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I Was Married to a Sociopath

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    i am mother of 4 wonderful kids although severly messed up as a direct result of their father my soon hopefully to be x husband molesting and raping them for years I never seen this it totally came out over time and i mean in tiny little increments now here is where i am and...
    michellelangmack michellelangmack 31-35 2 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    i have just found out my husband is a sociopath

    i am worried and scarred i always thought he was just a cofused man after his awful childhood but the past year has been so awful lying by saying he has cancer going away to say been admitted cancer ward but not telling me where intercepting my bank accounts and stealing and...
    tenovus tenovus 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I was married to a sociopath in 2010.

    We stayed together for 3 years. It was the most miserable time of my life. I successfully divorced her (yes a female socio) this year. The last time I saw her was at our court date and she did an unbelievable number to my head. After realizing what I was dealing with, I did a...
    drwho4 drwho4 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Married To A Sociopath

    I am now married to a sociopath, I am lied to about everything including the air he breaths...I found out he has 2 children and doesnt even see them..I had no idea!...I have been with him for almost 3 years..at first eveything was great...then i would see a lie or two ignore it...
    deana34 deana34 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    Do I Know What Happend?

    No. Can I explain it? No. Am I glad that the nightmare is finally over? abso-freaking-lutely! I met my husband, we're separated now, 6 years ago. I was 21, and just out of a terrible relationship with someone that was also probably a sociopath, but that's another story. We dated...
    fallingwthgrace fallingwthgrace 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    My Sociopathic Former Husband

    For twenty years I convinced myself that he was just too smart for feelings or emotion. I convinced myself the masquerade that the world saw was real. Everyone thought he was brilliant, funny and charming, so why was he so cold to me? There was only one truth, it must be me. For...
    residueoflife residueoflife 46-50 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    The 10-year Nightmare: Married To A Sociopathic Woman

    I am finally divorcing my wife of nearly 11 years. I started the process last summer and she refuses to agree or settle. For the entire time I was married to her, I tried desperately to make things better and figure out what the problem was in my marriage. The low point, and...
    dukearthur2011 dukearthur2011 36-40 17 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Help I'm Married to a Sociopath and Don't Know What to Do

      I am not a sociopath but I believe my husband is.  I am in the process of getting divorced and I am also pregnant with his child.  He has been abusive physically, emotionally and verbally which is why I am divorcing him.  He is great at manipulating people...
    kikikyta kikikyta 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Actually I still am married to a sociopath.

    I have prayed and hoped that she would somehow change, but I know that isn't going to happen. I have to save myself. She has been having an on going affair for quite some time. I have digital recording of her talking to one of her girlfriends about, and she of course denies...
    john83815 john83815 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    Confronting His Sociopathy Is The Most Terrifying Thing I've Done

    I was introduced to my ex through a mutual friend who sang his praises about how he was the "smartest guy he knew." They'd attended a top law school together a decade before. Almost immediately after we met he began to woo me. It was all very romantic....dinners, handwritten...
    nylonfemme76 nylonfemme76 31-35 4 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Finally Free!!!!!

    I was married to a sociopath for ten long years! I was only nineteen when I fell in love with my now ex husband. I became pregnant almost right away, too soon for me to realize what  he really was. On top of his personality disorder he also had a drug addiction which his...
    rosalielac rosalielac 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2010

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    The Federal Agent Sociopath

    I met him when I was 17. We dated for 5 years before we were married. When I think back on it, he lied alot then. He also would be missing and I could not find him some days without explaination. After marriage, we had fun. I found him lying for no reason, but i figured, no harm...
    emerald64 emerald64 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Help I'm Married to a Sociopath and Don't Know What to Do

