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I Was Mentaly Abused By My Dad

Just sharing my story and open to comments, advice and questions. 66 People

    The Father Who Wasn't

    It is hard for a young man to grow up without a father. It is even harder for a young man to grow up with half a father. My dad did not reveal that he was actually my father until I was 4. Up until that time he had been, to me, my mother's friend. He was not the man I wanted to...
    Powertoast Powertoast 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Mental Case

     My father abused me when i was little verbaly and physical. My mom and dad are alcoholics and drug addicts. My father would always say i was a trash and that i was not wanted and i should have never happened. He would stick me out on the streets and make me go up to random...
    parker0702 parker0702 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    My Dad Loves Inappropriate Words

     I always love my Dad, but I just can't take this abuse no more. It seems like my Dady have 2 personalities; he could be so funny and warm to us, but mostly; very rude and do whatever he want. My Daddy was always expecting perfections from us, he doesn't even care about the...
    shakespeareinmisery shakespeareinmisery 13-15 3 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    My Dad Had Two Sides

    My dad died when I was 17, which was five and a half years ago. Although we didn't get it confirmed, he probably had Dissocial Personality Disorder. He had two "sides" to his personality; one caring and sweet and one that was almost demonic. He prevented me...
    biologic biologic 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Dear Dad,

    Let the ranting begin...Dear, DadI am sorry I am not the perfect child you wanted. The one that would do everything for you silently and not say a word about it. I am seventeen and don't want to be your little slave any more. Yes, it is time for you to get up and do things...
    ShadowsGirl101 ShadowsGirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Go Ahead And Kill Yourself..

    That is what my Dad said to me last year at a time when I was feeling suicidal. He still says this sort of stuff to me. So does my Mother. I used to want my parents approval. I accept now that we will always think differently, and I will never get their approval. My Dad has been...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Your Not Good Enough

    Why the hell can't you be like your brother? your to stupid to be a human being let alone My son. I ought to kick your *** right now. you stupid bastard, go kill yourself. this is what I grew up hearing all the time between beatings then as a adult I was publicly humiliated at...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    Stepfather

    My dad died when I was young and I was forced to live with a stepfather for several years who hated me (not lying); and would come down on me most of the time. I was fragile due to the recent events that had occurred in my life and so was easily hurt.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 23, 2013

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    Fat

    My dad would call me fat and other names in the book. He has made me feel really bad about myself.  That I've developed a eating disorder because of it.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Love To Hate?

    I love my father when I was younger,and still do now. No matter what he does, I love him. He at least has stuck by my mom and tried to be there for me and my siblings. My story isn't one of flat out abuse, perse, it is one of "joking" abuse. I don't know if it is joking anymore...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Dad.

    My dad's just never even been there for me. You know how much I've always wanted to be daddy's little girl?.. But i never was . He never cared. I don't know how i can care so much about him, when I probably don't even cross his mind. Ever. But that's okay. I don't cross many...
    katieemarieexoxo katieemarieexoxo 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    I'm pretty sure all my emotional problems stem from the fact that I was sexually abused
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    maat123 maat123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Well, here we go...When i was a child i cam into the world with an alcoholic father he was abusive...he smoked weed and drank a lot liquor and beer well he would send me to my room...
    SeJunior SeJunior 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I lost everything because of someone who should have protected me. My mind is so screwed up and I don't know how to cope with it anymore. I lost my childhood, my family, my sanity...
    Ren10 Ren10 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    HerrExpierience HerrExpierience 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I remember I was young... It only happened once... I was like 3 or 4... I remember his shadow over me.. The pain, and the feeling. I've never told anyone. I'm 27 now and I think it...
    Angelrank1987 Angelrank1987 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    For my entire life I have only wanted my dad to love me. He says he does with phrases like "kiddo I love you so much" and "you are my saving grace.". But if I was his saving grace...
    eviecain eviecain 18-21, F Jul 15

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    96Samuel96 96Samuel96 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm having to see a psychologist now. Since I was a kid I put up emotional barriers and taught myself that feelings were weakness since my parents always rejected mine. Feelings...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I was about 6 when my older step brother who is about 7 years older than me, sexually abused me. I've tried so hard to block it out, thankfully I only have a short memory of it. It...
    nzm87 nzm87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    While I was growing up I was abused daily by my oldest brother. He would beat me repeatedly. He blacked my eye on more than one occasion. There was nothing I could do about it. My...
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    Hello everyone. I don't know what to do. I have been sexually abused by my brother and his friend when I was 6 ans they were 13, and that for several times. I feel raped, i...
    Satiee Satiee 13-15 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm trying to get a conviction against a man who sexually abused me.
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    well...I wasn't an abused child...lol but my mom kicked my *** throughout child hood because i deserved it being a little punk in my day hahah just saying
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M Jul 10

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    It's more than just mentally abused but the physical pain has healed faster than the mental, My entire life I was a punching bag for my brother, all of my friends and sometimes...
    LunaValentine LunaValentine 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Yeah... You heard it right! For about 4 years, I was forced to kiss/sleep in bed/pleasure a 52 year old disabled man which was my mom's ex boyfriend/friend. My mom didn't know...
    Bigone14 Bigone14 13-15 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I say this out loud several times in my stories. I didnt choose my mother and father being like this to me. They put all the hate towards me. My mother had moral that a daughter...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    My father was a horrible man. He blamed me for my mothers death my entire life. My mother died after I was born due to an infection, and weak immune system. My father threw glass...
    MichelleReed MichelleReed 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    By my stepdad...I certain it started earlier but I place my first realization of what was happening to me around age 7 or 8. It went in thru my teen years. My mother didn't...
    graygrace graygrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    When i was 9 years old my uncle sexually assaulted me and i didn't remember it till this year and i am now trying to get him arrested for he did the same thing to my baby cousin
    jojo82897 jojo82897 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    When I was about three or four, my parents would babysit my neighbor's daughter, also the same age. When she came over she would make me take off my clothes and she would take off...
    Xander8905 Xander8905 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I was 5 when it started with my father. A year later my brother, sisters, and uncles joined in and everyone made me a slave.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    It's Friday night and I feel nice and h any girls that want straight d I'm here I'm handsome will show you picture if interested
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    My foster father is abusive
    bfab1998 bfab1998 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Today I made a statement for the police about my rape that happened before Christmas. I'm shocked by how much it took out of me.
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Does anyone else feel the need to go sleep with the first guy that gives them some attention after being rejected by someone we love? Or am I just screwed up...
    Prettybutterfly88 Prettybutterfly88 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Many timess its actually very sad I never talked about them with anyone I dont even want to think about it .... :(
    realye realye 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My knees. My knees are so sensitive. I hate every bit of it. He used to play with my knees and rub them and now whenever someone or something touches them, I get a sense of they...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    https://www.dropbox.com/s/72mddsl69zlrd21/Growing%20up%20With%20Secrets-S.Brooks-7_30_14.pdf
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 4 hrs ago

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    I was born into a family on August 21, 1998. My mother had prayed for a baby and I would be the first of four that would be born. At 4:00 the doctors would announce that a baby...
    RosalinaHansan RosalinaHansan 13-15, F Jul 8

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    I was born into a family on August 21, 1998. My mother had prayed for a baby and I would be the first of four that would be born. At 4:00 the doctors would announce that a baby...
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