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I Was Never Popular

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    Just How It Is

    Well in a way I was. Every last person knew me. It is just not many people liked me is all.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Never Was, Never Will Be

    I've never been popular, mostly because I am just not willing to do what the "popular girls" do in order to become popular. People know OF me, but they don't really know me and sometimes I prefer to keep it that way. I am an oddball, different and unique and never have really fit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10, 2013

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    Nope

    I was that weird goth kid in the corner with her nose buried in a book, or sketching madly in a sketchbook. My classmates hated me, my teachers were freaked out by me, and basically I spent my school years alone except for a few fellow outcasts.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Never Been Liked For The Real Me !

    I have never been liked by the people I like for some reason. diana did not like me bugsy did not like me brig did not really like me my relatives don't like me ricky did not like me william did not like me jason was indifferent and weird towards me no guys who were...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Life

    At school I wasn't one of the populars who think they are better than everyone else, hell I wasn't even friends with any of them. To be honest I think you could have called me a loner but if you called me that to ma face I would say no I wasn't because I actually had friends...
    sacraficeparadise sacraficeparadise 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    Dont Wanna Be

    at school i was far from popular. i wasnt the one of the unpopulars, heck i dont even have a name for what i was. no one knew me and thats the way i liked it. i had a few friends that i still have now but that was it, i didnt see the point on making more friends. they would never...
    thisaccountisgone thisaccountisgone 18-21, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Goth Girl

    All my school life i have been bullied because i was first the girl was scars ( lorry legs) then the weird oth girl with scars and nothing i do helps they cant except me who i am and what made it wore was my brother was one of themost poopular people in the skool so i was...
    unwrittensuicide unwrittensuicide 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    I Wanted To Be

            Back in school I was a nerd - a Straight-A student with virtually no friends. I wanted to be popular, not because I wanted more friends, but because I wanted to fit in and be "cool." Well, I never was.       ...
    juliexplosion juliexplosion 22-25 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    Never Will Be Either

    It doesn't bug me as much as it once use to I just think: "L is for love"
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2010

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    I Don't Have Many Friends Either...

    So... I'm not having a graduation party. Everyone in my family is really shocked, but to be honest, I don't know many people to invite. I don't think I'll go to any either since I gotta save money. Don't have a party, do go to any parties. I'm really nervous about college, too...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2010

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    & Don't Care Either

    All it matters is that I'm a good-natured person. Not all popular people deserve that "honor" anyway. Lots of them are dirty snobs. Society is twisted & backwards, I swear!
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Never...

    I have never been part of the popular crowd and to be honest it has never bothered me.Through out my life I have always been one to keep to myself...Kind of on the introverted side,well until I feel comfortable around you.Usually would have one or two good friends and that was...
    bellas31 bellas31 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2010

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    I May Never Have Been The It Girl...

    I don't need to be the center of attention. I use to admire the people who were, but now I realize how hard it was. Everyone's watching your every move, and your mistakes make a greater impact. I liked the idea of having a lot of friends and always having somewhere to go...But...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F May 12, 2013

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    "popular" Is Relative.

    To be completely honest, I only joined this group because of the avi. That's ******* hilarious. But anyways, I wasn't popular all through high school. I had a group of about 6-10 friends that I was fairly close with. 3 that I was really close with. After I graduated, this all...
    TheOnlyBenis TheOnlyBenis 22-25, M Apr 22, 2011

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    My Desperate Story

    Unfortunately, even by the 5th grade, I was somewhat obsessed with being known... basically, being something other than myself. In the 5th grade, I was a very quiet girl, tagging along with two friends always. We laughed, we joked, it seemed like we could be in one of those 90's...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2012

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    Hi id love if people commented on this it would

    mean allot, so anyways in primary school I wasn't what you call "pretty" or could get a boyfriend like a click of a finger✋or got people commenting gorgeous or unreal and that? It's what I always wanted was to be pretty and be in with the crew if you know✔️so when I moved...
    lillie35ayres lillie35ayres 13-15, F Jun 9

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