I Was Dumped

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 230 People

    In the beginning of October,

    my friend set me up with her brother-in-law. I had met him a couple summers ago and thought he was sweet and attractive, but I never really talked to him or became friends with him because he was dating someone at the time and I'm an introvert. I'm very reserved around people I...
    mostofall mostofall
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2013

    Are You Serious! Ladies!

    I recently had a girlfirend...very short lived...but she seemed overwhelmed, at the fact that I a grounded decent looking man...who had a job and belived in a supportive relationship...(I.E lets work together to make our lives worth while attitude) was envolved with her...and I...
    Spartucus Spartucus
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Dec 14, 2007

    So I had been dating this guy

    for almost a year, and about three months in I had to move to another state because of my step-dad. He said he wanted to continue the relationship and we did. We really only had one major arguement where we broke up (he broke up with me) but he texted me the next morning with an...
    NinnysHeart NinnysHeart
    18-21, F
    Apr 17, 2015


    This it it. He dumped me. I loved him and he dumped me for the reason 'I dont have feelings for you anymore'. And it hurts = I havent eaten or slept since yesterday afternoon and all he says is I'm overreacting. Maybe I am. But this hurts like hell, I have a lot of love to give...
    Straykitty Straykitty
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 12, 2007

    I've had at least 2 guys say they can't trust me

    because I refused to send them naked pics. I don't quite understand what that has to do with trust, but I have more respect for myself than that. I guess that's one of the stupider reasons why I have been dumped.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    I Gave Him Everything, and He Gave Me Herpes.

    i cry everytime i think about him. i can't concentrate in my classes, i fake every smile i manage to obtain. there are nice guys who want to date me, and i see they are good people, but i cant feel anything for them. even if i could, how could they want me?  I'm...
    scared2live scared2live
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    I Have No Idea

    i'd like to make friends online, but i have no idea why peoples close the chatbox after they know that i'm asian (indonesian). do you think asian (indonesian) are so annoying, disgusting or something else? just wonder why. no one wants to be born asian, american, european etc...
    shelvee shelvee
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 11, 2013

    How to Get Over Being Dumped!!

    (note to my friends...thank you for your sweet concern, but no, I'm not writing this because I've been dumped.  Just trying to write a helpful article, that's all.) Oh, nearly everyone has been dumped at some time.  Yes, yes, it sucks.  But it is NOT the end...
    DiscoveryChick DiscoveryChick
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 22, 2009

    Character Building

    I was ditched three times in a row by three different men. I did some soul searching and still need more soul searching.  I realized I am most contented when I love myself.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 18, 2010

    A month ago, my boyfriend stayed with us

    before reporting to Baltimore. While he was here, he gave me a gorgeous locket engraved with "I love you". I messaged him on Facebook tonight, hoping we'll be able to talk and what's he do? He dumps me, saying he realized we'd both be miserable if we stayed together but that...
    PearlRose PearlRose
    Mar 11, 2015

    What Is It With Girls?

    So I met a really nice girl online and we've been on three really good dates...she even admitted herself that she was having a good time with me... So last time I saw her was 2 nights ago - we were kissing in the rain outside her flat and it was really sweet....and we'd arranged...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 26, 2012


    Even fungirl has been dumped.  I guess the important thing is to learn from it and move on.  I would rather know that a man doesn't want me than to continue on thinking things are perfect when they aren't.  ((huggggs to those who have been recently dumped!))
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jun 4, 2009

    Dumped By My Girlfriend Just Shy Of 3 Year Anniversary...

    A little over a month ago I received a phone call from my girlfriend where she said she didn't want to be in a relationship right now because she has so much stress going on in her life and needs to focus on herself. Backstory, she's 28 and lives at home under a psychotic...
    miserable1984 miserable1984
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2013

    this past week. We'd been dating nearly 13

    months. He had become my everything. We had a miscarriage last summer, I cheated on him a month after we started dating, and he had become my best friend and the only person to make me happy. But then we started arguing all the time and I didn't want to see it but I knew our...
    spazzyc spazzyc
    22-25, F
    Mar 30, 2014

    The Last Time I Got Dumped (About 2 Years Ago)

