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I Was Jealous

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    I stopped talking to my best friend. Maybe the reason is petty but sometimes you can feel like a relationship has run it's course. I was done with him, the way he treated me and the way he acted. It's weird how we became friends especially since we both liked the same guy. The...
    FightingToSwIm FightingToSwIm 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Cheaters Never Win

    My ex dated a girl for over 10 years and never commited. After we married he continued to see/talk to her.  She showed up a few times at our gigs.  This was never pleasant.  I always speak my mind.  I didn't remember her the first time but after that...I...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 7 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Jealous

    I was once a very jealous person but then realized when you get jealous it seems to put more strain on you then anyone so I fixed my self still helping myself. and working on my insecurities.
    kalikween28 kalikween28 22-25, F Jun 29, 2013

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    Grr,

    I was best friends with a guy I liked. I had to move away and I was so sad! It'd been more than a year and we still text almost everyday. I made a new "best friend" this one a female, and she wanted to text someone in my address book. It had to be him. She made him send a picture...
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl 13-15, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    My Bestfriend

    I hated certain people when they were around my best friend. I was in the elementary back then and I was possessive of my friends, especially the one I considered the best. I owned this best friend so why are people taking him/her away from me? I knew his/her secrets more than...
    masks masks 16-17 Sep 15, 2008

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    Not Anymore

    Very easy and very quick way to NOT JEALOUSE ANYMORE!!! It takes only a few minutes how you will start being different happy and normal person!ABSOLUTELY FREE ADVICE barbie_773@hotmail.com
    kich kich 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    Untrusting

    i dont share well. people, places, objects. i was never really comfortable letting someone experience one of my things w out me. to call it their own was secretly infuriating to me. my friends can't be friends w my boyfriend, even though i trust them not to sleep w him or...
    AllOnTheTable AllOnTheTable 18-21, F Aug 3, 2009

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    Just random thoughts came cross my mind.

    . Jealousy ..... It was eating me inside until I figured out some facts: 1) It makes me look silly. 2) It pushes people away. 3) I will hurt myself only and no one would care. So I decided to work on myself and put my things in order,,, I am who I am , I have good and bad...
    regretmyfeelings regretmyfeelings 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 14

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    Kinda Long, But Hey Im Detailed!

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison, do everything together! So we went to this camp thing. When we were both 8 we made a list of things to do together before we turned 18. We wrote down 2, 937 thing's down. Ofcourse, we added more thing's as we got older, hence to why it...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 27, 2012

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    I Am Such A Jealous Person

    and I know it's not becoming, but for whatever reasons, I just can't seem to help it. I am jealous of my girlfriends ex, who she still converses with on the phone yet assures me she is not trying to get back with and who she assures me is also not trying to get back with her, but...
    lithiumkat lithiumkat 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    I Don't Know How to Be Jealous!

    This NYE's my fiance and I went out to a club in Sydney to celebrate new years with our mates. Long story short my partner walked over to a door ***** to ask her what time re-entry was (I found out later) and it looked like he was being flirtatious. One of his mates made a crack...
    bohogoddess bohogoddess 26-30 1 Response Jan 1, 2009

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    So Silly Really

    As I watched the Governor give update after update regarding the last TS Faye I realized my green monster was kicking me a bit. Not because of him but because of the ASL Translator next to him. When I first started College my major was ASL. I had great dreams of becoming an...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Aug 25, 2008

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    Classic Situation

    I'd never understood it when people talked of sibling jealousy. I didn't feel that way at all when my little brother was born. I loved him straight away; I wanted to see what type of person he would become. I was always aware of the way people treated me and my elder brother...
    musicspirit musicspirit 16-17, F Mar 11, 2009

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    Rope Tying To A Tree?

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison and I did everything together. This one paticular day, we were just walking around and a girl whom we both dont like cause she tried ruining our friendship, says to Harrison " Come over here " and she grabs his hand and runs away with...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 16, 2012

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    Okay Maybe Was Jealous Is Bad Term

    Im a jealous person all around . I always have been ... and  im soo bitter about Jake but i need to just let that go .. Im never gonna have him the way i want him . Its too much of a distance and neither one of us are going to leave our children . But i'm so jealous of his...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2007

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    Jasmin the Most Beautiful Flower...

    When I first saw her and I realized what was really happening, the fear and terror in my throat and stomach froze me with its icy clutches. The fear  strengthened, intensifying into a swirling mass of terror, doubt, and hope, but I kept it under control. I took a deep breath...
    Alyx Alyx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2007

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    Yes, I Get Jealous

    I admit it. I don't get ragingly jealous, just the usual "grrrrr, get your hands off my man!". I am polyamerous, I can love more than one person and don't mind my loves loving others. What I do mind is my loves giving or seeming to give more love and attention to...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 28, 2007

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    How I Overcame Jealousy

    Jelly Jelly   I was never taught how it was like to be jealous. I was just born with this thing called human nature. Like babies you see them fighting over toys, they weren't taught to do it they just do it. And who taught us to lie? Same with jealousy. We see someone who...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    I Often Find Myself Guilty of It...

