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I Was Lied to and Am Having Trouble Forgiving

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    Lying Girlfriend

     I had a girlfriend who was also lying to me--for her it was about her ex-boyfriend who was trying to get back together with her.  He would email her, or call her or send her gifts and she wouldn't tell me about them for a long time. We would talk about it and...
    ToddP ToddP 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    It's been 17 months and I still am not over my ex and/or have not been able to move on. I spend a lot of time in my bed and I don't go out in public because I don't like to see him...
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    Your marriage isn't wonderful.it has never been wonderful! I know you see me in an impossible situation and you are trying to make it easy on me.
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    So I fell for a guy and we slept together first night and after 8 days I was drunk having sex with him and I said I love you. In the morning I said whoops too soon. Then during the...
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    2011 was the year of my two abortions. We're now in 2015 and I regret having it as part of my history. Today I'm particularly teary about it even though I should be ecstatic at the...
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    Truly but we all "sin" and I came to try to be flexible with things including lies. I never believed in white, grey or black lies. For me a lie is a lie, always has been until I...
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    In times of hardship we try to extend our hand out to something familiar. This familiar thing may have a place in our past. I hate going back to those who hurt me, but I know there...
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    I really was struggling to forgive my STBX husband for the years of pain he caused me. He's not a bad man he has a good heart and he's an awesome Dad. He has some mental health...
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    well on January 14 2015 I decided to take my lil brother (who I was very close to at this time) to eat with me at a local restaurant and the plan was to have a couple margaritas...
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    I did .. I lied two big lies that got out of control n now taking over big part of my life .. i didnt lie to anyone or anything i just twisted facts in a way that will prevent me...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    This story is really pathetic and has turned my completely cold to the idea ever being with a guy. My brother passed away 2.5 months ago. He was 29 (suicide) and my best friend...
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    I'm far too nice, and forgiving.
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    I hate being lied straight to my face when i know every bit of the Truth.