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I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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    She Betrayed Me....

    So I Just Found Out That My BEST FRIEND/FAMILY Is Going Out With The Girl That Jumped Me .... Which Is ****** Up Because A Couple Of Days Before You Was Saying How Much She Hated Her .... You Suppose To Be My Best Friend And The FACT That You Can Do This Too Me && Then Try Too...
    kaylahhh kaylahhh 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I was in the middle of a separation with my

    ex-husband. My MARRIED BFF started spending a lot of time with him, talking to him, etc. I asked her if she was sleeping with him and she lashed out at me for even suggesting it. How dare I not trust her. I believed her. Flash forward 3 years, I find out that she indeed was...
    bfulnightmare bfulnightmare 41-45, F Jan 13

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    I Mistook O Her As My Best Friend

    we were best frens since grade 4. we studied, played and grew up together. we used to share most of the things, each and every secret and we take care of each other a lot. so the story begins when we decided to move together in an apartment. i used to do most of the house chores...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the

    way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all her family problems, her rocky relationship, I was even the only friend for hers to show up at her birthday party one year. We were inseparable...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2014

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    My dads an alcoholic

    and my best friend knows that has always been emotionally hard on me she started tweeting about how I'm going to end up just like my dad and its embarrassing I don't have a prom date and that I'm a nobody and all I do is drink and smoke and it really hurt my feelings. She's...
    alyak0202 alyak0202 18-21, F Feb 22, 2014

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    Can't Get Over

    it's been three years.. but i  can still feel the pain of being betrayed by a bestfriend.. the BEST of all friends that you have shared all of your dreams, stories, secrets..   until now, i'm still afraid to be betrayed by a bestfriend.. that's why i'm not...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    I've known my ex- BFF

    for a while know and she betrayed me I blame myself but hey things happen I met this guy I liked and I told my friend to text him as a prank so blah blah blah after that she cont. to text him and he told me and I asked him what did she tell you and he never responded and I haven...
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F Jun 24, 2014

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    We were best friends

    for two years. We worked together and hung out everyday. We got in a fight because I told her I didn't approve of what she was doing. She would shoot up heroin all over her arms and I started to get really worried when i realized she was a full blown addict. one day we were...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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    we used to chill every day.

    we met so many people together. we have so many memory's. we got a long so well. i loved her no matter what, she was like a sister to me. i care about her more than i care about myself. i don't think she realizes that tho. I would be no where if i never met her. 5 months ago...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    I met her when I was 4,

    and we were best friends until I was 12... Around then, she started acting strange and distancing herself just when I needed her the most... I didn't do anything to cause that change. I'm over it now, but every time I see her I wonder what could have been.
    scarletneko scarletneko 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2014

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    Rumor Mill

    A former friend convinced my best friend and another mutual friend of ours that I'm mentally ill. On top of that, it seems that she went around telling others that we knew in college I'm insane because half the people I knew back then wont even talk to me now! For a long time I...
    LeaB88 LeaB88 26-30 Jun 11, 2013

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    I honestly thought I'd never see the day

    when I lost trust in my best friend. She's the closest person to me, I've never had anyone I cared about and trusted that much. And then I feel like things changed. I was dating a guy and it wasn't working out and I found out they hung out without me. He made her his confidante...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Love and Friend

    how i was betrayed?.........well i told my best friend that i might break up with my boyfriend and she freaked and called him so he got online and asked what the deal was and i new my friend told i was angry and she kept on demanding not to break up. than i was trying to explain...
    annaluv10 annaluv10 18-21 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    She Did It For Him

      When I was being stalked by my ex, the very same ex who tried to kill me, I couldn't figure out why he always knew where I was going and with whom. One day the police came to my door to ask me if I knew anyone named Kerri B*****. I said "of course, she's my best...
    bluehaiku bluehaiku 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    A person whom I consider like a sister

    for 15 years betrayed me. She sent a mass text about my infidelity to her entire family who I am also close with. The infidelity occurred years ago, And something my husband and I had healed from. She told her family to break all ties with me only , and not my husband. I am...
    Nah1982 Nah1982 31-35 Mar 16, 2014

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    She Was A Friend Of Mine (or So I Thought At The Time....)

     (Apologies to Emma Bunton) This person started off by being appointed as my support worker (I have AS) at the beginning of my second year at uni.  Compared to my previous support worker, she was keen to spend time with me socially as well as supporting me. We did...
    AnarchyRules AnarchyRules 31-35, M Dec 19, 2009

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    Middle School

    When I was in 6th grade, my best friend since childhood betrayed me. I had done absolutely nothing to her, but somehow she got it into her head that I had done something horrible to her, and she did her utmost to ruin my life. She spread horrible lies about me, saying that I...
    AsperGirl AsperGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    Worst thing that could ever happen is not

    betrayal by our love ....I think betrayal by your best friends are more painful...It makes u to lose hope on everybody. The one who was with you for years, shared not only your stuffs but also your miseries and problems is no more loyal to u...it hurts....It hurts to the core...
    girlyoudontunderstand girlyoudontunderstand 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I have been betrayed by my first

    and only friend at university,she was pretenfing to be my friend for a long time and then she did something horrible to me.
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    Betrayed After 20 Years

    My best friend of 20 plus years was always filled with advice for me but always seemed annoyed if offered to her. Many times through the years having her as my best friend seemed hard work and edgy but never in a million years would I have expected what happened next. I was...
    BadChoiceQueen BadChoiceQueen 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    We were really close--BFFs,

    if there was such a thing before 1995. Of course, the last 'F' doesn't literally mean "forever". People assumed that we'd wind up together. That's right, I'm talking about a girl. We probably would have made a cute couple in a still photograph and we were always together. And...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    If It Happens Once, Shame On You; If It Happens Twice, Shame On Me...

