I Was Hurt By Someone Close to Me

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    For My Mother

    When someone hurts you so bad you just dont know how to feel. You cant feel anything and you cant believe this is real. I found my mother after 30 years, I thought that she loved me. I couldnt hold back my tears. She called for 3 weeks and life was grand. I felt so happy like...
    ShineLikeJewelz ShineLikeJewelz
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 1, 2014

    Telling of Secrets

    The joyful surprise of Christmas morning was taken from my daughter. Her big main gift from me was to be a new blackberry pearl cell phone that she has wanted. Someone discovered what I had gotten her and told her. This to me was incredibly selfish.  Doing that takes away...
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 17, 2007

    I Thought

    I thought she was my closest friend but learned that she was just using me as a sounding board and only if she needed to Bi*ch about something.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 12, 2008

    Who is the closest person u can think of ?

    ! For me my brothers and my father... I ve become an only child although they were once in my life and my bothers are still here ... But ... I took matters into my own. hands and closed the door on their jealousy and hatred ... I dont need ppl like these in my life ... Even if...
    rb47 rb47
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    Well i guess i needed to vent somewhere

    and where does one turn to when its 6am in the morning and all youve been doing is eating ice cream and bawling... good old EP. I don't want to go into details but sometimes things have happen to show the person's true colours i guess even if it hurts like hell, i guess you have...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    Life is so strange. I surprised my mother with

    a visit, she didn't seem to happy. I was with her for a week and when she was home from work, she was so tired she would just go to bed. She didn't even chat with me. I felt sad. She told me, she got a day off to hang with me and ended up being sick the whole time. I felt...
    Luuz Luuz
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2015

    My Dads A Loser And My Best Friend Only Thinks Of Herself

    all my life my dad has been hurting me. seems like at 21 i would get over it.... my best friend is obsessed with guys and always puts me second to them. 
    AddyLuv AddyLuv
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2009

    All My Life

    All my life I let people close and get hurt its my fault for trusting too easy and not thinking just going with emotion. I will learn some day, I will be cold and safe from hurt.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 25, 2013

    My mom hates me my sister hates me

    and my boyfriend hates me. And the two I live with. They **** with me so hard and life at times seems so not manageable. I am really starting to lose faith in life. And I want for so much to work things out with my boyfriend. But he's also is starting to lose faith too. I don't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    My mom has setup for me to be a scapegoat

    for herself so my family thinks I'm such a bad person and no one will take the time to spend with me to find out for themselves. It sucks I have no support from anyone in my family and my boyfriend isn't very supportive either I find myself being so so alone all the time. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    Last September my ex girlfriend of seventeen

    months broke up with me. This isn't what had hurt me because we were both unhappy an at two different points in ours lives. She cheated, continued dating me, an lied multiple times to cover her wrong doings.. This was the knife in my back. I won't lie I wasn't perfect in the...
    AustynMonroe AustynMonroe
    18-21, M
    Mar 9, 2015

    In detail now. All's well that ends well.

    "I don't make mistakes" used to be my motto. I chased after women "willy-nilly", and manipulated the people around me to keep interested in my life. As I was entering high school, I came to the realization that the flock around me shall be moving on with their lives in four years...
    DarklyDreamingDemon DarklyDreamingDemon
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Mar 11, 2012

    I had an older mentor.

    I was 14 he was 25. He sounded very smart to me and he was helpful. But then he started to take advantage of me. It was over the internet but even so it was like he had a hold on me. He made me do things. I trusted him. He told me he likes doing things with younger girls because...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

    I Hesitate To Message, Talk To People, Or Hang Out With People After several Incidents

    Ever since my best friend and almost fiance to a massive emotional turn where they would say, "You don't have permission to talk" "You are just going to leave me live everyone else" "only speak when you are spoken too" "I have the ability to destroy your life" "You don't have...
    Legoman19892 Legoman19892
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 19, 2012

    Beaten And Broken, Lost And Unspoken

    PLEASE READ! ADVICE NEEDED! PLEASE! It seems so silly, and yet my insides are all broken up and torn apart. I just found this website and, well, I guess I thought it might be a good place to let things out. I don't have much other of a choice unless I want to shut down inside...
    GoldenMagnolia134 GoldenMagnolia134
    13-15
    1 Response Nov 4, 2012

    I was shattered and still have never recovered

    completely from that problem.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 1, 2014

    Hurt By My Own Daughter....

    It is Easter Sunday of all days.. Spending the day together as a family. Kids, nephews, my dad.  After brunch we were sitting around and as usual the jokes started flying.. Mostly about me and my dating or "not".  My daughter who is 26 brought up a guy that I was seeing at...
    mygirl01 mygirl01
    46-50
    Apr 24, 2011

    in high school in 11th grade by my best friend!

    ! we were the closest things ever!!! thank one day out of the blue she stopped talking to me, age never told me why, and till this day I don't know, I still think about it and even cry about it, and I evenvmiss her badly, sometimes I get angry at her, it really hurts me alot till...
    canttell21 canttell21
    22-25, F
    Nov 13, 2014

    My mom went to basic training

    when i was about 10, and at the time my step dad had just gotten back from deployment. She had to leave for 6 months, within the next 2 years i was molested, beatin, and even mentally scarred. My step dad took advantage of me. In the past he was a great father to me, he taught...
    amoiyahlewis amoiyahlewis
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    When You Can't Even Say Goodbye To Them?

     You know, you got hurt, but they are so close to you that you cannot physically and mentally say goodbye to them, because it will just hurt even more.  Like for example, i was really falling for my bestest friend in the whole world. I got hurt, badly, like I just...
    Queenofmist Queenofmist
    16-17, F
    Nov 27, 2009

    My father abused me when I was young.

    That's why my parents are divorced. I still can't get over the unhealthy guilt I feel over their divorce. Nor can I undo the trams I've been through.
    Ivalia Ivalia
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    How Long Does It Control You?

    Painful suffocating confusion. The ripple effect multiplied by the number of days you've sucked in the air of self doubt. An experience that leaves you simultaneously lost, hurt, a victim, but also in the wrong. When they glance at you and whisper " family problems". But...
    ChristineDarlene ChristineDarlene
    18-21, F
    Sep 14, 2012

    Friends Turn To Lovers And Lovers Turn To Strangers.

     In the summer of 2005 I met a boy at church camp. Cliche I know. He was very handsome and we clicked right away. However he lived 9 hours from me, so we knew it could never work out in the end. We stayed in touch though throughout the years, and became really good friends...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

    When Will My Friend Talk to Me?

    This is about my friend whom I consider as my mentor. I got acquainted to him through my husband. He was in london and his wife was in india..yet to join him in london...My husband stayed with him in London for some days... when he returned back, he was ill and hospitalized...
    pappula pappula
    31-35
    Jul 9, 2009

    Well. I guess I'm not the only sad story in

    this category, but my ex wife decided to be selfish and bail on out marriage and intimately our family. It was all about what was easy for her. She couldn't work through her dissatisfaction or unhappiness. It was just easier to avoid all that was causing her grief and...
    pfpfgiv pfpfgiv
    18-21
    Apr 2, 2014

    I Am So Sensitive

    I worry that I take what ppl say too seriously, I was at work when a girl I work with (who I hope was saying this to help me not hurt me) told me that others are talking about my disconnection at work, I am so very competitive person when it comes to my performance on the...
    Kgm86 Kgm86
    22-25
    Nov 27, 2009

    My mum lost her battle with cancer in January

    2003, when I was just 12 years old. By two weeks later, I'd lost my dad too - because he'd gotten into a relationship with an overbearing, selfish bully of a woman who didn't want me to get in the way of her relationship with him. I understand that he was grieving and that he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    I am trying to get over my husband spending way

    too much time with another women. They went out for dinner many times planned outings and texted each other a lot. I believe him when he says there was no sex involved, but even now he talks to saying she just a friend and asks me to trust him and calm down . Not sure what to do...
    trustagain trustagain
    36-40, F
    Apr 3, 2014