    He kept flapping his jaws It was like yeah i know you because we've been dating, i know how sweet you really are Ariana... And i don't want any of it. ******* charmer!!!!!!
    lilAriana lilAriana
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    she cheated on me but I still want her,

    two years have been past still I am in love with her. Whenever I think about her, I feel very depressed...:(
    deleted deleted
    Oct 30, 2014

    He dumped me coz I had too many problems,

    he was tired of my tears, he said that I used to blame him for all the failures in my life even before meeting him but it wasn't like he said, it would have been only the last straw if he had left me alone. And he did. Now nothing can comfort me, neither the best words.
    hashsoul hashsoul
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    I was dumped over whatssapp.

    we were together for almost 2 years. I think is just time to move on. Although I have to say that I hate the fact of being lonely on the cold season and for all the holidays :(
    Belmont01 Belmont01
    Dec 9, 2013

    Wasted Time

    When we met everything was right. You laughed and smiled because you were happy..I made you happy. Our relationship started out tough due to the 200 miles that separated us but that never mattered. I came to see and you came to see me...I told you I loved you 3 months in and you...
    Minnesotanice Minnesotanice
    22-25, M
    Nov 20, 2012

    Getting Dumped On Christmas Eve...

    Been together 3 years and she dumpes me via text on christmas eve, mint. :c
    Jesse1994 Jesse1994
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 25, 2012

    by a man I was dating

    for a year. I am 47 and he is 53. He sent me a text message at work three weeks ago and broke it off. He hasn't spoken to me since. We were supposed to be traveling together this past week to his home province, and I was going to meet his family. I know in my head that I am...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Three Times Trashed...

    All of my loves have walked out on me but I have never dumped anyone in my life. I am not trash and I never, ever want to be dumped to rot again, thanks.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Jun 24, 2009

    Spoke to a psychic. She informed me

    that the reason behind my Ex leaving was because his mom got inside his head. She said that she's racist and never wanted us together. Do I share what was said with my ex? Or should I say nothing at all? She also stated that, he misses me and is waiting for me to give in...
    JustLaniece JustLaniece
    31-35, F
    Apr 6, 2014

    My bf dumped me yesterday

    and I just texted him. Which was REALLY STUPID! He hasn't responded
    Bassdrumlife12 Bassdrumlife12
    16-17, F
    Mar 10, 2015

    He Said He Just Wants To Be Friends..

     My first boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me 3 months ago. He thinks we should just be friends he doesn't think we can work out as a couple anymore. So now i am confused and heartbroken i miss him so much we were very close he was my best friends and i didn't have...
    jessica181 jessica181
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2009

    I'M Scared!

    This has to do with being dumped.  Well, I did this thing...I admit it wasn't very mature.  I went on Facebook and sent a message to my ex-affair's wife that her facebook profile picture isn't very flattering (it's not..she looks like a fat old man).  Anyway, now...
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 19, 2009

    I Broke No Contact. Please, Read This If You Want To Do The Same.

    Yes, after 2 months I broke no contact. I was naively in hope he would love to hear from me, that after all he still loved me and he just needed some space to work things out and treat his "depression". I hoped his depression was real, that he wasn't lying to me about that; I...
    rio2rio rio2rio
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2012

    My Relationship Reoccurance

    is distance really so far ? sure the miles may be great but when you truely love someone they're always worth the wait.... you thought you knew me then how could you not see ? the only thing wrong about you was the fact you were with me... to recall the times...
    EchoesInTwistedMeadows EchoesInTwistedMeadows
    May 24, 2012

    I Was Dumped!

    I was dumped...BY MY AFFAIR...even though we were both married, I still think that should  count.  After all, a dump is a dump is a dump is a dump! Besides, if you are really intimate with someone and have feelings for them, it doesn't hurt any less if the guy who dumps...
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 1, 2009

    My girlfriend of four years has recently

    'fallen out of love with me' and I'm confused, lonely and devastated, even two months on.
    joebloggs1992 joebloggs1992
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2014

    Even though he dumped me,

    I'm convinced he is the one and that once he gets over his issues he will want me back. He has relationship issues because 1) he is insecure and 2) his father died when he was 10 and this had a huge impact and he is afraid to trust anybody. I know this sounds absolutely crazy...
    AquaQ AquaQ
    26-30, F
    Nov 19, 2015

    ok... so this is gunna be a long one

    but i feel like i need to tell the world so someone will understand me. My boyfriend of a year and 6 months broke up with me near the end of april my senior year in high school, hes a year younger than me. It is now the following August and i still desperately miss him-yes i...
    lan0186 lan0186
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    He Was Dumped.

