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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 5 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Yes and due to this I am an extremely dangerous girl.Prior to that I was extremely honest at age 22 I developed that symptom and I am scared I am going to tell a HUGE lie this is...
    xxsadisticbitchxx xxsadisticbitchxx 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    In high school I was a great student. ignoring the fact that I was undocumented and focusing on my studies. My dream was to go to a big name conservatory and create music and art...
    Arieamarxus1 Arieamarxus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I don't believe that once someone has cheated, they are always a cheater. I think it depends very much on the scenario, and what the 'cheater' gained from the infidelity. If it's...
    typhoonfighter typhoonfighter 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    It was a group phone chat service for adults... and we had to listen to keep people from being jerks or spouting out there phone number or addresses (you would be surprised,). We...
    netjoe9661 netjoe9661 51-55, M Mar 24

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    I had been overweight since age 6, with my heaviest being 215lbs around age 13. We never really had any money, so I was never really taught how to manage my naturally curly hair...
    Luckylotus013 Luckylotus013 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    For a while back in elementary school. There were some older "tough" guys that liked to pick on the younger ones and I often got in the way. It wasn't that bad but they would shout...
    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M Mar 27

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    Being a mistress was fun. It was just like old times. Last time I saw him was month ago. The sexual spark was still there. I can still feel his **** pulsating my aching flesh and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 31

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    When I was younger people would tell me I was pretty and going to grow up and be beautiful. I wish it was true . Back in 4th - 7th grade literally every boy thought I was ugly and...
    dawn11235 dawn11235 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I had no idea until he told me-- about a year or into our relationship. I found out he had been seeing someone else the whole time, even before we had started dating, and they had...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 3 days ago

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    I can't stop emailing you. You hurt me Greg and made me feel like such a fool. I put my trust in you and (you know how hard it is for me to trust people) and you betrayed it! You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31

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    Still am—and proud to be! ;)
    AICLover AICLover 13-15, F Mar 31

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    ...and he is not my husband! I fell out of love with my husband 5 years(?) into the marriage. He traveled a lot with his job and we were in the middle of building our home,leaving...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yeah, me too. But too bad for me cause I turned 31 last month & have still never even been engaged or proposed to. Actually, when I was younger I used to say if I wasn't married by...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I'd like to have someone to lean on, and someone who can lean on me. A partner, someone to walk through life with. I've always been single and I'm really sick of if. But I don't...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F Apr 7

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    One time at school I had just taken a shower and had wrapped myself in a towel. I stepped out and was slammed against the wall by four girls I didn't particularly like. They spread...
    gibbo28 gibbo28 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    There was once i went to the pool at a hotel but i wasn't staying there, i went there with my dad, younger brother, my aunt and two cousins, one same age as me and one 2 years...
    Som3son3 Som3son3 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was married to a cop for two years. We had a beautiful son together and I wouldn't trade him for the world. But to be honest my life with my husband was hell. He was cold...
    kbg1992 kbg1992 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Since when I since little I been hate liars and once I been friend with a liar to get into my life we been good friends when I didn't knew him as a liar until he told all my...
    Linh222 Linh222 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I have been married 1 year and 1 month. However my husband has left me 4 times just in the first year every single time an argument has taken place, bills are overdo, his feelings...
    bubblysunshine bubblysunshine 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My mom did most of the spanking in the house. My dad was never home if I saw him once or twice a week it was surprising. I haven't seen them in about 9 months now. My mom is a...
    soxs45 soxs45 18-21, M 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I have been married to a compulsive liar for 45 years and you would think I would either get use to it or leave. Well it still breaks my heart each time he lies, I've tried so many...
    lucasrukus lucasrukus 61-65, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years, we've been married for 3. We were high school sweethearts. He's a great guy, but not the most attentive... We don't share many interests or...
    oddbluebird oddbluebird 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am, a bad liar. First because on important things, out of "I'm fine", to people you don't even know, or people you don't want to be worried, or, independence, and above all, self...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Lonely, Married Men on EP beware....there is a sick, viscous troll out to hunt you down! If you want to step out, that's your decision to make, but do so with great thought, soul...
    DrSoapbox DrSoapbox 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    Lonely, Married Men on EP beware....there is a sick, viscous troll out to hunt you down! If you want to step out, that's your decision to make, but do so with great thought, soul...
    DrSoapbox DrSoapbox 51-55, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok, so I'm currently obsessed with figuring out who the head A is. Yeah, I'm a loser, lol. So, I'm going to try to piece it all together before season 5 starts June 10th. I'm going...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Our relationship was mostly online through the game second life. We would talk on the phone, web cam, and text as well.... For the first 3 1 2 years, we would talk online 2 times a...
    caddriss caddriss 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    is there any married woman or couple who would like to have some fun with me. if in Dubai plzz message me
    shifakhan shifakhan 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I am actually married but my hubby works on a merchaant ship. He is away mostly. Last summer I got into a lesbian relation which totally changed my life. Messsage me if you want to...
    tinapsst tinapsst 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    Hello, hope your day is going well, and thank you for reaching out. Just have been in a rut last few days. I was closed at business today, but took care of some things. Home now...
    wildwillysheros wildwillysheros 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    Well I guess I can leave this group soon as I will no longer be married. The hurt is still unbelievable. She now said, "I can no longer love you like a wife should love her...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M Mar 23

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    Someone I knew and was with for five years turned out to the biggest lying, manipulative cheating bastard I have ever met. The extent and levels to which he lied is just beyond my...
    90jansan 90jansan 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I found out recently that I cannot spot a liar. I believed every word he said to me. It's amazing how stupid a good liar can make you feel. You learn to trust them & share parts...
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F Apr 4

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    My name is Dakota. I'm 14. I'm a victim of sexual abuse. I'm overcoming this trauma one day at a time. I'm learning to trust again. If you want to know my back story, please read...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    My name is Dakota. I'm 14. I'm a victim of sexual abuse. I'm overcoming this trauma one day at a time. I'm learning to trust again. If you want to know my back story, please read...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    My name is Dakota. I'm 14. I'm a victim of sexual abuse. I'm overcoming this trauma one day at a time. I'm learning to trust again. If you want to know my back story, please read...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    My name is Dakota. I'm 14. I'm a victim of sexual abuse. I'm overcoming this trauma one day at a time. I'm learning to trust again. If you want to know my back story, please read...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    its so disheartening to log on to ep and see all the MARRIED people on here just looking for some one to sneak around with ,, and yes it is sneaking if you wouldn't give your...
    lyanna84 lyanna84 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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