      I am not a sociopath but I believe my husband is.  I am in the process of getting divorced and I am also pregnant with his child.  He has been abusive physically, emotionally and verbally which is why I am divorcing him.  He is great at manipulating people...
    kikikyta kikikyta 22-25, F 17 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    I am married to a woman who was married before I met her. We met years after her divorce. We met and got married and have been together 5 years. she had 2 kids who I accepted as...
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    I know two wrongs Don't make a right. But since I am stuck in a loveless Marriage until I build my evidence and feel so undesired and unloved, I went on a date with a guy I met a...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I disappointed someone today that I truly did not want to disappoint. I disappointed her unintentionally, by not expressing that I was married. It was not an intentional omission...
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    I was married at age 18. I had just graduated from high school a month earlier. I am so glad I got married at a young age because I am still in love today as I was then. I have...
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    I met my child's father, Z at work. He was married and I I was engaged to H. It was a volatile relationship. I befriended Z. He was someone new to talk to. Something besides the...
    lostinmommyview lostinmommyview 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Only been married 6 months and found out a week after we got married that he had not stopped seeing a woman he called a casual for 2 years whilst we were together and living...
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    I WAS married to a Narcissist for 35 years. After recovering from ptsd and discovering who I was, a Highly Sensitive Person, I realize now how easy it was hiding behind him rather...
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    As I've grown older I have come to the conclusion that I hate the thought of marriage. I was married once at 16 and divorced at 21 and since then I have had numerous relationships...
    TaxiDrivingMom74 TaxiDrivingMom74 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    43rd post. Haven't written for a few days, and unfortunately I'm back to being in a slump. Not sleeping more than about 3 hours a night, and my mind is on fast forward with a...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    64th post. So sad tonight. I was sitting around with my husband and a couple of family members. He was talking about how everything is going to change in the New Year, and I just...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    superiorexistance superiorexistance 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 18

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    I was diagnosed in grade school after the school suggested I 'talk' to someone after a few violent outbursts. My parents did their best to not let my diagnosis shape my upbringing...
    Rustynail110 Rustynail110 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    I have a joke for you all Knock Knock Who's there A sociopath A sociopath who? who just don't care. Ya know on the train
    Justme2387 Justme2387 41-45, F Dec 8

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    I've always had sociopath traits but this year they have been booming sky high. I'm 18. Can a sociopath tell me when their traits advanced?
    helengirl9 helengirl9 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 11

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    "I want a divorce". That was the textI got from my wife earlier today. After another fight about how I need help with our finances. I have 2 jobs as of now. I had 3 but lost one of...
    firemedic12 firemedic12 26-30, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am happly married 16 years have 2 lovely kid.My wife want to have sex with a different man.She is boring me.I am her first man had sex.She dont wanna die had sex only with me.She...
    dreamanotly dreamanotly 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So I need to vent and see if I am the only one dealing with this. I am married and miserable we fight all the time and I am happiest when he is at work and I am home alone. He...
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    I have always known that I was better at most things than those around me with a very defined ability to manipulate people and play with them from a very young age......I always...
    HDurazo1122 HDurazo1122 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 9

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    I know who I want to be . I want to be someone people trust and are able to pour their hearts onto my hearing only so I could crush them when I find their weakest point. I don't...
    helengirl9 helengirl9 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Years ago, I fell head over heels in love with a sociopath. He was charming, handsome, and we made plans to marry. I thought my fairy tale was coming true. At this time, I didn't...
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    You are 88%sociopath You're so manipulative, you could make Hannibal Lector your *****. You feel superhuman - and you certainly lack human empathy.
    coltonjjones coltonjjones 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    I just have two questions why can't normal people treat sociopaths as normal average everyday people and why are they scared of us
    lilly5919 lilly5919 13-15, F 10 Responses Dec 2

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    Everyone thinks all sociopaths like to "experiment" and/or hurt animals. That isn't true at all, I like animals more than I like humans, so its obvious who I rather hurt.
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    As yet another day of boring work has been completed, I sit here imagining my next moves. Only a few days left now.. I've got a business going with potential beyond imagination...
    Ulsberg Ulsberg 31-35 1 Response Dec 20

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    AshTheShade AshTheShade 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Empathy. Why did the evolution supply most humans with empathy? What is the purpose of empathy? Empathy is what makes a society. It makes people seek each other, it makes them...
    Ulsberg Ulsberg 31-35 5 Responses Nov 30

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