I Was In a Physically Abusive Relationship

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    'why?"

    The abuse with my bf/father of children started when we were about 18yrs old and continued until we were about 27yrs old. The abuse started off with slaps, shoving and chocking that lasted for a few years and things progressively got worse. I am not a fighting person so let me...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 13, 2010

    Still Living In Fear

    it started in 07 i became pregnant by a guy i was dating things were going good at first well after 2 months things were bad he was mentally and physically abusive about 5 months into my pregnancy i lost my baby boy noah after that things got alot worse we fist fought we broke up...
    ptcsucks ptcsucks
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2012

    I just recently got out of an emotionally

    and physically abusive relationship. He punched me in my jaw and on my side/back multiple times the other night. My right cheek is swollen and I was too embarrassed to go to class today. He did this to me, we weren't even together, because he decided to take my phone and read my...
    cak22 cak22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2014

    It's been almost five months

    since I left him. I have fallen in love with a man who treats me right, the ex boyfriend still hasn't admitted to doing any wrong, and I still can't move on from what he has done to me. How do I let go?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 7

    Walking In Hell

    When I was 18, I met, the love of my life, Gavin. He was funny, smart, handsome and so calm. At first, I felt like I was a princess in a fairy tale. He was always so sweet and witty, and made me feel like I was the best thing in his life. The first two or three months we amazing...
    ssfdffsgsdg ssfdffsgsdg
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    The father of my child is abusive And he makes

    everyone around us believe he's a good guy . We're not together I finally put him out but I'm scared I might take him back somebody help me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 30

    I don't know what to say.

    22/1/14 was the best day of my life so far. 9/1/14 My wonderful boyfriend Darryl crusoe saved my life from my abusive boyfriend at the time. My ex was strangling me. Telling me I liked it. Telling me to ask for more. He would have his arm around my neck and I would be laying on...
    ellabruce ellabruce
    18-21, F
    Jan 25, 2014

    House This Secret

    What do you know about getting your face stomped in? Nothing I hope. I don't want you to end up like me, you don't want to see the things I've seen A house of secrets a carpet an inch from your eyes. finding comfort in kicks to...
    maezombiie maezombiie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

    He used to grab me a lot

    and tell me not to do this or that and call me names flip tables and say it was my fault 😔
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2014

    It makes me feel so weak.

    He forced me to do things. A boy named Adam tried to help me, it was either me battered or him. He didn't do anything, I wasn't going to let him take it. I still have the scars from the broken jaw, bust lip and strangling. I want it to go away. Now my current boyfriend is...
    4Ana 4Ana
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2014

    I picked "was" instead of "am" in an abusive

    relationship because I believe my fiancé and I have worked our way through our problems. Is it wrong to believe that couples who are in an abusive relationship could change the course of their relationship? I've been with him for almost four years now. I'm not a saint. I...
    brusselsprouts brusselsprouts
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    I Love You

    I WAS 13 YEARS OLD WHEN I BEGIN TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 23 YEAR OLD MAN, HE HAD BEEN VERBERABLY ABUSIVE BUT NOT PHYSICALLY AND I FELT LIKE I WAS IN LOVE. HE HAD PICKED ME UP FROM SCHOOL EARLY THIS DAY SO HE DROVE OUT TO ONE OF HIS FRIENDS APARTMENT AND WE ALL WERE HAVING A...
    hisgraceandmercy77777 hisgraceandmercy77777
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2012

    April 14th was the 4 year "anniversary" of

    when my ex punched me in the face and slammed my head into the car window. At school that day a friend told me that if he hit me again to tell her and her and her boyfriend would come get me. As we were leaving his aunts house he slapped me across the face. I don't remember...
    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    I Was Abused

    I was almost killed by my fiance 5 years ago,. I have recovered, but the scars on the inside remain. The I see that he is engaged again and want to tell her what a monster he is. I know she will not listen and I can hear all the lies he told about me. He has no right to do this...
    mountainmom08 mountainmom08
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2012
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