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I Was Mentaly Abused By My Dad

Just sharing my story and open to comments, advice and questions. 66 People

    My Dad Loves Inappropriate Words

     I always love my Dad, but I just can't take this abuse no more. It seems like my Dady have 2 personalities; he could be so funny and warm to us, but mostly; very rude and do whatever he want. My Daddy was always expecting perfections from us, he doesn't even care about the...
    shakespeareinmisery shakespeareinmisery 13-15 3 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    My Dad Had Two Sides

    My dad died when I was 17, which was five and a half years ago. Although we didn't get it confirmed, he probably had Dissocial Personality Disorder. He had two "sides" to his personality; one caring and sweet and one that was almost demonic. He prevented me...
    biologic biologic 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Fat

    My dad would call me fat and other names in the book. He has made me feel really bad about myself.  That I've developed a eating disorder because of it.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Your Not Good Enough

    Why the hell can't you be like your brother? your to stupid to be a human being let alone My son. I ought to kick your *** right now. you stupid bastard, go kill yourself. this is what I grew up hearing all the time between beatings then as a adult I was publicly humiliated at...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    Dad.

    My dad's just never even been there for me. You know how much I've always wanted to be daddy's little girl?.. But i never was . He never cared. I don't know how i can care so much about him, when I probably don't even cross his mind. Ever. But that's okay. I don't cross many...
    katieemarieexoxo katieemarieexoxo 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    Mental Case

     My father abused me when i was little verbaly and physical. My mom and dad are alcoholics and drug addicts. My father would always say i was a trash and that i was not wanted and i should have never happened. He would stick me out on the streets and make me go up to random...
    parker0702 parker0702 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Dear Dad,

    Let the ranting begin...Dear, DadI am sorry I am not the perfect child you wanted. The one that would do everything for you silently and not say a word about it. I am seventeen and don't want to be your little slave any more. Yes, it is time for you to get up and do things...
    ShadowsGirl101 ShadowsGirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Stepfather

    My dad died when I was young and I was forced to live with a stepfather for several years who hated me (not lying); and would come down on me most of the time. I was fragile due to the recent events that had occurred in my life and so was easily hurt.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 23, 2013

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    Go Ahead And Kill Yourself..

    That is what my Dad said to me last year at a time when I was feeling suicidal. He still says this sort of stuff to me. So does my Mother. I used to want my parents approval. I accept now that we will always think differently, and I will never get their approval. My Dad has been...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Love To Hate?

    I love my father when I was younger,and still do now. No matter what he does, I love him. He at least has stuck by my mom and tried to be there for me and my siblings. My story isn't one of flat out abuse, perse, it is one of "joking" abuse. I don't know if it is joking anymore...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    The Father Who Wasn't

    It is hard for a young man to grow up without a father. It is even harder for a young man to grow up with half a father. My dad did not reveal that he was actually my father until I was 4. Up until that time he had been, to me, my mother's friend. He was not the man I wanted to...
    Powertoast Powertoast 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    I want nothing more than to forget it... Sometimes I have nightmares of what happened in my childhood on the outside everything seemed perfect most people looked at my household...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    When I started this new account i said I would use it to share more of my story. Well that didn't work out to well considering I've only posted two or three experiences about my...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    Well, here we go...When i was a child i cam into the world with an alcoholic father he was abusive...he smoked weed and drank a lot liquor and beer well he would send me to my room...
    SeJunior SeJunior 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I had recently gotten out of a three year relationship when I met my current husband. He was an old friend, well liked by a lot of people. I thought I knew him. We wound up...
    breakingout2014 breakingout2014 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I remember I was young... It only happened once... I was like 3 or 4... I remember his shadow over me.. The pain, and the feeling. I've never told anyone. I'm 27 now and I think it...
    Angelrank1987 Angelrank1987 26-30, M Jul 27

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    Hello everyone. I don't know what to do. I have been sexually abused by my brother and his friend when I was 6 ans they were 13, and that for several times. I feel raped, i...
    Satiee Satiee 13-15 4 Responses Jul 25

