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I Was Once a Mistress

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    He's The One - Two years ago, i used to be a simple student in high school but when i met the one everything changed. We see each other ,dating ,going out for movies for some...
    ea061809 ea061809 18-21 4 Responses Oct 28, 2011

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    Taboo - I made a horrible mistake I was a mistress to my 2nd cousin. I was 14 and he was 21 when he took my virginity. He was married to a woman with two children from a previous...
    ksparkle ksparkle 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    Abel - I was a 24-year-old guys mistress when I was just 16. I was on vacation in Mexico and had known him since I was 12 and even then I was infatuated by his beautiful honey...
    DUMBLiTTLEGiRL DUMBLiTTLEGiRL 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    A Childhood Ultimate Crush Turn Mistress - I was in high school that i feel so much crazy about a guy. He was my first crush in school.i like him because of his personality ,a very...
    Schoolmate Schoolmate 36-40, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Its Not Just Right - i dont know myself anymore ...i once a very innocent girl living my life normally when he entered my life everything changes. i am 20 when i met him we were co...
    cleofe17 cleofe17 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Trapped In The Charms Of A Married Man - yes i am once a mistress i am not regretful nor proud about it..it will always starts as friends because you are not suspicious that it...
    Juanitadelacruz Juanitadelacruz 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    5 Years Of Pain - i was 17 when i met this guy, to me he was the most amazing person 18 I finally felt is touch, and fell in love... but was it love or pioson in my veins. he was...
    quietgirl88 quietgirl88 22-25, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Want To Move On - ..i dnt knw wre to start i knw im fool to enter n this kind of relationshp,.. to start wid, were both maried and having a quite family life. we started as friends...
    zanie2012 zanie2012 31-35, F Jul 26, 2012

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    The Other Woman -  I know its hard to jot down 8yrs of my experience , however I shall try to give you as much information as I can. I was ambitious, beautiful and adamant. I...
    sandyrd sandyrd 31-35 7 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    With My Doc - I broke up with my long term first boyfriend when I started to work. I had no communication with him and I think already moved on. I am a nurse working in a certain...
    rc2623 rc2623 22-25 3 Responses Apr 13, 2010

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    Yes......... - we both were married and both were unhappy. we hit on so well..........from jokes to profound stuff. One day you messaged me where in the world are u ? funny thing...
    rpw123 rpw123 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

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    Co-workers-friends-bestfriend-lovers - On my first days at my first job, i met this guy and get attracted to him... We are on the same department. I like him. He was so nice and he...
    sweetie02 sweetie02 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 18, 2012

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    Hard doesn't describe what I'm feeling at the moment. I'm sure it's just because Valentine's Day is so close. Still doesn't make it any easier, though. I miss love. Being in love...
    WeWillAlwaysHaveParis WeWillAlwaysHaveParis 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    The Other Woman... - So here is my pathetic story. I am divorced 4 years and only becase I left. If I didn't my ex would have never left as most married men stay with the wife. I...
    rosie1375 rosie1375 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    It Is So Easy To Keep A Mistress! Yes! Yes! part 2 - All I have to offer is brokeness , tears and sadness yet the mistress is so silly!Why? Cos I am a master manipulator.! I make...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    This breaking up thing is kinda hard. Letting someone go you truly love is like a death you choose. Even though you know the situation is toxic, you still yearn for the good times...
    WeWillAlwaysHaveParis WeWillAlwaysHaveParis 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Come Back To Real Life - I am 26 years old with one and a half year old son. I am working abroad to help my family financially. I met this guy when I was 23 years old during...
    nujanit nujanit 26-30 1 Response Dec 6, 2010

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    I Was Once A Mistress, But Have Lost The Love Of My Llife To Cancer - I was a mistress for 16 years.  This man was my alpha, omega and everything in between.  He and I, although...
    molly113 molly113 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    I can't stop emailing you. You hurt me Greg and made me feel like such a fool. I put my trust in you and (you know how hard it is for me to trust people) and you betrayed it! You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31

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    Being a mistress was fun. It was just like old times. Last time I saw him was month ago. The sexual spark was still there. I can still feel his **** pulsating my aching flesh and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 31

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    Want Out - I have been dating a married man for 6 years now. We have a 3 year old daughter, I'm at the point I want out sooooo bad, what should I do????? I have tried leaving...
    Lovelee0426 Lovelee0426 31-35 3 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    I meet this handsome out of this world guy in a lounge when he approached me. I likes him but there was more to it.... So the following day we meet up and hit it off completely we...
    berrybleu berrybleu 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    He Has to Pay For This!! - I had recently moved to a new city for work and was really happy because I had a lot of family in the area compared to growing up far away and only...
    micahsmom micahsmom 22-25 4 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    My First Love - I met him when i was 15 years old and hes 8 years older than me. He's still single then. The relationship is on and off,maybe because I am still minor. Until i...
    Mayalein Mayalein 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    I have been his mistress while he was my boss and continued after we both changed jobs, for several years. I have gone through phases where I was saying to myself STOP and pulled...
    loveariel loveariel 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Athletic Trainer Turned Lover - We only just met 6 months ago, but it was the craziest, most wonderful 6 months of my life. He started out as introducing himself as my athletic...
    anonymous1129 anonymous1129 18-21 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Mistress - i don't know when to start, but i am not a bad person as everybody think about a mistress. i love his kids, i respect his parents, his siblings and all their maids. I...
    search17 search17 18-21 15 Responses May 9, 2008

