Post

I Was In An Online Relationship That Ended Horribly

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 113 People

    And no it didn't reveal to be a 60 year old man

    in the end. She was REAL. Thing is we could never work it out and we had some arguments. But **** that **** I want the real deal this time.
    ConquistadorXL ConquistadorXL 16-17, M Jun 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I met someone online three months ago.

    At first, he was just someone I honestly didn't care enough about to try to impress, so I was open and upfront about everything with him. He was pretty open with me and enjoyed my honesty. We became friends. He texted me daily, without fail. Pretty soon, he had a pattern of...
    eva1990 eva1990 22-25, F Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He was very charming,

    knew all the right things to say. We chatted for about 6 months, exhanged emails, phone numbers. He told me how much he loved me. We talked about how we would like to meet at some point. even though we lived more than 8 hours apart. Then with no warning he was gone, his account...
    cutsy cutsy 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    hey guys well basically i entered an online

    relationship 4 years ago, i live in the UK and he lives in the USA i never thought it'd get so serious, we had always planned to meet but something or the other came up and it never happened.... he sent me prob 100 pics of him so obviously i didn't doubt he was lying to me it...
    emmah723 emmah723 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No I Really Wasn't... But... I Was Involved "online" With Someone... Who Was Unfair And Not Fun!! :( ___ And Than I Decided To Move On And Be Happy With Someone Good To Me &good For Me ...never Looked Back!!! Lol, RIP MY JEANS NOT MY HEART!!

    CRAZY ... WE MET just before VALENTINE Day... 2006.   Always DREAMING of Each Other, all Our LIVES!!!   THOUGH didn't MEAN anything TO "the other HALF", and 2, yes, two have to BE for there to be the ONE "us"...   and it was the games... and...
    Demigiozia Demigiozia 70+ Apr 18, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He lived in Europe and I in the US.

    We fell madly in love, and were in a long distance relationship for 2.5 yrs before I finally was strong enough to break it off. He was controlling and mentally abusive to the point I considered suicide. Each time I tried to get away, he would pull me back in. It was crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Online Love Has Not Been Good To Me....

    I have met four people online who I have gotten intimate with in person, later on...and one that I never got to meet. They all used me as tension relief, layering every touch with dirty lies of love. As such, I am not letting my heart believe until we have been friends in...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Online Boyfriend

    He told me that he loved me and I fell hard for him. He told me charming things over our email conversations. He was 2 years older than me and I didnt care; I loved him and I was so blind that I truly believed that he loved me too. I was a fool! I told only my closest friends...
    SoulSinger SoulSinger 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    1 Rotten Apple To Spoil The Bunch...

