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I Was Molested By My Step-father

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    I Need Help..

    Hi I'm currently 16 years old. When I was 15 my moms fiancé began asking me if he could give me massages and what not which, at the time, i did not realize was wrong. I began to realize that it was wrong when he began massaging my butt or my inner thighs. He then started asking...
    Kelskinipp8 Kelskinipp8 16-17 9 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    My Mom Don'T Even Believe Me

    My step-dad has molested me for as long as I can remember. I remember how it all started and the last time anything happened, but I only remember bits and pieces of all the times between. The only thing he didn't do is have sex with me. It all started on the couch watching tv. He...
    blaz131 blaz131 18-21 Mar 29, 2013

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    Consistently Molested In My Sleep By My Stepdad

    My mom and real dad got a divorce when I was 3, and my mom remarried when I was 4. My dad was in the Navy as well as my new stepdad. I vaguely remember liking him at first but don't remember much more, I know my oldest brother never liked him. A year after my mom married him we...
    nellie87 nellie87 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Sometimes Horrible Things Can Be Survived

    I was born in London, England. When I was 6 years old, my mother brought me to America to live. She met a great man who treated her well. She had a history of unhealthy relationships, including my father who remained in England. Shortly after, they got married and my mom had a...
    Skittles333 Skittles333 26-30 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    Moested By Step Father

    I was molested by my step dad from elementary school to middle. About age 5-15 and now I'm 19. It stopped in the middle Of my 8th grade year. I guess he realized I had stopped talking to him so he stopped. I never told anyone but my oldest sister because he did the same to her...
    lacie0116 lacie0116 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2012

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    I Need Support

    My mother just left my father because i finally told her the truth....i have a brother he hates me. Lots of people hate me.what do i do
    zlopez23 zlopez23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Darkest Hours

    It started with my real dad he was very much an alcoholic...I was very very young like under 6...and he had a crush on me (as my mom and his mom put it) and was always trying to get me alone. My mom was so worried that after the got divorced she took my to the doctors to make...
    bhertz88 bhertz88 18-21 6 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    I Was A Daddy's Girl, But Then...

    It's only a game. He said it was the demons making him do it. God I was so stupid back then. I was 11 when it started. I don't know what went wrong. He was like the perfect dad. My real father was never around. Chuck, my step-dad, had been around since I was 2. I even liked him...
    jaded627 jaded627 18-21 Jul 12, 2010

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    Can't Speak

    I am currently 20 years old, and can't seem to find peace within me. I try asking myself why and why. I know the answer but don't Want to grasp it ... When I was 13 years my stepdad began molesting me or atleast, I believe so. During the summer of me going to my 8th grade year...
    Cupcakemomma12 Cupcakemomma12 18-21 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    When I Was 12

    When I was 12, it all started when we set up the pool and we would swim. He would throw me, sister and brother in the pool. But when he threw me he would rub on me as he threw me in. It was very uncomfortable. That's how it all started. I would always catch him staring at my...
    Ashley1010 Ashley1010 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2012

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    My Sisters Father Molested Me

    I am now 27 yrs old. He and my mom got together when I was about 7. I liked him at first. He was nice to me he always played with me and bought me things. Then one day I was around 9 yrs old we were playing like play fighting, it was only us two in the apt. I remember him...
    nitajade19 nitajade19 26-30, F Aug 11, 2013

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    What To Do?

    When I was in 7th grade my step-dad would touch me. It started with kisses on the mouth, his supposed way of saying goodnight too me. My cousin found me crying after he had kissed me, she told my sister and I then told my sister. She said she believed me my family didn't. My...
    NextLife123 NextLife123 18-21 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    So Young !

     I remember as if it was yesterday . I was 4yrs old when my mom moved us in with this person. The fondling started almost immediately it seemed. I don't remember what my thoughts were. I remember as I grew older he would come into my bedroom at night and fondle me, and...
    texassouther texassouther 56-60, F Feb 17, 2010

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    Please Read This

    Hello everyone. I'm Chiazu. I started this group, posted my story, and have commented on most of yours. I didn't ever think I would have to make a post about this, but please try to remember: we're a support group. I made this group so we could have a safe place to talk and to...
    Chiazu Chiazu 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2012

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    Speaking Out Does No Good....no One Really Wants To Here What You Have To Say...

    For my anonymous reasons I will not mention my name, however I would like to finally speak out. I'm tired of being unheard, and my screams turned away. I am a victim of sexual abuse from my own blood father since the age of 4 until the age of 19. I can remember memories as a...
    graceful101 graceful101 18-21 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    I Was Molested By My Mom's Boyfriend.

    Okay so last year, a little after school started was when it all happend. my mom's boyfriend is a drunk and a weed head so this was never shocking. one night i was taking a shower, obviously with the door locked and He was on the computer. i listen to the radio very loud so i...
    Hailey123456 Hailey123456 18-21 2 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    My Nightmare

    I was interested in sexual things at a very young age. What seems to me now- being 24- abnormal curiosity.  I think it may have originally stemmed from my mother letting my watch inappropriate movies and also her being with many men, in front of me. My mom dated my...
    dramatizedent dramatizedent 22-25 19 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    A Really Bad Step-father

    I was abused by my step father.  I probably deserved it.  He is no longer alive so I guess I am free to tell.    When I was a teenager and hit puberty I noticed he started to look at me differently.   His relationship with my mother had grown...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 4, 2010

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    Still Seeking Help And Support...

    At about 19-20 yrs of age, I went to a party with my mom and step dad and it was nothing unusual for the step dad to feed us both drinks all night. when we got home that night, my mom went to bed and step dad wanted to take a shot (he usually never drank) but he did that night. i...
    AndromedanLightBeing AndromedanLightBeing 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    My Step Dad Molested Me And His Daughter Doesn't Know

    After the second time he molested me, my mom still went back to him. He has a 17 yr old daughter who still goes to their house every other week, but she doesn't know what he did still. Should someone tell her or not? Is it dangerous for her to be going over there still? Or what...
    AndromedanLightBeing AndromedanLightBeing 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    My Stepdad Molested Me Numerous Times During My Childhood

    Like some of the others on here, I can't remember the exact time it started or ended, just some impressionable images and how he always ended our alone time together by saying, "Remember, don't tell your mom." I was around the age of 7 or 8 when it began- I remember him coercing...
    johndoe97322 johndoe97322 22-25 1 Response Dec 15, 2012

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    I Was Molested By My Stepfather

    When I was 6 it was my first day of first grade, and he woke me up by coming into my room. He came onto my bed and my mom went to work, he pulled my pants down and performed oral sex on me. I missed the bus that day. It was the first time he touched me like that, and it went on...
    Meals13 Meals13 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    My Stepfather Abused Me Now He Ignores Me

    My mom married my stepdad when I was 5. He was pretty nice to me and treated me better than my own dad. He and my mom started fighting a lot when she was pregnant with my brother. I was 11 then and my stepdad was 24. For about seven months he started fondling me and having me...
    myscars myscars 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    I Was Molested By My Step Father And My Older Cousin

    Hi im 17 years old now about to attend college and like many other femlaes in this world I was first molested by my solder cousin which was a girl i cant remember how old i was but i was very young at the time when I didnt know right from wrong.I would stay over my cousin house...
    kiasongbird kiasongbird 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    My Stepfather Molested Me

    I was 13 the first time he tried to touch me. I was in my room, i had just gotten out of the shower. He wanted me to get hair out of the bathtub, and kept walking in on me naked, asking if he could watch me get dressed, and i had my door locked. I only had a towel on as i walked...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Before my mother met my stepfather I was a

    really happy girl. I played all the time outside, and just really enjoyed life. Then my mother met a guy through and old friend of her's and I remembered them hanging out all the time, but there was something about him I didn't like. He eventually manipulated me into thinking he...
    idkwhatusername idkwhatusername 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    My Story

