I Was Betrayed

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    By The Closest Person Alive....

    This was a horrible betrayal and it rocked my world.  This is causing a lot of confusion, hurt and pain inside of me.  Not only did this hurt me, now it is bringing up everything I have ever gone through in my life.  It reminds me of a lot of things that I tried to...
    compulsion2 compulsion2
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2010

    Betrayal...it's Not Nice....

    No matter the type of relationship, be it romantic, friendly, or between parent and child, an essential ingredient is trust. Trust defines every interaction in a relationship, it builds intimacy and it strengthens bonds. Without trust no relationship can thrive. Unfortunately...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002
    46-50, F
    25 Responses Apr 5, 2010

    I have been betrayed!

    !!! Oh have I been betrayed!!! Used to have parents that were my friends of my daughters girlfriends as she was growing up... At my weakest moments... I have MS along with 10 other diseases... It was the end of my daughters 4th grade year...she's a sophomore this I year...so a...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

    Betrayed By A Whole Community

    I was recently diagnosed with BPD when I checked myself into a mental hospital. I got out this past Friday after spending just over a month there. What lead to my going there was I was so close to killing myself as I went from having it all to being homeless and threatened to...
    46-50, F
    Nov 21, 2013

    I Just Feel Sad

    After 9 years of marriage my 44 year old husband has taken a 19 year old girlfriend with 2 kids!!! I am older then him and thats the hard part for me he always promised he would take care of me and now thats a joke. I'm so sad because I don't believe he ever loved me! I took care...
    preciousdesi preciousdesi
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2008

    In my entire life all i got is 'Betrayal'

    Saddest part is that betrayal cones from the people you know and you adore them I got 4 betrayals in my life (from my besties) i thought of making an online friend , i made. I told her all my problems , i trusted her , she meant the world to me bc she saved me from my dark...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    It's happened so many times

    that I can't think of any one experience to relate. Suffice it to say, betrayal starts with a lie.
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    Grieving,Married,Betrayed And In Love. Maybe Expecting Another Mans Child......

    Hello, I'm 31 years old I'm the 3rd in a line of same names. I been planning my entire life to name my first son the fourth. I found out around 18-19 or so I would have great difficulty having children, he went on to emphasize that I would probably need the aid of medicine to...
    thegoa thegoa
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

    by everyone I always was,

    I don't trust anyone anymore . I don't want to I will always be betrayed.
    Thewingedwolfserpent Thewingedwolfserpent
    56-60, M
    Feb 14, 2016

    Experience life in all possible ways —

    good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Forgiving does not erase the memory of bitter past.a healed memory is not a deleted memory.the only source of knowledge is experience.From the age of 13 people around me have mostly been bad.people around me tried to dump me...
    stallionblack stallionblack
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2015
    conniee3 conniee3
    22-25, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    We planned our lives together.

    We were going to get married. I supported him financially and emotionally. And after 7 years he cheats on me with some random girl. Why. WHY. How could he be so disrespectful to me and to us. How did I not see what an ******* he was before this happened. The worst part is I...
    theresawallis theresawallis
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    After much consideration I have decided I

    simply cannot forgive so I've taken off my wedding ring . We are over
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal
    41-45, F
    17 Responses May 12, 2014

    My mom framed me for an arrest.

    She's been a drug addict for most of my life. I've been unaware of this since recently, I just always thought she was crazy. She uses prescription adderall and smokes pot. She's verbally abused me and manipulated me for most of my life. She's turned me against my own father. She...
    ponyprincess2003 ponyprincess2003
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    Worthless 2010.09.09

    When I saw the pictures and the video I lost all the blood in my limbs, a draining. I stared for a moment, but I am at work and didn't want to risk showing it to anyone. My heart feels...strange, twisted in two knots. I am extremely sad. I couldn't believe she would keep cheating...
    DeeplyParalegal DeeplyParalegal
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2011
    iamdeedz iamdeedz
    31-35, M
    Jul 21, 2014

    This person kept accusing me of hating them.

    It went on for months. Then suddenly they confessed that they actually hated me. I tried so hard to please them, to prove that I couldn't possibly hate them. He told me tonight that I can't be mad that he resents me so much, since it was so noble of him to tell me the truth...
    FaeFamous FaeFamous
    26-30, F
    Feb 10, 2015

    Hah somehow this thing is like my only best

    friend.. Its always happening over and over again duh .. Why ?? What did i do ?
    Unstableteen Unstableteen
    16-17, F
    Aug 25, 2014

    My kids dad poured our secrets out to a girl he

    was screwing but says he didn't and fights with me when I confront him, I'm so confused and hurt!
    humbledJo humbledJo
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    Have You Any Idea?

    After being raped repeatedly by a guy who was 4 years my seniour, [all i needed was a support system, a wise word, a friend (parents got divorced and i shouldered the blame unintentionally)], i felt like a worthless piece of meat, hell, i eventually enjoyed it i guess... ****!! I...
    mickey159 mickey159
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 14, 2012
    ButtahCrunch ButtahCrunch
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2015

    My Husband Left Me After Two Months of Marriage

    I got married in January this year.  At the end of March I read one of my husband's emails from a woman in the US.  I am in Australia.  It was full of 'love' and intimacy.  I was shocked and confronted him.  He said she was a friend.  Then, one week...
    quarkgirl quarkgirl
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Jul 5, 2009

    I don't trust people often,

    but when I do I seem to keep trusting the wrong people. Maybe I should just stop all together. Maybe I will.
    CleverName94 CleverName94
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    Ok so what happened was I use to date this guy

    named Chase on the xbox.At first I thought he was nice and all.so one day Chase told his cousin Tylor to friend me on xbox.So I thought Tylor was my friend and we started texting and I told him that I was dating Chase so he asked chase and Chase denied dating me so Tylor thought...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 13, 2014

    Love letter from my broken heart.

    .. When I met you, you were the kindest person Id ever met. You saw the mess I was and embraced it. You saw behind the sad eyes and accepted me. We went through an unimaginable loss and then starting over to rebuild our family. We had our bumps, and there were quite a few. But...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    Does the pain ever go away.

    When someone betrays you, does it get better? Does life ever get normal again... I can't stop being sad... I wanna be happy again
    lovingherxoxo lovingherxoxo
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    The Deciever- I had this real close friend

    online who I talked to often and I thought I knew her and trusted her but then she turned out to be a lying, double-crossing, two-timing troll. She only wanted to laugh at me.
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    When Karma Strikes Back.

    4 years ago my best friend betrayed me in the worst possible way and now, karma has finally come back and kicked her in the ***. I may have posted something about this friend before in this group but I'm going to to relay what I posted in my previous story in case you didn't...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2011

    Dear A.

    Dear A. I remember when I first met you...I was fifteen in high school, you were twenty-one married. I met you and your wife on the same day. Later I joined the school where you happened to work in. I trained under your tutelage and I wanted to get better. You would stay with...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2013

    My covers and I have been through a lot

    together. They have protected me from ghosts, thunder, and the sun when the curtains are slightly open. There have been close calls and tough times but the one friend I thought I could trust let me down, it seems nothing can protect you from the tickle monster >.<
    DarkChocolate242 DarkChocolate242
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    Hard to Say

    I've been betrayed by almost every girl i've been with save 4. It's very disheartening and it takes alot to keep trust alive.
    Xeno Xeno
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2007
    manjularosi29 manjularosi29
    22-25, F
    Mar 13, 2015

    It's not why I was betrayed

    or what it was about it's the fact that I was betray by someone I trusted so dearly that matters to me
    renguard renguard
    18-21, M
    Aug 9, 2014

    I hate when i feel like this,

    this is one reason i dont have dont have friends, no body understand my pain. Im loyal and i think about other instead of myself....i help people but why no help me. I always pick myself up. I have anger issue that will make me say thing i will regrets. I give the time. Being...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 28, 2015

    She invited me over "to fix her computer.

    " Over and over she invited me over, and we'd sit and talk, and sometimes I'd hug her or rub her shoulders, but she wouldn't let me kiss her again. I told her I loved her. Oh how I wish I hadn't. But I thought she was a professional. An Analyst. Turns out she couldn't control...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    3 Years Later I Still Hurt

    I met him on a dating site shortly after graduation from nursing school and he seemed to be a potentially stabilizing force. He was laid back, kind and totally about me. He jumped at the chance to spend time with me whenever he was could, asked to meet my child and set up a lunch...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2012

    So like three months ago,

    this girl that used to be our friend tried to break my man and I up. We found this out by her close friend that she has been trying to break us up for three years since she found out that I was the girl my man is dating. It was because she was jealous. When he and I broken up...
    rockerchick9000 rockerchick9000
    26-30, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    The Giant Badger Himself Was Once Betrayed....