    we shall name him "T". • He was 5 years older, he was really handsome, caring, confident ..etc. He was never good at dedicating time towards me. making timw for chats, or phone calls. Hed always come up with a silly excuse. About a year afterwards, after having suspicions and...
    MizShagtastic MizShagtastic 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I began my online relationship officially on November 4th, of last year. I met my boyfriend on July 4th. I was on omegle chat on my phone one random day after going to the beach...
    FistyMcPedophile FistyMcPedophile 18-21, F Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hey guys, could use some help here. Now I am traveling a bit these days and will be living away from home. A relationship is hard to keep going when someone is traveling, moving...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dont know what having an online relationship is like. Please tell
    erica0415 erica0415 41-45, F 8 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always wanted to try to have an online relationship with someone. I have tried before but they were not very loyal.
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think this is absolutely the most painful relationship to find yourself in. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little while, but we've been talking for almost two...
    xd288 xd288 16-17, F Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I met this guy on one of those "hot or not" kind of apps that I made as a joke a while ago. I'd never meant to actually talk to someone on there, and I never expected anything...
    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 9 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And boy was it hard tonight wow a lot of drama like wow thought I was done but me and my babe we stuck through it pulled out together on top and always will wow she is really the...
    Pablo71214 Pablo71214 16-17, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If any guys are interested tell chat me plz
    rainbowdash110 rainbowdash110 13-15, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love them I feel like I know the person better and it's easier to be me
    Lildemii Lildemii 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know its a real taboo of online dating, what makes it worse is that it is long distant as we are both from different countries, I from the UK him from Romania (tom-not his real...
    kitakata1 kitakata1 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want to warn people to be especially cautious and careful about who you friend on facebook or any social media . There are predators and scammers who don't want friendship or a...
    TexasTam61 TexasTam61 51-55, F Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is the most complicated thing I have ever been involved in, I really would like some peoples opinions on this. Firstly S and I met on a social/dating website about a year...
    Bubszey Bubszey 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Year 2 started with him taking his wife away on a romantic vacation. He came back thinking all was good and ended it with me. Before the week was up I got the text "Can you meet me...
    timetoheal65 timetoheal65 41-45 Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had a previous relationship where we often brought another man into our bed ..often one of his/our friends--it was confusing for me though, I had insecure feelings that...
    lostdaisy69 lostdaisy69 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I broke up with my ex-gf about 2 months ago. It was a 3 and a half year relationship that was mostly great. We were both easygoing, liked the same stuff, didn't want kids, and the...
    AboutThatLife AboutThatLife 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I live in America and i have an online relationship with the best girl ever who lives in Italy. We plan to put in the work and get married :D
    azumanga11 azumanga11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It can work if you make time out to see one another. But if you're just planning on having an online relationship then that ship isn't gonna sail much longer.
    JustAnotherOptimisticSoul JustAnotherOptimisticSoul 22-25, M Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    what are the advantages of a online relationship?
    Fay501 Fay501 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i have been married 2.6 years, and feel done. and scared. of the loneliness that is to follow. i remember how done i was with relationships that seemed to go nowhere. then when i...
    andthentherewaslight andthentherewaslight 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Now I am feeling sad in every way. I ended a relationship that I felt. deep inside, simply was not going to be good for me long term. This man was so supportive and loving towards...
    graceoverall graceoverall 56-60, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Love is making me feel insane and alone. Met this guy two years ago. We were friends for a year, not super close friends. Then we dated for 3 months. And I'm in heartwrenching love...
    sailed1316 sailed1316 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been with this guy for almost a year and I can honestly say that I thought he was the one. We broke up once and got back together and the second time we broke up it was...
    taaywalks taaywalks 22-25, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Long story short the final straw came Friday night when I found out he was planning on meeting another woman and the details were sketchy about whether or not they wanted to keep...
    Benassi Benassi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Six Months Ago, on Christmas Day, at 7:30 PM, Unjusted and I met irl for the first time. It was an awkward meeting. We had chatted extensively online for several months in the...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm new to think site but I thought it would be interesting to share my story here, since I'm uncomfortable sharing it elsewhere.Coming close to 2 years ago now, I met a guy on...
    chungking chungking 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Girls interested in a relationship age 13-15 message me or comment and ill message you
    HMC14 HMC14 13-15, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Actually no...I don't believe in long distance relationship, or I used to but after my experience in the end I just felt empty and crushed from the inside. I met that girl while I...
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    2nd part of my post :p After 3 years, this Italian guy came knocking on my online window xD We got to know each other online, he said he's a serious man and not looking for just...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Last May I got on Omegle at around 1 am to pass the time so I didn't fall asleep because I had to get up really early and I didn't think I would wake up in the morning if I went to...
    evaxxx evaxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It happens. It is always possible to find the right person online. I did but I made a big mistake of leaving the relationship which I regret until now. I met the most amazing guy...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Where do I start? I met this guy a year ago on the website Tagged. From the first ever messages we just sort of clicked, we had some sort of connection and I loved it. We have...
    5secondsofsara 5secondsofsara 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There wasn't a category for the particular way that my boyfriend and I met. It's strange and unconventional, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. We met 3 years ago while...
    BrittanyErin BrittanyErin 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in a relationship that ended really badly in march. A month later I decided to try online dating. None of the contacts that have made have lasted longer than a couple weeks...
    wildrose2184 wildrose2184 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I recently made a mistake in my life that keeps haunting me. I sent a picture of myself to an ex fling while I am in a committed relationship. It wasn't by way of flirting , more...
    vixonexperience666 vixonexperience666 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel