I Was Molested By My Cousin

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    Lonely

    i was molested by my cousin when i was 8..i have come a long way now...got help and am doing great now..but sometimes i still feel lonely about it..i havent told anyone...it gets lonely...very lonely..like now..most times im good...but right now... i wish i had someone who would...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    I was maybe 4-5 when my cousin started it.

    I don't remember how but it continued until I was 7-8 when my mom caught us. She caught us when I was trying to push her away and my mom walked in and kicked us out angry. Hours later when she left, my mom talked to me about it and I told the truth. I couldn't imagine how sad...
    Mandy1738 Mandy1738
    13-15, F
    10 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I Was Molested By My Cousin...

    I was around 8 - 10 years old when it happened. My mother worked very long hours (day + night shifts) and my father was in our home country. My cousin was at my house 24/7 because we all lived in the same building. It started with him touching my private parts and fondling me...
    d3sir3 d3sir3
    22-25
    22 Responses May 8, 2011

    When I was ~8 or 9 my older cousin (he was 11

    or 12) was found rubbing his crotch against me. Although I should be able to remember it, I can't. I think I've repressed the memory. I found out that it happened from a parent a few months ago and I've been terrified ever since. They don't think it was a big deal and we visit...
    openaviary openaviary
    16-17, T
    Nov 9, 2015

    When I was 16, I had a really bad crush on my

    older cousin. He was 21 at the time and really good looking, so I teased him all the time. I'd take my bra off when he was coming over, or wear gym shorts with no panties, anything to get him aroused. Well, one day it got out of control, and he did a lot more than get aroused. I...
    Blond4you Blond4you
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    I Am Done With It

    i Wrote my story here quite some time ago seeking for help from the sexual abuse i encountered in the hands of my cousin from ages 8 to 9. i wrote a story under the username lilasmile..i somehow have forgotten the password for that username so i never used back the account...i...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 11, 2013

    I haven't spoken about this in a long time

    but I feel like I need to after years of keeping it to myself. My memories aren't very clear of the events but what I do remember is my cousin, who is 5 years older than me, playing a game called adventures. We would visit my Aunt and Uncle's house for holidays and the kids...
    hipsterkitty hipsterkitty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014

    We were about 8-9 years old,

    playing hide and seek in my grandmas big backyard. He sneak us in the storage house (we weren't allowed in there) because it where no one would find us and I had to pee.. So he took me to the side of it and I urinated. I wasn't paying attention to him watching me pee until he...
    EML96 EML96
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

    I was around 10 or 11 years old

    when this happened and I am recently 14 now. I was at my aunts house and my two aunts were talking to each other in the front of the house, and so were my cousins who were playing. I went to this shed which was in the back and I went in there to get something. Then my cousin...
    g00dVib3zzz g00dVib3zzz
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Mar 3

    I was 10 when this happened

    and I was visiting family in central Florida and we were in the same bed. I was minding my own business playing my Ipod. He said he was gonna take a nap so I went with that. Then he started touching my '' below the equator '' and I pushed him away and started to cry. Nobody...
    AnnaFrozen5003 AnnaFrozen5003
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    **** you. **** you both

    for taking away my childhood. **** you both for making me hate myself. Starting today, you know linger get that power. I am smart, beautiful and worth it.
    FindingKiaraJ FindingKiaraJ
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015
    ah0506 ah0506
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    Hey, I don't even know

    if this count as molestation, I've wondered for years now, thinking I may just be making a bigger deal out of it that it really is. I don't remember the exact dates, it was several times before the age of 15 (i'm 19 and in college now). My male cousin is 7 years older than me...
    CaitMorgan2018 CaitMorgan2018
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 28

    Besides my wife and my therapist this is the

    only time I have talked about being molested. My therapist said its good for me to talk about it. I was nine years old when it started, my older cousin started by showing me pornographic movies. Then it moved to copying the pornographic movies on me. I was so ashamed and scared...
    proball1 proball1
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    Don't every let anyone tell you

    that silence help there wrong silence does not heal it kills so stay strong pray to God that's the only way you can make stay strong you guys don't let it kill you
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 11, 2015

    I Fooled Around With My Cousins And Was Molested

    When i was younger my cousisn and i would fool around. it was more than one of them. i dont know when it started or how it started.. i was very young.. A CHILD! i did that with like 5 of my guy cousins. 3 of them were brothers but i dont know how that started or happend. i was...
    yeahyeah7722 yeahyeah7722
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Apr 28, 2011

