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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 5 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    I met my wife through a Christian dating service called "Equally Yoked." I wanted to meet someone who had the same beliefs and values as I did. She and I hit it off from the first...
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    I cant sleep.. I remember 6 years ago.. I went to 24 hours starbucks with my bestfriends.. So much laughter, i dont have any broken heart, i was once free from depression or...
    Isurvive14 Isurvive14 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    i love a guy.. i'm loving him since 5 years.. n he love me too.. but i behaved in such a way that he never knew that i love him.. after 5 long years i decided to confess.. since he...
    9lilly 9lilly 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    My mother abandoned me two years ago while I was going through a divorce. She found out that I had been seeing another man while I was still married, and really lashed out at me...
    Amelia3611 Amelia3611 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The common strategy for an writer on the Web to become credited by Google Along with the information they deliver should be to tie internet pages they've got penned for their...
    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Best thing to EVER happen to me!- At age 9 I failed a math quiz and feared the beating I would get at home. My mother didn't spank. She beat me with a belt all over my body and...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    There was a time although it seams forever ago now. When my soul was full and a song it soared from deep so proud . I knew that song well for it was my own. But it has been take to...
    missy1977 missy1977 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    i have cursed sum1 today.. and i am not sorry about it. i cant reveal how he pretended to be a les and tried getting close to me.. for whatever 'he' spoke and however 'he' made me...
    simplychat simplychat 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I had been with Ricardo Mclean Jr for 3 years... in the last year he has left me come back, time and time again... never once admitting he was living hooking up with another. Even...
    t8ntd t8ntd 36-40, F Aug 14

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    unfortunately most of people are liars, although I met liar women and as a man I should Blame liar women more.. But the truth that they are both liars .. is being a Liar is a...
    AhmedWagieh AhmedWagieh 26-30, M Jul 28

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    Many years ago I had my first experience where a lie made my life better, atleast for the moment. Since then I have told many, many lies. To friends and family mostly. It's not so...
    Tooux Tooux 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I have been married 38 wonderful years to the love of my life. We love each other so much. I want no other. Both my wife and I maintained our virginity until our wedding night...
    babyStephen babyStephen 66-70, M 3 hrs ago

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    I think dudes cheat when theyre married because they get bored of their wife after awhile. What yall think?
    kstewartt kstewartt 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm a terrible liar, that's why I don't lie. I can't lie because if I do I would keep thinking someone will find out or it'll hurt someone or hurt myself, so I just choose to not...
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M Aug 13

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    I wish there pants would actually catch on fire For once
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    i don't hate liars . I hate bad liars . I hate people who can't remember their lies. I hate people who get caught and still lie. I borrowed my ex's phone for the day because I...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Some say you should forgive and move on. Now i am not sitting all day and moping around. I am living my life. There are no intense negative feelings attached... No memories...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4

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    U can't hate liars all the time, what if everyone is honest and say u are ugly in front of your face or you are fat :D sometimes liars are just nice people :P
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    This could be super long, so I'll try to sum it up. (: Preschool, kindergarten, & 1st grade were fine. In the middle of 2nd grade I moved to this sorta ghetto town because my mom...
    girlinNJ girlinNJ 16-17, F Jul 26

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    I can't believe I have to rewrite this because my old account got erased. But it's important so: Kindergarten-1st were fine. 2nd grade I moved to a bad part of a new town (right...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F Jul 27

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    Dearest My Lawyer, I've always admired many things about you. That remains. But we must stop anything between us so you can focus on the things that you intend to do. You don't...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    You said you were starting to heal. I hope that is true from your heart and mind too. You can see me as I an evil, a liar, a cheater, or whatever name you want to call. I just wish...
    giveitsometime giveitsometime 41-45 Aug 6

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    Yesterday I broke the rule, I called you. You declined my call. I broke the rule again, I messaged you. You replied, firstly in a natural and friendly way... You said you just...
    giveitsometime giveitsometime 41-45 Aug 9

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    I'm 27, with no kids.....just a dog. I've been married for almost 2 years, but I've been unhappy the entire time. We were together for 2 years before we got married, and I was...
    wishihadatimemachine wishihadatimemachine 26-30, F Aug 12

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    Report her for invasion of privacy in this house Go bang that lady with morals you married
    comegetmecowards123 comegetmecowards123 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    How come single people at home screw more then married people
    bigdaddyhome223 bigdaddyhome223 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need this username... File her in.....got the married status. ..
    dudewithballs123 dudewithballs123 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Once a cheater always a cheater :'( ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ’”
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F Aug 1

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    I hate it when a person has to lie just to get away from something... If you are afraid that you will fail if you tell the truth then you are failing yourself even more when you...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I first opened myself up on this site about two weeks ago. I explained my habit of lying, how easy for me it is to just lie out of thin air. Its been a good two weeks, but alas I...
    shafer2100 shafer2100 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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