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    Still....... - It started when I was 35. I was married and extremely bored. I noticed that my married boss would go to lunch with all sorts of women. They would come and pick...
    holyvirgin holyvirgin 51-55 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    Still A Mistress - I am in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 years. Met him through work and the rest they say is history. Late last year, we found out Im having his child...
    Dotherwoman Dotherwoman 26-30, F 1 Response May 14, 2013

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    It Is So Easy To Keep A Mistress!yes! Yes! part 1 - Be friends with the silly girl! Treat her real nice!...When she know you better.,touch her, slowly and tenderly. Make her want...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M Jan 1, 2013

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    Happy And Sad Mistress - im dorze and im mistress for 8months today because its our monthsary today,we had an argument today because i want to break up with him but he doesnt want...
    dorze dorze 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Mistress - Many married men have mistresses.  I wonder how does the mistress deal with it all cause some they don't intend but they end up falling for the guy. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    Taboo Story - Everyone who has been reading my stories I'm 21 I clicked the wrong age I don't want anyone to make a mistake that could affect their life.
    ksparkle ksparkle 18-21, F Sep 17, 2012

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    Cross Country Move - i had an affair for 3 yrs with my professor in chicago. moved to san francisco to get away from it all. still think about him all the time and talk to him...
    clin clin 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    I Am A Mistress.. - I Met him when my bestfriend asked me to join on a vacation somewhere in province.. i am hesitating to join because he was the one i knew.. but he told me he...
    rheighn03 rheighn03 18-21 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Almost A Mistress. - I worked with this guy for a few years and the moment I met him, I immediately liked him. However, I backed off as soon as I discovered that he had a gf and a...
    kindgrena kindgrena 26-30 3 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Hurting - Yes I'm in love with a married man! We met 16 years ago when he was single. At the time I was very much involved with some one else but it was something about him I...
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Taboo Part 2 - After finally realizing that I had been taken advantage of I wondered, would God or any of my family forgive me. I prayed to God for help and well I am now married...
    ksparkle ksparkle 18-21, F Sep 17, 2012

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    Why was I so stupid? Where was my self esteem when I met this man? Why was it "okay" for me to see someone's husband? How in the world did I rationalize this?! Where in the world...
    WeWillAlwaysHaveParis WeWillAlwaysHaveParis 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    My Son By A Married Man - Everyday I look at my beautiful baby boy and feel both happy and sad. Happy that I have the joy and happiness of motherhood that I've always craved and...
    Lionness12 Lionness12 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    I Was Once A Mistress - Hello everyone, I was once a mistress. My life became different when i started my relationship with a married man. It was even more difficult as we are...
    emmatsify emmatsify 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Mistress Mistress Mistress - im having a relationship w/ a married man,, and i also have my own family,, we are co workers,, da 1st time we met we are comfortable to each other...
    amieshel amieshel 22-25 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    I almost sent him a Valentine's gift! Then, I pulled it the **** together and canceled the order. Go me! I guess I just didn't want to seem like I completely didn't care about the...
    WeWillAlwaysHaveParis WeWillAlwaysHaveParis 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Could It Be? - My story started about 8 years ago. I am telling it here because there is no one I can share it with. Where I come from, views about affairs are very black and white...
    EvaSolo EvaSolo 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    I don't believe that once someone has cheated, they are always a cheater. I think it depends very much on the scenario, and what the 'cheater' gained from the infidelity. If it's...
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    It was a group phone chat service for adults... and we had to listen to keep people from being jerks or spouting out there phone number or addresses (you would be surprised,). We...
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    I had been overweight since age 6, with my heaviest being 215lbs around age 13. We never really had any money, so I was never really taught how to manage my naturally curly hair...
    Luckylotus013 Luckylotus013 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    In high school I was a great student. ignoring the fact that I was undocumented and focusing on my studies. My dream was to go to a big name conservatory and create music and art...
    Arieamarxus1 Arieamarxus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    For a while back in elementary school. There were some older "tough" guys that liked to pick on the younger ones and I often got in the way. It wasn't that bad but they would shout...
    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    When I was younger people would tell me I was pretty and going to grow up and be beautiful. I wish it was true . Back in 4th - 7th grade literally every boy thought I was ugly and...
    dawn11235 dawn11235 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Still am—and proud to be! ;)
    AICLover AICLover 13-15, F Mar 31

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