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I Was Never Popular

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    Dont Wanna Be

    at school i was far from popular. i wasnt the one of the unpopulars, heck i dont even have a name for what i was. no one knew me and thats the way i liked it. i had a few friends that i still have now but that was it, i didnt see the point on making more friends. they would never...
    thisaccountisgone thisaccountisgone 18-21, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Goth Girl

    All my school life i have been bullied because i was first the girl was scars ( lorry legs) then the weird oth girl with scars and nothing i do helps they cant except me who i am and what made it wore was my brother was one of themost poopular people in the skool so i was...
    unwrittensuicide unwrittensuicide 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Never Will Be Either

    It doesn't bug me as much as it once use to I just think: "L is for love"
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2010

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    My Desperate Story

    Unfortunately, even by the 5th grade, I was somewhat obsessed with being known... basically, being something other than myself. In the 5th grade, I was a very quiet girl, tagging along with two friends always. We laughed, we joked, it seemed like we could be in one of those 90's...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2012

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    Life

    At school I wasn't one of the populars who think they are better than everyone else, hell I wasn't even friends with any of them. To be honest I think you could have called me a loner but if you called me that to ma face I would say no I wasn't because I actually had friends...
    sacraficeparadise sacraficeparadise 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    Never Was, Never Will Be

    I've never been popular, mostly because I am just not willing to do what the "popular girls" do in order to become popular. People know OF me, but they don't really know me and sometimes I prefer to keep it that way. I am an oddball, different and unique and never have really fit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10, 2013

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    Never Been Liked For The Real Me !

    I have never been liked by the people I like for some reason. diana did not like me bugsy did not like me brig did not really like me my relatives don't like me ricky did not like me william did not like me jason was indifferent and weird towards me no guys who were...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Nope

    I was that weird goth kid in the corner with her nose buried in a book, or sketching madly in a sketchbook. My classmates hated me, my teachers were freaked out by me, and basically I spent my school years alone except for a few fellow outcasts.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Just How It Is

    Well in a way I was. Every last person knew me. It is just not many people liked me is all.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    I May Never Have Been The It Girl...

    I don't need to be the center of attention. I use to admire the people who were, but now I realize how hard it was. Everyone's watching your every move, and your mistakes make a greater impact. I liked the idea of having a lot of friends and always having somewhere to go...But...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F May 12, 2013

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    I Don't Have Many Friends Either...

    So... I'm not having a graduation party. Everyone in my family is really shocked, but to be honest, I don't know many people to invite. I don't think I'll go to any either since I gotta save money. Don't have a party, do go to any parties. I'm really nervous about college, too...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2010

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    Hi id love if people commented on this it would

    mean allot, so anyways in primary school I wasn't what you call "pretty" or could get a boyfriend like a click of a finger✋or got people commenting gorgeous or unreal and that? It's what I always wanted was to be pretty and be in with the crew if you know✔️so when I moved...
    lillie35ayres lillie35ayres 13-15, F Jun 9

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    & Don't Care Either

    All it matters is that I'm a good-natured person. Not all popular people deserve that "honor" anyway. Lots of them are dirty snobs. Society is twisted & backwards, I swear!
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Wanted To Be

            Back in school I was a nerd - a Straight-A student with virtually no friends. I wanted to be popular, not because I wanted more friends, but because I wanted to fit in and be "cool." Well, I never was.       ...
    juliexplosion juliexplosion 22-25 1 Response Sep 3, 2010

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    "popular" Is Relative.

    To be completely honest, I only joined this group because of the avi. That's ******* hilarious. But anyways, I wasn't popular all through high school. I had a group of about 6-10 friends that I was fairly close with. 3 that I was really close with. After I graduated, this all...
    TheOnlyBenis TheOnlyBenis 22-25, M Apr 22, 2011

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    Never...

    I have never been part of the popular crowd and to be honest it has never bothered me.Through out my life I have always been one to keep to myself...Kind of on the introverted side,well until I feel comfortable around you.Usually would have one or two good friends and that was...
    bellas31 bellas31 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2010

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    I wish i was never born. My life would be so much easier and less complicated. My self esteem is really low, I'm not good at anything, the only job I could get is a cleaning job...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was popular at the end of 1st grade, I returned the next year and everyone was glad to see me. It did feel nice to be liked. The new girls name was Bree she was a little pudgy...
    TheTenaciousPirate TheTenaciousPirate 18-21, F Dec 11

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    I'm still in school, and I honestly couldn't care less about being popular, popularity is a game that only children looking for attention play, but I'm pretty immature so idk, but...
    nickwrocks1 nickwrocks1 13-15, M Dec 12

