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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    Seems that way! I was a size zero with a flat stomach only a few months ago. Tried on my work out clothes today. Definitely can't exercise in these. I guess I'll sit on the couch...
    missimo missimo 26-30, F 3 Responses May 11

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    Well not everyday but over the last 2-3 years . I am not ashamed to say I love it , all of it , changing shape , new curves , bigger clothes , even the teasing . I have also...
    Roundness Roundness 41-45, F 3 Responses May 11

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    I'm new here. I need a place to vent. I have been married for 16 years. I love him very much and I know many women would feel lucky to have him. But here is/are the problem/s. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses May 10

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    When I told my friends and family I was engaged they all told me to take it slow. I was 18 and would be getting married at 19, but I was "in love." 10 years later all of those...
    Adrianna7182 Adrianna7182 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 25

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    I was once very unstable, emotionally and mentally, and not very reliable. After years of mental health issues, sometimes severe, I could be paranoid, manipulative, jealous...
    TheBookAddict TheBookAddict 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I just saw a riveting movie, Midnight in Paris. The only thing I regret it's not seeing it earlier. I remember how much i avoided it and I misjugded it only by its cover...
    onenico onenico 18-21, F 2 Responses May 2

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    I found this place by chance while looking for a break up support group. Not too long ago, I found whom I thought was the perfect man for me. He was smart, kind, giving...
    NativeBoxerGirl NativeBoxerGirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 28

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    My best friend of 10 years was getting married. I was looking forward to her wedding. Guess what? I got no invitation. ouch. I never talked to her again.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Not a good week, but then what is a good week? I'm still alive and have a job so I suppose that makes it not all bad, I'm on my second glass of red wine as I'm sure I read this...
    dustydaisy dustydaisy 51-55, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I grew up in a very bad neighbourhood. As a result i would frequently be exposed to some sort of assault or violence. I was once kidnapped by a man two blocks from my house when i...
    here2shareAll here2shareAll 13-15, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I Need to Decide If I'll Stay In My Marriage I have been in a relationship for 4 years plus with my bf 4 years younger than me. my question to him back then was that i wanted to...
    tinggal123 tinggal123 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    I have been seeing a married man for almost a year. He is my Daddy Dom. Lately though he isn't texting as frequently and I am not feeling the bond we once shared, So I decided to...
    Zuki101 Zuki101 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    I do want to come out, I do so here in the hope that it will make coming out later on a little easier. I'm married, and hiding the truth about my attraction to men from my wife...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I was just previously engaged to my beautiful girlfriend on our last trip to Williamsburg Va. We are very happy have been dating two years and we are very happy. I am extremely...
    jarstefan jarstefan 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    Years ago, in school (about 10 years ago?), I was a little liar because in one class I always said to my parents that I don't have any homework to do even if I had some. I can...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M Apr 26

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    i dont even know were to begin. I am married to a wonderfull men the love of my life. And i keep hurting him. I am a compulsive liar. I lie for really stupid things because im...
    Ashley52 Ashley52 18-21 1 Response May 4

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    I am 37 yrs old. I've been married, divorced, I have teenage children, I have a career & all of the amenities I worked hard for. I have dated, I've been single for a while.... I...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F 1 Response May 13

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    Taking the first steps; once you admit that you have a problem, you need to figure out how you can fix your problem. my lying had spiraled out of control and I became a manipulator...
    karmaismygod00 karmaismygod00 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    It was a Tuesday, I think…maybe a Thursday I can’t remember. At the time, I was content with where I was in life. Single…healthy, happy, no debt, free to live life as I chose...
    1StateAway 1StateAway 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    The older you get, the more you really want to give to the marriage. men seem to have more respect for a woman when they get older. I've always enjoyed a younger woman watching her...
    adoorable1 adoorable1 56-60, M 1 Response May 10

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    I know from my own experience that married men don't always leave the wife. I am the wife. I found out two years ago my husband had an affair with some married woman that he met...
    Truthbetold81 Truthbetold81 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I like any thing fun and won't harm me or anyone else I had a blast went down south with my family and we took a trip down to the Florida keys , rented a boat jumped in the ocean...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I loved PLL... LOVED them!! However, once they said Toby was evil and they still didn't get to who "A" was, I just stopped watching. ABC Family has the tendency to cut off...
    RocaAzul RocaAzul 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I hate them so much I knew a girl on EP and I thought she was telling the truth turns out she lied the whole time.I was very angry because I tried to help her and everything.She...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I married the master of deciet. the master manipulator. I studied his personality type and figured him out. I am complete opposite. I speak the truth. I have a bad memory and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5

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    I just don't think it'll ever happen, most men are cheating players anyways, and the ones that say they aren't are liars. Maybe somethings wrong with me.
    imjustthatgirl66 imjustthatgirl66 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12

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    I am married to a red hair stunning Irish man. he's 9 yrs my senior and was blessed with a beautiful daughter. He has 5 kids prior to our marriage and I had one from my ex. So in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 28