    I can't believe how angry I still am about being betrayed by my very best friend. At times I feel like I'm finally over it, and then something will come up to remind me of the whole situation again and the anger, bitterness and hurt returns and I so very hate it.. She was my...
    BreakTheSpell BreakTheSpell 18-21 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Best Friend Tries...But Fails

    My best friend tried stealing my girlfriend. That right there isn't right, against bro code. He keep it all behind my back, and made my girlfriend not telling me. How he got her to keep it a secret? Went a little like this..."I have liked you a long time. I would die for you. Do...
    FlashSpark FlashSpark 18-21, M Apr 20, 2013

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    I guess I should have seen it coming.

    She was so carefree and I thought she was just too cool... she let me follow her around like it was my honor and I had the gull to call her my best friend. She was always a little mean but I can honestly say I was shocked when she leaked my big secret. I confided in her. I told...
    brokenprincess25 brokenprincess25 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    We were in the same group of friends

    and me and her and her sisters were all close. After her sister got married me n her began to spend a lot of time together. I didn't put all my trust in her at first but we gradually became closer. During this time, pretty much all of our other friends grew distant from her, or...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I had to break up with my girlfriend . It was just getting to bad. It needed to end. But the bad part. She was my best friend also. It's been about 6 months and I really miss her...
    Ald7373 Ald7373 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    In November 2014, I visited my best guy friend across the other side of Australia. I was so excited to see my bestie. I hadn't seen him for nearly a year or so it was killing me...
    Nomnomk Nomnomk 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have learned that friendship can't stand after a serious relationship break-up. She was my best friend. I told her and went to her for everything. We are still friends but it's...
    RedefiningLife RedefiningLife 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Once, many lives ago, I had a lover who was my best friend. It happened quite by accident; but when it happened, the beauty, peacefulness and heat of it was beyond description. I...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I wish you would understand how much it's hurt me these past few years....as I see you forgetting me more each day, never making an effort to even say hello....I watch as I see you...
    AlyShine AlyShine 18-21, F Jan 11

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    Isaac, my Isaac. I don't know how else to differentiate the sweet, handsome, dorky boy I fell in love with and who was my best friend and the cold, walled off stranger that you...
    DeeJayKay DeeJayKay 18-21, F Jan 18

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    Dear the person who hurt me: thank you. I was your best friend of five years and you made sure to diminish my self confidence every day. Thank you for teaching me that people aren...
    QuietViolets QuietViolets 16-17, F Jan 16

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    Ok I'm a girl, she's a girl. We've been friends for quite 3 years but the vibe has changed, I would say on both parts because even though we are very close its becoming to the...
    ceemayne ceemayne 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I was sexually assaulted by two of the people I thought I could trust.smh my best friends this was years ago but it hurts me till this day smh.They lied and caused so much havoc...
    AnonymousTea6 AnonymousTea6 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I can relate to everyone here. I wouldn't consider myself jaded, but I have no complete trust in anyone. I wasn't always this way, and a younger more naive version took everyone at...
    Kidpanama Kidpanama 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    this is the first thing I could post stuff on so that no one I know could ever find me. I need to let out this steam.. A couple months back, I was talking to this guy for 10-11...
    elenaaastewart1 elenaaastewart1 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I thought they were my best friends, but really they didn't give a **** about me. I trusted them, with everything and they abandoned me. I would've take a bullet for them and yet...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    :( I have started to develop feelings for my best friend in the beginning of December.. We have been such close friends for around 6 months... Anyway, when I developed feelings, I...
    whateverlife12 whateverlife12 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    When I was 13, I fell in love with my best friend, Joshua...its been almost four years now and i still have the same feelings for him. It peculiar, how we met...he stepped on my...
    liz1999 liz1999 31-35 Jan 2

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    Best friends are always there to comfort us and make us happy whenever we are sad. Then, you'll just realize that you are already in love with them.Well, that's totally normal if...
    AngelsBroughtMeHere AngelsBroughtMeHere 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Its funny how i remember days of us just laughing and pulling jokes and now it really sad to experience silence. Wow where do I begin so me and best friend met back in 7th grade we...
    scott2009 scott2009 18-21, M Jan 5

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    Okay so my story might be a complicated one, or maybe someone has been through the same exact thing. I really don't know, but I need some form of explanation and answers. Okay so...
    LadyDi95 LadyDi95 18-21, F a week ago

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    About two years ago I met a most wonderful guy at school who everyone avoided. No one would talk to him, maybe because during the summer he went to a mental hospital. I was new to...
    jasperbites jasperbites 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I was very close to one of my friends. She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin 22-25, F Jan 7

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    Continuing my last year saga, now focusing the first time I felt in love. A girl talked with me randomly, because I was drawing and she loves sketches. Just like that. I found her...
    jonnyculliere jonnyculliere 18-21, M Jan 12

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    I didn't know that people can change so fast.. may be their priorities have changed.. whatever.. I lost my best friend.. I had a best friend who was THE BEST.. every time I was...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    My best friend Tyler is one of the best friends i ever had she has been there for me through thick and thin. I was at a point in my life where all my friends were just fake and i...
    mslexibae mslexibae 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It started off with just an ear for each other. He was hurt. I was hurt. Me being me, not afraid of anything or rejection, sent him a msg and told him if he'd like to talk about...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago