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I Was Molested By My Father

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    I Was Molested By My Father When I Was Very Young Between Three Or For And He Always Said It Was My Fault That This Would Help The Both Of Us He Also Told Me That Not To Tell Any One Or He Would Kill My Mother My Mother Found Out That He Was Doing It To M

    when i was seven i left with a friend of my mothers she was a single mom we moved to new york city one day i met this guy at the bus station isaid that he wanted to help me so i went with him he fed me we talked but i did not know what was comeing next he had sex with me and...
    drakkarofoz drakkarofoz 41-45 4 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Another My Dad Molested Me Story

    There are 5 girls in my family. Ironic isnt it because i often wondered how things would be if it were all boys ? But we werent. Im not going to drag this story out. My dad molested me from 2-14 when one day i said to him this isnt right. Im mot going to go into the painful...
    cdoughty53 cdoughty53 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    Can You Help?

    I am almost 37, I've been saying I'm 37 for the last few months, just so I can be psched up for it when it actually happens- not looking forward to this one btw. In my extreme old age (LOL) I have been trying to remember what it was like for me as a child getting abused by my...
    akasolia akasolia 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 12, 2011

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    my father has admitted his wrong doing to my

    brothers, sisters, me, and family therapist which is nice so people know I am telling the truth. the major problem I have about this is that my father and mother are still alive and I do not know how to forgive them (my mom for still being with him and acting like I am being...
    lizrowe14 lizrowe14 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Delusional Father

    I honestly can't remember the exact age my father started touching me inappropriately... maybe 10? My mother worked weekend nights and that was his time to prowl on me. He started by giving me massages which I thought was normal for some reason but then he started going lower and...
    letsfloataway letsfloataway 26-30, F Jun 13, 2013

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    I Was Molested By My Father.

    When I was young my mom and dad got a divorce and both remarried right away. I had to visit my father every other weekend and every other Monday. when I was six and everyone would leave the house my father would tell me that it was time to take a shower. I told him no. I can...
    KianaRose KianaRose 13-15 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    Our Secret

    I was molested by my dad from the age of 14 till I moved out last year. It started as touching, him coming into my room at night and fondling me. Then everything changed and it seemed like he was obsessed with me and sex, just the way he would watch me was creepy. But he was my...
    EmelineEthereal EmelineEthereal 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    It Has Been Years, And Always In The Back Of My Head

    Heh, such memories come back from a long time ago. When I a child, I moved to another country. Somehow my mother could not move with us. It was just me, my sister, and my father. I had some relatives in this country too. I went to an elementary school like any kid would and...
    hopezndreamz hopezndreamz 18-21 Oct 12, 2012

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    He Should Have Been Punished

    I was 15.  I'm now 40 something...it went on for two years before I told anyone.  He would come into my room at night and touch me....I finally asked for a lock on my door and kept it locked.  That didn't stop it....one time he came into my room during the day and exposed...
    brandy68 brandy68 41-45 Nov 23, 2011

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    The War Of Love And Hate Part 1

    Starting at the age of eleven I was sexually abused by my father, the MAN, the POWER, the OWNER of us the CONTROLLER. To give you the picture there was me at 11 my bro at 9 and sister 2yrs. My dad was unemployed for a good section of my childhood and therefore was home all the...
    deezal2 deezal2 41-45 Feb 25, 2012

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    Forever 11

    I turned forty last year. My dad died of a horrible disease last year. I haven't let anyone - or really believed anyone - love/d me since. My dad touched me once - in the same bed as my stepmom. Gave me my first ******. Before this, I hadn't even known that females had such...
    flavamartinez flavamartinez 36-40 7 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    I am now 27 and I was molested by my father. I guess I was about 8 or 9 when it happened, and it only happened once. My Fahter called me into the main bedroom of our house and said I should get into bed (I already had my pyjamas on). He then took my hand and forced me to stroke...
    Bflys Bflys 26-30 1 Response Jul 20, 2011

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    Step Dad..

    My mother took me away from my birth father, hid the fact I had/have a blood sister given up for adoption... my mother married a new man, said "this is your father" and years later, went on a vegas trip with him after she had full knowlege he molested me. I'm ok now, it hurts...
    certifiedcatlady certifiedcatlady 26-30 Dec 5, 2012

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    Any Advice Would Help

    I was molested by my father at age 9. I am 34 now I have tried for years to "just deal with it" but lately it is getting much harder I find myself crying a lot and thinking about it. The advice I need is this >my father met my sister his biological daughter for the first time...
    Lunarian Lunarian 31-35, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    I Was Molested By My Father And Uncle For 8 Years.

    and my mother and grandmother knew. my father had the nerve to show up at my high school on my 18th birthday and i beat the **** out of him right in front of students, teachers, and a cop. it took 3 cops with tasers and mace to take me down and i got out of the cuffs once and...
    mosinman mosinman 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    Molested By My Uncle

    i lived with my uncle from 3yrs to when i left home, he did all for me cared nursed me , bathed me touched me i thought as a little girl its was the norm. he had me home schooled so i didnt have outside friends, he arranged for my tutor to be with me all day every day...
    sunrisegirl23 sunrisegirl23 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    When I was a little girl, 12 yo, my father started sodomizing me. He started having normal sex with me earlier, but after I got my period he stopped penetrating my vagina and started with my anus. At the time I did not know why, but now I think he was preventing a possible...
    jasmine24 jasmine24 22-25, F 24 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Broken.

    He ruined me. I'm broken on the inside. Oh. Sorry. Let me back up a bit. I was 9. Just entering 3rd grade. My mum and brothers were rarely home. Me and my dad. Home. Alone. One day, I angered him. He beat me. My parents started homeschooling me after he began to beat me...
    Katedbugg Katedbugg 22-25, F Mar 11, 2013

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    Troubled

    When I was about 6-7 years of age, I was sexually abused by my Dad. When i was younger I was always a 'Daddy's little girl', it all started with a game where he would trace a picture on my back and I would try and guess what the picture was, it sounds strange now, but as I was...
    scooby82 scooby82 18-21 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    The Dreams Return

    I was molested by my father at age 7 for the first time.  It continued until I was 9 years old.  I buried that **** for YEARS deep in my psyche; at age 47, after teh death of my mother, sister and brother in law, I lost it.  I had nightmares, rarely slept, and became suicidal...
    mikeshan02 mikeshan02 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2011

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    Molested For Many Many Years By A Man Who Didn't Care For Me

    This is really hard to relate, but I'm ready to heal, so here goes. My father molested me as far back as I can remember I had a vagina, up until I was 15 or 16. It all started with the fact that my mother had to take him to court for child support payments amounting to a mere $50...
    depressed2013 depressed2013 22-25, F Nov 3, 2012

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    I Am Stuck....

    I am 34. I just finally had a breakthrough and realized why I am the way I am. My father molested me. There, I said it. There is no going back. Or is there? I have these tangled, confused memories, but can feel there is more. I just can't remember. I am the only girl of four. So...
    thefiercestcalm thefiercestcalm 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Done

    I was molested by our next door neighbor. I was the uncool kid, and he was always doing cool things: hay rides, barbeques, whatever. There were always about 20 kids around, and as a self-perceived ugly duckling, I was thrilled to tag along. The hand down the shirt at 9 didn't...
    karinalaloca karinalaloca 51-55, F Dec 3, 2013

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    Molested By My Father Once.

    When I was about 4 years old, I remember being scared to sleep by myself so I had my dad come sleep in my room with me. I remember us talking and then all of a sudden he stuck his hand near my area and started rubbing it. Then he took my hand and placed it on his. I remember him...
    Theinnerlight9 Theinnerlight9 18-21 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    I Was Touched Once By My Da, Told My Mom, And She Told Him, He Denies It-what Do I Do?

    I think i was around 6 when it happened. I was fondled by my dad. My behavior changed after that. I played Barbie's and had the men touch th women. I learned abotu sexual pleasure there after that. fast fwd to colllege years, I began to remember it and bury it. I told my mom and...
    hearmycries hearmycries 26-30 Dec 1, 2012

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    Disaster At 8

    My parents are divorced. When i was eight i was the happiest child ever i went to go with my dad cause i went with him every other weekend and i awoke to him molesting me while i was "asleep". I froze. I didnt know what to do. What is happening?! i took it. After he stopped i...
    honeycombness honeycombness 22-25, F Aug 24, 2013

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    22 + Years Of My Life I Was Molested

    This is hard for me to even type and say out loud. I feel as though the minute I say it the world is judging me as a ***** or disgusting or just some low meaningless life form. My counselor and even the detective on this case say I should connect with support groups. This would...
    kerri235 kerri235 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    Who Do I Trust Now?

    It was all over by the time I was 9. I was abused by others, but they all faded to the background. I was most effected my the trust that was taken from me as a small child by my own dad, that I loved so much. I practiced avoidance of the issue since then, and I am now almost 25...
    jORDANgIRL88 jORDANgIRL88 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Molested By My Father

    I feel the pain of everyone on this site that says this. My father molested me for as long as i remember. My mother was a sleepy head and the minute she fell aslee here he came. He would come into my bedroom at night and molest me, the minute my mother left the house, he...
    texgal63 texgal63 46-50, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I don't even remember exactly

    when it was because I repressed it so much, but I remember that it was in our old apartment so anywhere between 7th-9th grade. I sensed something was weird when he started coming into my room and hugging me. We were never the affectionate family. Then it happened. We were in...
    sajidaaah sajidaaah 18-21, F Apr 9

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    Between the ages of 11

    and 16 I lived with my dad. He would make me play with myself in front of him when he wasnt touching me.
    christykravchick christykravchick 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    My Hero Took My Virginity

    I had an panic attack when I was 13. I laid down naked on the bathroom floor while I waited for my heart and breathing to slow down. My dad came home walked into the bathroom and found me there naked. I was so emberasssed. when i went to get up he told me to stay. he got down on...
    n1529 n1529 31-35 4 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Al Did Me

    My father Al banged me in the butt when I was 6 and I grew up gay. One time I molested my nephew while my Dad sung karaoke. By Kyle Peyton XxOo
    UnkleKyle UnkleKyle 36-40 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    When I was young about 4 my dad started molesting me and know one in my family knows except my husband. My mother was terrible to treated me like her slave and was always yelling at me and threatening me. I finally grew up and left and joined the military where I met my husband,I...
    jenn0315 jenn0315 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 23, 2010

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    It all started when i when i was around 5yrs.My father started touching me ..etc.He molested me till the age 14. My mother got to know about it and she was angry with me initially.My mom had big fight with him.He was only source of income for the whole family, so my mother...
    spirit1002 spirit1002 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Repressed Memories Of My Father Molesting Me For 6 Years.

    It started with him physically abusing me from age 5 to age 11. Then started molesting me from age 12 to 18.
    sharfree06 sharfree06 51-55, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Daddy's Litte Girl

    This story is fairly graphic and may be triggers for some. Read with caution! My father touching me inappropriately seems to be so normal to my childhood that it is hard to determine how old I was when it began. I have vague memories of my father changing my diaper and telling...
    Shattereddreams88 Shattereddreams88 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Intelligent, Helpful, Loving People: Please Help

    For the last few months I've been wondering if I have been molested. It would make sense, I have the symptoms. I talked to my mother today on the phone (she lives on the other side of the country) and I asked her if I had been in any traumatic experience when I was young...
    mrose1134 mrose1134 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2013

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    M.o.n.s.t.e.r.

