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I Was Betrayed

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    Why It's Not Worth It To Have Friends.

    I was just recently betrayed by a close friend. She and I are co-workers in the same department and we both hate our job and try to find a new one constantly. Recently my friends sister told her she and another girl we work with should apply for a position she was hiring for at...
    GlitterQueenXO GlitterQueenXO 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Betrayal Hurts!!

    So this is what leads me to this site! A month ago i started dating this guy i met in November last year. We met at a sport event, nothing happened until July this year. We started seeing each other and we slept together on the first night we hang out. Everything was fine until i...
    tjers tjers 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    I feel betrayed, ****** over,

    hurt... Fragile. I partnered up with my friend to do a project. We split it half and half.. I do my part of the project which is to track a video for physics then all she had to do was fill out the poster which was simple to do because I was going to send her the video through...
    michellexoa michellexoa 16-17, F Dec 14, 2013

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    I Pity The Fool!

    Yes I did use that as my title but it perfectly fits what I feel about this girl. I used to have a friend a really good friend from high school. As soon as I took off to college, she changed. She became manipulative, arrogant, rude, hypocritical, two-faced and played victim in...
    thebookaholic thebookaholic 18-21, F Sep 7, 2013

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    My Lover Betrayed Me

     i met a wonderful man 3 yrs ago on the net i thought he was everything and i thought i was his everything how wrong i am ive just checked hie e-mails and found out hes joined a dating site and hes been writing to an old girlfriend and hes also confessed his dying love for...
    ladylove123 ladylove123 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Worthless 2010.09.09

    When I saw the pictures and the video I lost all the blood in my limbs, a draining. I stared for a moment, but I am at work and didn't want to risk showing it to anyone. My heart feels...strange, twisted in two knots. I am extremely sad. I couldn't believe she would keep cheating...
    DeeplyParalegal DeeplyParalegal 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Broken Trust!

    I have never thought this would happen to me again.. I have never betrayed anyone. I entrusted my husband to our worker thinking that he would be a great help for her in the school but little did i know that what they were fixing is a soon to be good hidden relationship...ugh..
    janerrol janerrol 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    disturbed grandma

    I have been and continue to be betrayed by my Grandmother. The only reason I even have her in my life is because my parents don't have it together financially, and she is financially stable and opened her home to my mother and me. It all started in childhood. I was sexually...
    jasminecg311 jasminecg311 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2013

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    Hard to Say

    I've been betrayed by almost every girl i've been with save 4. It's very disheartening and it takes alot to keep trust alive.
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 10, 2007

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    Tonight I Was Reminded

    I was reminded of why I cant trust you. Your lips speak nothing but lies. Your eyes set to kill. I loved you for 2 years and gave you my all but you still went to that party and you still screwed him. I hope trading my trust was worth the quick ****.
    SocialRomance SocialRomance 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Dear A.

    Dear A. I remember when I first met you...I was fifteen in high school, you were twenty-one married. I met you and your wife on the same day. Later I joined the school where you happened to work in. I trained under your tutelage and I wanted to get better. You would stay with...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    I Feel Like An Idiot.

    I'm always finding myself being betrayed by others, especially those who I considered close to me.Each and every time that I think I have learned my lesson in trusting my friends or family, It happens all over again. One day I'm just going to say **** it and shut everybody out.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2012

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    I Thought He Was Different

    I thought he was different that he wasn't like the rest. That he acutely cared how felt but I gusse I was wrong I saw him that night kissing my best friend my heart shatters into a million pieces all they did was glance at me and continued I thought I was going to die hat my...
    Misty567 Misty567 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Whirlwind

    I was in a whirlwind romance that lead to a very short marriage, I should have known better. This could be an extraordinarily long or a very short one, all depends on how much I want to admit to how gullible I became. I will keep this short then. The last time I saw my ex-wife...
    NeoZen NeoZen 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    When Karma Strikes Back.

    4 years ago my best friend betrayed me in the worst possible way and now, karma has finally come back and kicked her in the ***. I may have posted something about this friend before in this group but I'm going to to relay what I posted in my previous story in case you didn't...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Burning Poetry

    I have been betrayed by every single person that I have ever cared about in my life. I know deep down that it is not normal for someone you love and says they love you to betray you. Sometimes I wonder if its my own fault for caring too deeply or being too naive. Maybe its...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F Dec 10, 2011

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    I was betrayed by this very site.