    Indeed, He was resting by the River Shashnorgarmagor, when His own disciple, the traitorous Lumloydo, did direct a legion of Bad Soldiers to His place of recumbentcy. Thembagoshuns 1:3 tells us:But the Lord Badger had no fear of them, and bade them approach, that He might share a...
    GiantBadgerDisciple GiantBadgerDisciple
    1 Response Apr 27, 2013

    It's Thee Oness Youu Lovee Thee Mostt Whoo Cann

    Liftt Youu In An Instantt, Andd Destroyy Youu Withoutt Tryinn ...
    conniee3 conniee3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    .The guy i lost my virginity to went on a show

    called "MTV's losing it" and told the story of taking my virginity. And kind of bragged about it. He made it sound really bad and like we were s-lutty strangers. i actually hate him. he has his own tv show too called careless teens where he does stupid stuff like staple him ear...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Hii, all.. M new in EP.

    Have found myself being betrayed for long 3 years. I am a lesbian. The girl I was engaged with happened to be straight. Still she continued dating me and her boyfriend simultaneously. Feel exploited in every possible way..
    Sriporna7 Sriporna7
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014


    The measure of a good friend is standing by your side, not only when you reach rock bottom, but also when they do. It's easy promoting your character when nothing's at stake. Words are free, after all. No one's perfect and I don't look for perfection. But claiming to have my back...
    guiltybyassociation guiltybyassociation
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2011
    conniee3 conniee3
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2015

    Tonight I Was Reminded

    I was reminded of why I cant trust you. Your lips speak nothing but lies. Your eyes set to kill. I loved you for 2 years and gave you my all but you still went to that party and you still screwed him. I hope trading my trust was worth the quick ****.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jun 17, 2012

    Heart Of A Wounded Woman....

    He was the father of my children, the watchman (pastor) of my soul. But he lied, and spoke words that would haunt me to this day. The pain cut so very deep that over time it would reshape my life forever. Wounds do heal, but memories last a life time....
    Ladyis1 Ladyis1
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    Yesterday I was betrayed by the one person I

    thought I could always trust . It's quite painful to know that I can't trust anyone .
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal
    41-45, F
    25 Responses May 9, 2014

    Once From Someone Very Special

    I saved their life when they wanted to die I wiped their tears away when they cried I put a smile on their face when they were sad I guided them to the light at the end of the tunnel I offered help when they did not know what to eat I gave strengh when they were abused by...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jan 13, 2009

    A Lot

    It seemed like anyone I was ever close to when I was growing up betrayed and/or abandoned me in some way..  By the time I was actually an adult I trusted no one, nor had any plans to.. For a lot of years I played it safe, and kept my walls up, and was unhappy.. Then I...
    rockyj rockyj
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2010

    A Best Friends Betryal

    About 4 years ago my best friend betrayed me. I know it's silly to still think about it and it's not like I spend time pining away my time thinking about it, but ever since my best friend and I split I haven't been able to make any real friends. I have become a loner and it...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2011
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    A Letter To You

    To: The boy who ruined everything. From: The girl who has everything ruined. I was only 13 years old in middle school. I hadn't even had my first kiss yet! We have known each other since we did acting together years ago, why did you do this to me? You acted like you were my...
    Whalegirl Whalegirl
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2012

    That'S What I Get

    During my childhood, I used to read and study religious Books. Since that time, I have always behaved well, never cheated anyone, always tried to speak truth, been gentle to everyone, even kept relations with people who insulted me or been rude with me. I am not thinking of good...
    MrRaziel MrRaziel
    36-40, M
    Feb 5, 2013

    I've made mistakes and I have been forgiven by

    my friends, children, most of my family. I have forgiven many, including my ex wife, who did betray me. My sister has not talked to me since 2005. I have a nephew I have never met. I have one niece in college and one graduating high school. I have not been able to speak to...
    Onewithone Onewithone
    46-50, M
    Mar 3, 2015

    Violation of Social Contract

     Everyone has been “betrayed” by someone, whether it’s broken promises from parents or a complex web of deceit concocted by a perpetrator. The motivation of the person who abandons the presumptive confidence you gave them, both puzzles and repulses me. I...
    umathena umathena
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 11, 2007
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