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I Was Mentaly Abused By My Dad

Just sharing my story and open to comments, advice and questions. 104 People

    Your Not Good Enough

    Why the hell can't you be like your brother? your to stupid to be a human being let alone My son. I ought to kick your *** right now. you stupid bastard, go kill yourself. this is what I grew up hearing all the time between beatings then as a adult I was publicly humiliated at...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    My Dad Had Two Sides

    My dad died when I was 17, which was five and a half years ago. Although we didn't get it confirmed, he probably had Dissocial Personality Disorder. He had two "sides" to his personality; one caring and sweet and one that was almost demonic. He prevented me...
    biologic biologic 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    The Father Who Wasn't

    It is hard for a young man to grow up without a father. It is even harder for a young man to grow up with half a father. My dad did not reveal that he was actually my father until I was 4. Up until that time he had been, to me, my mother's friend. He was not the man I wanted to...
    Powertoast Powertoast 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    My step dad used to try

    and 'toughen me up' when he realised I just wasn't like that he started mentally abusing me, he would say I was a girl for not liking fighting and would treat me like a daughter both me and mum were terrified of him and we were both physically abused.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Stepfather

    My dad died when I was young and I was forced to live with a stepfather for several years who hated me (not lying); and would come down on me most of the time. I was fragile due to the recent events that had occurred in my life and so was easily hurt.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 23, 2013

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    Go Ahead And Kill Yourself..

    That is what my Dad said to me last year at a time when I was feeling suicidal. He still says this sort of stuff to me. So does my Mother. I used to want my parents approval. I accept now that we will always think differently, and I will never get their approval. My Dad has been...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Mental Case

     My father abused me when i was little verbaly and physical. My mom and dad are alcoholics and drug addicts. My father would always say i was a trash and that i was not wanted and i should have never happened. He would stick me out on the streets and make me go up to random...
    parker0702 parker0702 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Dear Dad,

    Let the ranting begin...Dear, DadI am sorry I am not the perfect child you wanted. The one that would do everything for you silently and not say a word about it. I am seventeen and don't want to be your little slave any more. Yes, it is time for you to get up and do things...
    ShadowsGirl101 ShadowsGirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Dad.

    My dad's just never even been there for me. You know how much I've always wanted to be daddy's little girl?.. But i never was . He never cared. I don't know how i can care so much about him, when I probably don't even cross his mind. Ever. But that's okay. I don't cross many...
    katieemarieexoxo katieemarieexoxo 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    Fat

    My dad would call me fat and other names in the book. He has made me feel really bad about myself.  That I've developed a eating disorder because of it.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Love To Hate?

    I love my father when I was younger,and still do now. No matter what he does, I love him. He at least has stuck by my mom and tried to be there for me and my siblings. My story isn't one of flat out abuse, perse, it is one of "joking" abuse. I don't know if it is joking anymore...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    My Dad Loves Inappropriate Words

     I always love my Dad, but I just can't take this abuse no more. It seems like my Dady have 2 personalities; he could be so funny and warm to us, but mostly; very rude and do whatever he want. My Daddy was always expecting perfections from us, he doesn't even care about the...
    shakespeareinmisery shakespeareinmisery 13-15 3 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    I didn't even know what had happened to me until I was 11 or 12. Suddenly, I just woke up and realized that at around age 5 I was sexually abused. It never occurred to me that...
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    When I was sexually abused I froze in fear and I didn't do or say anything. Is it normal to response this way? I wish I didn't respond this way... I should have moved or said...
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    From the age 3-11 I was sexually abused by one of my cousins. In retrospect, I viewed him as a brother, because we were so close, but now.... I don't really know what to say. I...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 4 Responses May 20

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    At the age of 14 I think, my dad sexually abused me.. I don't remember it all, but the first time it happen, me and him was going to travel to another country to met his brother...
    Bekerkrkrk55 Bekerkrkrk55 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story from my experience with my mother.Let me start back when I was younger for you to understand the emotional...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response May 13

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    I love my Ma still. I really do. And nothing will ever change that. But at times I feel like dirt. Her and my brother call me fat all the time so my self-esteem is really low. She...
    EternityRoses EternityRoses 16-17, F May 11

