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I Was Cheated On By My Husband

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    I Gave Him Everything.

    He wasn't my type at all, when we first met. He was loud, arrogant, cocky and thought he was a bad mf. We were friends at first, but then I was able to see the side no one ever did. The sweet side who was vunerable and human. Like a fool, I fell in love hard. Harder then any...
    SoulSeeker23 SoulSeeker23 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

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    After 9 years we finally got married.

    I was so excited! Then 2 months ago I found out that while we were engaged and our first 2 years of marriage were a lie. He was cheating on me with a w$ore online. I feel so betrayed! How do I get over this?
    khud126 khud126 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    My husband and I dated from 2000-2005

    when he left me for another woman that he had just met. She was wicked and manipulative and he bent to her whims by saying truly horrible and mean things to me such as " I never knew what love was until I met(sic) cuntface". The OW also told me about other times in the past five...
    kathos713 kathos713 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Emotionally Cheated On By My Husband.

    my husband and i have been married for a year. before we had gotten married things were a little bit rocky meaning he had talked to other girls.. i had forgiven him for that and we ended up moving far away because he is in the military. we were perfectly fine so it seemed. we had...
    hereisali2 hereisali2 18-21 5 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Hurts More Than Anything

    i was with him for 17 years and now he is gone because i found out he cheated on me and now i want him back but he is with her and does not want me any more
    saggy saggy 41-45, F Nov 25, 2007

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    I just found out my husband has been going into

    x web site chatrooms starts talking to the girls then exchanges messenger ID's to private chat with them so he can tell them what he wants them to do while he watches. When he found out I was hurt and mad about it he told me that's what he likes to do and he didn't know what my...
    sundakat sundakat 36-40, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    Concerning Cheating Husbands!

    Dear ladies you are really really a good wife.If i am in your shoes i would kick him out and give him a black eye.If you want to make the marriage work, he has to do something.First, he has to work harder to support the family. Don't let him get away so easy spending your hard...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    My husband and I are still married,

    9years, been together 13. We have 2 beautiful children together and a year ago he moved out and in with a girl he works with who is more than 10 years younger. He never tried to see the kids, doesn't call them. Most days I am well and happy without him, knowing I'm probably...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 25

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    Very Confused

    I have been with my husband for 8 years caught him the other day with messages and pictures of him cheating with my best friends sister! I am shocked cant get the images out of my head. Im totally devastated. I have been there for him from rhe beginning when he found out he was...
    Moses23 Moses23 26-30 2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Weve been married 6 years

    and together for 8 and have two sons. But throughout the whole marriage i have at least found out about one woman for every year. He jus doesnt stop. Its always a cycle with him. He usually starts with ignoring me, always on his ipad or phone. Doesnt pay me much attn. Then...
    OnlyBeliever85 OnlyBeliever85 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    My Husband Had Kids With Someone Else

    I received a message on face book from a girl i didn't know, telling me she was pregnant with twins and my husband was the father. As you can imagine i was devastated. I was civil to this girl and believed her when she said she thought he and i were separated. I confronted my...
    wizbit wizbit 31-35 1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    Cheated By The Person Who Says He Loves Me

    Ive been married for 3 years I found out this year in June that my husband was cheating on me with the mother of his daughter... I also have two kids with him... the day i found out was the day I died inside im still with him but the pain is there everyday... They way i found out...
    Honey88eyes Honey88eyes 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Wow Mistress

    9 years together and he lied to my face. He played World of Warcraft and met a girl on there. I thought she was harmless, really. After a year of playing together, he started calling her. I even met her and she seemed so nice.... One weekend he claimed he was going upstate to...
    LonleyKitty LonleyKitty 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2009

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    Husband Cheated When I Was Pregnant

    I found out my husband was cheating shortly after I found I was pregnant - I moved out and tried to get on with things best I cud.  He tried to get me to give it another go saying he would change etc etc, but I couldnt do it.  He is with someone else now (not...
    faro1994 faro1994 22-25 Nov 9, 2008

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    Newly-Weds...Kind Of

    I have been married for 2 years, no children yet thank God. My husband cheated on me and it was a one-night fling. Although I know full affairs are much worse and harder to get over, I am still having a rough time getting over it. It's been about 4 months and I still have my...
    ScaredNhurt ScaredNhurt 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    I Have Been Cheated On.

