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I Was Not Good Enough

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    Maybe It's Just Me

    I have been in two serious relationships now and both times given myself totally to them. Put all my effort in and fought like hell to make them work when things have started to go wrong. I believe when you are in a relationship you have to give it everything you have otherwise...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 4, 2013

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    Disgusting.

    I'm not going to lie, right now I am actually crying for the first time in like...forever.Not from grief or heartbreak, but out of frustration and disappointment in myself.I've tried so hard this year, I swear I have. But I'm just not good enough.I applied to this summer program...
    complexitykills complexitykills 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    I wasn't good enough

    for my ex, i really cared for them but things they did hurt me.. They weren't faithful they flirted with others and couldn't let go of a lady lover. I feel like it's my fault for getting hurt dating someone I knew I wasn't good enough for. I couldn't even tell them how I felt...
    kanashimi93 kanashimi93 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Ugh

    he broke my heart.  as if that wasn't bad enough, i find out he is with someone new.   people say "its not you" but i cant help feel that it was.  how is it so easy for him to find someone else and be happy this soon?
    CanIPushRewind CanIPushRewind 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2011

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    For months, I didn't know what she looked like.. the one who took him away. I agonized over it. Of course, I envisioned a strikingly gorgeous, thin blonde who looked like she just stepped off the cover of a magazine. Yesterday, I finally saw her. I'm far more...
    MsAnthropy MsAnthropy 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Not Good Enough

     I have been so many times in so many ways that I am not good enough. I am not good enough to wait one more year for you to move out to CO and be my wife. But your perfect your wonderful the most amazing person I have ever meet, but just not good enough to wait for. Your...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F Jan 22, 2010

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    Not Good Enaugh

    i wasn't good enaugh for nothing everytime i try to fix s.th it gets worest i always try to make change in my life and make it better but always nothing goes right .. i wasn't good enaugh for my crush i cudn't make him happy , am not good enaugh for my parents i cudn't make them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    I go on a school who has a high standards.

    But my family is not that rich. So Im afraid everyday, coming to school. Because I know that Im not really one of them, we're poor. PS: our school is expensive.
    Jyzlldn Jyzlldn 13-15, F 1 Response May 22

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    I Wasn't

    I was not good enough for so long. And for so long I hated on myself after I lost what I thought was one of the best things in my life. I thought he was my everything. We were friends for two years, and dated for six months.   His reason to end was, he was scared for my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    I Wasn't Even Close To Good Enough

    That's why everyone has abandoned me... Even you have forsaken me... I'm sorry I wasn't enough for you
    DetachedCitizen DetachedCitizen 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    Simply Pennies, Poles, And Pudding.

    I Knew You Were Five Years Older Than Me. I Understand, That It Would Have Been Way More Complicated If We Came Out In Public About It. Deep Down Inside It Hurt Knowing I Couldn't Even Tell My Best Friend About Us. I Loved Him With All My Heart, He Was My First Love. I Spent A...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    I Wasn't Good Enough Than....

    and I am still not good enough now....I don't think I ever will be good enough....
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    Physics

    In my last school I was struggling with physics. The way teacher taught us didn't quite fit me. I was constantly trying really hard just to get a C. Once after a lot of hard work I managed to get a B. I was so happy. I literally jumped for joy. It was one of the very few things...
    Kleio Kleio 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10, 2009

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    I can't remember when did this feeling start to control me, but I guess I was in my late childhood when I've realized that I'm not good enough, not for a single thing.. since then...
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    I was but now we're together. I'm not foolish to think of this as a happy ending but it's something. Maybe something more but alot of times it feels like less. I'm posting tonight...
    UnchartedHeart UnchartedHeart 22-25 3 days ago

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    7lulu 7lulu 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    7lulu 7lulu 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Led Zeppelin was an awesome band:)
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    to have a boyfriend or girl friend it is only ever about looks figure how good you are in bed 3 main thing's men or women go for I don't have eny of them advantages I just don't...
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    All my boyfriend wants to do when we have time together is lay around and watch TV. He doesn't get how boring that is and that I don't want to do it every single damn day. We are...
    dance40415 dance40415 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Aagatha Aagatha 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    No matter how hard I try to be worthy, its never enough. I am always abandoned and left swimming alone through a sea of terrible pain and sadness. No one truly cares about me. Not...
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    Phoeebss Phoeebss 16-17, F Jul 19

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    I realize now that I was not good enough for you, maybe it was our age difference, maybe its the fact that you have dealt with your past abuse and I am just starting to cope with...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I just wish I could be ******* perfect then my parents would be proud to say that I'm theirs daughter
    pansexualgirl pansexualgirl 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    So I met this cute girl on tinder. My wife went out of town for a weekend and I invited her for dinner. I told my wife over phone that I had a girl over for dinner and she told me...
    KimSanten KimSanten 26-30, M Jul 17

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    Have you ever been cheated on? That is the feeling that will never leave my chest, no matter how much I try and fill my heart with happiness, there will always be a dull pain there...
    RNgirl23 RNgirl23 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Sometimes "SORRY" isn't good enough....
    CandyCrushers CandyCrushers 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    So a couple months ago I started talking to this really nice guy that I thought was cute, we started Dating buy them we just broke up and I'm not sure. But he didn't mean to break...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Lately been feeling i suck at everything big or small i feel helpless and i wanna cry just cry to let the pain and suffocation out yet right after i start feeling the same...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Jul 15

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    I'm literally trying my best to get along with everyone and I literally feel like I'm just not good enough for people to get along with and it feels so ****. I feel like I'm doing...
    rainndropx rainndropx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I know it and you definitely know it too... To the fact that you're ignoring me and forgetting who I am seems enough for me to know it...
    RagingDemon29 RagingDemon29 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Like I can't satisfy him fully. My crazy is getting in the way. Upsetting
    IntoxicatedFairy IntoxicatedFairy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14