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    My brother abused me for 7 years. I just recently was able to find that courage to tell someone. Now I'm free from the physical abuse but I'm still scarred. It affects my life so...
    xaliroox xaliroox 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I say this out loud several times in my stories. I didnt choose my mother and father being like this to me. They put all the hate towards me. My mother had moral that a daughter...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    My father was a horrible man. He blamed me for my mothers death my entire life. My mother died after I was born due to an infection, and weak immune system. My father threw glass...
    MichelleReed MichelleReed 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I was raped again a few weeks ago and the guy is finally in jail. The flash backs are killing me. The insomnia is terrible. End thoughts to kill myself are running rapidly through...
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 2

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    He gets out in 4 years . Meaning its been 4 yeas since he went in. Half way. Doesn't feel like it. In some ways it feels like it was only yesterday other times it feels like an...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    When I was 7 or 8 my brother told me to the garage with him because it was late at night so I went and put on my shoes and went with him. When we got in the garage my brother...
    BeccaPayne BeccaPayne 13-15, F 11 Responses Aug 6

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    *sigh* Sometimes i hate life, my life that is. but i should be grateful that im even alive is because of God. what do you do when your older sister reads your journal, which she...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    It happened to me twice with two different people. Both men were friends of family members. The first time i was 3. It was my fathers best friend. I don't recall much of that...
    dreamerrose dreamerrose 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    she was 19 and I was 8, at a party for new year as I was asleep in bed, she come into my bed and started to cuddle me. This felt very nice, and the smell of alcohol from her...
    robforyou robforyou 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Or I will be! I haven't used my a*** plug all week. I just slipped it in again and it hurts. :O Daddy won't be pleased if I'm not trained for him!
    MDaddysGirlM MDaddysGirlM 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    My knees. My knees are so sensitive. I hate every bit of it. He used to play with my knees and rub them and now whenever someone or something touches them, I get a sense of they...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    https://www.dropbox.com/s/72mddsl69zlrd21/Growing%20up%20With%20Secrets-S.Brooks-7_30_14.pdf
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 30

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    I want to talk to someone about what happened with me... 22 years later and the memories still hurt...
    drewgel drewgel 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I don't even know if it actually counts. But ever since I've felt disgust in my own body and hatred of unwarranted touch.
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    And learned bad news. All who have power are posing as good. But acting like him. How sick society became. Is due to them.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 10

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    I need to talk to someone. 10 years ago. Something happened. It's ruining me and the person I love. Please, someone???
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    I was being abused in my home by my father until I was 9. I was than put into foster care where I thought it would end. Guess what it didn't. I'm still being abused by my foster...
    oreoelizabeth oreoelizabeth 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Well...I don't like to say I hate people but I just can't help myself. When I was young, my dad abused my mother, emotionally and physically in front of my three year old brother...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    My whole life i have always had a close relationship with ALL of my family members. But ever since my dad has passed away my family doesn't seem close anymore. Like when we have...
    armchairlama9 armchairlama9 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    PART ONE . . . Tonight, I will drive to my Dad’s. The drive is only about two hours—an easy drive in good weather. Boring. Ugly. But easy. In the winter, it’s prohibitive. I...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 28

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    My first spanking I was 4 and I was at my dad's house. I was very bored and decided to to go outside and asked daddy first he said no. I was very up set and went outside anyways...
    bluecoconut77 bluecoconut77 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I heard in the news about an abortion clinic being sued because the man was older than 21 and I think in this case he was the step dad. The girl was younger than 16. In my case , I...
    Feelingfunny Feelingfunny 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My dad was the best dad in the world. I know lots of people ssy it but i really feel it. I miss him so much but i know sometimes things happen and theres no way to stop it. But...
    WildSherry13 WildSherry13 13-15, F Jul 25

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    It seems like a dream. We use to make forts as children. Bunch of chairs in a circle with blankets covering on top of them. One day playing in the fort it was dark inside of there...
    HushedThoughts HushedThoughts 22-25 Aug 6

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    Hi guys, I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm wondering, am I verbally abused? My father and I have clashed for as long as I remember, and he can get quite nasty when he's mad. I'm a...
    Nightlife707 Nightlife707 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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