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    i was popular in 5th grade. i'm still friends with alot of the girls. but i moved and it changed everything. my new school honestly sucks.
    osnapitzmari osnapitzmari 13-15, F Dec 11

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    I was popular by terms of influence but not really friends... People saw that I made an effort to be nice but because of my unshaven face and natty hair they didn't care to really...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M Dec 11

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    In elementary school, I only had one friend each year. Often they would be transfered for being bullied. Middle School I had a group of friends, but we were the out crowd. High...
    dreamingoptimist dreamingoptimist 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 12

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    What does it matter now? :)
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    Hey! I feel very sad and depressed because no one ever loved me romantically. I feel very lonley... What is wrong with me? My female friends had already a few boyfriends, yet no...
    Charlene1603 Charlene1603 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    It's not my choice to be born! I hate this life. I hate the fact I need to feel pain for no *****ng reason. I hate the fact I have to wake up and feeling catching myself from...
    laineswift13 laineswift13 18-21, F Dec 9

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    I have nothing to explain...
    jeremiah3698 jeremiah3698 18-21, M Dec 9

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    Just living in earth, its a nice thing but whats tee point if people steal, rob, n lie. So whats the point about being alive. Theirs good people out thier that are being...
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 16-17, M Dec 10

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    Ok so I was not popular until my cousin became mr.niles it's so weird!XD
    maddie711 maddie711 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    41st post..I'm ready to tackle the past again, because I'm in such an agro mood. First a little bit on the agro mood. He has been so nice to me for a number of weeks now, not...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    In October, I saw my abuser for the first time in 11 years. I was adopted and my mothers first husband physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me. he is the root cause of most...
    cillasavage cillasavage 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Coming out was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I have always been the one that worries about everyone else first then I deal with my problems later. Since I was younger...
    foreverbeautifultoni foreverbeautifultoni 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My earliest memory was when I was about 5yrs old little girl & the last time was when I was 20 yrs old but as I got older the worse it got. My Dad was never around I've never met...
    Floyd77 Floyd77 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I don't like to talk about this, but I guess it's a part of me... I am the youngest of a blended, 8, Children Family. In my Family, we don't call each other step... My mother is...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    As a child I was bullied from my first day at school in those days kids didn't get lifts you walked and in my case alone.The reason I was bullied was because my mum was disabled...
    danglybits danglybits 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 22

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    18th post. For anyone who has been following my posts this one is a must read. I am shaking and my hands are sweating bullets because I know this is the truth of it all. The actual...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 24

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    It was years ago. My sister was taking my Nephews and I to my sister's condo for a sleepover. We were at the stop sign and someone rear ended us. He was going down the road fast...
    Balloonboy33 Balloonboy33 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I have never been in love iv dated had 2 relationships it didn't work out I liked them but I was never in love with them I guess I get bored easily I'm not normal when people talk...
    Candlelight01 Candlelight01 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    The question was loaded. It asked, What do you want to say to someone, but you can't?Easy enough right? I know its not grammatically correct. I wasn't turning it in for a grade...
    HISkip HISkip 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was raped by a man that was never put into jail. It's hard to forgot when you still see him everyday
    revolvingaroundmusic11 revolvingaroundmusic11 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I don't know what to do. I haven't seen our talked to AP since September and he messaged me out of the blue yesterday. I was a mess of emotions, but I kept my responses short...
    renae85 renae85 26-30 3 Responses Nov 27

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    Why oh why isn't this legal... If I'm happy with a man and woman and in time decides i want to get married why should i have to pick who i want to be with or break a bond i feel...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 20 Responses Nov 22

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    She was never there emotionally, and only give the basics.
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I was popular at the end of 1st grade, I returned the next year and everyone was glad to see me. It did feel nice to be liked. The new girls name was Bree she was a little pudgy...
    TheTenaciousPirate TheTenaciousPirate 18-21, F Dec 11

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    I wonder what it's like to be popular, you know, how it feels to be tall, dark, drop dead gorgeous - in other words, the winner of a genetic lottery. I'd look in envy some times at...
    hesitations hesitations 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    *Apologize in advance for being mopey during the holidays* Happened again. Met someone. Went out a few times. It's going great. Up until she fills me in on her "situation...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I can't as I walked in on my Dad with my Mum the day he was meant to be homing home after having 2 weeks apart "to short out there issues" and there he was spooning a woman who...
    RonSims RonSims 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    43rd post. Haven't written for a few days, and unfortunately I'm back to being in a slump. Not sleeping more than about 3 hours a night, and my mind is on fast forward with a...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14

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