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I Was Cheated On By My Wife

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    Why Do They Feel the Need?

    I know. I know. Just get over it right? Quit all the bitchin' and just deal with it. Well That is what people keep telling me along with all of the other crap that family members are saying that they picked up on long before I did. How "f ' ed" up is that? Family...
    walkerb walkerb 31-35 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    She Cheated On Me But I Still Missed Her!

    Even though she had left and filed for divorce and was living with another man everytime I saw her I realized i still had feelings for her and she used that to get what she wanted. I would come home from work sometimes she would be there needing to talk or go through things even...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2011

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    My Hot Wife Turns Into My Best Buddy's "*****"!!!!

    so confuse where 2 kick start my NIGHTMARES in my entire life!!!!! I just couldn't believe tat,e person tat i actually love 4 e past 11 year,is tat PERSON tat DISGRACED me & hurt me so deeply!!!! It started in mine newly,renovated apartment tat i've just brought wit my lovely...
    sluttywife12 sluttywife12 31-35, M Jul 15, 2013

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    A Long Time Ago

    After being married for 15 years this seems like it was so long ago.  We were married probably about a year. I had some suspisions she was seeing an old boyfriend.  She was going out of town for the weekend and was able to follow her.  She did not go to her friends...
    frydaddy frydaddy 31-35 1 Response Apr 23, 2009

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    My Wife Confesses to Cheating 10 Years Later

    Hi. My wife was my high school sweetheart. We dated and broke up when in our early teens. Then as i was about to leave her town to go to varsity, we hooked up on a tough long distance relationship. I failed her and cheated, felt guilty and confessed. She forgave me. Then when...
    anoneemus007 anoneemus007 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2007

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    Betrayed

    I discovered my wife cheated on me without me knowing! I thought everything she did would be known to me, like it has been, but no. It's not surprising she still gets passes; she is 5’ 1”, 35yo and very sexy, slim with curled blond hair and an appetite for risky sex. You'd...
    grindel09 grindel09 51-55, M Jul 13, 2012

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    My Boss With My Wife

    Working as Engineer for an important construction firm, I often had to contribute efforts with my boss on important projects for foreign nationals. Over the months, as our projects started being successful, my burden of the work also increased voluminously. My boss never really...
    ashish8505 ashish8505 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    She Rran Out Early This Morning In A Super Short Sun Dress And High Heels

    my god she was sexy, her nails done smelling sexy perfect makeup and I didn't catch what panties but I cant find the sheer lace white ones.
    mostnormly mostnormly 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Please Tell Me What You Think

    My wife cheated on me with a coworker. She denied it for 10 years but finally admitted it I e night. Well kind of she told me they kissed and almost had sex . Well in setting up a fake Facebook acct and talking to him I found out they had sex about 8 to 10 times. She also...
    Wpwill Wpwill 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Heard It !!!!!!!!!!!!

    It’s so AMAZING…… yesterday my GF’s friend told everything about her……. He told me that not only twice in a week he ****** her every single day……every day he ****** her minimum 4-5 times even in her period times and do bareback sex only……every day she goes to...
    kkrktkmicsk kkrktkmicsk 22-25, M Jun 3, 2012

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    At Least I Think So

    She swears she never has, but I don't quite believe her. I don't think she's cheated a lot, but I think there was one night she did. She was on a business trip that took her to a really nice resort hotel. At the hotel for the same meeting was a friend of mine and sometimes...
    freebird99 freebird99 46-50, M May 19, 2013

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    She Had A 6 Month Affair

    My (now ex) wife started a purely sex driven affair with the husband (Peter) of a friend (Carolyn) approxiamately 3 years into our marriage. Her lover's wife found out about it and informed me so I could confront my wife (Caroline) There was absolutely no point denying what had...
    litlebigman2 litlebigman2 51-55, M Jun 17, 2012

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    It happened many years ago

    after seven years of marriage and two children born.It was a mess and I got through it after I got full custody of my kids in a two year battle. I raised them alone as a single parent giving them a stable environment. I sacrificed a social life to work long hours and do what was...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Apr 28

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    My Exwife Cheated On Me Too

    That was 17 years ago, we divorced a couple years later. I never remarried, neither did she but we remained friends I guess, you know, friendly emails every 6 Months or so... birthday-xmas cards, stuff like that. I'm not sure why I need to post a story. Deep down I feel betrayed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    She Told Me...

