I Was Jealous

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 194 People

    I Over-came It!!!

    Since child-hood I was very jealous even in petty issues. Somehow with age I got little wiser. I accepted the fact: " you can't change the other person's destiny! You can certainly change yours if you focus less on them!!" I am free!! I am not jealous of anybody...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    Not Anymore

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    kich kich
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2009

    Classic Situation

    I'd never understood it when people talked of sibling jealousy. I didn't feel that way at all when my little brother was born. I loved him straight away; I wanted to see what type of person he would become. I was always aware of the way people treated me and my elder brother...
    musicspirit musicspirit
    16-17, F
    Mar 11, 2009

    How I Overcame Jealousy

    Jelly Jelly   I was never taught how it was like to be jealous. I was just born with this thing called human nature. Like babies you see them fighting over toys, they weren't taught to do it they just do it. And who taught us to lie? Same with jealousy. We see someone who...
    ladynau ladynau
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2008

    You Better Believe I Was

    this was, by far, the worst case of jealousy i've experienced since high school. i can't explain it and i won't try.  i was overcome with emotions so powerful i didn't know what to do with them.  i succeeded in alienating everyone around me (most importantly, him) and...
    trixi trixi
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2008

    I Hated Knowing I Secretly Hated My Best Friend For Years

    for many many years i secretly hated my best friend because of how beautiful he was, and all the attention he got whenever we went anywhere at all. we could be at a gas station and someone would just have to let him know how gorgeous he was. everywhere we went, people, strangers...
    lionsdenn lionsdenn
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2010

    Done

    I stopped talking to my best friend. Maybe the reason is petty but sometimes you can feel like a relationship has run it's course. I was done with him, the way he treated me and the way he acted. It's weird how we became friends especially since we both liked the same guy. The...
    FightingToSwIm FightingToSwIm
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 16, 2013

    Untrusting

    i dont share well. people, places, objects. i was never really comfortable letting someone experience one of my things w out me. to call it their own was secretly infuriating to me. my friends can't be friends w my boyfriend, even though i trust them not to sleep w him or...
    AllOnTheTable AllOnTheTable
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2009

    So Silly Really

    As I watched the Governor give update after update regarding the last TS Faye I realized my green monster was kicking me a bit. Not because of him but because of the ASL Translator next to him. When I first started College my major was ASL. I had great dreams of becoming an...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    Aug 25, 2008

    Jealous

    I was once a very jealous person but then realized when you get jealous it seems to put more strain on you then anyone so I fixed my self still helping myself. and working on my insecurities.
    kalikween28 kalikween28
    22-25, F
    Jun 29, 2013

    Loss of a friendship

    Two years ago I reconnected with an old friend that I hadn't seen in 10 years and it was amazing how much we had in common. We were both engaged, renting, had a toddler and both pregnant with our second child. We weren't working and found ourselves spending 3-4 days a week...
    Miseryhascompany Miseryhascompany
    26-30, F
    Jan 29, 2013

    My Bestfriend

    I hated certain people when they were around my best friend. I was in the elementary back then and I was possessive of my friends, especially the one I considered the best. I owned this best friend so why are people taking him/her away from me? I knew his/her secrets more than...
    masks masks
    16-17
    Sep 15, 2008

    Kinda Long, But Hey Im Detailed!

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison, do everything together! So we went to this camp thing. When we were both 8 we made a list of things to do together before we turned 18. We wrote down 2, 937 thing's down. Ofcourse, we added more thing's as we got older, hence to why it...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld
    13-15, F
    Sep 27, 2012

    I Often Find Myself Guilty of It...

    Jealousy is a powerful emotion. It is considered one of the seven deadly sins. Although I feel envy goes hand in hand with pride. At least it does with me. I'm most often envious when my pride is hurt. I'm envious of what my friends have. They don't have to fight through the...
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2008

    I Don't Know How to Be Jealous!

    This NYE's my fiance and I went out to a club in Sydney to celebrate new years with our mates. Long story short my partner walked over to a door ***** to ask her what time re-entry was (I found out later) and it looked like he was being flirtatious. One of his mates made a crack...
    bohogoddess bohogoddess
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 1, 2009

    Grr,

    I was best friends with a guy I liked. I had to move away and I was so sad! It'd been more than a year and we still text almost everyday. I made a new "best friend" this one a female, and she wanted to text someone in my address book. It had to be him. She made him send a picture...
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 20, 2012

    Okay Maybe Was Jealous Is Bad Term

    Im a jealous person all around . I always have been ... and  im soo bitter about Jake but i need to just let that go .. Im never gonna have him the way i want him . Its too much of a distance and neither one of us are going to leave our children . But i'm so jealous of his...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2007

    Jasmin the Most Beautiful Flower...

    When I first saw her and I realized what was really happening, the fear and terror in my throat and stomach froze me with its icy clutches. The fear  strengthened, intensifying into a swirling mass of terror, doubt, and hope, but I kept it under control. I took a deep breath...
    Alyx Alyx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2007

    I Am Such A Jealous Person

    and I know it's not becoming, but for whatever reasons, I just can't seem to help it. I am jealous of my girlfriends ex, who she still converses with on the phone yet assures me she is not trying to get back with and who she assures me is also not trying to get back with her, but...
    lithiumkat lithiumkat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2010

    Rope Tying To A Tree?

    Me and my only friend, bestfriend, Harrison and I did everything together. This one paticular day, we were just walking around and a girl whom we both dont like cause she tried ruining our friendship, says to Harrison " Come over here " and she grabs his hand and runs away with...
    Lostgirlinbigworld Lostgirlinbigworld
    13-15, F
    Sep 16, 2012

    Yes, I Get Jealous

    I admit it. I don't get ragingly jealous, just the usual "grrrrr, get your hands off my man!". I am polyamerous, I can love more than one person and don't mind my loves loving others. What I do mind is my loves giving or seeming to give more love and attention to...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark
    31-35, F
    Nov 28, 2007

    Jealous..?? Yh Right...w8 Who Am I Kidding

    hiya so anyway....my gf use to get my sooo jelaous i use to do lots of crazy things...i think she use to do it on purpose so anyway...she said that it would break us up...so yh i decided to stop it.....(but i still believe she did it on purpose) so she tells me things and i don't...
    SexyRu SexyRu
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2010

    Cheaters Never Win

    My ex dated a girl for over 10 years and never commited. After we married he continued to see/talk to her.  She showed up a few times at our gigs.  This was never pleasant.  I always speak my mind.  I didn't remember her the first time but after that...I...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    7 Responses May 21, 2009

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