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I Was Lied to and Am Having Trouble Forgiving

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    Lying Girlfriend

     I had a girlfriend who was also lying to me--for her it was about her ex-boyfriend who was trying to get back together with her.  He would email her, or call her or send her gifts and she wouldn't tell me about them for a long time. We would talk about it and...
    ToddP ToddP 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Heres the thing... The girl i thought i loved... still do kinda... she wouldn't break up with her boyfriend... it just tore me to pieces everytime she said 'i love you' or 'your...
    wombatron wombatron 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    i will never trust a single soul again, i was burn big time by someone. For her, I left ppl very important to me, I had te break heart. Hell I even let her near my youngest...
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    It only hurts when I breathe. I can't seem to catch my breath.
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    I'm 15 kgs over-weight and I only have till late September to lose weight. Every time I lose weight I eat too much and gain it back. I don't feel like i'm going anywhere with this...
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    YES .. I still think 'bout u YES .. Too hard to forget 'bout u AND YES .. I think I still love U ,, BUT NO , I don't want U back
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I completely blame EP every night Im on here talking with so many different kinds of great people I never would have met otherwise :)
    EffyXOXO EffyXOXO 16-17, F Jul 8

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    For the last few months I have not been able to sleep until after 1.30am. Then 2.30am. It changes between the two usually. Last night? After 4.30. I feel awful today.
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    Well I've broken up with my boyfriend of a year.. And I'm finding it really hard getting over him! Every time I see something he's posted on Facebook or a new girl he's added I...
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    New Years Day 1985, I remember it well, but for all the wrong reasons! My backside had only just recovered from a fairly severe belting, followed by my first caning across my bum...
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    I was born into a family on August 21, 1998. My mother had prayed for a baby and I would be the first of four that would be born. At 4:00 the doctors would announce that a baby...
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    I was born into a family on August 21, 1998. My mother had prayed for a baby and I would be the first of four that would be born. At 4:00 the doctors would announce that a baby...
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    back in college, my roommates and I were throwing a party and my buddy "Tommy" came to the party. Tommy had broken up with his gf some months prior, but he was still pining away...
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    Fifidog Fifidog 16-17, F Jun 26

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    I am currently in highschool and try to fight bullying as much as I can. But I can never escape the fact that I once was a bully. Being a socially awkward person I had trouble...
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    Let's be real. This states the obvious. Of course if an incident between you and someone occurred that requires forgiveness on your part, you're not gonna forget about the incident...
    mandyg14 mandyg14 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I don't know if writing about it is going to make me feel better or not, but here goes nothing anyways. Just a few days ago, summer school ended. We were amazingly happy about...
    KatieRosess KatieRosess 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    Alright so, Forgiveness - the art in which we "Allow oneself to overlook something someone has done" I've spent weeks, months, years even...talking to people researching, trying to...
    OGPrefix OGPrefix 26-30, M Jul 11

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    It was late in a bus stop on the way home from a night out with some friends and I had been drinking, this guy came up to me, much larger and suddenly it was just his fists on me...
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    One time when I was younger I poured detergent all over my bathroom. I poured it over the counter, in the sink, in the tub, on the floor.. You name it. But when my mother came to...
    FireAndDesire FireAndDesire 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I am a proud Mum of a 10 year old boy! I love him to bits! Rarely, but it happened a few times that he tried to get away from trouble, as any normal boy/girl his age, by lying...
    lostcolor lostcolor 36-40 2 days ago

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    Yesterday started well, shockingly my partner seemed like the pains weren't too bad and she seemed brighter. Then everything changed in a few minutes. My daughter woke up with her...
    Lightandshadows Lightandshadows 31-35, M 19 hrs ago

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    "I need your help." She told me, asking me, tears streaming down her puffy eyes, "Would you care if I died?" She knew the answer to that question. She didn't need my words to...
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    I am having a really hard time coping. The more I read and try to educate myself, the more overwhelmed and hopeless I feel. I don't want to be in therapy for the rest of my life...
    d011 d011 26-30, F 22 hrs ago

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    Me and this guy were together for just 2 days. I know it sounds weird to say that I'm heartbroken, I mean..it was just 2 days right? But the thing is, he lied to me. He lied when...
    unlovedandheartbroken unlovedandheartbroken 16-17, F Jun 28

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    Fire! When I was about ten I was with a group of kids and we got into trouble when we lit a fire on an old piece of wasteland. I had bought some marshmallows and we thought it...
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    I found out today that my partner lied to me. This isn't the first lie he has been caught telling me. What the lie is about is not as big of a deal as the fact that he lied at all...
    julieb27 julieb27 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    Well, a lot of people are probably curious about my life. Well, I have been through a lot in the past, but this one was the worst I've ever went through. Though I was only down for...
    kamishiro kamishiro 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have no idea if this really has anything to do with anxiety, and I also have no idea if it's asthma or some other medical thing, hoping someone here can help me since I'm so...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and...
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Man, living sexually frustrated is hard. The culligan man came in to work to bring the water and i wanted to ask him to go in the back with me. I picture having sex with people...
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    I am so fascinated by having powers and being a charmed one
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    Having strict parents isn't always easy and we don't always agree or get along but having strict parents has taught me to be respectful not to lie. I don't cuss anymore me and my...
    daddysprincess2233 daddysprincess2233 13-15, F Jun 24

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    My dad lied and told me he was gonna cut my phone off just to scare me into cleaning my room but I was cleaning my room anyway
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    I was scarcely happy When I was 6 I moved to Hong Kong hoping for it to be friendly and fun, But I was wrong... I was bullied at my school constantly and no one was there for me...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I never understood the appeal of lying. Like it isn't beneficial in anyway and majority of the time the thing you lied about comes to light sooner or later. Then whatever it was is...
    IamMell IamMell 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always gotten into trouble from elementary school all the way to high school. In elementary school, 5th grade I took some bastards bag because he was one of those extremely...
    420blaze69 420blaze69 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I hate being lied too I'm sure everyone does so why it go on? It's the golden rule treat others the way you'd like to be treated so I expect you to not lie to me and I won't lie to...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Junior School Embarrassment When I was in the top year of Junior school I got into trouble in the playground. It wasn't my fault, I still insist after all those years! We had a...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Thanks that's just destroyed my trust for you. Well done. Don't worry. All's i want to know now is the f*cking truth. I can't stand being lied to. Well done, you've just made me...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    When my mum died my brother wanted to be the hero, he even tried to stop me going to her funeral and his lucky i did't whack him on the day because he hurt me more than anyone...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29