    My husband has been chatting with women online for years but recently I found out that he met one of the ladies he was chatting with. I found phone records where they talked for 171 minutes for one phone call not to mention all the other times they talked for 30 plus minutes...
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Liar

    It was December 27 2006. A cousin I rarely see came over to visit with me and told me she had seen my husband at her obstetricians office with another woman. She said they were holding hands and laughing like a loving couple. I was positive it had to be a case of wrong...
    brightstar9m brightstar9m 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    Support Group! Come Join Us!

    So I'm sitting at work today trying to drown out the drone of the harpies who work with me when one says to the other "that's my maiden name!" And I remember yes you've been married since you were 18 years old to a man much older than you. That is why you bother me because when I...
    asee0122 asee0122 22-25, F Aug 9, 2013

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    Thoughts

    I have loved you so much. I know i am not the best wife or the nicest person. I do know there is no one else in the world who could love you more than i do. I wish we could erase this all From happening and from our memories. I want to be enough for you. I know I have let myself...
    lijohnson lijohnson 41-45, F Aug 1, 2013

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    Pressures About Having An Abortion

    Hello I'm in my early twenties and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, but 3 months ago i found out through his Facebook messages  that he was cheating on me with another girl for over a year. He wouldn't admit anything, and he is still claims that there where just...
    ivv687 ivv687 22-25, F 12 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Almost 9 Months Pregnant and My Husband Cheated!

    I am almost 25 years old and was with my husband for almost 10 years.  We had been married for 2 years and I am almost 9 months pregnant.  In the begining of April of this year he all of a sudden had a need to go out with single guy friends that he just met.  He...
    Vic1030 Vic1030 21-25, F 12 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I cannot bring myself to get off the couch

    anymore. I have completely lost faith in everything. I don't much care to even take care of myself. Before the affair I was completely into fitness, crafts, the outdoors, now...nothing. I have no want need or desire to do anything for myself. I find no point in trying. Because...
    loathingnlost loathingnlost 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    Not Sure How To Recover And Let Go

    I was married for 23 years when my husband cheated on me with a girl from his work. She was half his age. He lost his job,(he was her boss and they fired him and not her) and then left me so he could take some time for himself. He was gone for a year and then we started to go...
    Devine43 Devine43 41-45 5 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    Support Group All Are Welcome

    A year and a half ago I was the happiest girl in the world. I was in love and we were planning on a future together. But all of that quickly changed and it left me in the darkest place I have ever been. I made it out of the abyss that was the aftermath of the breakup but I know...
    asee0122 asee0122 22-25, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Please Wake Me Up...

    i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that it is really true all over again. its a...
    bulldogsmom bulldogsmom 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    He Still Cheating On Me

    We have been together for five years and this is the second time that we are going through this situation. The difference is that he was hiding it from me two years ago. It went on for a summer and ended. Now I have caught him and he is open with me about it. We have two children...
    sweetpea725 sweetpea725 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Cyber Affairs

    My story begins with this  computer I am using. We bought it in November 2005 because we figured it would really help our daughter with her schoolwork. It was our new toy, but I spent a lot more time on it than anyone. I would stay up late chatting with strange men well into...
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 9 Responses Oct 19, 2007

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    When I was 28 I married my husband Adam.

