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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I'm new around here. I've needed to share this with someone for a long time. I'm in my early thirties and my problem is that I am a pathological liar. I lie about everything and...
    liarking liarking 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    you may not believe me given that i am a liar but i am curios about opinions. here's the thing , i LOVE, but i also lie cause of avoidance, power, and when i really need to. i'm...
    DarcytheProxy DarcytheProxy 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    She did that several times when I was young, I didn't think it was serious. Now, she lied to my psychiatrist in front of my face that I don't want to go out of my house. She's the...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F Mar 17

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    Well, twice, but I was in the first one three times. It was sort of just for fun that way.
    DeGustibus DeGustibus 26-30, M Mar 2

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    I remember a time when I was underweight. Now, as I have almost oost my mobility due to my weight, that time seems very hard to imagine.
    Alistair2 Alistair2 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    When I married this man I was completely unaware of the true nature of this man. I am the kind of person that must admire and look up to the man I am with. I wasn't married for...
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    my dream: i was at my grandpa house my dad was there he was alive(i havent dreamed about my for you) he was so sad it my dream(just like when he was alive) i was my age he didnt...
    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 4 Responses Mar 19

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    My grandparents are my landlords. I live in one of their houses. Lately they've been pushing me to marry my baby's father so my baby will grow up with a mom and dad. I refuse to...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 10 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have been in this affair with my MM for 6 months now. it's been a whirlwind of emotions of course. when we first met, I did not know he was married. about 4 months in and I...
    button3 button3 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    We work together. I always found him attractive but he was married. I love his personality. We began flirting. Then soon began asking each other the "who would you rather...
    bongbabexo bongbabexo 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    Today is a sombre day Feeling broken but will try my best to put my best face forward to not inflict my pain on those that don't deserve it Why sombre? Today I am 50 yay it's my...
    fivefoottall fivefoottall 46-50, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone my name is Krysta and I am a habitual liar. I seriously want to change and I have no idea where to start. So far I have located a phone number for a place that I can...
    massageling massageling 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I married a borderline 2 years back. Initially before marriage, I saw her getting angry like crazy ..wanted to break off but the usual 'sorry..will never do again" stuff had me in...
    crazy76 crazy76 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    me & my husband have been married for almost a yr. in August we found out he was a schizoid. He always accused me of sleeping around with his co workers. in February he received a...
    ohdeein ohdeein 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Stuttering those statement, yet I would feel both lucky and guilty if my lies were to come though as the actual truth. I would make a comeback only if it were necessary to do so...
    Glumie Glumie 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I can't agree this more. I dislike married man talk to single ladies because they are lonely?? Give me a brake. I never wanna let them use me again. Just stay away from me. And...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

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    My wife had an affair. I detected the changes in her personality immediately. I gathered the evidence and confronted her about it. She lied. I brought out my evidence. She...
    ScienceReader ScienceReader 46-50, M 10 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Last year met a married man at first we were friend and and then lovers. I tell him it's over and walked away although we do close to each a bit hard to not see him, wife and kids...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    after all that I have been through, I think ive finally learnt to accept someone who loves me. within a week of being with him he jokingly praopsed to me, said have this harribo...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    There's a lot to be said in favour of relationships with younger men. When I say younger, I don't mean by a few years. I am talking about at least a decade or two younger. The...
    Dotty31 Dotty31 51-55, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have known this man from a chatting site for some days and he is really nice to me, we did get along very fine because he is a good conversationalist and do understand me very...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So 4 days ago, my husband was in his separate bedroom talking to his Gay Friend Collin with the door closed It was about 10:30 pm, after trying to listen to their conversation I...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    It’s been over nine years since I was kidnapped and turned into a pet. After I opened up to my first wife on Halloween she told me it might help me to right down everything that...
    PrinceBloodlust PrinceBloodlust 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I got my herpes result exactly one month before my birthday. I felt like my world had ended. I cried for days not knowing what to do or who to turn to. I contracted herpes from my...
    harryyang1990 harryyang1990 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    It feels nice to tell the truth... Even if it's anonymous. I have a really big problem with lying. I was lazy in college and was the dumb child in the family. I can't compete...
    photosmurf photosmurf 26-30, F Mar 7

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    How can we prove that we absolutely hate liar if we as our self is no liar to our other friend that give us trust to us . I sudjest to my others friend don't till this experience...
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28 56-60, F 6 days ago

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    My co worker and I have been working together for close to a year and he is married and he asked me out today. He always flirts but never actually came out and said anything. I...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    So my husband and I. We've been together for 12 years, married for 8. We have 2 kids together. We met when we were both abroad, and he pretty much moved to a different continent...
    quira00 quira00 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I am the worst kind of liar. I became pregnant 18 months ago, and I never told anyone that I was have sex with two different guys at the time. I tell my HUSBAND all the time that...
    C8DAGR8 C8DAGR8 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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