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I Was Jealous

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    Yes, I Get Jealous

    I admit it. I don't get ragingly jealous, just the usual "grrrrr, get your hands off my man!". I am polyamerous, I can love more than one person and don't mind my loves loving others. What I do mind is my loves giving or seeming to give more love and attention to...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 28, 2007

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    Jealous..?? Yh Right...w8 Who Am I Kidding

    hiya so anyway....my gf use to get my sooo jelaous i use to do lots of crazy things...i think she use to do it on purpose so anyway...she said that it would break us up...so yh i decided to stop it.....(but i still believe she did it on purpose) so she tells me things and i don't...
    SexyRu SexyRu 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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    I Hated Knowing I Secretly Hated My Best Friend For Years

    for many many years i secretly hated my best friend because of how beautiful he was, and all the attention he got whenever we went anywhere at all. we could be at a gas station and someone would just have to let him know how gorgeous he was. everywhere we went, people, strangers...
    lionsdenn lionsdenn 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    Jealous

    I was once a very jealous person but then realized when you get jealous it seems to put more strain on you then anyone so I fixed my self still helping myself. and working on my insecurities.
    kalikween28 kalikween28 22-25, F Jun 29, 2013

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    I Don't Know How to Be Jealous!

    This NYE's my fiance and I went out to a club in Sydney to celebrate new years with our mates. Long story short my partner walked over to a door ***** to ask her what time re-entry was (I found out later) and it looked like he was being flirtatious. One of his mates made a crack...
    bohogoddess bohogoddess 26-30 1 Response Jan 1, 2009

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    Not Anymore

    Very easy and very quick way to NOT JEALOUSE ANYMORE!!! It takes only a few minutes how you will start being different happy and normal person!ABSOLUTELY FREE ADVICE barbie_773@hotmail.com
    kich kich 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    Grr,

    I was best friends with a guy I liked. I had to move away and I was so sad! It'd been more than a year and we still text almost everyday. I made a new "best friend" this one a female, and she wanted to text someone in my address book. It had to be him. She made him send a picture...
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl 13-15, F May 20, 2012

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    Okay Maybe Was Jealous Is Bad Term

    Im a jealous person all around . I always have been ... and  im soo bitter about Jake but i need to just let that go .. Im never gonna have him the way i want him . Its too much of a distance and neither one of us are going to leave our children . But i'm so jealous of his...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2007

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    I Over-came It!!!

    Since child-hood I was very jealous even in petty issues. Somehow with age I got little wiser. I accepted the fact: " you can't change the other person's destiny! You can certainly change yours if you focus less on them!!" I am free!! I am not jealous of anybody...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    So Silly Really

    As I watched the Governor give update after update regarding the last TS Faye I realized my green monster was kicking me a bit. Not because of him but because of the ASL Translator next to him. When I first started College my major was ASL. I had great dreams of becoming an...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Aug 25, 2008

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    You Better Believe I Was

    this was, by far, the worst case of jealousy i've experienced since high school. i can't explain it and i won't try.  i was overcome with emotions so powerful i didn't know what to do with them.  i succeeded in alienating everyone around me (most importantly, him) and...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    Jasmin the Most Beautiful Flower...

    When I first saw her and I realized what was really happening, the fear and terror in my throat and stomach froze me with its icy clutches. The fear  strengthened, intensifying into a swirling mass of terror, doubt, and hope, but I kept it under control. I took a deep breath...
    Alyx Alyx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2007

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    Classic Situation

    I'd never understood it when people talked of sibling jealousy. I didn't feel that way at all when my little brother was born. I loved him straight away; I wanted to see what type of person he would become. I was always aware of the way people treated me and my elder brother...
    musicspirit musicspirit 16-17, F Mar 11, 2009

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    I Am Such A Jealous Person

    and I know it's not becoming, but for whatever reasons, I just can't seem to help it. I am jealous of my girlfriends ex, who she still converses with on the phone yet assures me she is not trying to get back with and who she assures me is also not trying to get back with her, but...
    lithiumkat lithiumkat 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    Rope Tying To A Tree?

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison and I did everything together. This one paticular day, we were just walking around and a girl whom we both dont like cause she tried ruining our friendship, says to Harrison " Come over here " and she grabs his hand and runs away with...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 16, 2012

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    Done

    I stopped talking to my best friend. Maybe the reason is petty but sometimes you can feel like a relationship has run it's course. I was done with him, the way he treated me and the way he acted. It's weird how we became friends especially since we both liked the same guy. The...
    FightingToSwIm FightingToSwIm 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Kinda Long, But Hey Im Detailed!

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison, do everything together! So we went to this camp thing. When we were both 8 we made a list of things to do together before we turned 18. We wrote down 2, 937 thing's down. Ofcourse, we added more thing's as we got older, hence to why it...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld 13-15, F Sep 27, 2012

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    Cheaters Never Win

    My ex dated a girl for over 10 years and never commited. After we married he continued to see/talk to her.  She showed up a few times at our gigs.  This was never pleasant.  I always speak my mind.  I didn't remember her the first time but after that...I...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 7 Responses May 21, 2009

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    I Often Find Myself Guilty of It...

