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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 5 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    How can someone love a pathological liar ?
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    I wasn't... But one of my best friends was... He faked his own suicide spiked her anxiety (she had wicked bad anxiety to start like diagnosed anxiety ) and she ended up...
    ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    It's official, I'm in a feedist relationship! Well, I’m free to stuff, gain and indulge in feedism. My partner is new to it and may not be into it, but she’s supportive of me...
    enplumpen enplumpen 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    I was once sent to an African village school, went in quite a cocky little madam but didn't come out like that!!. My African lady teacher gave me some discipline!!. One day she...
    BabySham8 BabySham8 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Best thing to EVER happen to me!- At age 9 I failed a math quiz and feared the beating I would get at home. My mother didn't spank. She beat me with a belt all over my body and...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I’m finally out. Hi everyone. I joined this group two days ago to get support to leave forever my MM. After reading everyone’s stories, I feel compelled to write mine. I am...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm supposed to be different. There I said it! I should be special to you at least a little at this point! I've given you 12 years of unwavering, fully supportive, stay up all...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    That I will make one of my personal missions for the love of human kind, because I wish I knew this! A narcissist is insecure and compensatively arrogant in various ways. They...
    Gingix Gingix 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    unfortunately most of people are liars, although I met liar women and as a man I should Blame liar women more.. But the truth that they are both liars .. is being a Liar is a...
    AhmedWagieh AhmedWagieh 26-30, M 10 hrs ago

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    I mean!! come on!! we survive in this world because of Lie's! a lie once in a while saves lives and protects the heart. i would lie to you! as a friend but i am very Loyal...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Your mind can be a very convincing liar. I saw a quote once that said, “Don’t believe everything you think.” That quote completely altered the way I react when a cruel or...
    Inspiremylife Inspiremylife 41-45, M a week ago

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    I wish there pants would actually catch on fire For once
    Thedarkvaporeon Thedarkvaporeon 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To no end do I hate liars and deceivers! Eventually I WILL figure it out ... and it's the one thing in which I will intentionally distance, if not end, my friendship with you. I...
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Well, a lot of people are probably curious about my life. Well, I have been through a lot in the past, but this one was the worst I've ever went through. Though I was only down for...
    kamishiro kamishiro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    U can't hate liars all the time, what if everyone is honest and say u are ugly in front of your face or you are fat :D sometimes liars are just nice people :P
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This could be super long, so I'll try to sum it up. (: Preschool, kindergarten, & 1st grade were fine. In the middle of 2nd grade I moved to this sorta ghetto town because my mom...
    girlinNJ girlinNJ 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I can't believe I have to rewrite this because my old account got erased. But it's important so: Kindergarten-1st were fine. 2nd grade I moved to a bad part of a new town (right...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    PrincessKeeper : said he was a Doctor when I ask about his schooling no answer, when talking about general procedures in a hospital ( which he is doing rounds right now) his...
    Jeniferrose Jeniferrose 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    OMG I loveeeeee this movie Who is A?????????????????????? please share your comment if you like pretty little liars ;)
    maryamgh1376 maryamgh1376 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I had a GF once before when I was 14-15 and we have still remained friends (but have no interest anymore to be with each other) when I was 18 I met my husband and just after a few...
    Hellowhitt Hellowhitt 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    If you lie to me once, I will never trust you again. Period. I have a very low bullshit tolerance, I am kind until someone pushes a button, and I do not have many, so it takes a...
    alexdahlia alexdahlia 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I was raised a Jehovahs Witness. That proved be a hardship in my life when it came to accepting who i was as a person. From a very young age, I new I was gay. I used to get the...
    akg27 akg27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    PRETTY LITTLE LIARS ABOUT TO START YALL 👏👏👏😩😈😌
    Dramaqueen68 Dramaqueen68 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    •All Pretty Little Liars Fans• PLL fans are more interested in who is dating who then finding out who A is😂 I mean we won't find out anytime soon 😂
    xsecretsx xsecretsx 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I am not married, not yet, but hope to be in the near future. My boyfriend is a retired infantry soldier who served two tours in Iraq. I have only known him since he was retired...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Report the scumbag and all her fake websites.. You fell on your face once again Lee and.aj got you...may we remind you your separated
    readheadmouth readheadmouth 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Though I am not married to a transgendered person, I am dating one; or so I think. I've been with this guy for about a year and I don't want to jump to conclusions, but I think he...
    fixingthebroken fixingthebroken 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 6

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    7 years ago, my life went downhill. I'm turning 17 next week. I sound a little young for this and you may think i'm posting this just because my hormones are busting up and down...
    roberteezy roberteezy 18-21, M Jul 14

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    I got married at the age of 20. My marriage lasted for a mere 7 months, when he decided he was done dealing with all of my issues. I was made to feel like I was worthless and just...
    Cay22 Cay22 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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