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I Was Given An Ultimatum

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    The Ultimatum

    About 3 nights ago, the fight was on.  He said I treated him badly... I said that I didn't.  He said, I don't do enough... I said I do so!  I added that if I didn't do enough, how come he has clean underwear and clothes for work in his dresser?  And how...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 11 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    I Was Shocked

    So anyway, I was givin' a ultimatum...by my mom, she said son, you're going to have to move out and get your own place, and if you choose not to move out, well then...I'll kill your father and then myself, and I was like...wtf mom ...so I eventually moved out of the house and...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Aug 13, 2012

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    Get Over My Ex Or Get Out!

    I need help. Today, my husband gave me an ultimatum. In a nutshell, we met each other when we were both (unhappily)married, got divorsed and just this year he and I finally got married, after 3 yrs of living together. Unfortunately, in the beginning of our relationship...
    sags sags 31-35 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Came As A Total Shock To Me...

    So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost eight months. He has expressed his desire to marry me after we finish college, and so have I. I understand that while we aren't necessarily too young to say that, we still have a good amount of years before he's done with school...
    Adosia Adosia 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2010

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