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I Was Once a Mistress

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 276 People

    Come Back To Real Life

    I am 26 years old with one and a half year old son. I am working abroad to help my family financially. I met this guy when I was 23 years old during my first month working abroad. He is married with two kids. He is 13 years older than me.  I was once his adviser, his...
    nujanit nujanit
    1 Response Dec 6, 2010

    Athletic Trainer Turned Lover

    We only just met 6 months ago, but it was the craziest, most wonderful 6 months of my life. He started out as introducing himself as my athletic trainer for the sport I play at my local college. Being that I am a Division 1 athlete, relationships with our training staff is a...
    anonymous1129 anonymous1129
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2013


    Many married men have mistresses.  I wonder how does the mistress deal with it all cause some they don't intend but they end up falling for the guy. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2011

    It Is So Easy To Keep A Mistress! Yes! Yes! part 2

    All I have to offer is brokeness , tears and sadness yet the mistress is so silly!Why? Cos I am a master manipulator.! I make her fear to lose me to the other woman{wife}.I say I want to divoice her but I never intend to...I lead her by the nose playing with her emotions...It is...
    faithfullover faithfullover
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 1, 2013

    I Was Once A Mistress, But Have Lost The Love Of My Llife To Cancer

    I was a mistress for 16 years.  This man was my alpha, omega and everything in between.  He and I, although both married, lived our lives mostly openly, with our respective spouses knowing of our relationship. Almost 9 months ago, this man died in my arms, of pancreatic cancer...
    molly113 molly113
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 22, 2011

    This is what happens

    when you try to get back in touch with him. :(
    Fatalattraction Fatalattraction
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    i want you to be happy

    but it's painful to see you happy with her. i know it was me who pushed you away because this is the right thing to do. i know i'll be happy too someday. but for now, i would have to bear this pain for a while.
    Softnesssy Softnesssy
    36-40, F
    Apr 29, 2014

    I meet this handsome out of this world guy in a

    lounge when he approached me. I likes him but there was more to it.... So the following day we meet up and hit it off completely we made out and I found out he was married, I was not shocked even if he was the only person I meet my whole life who is married so I told my self he...
    berrybleu berrybleu
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2014


    I was once the "other woman". The one who only got an hour of his time on birthdays, holidays, could never been seen in public touching, and could never call the house. I understood going in what the rules were because he had been married over 25 years and had children in college...
    SuburbanJezebel SuburbanJezebel
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 29, 2013

    My Son By A Married Man

    Everyday I look at my beautiful baby boy and feel both happy and sad. Happy that I have the joy and happiness of motherhood that I've always craved and sad that I was engaged in an adulterous relationship. Not only did his father lie to me, his whole family lied to me. I just don...
    Lionness12 Lionness12
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

    Taboo Story

    Everyone who has been reading my stories I'm 21 I clicked the wrong age I don't want anyone to make a mistake that could affect their life.
    ksparkle ksparkle
    18-21, F
    Sep 17, 2012

    Almost A Mistress.

    I worked with this guy for a few years and the moment I met him, I immediately liked him. However, I backed off as soon as I discovered that he had a gf and a kid with her. It was two years of horrible animosity between him and me and we would insult one another. When the...
    kindgrena kindgrena
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2012

    Cross Country Move

    i had an affair for 3 yrs with my professor in chicago. moved to san francisco to get away from it all. still think about him all the time and talk to him whenever i let myself. i feel like such a who**.
    clin clin
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    It Is So Easy To Keep A Mistress!yes! Yes! part 1

    Be friends with the silly girl! Treat her real nice!...When she know you better.,touch her, slowly and tenderly. Make her want and desire you! text her! It is cheap!Say loving words meant for the wife! Cheat, bluff, lie!...empty promises!Who cares..She is hooked on to me!Once she...
    faithfullover faithfullover
    51-55, M
    Jan 1, 2013

    5 Years

    We started out as friends. Like these things sometimes do. We met at a work thing, he was sat in front of me, we laughed. It was lust....maybe first sight. We talked for a while, got on really well. When I saw he was married there was a little hint of sadness but I...
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes
    26-30, F
    18 Responses Oct 16, 2011

