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I Was Cheated On By My Husband

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts

    as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed. I began spending more time at school, more time studying, and he began spending more time at his important after work activity. (I don...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 15 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I also went through my last pregnancy very

    depressed. Our son was a surprise but a good one ! I was depressed my whole pregnancy my husband would not touch me I felt fat and ugly . Well come to find out his affair started June 2012 I got pregnate feb 2013 so he was already having the affair before we got pregnant and it...
    Ihatemen2 Ihatemen2 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I don't know what to do.

    I've been told that if I take my cheating husband back I'm just weak. He apparently introduced her to his mom and his older brother at some point in time. I think it was at his uncle's funeral. These terrible things just keep revealing themselves to me, and every time, my...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F Apr 16

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    My husband has been having a affair

    for 2 1/2 years . I have never felt pain like this in my life !! He is out of town every weekend for work and he met her there in the small town. After I found all the phone records it all came out he has ended it so he says . But he still has to be there in the same town every...
    Ihatemen2 Ihatemen2 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I found out after I separated from my husband

    that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our apartment. Apparently he talked her into teaching her to kiss, put his hand down her pants and they played truth or dare where he dared her her...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    My husband and I have been together

    for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got quite a strong personality and often raged over the slightest issue. To my surprise, I got to know that he's cheating on me with many...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    Where do I start? I'm 23

    and going through a divorce. I had been with my soon-to-be ex since I was 17 years old. The first time he left (yes I allowed him to do it twice) I was devastated. He made up this huge elaborate lie that I somehow believed, when in reality he was cheating. He came back, we fixed...
    kms2244 kms2244 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I want to yell at the top of my lungs

    and never stop. Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish I could drown you in the rain of my tears. How could you do this after so many years. Please someone take my pain away. Don't think I...
    gem207 gem207 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    After 15 years of marriage my husband had a

    three month affair with a girl 16 years younger. he's my ex now and I hate him...he ruined my retirement from my job, he took all my money, and he's a big phony on his new Harley. he's messed my son up mentally. I keep waiting for karma to get him. I'd never take him back I'm...
    Amichi Amichi 41-45, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    I just found out my husband has been cheating

    on me for the past year (as far as he has admitted, anyway). Various women, random hook ups, no reason other than "he wasn't thinking". I feel I could get passed it with less difficulty had it been one time, a weak human moment. But this was multiple people, more than enough...
    probablygoingtoregretthis probablygoingtoregretthis 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I Forgive You Julian

    Julian, I hate what you have done to me. I hate that you betrayed my trust, my love, and our relationship. When I thought you told me you loved me I thought it was for me and me alone. I can't believe that you lied on me several times and had many adulterous affairs. All I ever...
    brea brea 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    Cheated On While Pregnant

    hi.im 25 and when i was 4months pregnant i found out my partner of 4years was cheating on me with some one he worked with. we were over the moon when we found out we were having a baby,started making plans and reading all the baby books.like you do.then when i hit 3months my...
    ldm ldm 26-30, F 58 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    How To Outsmart Your Cheating Husband

    We pace, we worry, we question, we call friends for advice. For what? WHAT IF HE IS CHEATING? You are getting yourself into a lather and emotionally you are driving yourself nuts. Well IF MEN ARE GOING TO THINK WITH THERE LITTLE HEADS, YOU HAVE TO STOP THINKING WITH YOUR HEART...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband said I didn't place him first

    and that I took him for granted. That's what pushed him to another woman's arms and made him file for divorce. I had no idea he was so hurt by small things such as if I had my sister over who helped out a lot, but she would get the kids overly excited and leave, i didn't think...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Liar

    It was December 27 2006. A cousin I rarely see came over to visit with me and told me she had seen my husband at her obstetricians office with another woman. She said they were holding hands and laughing like a loving couple. I was positive it had to be a case of wrong...
    brightstar9m brightstar9m 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    My husband cheated on me on our anniversary in

    the place we got engaged. Honestly, I've dreaded our anniversary since then. This happened several years ago but it still stings. I happened to be cleaning today and found "the evidence" and it reopened the wounds. Not only that he did what he did, but because he attacks me...
    HistoryGirl77 HistoryGirl77 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 19

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    My husband and I dated from 2000-2005

    when he left me for another woman that he had just met. She was wicked and manipulative and he bent to her whims by saying truly horrible and mean things to me such as " I never knew what love was until I met(sic) cuntface". The OW also told me about other times in the past five...
    kathos713 kathos713 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I was cheated on by my husband.

    He wants to come back home after having an affair and proposing to the girl. Just Recently, Josh Duggar resigned from his job amid him acknowledging molesting his sisters and another girl when he was in his teens. His wife, Anna, knew about it before they got married. Now...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband blames my friends

    and our family for the advice that they gave during this time. He told me he hates his cousin and his aunt who both helped me during this separation. He hates my family for their support and advice that they gave me too. If he and I are going to work out, these family and...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Pressures About Having An Abortion

    Hello I'm in my early twenties and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, but 3 months ago i found out through his Facebook messages  that he was cheating on me with another girl for over a year. He wouldn't admit anything, and he is still claims that there where just...
    ivv687 ivv687 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    When my husband came home on DDay

    and told me about his affair. The first thing to come out of my mouth was "she must be a really wonderful woman to have won your heart. We'll just sell everything and go our separate ways ok." He immediately went down on his knees begging & crying trying to hold onto me...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 Responses May 17

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    My husband cheated on me about a year ago,

    he told me things to make me stay. I believed him, and stayed through my pain. A few times throughout the year I found out more lies and mainly about how long he had been perusing an affair. I finally explained to him how broken I really am from what he had done, he said he...
    yepthatsmylife yepthatsmylife 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    My husband of 11 years cheated on me.

    He actually even proposed to her, and we are still married. He filed for divorce, had a vasectomy reversal and set a wedding date for this year. Yes we are still married. Our divorce is going to trial June 1st. I don't want the divorce even though he cheated. I forgive him...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses May 15

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    so a year ago my husband cheated.

    I forgave him and moved on. he's given me several other reasons not to trust him so I created a fake Facebook page and he took the bait. I feel like I was wrong but I needed to know. I'm leaving him now but it hurts like hell
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Concerning Cheating Husbands!

    Dear ladies you are really really a good wife.If i am in your shoes i would kick him out and give him a black eye.If you want to make the marriage work, he has to do something.First, he has to work harder to support the family. Don't let him get away so easy spending your hard...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    I am a working mom and working overseas

    for the past 8 years. I tried to bring my daughter with me but she did not like the country where I work that's why she went back to our home country. I have been married for 11 years and did not have a problem until recently when me and my husband got separated because of...
    Lovingtoomuch Lovingtoomuch 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    My youngest (8) told me he can't wait

    for highschool. So he won't have to be near or live with the kids and mom (to whom was a neighbor "friend/acquaintance") that his dad has decided will move in with them. I feel bad. I also don't want them to live with or be near my kids either. I know them, I babysat them and...
    KindKTea KindKTea 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2014

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    Have no friends as I am sick

    and cant go anywhere!
    bethanys bethanys 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    I have been married to my husband

    for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was seven months pregnant with our daughter when I went into premature labor and she was stillborn. After that he pulled away and the...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Thoughts

    I have loved you so much. I know i am not the best wife or the nicest person. I do know there is no one else in the world who could love you more than i do. I wish we could erase this all From happening and from our memories. I want to be enough for you. I know I have let myself...
    lijohnson lijohnson 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    I just found out my husbands been cheating on

    me... I can honestly say it the worst feeling Iv every felt..
    jhoney21 jhoney21 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Today I found out my husband of 17 years has

    been hiring prostitutes for several months. I met him when I was 16 and now I'm completely lost.
    lilymonster lilymonster 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    My husband blames me

    for pushing him into someone else's arms. I obviously would have never have done that. I would never want my husband to have sex and fall in love with someone else plus propose to her. He is taking no responsibility for his actions, and she was around for over a year.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 5 Responses May 16

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    So the last time I helped my husband upgrade

    his phone a Facebook msg from the woman he had an affair with popped up on the phone as I held it in my hand. We had a big fight about it and he agreed to remove her from all his contacts and tell her there was to be no more communication ever. He told me he did this. So I just...
    firefly4718 firefly4718 51-55, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me ,

    I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my husband , I can't cope I cry all the time , he swears it's over was just a fling or midlife crisis but he's changed his number 3 times...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    ok..my husband cheated

    and told me April 21, 2013. In October of that same year after getting me and my children to leave the home, I did a difficult pregnancy alone and all the drama he caused he begged for us to come back. it lasted till the divorce I had filed for was vacated then he let it drop he...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    We're going through divorce I found he was

    cheating when he passed something to me. That's one hell of the way to find out he cheated. I'm done with him all though "over times" works trips with multiple women. I'm bi I love women but I won't be cheated on.
    effie1996 effie1996 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 16

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    I am tired of this. I am tired of being the one

    who hurts. I am tired of always "reading" into everything he does or says. He filed for divorce and our trial date is June 1st, so in two weeks, we will no longer be married. How can I be the one who always seems to be suffering? He doesn't seem to be hurting. He proposed...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 5 Responses May 16

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    And I believe the woman

    that he cheated with is here on this site. So to you "The Other Woman"....congratulations. For some odd reason you seem to think you're getting a prize for being with a married man. You seem to think that our marriage was loveless, sexless and lacked emotion but in reality, it...
    flirtinglove flirtinglove 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 12

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