    I was molested when I was 10 by my step father, while we were on vacation. It wasnt sex it was fingering. Which still really bothers me. My mom knew that it happened, I was in the bathroom crying when she woke up. I didnt know what had happened. She didnt talk to him for 3 days...
    DiamondNtheRuff DiamondNtheRuff 22-25 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Today She Asked The Questions

    I told my mother today what exactly happened between my step father and I. she's hurting and and doesn't know what to think. She keeps asking im lying. How do i comfort my mother? She is hurting so bad. Please....i need help
    zlopez23 zlopez23 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    Molested But Not Raped, Its Still So Diificult To Deal

    my first memory of being molested was when I was 4 years old, a family friend who lived down the road. He was old. Him and his wife were friends with my gran. I didnt understand what he was doing. He would perform oral sex on me and rub me between my legs. He once showed me his...
    bruisedbutunbroken bruisedbutunbroken 31-35 Apr 4, 2013

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    My Life Of Torture

    my step father started molesting me when i was 4. one night i woke up to him sitting on my bed because i had apprently screamed in my sleep. he came because my mother worked overnights, so she was only home at night on sundays and mondays... my favorite nights of the week...
    geniealone geniealone 22-25 16 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    It Went On For 13 Years

    My mom met my stepdad when I was 5 or 6. At first when she moved in with him my grandparents kept me. They would come over for visits and he would play with me or at least try to make it seem that way. He'd bounce me on his knee and try to laugh and joke around. But really...
    Plum1 Plum1 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    Does It Creep You Out When Men Kiss They're Kids On the Lips?

    It creeps me out. Everytime I see a father or grandfather kiss their child or grandchild on the lips I get so creeped out, and I wonder.... Okay, my dad left my mom and I when I was about 5. They had argued a lot but nothing too bad. About a year later my mom re-married, it...
    beth1991 beth1991 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Irema

     My mother remarried a man when I was almost 11 they had a baby together my little brother. Soon after they separated. I remained close with him throughout the next few years. He used to take me places to have fun behind my mothers back (she didn't want us talking)and always...
    Deletedaccount Deletedaccount 18-21, F 5 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Something That Needed To Be Said

    When i was around 11 my mom told me she was going to get married. I was never ok with it because the man she was going to marry was to my eyes someone very weird. I always felt something was wrong about him, the way he would look at me...I told her that i didnt want her to marry...
    1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    I Was Molested And Raped By My Stepdad

    When I was 10 (4th grade) my stepdad started touching me but it started as a really tight hug. Later it progressed to him grabbing my butt and boobs. One night he came in my room and started touching me through my pajamas. He pulled my shirt up and told me that "I had to be...
    KourtneyAshley KourtneyAshley 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    He Raped Me Later On

    He wasn't my stepfather until I was 5. But he watched me frequently since I was born. Before I could even say no, he made my body his own. When they married things got worse, it went from molestation to rape. Now he's out of my life, but I still relive it all every night. I have...
    lolitanomore lolitanomore 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Unfortunately he still exists.

    Now he lurks on the outskirts of our lives, but it still is pretty damaging. It is easier to forget now that we have managed to block him from our cell phones (partially, he once tried using different numbers to call us), but we have not been able to serve him the protection...
    ForestTea ForestTea 18-21, F Feb 9

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    Being Used For All The Wrong Reasons

    My mom and dad always had arguments around the house. My dad was so angry that he packed his bags and left. Then mom went through major depression for about 3 years until she met a man whom she married. At that time I was 14 and my step dad always played football with me and...
    blakerydeman blakerydeman 22-25, M Jul 4, 2013

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    I Never Spoke Up

    My stepfather first molested me at the age of around 7 or 8 years old. I stayed home sick from school that day and was still asleep in my bed. He woke me up and told me tograb my blanket and hair brush and come into the living room. I followed his orders because he was a very...
    hopeonthehorizon hopeonthehorizon 22-25, F Mar 26, 2013

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    He Disgust Me

    I was 6 years old when it happened. I was about to go to school when he told me to come lay down with him and he started touching me. I didn't know what he was doing so I stayed put. It happend in the garage, outside, my parents bedroom, living room, etc. I was always the people...
    DullCrystal DullCrystal 22-25, F Jun 8, 2013

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    Will I Ever Really Be Ok?

