Jun 24, 2014

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the

    way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all her family problems, her rocky relationship, I was even the only friend for hers to show up at her birthday party one year. We were inseparable...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2014

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    This happened today, about a week ago me

    and 2 of my closest friends all made a joint instgram account and the girls posted some stuff I liked so I bought 1 or 2 of them when they saw I think they got mad because I copied them, anyway, when I checked the joint account today we had on the bio "3 best friends" they had...
    Upsetgirl2003 Upsetgirl2003 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    My best friend of over ten years slept with

    someone I had been dating and cared very much for and kept it from me for three months. When I finally found out and confronted her, she said "I apologize. I am sorry you feel the way you feel." via text. a couple days passed and I am still upset and texted her again how...
    Wundervoll Wundervoll 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    She Did It For Him

      When I was being stalked by my ex, the very same ex who tried to kill me, I couldn't figure out why he always knew where I was going and with whom. One day the police came to my door to ask me if I knew anyone named Kerri B*****. I said "of course, she's my best...
    bluehaiku bluehaiku 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    If It Happens Once, Shame On You; If It Happens Twice, Shame On Me...

    I can't believe how angry I still am about being betrayed by my very best friend. At times I feel like I'm finally over it, and then something will come up to remind me of the whole situation again and the anger, bitterness and hurt returns and I so very hate it.. She was my...
    BreakTheSpell BreakTheSpell 18-21 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Worst thing that could ever happen is not

    betrayal by our love ....I think betrayal by your best friends are more painful...It makes u to lose hope on everybody. The one who was with you for years, shared not only your stuffs but also your miseries and problems is no more loyal to u...it hurts....It hurts to the core...
    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Can't Get Over

    it's been three years.. but i  can still feel the pain of being betrayed by a bestfriend.. the BEST of all friends that you have shared all of your dreams, stories, secrets..   until now, i'm still afraid to be betrayed by a bestfriend.. that's why i'm not...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    We were best friends

    for two years. We worked together and hung out everyday. We got in a fight because I told her I didn't approve of what she was doing. She would shoot up heroin all over her arms and I started to get really worried when i realized she was a full blown addict. one day we were...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    We were really close--BFFs,

    if there was such a thing before 1995. Of course, the last 'F' doesn't literally mean "forever". People assumed that we'd wind up together. That's right, I'm talking about a girl. We probably would have made a cute couple in a still photograph and we were always together. And...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    She Was A Friend Of Mine (or So I Thought At The Time....)

     (Apologies to Emma Bunton) This person started off by being appointed as my support worker (I have AS) at the beginning of my second year at uni.  Compared to my previous support worker, she was keen to spend time with me socially as well as supporting me. We did...
    AnarchyRules AnarchyRules 31-35, M Dec 19, 2009

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    I honestly thought I'd never see the day

    when I lost trust in my best friend. She's the closest person to me, I've never had anyone I cared about and trusted that much. And then I feel like things changed. I was dating a guy and it wasn't working out and I found out they hung out without me. He made her his confidante...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Mistook O Her As My Best Friend

    we were best frens since grade 4. we studied, played and grew up together. we used to share most of the things, each and every secret and we take care of each other a lot. so the story begins when we decided to move together in an apartment. i used to do most of the house chores...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I met her when I was 4,

    and we were best friends until I was 12... Around then, she started acting strange and distancing herself just when I needed her the most... I didn't do anything to cause that change. I'm over it now, but every time I see her I wonder what could have been.
    scarletneko scarletneko 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2014

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    I used to hate my old best friend. Yet I cared about her at the same time. She used to steal from me every time she came over. I had proof of it most of the time. I would lose...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I really need a best friend. i just lost mine, who was my best friend for 11 years. I don't really have friends anymore and i just need someone other than my boyfriend to talk to...
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    I thought we had it at one time... Now it has been months since we have been romantic. And you have been traveling for a week. When I messaged you 'I love you!' No reply. It...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met a lady at work and we became friends she was my best friend but then one day in october 24 2001 I lost her due to cancer. I miss u
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    Sad... Heading home after a week and a half apart and things are so weird with her these days, so unsure, so unromantic... I don't look forward to seeing her. There was a time I...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Being betrayed by anyone is never easy, but being betrayed by someone you love and trust is especially difficult. Honestly, after being betrayed by someone I considered to be my...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    So like three months ago, this girl that used to be our friend tried to break my man and I up. We found this out by her close friend that she has been trying to break us up for...
    rockerchick9000 rockerchick9000 22-25, F Mar 29

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    Okay Im pretty much done with my friends. Like seriously I am really upset. I have always been the one to text my friends first so I decided it was their turn. It's been two weeks...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    my ex best friend betrayed me. **** sucks
    jordan43930 jordan43930 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    She was my friend in 8th grade. I had a friend that put a dress in my purse. I didn't even know it was in there until the security guard stopped me when the lights went on. I was...
    MizzChocolate99 MizzChocolate99 22-25, F Apr 14

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    I have been betrayed by my friend when i was in 6th grade because she was the "bystander who agrees with the bully" and she was also my "friend" . so when the bully would come...
    Rosey3686 Rosey3686 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I was young and naive I kept a diary and my "best friend",her mom,my boyfriend, their boyfriends and 20 other people who were friends of theirs went through my purse and read...
    Taumilynn Taumilynn 36-40 5 Responses 1 day ago

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