I Was Cheated On By My Boyfriend

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    he's cheated on me about 4 times in four years

    1st time - while I was pregnant he would drop me off at home and go to another girls house and tell her all the terrible things about our relationship they kissed . once I found out all she could say was that he was the one leading her on. all he could say is that he felt...
    cnenicole2014 cnenicole2014
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    when i was 16 i was kind of going through a

    rough phase until i met this guy and he really helped me out. soon i developed romantic attraction towards him and we started dating. he was the first guy that i dated that treated me well. or so i thought. after about 6 months of dating i started hearing rumours from people...
    MaryFlowers MaryFlowers
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    and what made it worse was he told me I was the

    only one he cared about, yet would have sex with other women and not even try and hide the fact, some were even good girl friends of mine, so glad I'm done with him!
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    I was with a guy for nearly a year

    and he was so great to me for the longest time. I thought I had a great guy, he was so protective of me... but then near the end he would sneak around with other girls. Never cheating but he would lie about it as if more was happening. He ended up breaking up with me and then...
    monicataylor monicataylor
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Well, we were together

    for 3 years and almost 3 months. When he told me "we should broke up", I didn't understand why. That was the last thing I ever could imagine in the world, my worst nightmare, and it happened, just like that. He told me he didn't love me anymore, but I loved him. And that was...
    JessicaOchoa JessicaOchoa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl we work

    with. Our relationship was rocky and we broke up before I realised he had cheated. I then found out he had cheated and he went out with her for a month. After about 6 months apart we decided to give it another go and he has changed completely. He treats me well and shows me...
    LonelyGirl8826 LonelyGirl8826
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    it was a couple years ago

    but I'm not over it. he cheated on me and I felt it, long story short I left him but I still feel the damage he did to me every day, he changed my life and my perspective on love. I don't wanna get back with him, I just wanna make him pay for making me the person I am today.
    woshsg woshsg
    22-25, F
    Dec 23, 2015

    Well , it was my first real relationship.

    I was only 14 and loved him. With all my heart.. while he cheated on me. Behind my back. with 8 girls. all at the same time..
    AshIsNotOnFire AshIsNotOnFire
    18-21, F
    Dec 11, 2015

    I was only twelve, thought it was a cute little

    relationship in middle school but argh.
    maddieexo maddieexo
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    i get these intuitions

    and then i find out im rite when i go threw his phone and find him messaging and responding to craigslist adds to other girls and guys. ill always love him but clearly this is gotten out of hand
    epain33 epain33
    26-30, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    I got out of a relationship of three years,

    I was heartbroken. I met this new guy, who seemed to just take all the pain away instantly. I fell so hard, we dated for 2 and 1/2 years, we graduated high school together went to prom together, spent basically every single day and night with each other. Always by each others...
    Jessmacdow Jessmacdow
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2015
    FloraCC FloraCC
    36-40, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    This Christmas is gonna be weird without him.

    But he wasn't much support last Christmas. I guess he'll be getting her Christmas presents this year. Last year he got me one. I'll survive.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    Me and my (ex)boyfriend would go to parties a

    lot. When I'm drunk, i can keep my balance and have control over myself. When he's drunk, he can not. The first time he cheated on me if when i saw him kissing with another girl infront of me... He promised to never do it again. The second time i found him in bed with another...
    EmilySwitzerland EmilySwitzerland
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I

    loved so much. It was a long time since I opened my heart up to somebody and told myself to completely go for it. I saw him the first time in February and saw him the second time this month. The second day I was there I read a conversation he had with a friend on Facebook...
    Marries Marries
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2014

    Five times he cheated.

    And then he left me and is engaged less than a month later. And even after everything I'm so in love with him. And i'm afraid I will be weak enough to go back to him if his engagement fails...
    jvee18 jvee18
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    I was cheated on by my ex,

    I had this 30 year old women messaging me telling me that she was going to come to my house and kill me, and that she was going to set my house on fire, turns out it was the other woman he was seeing at the same time! I spoke to my ex and he denied the whole thing, I couldn't...
    Carliew Carliew
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    He's posting ads on Craigslist

    for m4w. Swears it's out of boredom and that no one is real on there. Do people actually hook up on Craigslist?
    gphillips gphillips
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 7

    Not only did he cheat on me

    but he led to me about SEVERAL things. So, imagine you're at Chipotle and all of a sudden your dude tells you, "Oh by the way, I have a baby on the way. My ex is pregnant"............ epic wtf face. And then like two weeks later, you look through his phone and find out...
    BullSheep BullSheep
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    Thanks guys for your advices.

    My boyfriend and I finally broke up. I'm heartbroken but I'll work my way out of this mess.
    Psar Psar
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2015

    Let me just say that I hate it

    when girls whine about their relationships anywhere online lol, it's something that should be done in private or over drinks with a friend at the most. But shucks, let's give it a one time shot! (Ignore mah typos) My boyfriend of 2 yrs and I recently moved in together, we are...
    wino4life wino4life
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    This just happened a week ago today,

    my boyfriend doesn't have any idea that I caught him in the act. I've been giving excuses as to why I've been to busy to be around him. The other part of this, that hurts even more, I'm having to treat my best friend the same way. She was the one that I caught him with, normally...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 6, 2015

    I walked in on my boyfriend having sex with my

    room mate. I have no idea what I should do. I want to go home and tell my mom about It but I'm scared she won't want me and not care. I need help. Should I go home or should I stay at college.
    Hollyhh Hollyhh
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 9

    My boyfriend went out drinking with his buddies

    and called me from the bathroom of a ***** club to tell me how much he loved me and about a cute Asian girl named Emily. He then ended up in Emily's room at 4 am and supposably kissed her and touched her all over. He told me the next day and begged me for my forgiveness and said...
    Sh318y Sh318y
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2014
    Rhiannacollison101 Rhiannacollison101
    13-15, F
    Apr 11

    I still keep going round to his.

    He still hugs me and tells me he loves me. I helped him buy jeans yesterday, jeans his new Jewish women will probably comment on. As if jdate is not enough he's on Tinder?!? I hate him and love him and hate him and love him and hate him. I really need to get him out of my...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    i was with him for 9 months

    and he cheated on me for 6, its the first time in a long time i let someone in and fell in love, now i cant eat without feeling sick, or sleep without having nightmares of all the reasons he never loved me, all my insecurities come out in these nightmares!
    raani95 raani95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    I'm feeling much better

    now that I'm focusing on myself... Mind body and soul. Maybe this was the heartache I needed to make sure I focus on what's really important... Loving myself first before I can love a man. I'm working out, praying more, and spending time with family and friends. There's TRUE...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    ...but I Didn't Leave Him.

    We were engaged... he cheated on me with an old fling... we didn't break up and I'm not always sure whether that was the right decision.  We're supposed to get married next fall.  I've forgiven him for having sex with her... it's the lying that just kills me and re...
    Chanteuse1984 Chanteuse1984
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 6, 2007

    So, I know I was naive,

    but I guess that was my own fault. I met this guy while I was on vacation in the summer. He seemed really sweet and funny and kind. He asked for my number, we spent the week hanging out together and then I went home. We literally talked and facetimed for literally several hours...
    RyannBentleigh98 RyannBentleigh98
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 1

    (Notice I changed all their names) During the

    beginning of my freshman year I had a best mate, Jen, that we did everything with. Her and I were never separated, soon, I found out she was bi-sexual as I was. We began to date but then decided that it was best we just stayed best mates, so we broke up. By this time we were...
    ReverseSmiles ReverseSmiles
    16-17, F
    Sep 3, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carinaccaa carinaccaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 1

    My boyfriend recently cheated on me with a girl,

    he has feelings for her,but he says he loves me. I asked him to choose between the 2 of us and he wasn't able to because the girl left her boyfriend for him and she has a heart problem. I love him but this hurts me, I trusted him until this and my trust for him is all gone. I...
    Psar Psar
    18-21, F
    24 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    I had a relationship

    when I was a bit younger... my first one. I never had friends so it was amazing for me to have someone finally. But one time we were at his place and were cuddling and watching a movie... he suddenly asked if I want to have some fun. He meant sexual fun. I said no because I...
    Miridia96 Miridia96
    16-17, F
    Sep 4, 2015
    marly8910 marly8910
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    I was upset and angry

    and someone slamed a gate on my arm and it had to be put in a sling😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
    Rhiannacollison101 Rhiannacollison101
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 11

    At 6 months pregnant my boyfriend began acting

    weird and kept insisting on setting up our new house (over an hour away) by himself. My paranoia led me to put a tracker on his phone, this tracker stored audio for every phone call, all his texts, pictures and even his location. Long story short, he ends up telling some chic to...
    Phoenix1612 Phoenix1612
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    My First Love

