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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 4 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    Well a Quaker actually. Which is loosely Christian. Then I, after encountering many other "religious" Christians from Catholics to Methodists to Pentecostals in my life, then went...
    paleryder paleryder 51-55, M Feb 21

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    Well, twice, but I was in the first one three times. It was sort of just for fun that way.
    DeGustibus DeGustibus 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I have been hearing lots of alerts of young girls going missing or being assaulted or murdered and it breaks my heart cause I still remember how I felt during my ordeal at 16 and...
    brookeluv4evr brookeluv4evr 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    First off let me start by saying I Love Sex. I was always under the impression Men loved Sex too. So how is it I married the only man in the world who doesn't want sex??? We have...
    Frisco99 Frisco99 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    Met with my mm today after a bad week of petty arguments. He said he can't deal with the situation anymore. His head is full of things and im on his mind so much that it's...
    Cocktail7 Cocktail7 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    I work with him. I'm madly in love with him. He was married last July and came to where I work in September. I worked with him when I first started there 5 years ago but he worked...
    Scal92 Scal92 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just started posting here and I do have to say, the negativity on here in this category is mind blowing. I want to share my experience about how I met my husband. When we met, he...
    Lil5 Lil5 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So when I came out to my wife she was crushed, I shudder to think of the night. This was five short weeks ago. She is an amazing woman and I am blessed to have her in my life...
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    It started when I was around 6 years old. My cousin who was 2 years older than me would come over and we would go and play. Whenever we were alone together he would touch me and...
    annamh17 annamh17 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    i got seen by a girl once while i was only wearing briefs. Was a little embarrassing at first as she giggled and laughed a little but i just covered up and moved on with my day. No...
    FoxtrotFalcon FoxtrotFalcon 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    We got married last April. Yea, it's early in the marriage, but ever since that day things have gone straight downhill. We don't have sex, ever. Last time was December I think. She...
    firemedic12 firemedic12 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 21

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    Well; It's a big commitment and isn't it a big mess when it doesn't work out.. I think too many people jump into "marriage" too quickly.. So here's 25 reasons not to marry/settle...
    TheMightyAphrodite TheMightyAphrodite 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 20

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    In my dream. It was too beautiful to be forgotten. Too sad to be remembered. :'D
    indahnesia indahnesia 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So I am getting Married my Mom is here visiting and only for a short time so we are trying to get a dress while she is here but I have this vision in my mind and it's really what I...
    Sunshinegal4u Sunshinegal4u 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel I am doing right working out this relationship. My guy asks me to sacrifice a lot and start living like a married couple but I feel very unhappy like my freedom...
    bethqwe bethqwe 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Love being married!!
    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 10 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I had an affair with a man I worked with for three years. I knew he was married at the outset, but it was a "loveless marriage" and he was "going to get a divorce." Of course...
    point2thesky point2thesky 26-30, M Feb 12

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    I married my wife almost 27 years ago. Over the years she has done some pretty out of character things. I guess the first time was after we were married about 5 years. My daughter...
    shohawk shohawk 46-50, M a week ago

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    in the father chrismas ! (: even its stupid that magie was something amazing
    laulala laulala 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Religion. I really don't want to believe this worthless world is it, but it is. If a meteorite was coming to destroy all life on the planet I wouldn't stop it. I've been this way...
    benson5132 benson5132 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    THEY LIED ABOUT EVERYTHING SHE KNOWS WHERE 100K COIN COLLECTION IS ITS IN YOUR HANDS GUYS LIARS PHONIES FAKES AND LIARS
    COINCOLLECTIONLIARS COINCOLLECTIONLIARS 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    I am sick of being single. The biggest problem is that I hate going places where it is likely to meet someone. I don't really drink, hate loud noise, can't dance, and am not...
    Stongarn Stongarn 31-35, M Feb 22

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    I got my herpes result exactly one month before my birthday. I felt like my world had ended. I cried for days not knowing what to do or who to turn to. I contracted herpes from my...
    harryyang1990 harryyang1990 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In May we will be married for 10 years. My spouse pretended to be attentive & affectionate to win me over. And so he did. Shortly after he treated me more like an object than a...
    CrashingTides CrashingTides 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I have a problem with lying and it may have cost my the woman I love. I'm going to get better and I hope that I can get her back. I've hit bottom and I realize that I first have to...
    yosoyroland yosoyroland 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Hello Everyone, let's see where to start.....I got married in 2009 so been married for 5 and a half years now, I feel like I've been cheated. The man i said YES to when he had...
    tiredofboringhusband tiredofboringhusband 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I fell in love passionately and quickly, my husband is such a lovable guy everyone who meets him is drawn to him, he is also incredibly handsome. We have been married 7 years and...
    Theymattertoo Theymattertoo 26-30, F Feb 23

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    So my husband and I. We've been together for 12 years, married for 8. We have 2 kids together. We met when we were both abroad, and he pretty much moved to a different continent...
    quira00 quira00 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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