I Was Cheated On By My Husband

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    My fiancé (now husband) cheated on me a month

    before our wedding and I just found out. We are both Christians, so generally we like to take part in church activities and events like kids camp. Well this year my fiancé of 10 months goes to be a camp counsellor and he ends up sleeping with a young girl an taking her...
    Klw7 Klw7
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    My husband cheated on me on our anniversary in

    the place we got engaged. Honestly, I've dreaded our anniversary since then. This happened several years ago but it still stings. I happened to be cleaning today and found "the evidence" and it reopened the wounds. Not only that he did what he did, but because he attacks me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    Have no friends as I am sick

    and cant go anywhere!
    bethanys bethanys
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2014

    3 hours worth of nightmares of my husbands

    infidelity last night!!! I hate going through all these emotions again! It sucks! They have no idea what we go through mentally!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Liar

    It was December 27 2006. A cousin I rarely see came over to visit with me and told me she had seen my husband at her obstetricians office with another woman. She said they were holding hands and laughing like a loving couple. I was positive it had to be a case of wrong...
    brightstar9m brightstar9m
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Aug 20, 2007

    Hi I'm 24yrs old, been married

    for 4yrs and 22wks pregnant with my first baby. I found out about a month that my husband has been trying to contact other women through a dating site and also messages girls on an app and a few regular text messages as well. When I found out, I confronted him about him cheating...
    Sweetks20 Sweetks20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I just woke up this past Saturday

    and felt like a new women! No more anger.. Looked at my husband and thought my goodness he does deserve a second chance. He really is sorry for what he did. Has God seen me struggle with this infidelity long enough? Has he finally heard my prayers? As of today which will be the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    When my husband came home on DDay

    and told me about his affair. The first thing to come out of my mouth was "she must be a really wonderful woman to have won your heart. We'll just sell everything and go our separate ways ok." He immediately went down on his knees begging & crying trying to hold onto me...
    NOWRaptured NOWRaptured
    61-65, F
    5 Responses May 17, 2015

    My husband of 15 years cheated on me with a

    prostitute who posed as a school teacher in Bahrain while he was on a military deployment. I found out about the affair months later when the woman created a facebook profile using pictures of them together and commenced to sending friend requests to friends and family to expose...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 15

    We're going through divorce I found he was

    cheating when he passed something to me. That's one hell of the way to find out he cheated. I'm done with him all though "over times" works trips with multiple women. I'm bi I love women but I won't be cheated on.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    My husband has been involved with a woman with

    two kids, now for the last two months. She is a single mother. I did not not realize our marriage was in trouble until this affair. He admits that he is still seeing her and he is not sure if he wants to let go of our marriage. I am seeing a psychologist to help me understand...
    MariHerholdt MariHerholdt
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    So the last time I helped my husband upgrade

    his phone a Facebook msg from the woman he had an affair with popped up on the phone as I held it in my hand. We had a big fight about it and he agreed to remove her from all his contacts and tell her there was to be no more communication ever. He told me he did this. So I just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 24, 2015

    My husband blames my friends

    and our family for the advice that they gave during this time. He told me he hates his cousin and his aunt who both helped me during this separation. He hates my family for their support and advice that they gave me too. If he and I are going to work out, these family and...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    My husband said I didn't place him first

    and that I took him for granted. That's what pushed him to another woman's arms and made him file for divorce. I had no idea he was so hurt by small things such as if I had my sister over who helped out a lot, but she would get the kids overly excited and leave, i didn't think...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    Thoughts

    I have loved you so much. I know i am not the best wife or the nicest person. I do know there is no one else in the world who could love you more than i do. I wish we could erase this all From happening and from our memories. I want to be enough for you. I know I have let myself...
    lijohnson lijohnson
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2013

    I don't know what to do.

    I've been told that if I take my cheating husband back I'm just weak. He apparently introduced her to his mom and his older brother at some point in time. I think it was at his uncle's funeral. These terrible things just keep revealing themselves to me, and every time, my...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2015

    Concerning Cheating Husbands!

    Dear ladies you are really really a good wife.If i am in your shoes i would kick him out and give him a black eye.If you want to make the marriage work, he has to do something.First, he has to work harder to support the family. Don't let him get away so easy spending your hard...
    faithfullover faithfullover
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

    My husband constantly cheats on me.

    The most recent girl has met his family, his mother was lying to both me and the other woman for him. I had a family emergency and had to leave town, the girl called me. She told me all the lies that were being told, and even finding out they were lies she informed me she wont...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    45 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    As some know, my husband cheated on me a little

    over a year ago. I have became a women full of anger towards him. I never was an angry person and really had my **** together. My kids USED to ask "why are you so happy mom?" I'm not hearing this anymore and it kills me! I want that back! I want to be happy. I just feel like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I also went through my last pregnancy very

    depressed. Our son was a surprise but a good one ! I was depressed my whole pregnancy my husband would not touch me I felt fat and ugly . Well come to find out his affair started June 2012 I got pregnate feb 2013 so he was already having the affair before we got pregnant and it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 6, 2015

    It was before we got married we had been

    together bout three years had a son we was in process of moving to my hometown 30min away i stayed with family 30min away to find job n home while he stayed with his well I found a job n home in like 2months I was ready to move in I told him he didnt come help move stuff in than...
    Sonnier2013 Sonnier2013
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tammyccaa tammyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    I was cheated on by my husband.

