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I Was Jealous

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 193 People

    Cheaters Never Win

    My ex dated a girl for over 10 years and never commited. After we married he continued to see/talk to her.  She showed up a few times at our gigs.  This was never pleasant.  I always speak my mind.  I didn't remember her the first time but after that...I...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 7 Responses May 21, 2009

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    I Don't Know How to Be Jealous!

    This NYE's my fiance and I went out to a club in Sydney to celebrate new years with our mates. Long story short my partner walked over to a door ***** to ask her what time re-entry was (I found out later) and it looked like he was being flirtatious. One of his mates made a crack...
    bohogoddess bohogoddess 26-30 1 Response Jan 1, 2009

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    I Often Find Myself Guilty of It...

    Jealousy is a powerful emotion. It is considered one of the seven deadly sins. Although I feel envy goes hand in hand with pride. At least it does with me. I'm most often envious when my pride is hurt. I'm envious of what my friends have. They don't have to fight through the...
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    I Am Such A Jealous Person

    and I know it's not becoming, but for whatever reasons, I just can't seem to help it. I am jealous of my girlfriends ex, who she still converses with on the phone yet assures me she is not trying to get back with and who she assures me is also not trying to get back with her, but...
    lithiumkat lithiumkat 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    Jealous..?? Yh Right...w8 Who Am I Kidding

    hiya so anyway....my gf use to get my sooo jelaous i use to do lots of crazy things...i think she use to do it on purpose so anyway...she said that it would break us up...so yh i decided to stop it.....(but i still believe she did it on purpose) so she tells me things and i don't...
    SexyRu SexyRu 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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    Done

    I stopped talking to my best friend. Maybe the reason is petty but sometimes you can feel like a relationship has run it's course. I was done with him, the way he treated me and the way he acted. It's weird how we became friends especially since we both liked the same guy. The...
    FightingToSwIm FightingToSwIm 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Not Anymore

    Very easy and very quick way to NOT JEALOUSE ANYMORE!!! It takes only a few minutes how you will start being different happy and normal person!ABSOLUTELY FREE ADVICE barbie_773@hotmail.com
    kich kich 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    My Bestfriend

    I hated certain people when they were around my best friend. I was in the elementary back then and I was possessive of my friends, especially the one I considered the best. I owned this best friend so why are people taking him/her away from me? I knew his/her secrets more than...
    masks masks 16-17 Sep 15, 2008

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    Jealous

    I was once a very jealous person but then realized when you get jealous it seems to put more strain on you then anyone so I fixed my self still helping myself. and working on my insecurities.
    kalikween28 kalikween28 22-25, F Jun 29, 2013

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    Classic Situation

    I'd never understood it when people talked of sibling jealousy. I didn't feel that way at all when my little brother was born. I loved him straight away; I wanted to see what type of person he would become. I was always aware of the way people treated me and my elder brother...
    musicspirit musicspirit 16-17, F Mar 11, 2009

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    How I Overcame Jealousy

    Jelly Jelly   I was never taught how it was like to be jealous. I was just born with this thing called human nature. Like babies you see them fighting over toys, they weren't taught to do it they just do it. And who taught us to lie? Same with jealousy. We see someone who...
    ladynau ladynau 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    So Silly Really

    As I watched the Governor give update after update regarding the last TS Faye I realized my green monster was kicking me a bit. Not because of him but because of the ASL Translator next to him. When I first started College my major was ASL. I had great dreams of becoming an...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Aug 25, 2008

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    Jasmin the Most Beautiful Flower...

    When I first saw her and I realized what was really happening, the fear and terror in my throat and stomach froze me with its icy clutches. The fear  strengthened, intensifying into a swirling mass of terror, doubt, and hope, but I kept it under control. I took a deep breath...
    Alyx Alyx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2007

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    I Hated Knowing I Secretly Hated My Best Friend For Years

    for many many years i secretly hated my best friend because of how beautiful he was, and all the attention he got whenever we went anywhere at all. we could be at a gas station and someone would just have to let him know how gorgeous he was. everywhere we went, people, strangers...
    lionsdenn lionsdenn 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    Grr,

    I was best friends with a guy I liked. I had to move away and I was so sad! It'd been more than a year and we still text almost everyday. I made a new "best friend" this one a female, and she wanted to text someone in my address book. It had to be him. She made him send a picture...
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl 13-15, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Okay Maybe Was Jealous Is Bad Term

    Im a jealous person all around . I always have been ... and  im soo bitter about Jake but i need to just let that go .. Im never gonna have him the way i want him . Its too much of a distance and neither one of us are going to leave our children . But i'm so jealous of his...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2007

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    Rope Tying To A Tree?

