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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 4 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    I finally let him go... He was once my fiancé back year 2010, we've been friends before we became lovers and i can say he is my male counterpart. I became pregnant and sadly we...
    AlexieMartinez AlexieMartinez 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have dug myself into a hole where I can't stop lying because if I do, it'll reveal all my past lies and **** everything up.
    SnazzyRazzy SnazzyRazzy 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    All of the great lines in all of the best Love stories like "Love is never having to say your sorry" and so on, are only lines, imagine if you will never telling your spouse your...
    jonesfornow jonesfornow 56-60, M Nov 21

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    It's not even a second thought anymore, I need to get fatter. I get jealous looking at pictures of people who are obese, I dream of the day I'll be their size too. I have a goal of...
    enplumpen enplumpen 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I wasn't married but felt it. My bf and I lived together. Things started going wrong... He left me 3 days ago and brought pizza. Over pizza he was staring me on the floor crying...
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I was once driving at night and I was coming up to a stoplight. The light was red, so I started to break. When I got closer to it, the light had changed to green, but for some...
    Emilia0659 Emilia0659 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Couldn't help but laugh when a close friend of mine texted me to tell me they're re-doing my life in a movie. I laughed, and said what???? She said, yeah...Annie's back!!! When...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    So here's the thing about this time of year.. it was once my favorite time of the year, because it was filled with love, family and holiday spirit. See, I was sexually abused as a...
    willowsweep willowsweep 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    I was once happy and then lost my smile forever......
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet 18-21, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm just so lonely at night. My husband and I don't even like each other we barely talk all we do is argue.im sad I was give anything to feel better.
    candyone candyone 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I don't think things will ever be loving between My husband and I again. There is just so much hurt. I want so much for him to want things like spending time with me, taking...
    katierose59 katierose59 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I seriously can't stand when people accuse me of lying. Just because i am established at a younger age and I'm more mature then you are at your age doesn't mean I'm a liar. I can...
    nikki2442 nikki2442 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I met my child's father, Z at work. He was married and I I was engaged to H. It was a volatile relationship. I befriended Z. He was someone new to talk to. Something besides the...
    lostinmommyview lostinmommyview 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    First, you lied about your job. Second, you lied about your name. Third, I don't know maybe you're married after all? I'd like to be your friend. It was clear to you what my...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Why ? I don't get why people lie on the profile . This is an app to share experience that you've made with others not an app where you can fool others and lie to them ... Of course...
    Dunkelweis Dunkelweis 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    My (now married) relationship started off on a lie. I, essentially, cat fished my husband. Fake pictures, fake memories/history of my life. I don't know how to fix this.
    AnonymousLiar AnonymousLiar 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I had a friend, a best friend who I lived with for years. She always had a problem with stealing and lying, but she was my friend none the less. I was there for her, and helped her...
    st4rshine st4rshine 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    The only reason why I have ever cheated was because it was the only way I could ever feel like I got even with the fking ******* that cheated on me & lied to me. It's such a...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I disappointed someone today that I truly did not want to disappoint. I disappointed her unintentionally, by not expressing that I was married. It was not an intentional omission...
    Jacob63 Jacob63 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 30

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    Recently was lied to again by my soon to be ex. I can't imagine the balls it took for her to try and lie about my family let alone try to make me think they are liars.
    jeremydj218 jeremydj218 31-35, M Dec 2

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    I grew up together with this guy, since we basically shared the same school from grade 1 up to now (college), to the point that it was easy for me to read him. He actually thought...
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    The fact that I am writing here saddens me. I have been married to my husband for 4 years, with him 9. We have a pre-school age son and I have two adult stepsons. Our marriage...
    whenitsgooditsamazing whenitsgooditsamazing 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    I can not stand being lied to. Especially when I find out the lie went on for a while. Why even talk if all there is to say is lie after lie? I just want people to be honest with...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I lied and hurt him. He only asked for one thing, honesty, instead i lied to his face because i was selfishly trying to stop him from judging me. That is not love he says. I agree...
    UnchartedHeart UnchartedHeart 22-25 1 Response Dec 10

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    Married to a PA for 42 years that I still love, but hate the way he treats me and I just can't do it anymore. I am feeling so guilty because I have finally made the decision to...
    Jeannie1952 Jeannie1952 61-65, F 1 day ago

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    13th post. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." I wish it would end, I wish it would end, I wish it would end. My life that is, and I can't seem to stop thinking...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    So it's our 10 year anniversary today, and 3 months ago, I left it all in his hands to set it all up. So he comes home last night, and at midnight I surprise him with a ring...
    Jenn7791 Jenn7791 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 20

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    I have been married for almost 6 years. I know my wife loves me, but we never have sex. It's been 3 years since we've had really good she's-actually-into-it-sex, and only once in...
    DaisyMae54 DaisyMae54 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    i am a liar though i try so hard to tell the truth i simply can't i get nervous anxious and come up with a lie instantly. Im afraid no one will trust me ever again , my friends my...
    supreme123 supreme123 16-17, M Nov 25

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    I want my answers about these mother fcker liars who were never Honest or on the level Ever...
    lordplesde223 lordplesde223 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I dated a filthy liar for three years and the result of which I have taken up an oath to which I will not lie unless given permission by the person I am conversing with. However, I...
    Mydogsaremylife Mydogsaremylife 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    There once was a man; who went by the name “Smitty,” he didn’t have much, but what he did have he held great value for. Smitty had a classic car that he bought brand new...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 1 Response Dec 9

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