I Was Cheated On

This grp if for anyone going through or been through infidelity, divorce, bad marriage, abuse...and all of those who want to know what it feels like from the victim's point of view 8,454 People

    I wanted to insult my cheating ex

    and release all my anger because he had betrayed me so much but if I do that it won't make the situation any better. I was professional on my last text to him asking him to pay his overdue balance but he was being mean and kept threatening me that he'll leave me a bloated bill...
    loveandmisadventure loveandmisadventure
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 22

    I am engaged to a man

    that has cheated on me since day one. We've been together for going on four and a half years. He asked me out and we began dating, since he was stationed in NC, and I lived in AL, it was long distance. After 3 years and receiving medical retirement, and asking me to marry him...
    cometdust cometdust
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    It was in 2011 when i met him.

    I fell in love so deep and he did too. 2 years later and he moved away, it was sad and hard for him and for me. But harder for him as he had to adjust in a completely different place. And a year after that he moved again but this time it was for uni. It was 2014 and he was...
    blackrose71 blackrose71
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 20

    I just found out my marriage is over tonight.

    My husband of 8 years have been growing apart for some time, decided to separate but we were going to therapy and things were getting better.....until about 4 weeks ago. Apparently his affair has been getting serious enough that he has decided to throw in the towel. Hope you...
    kamp0052 kamp0052
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2013

    So my ex that i was with

    for 6 years that I said he cheated on me and got a girl pregnant, well now he's living with her and her family and we haven't talked for going on 2 months. I've been posting about this new guy I've been talking to and ever since that, my ex has been coming to my work ordering...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 8

    The worst is when your boyfriend cheats on you

    with a girl who is supposed to be your friend and then she lies to your face about it. You end up losing a friend and your boyfriend on the same day.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    You always know, even

    before they tell you. My ex didn't even tell me until long after we broke up, and subsequently they started stalking me. I was told by a friend. A few months after our break up, i started getting the feeling that... maybe the reason we broke up, was because i felt something was...
    randycham randycham
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 14

    Not me but my best friend.

    .. the girl she was dating for three years ended up cheating on her with a well known womanizer in our area my best friend left her and was devastated for a very long time until we found out her ex got an std from him and was pregnant with his baby which is when he decided to...
    passionat3kiss3s passionat3kiss3s
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 28

    Maybe i was never yours,

    and you never mine. Maybe it was the feeling i loved and not you; the feeling i miss and not you... I really hope so. Maybe that's where we both went wrong -- we didn't love ourselves enough to find happiness in ourselves, so we sought it from others. I from you, and you... from...
    555Mary 555Mary
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 20

    So it's been 3 months

    since my husband broke it off with his mistress . Well I found out by checking his phone that she texted him on last Friday all she said was "call me" ! WTF!!😡 So I told him I seen it and he said he did NOT call or text her back. She needs to stop! He said he just keeps...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses May 17, 2015

    I believe that once a cheater,

    always a cheater. He cheated on his now girlfriend 14 years ago, and he cheated on me with her now. Now that I'm single, my only plan is to sever all ties and move on. I'm pretty sure he's gonna cheat on her again. I just wish karma gets him and he reaps what he sows.
    loveandmisadventure loveandmisadventure
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 12

    My husband moved out of our house this past

    Tuesday. After I found out he was cheating on me with a coworker. The nights he isn't with her he is texting me through the night. The nights he's with her he doesn't text at all. My mind wanders and takes me to places I don't want to think about. What is he doing with her? Are...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Jan 30

    I was dating my friend sister got like 2 weeks

    top. It could of hv been longer but she was cheating on me with all types of dudes and I had the proof. Wen I told her ik u was cheating she denied everything, and I even showed her the convs and ****. Yet she denied it and said that was her sister. Like tf, How stupid u think I...
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy
    18-21
    2 Responses Jan 27

    my boyfriend and I hadn't talked in about a week

    after I got grounded and then I saw posts if him at a party kissing my beat friend! I get that he was a douche but the pain is unbearable and even thought he did shred my heart into a million pieces I don't understand why my best friend would take advantage of being able to hurt...
    brookewby brookewby
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 6

    My husband and I have been married less

    than a year. He's in the army and we're in our early twenties. He deployed two months ago. I wanted to find out how much our electricity will be this month( I'd been sleeping with the lights on since he left) & I checked his email like I've done many times. I found an email from...
    luvrome luvrome
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Mar 14

    My fiancé cheated on me a month

    before our wedding, six years ago. I fell into a deep depression and began cutting myself which led to me going to therapy sessions. It took awhile but I finally got over it and didn't let it rule my life. While I still think about how much it sucks I was glad I found out then...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    And I am completely fine.

    ... well sort of. This is a letter to anyone who has been involved in adultery and cheating of any sort. I am not trying to upset anyone. This is a long experience but it has been major learning and starts to explain to the lovely people that care about me why I vanished for...
    grommit3 grommit3
    36-40, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    We were in the same online school.