    I had been wonderful six years with a lovely

    man abroad who gave me a boy now. I gave my virgin although I knew he has a family. I moved to his country and had had happy and secret life for six years. Now I came back to my country and married to a man and a baby boy. But my present husband doesn't know that the baby is...
    hulanxiu hulanxiu
    Sep 22, 2014

    Mistress-Ing Doesn't End Well

    When I say I "was" once a mistress, I mean, last week I was a mistress. It all started July of 2012, on a bored whim, I posted a Craigslist ad - I know what you're thinking, but just keep reading - asking for someone to talk to me. Just talking, that's all I wanted. He replied...
    msncnights msncnights
    31-35, F
    Nov 26, 2013

    Happy And Sad Mistress

    im dorze and im mistress for 8months today because its our monthsary today,we had an argument today because i want to break up with him but he doesnt want because he told me he loves me and he need me,and he promise me that he will leave his wife.i really love him i will die if...
    dorze dorze
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2012


    I was a 24-year-old guys mistress when I was just 16. I was on vacation in Mexico and had known him since I was 12 and even then I was infatuated by his beautiful honey green eyes and caramel skin. I lost my virginity to him in a cheap hotel in a secluded neighorhood. He told me...
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    I Am Still His Mistress

    He got back together with an ex.We were only **** buddies.We both fell in love.He wont end it with her.Compared to me shes mother Teresa.Shes even still a virgin,or was..I didnt think hed actually go through with the wedding..He saw me the morning of the wedding and the day after...
    adulterousme adulterousme
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2012

    A Childhood Ultimate Crush Turn Mistress

    I was in high school that i feel so much crazy about a guy. He was my first crush in school.i like him because of his personality ,a very timid guy.We studied at the same University,where in we almost see each other everyday..Since then ,he is my secret crush, i feel better if i...
    Schoolmate Schoolmate
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 30, 2013

    He's The One

    Two years ago, i used to be a simple student in high school but when i met the one everything changed. We see each other ,dating ,going out for movies for some couple of times. He knew all things about me and my family. Were comfortable with each other. He was 12 years older than...
    ea061809 ea061809
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2011

    He Has to Pay For This!!

    I had recently moved to a new city for work and was really happy because I had a lot of family in the area compared to growing up far away and only talking to them on holidays. I was so happy to be in a new area starting a new chapter of my life. I ended up meeting this guy...
    micahsmom micahsmom
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    Trapped In The Charms Of A Married Man

    yes i am once a mistress i am not regretful nor proud about will always starts as friends because you are not suspicious that it will turn to something romantic because knowing he is married..then later he will be nice, caring, generous and thoughtful, he will give you...
    Juanitadelacruz Juanitadelacruz
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2013

    I Was Once A Mistress

    Hello everyone, I was once a mistress. My life became different when i started my relationship with a married man. It was even more difficult as we are thousands of miles apart. We only meet every two months out of the country. I say it was a fun phase. The trips and all were...
    emmatsify emmatsify
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2013

    A Mistress's Scream

    Yes I love you. I love how you **** me off and make me forget I was so mad. I love how you hold me tight after I've cried over you. I love how I breathe in the air you breathed out, like you just gave me life, because you give me life. I love how I pick up your bad habits. I love...
    JustCallMeCalypso JustCallMeCalypso
    Aug 7, 2013

    Still A Mistress

    I am in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 years. Met him through work and the rest they say is history. Late last year, we found out Im having his child and so decided to live with me since my parents are strict. He is not married but living in with another girl for 15...
    Dotherwoman Dotherwoman
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 14, 2013

    Ok. I kind of feel wary of posting this

    but if it makes me feel better than here goes nothing. I started my 10 year on/off again relationship/friendship with my boss back in 2004. It started innocently enough at first obviously. But my fixation on him grew like a flies on honey. For the next two years, I wanted him...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 30, 2014


    we both were married and both were unhappy. we hit on so well..........from jokes to profound stuff. One day you messaged me where in the world are u ? funny thing we got to know we lived in the same country, same town, just a few miles away. Our relationship lasted about 3...
    rpw123 rpw123
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    Lord, please give me strength not to go back &

    message him. i don't like what i'm feeling right now. i'm very depressed...
    Softnesssy Softnesssy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2014

