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I Was Lied to and Am Having Trouble Forgiving

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    Lying Girlfriend

     I had a girlfriend who was also lying to me--for her it was about her ex-boyfriend who was trying to get back together with her.  He would email her, or call her or send her gifts and she wouldn't tell me about them for a long time. We would talk about it and...
    ToddP ToddP 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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