    A warning to anyone in a marriage/relationship. Some time last fall, my wife was becoming increasingly more distant; and displaying suspicious behavior. She changed her email password, and the PIN on her iPhone (something she never used to do). Over the last few months it...
    skoidat82 skoidat82 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Betrayed

    My story is classic. I started an affair with this married man. He was charming but he lied from the very beginning. I just was taken in by this man. I have continued to stay with him. But his alcohol abuse is destroying our relationship. He could careless cause he wants to...
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    My Husband Left Me After Two Months of Marriage

    I got married in January this year.  At the end of March I read one of my husband's emails from a woman in the US.  I am in Australia.  It was full of 'love' and intimacy.  I was shocked and confronted him.  He said she was a friend.  Then, one week...
    quarkgirl quarkgirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Still In Shock Of The Betrayal By Someone I Truly Loved

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Why does everyone betray me what have I done to

    deserve all this backstabbing? Even my own sister I'm just a quiet kid who minds her own business. Honestly why why must I go through this torture....I'm sorry for whatever I did but you could at least have the decency to say you don't like me to my face instead of this mask you...
    jojowillsaveyou jojowillsaveyou 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    That'S What I Get

    During my childhood, I used to read and study religious Books. Since that time, I have always behaved well, never cheated anyone, always tried to speak truth, been gentle to everyone, even kept relations with people who insulted me or been rude with me. I am not thinking of good...
    MrRaziel MrRaziel 31-35, M Feb 5, 2013

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    They bend it "we didn't want to hurt you'' they

    twist it ''you pushed me to this"" They misuse it and abuse it ... but they never change the truth "I was betrayed and stepped on''
    isimsiz isimsiz 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Once From Someone Very Special

    I saved their life when they wanted to die I wiped their tears away when they cried I put a smile on their face when they were sad I guided them to the light at the end of the tunnel I offered help when they did not know what to eat I gave strengh when they were abused by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    Have You Any Idea?

    After being raped repeatedly by a guy who was 4 years my seniour, [all i needed was a support system, a wise word, a friend (parents got divorced and i shouldered the blame unintentionally)], i felt like a worthless piece of meat, hell, i eventually enjoyed it i guess... ****!! I...
    mickey159 mickey159 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Violation of Social Contract

     Everyone has been “betrayed” by someone, whether it’s broken promises from parents or a complex web of deceit concocted by a perpetrator. The motivation of the person who abandons the presumptive confidence you gave them, both puzzles and repulses me. I...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2007

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    My Wife Betrayed Me

    It is so hard to love somebody so much and find out about there betrayal i have been with my wife for fifteen years and we have two adorable children together we have struggled as low income urners and then have worked together to build not one house but two houses together i...
    hard2cope hard2cope 31-35 3 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    Betrayed By A Whole Community

    I was recently diagnosed with BPD when I checked myself into a mental hospital. I got out this past Friday after spending just over a month there. What lead to my going there was I was so close to killing myself as I went from having it all to being homeless and threatened to...
    NUFECHK NUFECHK 46-50, F Nov 21, 2013

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    The funny thing about betrayal is it hardly

    never comes from your enemies rather the people who are close to your heart.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    A Best Friends Betryal

    About 4 years ago my best friend betrayed me. I know it's silly to still think about it and it's not like I spend time pining away my time thinking about it, but ever since my best friend and I split I haven't been able to make any real friends. I have become a loner and it...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2011

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    Betrayed

    When I first met my husband, 9 years ago we decided that we did'nt want any more kids because we were just "having fun" and we both just got out of a divorce, and we have 3 kids from those prior relationships. Together, we decided that one of us should get "fixed" so we wouldn't...
    Chubdee Chubdee 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Four Years Later I Found Out It Was All A Lie...

    I met him when I was 20, still at Uni - and it was love at first sight. It was butterflies and holding hands instantaneously. We were joined at the hip from the day we met, the next day he told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend, I felt like it was a dream. That...
    luering luering 22-25, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Me As Well

    I feel so so lost ! After 7 years of happiness I found my husband is having an affair.... . Never in a million years did I think something like that was coming my way. What I thought he was looking up to, now I've learnt he does not even care about. I was being "us" for...
    pure pure 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    Betrayal

    So, yesterday, my friend Will told me his girlfriend cuts, so I decided that I'd put a stop to it. Or atleast talk to her about it... She's a friend to me, after all. So, in French, I asked her about her cutting, and she admitted to me she does. Me being myself, I asked her...
    sonoflopez sonoflopez 13-15, M Mar 16, 2013

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    Well, time to get this out.

    I have no where else to turn to and I feel as if the community here might be of some help to me through this ordeal. I have been with my current boyfriend for nearly two years now. We are in a loving, caring relationship, something that I haven't had for ages. In truth, I had...
    PinkLittleCherry PinkLittleCherry 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    A Lot

    It seemed like anyone I was ever close to when I was growing up betrayed and/or abandoned me in some way..  By the time I was actually an adult I trusted no one, nor had any plans to.. For a lot of years I played it safe, and kept my walls up, and was unhappy.. Then I...
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    Betrayal...it's Not Nice....