    One evening after work sitting around the motel room and having a few drinks. I started to fondle my wifes breast, hoping that I was going to get some relief. I was surprised when she pushed my hand away. She looked me in the eye and said; You don't get it! Do you!. Why can't you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 17, 2011

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    Listening To My Wife **** By Phone

    My wife, Kat, knows that I do not care if she has sex with other guys. The only rule is that she has to tell me all the details of the encounter. Will, apparently she has been holding out on me. Two weeks ago she had to spend the weekend out of town with some of her fellow co...
    bkstuff bkstuff 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    My Wife Cheats Me

    Cheating wife. This is my life story. I don’t know how to start. My wife had an affair with my colleque.This happened three four years back. After two years of our marriage, my wife met my collogue. From the first moment they started love each other, You people are thinking...
    juniorsex juniorsex 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Wife Gave Bj At Company Party

    I found this out after we got divorced and it actually never bothered me but I will share it. I was told later that at a company holiday party 8 years ago roughly, that my then wife had "cheated" on me. I remember the night because she disappeared for about 20 minutes...
    Orlandofun Orlandofun 41-45, M Jul 2, 2009

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    Everyone Knew But Me!

    A few weeks after my divorce because of my wife cheating and moving in with a another man a friend called to ask if we really had divorced and I said yes he said I need to tell you what I heard. He told me they were at this event and a couple were talking to him and his wife and...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Tell Tale Signs.

    After more than 25 years of marriage , my wife still gets excited about being with another man. She works from home so she can come and go as she pleases and I know when she has had a visitor when I get back, at lunch time. Some things are out of place when I get home. For...
    FlirtVoyeur FlirtVoyeur 46-50 2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    Desire To Be Cheated

    I do not know why but last time I have a very strong desire that my wife is cheating me. It makes me very hot if I think about the situation that she went out dressed very hot with mini skirt and nylons. It would be so hot if she would come back late night. The hottest would be...
    alfons16a alfons16a 41-45, M Jul 27, 2011

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    More Of A Question

    Besides all of the other emotions that I have been going through the one that ****** me off the most is that i have lost all self confidence in myself. She has said some very hurtful things, she says she didn't mean them. I've always believed that something said in anger or as...
    fst86411 fst86411 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    She Is Now My Ex Wife!

    I knew our last year of marriage had been tense but i never really knew why, but i suspected she was cheating but she always denied it telling me I was being silly. I was so caught up in trying to be a good hubby and father i missed all the signs that she was cheating and the...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M Oct 5, 2011

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    She Has Done A Little Of It And It Hurts. Pls Comment! I Need Help!

    (this story might bore you but it is heartfelt. i need your insights guys.) i have this rule for her that she can do anything she wants as long as she'll tell me before she does anything and tell me all after. when she left for another country (in another story). she kept on...
    melolo melolo 22-25, M 3 Responses May 29, 2013

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    Questions

    Honestly I can't for sure that she has cheated on me therefore I don't know if anyone here actually cares, but here it goes anyways. I am in the Army with the 82nd airborne and I just returned home from a 15month tour in Afghanistan, where due to my job I was placed in remote...
    cmbtengr01 cmbtengr01 22-25 3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    8 Mouth But Still Feels No Better

    I found out 8 months ago that my wife of 14 years cheats on me servral times over a five year period. She say she only fully had sex once and most of the rest was just making out but I don't seem to be able to get over it. It haunts me in my sleep and when Im aake and I dont seem...
    dadof4butalone dadof4butalone 26-30, M 9 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    XXL Condoms??

    It all started one Saturday afternoon when i was having some chill out time alone while my wife was in town shopping with her friends. But, after an hour or two passed i decided that i might as well have a quick ****. So I put the laptop on, pulled up homemoviestube and...
    cr927 cr927 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    The Big **** Sex Club

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    hot4it31 hot4it31 36-40 8 Responses May 10, 2009

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    No Hard Feelings

    After major events had happened in our life over the last 3 months and I knew that my wife Sanjana and myself needed to get away by ourselves for a while. It had been some time since we had taken a vacation, and we really needed time alone to rekindle the flame in our marriage...
    ashish8505 ashish8505 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Why...

