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I Was Lied to and Am Having Trouble Forgiving

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    Lying Girlfriend

     I had a girlfriend who was also lying to me--for her it was about her ex-boyfriend who was trying to get back together with her.  He would email her, or call her or send her gifts and she wouldn't tell me about them for a long time. We would talk about it and...
    ToddP ToddP 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    I completely blame EP every night Im on here talking with so many different kinds of great people I never would have met otherwise :)
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    I was born into a family on August 21, 1998. My mother had prayed for a baby and I would be the first of four that would be born. At 4:00 the doctors would announce that a baby...
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    My dads. Is being a jerk. He comes home. I tell him I tried to take care of his girlfriends dogs but they growled and barked at me and it scared me so I left them. He said Then I...
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    Let's be real. This states the obvious. Of course if an incident between you and someone occurred that requires forgiveness on your part, you're not gonna forget about the incident...
    mandyg14 mandyg14 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I lied to him about my age. It was easy to do considering that I look a lot older. I just didn't want him to not take me seriously. To think that I'm just some dumb kid. I'm pretty...
    LiterallyTitanium LiterallyTitanium 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Alright so, Forgiveness - the art in which we "Allow oneself to overlook something someone has done" I've spent weeks, months, years even...talking to people researching, trying to...
    OGPrefix OGPrefix 26-30, M Jul 11

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    Setting was small rural central TX area. Me and a "buddy" decided we needed a third student's lunch money more than she did. Our lunches were taken care of. She did without that...
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    I am a proud Mum of a 10 year old boy! I love him to bits! Rarely, but it happened a few times that he tried to get away from trouble, as any normal boy/girl his age, by lying...
    lostcolor lostcolor 36-40 5 days ago

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    Me and this guy were together for just 2 days. I know it sounds weird to say that I'm heartbroken, I mean..it was just 2 days right? But the thing is, he lied to me. He lied when...
    unlovedandheartbroken unlovedandheartbroken 16-17, F Jun 28

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    Fire! When I was about ten I was with a group of kids and we got into trouble when we lit a fire on an old piece of wasteland. I had bought some marshmallows and we thought it...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Am I overthinking this? A guy I have just recently started seeing came over to my apartment to hang out. We spent 6 hours together, time just kind of got lost. We played 20...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I found out today that my partner lied to me. This isn't the first lie he has been caught telling me. What the lie is about is not as big of a deal as the fact that he lied at all...
    julieb27 julieb27 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    Well, a lot of people are probably curious about my life. Well, I have been through a lot in the past, but this one was the worst I've ever went through. Though I was only down for...
    kamishiro kamishiro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I have no idea if this really has anything to do with anxiety, and I also have no idea if it's asthma or some other medical thing, hoping someone here can help me since I'm so...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and...
    Littlewallflowerx Littlewallflowerx 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I never understood the appeal of lying. Like it isn't beneficial in anyway and majority of the time the thing you lied about comes to light sooner or later. Then whatever it was is...
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    I've always gotten into trouble from elementary school all the way to high school. In elementary school, 5th grade I took some bastards bag because he was one of those extremely...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M a week ago

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    I hate being lied too I'm sure everyone does so why it go on? It's the golden rule treat others the way you'd like to be treated so I expect you to not lie to me and I won't lie to...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    My guy and girl best friend started rumors that I was sleeping with my crush, who also had a crush on me. My crush and I had admitted it to one another, but at the time we weren't...
    RaielleMae RaielleMae 13-15 14 hrs ago

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    When my mum died my brother wanted to be the hero, he even tried to stop me going to her funeral and his lucky i did't whack him on the day because he hurt me more than anyone...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm definitely not a trouble maker im in AP classes i dont drink, smoke, have sex or party. Im just a smartass not with everyone only with certain people like the ones that I know...
    yyoyoyoyoyoyoyo yyoyoyoyoyoyoyo 16-17, F Jun 29

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    Fire! When I was about ten I was with a group of kids and we got into trouble when we lit a fire on an old piece of wasteland. I had bought some marshmallows and we thought it...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Fire! When I was about ten I was with a group of kids and we got into trouble when we lit a fire on an old piece of wasteland. I had bought some marshmallows and we thought it...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F Jun 30

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    I hate being lied to, but I lie all the time.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I have a rule; if you lie to me once, you lose all credibility with me, period. If you lie to me twice, I'll never trust you again. I don't make exceptions to this rule, and I've...
    Iamalpha Iamalpha 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    So basically I was with my lovely boyfriend Harry for 9 months :) he was fantastic. We use to have petty fights and we broke up almost 2 weeks ago because of this. He was willing...
    angelskyanderson angelskyanderson 16-17, F Jul 10

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    I hate my ex boyfriend who couldn't be with me any more because he wasn't attracted to me. I hate him for saying that he wanted to be my forever and watched while I planned our...
    mooflower mooflower 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Too bad. All the woman I ever loved lied to me. I hate lies. I hate what it did to me.
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 2 Responses 5 days ago