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I Was In A Cold Relationship

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    I was married to a woman who was very cold-hearted.We both shared traditional beliefs about marriage but something within her made her judgmental of me and others.She appeared to be a warm and friendly person but deep down she was icy, cold and mean.She had a stone stare and...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses May 10, 2012

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