    I am not 100% sure why I am writing this here but I guess I need it... I was molested by my step-dad for a period os at least 3 or four years. I can't really tell you how long because I blocked a lot of it out of my memory and it sometimes comes back in pieces. I am now 22 and it...
    gettinghelp gettinghelp 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    I'm Better Now But It Still Hurts

    I was molested by my stepfather from the ages of 16 until I was 21 years old!!! Why didn't I leave when I was old enough? If I knew the answer to that question I probably wouldn't be where I am today. I was scared I guess, that's all I can say about that.  I look back on it...
    Erica23hernan Erica23hernan 26-30 9 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    Please Give Me Your Thoughts, Your Ideas, Your Opinions

    Just like most of our stories, my began with a divorce.  Not sure how young I was when my mother and father got a divorce.  I believe I was 5 or so, my mom remarried within a year.  The next year she divorced.  The next year she married her third husband.  I was going into...
    hardtobreathe hardtobreathe 31-35 1 Response Dec 20, 2011

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    I Was Molested By My Stepfather Several Times...

    I was molested by my stepfather first when I was 13. He touched and licked me several times and when I told my mom she of course didnt believe me. Then a few weeks before I turned 15 he started giving me "driving lessons" and eventually all he did was shove his tongue in my...
    willievergetoverit willievergetoverit 18-21 2 Responses Aug 12, 2011

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    Hopeless? Questions, I Would Greatly Appreciate Answers From Those With Experience.

    When I was around 8 my mom met her current husband. This man would rub against me while I was bent over the bed. He pretended he was playing. I also have been scared to wear shorts ever since because he would hover his hand over my thighs leading to my butt. I told my mom. She...
    LilySans LilySans 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2013

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    I Remember...

    I was molested by the man who raised me. As a child, my real father was a drug addict in and out of prison and so he was never in my life for more than a few months at a time. My mother had been "dating" a man about 20 years older than herself since I was 1 year old. I loved him...
    Seht Seht 31-35 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    I Was Molsted By My Step-dad

    I was only around five or six..my mom had to go to work and left me and my little brother with my step-dad. Me and Kanaan my little brother was just playing around and Robert(step-dad) asked me to go to his room with him and me being so young I followed thinking of no harm ...
    Codysgirl Codysgirl 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    Forgiven But Not Forgotten.

          I don't remember how things went time wise, I've tried really hard to forget it all.  I still remember the majority of the events I think, but I couldn't tell you when it started, how long it went on, or when it stopped.  I just know it...
    luteangel12 luteangel12 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    With The Darkness Comes The Nightmares..

    I am 9 years old, it is dark ..I am alone and scared. The man is coming, I hear the door open as i lay still. My mind is screaming. Go away, leave me alone..He doesn't though. He is touching me with his large, sweaty hands. Pushing up my nightgown and pulling down my panties...
    darksecretgirl darksecretgirl 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Alone Again

    I was always the happy go lucky kind of child, but that all changed at the age of 4. The first time I was sexually molested by my younger sisters father. I never showed signs nor did I ever tell anyone about it. Every time my mom left the house, me and my five siblings would go...
    Alyij Alyij 18-21, F Jul 6, 2013

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    Still Trying To Breakthrough

    Well at a young age I was exposed to ALOT.  I love my mom to death but the things that she used to do in front of me, had a MAJOR impact on me.  I can still remember times when I would be in bed with her, and her boyfriend at the time would come over and they would have...
    olq0v1vuk4 olq0v1vuk4 18-21 7 Responses May 20, 2010

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