    He was smart and cute and we got along great. As time passed my husband seemed to grow board. This I didn't realize until when I was 33,the day I found out he was cheating on me. I was devastated and I was even more upset with myself. I then realized I needed to put in more...
    redhairlilly redhairlilly 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Cheated On While Pregnant

    i was 6 months pregnant with our first child when my husband cheated on me or at least tried to cheat on me. we both work overseas but i had to come home to our country and he had to stay where we were so i could have our baby around family. while he was there he asked someone...
    mla1913 mla1913 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2013

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    Pregnant With My Second Child And My Partner Tells Me He Is A Transvestite

    I just left my ex partner, my dreams, job my, home, my farm - left with just the clothes on my back and the most important people in the world my girls.  i couldn't it any more in feb 2010 when i was 3 1/2 month pregant with our secound child i found out that my ex partner was a...
    lizzyA lizzyA 31-35 Mar 21, 2011

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    Sharing Is Caring

    The admins over at Finding the Yellow Brick Road are sharing personal experiences today! So come on over an visit. The road to happiness and support is paved with yellow bricks. www.facebook.com/findingtheyellowbrickroad
    asee0122 asee0122 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Cheated On While Pregnant

    hi.im 25 and when i was 4months pregnant i found out my partner of 4years was cheating on me with some one he worked with. we were over the moon when we found out we were having a baby,started making plans and reading all the baby books.like you do.then when i hit 3months my...
    ldm ldm 26-30, F 54 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I've Been Nothing But A Loving And Supportive Wife And He Cheated On Me For 10 Years!

    I recently discovered my husband's multiple affairs over the last 10 years.We have been married for 30 years.We were high school sweet hearts.To others he seemed like a doting husband and many female friends and family members envied me.I had sensed he is not "all that into me...
    tornandlonely tornandlonely 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    He Had An Affair And I Want Revenge!

    I won't bore you with all the details - so here are the highlights. >I suspected he was having an affair and confronted him. Of course, he denied it. This went on for 2 years until the other woman called me. It was also an attempt to get me to leave him since he wouldn't leave...
    Pray4change Pray4change 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost

    12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night and I began to worry because it was getting late and his phone was going directly to voicemail. Around midnight I called the hospital. He wasn't...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Troubled Marriage

    I'm sure there is someone who may be able to relate. Just a brief history. I've been knowing my husband since 1994. We began dating in May of 1994. By Feb 1995, I was unmarried and pregnant with our first child. When our son was 1 years of age, he had an on going relationship...
    nounderstanding1 nounderstanding1 41-45, F 1 Response May 10, 2013

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    Hurt And Angry At Myself.

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We have children but from previous marriages. We did however raise a grandchild from birth until she was 4 and she is like our own daughter. Over the years there have been times I found things that made me believe that he was...
    Divingbuddy Divingbuddy 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    My Husand Cheated While I Was 7 Months Pregant

    Me and my husband have been together since i was 16 yrs old, I am now 25 yrs old, I was 7 months pregnant when i found out my husband was having an affair, my brother approach me and told me he had seen my husband car somewhere, i told my brother that could not be possible...
    july1997 july1997 21-25, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2007

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    Liar Liar- I Hate You !!!!

    Well- yes I am frickin angry and I am so alone because of it- my idiot husband betrayed me for a year behind my back with a woman 1/2 my age.... when I caught on to her, I told her he had no money to support her- so guess what- she dumped him.... and the as*****le stil kept her...
    meliaparker meliaparker 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    His Other Women

    I can barely bring myself to think the world mistress because that makes his cheating feel even more real. But I suppose that’s what she was. Ten years younger than me. He wasn't just attracted by her young body but by her "funny" and "interesting" personality. She's...
    WoundedLioness WoundedLioness 26-30 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Drunk And Cheated

    my husband of 12 years 10 @ the time was working out of town and went partying with work friends and got super trashed. He normally doesnt drink. While sitting outside some chick came up to him and apparently came on to him he doesn't remember much but he knows he slept with her...
    moonsyne moonsyne 31-35 2 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Pregnant and Heart Broken

    i was only 18 at the time and had been married for only a year and was pregnant with my second child. he had been calling this girl crystal  on the phone and i just assumed it was  a  friend from his church. but as it turns out it was a coworker  who he had...
    MelodyAnn MelodyAnn 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2008

