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I Was Betrayed

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    The funny thing about betrayal is it hardly

    never comes from your enemies rather the people who are close to your heart.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    By The Closest Person Alive....

    This was a horrible betrayal and it rocked my world.  This is causing a lot of confusion, hurt and pain inside of me.  Not only did this hurt me, now it is bringing up everything I have ever gone through in my life.  It reminds me of a lot of things that I tried to...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2010

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    My "best friend" harassed me anonymously over

    the web continuously saying Nasty things, telling me to kill myself, that I don't deserve to love. This morning I found out it was her, all I could ask was why? What did I do wrong? She had no response... It hurts so much, the one person you never thought would hurt you, ends up...
    syd4829 syd4829 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    A Letter To You

    To: The boy who ruined everything. From: The girl who has everything ruined. I was only 13 years old in middle school. I hadn't even had my first kiss yet! We have known each other since we did acting together years ago, why did you do this to me? You acted like you were my...
    Whalegirl Whalegirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    The Deciever- I had this real close friend

    online who I talked to often and I thought I knew her and trusted her but then she turned out to be a lying, double-crossing, two-timing troll. She only wanted to laugh at me.
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    My boyfriend of 3 and a half years cheated on me

    and is now with that girl. I am writing exams next week and I can't concentrate enough to study
    sonix10862 sonix10862 18-21, F 1 Response May 22

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    It's happened so many times

    that I can't think of any one experience to relate. Suffice it to say, betrayal starts with a lie.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M Jun 10

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    Sure it happened more

    than once.Life is full of good and bad times.Get through it move on stuff happens.As long as you live from childhood to adulthood, you most likely one time or more,be betrayed.Deal with it responsibly,learn from it and be ready to adjust the way you think before you let it...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M May 22

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    Heart Of A Wounded Woman....

    He was the father of my children, the watchman (pastor) of my soul. But he lied, and spoke words that would haunt me to this day. The pain cut so very deep that over time it would reshape my life forever. Wounds do heal, but memories last a life time....
    Ladyis1 Ladyis1 51-55, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Hard to Say

    I've been betrayed by almost every girl i've been with save 4. It's very disheartening and it takes alot to keep trust alive.
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 10, 2007

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    iamdeedz iamdeedz 26-30, M Jul 21

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    Whirlwind

    I was in a whirlwind romance that lead to a very short marriage, I should have known better. This could be an extraordinarily long or a very short one, all depends on how much I want to admit to how gullible I became. I will keep this short then. The last time I saw my ex-wife...
    NeoZen NeoZen 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    She invited me over "to fix her computer.

    " Over and over she invited me over, and we'd sit and talk, and sometimes I'd hug her or rub her shoulders, but she wouldn't let me kiss her again. I told her I loved her. Oh how I wish I hadn't. But I thought she was a professional. An Analyst. Turns out she couldn't control...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Dear A.

    Dear A. I remember when I first met you...I was fifteen in high school, you were twenty-one married. I met you and your wife on the same day. Later I joined the school where you happened to work in. I trained under your tutelage and I wanted to get better. You would stay with...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Violation of Social Contract

     Everyone has been “betrayed” by someone, whether it’s broken promises from parents or a complex web of deceit concocted by a perpetrator. The motivation of the person who abandons the presumptive confidence you gave them, both puzzles and repulses me. I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2007

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    Yesterday I was betrayed by the one person I

    thought I could always trust . It's quite painful to know that I can't trust anyone .
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal 41-45, F 33 Responses May 9

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    My mom framed me for an arrest.

    She's been a drug addict for most of my life. I've been unaware of this since recently, I just always thought she was crazy. She uses prescription adderall and smokes pot. She's verbally abused me and manipulated me for most of my life. She's turned me against my own father. She...
    ponyprincess2003 ponyprincess2003 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Betrayal...it's Not Nice....

    No matter the type of relationship, be it romantic, friendly, or between parent and child, an essential ingredient is trust. Trust defines every interaction in a relationship, it builds intimacy and it strengthens bonds. Without trust no relationship can thrive. Unfortunately...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 27 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    A Lot

    It seemed like anyone I was ever close to when I was growing up betrayed and/or abandoned me in some way..  By the time I was actually an adult I trusted no one, nor had any plans to.. For a lot of years I played it safe, and kept my walls up, and was unhappy.. Then I...
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    This website is full of censorship.