    Jealousy is a powerful emotion. It is considered one of the seven deadly sins. Although I feel envy goes hand in hand with pride. At least it does with me. I'm most often envious when my pride is hurt. I'm envious of what my friends have. They don't have to fight through the...
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    Untrusting

    i dont share well. people, places, objects. i was never really comfortable letting someone experience one of my things w out me. to call it their own was secretly infuriating to me. my friends can't be friends w my boyfriend, even though i trust them not to sleep w him or...
    AllOnTheTable AllOnTheTable 18-21, F Aug 3, 2009

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    Loss of a friendship

    Two years ago I reconnected with an old friend that I hadn't seen in 10 years and it was amazing how much we had in common. We were both engaged, renting, had a toddler and both pregnant with our second child. We weren't working and found ourselves spending 3-4 days a week...
    Miseryhascompany Miseryhascompany 26-30, F Jan 29, 2013

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    How I Overcame Jealousy

    Jelly Jelly   I was never taught how it was like to be jealous. I was just born with this thing called human nature. Like babies you see them fighting over toys, they weren't taught to do it they just do it. And who taught us to lie? Same with jealousy. We see someone who...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2008

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    My Bestfriend

    I hated certain people when they were around my best friend. I was in the elementary back then and I was possessive of my friends, especially the one I considered the best. I owned this best friend so why are people taking him/her away from me? I knew his/her secrets more than...
    masks masks 16-17 Sep 15, 2008

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    Meant for someone else, but not for me. Love was out to get me. That's the way it seemed. Disappointment haunted all my dreams... Then I saw his face. And now I'm a believer...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend was so jealous of everything I would do. If I didn't text him back in a what he thought was time appropriate he'd ask me all sorts of questions. He was nice and...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Effeminate Sissy Boi who was always bullied and called names by jealous girls and mean boys. Sigh.
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    " She looks way better than i do..." "She looks gorgeous and smart." "She's tall..." " She's the best friend of my boyfriend..." "How can they be so close until the extent they are...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This has come as a shock to me since, I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Hello Everyone! This is my story of when I was bullied in public school. If you're a victim of bullying, stay strong. I started getting bullied in my first year of public...
    Maria16 Maria16 16-17 Mar 18

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Oh smart one.....you call me jealous do you? Let me tell you the facts, since you are incapable of truth! You are jealous because he blocked you. Well FYI, I was not about to...
    OneEPGirl OneEPGirl 70+, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    All my life I have dealt with jealous people. People who smile in my face but wish me harm when i'm not looking. People who constantly compare their lives with mine. I've learned...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Apr 7

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    This 60 yr old lady yells at me for wearing provocative clothing, it's not like I'm trying to impress her nor anybody. Besides belly button and cleavage, I only show legs during...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for going on three years and recently my jealously is getting out of hand. He has been with more girls then I have, which doesn't bother me...
    Gucci1990 Gucci1990 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I am jealous of my so pregnant friend.She is married to a guy who is so tall and now she is going to have a baby.I am so jealous I cannot help but want to be pregnant.I really like...
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    My boyfriends best friend is a guy and he knows the sides of him that I could never know. Their both Hispanic and when they talk I know how happy my man gets because the humor is...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I can admit I do get jealous at times. Sometimes it motivates me and other times I let it go to my head and beat myself up about it. I'm not the type of person to hate just...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am get very jealous when my fiance talks to women. He's such a great guy and he's a chick magnet I guess. Its so bad that I cant even watch a movie with him anymore if there's a...
    fb715 fb715 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So I've been texting to a guy for 3 months now, all day, every day on a purely friendly basis & a bit if flirting but I'm finding myself being jealous when he mentions his ex has...
    SlightlySparkles SlightlySparkles 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well dad is at work :) Me and jake are home alone and I'm on dads iPad. The one I broke dad got a really nice case for it. Well... When Marcus finally let me go home jake locked me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 4

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    A little history first, Jenn and Adrianna were friends 10 years ago, i was trying to make adrianna fall in love with me, she told me her dad hates my family and it would be like...
    storm8756 storm8756 26-30, M Apr 6

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    Let me explain. I found myself jealous the other day of Bronies. I thought what a strange group of people, all these grown men and some women going crazy over some show about...
    whynoonelikeme whynoonelikeme 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I could stop thinking and be jealous of my ex and the new girl. What should I think about and how should I go about this to move on?
    MarcyMichelle MarcyMichelle 31-35, F Mar 20

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    At my school there are dozens of cute girls and the boys only pay attention to them and not to the rest of the girls. It makes me feel ugly and unwanted and I get extremely jealous...
    CeeCeeBaybeex3 CeeCeeBaybeex3 13-15, F Mar 20

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months now and I am very jealous when he talks to a pretty girl. He's friends with this girl and they are in the same class together...
    Amylynnxo Amylynnxo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm very jealous I have a bad temper and I take it out on the person I love the most I try to apoligize but it will never make up for the things I say to her... I think she's...
    daltondane99 daltondane99 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm not sure why it is that I get jealous when I suspect that the person I'm taking to Is talking to someone else.
    fgarci04 fgarci04 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day...
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Being jealous and having ex is probably the worst but knowing all his passwords is best.
    amandavynes amandavynes 13-15, F Mar 26

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    IM BECOMING A JEALOUS FREAK WHO CANT EVEN STAND HIS GIRLFRIEND BEING ONLINE EVEN WHEN CHATTING TO ME I NEVER EXPERIENCED THIS OVER MY PAST RELATIONSHIP ,I ONCE CAUGHT THIS ONE...
    TEBOGO1992 TEBOGO1992 26-30 Mar 28

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    I'm sorry but I can't help but be the jealous type because once you are mine, you're mine. I don't like sharing what's mine I'm selfish when it comes to people I love and care for...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Girls n movies, girls at the shops, girls singing, photos of girls.. I'm jealous. I hate myself & never feel beautiful.
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I might be a guy but I also get jealous when a guy looks better then me . Idk why wish it would stop .
    adamsoweird adamsoweird 18-21, M Mar 31