I Was Betrayed By People I Thought I Could Trust

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    I have a hard time trusting people anyhow.

    And i think it is time to put the walls back up. How can a good friend who knows how much you care for someone and who told you they never would go after the one you loved. Turn right around and start dating your ex. And then your ex whom you love with all your heart play with...
    jingle427 jingle427
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 7

    When I was little I'd always loved going to my

    cousins house. No matter how much begging it took from both my brother and I we'd fight onwards with our dad until we won the battle. The average day at our cousins' consisted of seeing who could eat the most, watching odd anime show reruns, and of course hide and seek. Cutting...
    Peanut18 Peanut18
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 8

    This isn't exactly betrayal

    but I couldn't find a better group to post this in. I texted my brother from the hospital yesterday, letting him know about my daughter's injuries. I didn't hear back from him all day until I text him again in the evening asking what's he been up to. He told me he was copying...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 2

    When you're so comfortable with someone.

    You let your guards down. You let them close enough to get in. You smile and think everything is groovy between you two. Then things switch so quickly. They're you're enemy one day and out of no where they're nice to you. They expose your weaknesses and secrets. They manipulate...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 5

    after my parents died most of my family

    members from my mom's side disowned me and blamed me for what happened to my parents I have just a few I consider family
    nick25276 nick25276
    36-40, M
    Mar 6

    I feel for you. I let someone into my life

    that I cared deeply for. I thought I meant something to him also, yet he used me, and then turned on me. Later, when his relationship went south, being the forgiving idiot I am, I gave him support and comfort to help him through. My feelings were still there and I had hoped he'd...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 6

    my "best friend " called me on my birthday

    and handed the phone to my ex boy friend so he could Dump me. long story short. she'd also been telling him why he should dump me.
    skittlequeen skittlequeen
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    Yup! I wanna curse. .

    punch kick people so bad. dang it!
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7

    Honestly all I want in my future is someone to

    love who will love me back for once and truly feel it....don't just lead me on to just then break my heart. I wasn't your toy I'm a human being
    smilepanda smilepanda
    16-17, F
    Apr 4

    I had told her I had trust issues

    but she insisted I could open up to people. So I did. It felt good for a while, didn't feel as lonely like before. Then the new year started and I found out about him and her, the two closest people to me, the most prominent people in my life...I'm never letting anyone in again
    IkeClimbers IkeClimbers
    18-21, M
    Mar 6

    So I used to have a boyfriend.

    Let's call him Jerk because he is a jerk. Like Taylor Swift once sang, I knew he was trouble when he walked in. But I was young and naive, didn't cared it because he was my first boyfriend. Jerk used to cheat me under my nose. Once he asked not to call him tonight because his...
    imasurvivor92 imasurvivor92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7

    Guess it was my fault

    for trusting wastoids, then becoming their bag *****. How f'ing stupid am I?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 5

    To be honest I feel like I've been betrayed by

    every person I know. The only person who didn't betray me and was consistent through and through was a weed smoking democrat and he wanted a relationship I didn't because I was already in love and married. But everyone else turned out to be people who really didn't care about...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 10

    Honestly, when your life starts out with lies

    and family members being two faced who can you trust and turn to in your time of need? No one!!! My mother will never be a part of my life again. She told me my birth fathers name so I hired a PI and got a hold of this man. We both had a blood test and DNA test and it turns out...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015
    AlphaOfAPack AlphaOfAPack
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 20
    coco72 coco72
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    That moment when you think

    that the person that you trusted with everything would be the last person to hurt you. I was really wrong....
    Amira15 Amira15
    16-17, F
    Jun 30, 2015

    You who are my closest friends,

    why why WHY do you betray me and hurt me? I love you, yet you just take my trust and love and throw it away like its nothing. I don't understand, what have I done to deserve this?
    lininsayy lininsayy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    my special someone entertain other people.

    i trusted him and loved him .
    feeling23 feeling23
    16-17
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 16

    I guess it's part of life.

    I just learned to be careful of who I trust. Ppl can be so deceiving sometimes.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 9

    Her: those days are dead Him: forgive me.

    .. She's shaken by the rebound.
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling
    26-30, F
    Jan 18

    I really like this picture word thing ~.