    The Moment I Gave Up

    Your words tear at me Angry tirades lodge in my chest I trusted you Handed you all my secrets on a silver platter And when you had all my mistakes Choices and wrong turns Laid before you You were angry Angry at me for ******* up my life (And you’re right, I don’t care) Angry...
    XGoldenDarknessX XGoldenDarknessX
    16-17, F
    Sep 30, 2013

    And I'm Tired Of It.

    being hurt by people close to me is nothing new, but it can still be a shock when it happens. last weekend, someone i would have thought i wouldn't have to worry about doing this to me did just that and the anger, hurt and disappointment i've felt has been overwhelming at times...
    jerrica jerrica
    46-50, F
    23 Responses Dec 6, 2009

    I Only Have Myself To Blame....

    i only have myself to blame for getting hurt by someone who was close to me. i let them get close to me, I let them in, and when they no longer needed me, they used my weaknesses, and my faults against me. They hurt me the ways that they knew would break me down to the core. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 1, 2009

    I was hurt by someone

    who I decided to trust and for the first time in my life I really cared for. I had been in other relationships before but never gave it much thought as this one. It's been over a year now and in still trying to get over the idea of how naive I was and how I was emotionally...
    catnisswil catnisswil
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2014

    Can you imagine the devil?

    He seems like your friend. He could be your family. Can you imagine having to fight him alone? Every door slams shut and there is no-one to phone. Can you imagine the truth staying hidden? When everyone believes the mask hiding the man. Who will stop at nothing to destroy you...
    woldgatewoods woldgatewoods
    31-35
    Aug 15, 2014

    She's my brother's girlfriend

    since 2007, they got married last year of April. We were so close but what happened now? She's one of my best buddies but one day all of a sudden she'd changed, totally. I dunno why... Besides, I know I didn't do anything wrong that will possibly affect our friendship. I treated...
    smjuap21 smjuap21
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    My husband has an anger problem.

    I'm really passive and soft. But little things will turn him into this mean raging man. The rest of the time he's super affectionate. Often inappropriately so in public. If I don't feel super kissy because I'm tired or stressed from school or busy working on something, he can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 2, 2015

    "There's nothing worse then putting a little

    person in a big position." TD Jakes
    Lilyroselove Lilyroselove
    51-55, F
    1 Response Mar 20

    That Was The Last Straw

    I trusted you, during a time when i trusted no one. I was never hurtful to you, or anything, in fact you told me how you never wanted to lose me. i see now, that they must of all being lies. In the end, it seems you was just like the others, who didn't even have the decency to...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Feb 22, 2012

    Go Figure....

    Maybe this is just me... When someone tries to hurt or offend me are only the people that are close to me. I don't really care what people say about me when I don't have respect for them. I brush it off fast and move on. When I'm hurt. It may have been something done or said buy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 13, 2012

    I had a love story with a boy

    but he didn't want a relationship so I decided to unfriend him from facebook just not to be jealous of his girl friends and so on. After some monthes that he showed interest towards me, always writing me and calling from abroad, I thought that maybe I was wrong, that actually he...
    hashsoul hashsoul
    31-35, F
    Oct 28, 2015
    georgia2001 georgia2001
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    I know that I'm not really intelligent

    especially in English and I admit it, but what hurts me most is the person who is close to my heart was the one discriminated my knowledge.Just because I hadn't passed the job interview wich is a call center agent she already set in her mind that I have nothing but a shameless...
    davinesarah davinesarah
    18-21, F
    Jul 5, 2015

    She Hurt Me

    I had a friend who made me feel like it would be ok.  She tore me apart, and I feel completely destroyed even now because of it.
    sapphiresky sapphiresky
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2007
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