    Well it all started when I met this guy about three years ago, over the summer. He was really sweet, and easy to get along with, however, I never saw myself being in a relationship with him. As time went by, we spent more and more time together, and I began to fall for him! It...
    preppyblonde226 preppyblonde226
    16-17, F
    9 Responses Mar 10, 2006

    I was played big time!

    he seemed like a great guy... and I was so wrong!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    My boyfriends wants to make up with me

    after he told me that he likes and love someone else. There's also an anonymous stalker who message me about my boyfriend trying to destroy us. What will I do? I love him. Will it be okay if I will make up with him? πŸ˜”
    Luckyone14 Luckyone14
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    After 5 years together,

    I thought our life was finally coming together, our jobs, our new apartment. I always trusted him completely. I found an earring on his floorboards one night so I went through his phone. There were texts from multiple women. I was devastated. It has been over a year, we're still...
    Pupress85 Pupress85
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    My now ex boyfriend got mad at me on New Year's

    day because I did not text him. It wasn't a big deal but yet he kept telling me that I cheated even though it's not true and he has no proof. 3 days later he kept bugging me to separate his phone bill access because he is registered under my account. I started having doubts and...
    loveandmisadventure loveandmisadventure
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 9

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for going on 2 years and were about to have a baby. But last year around when we were 8 months he cheated on me with a friend of mine. They both had me looking dumb for a month till I found out the truth. I didn't know what to do I was going throo a depression during the time. I...
    Helpneedananswer Helpneedananswer
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    And It Only Proves...

    that he isn't worthy of dating me.  I have standards for whoever I date and in cheating on me, he failed them.  I think he was surprised that I wasn't angry when he told me and asked me not to leave him.  I told him that we could always be friends but I would not...
    SmokeScreen SmokeScreen
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 1, 2007

    Today, my boyfriend sat down with my mom to

    tell her everything that happened. He apologized and told her he felt that he betrayed not only me but everyone who cares about me. My mom accepted his apology and to my surprise was nice to him. He told her his plans to tell my dad and she actually told him it wasn't necessary...
    wino4life wino4life
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    Not going into all the details but,

    I wanted to surprise my boyfriend by going to see him when he thought I'd be at work. Walked his front door and caught him in the act of having sex with my (now former) best friend. They both were shocked to see me to say the least. I just yelled that they could have each other...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 8
    scar7136 scar7136
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2014

    He would never admit to it

    though I caught him literally in the act. I became bitter in a way but part of me wanted to work things out. I was convinced he was the one but I couldn't trust him after that. I broke things off & I remember all the amazing times we shared. I wish he hadn't been selfish. I wish...
    xonikkixoxx xonikkixoxx
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    I was with my ex for three years,

    since my senior year of high school. We go to separate colleges but we always made time to see each other. I was his first everything and he was my first real boyfriend. I don't love easy, so when I fell I love with him, I have him my whole heart. My first year of college, we...
    thirdsense thirdsense
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    It hurts. All i feel is pain,

    no, no words can describe it. I loved him. I was taught in the book of life, to always do unto others what you would want done to you. As i grew up, I am constantly, constantly exposed to the capability and harshness of humans. I always tried to look into a persons heart and see...
    itsjamieee itsjamieee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2015

    Little jerk cheated on my with my "friend" i

    beat them senseless before tossing them out
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2014

    I was with my boyfriend

    for almost 5 years. Always tried to be the best girl - tried to understand him, tried to do my best. but one day I checked his e-mail and he was chatting with one girl, telling how beautiful she is and how annoying i am.. it really broke my heart. we talked about it, i tried...
    foxymary foxymary
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    I was dating this guy I worked with.

    .. We started dating in April of this year. I finally said yes to being his girlfriend after I knew I was going to quit. I just did not want to deal with other judgement. Anyway we had sex; and he got me pregnant. I didn't know of this until after we broke up. We had broken up in...
    deniseee deniseee
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    I was cheated on by my boyfriend

    and what makes it worse is that he was the first boy i ever dated, my first boyfriend and he made me soo happy but when i found out he was cheating on me i was soo shocked and sad at the same time that i had no expression on my face but later i started to cry when i texted my...
    Ilonalip Ilonalip
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015
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