    This is not about me but an event I witnessed some years back. I was set up at a very large outside art and craft event and at my demo table painting and chatting with people as they walked by and stopping to watch me create. It was a crisp fall day in a huge park and thousands...
    dartist dartist
    56-60, F
    Oct 2, 2012

    A Wake Up Call..

    i  met my first love after  5 years of no communication....i thought that meeting him again would lead me to a better and a sweeter love story..but i ended up fooling myself again..waiting for no one..expecting that this time I would be reciprocated with the love im...
    happytoon happytoon
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2009

    how long will it take

    for someone to date someone else
    tiffanytait1996 tiffanytait1996
    18-21, F
    Apr 10, 2014

    Just Today!

    The guy I was getting along so well with told me we should just sever ties and if I wrote him I wouldn't get a reply. This is a completely different person than from the guy I talked to on Yahoo IM and conference. He said we could go so many places, and he'd basically treat me...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses May 15, 2010

    Over It Now

    i had a girlfriend last year........and she dumped me
    monkeyboy117 monkeyboy117
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2008


    Wednesday was the best day of my life. My boyfriend of 5 and a half months stayed after school with me and we say in the library and talked,and kissed,and just spent time as a happy couple. Little did I know,that'd be the last time we WERE a couple. On the bus home,he held me in...
    littlesis333 littlesis333
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2013


    I've never been in the situation when somebody wants to continuously irritate me. This year, the irritation is named Sarah. She is perhaps the cockiest and strangest girl I have ever met. She is making herself content in hitting on and talking about my ex in front of me. At first...
    13Smiles 13Smiles
    18-21, F
    Sep 22, 2013

    Wow..... I am just in shock right now,

    I just can't think, we literally broke up yesterday, and the whole day afterwards, I was a mess, I had a full day ahead of me too, and despite how drained I was, I pushed through, and stuffed my emotions in a sock and carried on. And today he told me why he dumped. Because...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    and kills me i never cheated.

    . but he claims i did all i did was to like him and be faithful to him. in return he did this to me.. he promise he wont hurt me but he did
    Lourdes1983 Lourdes1983
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Worst Day Of My Life

    the worst day of my life was when my gf dumped me. she lived in a nearby state. she wanted a life with me. she always made efforts to see me. she wanted to live closer to me. i cheated on her with someone that didn't matter. i ruined everything. it was just emotional...
    EricWRN EricWRN
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 3, 2010

    it was internet love ,

    i thought that i found a person loves me true , and a best friend . but after that losr found someone much better than me ,then dumped me without saying anything , 0 words for me ,no sorry or bye or wat. i tried to talk ,but only ignore i was played then got dumped like an...
    KuSeGanTian KuSeGanTian
    26-30, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    Pretty Brutally

    After 8 months of deep, intimate, funny, loving conversations. After 8 months of dreaming of the day we'd finally be together. After 8 months of talking and dreaming of the future and what it may hold. He dumped me. And didn't even bother to tell me. April 16th, we talked, he...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    10 Responses Jun 29, 2009

    My ex dumped me the night he picked me up from

    the airport saying he had fallen out of love with me over a year ago. He then wanted to stay friends with and tried to make me agree to how horrible our relationship was, but our relationship was great so have no idea what he is talking about. He gets angry every time we talk...
    ohnoyesplease ohnoyesplease
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    I just wanna post something to help all the

    girls out here that need support and clarity. I am going through a break up and yes it does suck, but there are solutions. I have a method. It's called the "Maddie Method" and so far, it's totally working on me and my BFF who is also going through a break up. 1: Do something...
    Bassdrumlife12 Bassdrumlife12
    16-17, F
    Mar 10, 2015
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