    ~ But it's true... No matter how much you p!ss me off I won't abandon you cause it really does hurt so bad when people leave me.....
    PrincessManuela PrincessManuela
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

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    driftingalone driftingalone
    16-17, F
    Feb 2

    My mother. My own bloody mother,

    who gave birth to me, brought me up and said she 'loved' me. She said she would protect me from everything. Oh she did. But I was merely being used, manipulated like puppets on string. Passed through different pairs of hands, I had my eyes blinded, and heart pulled out leaving a...
    littleowlet littleowlet
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2015

    My ex (I was in an eight year relationship)

    and ex friend (from high school who I thought I trusted for seventeen years) cheated on me and I walked in on them. Then when I needed them to help me, and they both avoided me and then abandoned. I had a breakdown and I got blocked. I needed to see a doctor and my ex left me...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Feb 21

    The funny thing is however,

    when I was young I trusted so many people,parents,brothers ,sisters,friends,every other person whom I met,I admit trusting came very natural to me.. Now,when I feel matured enough,I can see the motives behind their phone calls,fake smiles,false attitudes..It pains me now much...
    KosmicKonnection KosmicKonnection
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 22

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    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21

    I failed this major subject in school,

    then all I can do is to take up the same subject again for a whole semester. I'm not sure if this is entirely betrayal *in the context of trust*, but it's like my friends have forgotten about me when they got a passing grade and went on with their lives leaving me behind without...
    GummiBr GummiBr
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    Throughout my life, i've had friends

    who I initially thought were pretty cool and that I could connect with, but over time i've found that those people ended up being manupulative, crude, and just downright two-faced! It isnt very easy for me to really make friends given my shy nature, but with all these betrails...
    MalusNight MalusNight
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Feb 21

    I can't even begin to tell you.

    What's the use....
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    Apr 7

    Love makes us do crazy things.

    What's the craziest thing you have done? Mine was lending my ex £1000 I don't think I'm getting it back...
    AliChan25 AliChan25
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16

    I keep tightly their secrets,

    to protect their pride and dignity.. even on the day where they chose to be bltches/jerks betraying the trust I hve given them.. how could you ask me why is it so hard to trust you before? when you are never worthy for my trust? how could I be so stupid and betrayed my gut...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    My memory for years is not good at all

    but i will just say around 1990 I took a good job with a construction company and my best friend for around twenty years was the boss of the section I was working in. We did work mainly doing smaller storefronts and remodeling offices. It was about two years later I was running...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Feb 4

    i've been betrayed by many people over the years

    yet it's still a surprise probably when it shouldn't be. last summer, i guy i've known for over 20 years decided that 50 dollars was more important to him than our friendship. this was a guy that i helped get to doctor's appointments, helped him pay for medications when he was...
    jerrica jerrica
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    "Bring your friends close,

    but bring your enemies closer."
    HypnoticFever HypnoticFever
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 11
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 2

    From the moment I know

    who they were, I vowed to protect them with my very life. From the first moment I knew their names, I engraved them onto my heart. From the moment I saw their faces, I told myself that I would never forget them. From the first moment they turned my own blade against me, I knew...
    AmaterasuNoOkami AmaterasuNoOkami
    18-21, F
    Jul 2, 2015

    So I thought I found a friend on here

    but it was A Nother false lie!!! I can't believe ppl only care about there needs and what they want!! Like I was going to ever send u money wtf !! No thank u 👋🏻👋🏻✌🏼️✌🏼
    Yukinaru Yukinaru
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    what's the point anymore in making friends.

    everyone just betrays you in the end.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 7

    no true friend needs explanation,

    they are aware of your thuth before its spoken
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    So, I heard from someone I thought was a good

    friend. I remember months ago, he had told me his best friend, the person he was in love with, had been murdered. I was there for him, to give him support through his darkest times. I told him my deepest secrets and he told me his. I knew he wouldn't be the same, but I could be...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    I did betray people and have been betrayed.

    I dont trust people anymore. No. Not again. Trust them as far as you can throw them. People will always dissapoint you.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 10

    I've had it happen multiple times by friends,

    family, and partners. people who I trusted with my entire being at one point have now become only memories and scars, all because of betrayal and lies. but I guess that's life.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 5

    And of course even though I got him something

    for Valentine's Day (even though I don't feel it anymore) I got absolutely nothing... After 23 years of always getting each other at least something he tells me "Oh, I didn't think we did Valentine's Day." - after 23 years??? It may not have been much in the past but at least...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 14

    Family betrayed me.. That's

    why I will always say at times water is thicker than blood.. My Friends are my family.
    SufferNoFools SufferNoFools
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    I was betrayed by people I thought cared.

    It turns out they never gave a damn about me. I guess I'll be alone and miserable forever .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    I thought one of my oldest friends trusted me

    but when it comes to it they don't, I WANT TO KNOCK HIM OUT
    spudmat spudmat
    13-15, M
    Apr 7

    Hi I go by Fruitypunch15 on here.

    I would like to share my personal experience.I have had a lot of ex friends and family members betray me over the years.But by far the worst is when your parents betray you.I dont know if you have ever been betrayed by your own parents.I have a few I would like to share.I know...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15
    31-35, F
    Apr 29, 2015
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