    I met her for the first time when we were testing. They test in a public place kids go there it's not online. Anyway. So we started talking and then shared emails. So things went on from there. I only saw her at school though. She lived to far from me. So we dated online for 2...
    AJsGhost AJsGhost
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 5

    Been married 23 years the only man ive ever

    been with ,found out 3 years ago hes been hiring prostitutes and frequently hitting up ***** clubs having a relationship with the bartender at one place ,i was devistated as i thought we had a great marriage ,boy was i fooled ,for my kids sake i tried to forgive him and he was...
    Ashlyn24 Ashlyn24
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 16

    When my wife came home from work

    that thusday, she was just crying and crying and crying. I hold her in my arms. She pushed me away. But I kept comforting her. She told me I'm not should comfort her. Because she felt she betrayed me... She cried for 30 min. I hold her in my arms all the time. So many things...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Dec 13, 2015
    XOVO XOVO
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Apr 17

    Our relationship was doomed from the start.

    He never emotionally divorced his ex-wife. For 15 years they have texted and talked several times a day. His family continue to embrace her, and she attended all of their family functions. She was cruel to me calling me , and my children names. I didn't engage with her, I knew...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 9

    I found out about two weeks ago

    that he's cheated on me and I'm sure there is more I should know about.
    Recentlybetrayed Recentlybetrayed
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    So my husband cheated on me a little over a

    year ago. I still have little trust in him. So today we were on our way out and I'm telling him how he makes me feel when we are out together. Like he's more interested in checking women out and he raises his voice and says " that's getting really old!" I'm like seriously?? You...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    29 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    You know your marriage is breaking apart

    but you hold on to hope that it will change. And then one day your spouse starts becoming even colder than he was before. He makes excuses, stays out all night, is on his phone constantly and is always tired. At first you may not want to believe that something is going on. But...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight
    31-35, F
    25 Responses Jan 22

    Time Wasted

    I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We fought to be together. I supported him fully on his decision to join the army and when he did I was faithful. I wrote him every single day and always made sure he heard from home. The week before my grandma passed, I got a message...
    dcaleb21 dcaleb21
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

    To The Other Woman

    Thank you for the pain.Thank you for the disregard.Thank you for the disrespect.Thank you for the manipulation.Thank you for the lies.Thank you for breaking me.Thank you for robbing me.Thank you for robbing my family.Thank you for trying so hard to break me, us.Thank you for your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    In high school my boyfriend lost his virginity

    to another girl. I was devastated and we broke up this was three years ago. A few months after the breakup I got back with him. People thought I was stupid but I didn't care because I believe in second chances and he really showed me he regretted his mistake. I even made him...
    Rickisummer Rickisummer
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 8

    The only regret I have is having to live

    tomorrow. For my past is full of sorrow, I fought my battles so far away, For queen and country until that faithful day. Upon my return I was full of joy, I could not help it, but felt my heart glow. Never had god bestow me with such a gift, Then when he gave me my two little...
    Mrunderstood Mrunderstood
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    As I mentioned before my ex

    that I was with for 6 years, cheated on me and got a girl pregnant. I found out nd just blocked him completely and NEVER let him try to tell me. It's been 3 months I haven't spoken to him and he lives with her now.. His mom will tell me that he never wanted her nd blah blah blah...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 29

    I have been cheated on in nearly every

    relationship I've had. I am a decent girl so don't understand why guys think it's ok to cheat
    Clairebear31 Clairebear31
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 17

    I was cheated on by my ex husband Graham he was

    spotted and I divorced him so I now bring up Ava and Hero alone with my mums help its hard being a 36 year old single mum and I never see Graham now.
    myleeneklass myleeneklass
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I was cheated on by my husband

    when he went off to boot camp and the schooling that followed directly thereafter. It broke my heart. I couldn’t believe it when I found the proof. I was miserable when he was gone for over half a year, and he was just fine because he was with some other girl. Maybe more than...
    SleepyFoxBoogaloo SleepyFoxBoogaloo
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 5

    I need help understanding

    why this guy is being like this. Ive been with him for 5 years. He has been cheating on me with someone else for the past 2 years. I find out and when he comes back after i leave him, he tells me he doesn't really love her and he still wants to marry me. I ask him why he did...
    blackrose71 blackrose71
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 4

    Back when I was 17 I had a girlfriend

    and we had a rough patch and, for reasons I still don't quite understand, I cheated on her with a guy I knew, I felt horrible for weeks until I found out she'd been cheating on me the whole time
    kid222 kid222
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 27

    I change his name periodically to -'pants on

    fire' on my phone whenever I'm feeling especially annoyed by him. 'Pumpkin eater ' is a close second. I didn't realize he'd see it jn emails too. Oh well. I felt bad but then I got over it.
    sp7799 sp7799
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    I was cheated on by an ex coworker I dated.

    Can someone talk to me. How do I face him?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 19

    Well I'm now single because my (now ex)

    boyfriend decided to cheat on me- with his own cousin. She's not biologically related to him but it's still 'in the family '. She was in a relationship but ended it to be with him, and her son. I mean, we had moments in the beginning where he was 'sidetracked' by other girls...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 24
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 23

    My wife and I have been married

    for almost 15 years. Almost 5 years ago, a co-worker and I had suspicions that our spouse's may have cheated on us with each other. When I confronted my wife, she began to cry and admitted that it had happened. She swore it was only once, and that they had used protection...
    scotty75 scotty75
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jan 21, 2014

    My husband cheated on me with another man,

    didn't tell me about it, asked to have a baby with me, then told me about it. He keeps telling me he's the good guy and puts on this fake act and I fell for it and he used it to hurt me again. Can someone else please reaffirm he's a jerk? He's mar me out to be the bad guy again...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    So my husband cheated.

    I have copies of all several days of messages between the two. The who*** (what I call the other woman) is a very popular aspiring politician. She is an attorney and has many followers on social media. Recently she posted about another politician who is being jailed and how text...
    Lostsoul11111 Lostsoul11111
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Feb 16

    I gave up everything

    for him. I even stopped talking to my friends. Now that he's finally out of my life, I wish I could undo all of it.
    TheFluffyGozette TheFluffyGozette
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 15

    We were the ones that didn't mess around .

    I never even looked at other women, never thought about cheating. She was the same. We were the perfect marriage that our friends looked up to. Then around our twenty sixth aniversary, one of my oldest known friend convinced her that I was always fooling around and going to...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    3 Responses Apr 20

    By nearly every guy I've dated.

    It hurts but hopefully it won't happen again.
    LoveAgain93 LoveAgain93
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    My now ex wife and I were married 8 years all

    of them happy I thought I loved her we had to kids I loved being a dad and tried hard to be a good one. I tried hard for my ex too I have it my all. I thought honestly we had it all picture perfect family. Until one day I find out she's having an affair with a guy twice my age...
    lovetoswim69 lovetoswim69
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014

    Ashley Madison Ruined My Life

    All she had to do was put a post on Ashley Madison and the guys lined up. Her words. It made it so easy to cheat on me. It was so easy to plan the whole thing. I read their "Why we do this" section, and it tries to be reasonable. It says you should get marriage counselling...
    phatdog phatdog
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    My husband went out with some friends to go

    drinking Friday night. I didn't think anything of, as I usually don't. But when I woke up yesterday, sometime didn't feel right. for one, I stayed in bed until almost 9:00 (and I don't stay in bed, ever. I'm always up and moving come 6:00). and after breakfast he was romantic...
    Babygirl872901 Babygirl872901
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Mar 13

    So I'm the one who got cheated on AGAIN by my

    ex whom I was wit for 5 years and he got my name tatted and got another girl pregnant while we were together. While we were together he video taped me having sex with him without me knowing. ANYWAYS So now that we haven't been together for a month since he has this girl...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 26

    Last week, my now ex-girlfriend came to me with

    a "problem" I thought she wanted to break up with me. After a lot of me questioning her, I finally discovered that she had been cheating on me, God knows how many times. All she told me was that the first time was two weeks prior and that was enough for me to walk away from...
    Macallanslover Macallanslover
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    Haha ... yeah well ..

    . My bf from when i was a teenager cheated on me with my best friend .... When he finally came clean i broke it off only to get back together maybe two days later . So in return i got him to buy me a bag of weed and shared it with my best friends uncle and then slept with him lol...
    2005angelwings 2005angelwings
    22-25, F
    23 Responses Feb 27

    If you are in a relationship,

    or know someone in a relationship, where cheating has occurred in the past or currently happening, an important new tv show with one of the best marriage therapists in the country wants help couples resolve their issues. Compensation for chosen couples. For more info, email...
    onettoone onettoone
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 12

    why is deidara the picture

    that doesn't make sense??
    Kakashi5 Kakashi5
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I was cheated on by my dear husband of 11 years.

    This girl is 25 my husband is 45. She moved 3 minutes from my house and this little "affair" lasted 2 years. I have 3 kids, and I'm pissed!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    14 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I found out a couple weeks ago thay my

    now ex boyfriend was cheating on me our whole relationship which lasted almost 3 years. Then he tried to exclaim that all the times he did cheat was because I was being a ***** towards him or we where arguing like that makes it okay. Then later on tells me he doesn't care about...
    7hey2 7hey2
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 16

    I've been cheated on 3 times

    and my mum has been 1 time..is there any good guys left??
    ticklemewithoutmercy ticklemewithoutmercy
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 8, 2015
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