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I Was Cheated On By My Husband

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    My husband cheated on me about a year ago,

    he told me things to make me stay. I believed him, and stayed through my pain. A few times throughout the year I found out more lies and mainly about how long he had been perusing an affair. I finally explained to him how broken I really am from what he had done, he said he...
    yepthatsmylife yepthatsmylife 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 21

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    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    His Other Women

    I can barely bring myself to think the world mistress because that makes his cheating feel even more real. But I suppose that’s what she was. Ten years younger than me. He wasn't just attracted by her young body but by her "funny" and "interesting" personality. She's...
    WoundedLioness WoundedLioness 26-30 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I want to yell at the top of my lungs

    and never stop. Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish I could drown you in the rain of my tears. How could you do this after so many years. Please someone take my pain away. Don't think I...
    gem207 gem207 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    After 15 years of marriage my husband had a

    three month affair with a girl 16 years younger. he's my ex now and I hate him...he ruined my retirement from my job, he took all my money, and he's a big phony on his new Harley. he's messed my son up mentally. I keep waiting for karma to get him. I'd never take him back I'm...
    Amichi Amichi 41-45, F 2 Responses May 12

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    He'S A Douchebag

    I found out after 17 years of marriage (19 years together) that my sweet kind caring husband wasn't who he said he was. He had two affairs! One with my so called best friend after 2 years of being married and for the past year with his secretary. He also had online affairs and...
    sunburned sunburned 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Liar

    It was December 27 2006. A cousin I rarely see came over to visit with me and told me she had seen my husband at her obstetricians office with another woman. She said they were holding hands and laughing like a loving couple. I was positive it had to be a case of wrong...
    brightstar9m brightstar9m 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    My husband and I dated from 2000-2005

    when he left me for another woman that he had just met. She was wicked and manipulative and he bent to her whims by saying truly horrible and mean things to me such as " I never knew what love was until I met(sic) cuntface". The OW also told me about other times in the past five...
    kathos713 kathos713 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    My husband and I are still married,

    9years, been together 13. We have 2 beautiful children together and a year ago he moved out and in with a girl he works with who is more than 10 years younger. He never tried to see the kids, doesn't call them. Most days I am well and happy without him, knowing I'm probably...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 25

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    Cheated On While Pregnant

    hi.im 25 and when i was 4months pregnant i found out my partner of 4years was cheating on me with some one he worked with. we were over the moon when we found out we were having a baby,started making plans and reading all the baby books.like you do.then when i hit 3months my...
    ldm ldm 26-30, F 55 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    Pressures About Having An Abortion

    Hello I'm in my early twenties and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, but 3 months ago i found out through his Facebook messages  that he was cheating on me with another girl for over a year. He wouldn't admit anything, and he is still claims that there where just...
    ivv687 ivv687 22-25, F 11 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    How To Outsmart Your Cheating Husband

    We pace, we worry, we question, we call friends for advice. For what? WHAT IF HE IS CHEATING? You are getting yourself into a lather and emotionally you are driving yourself nuts. Well IF MEN ARE GOING TO THINK WITH THERE LITTLE HEADS, YOU HAVE TO STOP THINKING WITH YOUR HEART...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I just found out my husband has been cheating

    on me for the past year (as far as he has admitted, anyway). Various women, random hook ups, no reason other than "he wasn't thinking". I feel I could get passed it with less difficulty had it been one time, a weak human moment. But this was multiple people, more than enough...
    probablygoingtoregretthis probablygoingtoregretthis 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Almost 9 Months Pregnant and My Husband Cheated!

    I am almost 25 years old and was with my husband for almost 10 years.  We had been married for 2 years and I am almost 9 months pregnant.  In the begining of April of this year he all of a sudden had a need to go out with single guy friends that he just met.  He...
    Vic1030 Vic1030 21-25, F 12 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    My husband and I have been together

    for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got quite a strong personality and often raged over the slightest issue. To my surprise, I got to know that he's cheating on me with many...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts

    as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed. I began spending more time at school, more time studying, and he began spending more time at his important after work activity. (I don...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 18

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    Concerning Cheating Husbands!

    Dear ladies you are really really a good wife.If i am in your shoes i would kick him out and give him a black eye.If you want to make the marriage work, he has to do something.First, he has to work harder to support the family. Don't let him get away so easy spending your hard...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    I Have Been Betrayed

    My husband meet this person through his job. She lives in another state he told me about her early on because we share the same name. Their relationship turn into and emotional affair I am not sure when, but the text messages started around Thanksgiving this year. I didn't find...
    ifeellost714 ifeellost714 46-50 3 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    About a month after I married my current

    husband, I discovered many emails, Facebook messages, linkedin messages, and other links to messages to other women. They were very explicitly sexual in nature-propositioning and indicating the want for a "discreet" encounter. There were very blatant physical details in the...
    Susanrrhea Susanrrhea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    When I was 28 I married my husband Adam.

    He was smart and cute and we got along great. As time passed my husband seemed to grow board. This I didn't realize until when I was 33,the day I found out he was cheating on me. I was devastated and I was even more upset with myself. I then realized I needed to put in more...
    redhairlilly redhairlilly 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I've Been Nothing But A Loving And Supportive Wife And He Cheated On Me For 10 Years!

    I recently discovered my husband's multiple affairs over the last 10 years.We have been married for 30 years.We were high school sweet hearts.To others he seemed like a doting husband and many female friends and family members envied me.I had sensed he is not "all that into me...
    tornandlonely tornandlonely 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    I am a working mom and working overseas

    for the past 8 years. I tried to bring my daughter with me but she did not like the country where I work that's why she went back to our home country. I have been married for 11 years and did not have a problem until recently when me and my husband got separated because of...
    Lovingtoomuch Lovingtoomuch 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I found out after I separated from my husband

    that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our apartment. Apparently he talked her into teaching her to kiss, put his hand down her pants and they played truth or dare where he dared her her...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Weve been married 6 years

    and together for 8 and have two sons. But throughout the whole marriage i have at least found out about one woman for every year. He jus doesnt stop. Its always a cycle with him. He usually starts with ignoring me, always on his ipad or phone. Doesnt pay me much attn. Then...
    OnlyBeliever85 OnlyBeliever85 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I have been married to my husband

    for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was seven months pregnant with our daughter when I went into premature labor and she was stillborn. After that he pulled away and the...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 5

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    I cannot bring myself to get off the couch

    anymore. I have completely lost faith in everything. I don't much care to even take care of myself. Before the affair I was completely into fitness, crafts, the outdoors, now...nothing. I have no want need or desire to do anything for myself. I find no point in trying. Because...
    loathingnlost loathingnlost 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    Have no friends as I am sick

    and cant go anywhere!
    bethanys bethanys 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Today I found out my husband of 17 years has

    been hiring prostitutes for several months. I met him when I was 16 and now I'm completely lost.
    lilymonster lilymonster 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 30

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me ,

    I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my husband , I can't cope I cry all the time , he swears it's over was just a fling or midlife crisis but he's changed his number 3 times...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 29

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    so a year ago my husband cheated.

    I forgave him and moved on. he's given me several other reasons not to trust him so I created a fake Facebook page and he took the bait. I feel like I was wrong but I needed to know. I'm leaving him now but it hurts like hell
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 15

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    He Had An Affair And I Want Revenge!

    I won't bore you with all the details - so here are the highlights. >I suspected he was having an affair and confronted him. Of course, he denied it. This went on for 2 years until the other woman called me. It was also an attempt to get me to leave him since he wouldn't leave...
    Pray4change Pray4change 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I in all honesty have no family except my child

    , I got engaged with my boyfriend after 2 years on Christmas Eve an since then our relationship has sucked , he's fooled around , I went through his things and trust has been broken , atleast for me . He never wants to break up and he does try to be sweet but he tells his...
    sayumxo sayumxo 18-21, F Aug 20

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    I Gave Him Everything.