    Jealousy is a powerful emotion. It is considered one of the seven deadly sins. Although I feel envy goes hand in hand with pride. At least it does with me. I'm most often envious when my pride is hurt. I'm envious of what my friends have. They don't have to fight through the...
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    You Better Believe I Was

    this was, by far, the worst case of jealousy i've experienced since high school. i can't explain it and i won't try.  i was overcome with emotions so powerful i didn't know what to do with them.  i succeeded in alienating everyone around me (most importantly, him) and...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    Jealous..?? Yh Right...w8 Who Am I Kidding

    hiya so anyway....my gf use to get my sooo jelaous i use to do lots of crazy things...i think she use to do it on purpose so anyway...she said that it would break us up...so yh i decided to stop it.....(but i still believe she did it on purpose) so she tells me things and i don't...
    SexyRu SexyRu 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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    I Hated Knowing I Secretly Hated My Best Friend For Years

    for many many years i secretly hated my best friend because of how beautiful he was, and all the attention he got whenever we went anywhere at all. we could be at a gas station and someone would just have to let him know how gorgeous he was. everywhere we went, people, strangers...
    lionsdenn lionsdenn 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    I Over-came It!!!

    Since child-hood I was very jealous even in petty issues. Somehow with age I got little wiser. I accepted the fact: " you can't change the other person's destiny! You can certainly change yours if you focus less on them!!" I am free!! I am not jealous of anybody...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Loss of a friendship

    Two years ago I reconnected with an old friend that I hadn't seen in 10 years and it was amazing how much we had in common. We were both engaged, renting, had a toddler and both pregnant with our second child. We weren't working and found ourselves spending 3-4 days a week...
    Miseryhascompany Miseryhascompany 26-30, F Jan 29, 2013

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    Met this one guy at work and he seemed cool, but he is more a people person. That's fine and all I just wanted to be considered his friend. Now that might not happen even as he...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    A rule of courtly love from my English class: He who is not jealous cannot love. Well... I had a jealous boyfriend. Every time I hear the song "Jealous" by Nick Jonas, I get...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have no clue why I get jealous of you. I'm married, live in a wonderful country, husband treats me wonderful, I have everything and yet I get jealous of a single, struggling...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I have no clue why I get jealous of you. I'm married, live in a wonderful country, husband treats me wonderful, I have everything and yet I get jealous of a single, struggling...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    This story is about a girl called Katrina. Katrina was the new girl at my school when I was 16 years old. I remember seeing her on her first day. She'd just transferred from a very...
    friedaninety friedaninety 22-25, F a week ago

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    Jealousy is the one emotion I don't want to feel as it makes you feel mad and angry at a person for weird reasons. To me it's the worst feeling as I don't envy others, it's not a...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    My girlfriend saids she wants me to act jealous. I laughed at her then told her why should I act jealous if another guy find you attractive. I trust you that you will always...
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    I have a bf that works as a car salesman. We been together for 3 years and he started this job about a year ago. He deals with a lot of people and sometimes female customers would...
    tatitam tatitam 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    It does take much for me to get jealous when I see a hot girl with another man im hurting inside I hate it because I just feel horrible throughout the day. I know it's a normal...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    I wish i was like her! she's outgoing, sociable, bubbly, open and she is never shy. she gets so much guys and she gets asked out a lot, she will literally go up to anyone and say...
    juliac123 juliac123 13-15, F Nov 23

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    40th post...Wow, it's my 40th birthday in 3 months and this is my 40th post. I'm going to take this post as being symbolic. How am I feeling today?? I can feel the bad feelings...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    a bit of julaousy is right because, otherwise, you don't care about a person. But, BUT, too much jelaousy is dangerous and really stupid. If a person wants to cheat on his partner...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    My jealousy issue is driving the best relationship i have in my life to the brink of an end. I just cannot trust. I've tried. I've been trying my hardest to change and try...
    SolitarySol SolitarySol 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So should I be upset right now because my boyfriend calls other girls beautiful and other names. Like, I got so jealous because for one, what's mine is mine. Secondly, why is he...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    It's helpful to know that I'm not the only one who's going though the same situation. I always swore to myself that I would never be with a man that had children, but yet here I am...
    BlackStarryNight BlackStarryNight 26-30, F Dec 14

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    I'm very jealous One day when I sow my gf with some guys I was about to fight with them but my friend stopped me It was so stupid of me I think I need to learn controlling...
    Stevejons Stevejons 22-25, M Nov 29

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    Yes I am. Don't get me wrong. I love my sister. She is my best friend, my everything. She is my baby girl. I love her with all my heart and I will take care of her. She is prettier...
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F Nov 22

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    "Sometimes you have to be mean and hurt someone's feeling and to help and save their heart. The truth hurts, but lies kill." I know this is what you want me to know, but it's too...
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Jealousy shows you're afraid of loosing someone.
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    So I don't get upset when you get jealous, it really is adorable. It shows you care.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I need someone to help me please ! I've been thinking about committing suicide a lot and it's all because a small thing , which is my sister she's prettier and everything !! It...
    Snowwhite5424 Snowwhite5424 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    The above I didn't know where else to post this. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him to pieces, he is everything I ask for accept he has a daughter with an ex...
    Mistygemma92 Mistygemma92 22-25 1 Response Nov 23

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    I don't even know what to do about my jealousy, it takes over me. Angry, and wanting more attention from him than anyone that has his. Does anyone have this problem when you have...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 24

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    Having a micropenis and a severe case of inferiority complex make me jealous and envious of guys that are well endowed.
    SlaveboyLoser SlaveboyLoser 31-35, M Dec 5

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