    I love my wife. We met in high school and married 3 yrs after.  After being together 5 years and then married 9 1/2 we were having our problems. We were not talking or communicating at all. After a year of pretty much living as room mates I decided to look into...
    GremlinX GremlinX 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Married For 10 Months, Twice Cheated On.

    I'll keep this brief as I dislike taking up too much of peoples time when it comes to things like this. Wife and I were married just under 10 months ago, around the same time I was hired on with the Fire Department. Dream job, tough as nails, but it's what I spent my life...
    SCBA SCBA 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    So It Continues

    well, she's been lying to me after all. but finally admitted it to me a few days ago. there was one time that she immediately told me that the guy who is "courting" her slept with her. but she told me that she is not interested in him even though he is pursuasive. and she doesnt...
    melolo melolo 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Best Wishes In Your New Life

    Another lonely night whose to blame.   Sometimes I wonder, its a shame.   Not that it bothers me now,  I find comfort in the silence. There are a lot less worries.  No loud exchanges or bitter words.  It's not about being a bigger person I truly wish you find the...
    CanHappen CanHappen 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Caught my wife of 16 years having an affair

    with a single twice divorced man. I was devastated and have been deeply scarred by the experience. We have stayed together and working on relationship but have caught her contacting him numerous times I've been a loving caring husband and father to our three children I'm good...
    burgerking123 burgerking123 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    Late Night At Lowe's

    About 6 months ago I was in need of a few item's from our local lumber store, and for some reason my wife decided she would go, just to get out. Normally when I go to the lumber store she goes to some female shop and has me stop by and pick he up when I am finished...
    mrpolelamp mrpolelamp 61-65, M 13 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    Recent Pix Of Her

    Added new pictures ... Check out n comment
    kkrktkmicsk kkrktkmicsk 22-25, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Pictures

    Posted my GF's pictures in my profile
    kkrktkmicsk kkrktkmicsk 22-25, M May 14, 2012

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    Interesting To Watch

    Last night she told me that she was going out today to spend some time with her sister. then she proceeded to give herself a manicure and pedicure and even lightened her hair. This morning she left wearing a very short dress and a pair of very sexy wedge sandals. Her make up was...
    mostnormly mostnormly 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    My Pleasures Come Closer

    I am so EXCITED………….. 1 of my GF’s friend recently told me that he still ******* my GF minimum twice in a week from past 1 year and all time he ****** her bareback only………even she never let me ****** her without a condom…….. she never sucked my **** even she...
    kkrktkmicsk kkrktkmicsk 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    I Was Cheated On By My Wife.

    Oh where to start. Well to say the least I didn't find out until last october while we were moving to SC. I had always suspected that she had cheated on me with this guy named Tim but every time I asked she would say you think I'm a **** or oh yeah mike i'm just out there...
    Supasweetguy Supasweetguy 21-25, M 9 Responses Aug 21, 2007

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    I was cheated on by my ex. We had been together for almost 6 years. I saw the red flags many times but looked the other way. I had jumped from one relationship to another with this...
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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    ~I have been cheated on several times in my life. By different people. The first time it happened, the guy I was with was a **** head and sleazy, and I didn't really care but I did...
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    She said that she didn't receive what she needed from me so she sought it elsewhere. When we talked about what it was that she actually needed we realized she never actually...
    Bathx Bathx 26-30, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    So. I met this guy. He told me I could trust him. He was the first person I fell in love with. About a month after we dated he told me he wanted to be friends with his ex. I didn...
    brittdorn brittdorn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    My ex and I had an argument via text message, and when I came home from work i found a note saying her and our two children needed a few days away. She had ran away to her mother's...
    Ressalg Ressalg 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Little jerk cheated on my with my "friend" i beat them senseless before tossing them out
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Well, we were together for 3 years and almost 3 months. When he told me "we should broke up", I didn't understand why. That was the last thing I ever could imagine in the world...
    JessicaOchoa JessicaOchoa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    It happened to me with my current bf. not that he got caught while he was out with someone but he was flirting. I think that's cheating too
    queenbeebella queenbeebella 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I sensed something was going on, I even had a dream! So when he was a sleep I checked his phone. Two week old messages to a girl he'd met on a dating website. I confronted him and...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I loved so much. It was a long time since I opened my heart up to somebody and told myself to completely go for it. I saw him the...
    Marries Marries 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago