I Was Oblivious to Being "Hit" On

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    If It Weren't For My Wife, I'd Never Know

     She tells me often that other women are hitting on me.  Most of the time, I have no clue.  I sometimes wonder whether she is telling the truth.
    accomplice accomplice
    46-50, M
    May 21, 2008

    Being Attractive Is All About How You Carry Yourself.

    So went to Ralph's today morning with my brother to get my mom and grandmother flowers and cards for mothers day... (yes I know im an awesome son!) While picking flowers noticed an amazingly attractive girl standing near the flowers. But didnt want to say anything because I hate...
    TadaAsatoorian TadaAsatoorian
    22-25, M
    May 12, 2013

    For Years...

    I was oblivious to being hit on my the same guy over, and over, and over.  Looking back on it now, it's really funny.  He was Mr. Subtle, flirting with Ms. Oblivious.  I'm surprised he never just gave up.  I did eventually catch on and as they say alls well...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2008

    Always Am

    I just don't get it. Unless a girl actually walks up & says I want you or someone tells me, "Hey, she's interested (actually, he's interested a few times)", I never pick up on it. Maybe I subconsciously think I'm unattractive or something. I've had so many women I...
    QuixoticKidEternity QuixoticKidEternity
    Apr 10, 2008

    Guy Secret #3

    If your a relatively attractive female then most likely every guy friend you've had has spent a good chunk of his time trying to find a pornstar who resembles you. It's horrible lol but it's a fact get over it! most of the time the pornstar really looks nothing like you but our...
    TadaAsatoorian TadaAsatoorian
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 13, 2013

    Several Times

    I has come to the point that my SO thinks it is so funny that I have become almost oblivious to it!
    deleted deleted
    Jun 1, 2008

    I honestly never realize

    that someone is trying to hit on me until I finish a conversation with them and walk away that's when my friends would look at me like I'm stupid and I just shrug and walk away lol its almost like I need it spelled out or something. I am more of a 'to the point' type of person...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 9, 2014

    Me and my friend went out last night to listen

    to a really cool reggae band and then these guys started talking to us. I was getting kind of frustrated because I was there to spend time with my friend and watch the band. It's like they were assuming that us talking to them was better than us having a good time by ourselves...
    gglz18 gglz18
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2014


    My friends are always letting me know that someone was hitting on me when I didn't feel that at ALL. I assume everyone is as friendly as I am, and so when someone "hits on" me, I just pass it off as the person being nice. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Mar 29, 2010

    Bless His Heart...

    The little boy I nanny and myself was at Target and had picked up a few items and minding my own business putting my bags in the trunk of my car when the buggy wrangler, about 19-20, stops and talks to me...I think "oh smart boy, getting one more buggy where he won...
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Feb 8, 2008

    My wife often tells me,

    "That lady was all over you." I always respond, "Really? Which one?" My wife always feels sorry for the women hitting on me. I should wear a sign or something, just to let everyone know that I'm oblivious to being hit on.
    ubername ubername
    26-30, M
    Mar 17, 2015

    Just Don't Realise It =p

    I've been hit on a few times (surprising, eh?) and just not realised it! I'll be with friends and some guy will start talking to me. I'd just think he's talking. Being friendly. I don't realise he's hitting on me until after he gives up and my friends tell me I'm being stupid...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 13, 2008
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