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I Was Betrayed By People I Thought I Could Trust

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    I was sexually assaulted by two of the people I

    thought I could trust.smh my best friends this was years ago but it hurts me till this day smh.They lied and caused so much havoc when I was school i was bullied and teased because of this and it causes me so much pain till this day .I get bring from the situation one of my...
    AnonymousTea6 AnonymousTea6 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    A Shoulder

    He says I'm his shoulder to cry on. But she's his best friend. I wonder what that means. I guess that I'm there to listen to him whine and build him back up, so he can go have fun with her.
    BlackHeartApart BlackHeartApart 26-30 Oct 3, 2013

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    I Was Supposed To Be Able To Trust Him.

    When i was about 8 years old, i was molested by a neighbor who was a trusted family friend. He, his wife, and his kids had lived next to my family for years and were very good friends with my grandparents. They're my brothers godparents. They were supposed to help take care of me...
    blackveilbride51 blackveilbride51 16-17, F Sep 1, 2011

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    It hurts when people you trust

    and know you personally don't really know who you are.
    Donnathena Donnathena 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I Was Betrayed By Someone I Never Thought Would Do This to Me

    My girlfriend, ex now, betrayed me. I trusted her when her and I were together. She used to talk about how much she wished she had more friends, and so I helped her to make some friends in her town, since it was a long distance relationship I couldn't physically be there for...
    TheKidiKehT TheKidiKehT 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2009

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    I Hate Betrayals

    I have been betrayed before and i hate it... My so called friends i trust always stab me in my back just the minute i turn my f****** back they start spilling their guts out and everything plus if i help them with something or i hook them up they take all the f****** credit for...
    thens15 thens15 18-21, M 1 Response May 14, 2011

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    So Many Times..........

    Friends, Family Members, Teachers, School Counsellors, Doctors, you name it, I've probably been betrayed in one way or another. That is one of the main reasons I don't trust easily & I don't trust fast. I have learned that just because they say they are your friend, that they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    My mother. My own bloody mother,

    who gave birth to me, brought me up and said she 'loved' me. She said she would protect me from everything. Oh she did. But I was merely being used, manipulated like puppets on string. Passed through different pairs of hands, I had my eyes blinded, and heart pulled out leaving a...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It kills me inside the most

    when people say that they will always be there for me, but they leave in the end. ): It hurts less if the guy or girl never said that. Because if you say so, you must mean it.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    A Best Friend Indeed

    Alex and i have been best friend for 10 years and that is about half my life, Well we practically tell each other everything, It all started on early march 2009, i met this beautiful girl named Angela online, she was awesome, lively and she has a good English Background, after...
    Ajayi417 Ajayi417 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Been There, Done That

    If I had a penny for each and every time I was backstabbed or screwed over by someone who was supposed to be close or special to me,  I would be richer than Donald Trump by now.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Betrayed.

    I can't believe of all people you'd be the one to do this to me. Actually, now that I think about it, I can believe you did this. He and I was together a year and two days, throughout that year I noticed how you ,my best friend, would always get angry with me when I didn't show...
    InnoviaWolf InnoviaWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    I Thought You Were My Friends.

    My best friend and I are on a holiday in austria right now. It was the best holiday i ever had, until...A guy I like went to the same place in Austria and we partied every day together and we kissed and he told me that he loved me and that I was the most beautiful and cute person...
    simivalerie simivalerie 18-21, F Apr 5, 2012

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    Chijoke

    I was working in Electronics,checking on prices of clearance cameras. In doing this,I had to enter my team member id. Should have known something was going on when coworker seemed to stay right beside me. Next morning was questioned about an occurance that happened AFTER I had...
    parakeet8157 parakeet8157 51-55, F Apr 21, 2012

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    They left me to die and then laughed

    as they kicked dirt in my face and got me drunk so I couldn't yell and then drugged me with chloroform and weed. Then they left me for dead...
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Ep Contacts

    I need to learn to stop trusting people on EP. I am so easily duped into caring... People tell me they are serious, and then they just (in this case) disappear for a few days and THEN... Disappear from EP completely. :( Worst part is their account appears deleted -- so I can't...
    Tybris Tybris 31-35, M Nov 16, 2012

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    I Once Thought You Were My Friend...

    But then I realized you weren't. So I let you go, and you told my bro my every secret I had confided in you out of hatred and remorse. Possibly out of regret of not yelling at me instead. You knew it would hurt worse...but I still forgive you.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 10, 2009

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    Ever Been Played?

    Have you ever been deceived? discovered that you've been played? Did u make a fool out of yourself? Did your enemies make you look like a loser? Moments like these are experienced by most people but the good news is that they can be avoided. You don't have to be an evil person to...
    yvonne91 yvonne91 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    it was twenty two years ago.