    No matter the type of relationship, be it romantic, friendly, or between parent and child, an essential ingredient is trust. Trust defines every interaction in a relationship, it builds intimacy and it strengthens bonds. Without trust no relationship can thrive. Unfortunately...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 28 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    Ok, I am going through a divorce I never saw

    coming. Been about a month and a half nownd I was just gathering myself when coming home from spring break with my 2young daughters 9 and 10 and find out the wife has been cheating on me but he had a heart attack and died. What the heck do you say to that!?!?!?!? I am sorry...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Quotes That May Express Your Feelings Of Different Way From Betrayal

    If you only knew what I felt for you, you would have held on tighter, Fought a little harder, been a little smarter. And one day soon you'll see, you'll reach out for me. Boy you had a keeper, didn't know how to treat her. Should have dug a little deeper. But now you're gonna...
    Thyrza92 Thyrza92 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2011

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    A Letter To You

    To: The boy who ruined everything. From: The girl who has everything ruined. I was only 13 years old in middle school. I hadn't even had my first kiss yet! We have known each other since we did acting together years ago, why did you do this to me? You acted like you were my...
    Whalegirl Whalegirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Is Moving On From Betrayal Possible?

    I was cheated on; i don't know how or if i can truly get over the pain of it. it happened about half a year back my girlfriend and I where going through kind of a rough patch. I had trouble trusting her because she is one of those people who keep everything to themselves and won...
    alezac alezac 18-21, M 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed....

    Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad Soldiers to His place of recumbentcy. Thembagoshuns 1:3 tells us:But the Lord Badger had no fear of them, and bade them approach, that He might share a...
    GiantBadgerDisciple GiantBadgerDisciple 26-30 2 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    Constantly

    My mom chose her boyfriend over me when I was younger I had to live with my best friend's family. That same 14 yr best friend left me for new friends during the 2 yrs I lived with her and her family. My boyfriend of 4 years left me even after we've both hurt each other so much...
    deathgirl666 deathgirl666 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    Grieving,Married,Betrayed And In Love. Maybe Expecting Another Mans Child......

    Hello, I'm 31 years old I'm the 3rd in a line of same names. I been planning my entire life to name my first son the fourth. I found out around 18-19 or so I would have great difficulty having children, he went on to emphasize that I would probably need the aid of medicine to...
    thegoa thegoa 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    My trust was betrayed by

    who I thought was my best friend. I had told her that I was homo a few days earlier. She was the first friend that I had ever told, so it was a big step for me. Not even a week passes by and she had told 4 other people. she told 2 of my other best friends, a more neutral friend...
    NotTheRealMe99 NotTheRealMe99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Out of all the people who could have

    ripped me to shreds, why on Earth did it have to be you ?
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    A Different Kind Of Betrail

    I was betrayed by my "best friend". Now I put best friend in quotations because I thought she was my best friend. I trusted her and now I don't know what to do with her. I will start from the beginning. We met in high school she was a year older than me, and we became best...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 1, 2013

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    Im So Lost :/

    With every thing going on in my life i wasnt paying much attention to my boyfriend :/ and well we spent saturday together went to the mall with some friends it was nice after that we went back to one of his mate's house coz his parents were somewhere and every one was drinkin...
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F Nov 25, 2012

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    I Trusted A Girl And Just Got Wrecked

    i dont know what to say but i ruined my every relationship put everything on stake for and final got betrayed by her, just dont wanna live i wish death every moment, even think of suicide but some control myself.
    vishalbhadwaj21 vishalbhadwaj21 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Heart Of A Wounded Woman....

    He was the father of my children, the watchman (pastor) of my soul. But he lied, and spoke words that would haunt me to this day. The pain cut so very deep that over time it would reshape my life forever. Wounds do heal, but memories last a life time....
    Ladyis1 Ladyis1 51-55, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Friend?

    The measure of a good friend is standing by your side, not only when you reach rock bottom, but also when they do. It's easy promoting your character when nothing's at stake. Words are free, after all. No one's perfect and I don't look for perfection. But claiming to have my back...
    guiltybyassociation guiltybyassociation 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    By The Closest Person Alive....

    This was a horrible betrayal and it rocked my world.  This is causing a lot of confusion, hurt and pain inside of me.  Not only did this hurt me, now it is bringing up everything I have ever gone through in my life.  It reminds me of a lot of things that I tried to...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2010

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    You never loved me. You prove it each time .

    .You praise my @ss then when u don't get what u want. You return to making me feel like shjt...You have developed multiple techniques to do so..Including talking about how great you will do with me and after this ended. How happy you will be and how i never was the one..But...
    isimsiz isimsiz 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    My history is catching up,

    a girl from my past. She told one ******* lie, and my life turned to ash. I was thrown out on the curb so ******* reason, but there were my family so I guess this is treason. Remember the spot? I was chained to life, and anger was all I felt. But I won't admit to the lie, I'll...
    DrugStorePoet DrugStorePoet 18-21, M Mar 11

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    If They Only Knew ...

    .... how much effort it takes for me to open up, to trust, to love, to let love in ... If they knew, would they dismiss me so easily? without warning? without the trough? It takes years for me to go through grieving the ones I have lost. In this fast track place called the...
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 18, 2008

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all...
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