    Why does it even exists? What use is there in giving those a voice who are proven to lack consious? Am I the only one that is so hostile towards narcissism? I think they are bad people. Fight me.
    MeIsNotYou MeIsNotYou 22-25, M 3 Responses May 25

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    Worthless 2010.09.09

    When I saw the pictures and the video I lost all the blood in my limbs, a draining. I stared for a moment, but I am at work and didn't want to risk showing it to anyone. My heart feels...strange, twisted in two knots. I am extremely sad. I couldn't believe she would keep cheating...
    DeeplyParalegal DeeplyParalegal 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Once From Someone Very Special

    I saved their life when they wanted to die I wiped their tears away when they cried I put a smile on their face when they were sad I guided them to the light at the end of the tunnel I offered help when they did not know what to eat I gave strengh when they were abused by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    .The guy i lost my virginity to went on a show

    called "MTV's losing it" and told the story of taking my virginity. And kind of bragged about it. He made it sound really bad and like we were s-lutty strangers. i actually hate him. he has his own tv show too called careless teens where he does stupid stuff like staple him ear...
    newaccountquinnmac newaccountquinnmac 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    That'S What I Get

    During my childhood, I used to read and study religious Books. Since that time, I have always behaved well, never cheated anyone, always tried to speak truth, been gentle to everyone, even kept relations with people who insulted me or been rude with me. I am not thinking of good...
    MrRaziel MrRaziel 31-35, M Feb 5, 2013

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    Tonight I Was Reminded

    I was reminded of why I cant trust you. Your lips speak nothing but lies. Your eyes set to kill. I loved you for 2 years and gave you my all but you still went to that party and you still screwed him. I hope trading my trust was worth the quick ****.
    SocialRomance SocialRomance 18-21, M 7 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    It's not why I was betrayed

    or what it was about it's the fact that I was betray by someone I trusted so dearly that matters to me
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    When Karma Strikes Back.

    4 years ago my best friend betrayed me in the worst possible way and now, karma has finally come back and kicked her in the ***. I may have posted something about this friend before in this group but I'm going to to relay what I posted in my previous story in case you didn't...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Have You Any Idea?

    After being raped repeatedly by a guy who was 4 years my seniour, [all i needed was a support system, a wise word, a friend (parents got divorced and i shouldered the blame unintentionally)], i felt like a worthless piece of meat, hell, i eventually enjoyed it i guess... ****!! I...
    mickey159 mickey159 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    They bend it "we didn't want to hurt you'' they

    twist it ''you pushed me to this"" They misuse it and abuse it ... but they never change the truth "I was betrayed and stepped on''
    isimsiz isimsiz 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    disturbed grandma

    I have been and continue to be betrayed by my Grandmother. The only reason I even have her in my life is because my parents don't have it together financially, and she is financially stable and opened her home to my mother and me. It all started in childhood. I was sexually...
    jasminecg311 jasminecg311 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2013

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    Nojji Nojji 13-15, F 1 Response May 9

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    My kids dad poured our secrets out to a girl he

    was screwing but says he didn't and fights with me when I confront him, I'm so confused and hurt!
    humbledJo humbledJo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    My Husband Left Me After Two Months of Marriage

    I got married in January this year.  At the end of March I read one of my husband's emails from a woman in the US.  I am in Australia.  It was full of 'love' and intimacy.  I was shocked and confronted him.  He said she was a friend.  Then, one week...
    quarkgirl quarkgirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Why does everyone betray me what have I done to

    deserve all this backstabbing? Even my own sister I'm just a quiet kid who minds her own business. Honestly why why must I go through this torture....I'm sorry for whatever I did but you could at least have the decency to say you don't like me to my face instead of this mask you...
    jojowillsaveyou jojowillsaveyou 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Friend?

    The measure of a good friend is standing by your side, not only when you reach rock bottom, but also when they do. It's easy promoting your character when nothing's at stake. Words are free, after all. No one's perfect and I don't look for perfection. But claiming to have my back...
    guiltybyassociation guiltybyassociation 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    My history is catching up,

    a girl from my past. She told one ******* lie, and my life turned to ash. I was thrown out on the curb so ******* reason, but there were my family so I guess this is treason. Remember the spot? I was chained to life, and anger was all I felt. But I won't admit to the lie, I'll...
    DrugStorePoet DrugStorePoet 18-21, M Mar 11

