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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    Its not that I've cried myself to sleep, its that I couldn't stop crying today yet. There has been so much stress in my household between me and my boyfriend. I know were not...
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    So many years ago I had an affair it was wonderful wasn't happy at home so I ventured out and found her
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    I thought being married for me would be different, silly notion I know but still who doesn't. but I don't know if me being depressed and being alone stems from the past abuse he...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I need some opinions here.. I text married ladies who are not in a healthy marriage and I sometimes feel guilty about it .. even thought they ask for it sometimes..
    pirlo07 pirlo07 22-25, M 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Please tell me your ture honest opinion. I need feedback. I want to try to keep this short. I am gonna sum it all up. My husband and I have been married for 9 years now. I love...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 13 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I was molested by my dad when I was 10 my mother worked 3rd shift and my two brothers was asleep first time he came into the room and would touch my vagina I didn't understand what...
    LovingMe1 LovingMe1 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
    fragilegile fragilegile 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I hear from people saying that they "hate liars", are they also liars? Or are they honest? /- )
    lily36912 lily36912 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There is someone on here who says she is a nurse.. But a response from her from a serious question from a woman suffering from vaginismus was laughing it off ! and taking it as a...
    voyelle voyelle 70+, F 2 days ago

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    I am a horrible liar, i always try sooo hard to hold back that grin on my face its so obvious im lying lol. Idk why its so hard to lie even if its a white lie... Anyways this isnt...
    sabrriinaaax3 sabrriinaaax3 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Newly divorced after leaving a very abusive relationship, I moved back to my hometown and was able to get a job through an old friend from school. During my first week there, I...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I got a snapchat notification saying that one of he biggest liars that I know added me as a friend. He's an ex boyfriend from over 3 years ago. When I saw the notification I...
    09TiskTisk 09TiskTisk 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    The First and LAST Time I Sneaked Out-"Can I go somewhere?" I said to my mother's back as I stood in the door of her bedroom (actually it was the master bedroom and by default also...
    SoullessEyes SoullessEyes 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I was 165 two years ago and now am 222 and love the feeling and changes. I want to get to 250 by winter.
    chubbyhubby250 chubbyhubby250 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    00dom00 is a pathetic liar and a cheat. Don't friend her or anything. you cant believe a word she says Lol
    cheychey98 cheychey98 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I am writing this to shed light on domestic violence and what happened to me. At first it was only on my Facebook and was set to "Friends Only" but I am now making it public and...
    Taylor62298 Taylor62298 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I lie a lot. Yep. It's true (hey a truth, now that's something I don't do often) I lie to get out of almost anything, I lie to make my life seem exciting to my friends, I lie to...
    LeoNyxus LeoNyxus 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I was once kidnapped by my home girl I came home one day after work and I went to bed I was woken up by her tightly wrapping duct tape around my mouth and she had snuck ropes...
    tapegaggedisbest tapegaggedisbest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    So you chat, you be careful, suss the person out, be honest. He passes your circle screening. He is a master at manipulation online. He chats, gets your number, talks to you...
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 22

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    This time 6 months ago, I would never have believed i would be in this situation. I know what I've done is wrong, I am ashamed but I really need to put my story across. Situation...
    latrocks latrocks 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    its my dream also.. at my age im still single and never been married. its not too late for me to dream..hope i will find the right man for me..coz i wanna get married once and be...
    empire28 empire28 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    When I was 5 I remember my Dad said that Leprechaun's would cut through our back yard. We lived in the country and a mountain side was our back yard. He said they used the trail...
    iamnottheonlyone iamnottheonlyone 36-40, F Aug 19

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    You believed in me. Then you went away. You opened my heart, then left it open and vulnerable. You just left me, like I was nothing. I see you everyday, and you seem to have no...
    daphneflower daphneflower 31-35, F Aug 19

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    We were out as a group, my wife and I with her brother and fiance', and having drinks at a waterfront festival this last weekend. When I picked up the bill, it was paid by an...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55, T 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I am conpulsive liar. I always lie about the small stuff. And in the end catches up to me. I did go through life for a small time no luring the relapsed at the wrong time. I'm...
    oppie83 oppie83 31-35, M Aug 18

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    IF I wasn't married and I didn't have any children. I'd own about 5 or more. Yes I'd be the 'Crazy cat Lady'
    Loren1977 Loren1977 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    My boyfriend is a 48 year old married man. He's 25 years my senior and was my former boss. I now work in the same industry in the same vicinity so I'm still able to see him. He is...
    catsmp catsmp 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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