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison and I did everything together. This one paticular day, we were just walking around and a girl whom we both dont like cause she tried ruining our friendship, says to Harrison " Come over here " and she grabs his hand and runs away with...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 16, 2012

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    Loss of a friendship

    Two years ago I reconnected with an old friend that I hadn't seen in 10 years and it was amazing how much we had in common. We were both engaged, renting, had a toddler and both pregnant with our second child. We weren't working and found ourselves spending 3-4 days a week...
    Miseryhascompany Miseryhascompany 26-30, F Jan 29, 2013

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    I Over-came It!!!

    Since child-hood I was very jealous even in petty issues. Somehow with age I got little wiser. I accepted the fact: " you can't change the other person's destiny! You can certainly change yours if you focus less on them!!" I am free!! I am not jealous of anybody...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Yes, I Get Jealous

    I admit it. I don't get ragingly jealous, just the usual "grrrrr, get your hands off my man!". I am polyamerous, I can love more than one person and don't mind my loves loving others. What I do mind is my loves giving or seeming to give more love and attention to...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 28, 2007

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    Untrusting

    i dont share well. people, places, objects. i was never really comfortable letting someone experience one of my things w out me. to call it their own was secretly infuriating to me. my friends can't be friends w my boyfriend, even though i trust them not to sleep w him or...
    AllOnTheTable AllOnTheTable 18-21, F Aug 3, 2009

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    You Better Believe I Was

    this was, by far, the worst case of jealousy i've experienced since high school. i can't explain it and i won't try.  i was overcome with emotions so powerful i didn't know what to do with them.  i succeeded in alienating everyone around me (most importantly, him) and...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    Kinda Long, But Hey Im Detailed!

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison, do everything together! So we went to this camp thing. When we were both 8 we made a list of things to do together before we turned 18. We wrote down 2, 937 thing's down. Ofcourse, we added more thing's as we got older, hence to why it...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 27, 2012

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    Ugh, jealous is a green eyed monster! That's what they all say, and I believe it's true. It can distort our being, play with our emotions and cause us to think too much. Well...
    WaveRunner101 WaveRunner101 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I swear sometimes I just don't understand how things in life work this woman has cheated on her husband numerious times, has had a abortion, did drugs and was kicked ut f the army...
    lonelymom1982 lonelymom1982 31-35, F May 16

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    It's exam season and everyone I know (more or less) have holidays planned for summer and I get really jealous as I'm not going anywhere and feel like I am missing out. I was...
    Usmaniani Usmaniani 18-21, M 2 Responses May 8

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    so there's that girl that I know since secondary school she was always the pretty talented popular smart girl I used to envy her wished to be like her I felt really jealous of her...
    AThousandSun AThousandSun 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    This is pretty long, so bear with me, I just don't know what to make of what I just found out. Also, my punctuation and grammar kind of suck... About 4 years ago, my childhood...
    LitoWatts LitoWatts 26-30, F 1 Response May 5

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    Now I'm going to be a jealous b1tch for a stupid reason, but, what the hell. So... Me and a friend were in a RPG together. It's about 35 girls fighting for a prince in a palace...
    somesortofcreature somesortofcreature 16-17, F May 15

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    truly am. but on denial. if the person I'm talking to doesn't respond bck right away and I see his status as online.. I loose it right away. my mood just change immediately and my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    idk if this is jealousy or whatever but me and my ex boyfriend broke up obviously lol but we were talking for a while and I decided to stop talking to him and then I saw him with a...
    LuisB3344 LuisB3344 18-21, M 1 Response May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F May 2

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    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars 22-25, F 4 Responses May 2

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    I dislike them, but I am also becoming a jealous guy of my sister. As she is more popular than me and gets many dates. God forbids she knows this though. I am becoming a bitter...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M May 14

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    the god of the bible is a jealous god. Love cannot have jealousy at it's core. Therefore The god of the bible is not love. Therefore christians who insist on defending "The...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 3 Responses May 15

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    So if you read my recent "I am sad" experience this would make more sense to you. Our vacation has been so much fun. But my dd is going through a break up & I can see that he is...
    ConfusedMinaB ConfusedMinaB 22-25, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I'm extremely jealous and it's crazy. I hate it but Idk what to do to fix it.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    i get super jealous around girls who are prettier than me or when they have nicer things or a bf. i feel like something must be wrong with me that i cant be like them. i try and i...
    avalily avalily 18-21, F Apr 29

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    For some reason, I have been getting very jealous towards anyone who my ex boyfriend gives attention to. It's a very bad thing and I wish it didn't make me as mad as it does but I...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Apr 30

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    I hate this feeling and I've never had it in life except when it comes to him. I get jealous and it's clearly an insecurity but it's the worst feeling in the world. I know why I...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 4 Responses May 2

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