    He wants to come back home after having an affair and proposing to the girl. Just Recently, Josh Duggar resigned from his job amid him acknowledging molesting his sisters and another girl when he was in his teens. His wife, Anna, knew about it before they got married. Now...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    3 Responses May 22, 2015

    he cheated then he left me

    but for some reason I am ashamed I feel like if I go out in public I may run into someone that knows about it and I am not sure what I think they will think about me but I feel like I should hide in my room.
    SMcCL SMcCL
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    Cheated On While Pregnant

    hi.im 25 and when i was 4months pregnant i found out my partner of 4years was cheating on me with some one he worked with. we were over the moon when we found out we were having a baby,started making plans and reading all the baby books.like you do.then when i hit 3months my...
    ldm ldm
    26-30, F
    58 Responses Aug 29, 2007

    About a month after I married my current

    husband, I discovered many emails, Facebook messages, linkedin messages, and other links to messages to other women. They were very explicitly sexual in nature-propositioning and indicating the want for a "discreet" encounter. There were very blatant physical details in the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    we have been married

    for almost four years but together nearing ten years... A year or so ago I found out that he started a year long affair three weeks after we were married.. with his best friends wife... The next day I discovered I was pregnant... 9 weeks.. the next week I had a violent...
    Justabirdinacage Justabirdinacage
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 22

    My husband is currently cheating on me via texts

    and Facebook. He claims he loves me very much and she means nothing.
    Mujerrota80 Mujerrota80
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    I'm looking for someone to be with my friend.

    He's the nicest guy I've ever met. He's smart, funny, and mature for his age. He is 18 years old, and readily available to anyone who is interested in being his one true girlfriend. The only reason I don't date him myself is because I only view him as a friend. Also, I am...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6
    18-21, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    My husband and I have been married 9 years.

    We were 20 and 21 when we got married. By our 5th anniversary we had 3 boys. They are now 7, 6, and 5. When I was 7 months pregnant with our youngest my husband went to school to become a paramedic. It was really tough on me but I really encouraged it because the job he had was...
    sjf916 sjf916
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    I Forgive You Julian

    Julian, I hate what you have done to me. I hate that you betrayed my trust, my love, and our relationship. When I thought you told me you loved me I thought it was for me and me alone. I can't believe that you lied on me several times and had many adulterous affairs. All I ever...
    brea brea
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2007

    How To Outsmart Your Cheating Husband

    We pace, we worry, we question, we call friends for advice. For what? WHAT IF HE IS CHEATING? You are getting yourself into a lather and emotionally you are driving yourself nuts. Well IF MEN ARE GOING TO THINK WITH THERE LITTLE HEADS, YOU HAVE TO STOP THINKING WITH YOUR HEART...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

    I'm not ready to share much except what my

    husband said to me last night, "it's your fault I cheated. you're a lousy wife."
    Melanee1 Melanee1
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    I just found out my husbands been cheating on

    me... I can honestly say it the worst feeling Iv every felt..
    jhoney21 jhoney21
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    It's been three months

    since I discovered that my husband cheated on me. I chosed to stay because I thought we will be alright after all. But since then I felt I am not happy anymore and I do not understand my feelings for him right now.
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith
    26-30, F
    Apr 19

    5 years ago my husband had an affair with a

    woman he worked with. I stayed for the sake of my two boys, but I often think that I should rather have left. Some times I wish that I could hurt him the same way he hurt me, but I can't bring myself to do it.
    MonSecret MonSecret
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    My husband cheated on me about a year ago,

    he told me things to make me stay. I believed him, and stayed through my pain. A few times throughout the year I found out more lies and mainly about how long he had been perusing an affair. I finally explained to him how broken I really am from what he had done, he said he...
    yepthatsmylife yepthatsmylife
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

    Pressures About Having An Abortion

    Hello I'm in my early twenties and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, but 3 months ago i found out through his Facebook messages  that he was cheating on me with another girl for over a year. He wouldn't admit anything, and he is still claims that there where just...
    ivv687 ivv687
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Aug 23, 2013

    My husband blames me

    for pushing him into someone else's arms. I obviously would have never have done that. I would never want my husband to have sex and fall in love with someone else plus propose to her. He is taking no responsibility for his actions, and she was around for over a year.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2015

    I want to yell at the top of my lungs

    and never stop. Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish I could drown you in the rain of my tears. How could you do this after so many years. Please someone take my pain away. Don't think I...
    gem207 gem207
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    After 15 years of marriage my husband had a

    three month affair with a girl 16 years younger. he's my ex now and I hate him...he ruined my retirement from my job, he took all my money, and he's a big phony on his new Harley. he's messed my son up mentally. I keep waiting for karma to get him. I'd never take him back I'm...
    Amichi Amichi
    46-50, F
    May 12, 2014

    I have been married to my husband

    for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was seven months pregnant with our daughter when I went into premature labor and she was stillborn. After that he pulled away and the...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Sep 5, 2014

    My husband recently confessed to me

    that he cheated on me years ago. He's been painfully honest with every question I've asked, and I believe that he is being truthful that it never happened again after that affair. I love him, and have no desire or intention to break apart my family over something that happened...
    purplepandapie purplepandapie
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 28

    It was almost two years.

    He proposed to her. She said yes. They were supposed get married this October, but all of that ended when our divorce of 18 months was dismissed in the spring. I took him back. However, I doubt my decision every day. Nothing is the same. We act like a married couple with...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    And I believe the woman

    that he cheated with is here on this site. So to you "The Other Woman"....congratulations. For some odd reason you seem to think you're getting a prize for being with a married man. You seem to think that our marriage was loveless, sexless and lacked emotion but in reality, it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2015
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