    UPDATE: So as y'all know I held a secret

    for 4 years. Last night, I finally told my parents. I feel free in a way. I no longer have to keep it to myself but I still don't feel relieved. My parents still have to finish talking about how to deal with this. For those of you who were molested or raped or abused in any way...
    sophie0511 sophie0511
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    I'm a boy. I'm 16 now,

    but when I was 5 I was sexually abused by my cousin, who was 12 at the time. It was at a sleepover at my grandparents. All of the grand kids had a mass sleepover one night and all of the boys slept in one room. My cousin slept next to me and was really close to me. I don't...
    heygalloway heygalloway
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    I have never told anyone,

    outside of the people involved, either of the stories below. *** I remember the second time I was molested vividly. We were visiting my mother’s family in Texas for the first time in my working memory. We stayed with my Aunt Vicky in her very modest house in a typical Texan...
    bluedevilss bluedevilss
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    I was molested by my cousin

    when i was 8 and i cant get the feeling out of my head. He was 13 at the time so he basically knew what he was doing. He would kiss, lick, suck me when ever he had the chance to. I tend to blame myself since i cidnt stop it. He finally stoped when i turned 16. I rember i was in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    Me and Marcus always played around

    when we were little. Well I was little. He was almost 19. I was 8 years old and he wanted to play doctor. You can guess what happened. I had bruises on my chest and thighs for weeks. And my dead beat mom never noticed. I was molested from ages 8 to 14. I never I guess understood...
    SongBird2115 SongBird2115
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    Please Help Me.please.

    I was molested as a young child,very young about 3 years of age.I don't recall exactly how old I was because I was that young.However I guess age 3 because I wasn't able to speak very well when this all happened.I tried to tell but no one would understand me since I was crying...
    thedayviid thedayviid
    18-21
    18 Responses Feb 16, 2011

    I was six years old when u fondled me in the

    back bedroom for what seemed like hours, u followed me into the bathroom it was my only chance to get away, I tried to lock the door but it was broken and still is to this day, a red ribbon hung on the door nob as it twisted open. I felt u come behind me and attempt to press...
    Megganleighhhh Megganleighhhh
    22-25, F
    Nov 15, 2015

    I was molested by my older brother I was 4

    years old or 5 when it started. He made me think that it's okay to do dirty stuff and he would make me think tht sibs get married He has ruined my life I hate him till this day even tho he died I was being molested for 4years and he died after 3years so I can't seem to forgive...
    bossssssss bossssssss
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 19

    I was 8 when he first did it.

    He was 13 at the time. He was sitting on the couch between me and my sister. I remember him saying "I want to show you something". He then touched both of us. For some reason he decided to continue to do that to me but not my sister. He would babysit us a lot and every time he...
    sophie0511 sophie0511
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    I was molested several times

    and I liked it he was a lot older than me I enjoyed the attention from him my other cousins also joined in
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    When I was was between 6

    and 8 my cousin would babysit me and my younger brother. When it would be time for be he would make my brother go into his room and shut the door and then he would lay with me in my room with my door also closed. One night he looked at me and told me that I could trust him and...
    catherine1997 catherine1997
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    I was 17 and so was he,

    it was Christmas Eve. We were best friends growing up. I woke up to him with a flash light pointing at me and him touching my breast. I could feel him against my thigh and he had my pants tugged down. I didn't want him to know I caught him at first, so I turned on my side. A few...
    ivorysky ivorysky
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2015
    mypawshaveprints mypawshaveprints
    22-25, F
    Nov 12, 2015

    I was 13 the first time it happened.

    I pretended to be asleep because I was embarrassed it was happening.
    whitneyshaee whitneyshaee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 29

    Ripped In Half

    It all started when I was 5. I had 2 cousins Issac and Dalton. The first time it happened we were at our grandmother's house. It was late everyone was sleeping, so I thought. I was in the recliner and they come and sit next to me. They put a sheet on top of the recliner and made...
    Alexisowens Alexisowens
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

    when I was 10 my older cousin would baby sit me,

    she was only 4 years older than me so I never really thought of it as her being my baby sitter, any ways one day she asked me if I could trust her n do something for her, she was always my favorite so I said yes, next thing I know she grabs some basketball shorts out my dresser...
    luffy26D luffy26D
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2015

    my cousin touched me

    while I was on my period, told him no im on my period please dont, yet he still stuck his fingers inside. the bastard. no one in my family knows what he really did. this was just one of the few times he forced me.
    firepetal113 firepetal113
    22-25, F
    Oct 24, 2015

    As some of you don't know,

    I have an older cousin and she was crazy and violent. I know why she hated me so much that I think she wanted me dead. Because the family doesn't really like her, I was their favorite, whatever I say they will believe me, so there was a day that I lied that she broke all those...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 27, 2015

    I was in 7th grade. My family

    and my cousin's family were camping and one day he told me to come into his camper when everyone was out by the fire because he wanted to show me a movie. He is half a year younger than me. When I went inside he had closed all of the blinds. He started touching my boobs. Then he...
    JamesCarter20 JamesCarter20
    18-21, T
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    No, I was not molested.