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    How do I know if my Dad is truly emotionally abusing me? I just feel so confused....I've hated him since I was at least 9 or 10. Truly hated him, with a cold fury. The trouble is I...
    HappyKitty18 HappyKitty18 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    by my dad i was young. nuff said. not saying anything more
    BabyAngel9618 BabyAngel9618 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Well mine happed when i was 4 and it happent when my mother died, she killed herself. My dad started doing things I rather not go into details but it was and it is really hard for...
    BoyLover3 BoyLover3 13-15, M 5 Responses May 15

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    When I was really young like 3 I lost my mother to cancer so it was just me and my dad he was violent and beat me a lot he all so molested me and although he never actually...
    ChloeValintina ChloeValintina 26-30, F 2 Responses May 20

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    My Dad................................. dont even remind me of what he did to me............ ruined my entire Childhood..... so basically i dont have one..
    kazzicat kazzicat 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I was abused by my older brother for 6 years. he is around 9 years older than me. I'm okay most of the time now but I went through many years of struggle. I did finally tell my...
    xxxmeredithxxx xxxmeredithxxx 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My older brother sexually abused me for 8 years of my childhood...I just turned 19 and I'm coming to terms with it. I need help
    escapingmyfalsereality escapingmyfalsereality 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11

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    I lived with my uncle for around 18 months. He abused me everyday sometimes for 5 minutes, sometimes for 5 hours, and said that he would kill me if I ever spoke out and told anyone...
    Kayla2oo1 Kayla2oo1 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    I would think a lot of boys get sexualy abused but never talk about it
    narrowboatowner narrowboatowner 61-65, M 5 Responses May 12

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    It was around April and May last year when he started to sexually abuse me. Now I sit here still filled with the shame and guilt of what happened. I keep getting upset about what...
    dancinglawn dancinglawn 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    there is this girl who lied. she lied about being raped. she said she was 2 when it happened, the thing is, I was 3-4, and I was raped for drug money, and so on by my biological...
    mimiakito123 mimiakito123 18-21, F 6 Responses May 12

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    I was molested at age 7 by an older classmate at school. It was a female. It was in the girl's bathroom on more than one occasion. I remember trying to convince myself that it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    OK, this might seem trivial to most people. I am a little embarrassed to say anything. but I used to get angry sometimes when I was young, which is perfectly normal. But I would...
    kcyata kcyata 41-45, F May 18

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    The broom handle cut the air and landed across my back knocking the wind out of me. Deliberately tripped and sent to my knees I collapsed flat on my face,but dared not roll over. I...
    Neptuneb4Saturn Neptuneb4Saturn 18-21 1 Response May 21

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    I should have dropped out of school. I remember how happy I was when I was a young kid. I was very carefree and joyfully excited with life. Then school came along and has damaged...
    AnonymousGuineaPig AnonymousGuineaPig 22-25, M a week ago

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    A memory, something I barely remember. kind of like a tug in my heart when I think about it. one of the main reasons why it's hard for me to trust a man. it only happened once, I...
    zgirl694 zgirl694 18-21, F Apr 29

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    The reason for me coming to this app is to share my life experience n my mother expired when I was in school days n my father married again n my father had sex with me from the...
    bindu2605 bindu2605 22-25, F 5 Responses May 3

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    I was sexual assaulted when I was 9 by my father, it happend on 3 occasions of what I can remember ! I told my family they didn't believe me and told me to just never mention it...
    jade101189 jade101189 22-25, F 6 Responses May 7

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    I was sexualy abuse at 10 by a teacher
    narrowboatowner narrowboatowner 61-65, M 2 Responses May 12

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    Almost every night he rapes me. I hate it! I hate myself! I'm so tired of this bullshit. I've been raped by too many people since I was born. I just want to run away and cry and be...
    000111bh 000111bh 18-21, F 4 Responses May 16

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    Everyday I try to move past it. Slowly I am moving forward. I am still not completely happy with myself. At first it was only nightmares, but I bc I didn't feel worthy of anyone...
    GoneGirl17 GoneGirl17 16-17, F 1 Response May 16

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    Many of you (especially the guys) get excited when I post stories about issues like doing the dishes shirtless or that I give my boyfriend bj or that my boyfriend and I in an open...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response May 20

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