    He wasn't my type at all, when we first met. He was loud, arrogant, cocky and thought he was a bad mf. We were friends at first, but then I was able to see the side no one ever did. The sweet side who was vunerable and human. Like a fool, I fell in love hard. Harder then any...
    SoulSeeker23 SoulSeeker23 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

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    I just found out my husband has been going into

    x web site chatrooms starts talking to the girls then exchanges messenger ID's to private chat with them so he can tell them what he wants them to do while he watches. When he found out I was hurt and mad about it he told me that's what he likes to do and he didn't know what my...
    sundakat sundakat 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 16

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    Thoughts

    I have loved you so much. I know i am not the best wife or the nicest person. I do know there is no one else in the world who could love you more than i do. I wish we could erase this all From happening and from our memories. I want to be enough for you. I know I have let myself...
    lijohnson lijohnson 41-45, F Aug 1, 2013

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    I Forgive You Julian

    Julian, I hate what you have done to me. I hate that you betrayed my trust, my love, and our relationship. When I thought you told me you loved me I thought it was for me and me alone. I can't believe that you lied on me several times and had many adulterous affairs. All I ever...
    brea brea 21-25, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    Cheated On While Pregnant

    i was 6 months pregnant with our first child when my husband cheated on me or at least tried to cheat on me. we both work overseas but i had to come home to our country and he had to stay where we were so i could have our baby around family. while he was there he asked someone...
    mla1913 mla1913 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2013

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    My youngest (8) told me he can't wait

    for highschool. So he won't have to be near or live with the kids and mom (to whom was a neighbor "friend/acquaintance") that his dad has decided will move in with them. I feel bad. I also don't want them to live with or be near my kids either. I know them, I babysat them and...
    KindKTea KindKTea 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I just found out my husbands been cheating on

    me... I can honestly say it the worst feeling Iv every felt..
    jhoney21 jhoney21 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 25

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship

    for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each other everything. We had our ups and downs just like any other relationship. At the end of the day, we always had that love for each other. He...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    My Husband Betrayed Me

    First of all, i never get on forums like this or write about my problems on the internet. but i just feel like letting it all out. i dont want to tell my family so i will vent on here. My husband and i have been together for almost five years. i was married before and had one...
    anonymous2527 anonymous2527 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Cheated By The Person Who Says He Loves Me

    Ive been married for 3 years I found out this year in June that my husband was cheating on me with the mother of his daughter... I also have two kids with him... the day i found out was the day I died inside im still with him but the pain is there everyday... They way i found out...
    Honey88eyes Honey88eyes 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    After 9 years we finally got married.

    I was so excited! Then 2 months ago I found out that while we were engaged and our first 2 years of marriage were a lie. He was cheating on me with a w$ore online. I feel so betrayed! How do I get over this?
    khud126 khud126 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    My Husband Cheated

    I feel totally lost! So my husband met this girl on chat 2 years ago and started talking. I didnt think anything of it cause she didnt live close by. Well she was a mutual friend of a family member so they continued to talk and get to know each other. Well after a year and a half...
    meyermom3 meyermom3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Long story short, I found out about 9 months ago that my wife was cheating on me. I happened to go through her phone one day and found a pretty damning text message. She...
    donnie2419 donnie2419 31-35, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a senior in high school and have been with my bf for over a year. We met on fb. He's an odd duck with a warm heart and I'm kinda the same. Of course his heart must not be too...
    tjindigo tjindigo 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    By nine different women, I have been cheated on by nine different women, i fell for three of them and one I was going to propose to. I don't see a point to try any more.
    Silverwave2 Silverwave2 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    So few years ago now I was with a girl for 2 years and she had a kid with her ex. Well at first everything was all good for like the first 8 months and then she started hanging out...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    Only been married 6 months and found out a week after we got married that he had not stopped seeing a woman he called a casual for 2 years whilst we were together and living...
    tootrusting1 tootrusting1 51-55, F 6 Responses Dec 10

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    i dont think i can trust another girl again ever. i was with a girl for 4 years and she has lied several times every year and we kept breaking up and i kept letting her back in...
    GrayGeo GrayGeo 22-25 Dec 11

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    I was knowingly in love with my best friend for months, we finally dated, and our relationship progressed very quickly. Basically by the time I realized I was "hopelessly devoted...