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I Was Mentaly Abused By My Dad

Just sharing my story and open to comments, advice and questions. 72 People

    Love To Hate?

    I love my father when I was younger,and still do now. No matter what he does, I love him. He at least has stuck by my mom and tried to be there for me and my siblings. My story isn't one of flat out abuse, perse, it is one of "joking" abuse. I don't know if it is joking anymore...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    My Dad Had Two Sides

    My dad died when I was 17, which was five and a half years ago. Although we didn't get it confirmed, he probably had Dissocial Personality Disorder. He had two "sides" to his personality; one caring and sweet and one that was almost demonic. He prevented me...
    biologic biologic 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Dad.

    My dad's just never even been there for me. You know how much I've always wanted to be daddy's little girl?.. But i never was . He never cared. I don't know how i can care so much about him, when I probably don't even cross his mind. Ever. But that's okay. I don't cross many...
    katieemarieexoxo katieemarieexoxo 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    Fat

    My dad would call me fat and other names in the book. He has made me feel really bad about myself.  That I've developed a eating disorder because of it.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Dear Dad,

    Let the ranting begin...Dear, DadI am sorry I am not the perfect child you wanted. The one that would do everything for you silently and not say a word about it. I am seventeen and don't want to be your little slave any more. Yes, it is time for you to get up and do things...
    ShadowsGirl101 ShadowsGirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Mental Case

     My father abused me when i was little verbaly and physical. My mom and dad are alcoholics and drug addicts. My father would always say i was a trash and that i was not wanted and i should have never happened. He would stick me out on the streets and make me go up to random...
    parker0702 parker0702 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Your Not Good Enough

    Why the hell can't you be like your brother? your to stupid to be a human being let alone My son. I ought to kick your *** right now. you stupid bastard, go kill yourself. this is what I grew up hearing all the time between beatings then as a adult I was publicly humiliated at...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    The Father Who Wasn't

    It is hard for a young man to grow up without a father. It is even harder for a young man to grow up with half a father. My dad did not reveal that he was actually my father until I was 4. Up until that time he had been, to me, my mother's friend. He was not the man I wanted to...
    Powertoast Powertoast 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Stepfather

    My dad died when I was young and I was forced to live with a stepfather for several years who hated me (not lying); and would come down on me most of the time. I was fragile due to the recent events that had occurred in my life and so was easily hurt.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 23, 2013

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    Go Ahead And Kill Yourself..

    That is what my Dad said to me last year at a time when I was feeling suicidal. He still says this sort of stuff to me. So does my Mother. I used to want my parents approval. I accept now that we will always think differently, and I will never get their approval. My Dad has been...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    My Dad Loves Inappropriate Words

     I always love my Dad, but I just can't take this abuse no more. It seems like my Dady have 2 personalities; he could be so funny and warm to us, but mostly; very rude and do whatever he want. My Daddy was always expecting perfections from us, he doesn't even care about the...
    shakespeareinmisery shakespeareinmisery 13-15 3 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    i was sexually abused at the age of 10 .. i have never told this to anyone not even my parents..because i wasnt sure about what was it..i was a kid.. and i was scared if i told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's something that I have been able to block but it's also something that affects me until now. I was sexually abused not just once and not just by one person. it kills me and...
    Vnaturaldisaster Vnaturaldisaster 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I knew I was sexually abused as a kid but I didn't remember by who. I'd blame all my moms friends except two and it turned out to be one of them. My mom finally told me four years...
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Was i abused? Between the ages of two to about seven yrs old i was having oral sex with my mom there is a lot more to this coservercial situation on this
    howard1945 howard1945 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 13

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    In October, I saw my abuser for the first time in 11 years. I was adopted and my mothers first husband physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me. he is the root cause of most...
    cillasavage cillasavage 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    Its been sometime that i've thought about all of it. About my father, bother-in-law, my brothers. I couldnt sleep at all, i remember each night i wount sleep bc i know he was going...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 12

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    We all have skeletons that we don't like to bring up. Mine is accepting that my mother married a monster. At the age of eight my step dad started molesting me and I've dealt with...
    Godheals0328 Godheals0328 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    i remember when my parents started having problems. even before the both of them ignored me to no end. dad was always on the computer and my mom was always watching tv. the divorce...
    komaeda komaeda 16-17 1 Response Dec 13