    I was newly pregnant. I was supposed to take it really easy. My grandmother died and her funeral was in our family hometown, about eight hours away via car. My husband didn't like my family and refused to go. I needed to find a ride. I asked my mother. she suggested my cousins...
    littlesadone littlesadone 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I thought my cousin cares

    but he didn't. he betrayed me when he pulled me close to him. my heart was already broken.
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My Cousin - So one of my female cousins (it's

    not the one who abused me, but she's from the same side of the family as him [in fact his mom is her aunt]) told me months ago that I could move in with her after I graduate. That's 4 1/2 months from now. Tonight she texted me and told me that she's not letting me move in, and...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F Jan 9

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    I don't know what to believe

    or what to think , if he told someone else something I begged him not to 💔😔 I don't know how I feel about it , I trusted you . I thought you were never In a million years do that . I thought we agreed that no matter what a secret was a secret . It's funny because knowing...
    YeniM YeniM 18-21, F Feb 18, 2014

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    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I have a trusting problem I trust people way

    too easy and they stab me in the back
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M Jul 27, 2014

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    Seven years of rejection

    and hostility Now I don't have to deal with that I am still alone because I don't want to run into another person to devour me like you...
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F Nov 7, 2014

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    The people I thought were my family made me a

    slave and talked about whether to sell me or keep me for themselves. I don't trust them. I moved out last year and my mom wants me to move back in. She says my "siblings" would never hurt me, but they already did in the past so I know they would be capable of doing it again. I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    Someone at my work likes to pick on me

    and it's getting old real fast
    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    Trust and Betrayal

    I was betrayed by my father, mother, husband, sister, pastor, co-worker, and a best friend. But I have to admit that I also betrayed my sister and a friend, and perhaps others I can't think of right now.
    CagedRaven CagedRaven 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2009

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    IT HURTS. thanks a lot.

    it's the worst thing you can ever do to me.
    D2BA D2BA 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    I Was Betrayed By People I Thought I Could Trust.

    I was betrayed by my own family during a time when all I needed was a safe place away from my husband.  I wanted very badly to split from him but did not have money to fall back on and also had to conside my two children whom I wanted to be with.  I did not have adequate sleep...
    shellkiss shellkiss 51-55 2 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    My "Best Friend"

    I met him last year in September and got really close. He was my bestfriend, and he came out as gay in March. From then to September I was protecting him from bullies and being the best I could be. He went to high school this year and I'm still in grade 8.. He doesn't talk to me...
    Leaveitalone Leaveitalone 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I would always try to trust this one friend I have, but something in the back of my head always says, "Don't say it." So I don't and my friend gets so disappointed that I can't...
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I was in the middle of a separation with my ex-husband. My MARRIED BFF started spending a lot of time with him, talking to him, etc. I asked her if she was sleeping with him and...
    bfulnightmare bfulnightmare 41-45, F Jan 13

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    He was supposed to protect me.
    ButtahCrunch ButtahCrunch 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Starting the new year alone my boyfriend just dump me... Feeling like crap and miserable
    bluebutterfly11344 bluebutterfly11344 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I was raised Mormon, left the church shortly after my little brother experienced a nervous breakdown whilst serving a mission. I had always had a fear of the mentally ill and...
    eviec7 eviec7 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I've trusted to many people and yet I have gotten hurt. I have isolated myself from society. I thought I could trust one girl and she proved me wrong. I feel as if I can be...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I suppose it doesn't matter now that we broke up, but I still feel it gripping on to me. My girlfriend was bi-polar, depression and family trouble. She was my first love, and it...
    Inviticus Inviticus 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    Ever since I was 16 I've been very careful about who I let get close to me. I was dating a guy I thought I could trust, then I find out he was not only cheating on me but talking...
    SexyBustyGoddess SexyBustyGoddess 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Every relationship , good and bad always change people for better or worse. Relationships are roads. Every choices u make always lead u to happiness or sadness. We walk around...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I can no longer trust anyone, and it's affecting my current relationship. I wish I could trust him, but due to past experiences, I can't.
    morekisses morekisses 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was walking home from school. It was really windy and wet and the sky was gray. Nobody could see me, so I decided to walk in the middle of the street. It felt really good, and I...
    itishi itishi 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Girl kept me hanging for three years... Wouldn't commit or let me go. Lost a lot of self esteem. I doubt I could trust anyone again
    mrigoo mrigoo 22-25, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    i was abused i was in foster care i was not able to trust people to keep my self calm i cut it was hard for me to try to live
    jazzyjaniah jazzyjaniah 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't remember his face... Or his voice. Just darkness and a small space. There was a shoe or something under my head. The TV was on... But all I can hear. The thing that echoes...
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    It wasn't for a long time, and we're actually friends now, but just thinking about it makes me feel like crap anyway. I was very mean to this girl. I was bullied from the end of...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I understand now, why you didn't stay. I see it clearly for what it was. It was not that you didn't love me that you left, but because you did love me and couldn't see any other...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    i wish people could open there eyes to see who we really are were not bad were not evil were doing what makes us comfortable just like anyone does and no matter what you believe...
    guyindresses1991 guyindresses1991 22-25, T 2 Responses Jan 11

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    My experience started the end of summer starting my sophomore year. My family moved as we just lost our house. The house my parents rented had a guy living next door that was a bit...
    princesskimber princesskimber 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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