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I Was Not Good Enough

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    I Wasn't Good Enough Than....

    and I am still not good enough now....I don't think I ever will be good enough....
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    I wasn't good enough

    for my ex, i really cared for them but things they did hurt me.. They weren't faithful they flirted with others and couldn't let go of a lady lover. I feel like it's my fault for getting hurt dating someone I knew I wasn't good enough for. I couldn't even tell them how I felt...
    kanashimi93 kanashimi93 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Ugh

    he broke my heart.  as if that wasn't bad enough, i find out he is with someone new.   people say "its not you" but i cant help feel that it was.  how is it so easy for him to find someone else and be happy this soon?
    CanIPushRewind CanIPushRewind 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2011

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    Maybe It's Just Me

    I have been in two serious relationships now and both times given myself totally to them. Put all my effort in and fought like hell to make them work when things have started to go wrong. I believe when you are in a relationship you have to give it everything you have otherwise...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 4, 2013

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    Physics

    In my last school I was struggling with physics. The way teacher taught us didn't quite fit me. I was constantly trying really hard just to get a C. Once after a lot of hard work I managed to get a B. I was so happy. I literally jumped for joy. It was one of the very few things...
    Kleio Kleio 18-21, F Jan 10, 2009

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    I go on a school who has a high standards.

    But my family is not that rich. So Im afraid everyday, coming to school. Because I know that Im not really one of them, we're poor. PS: our school is expensive.
    Jyzlldn Jyzlldn 13-15, F 1 Response May 22, 2015

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    Not Good Enaugh

    i wasn't good enaugh for nothing everytime i try to fix s.th it gets worest i always try to make change in my life and make it better but always nothing goes right .. i wasn't good enaugh for my crush i cudn't make him happy , am not good enaugh for my parents i cudn't make them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    For months, I didn't know what she looked like.. the one who took him away. I agonized over it. Of course, I envisioned a strikingly gorgeous, thin blonde who looked like she just stepped off the cover of a magazine. Yesterday, I finally saw her. I'm far more...
    MsAnthropy MsAnthropy 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I Wasn't

    I was not good enough for so long. And for so long I hated on myself after I lost what I thought was one of the best things in my life. I thought he was my everything. We were friends for two years, and dated for six months.   His reason to end was, he was scared for my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    Disgusting.

    I'm not going to lie, right now I am actually crying for the first time in like...forever.Not from grief or heartbreak, but out of frustration and disappointment in myself.I've tried so hard this year, I swear I have. But I'm just not good enough.I applied to this summer program...
    complexitykills complexitykills 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    Simply Pennies, Poles, And Pudding.

    I Knew You Were Five Years Older Than Me. I Understand, That It Would Have Been Way More Complicated If We Came Out In Public About It. Deep Down Inside It Hurt Knowing I Couldn't Even Tell My Best Friend About Us. I Loved Him With All My Heart, He Was My First Love. I Spent A...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Not Good Enough

     I have been so many times in so many ways that I am not good enough. I am not good enough to wait one more year for you to move out to CO and be my wife. But your perfect your wonderful the most amazing person I have ever meet, but just not good enough to wait for. Your...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 31-35, F Jan 22, 2010

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    I Wasn't Even Close To Good Enough

    That's why everyone has abandoned me... Even you have forsaken me... I'm sorry I wasn't enough for you
    DetachedCitizen DetachedCitizen 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    Rejection is one of the worst feelings ever....just saying
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    Hell yes, I am enough!!! My soul and the physical body that carries my soul have seen a lot in 43 years. I've given birth to an amazing son, and I've said goodbye to a husband and...
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    "I could never be that good." We hear this phrase sometimes... probably have even said it about ourselves in certain situations. Emotions get us in trouble sometimes, don't they...
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    I hope this makes sense because i'm sooooo waved at the moment and i thought posting this might help.. I'm the woman he didn't choose. I often wonder what it takes to be the one...
    sweetsandlove sweetsandlove 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm feeling...numb, to be honest. I broke up with him, failed at going No Contact, spent two HORRIBLE months considering going back together and suffering from worse abuse than...
    womaninchains womaninchains 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Probably because in actuality I am not good enough under their standards ... a difference of opinions.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy 22-25, M Feb 4

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    I'm not, I'll never find true love. every time I get close something forks it all up
    notthatweird notthatweird 22-25, M Feb 4

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    I don't feel wanted anymore. I dont feel my gf wants me anymore. It feels like I don't matter to her and she won't try fix things between us. Just waits for me to fix it. I dont...
    Backspaceblogger Backspaceblogger 26-30 Feb 4

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    I look at the families on TV all happy and I feel like that will never be me. I don't think I'll be able to find someone who will understand me or at least try and try and try...
    Mars000 Mars000 18-21, F Feb 3

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    so I have been in a relationship with my fiance for almost three years now. I feel like no matter what I do it's never good enough. I feel like I have to beg for attention and...
    kparker33 kparker33 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Well, I wasn't really caught but almost was close enough. I was in my sister's room when no one was home. I started to parade around in her bra and panties when I heard the front...
    ReneeTalley ReneeTalley 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    My mom has narcissistic personality disorder which basically means that no matter what I did in my life or do whether it was be a drop out or solve world hunger she was going to...
    sambular1313 sambular1313 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I will never be "man enough" or even "trans enough". I will never be "talented enough". I will never be "good" enough. Who decides what is good or not. Who decides what is gender...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 2

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    I will never be good enough for him. No matter how much and what I do, I will never be enough for him.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I feel like I have to be a superficial person to be accepted by my friends and family. Because i feel like if I ever express my authentic feelings, it will look awkward to others...
    TairyFale TairyFale 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    driftingalone driftingalone 16-17, F Feb 2

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    driftingalone driftingalone 16-17, F Feb 2

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    as each day passes, I feel like this statement gets more and more truth to it. I don't feel good enough for my husband. I don't feel good enough for my family. I don't feel good...
    xxfallenangel xxfallenangel 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 2

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    And it hurts that I cant be what everyone wants, or what anyone needs. And it hurts that I cant be what I want or what I need because Im not enough and I wont be enough and I'll...
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    the tough thing about this is I know that I am and I am good enough but I don't feel like I am to other people despite how hard I try
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I feel like I'm going to be forever alone... that