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    Ok, I am going through a divorce I never saw

    coming. Been about a month and a half nownd I was just gathering myself when coming home from spring break with my 2young daughters 9 and 10 and find out the wife has been cheating on me but he had a heart attack and died. What the heck do you say to that!?!?!?!? I am sorry...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Burning Poetry

    I have been betrayed by every single person that I have ever cared about in my life. I know deep down that it is not normal for someone you love and says they love you to betray you. Sometimes I wonder if its my own fault for caring too deeply or being too naive. Maybe its...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F Dec 10, 2011

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    I Just Feel Sad

    After 9 years of marriage my 44 year old husband has taken a 19 year old girlfriend with 2 kids!!! I am older then him and thats the hard part for me he always promised he would take care of me and now thats a joke. I'm so sad because I don't believe he ever loved me! I took care...
    preciousdesi preciousdesi 56-60 4 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    My friend that I known

    for a year betrayed me because we got back together in a relationship and in less then 2 weeks he cheated on me with I don't know how many females. I was talking to him on a dating website through a fake profile and it was only a 10 min conversation and he was already wanting...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25

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    I know people will give me crap

    for this, but I was talking to someone I met online. He did everything right- he showed me not just pictures, but his own face on Skype; he told me all about his life, and he called me and sent me text messages regularly. It all came crashing down when the truth was revealed...
    mariatortilla88 mariatortilla88 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Betrayed

    My story is classic. I started an affair with this married man. He was charming but he lied from the very beginning. I just was taken in by this man. I have continued to stay with him. But his alcohol abuse is destroying our relationship. He could careless cause he wants to...
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    After much consideration I have decided I

    simply cannot forgive so I've taken off my wedding ring . We are over
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal 41-45, F 23 Responses May 12

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    Grieving,Married,Betrayed And In Love. Maybe Expecting Another Mans Child......

    Hello, I'm 31 years old I'm the 3rd in a line of same names. I been planning my entire life to name my first son the fourth. I found out around 18-19 or so I would have great difficulty having children, he went on to emphasize that I would probably need the aid of medicine to...
    thegoa thegoa 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I Feel Like An Idiot.

    I'm always finding myself being betrayed by others, especially those who I considered close to me.Each and every time that I think I have learned my lesson in trusting my friends or family, It happens all over again. One day I'm just going to say **** it and shut everybody out.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2012

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    My trust was betrayed by

    who I thought was my best friend. I had told her that I was homo a few days earlier. She was the first friend that I had ever told, so it was a big step for me. Not even a week passes by and she had told 4 other people. she told 2 of my other best friends, a more neutral friend...
    NotTheRealMe99 NotTheRealMe99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I feel betrayed, ****** over,

    hurt... Fragile. I partnered up with my friend to do a project. We split it half and half.. I do my part of the project which is to track a video for physics then all she had to do was fill out the poster which was simple to do because I was going to send her the video through...
    michellexoa michellexoa 16-17, F Dec 14, 2013

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    Betrayed By A Whole Community

    I was recently diagnosed with BPD when I checked myself into a mental hospital. I got out this past Friday after spending just over a month there. What lead to my going there was I was so close to killing myself as I went from having it all to being homeless and threatened to...
    NUFECHK NUFECHK 46-50, F Nov 21, 2013

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    I was betrayed by this very site.

    A warning to anyone in a marriage/relationship. Some time last fall, my wife was becoming increasingly more distant; and displaying suspicious behavior. She changed her email password, and the PIN on her iPhone (something she never used to do). Over the last few months it...
    skoidat82 skoidat82 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 8

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    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed....

    Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad Soldiers to His place of recumbentcy. Thembagoshuns 1:3 tells us:But the Lord Badger had no fear of them, and bade them approach, that He might share a...
    GiantBadgerDisciple GiantBadgerDisciple 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2013

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    Well, time to get this out.

    I have no where else to turn to and I feel as if the community here might be of some help to me through this ordeal. I have been with my current boyfriend for nearly two years now. We are in a loving, caring relationship, something that I haven't had for ages. In truth, I had...
    PinkLittleCherry PinkLittleCherry 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    Out of all the people who could have

    ripped me to shreds, why on Earth did it have to be you ?
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Ok so what happened was I use to date this guy

    named Chase on the xbox.At first I thought he was nice and all.so one day Chase told his cousin Tylor to friend me on xbox.So I thought Tylor was my friend and we started texting and I told him that I was dating Chase so he asked chase and Chase denied dating me so Tylor thought...
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