    I was accused of molesting my cousin at a young age, after a stupid incident. Back when I was 10 I was at my cousins house, laying back and watching TV with the family. My oldest cousin,"Kayla", asked me to get something for her, but I tell her I can't because my hands are dirty...
    WillieCaesar WillieCaesar
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 23

    A Christmas eve... so much fun.

    My gosh it was great. Time to sleep with the pack of cousins I have. 1 bed. 3 girls. 1 teenage boy. Yeah that's my favorite cousin. I wanted to sleep next to him. I faught my little cousin & sister for it. I got the spot! I loved him. He was the best. Everyone in the room was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 21, 2015

    Hello, my name is Ashley

    and I was molested by my own cousin. This is my story.... It happened to me from age 10-13. My cousin was 17-20. I believe. I was innocent. He stole my soul. I try not to remember anything that ever happened to me by him. But I live in Alabama and he lived in Chicago...
    Ashley1778 Ashley1778
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    I was molested by my cousin 4 times.

    The first time was June 13, 2014 in his parents room, I went to his house with my grandma so she can make food for them, he was in his parents room watching a movie I decided to lay with him and got under the covers after a few minutes he grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch...
    ImScared4now ImScared4now
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    Update: so my mom has not

    yet told my aunt and uncle about what my cousin did to me. Their dad has been getting heart surgeries so she is waiting till he gets better. I still get nightmares and I'm losing so much sleep. My mom will be taking me to a therapist so I'm really anxious to see how that goes. I...
    sophie0511 sophie0511
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    I'm not sure how to write this,

    it's something I've kept to myself for almost 3 years and I'm sharing it now with people I've never met. writing it and deleting it. it's difficult to think about because it hurts. it's suffocating me ever since it happened. I've changed a lot since then. became something I'm...
    Itszskye Itszskye
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    let me start with my aunt she was about 13

    and I was 6. We had a sleep over at my house, we slept on the same bed. She had asked me if I knew what sex and and if I wanted to find out. At the time I had no idea what sex was. So of course I said yes. So she told me to close my eyes and just relax. She then touched me and I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    Im nterested in the molester

    and wether it's mostly always male or whether it was 50-50 male and female offenders, A lot of new information is coming to light about female sex offenders and it's a lot more common than we all thought. This is not to mention that most women have much more opportunity to be...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 26, 2015
    Harlemporter Harlemporter
    26-30, M
    Apr 9

    Molested By An Nfl Pick

    When I was younger, my cousins were in a military family, so for the most part, they visited once in a while, but never for too long.  After my uncle retired, they moved to our state and my own personal hell began. I was around 16 and he was already in college. ...
    DarkButterflie DarkButterflie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2009

    I might've been eight

    or nine he tried to penetrate me we were out in the woods my brother was there. I didn't let him finish because it hurt too much. I remember years later discussing the incident with my brother he said at the time he was jealous that our cousin didn't pick him
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 26, 2015

    I was abandoned by my mother

    and left with a great aunt in grover beach. She bounced me back and forth between there and los angeles. Sometimes I would be left with an older cousin. She make me perform oral sex on her. No one ever had the sex talk with me or told me what exactly it was. I always...
    KiaLenMix KiaLenMix
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    I really don't know how to start this.

    I've thought about asking someone privately but I didn't want to interfere with anyone since some don't like being asked questions from what their profiles said or they might not understand what I'm asking. I'm struggling with this one thing. It's been more then 10 years since I...
    odessa94 odessa94
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    It all started a few weeks ago

    while iwas playing my guitar while i was in my male cousins room. I had noticed he was watching me wierdly so i stopped and went to get something to eat in the kitchen. Then he asked wait dont go keep playing i said no i want something to eat he smiled creepy and said well you...
    kittykatpeep kittykatpeep
    16-17
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    He Was My Best Friend( Added more to my story)

    I was really close to my cousin, He was my best friend even thou he was 11 years older then me. I asked him what sex was when I was 9. He put in a **** and had me watch it. weeks later he molested me.My mother and hes mother thought, since we was so close that my cousin and I...
    AvaLynne AvaLynne
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Aug 23, 2012

    I was a little innocent six year old

    when it all started. My cousin just moved near us so it meant that my family would be spending more time with hers. Since i was young, the adults would send me to her room. Not only that, but after school I would have to go to her house. While i was alone with her she would...
    melissafernandez melissafernandez
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    It started when I was around 6 years old.

    My cousin who was 2 years older than me would come over and we would go and play. Whenever we were alone together he would touch me and put his mouth on my chest and have me put my mouth in certain places. This all happened over the course of 5-7 years. I can't remember exactly...
    annamh17 annamh17
    18-21, F
    Mar 6, 2015

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