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    Every week we had to see him, and every week he would beat us up, we would hide before he would arrive, I remember one of my siblings running down the drive and he chased her and I...
    Couldhelp Couldhelp 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    hey everyone, I have experienced an awakening, and realized that my father was not the good man he remembers himself being, nor do i remember him being. My dad constantly brought...
    chidoc chidoc 26-30, M Dec 18

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    My mother married a terrible guy in my tween years. I remember meeting him for the first time and telling my mom that I didn't like him. I remember feeling really uncomfortable...
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    "You are absolutely useless." "She's a failure, she can't do anything right." "I'm so tempted to just kick her out on the streets." "You don't do anything I say, you don't help...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was with my friends and we were all partying and smoking and after about 2am, things started to die out and I was really tired so I went to sleep. This one guy came, I didnt know...
    jessicaellise jessicaellise 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    They always start off so wonderful. Our first date was probably the best one I ever had, and the most fun I had had in a long time. And it stayed that way for a little while...
    KC94 KC94 18-21, F Dec 11

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    Emotional mixed with Mental. Six years of this. My bio-father hated that my mother divorced him, used her children as tools against her. He has ruined her good name, and still...
    SilverSerphant SilverSerphant 18-21, F Dec 13

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    Medical,Physical,Verbal,and Psychological-As a direct result of being forced into too many highly stressful medical tests by my overzealous mother I am now of the opinion I would...
    FutureMaxiSurgeon FutureMaxiSurgeon 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Ok. I have tried to tell my story before. It's so hard. I am 14 and I ain't told. When I was eight a guy abducted me. He stopped me in a country lane and wanted to know the way to...
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 17

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    so today my rapist got engaged to the girl he was seeing at the time. merry christmas.
    ZoeM1 ZoeM1 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am afraid I will never get over what happened. It makes me physically shake sometimes when flashbacks come to mind. My therapist tried to make me describe what happened and I...
    shelleigh1978 shelleigh1978 51-55, F Dec 9

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    I want to have sex with my cousin
    1318dx 1318dx 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    How did you guys get into relationships again? My last one fell apart because the sexual aspect got too difficult for me. Now I'm so dreading it that I just can't find the courage...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I have come to realize that if things get too serious with any guy...I run. This happens because my brain start to run and all I can think of is that this guy I just met is only...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Dec 11

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    who is still getting molested
    gyty gyty 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 11

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    do you think sexual abuse is worse for males or for women.
    dksl14 dksl14 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 12

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    Really need someone to talk to..
    alwaysmeforever alwaysmeforever 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    What is the difference between molestation, sexual abuse and rape? Aren't they all the same thing?
    missstarrysky missstarrysky 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I used to be able to live with it, but lately it's all I can think about... :( how could I let that happen? There's only one person in my life that knows.. And I only recently just...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M Dec 16

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    It's been a year and ever since, my "relationships" have been nothing more than confusion and being used and lied to. I feel like guys would be more understanding and not play me...
    ZoeM1 ZoeM1 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17

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    Try getting your face down bashed outta the shite outta ya from 13-16-when you overpowered the *****...you took it when you were young-coz your younger brother got it great...so...
    baldwomenarebeautiful baldwomenarebeautiful 31-35, F a week ago

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    I'm sick of trying to get help.. therapy for over a year and so many diffrent medications.. no one cares.. now my therpaist is telling my husband to ignore me when I say I want to...
    krissy1314 krissy1314 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am feeling guilty about my abuse. I enjoyed the abuse and almost always orgasmed during the intercourse. Does anyone else feel guilty for enjoying it? message me
    hardluckguy73 hardluckguy73 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    from age 5 til I was a teenager I was sexually abused by several family members and a close family friend . I have never had therapy for this . so many memories .
    lukeshort46 lukeshort46 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    how old are you? don't feel bad I was absolutely abused too
    gyty gyty 13-15, M Dec 11

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    It was my step dad it happened when I was 6 he'd lived with us for about 4 months and was nice to me one night my mum and brother had gone out and it was just me and him it had...
    tommybourne22 tommybourne22 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    When I was younger, my dad hung out with the wrong crowd. he got into drugs and started doing some things that no father should ever do. It started small. One day, when i was 7, he...
    nvrtell nvrtell 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Since I was little, my step dad abused my family..including me.
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M