    I was talking to someone

    who reminded me of this guy long ago.. Anyway long story short, I was young and just broke up with my bf, feeling very upset and just sitting in a bar feeling sorry for myself. I remember wearing a low cut top and was drinking alone, I don't know I guess I wanted to feel...
    Lucy185 Lucy185
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 10, 2014

    The Other Woman

     I know its hard to jot down 8yrs of my experience , however I shall try to give you as much information as I can. I was ambitious, beautiful and adamant. I was a small town girl, came to the city to find my love, career and home. I met him in a party and at first sight felt...
    sandyrd sandyrd
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2011

    I can't stop emailing you.

    You hurt me Greg and made me feel like such a fool. I put my trust in you and (you know how hard it is for me to trust people) and you betrayed it! You're such an *******! But an ******* that I can't stop lusting over. What is wrong with me? I'm not crazy am I?
    deleted deleted
    Mar 31, 2014

    Not The Same As Being A Hooker

    Being a mistress is never just a woman's fault. Being a mistress implies the man is married -- why is he not blamed? But wait, this isn't about blame, more about how decisions are made for the mutual benefit. It is a business transaction. Some call it prostitution, but are we...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    7 Responses May 5, 2011

    The Other Woman...

    So here is my pathetic story. I am divorced 4 years and only becase I left. If I didn't my ex would have never left as most married men stay with the wife. I have a teenage son that plays every sport. I met one of his teammates fathers by always going to practices and games. This...
    rosie1375 rosie1375
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    Newly Titled "Mistress" With A 47 Year Age Difference

    I started working at a coffee shop and he was the first regular customer I met. One of the first things he said to me was "all you new girls are so cute!" and then something about making sure I'm trained right. I felt like he was a flirty older gent and I thought it would be fun...
    SlyFairy SlyFairy
    26-30, F
    Aug 27, 2013

    My First Love

    I met him when i was 15 years old and hes 8 years older than me. He's still single then. The relationship is on and off,maybe because I am still minor. Until i reached 18 years old i gave up my virginity for him. I didnt regret it since i love the man so much. Until one day he...
    Mayalein Mayalein
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2012

    Want Out

    I have been dating a married man for 6 years now. We have a 3 year old daughter, I'm at the point I want out sooooo bad, what should I do????? I have tried leaving before.
    Lovelee0426 Lovelee0426
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    I have been his mistress

    while he was my boss and continued after we both changed jobs, for several years. I have gone through phases where I was saying to myself STOP and pulled away. He never left me in peace, he was always coming back to my house, even after I told him I wanted to move on. Recently...
    loveariel loveariel
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2014


    i don't know when to start, but i am not a bad person as everybody think about a mistress. i love his kids, i respect his parents, his siblings and all their maids. I gave him money (sometimes), But i always lie to my mom whenever i'm meeting him somewhere, i did abortion- for...
    search17 search17
    15 Responses May 9, 2008

    Being a mistress was fun.

    It was just like old times. Last time I saw him was month ago. The sexual spark was still there. I can still feel his **** pulsating my aching flesh and the rich reward of knowing he wanted me just as much as I wanted him. For the moment things were perfect. Then reality set in...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014


    It started when I was 35. I was married and extremely bored. I noticed that my married boss would go to lunch with all sorts of women. They would come and pick him up for lunch and he wouldn't come back for several hours. He wasn't handsome, but had a charming personality. I...
    holyvirgin holyvirgin
    1 Response Sep 19, 2012


    Yes I'm in love with a married man! We met 16 years ago when he was single. At the time I was very much involved with some one else but it was something about him I couldn't forget about we became friends best friends, I had my daughter and he even attended my baby shower.We...
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2013

    I Am A Mistress..

    I Met him when my bestfriend asked me to join on a vacation somewhere in province.. i am hesitating to join because he was the one i knew.. but he told me he will never leave me during our stay there so i wont feel "OUT OF PLACE".. He was tall dark and handsome so he catched up...
    rheighn03 rheighn03
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2012
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