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    I Wonder

    So when do you start forgiving? When is it ok to forget? Or, can I? I wonder. Every time he is a little late I wonder. When he is out of money I wonder if he might be using it for payphone calls. I wonder if he is talking to someone on the internet. I wonder if he is stopping off...
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    Husband Cheated And Got Other Woman Prenant

    We've been together 19 yrs 2 kids married almost 3. Past yr he has been involved with another woman. Lied and said they were friends. They go to gym together. I suspect he says nothing going on. Tonight I find out she is pregnant. He wants me to help him. Says hes not leaving...
    Crushed1973 Crushed1973 41-45 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    I Was Cheated On While I Was 9 Months Pregnant And When My Newborn Daughter Was Home

    We've been married for 15 years and I was pregnant with our second child. I was feeling like something was wrong. He became so distant refusing to show me any affection. I tried talking about it telling I really needed closeness and felt alone. He didnt care. He started...
    beyondhurt11314 beyondhurt11314 36-40, F Nov 19, 2011

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    My Husband Cheated

    I feel totally lost! So my husband met this girl on chat 2 years ago and started talking. I didnt think anything of it cause she didnt live close by. Well she was a mutual friend of a family member so they continued to talk and get to know each other. Well after a year and a half...
    meyermom3 meyermom3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I'm feeling very down today.

    ... I started feeling bad last night. I was thinking about all the times my husband cheated. We were talking about it. He tries do hard to make me feel better but sometimes nothing works. He had to go to his Samson Society meeting. I didn't want him to leave but he left anyways...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Forgive You Julian

    Julian, I hate what you have done to me. I hate that you betrayed my trust, my love, and our relationship. When I thought you told me you loved me I thought it was for me and me alone. I can't believe that you lied on me several times and had many adulterous affairs. All I ever...
    brea brea 21-25, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    How To Outsmart Your Cheating Husband

    We pace, we worry, we question, we call friends for advice. For what? WHAT IF HE IS CHEATING? You are getting yourself into a lather and emotionally you are driving yourself nuts. Well IF MEN ARE GOING TO THINK WITH THERE LITTLE HEADS, YOU HAVE TO STOP THINKING WITH YOUR HEART...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Will I Ever Feel Secure?

    My husband had an affair with one of those woman who are looking for a better life and will do whatever they have to. My husband is stationed in Bahrain by himself for a year. I think he has always fantasized about Asian women. Well after "knowing" because of that sick feeling...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 May 7, 2013

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    Trouble Moving Forward

    I am devastated by my husbands affair. He left me for her for 2 months. We have 2 toddlers. I know WHY he did it in a sense. I always felt I was too good for him, above him, out of his league. He felt he had to prove he could hurt me. I didn't think he could, but then he ripped...
    Thbld Thbld 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Monstrous Monday

    It's Monstrous Monday over at Finding the Yellow Brick Road! So come one over and join us and share your dating horror stories! It's a great way to connect with people with similar experiences and if you want to remain anonymous you can by PMing the page and we will take care of...
    asee0122 asee0122 22-25, F Aug 12, 2013

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    My Husband Betrayed Me

    First of all, i never get on forums like this or write about my problems on the internet. but i just feel like letting it all out. i dont want to tell my family so i will vent on here. My husband and i have been together for almost five years. i was married before and had one...
    anonymous2527 anonymous2527 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So I recently found out that I was cheated on by my boyfriend. It's been a real struggle to deal with this because of conditions in which it happened. Since my boyfriend nd I have...
    Marquinta Marquinta 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend cheated on me last year. Long story short, he slept with her in our flat, in our bed I should say, and I found out the next day when I found him hypo-glycemic. That...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just recently found out that my boyfriend of almost 5yrs was cheating on me .. he confessed it to me .. so I gave him another chance.. has anyone ever been cheated on and took...
    cococrispies91 cococrispies91 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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