    M.O.N.S.T.E.R "M" is for molester, because that's exactly what you are "O" is for obsessive, because that's what's gotten you this far "N" is for nobody, because that's all you'll ever be "S" is for survival, **** you dad, that's for me "T" is for torture, because it's the...
    silentandforgotten silentandforgotten 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2012

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    I Thought He Was My Protector

    It all started when I was 3.  My mom and dad walked in and found my babysister raping me.  I have nightmares of blood being everywhere.  I remember hearing my mom telling someone that my dad beat the crap out of the babysister and he went to jail.  I seemed...
    MySunIsGone MySunIsGone 31-35, F Feb 7, 2010

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    I Want To Forget About It, But I Can't

    This started when I was 15 years old. My father started giving me a peck on the lips whenever he came home from work or whenever I go to bed. I thought it was ok for a child to peck their parents on the lips, so I didn't think nothing of it. But as time flew, he took it too far...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    My Father Molested and Loved Me

    My father molested me from when I was very small (2 years) until I was 13 or 14.  I was very mixed up about this because my mother never told me she loved me, but then again, my father never told me he loved me either.  He did doctor me when I was hurt or sick...
    stillremembering stillremembering 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    The Bathroom Encounter

    I was about 12yrs old and I remember being the bathroom with the door locked taking a bath. I always locked the door while in there, simply bc of wht was happening to me in the dark late at nite. So, as I was taking a bath, I heard the door being tampered with. I notice tht the...
    dShay dShay 31-35 2 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    Another Sad Molestation Story

    I actually never ever thoguht I could think this, let alone write it down. I was molested by my father. I think I was about 9 years old. I don't think it has affected me in any way. I had a great happy life. During my childhood after the incidents took place I think I forgot...
    lailabanks lailabanks 31-35 May 23, 2013

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    Molested Starting Age 5 Till 16

    My father started making me touch him at 5 and he would touch me and put his fingers in me every night he put me to bed. My mom worked nights... I never said a word and to this day I dont know why?? At 8 he made me start sucking him. I still never told. Then at ten he raped me...
    paisley321 paisley321 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Unable To Forgive...

    I was 4 years old when my father went to prison for an unknown charge. He was in there for five years, I think. I lived with my grandmother at the time because "she needed help" supposely. Though I'm still trying to figure out the truth as to why I was sent to live with her. My...
    gyrlchyld007 gyrlchyld007 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Father, But I Think I'M Okay.

    It all started when I was maybe 5 or 6. I had no idea what was going on when it first happened. But it kept happening. I started understanding that it was bad as time went on. Around the age of 7 or 8, my two older sisters, who were 12 at the time (they're twins), came to me and...
    HereToShare HereToShare 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2013

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    Haunting

    My Dad molested me. He also molested my middle sister. We have a 13yr old sister. Do you know, where I'm going, with this? He refuses to own up, to the fact, that he's a molester. He blames it, on witch-craft. We're Nigerian. Anyway, I'm haunted by memories of this...
    ScarletOrtiz ScarletOrtiz 26-30, F Dec 7, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    Without revealing two much I would like to say that my dad was just never around in my life. My parents divorced when I was four and I would see him sporadically ranging from months to years. When I was 11 I went to go live with him, and I had to sleep in the same bed as him...
    anonymousme67 anonymousme67 22-25 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    My 50-year-old stepfather accused me of

    molesting him when I was 10. Imagine! I didn't even know the facts of life. I was naive. When I learned he was accusing me of molesting him I avoided him like the plague. I did not want to be accused of something like that.
    Cougarette Cougarette 56-60 Mar 8

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    I Was Molested By My Father

    When I was 12, my parents split. It was devastating. I wanted to still be close to my dad, and so I went to his apartments on the weekends (but never stayed the night). When I turned 13, my dad started acting strange around me. A few months later, he started abusing me. At first...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 8, 2012

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    Daddy'S Good Girl

    I don't remember when it started, in fact, I can't remember a time he wasn't touching me in some way. He used to hold me in his lap. Sometimes he would reach around and touch me through my panties, or pull then aside and touch me and try to shove his fingers inside of me. I could...
    Littleemmy Littleemmy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    I Was Molested By My Father.

    Growing up I was a Daddy's girl. At 8, my parents divorced. My sister and I stayed with my Dad because he stayed in the house we had lived in our whole lives, & we didn't want to leave. He always worked overtime to help support us, and did everything he could to keep us happy...
    bonbonnie bonbonnie 18-21 3 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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