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I Was Once Married to a Pathological Liar

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    Still Married To Him

    When we first hung out he seemed like a wicked nice guy, always put me first, asked me for my opinions on things, etc. I found out that very first day that he lied about sleeping with one of my close friends, but when I confronted him he told me he had been scared I ...
    Riled Riled 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    This Is My Story

    i met with my husband back in college years, he was dating one of my friend. they dated  for 4 years and when they broke up she told me only one thing, he's a pathological liar! well at that time he was just a friend of mine and i thought she was just mad at him. i wish i...
    vasiliswife vasiliswife 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Only the Truth Will Do and the Truth Doesn't Have to Hurt, Lol

    My last husband (I've only had 2 - lol) was a pathological liar and this is one of the reasons why I can tolerate almost anything from a person but; he was so unscruppled that he once told me his father was dead so I wouldn't divorce him!  He had tears in his eyes and...
    Aristartle Aristartle 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Pathological Liar Ex Husband Left Me And Our 18mth Old Daughter Homeless

    Late last year, 2 weeks before xmas, the main lie my ex had been telling me since we got together came out.  The impact of this one massive lie (there have been so many in addition as well) left us homeless and destitute.   Where do I start, our whole life...
    formeg formeg 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    When I Discovered Her Other Life

    I knew things were wrong in our relationship, that she had stopped living with me, stopped showing up when she said she would, would tell me what I want to hear then not come through. Why she was being so flaky after years of being so in love, I had no idea. I suspected that she...
    ndrulz ndrulz 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    It Took Awhile

    It took awhile but I came to see that if Her mouth was moving,She was telling a lie!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Dec 9, 2012

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    Still With Him.....

    I am still married to my husband who lies about everything.He cant possible grip his mind around why i get upset about him lying to me , I think in his head he honestly believes that he dosnt lie or that its not a big deal.I just give up .I read other articles of people talking...
    lamber153 lamber153 31-35 5 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    WHY??? You have to be pretty insecure about yourself to be a pathological liar and also have a few loose screws!

    My husband would lie about anything,important things and also things that were not the least bit important...it took me awhile to catch on because being the honest person that I am never questioned what he would tell me.UNTIL...a few very obvious things were discovered by pure...
    chickster chickster 46-50 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    My Marriage Was A Big Lie.

    My husband lied so much that I think he was convinced that he was telling the truth. From day one of our marriage, he lied. We were married for 6 yrs but only together time wise 1 1/2 yrs dur to his abuse, I would leave and after his begging and pleading I would return. I finally...
    wildflower0724 wildflower0724 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    25 Years Of Being In The Dark

    Happy New Year! I am celebrating the New Year by being a far smarter woman than I was even just 6 months ago.  From reading the other experiences, I would say that my story is nothing new - but perhaps someone else will be able to relate to my experience and be helped. I...
    IMWomanHearMeRoar IMWomanHearMeRoar 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    Everything Was A Lie!!!!!

    Well a little over a year ago I married to what I thought was the man of my dreams... when end the end, he turned out to be my worst nightmare. Looking back now, I realize that the saying "love is blind" (VERY blind) is SO true!!! Because although I was deeply in love with him...
    KH5555 KH5555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Having A Baby With A Pathological Liar

    My ex is the textbook version of a pathological liar.  He spent his entire childhood in foster care.  We planned for this baby...he was an awesome boyfriend at first.  A couple weeks after I found out that I was pregnant, he left me for another woman.  We've...
    lgrossie lgrossie 31-35 3 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Finally Found Others Dealing With A Pathological Liar.

    Not that it is a good thing but for so many years I felt so alone. That there wasn't any support out there for me to deal with the lies and the stories. I met my soon to be ex-husband 15 years ago in the college library. We were both in the same program at the time and...
    labrdogs labrdogs 31-35, F 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Number 5

    Prior to proposing to her, my girlfriend tearfully told me she'd been married once before and felt ashamed for it. I consoled her and told her that I'd been around myself and didn't hold it against her. After we were married I found out that I wasn't husband number two but...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 20, 2010

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    This is fairly long. And true as I can recall. As I wrote it many of the things I lived connected with this bit of autobiography reminded me of other material I need to make time...
    givuperedy givuperedy 56-60, M 6 days ago

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    And it's been way too long :/
    tasha456 tasha456 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I cant sleep.. I remember 6 years ago.. I went to 24 hours starbucks with my bestfriends.. So much laughter, i dont have any broken heart, i was once free from depression or...
    Isurvive14 Isurvive14 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I am 25 and have 3 children under 6. I have been with my husband since I was 14, married at 18, and started a family a few months into the marriage. I love my kids with all my...
    Mom1989 Mom1989 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    We have been married for 16 years. We have been through a rough few years. My husband had a heart attack after we had sex 2 years ago and it threw us into a tail spin. Mostly on my...
    Candlebox Candlebox 41-45, F 15 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My husband recently went on a stag do and told me some if his mates had unprotected sex with some hired strippers. Problem is that these mates are married to my friends. My husband...
    Weareallcheaters Weareallcheaters 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I hate cheaters and liars (That was lie too) Sorry but life is complicated to be honest..
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm Married for almost 7 years, my wife suffers from CP (Cerebral Palsy), I remember falling in love and planing our wedding together and I would noticed that she would stress out...
    joepepe25 joepepe25 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    I had been with Ricardo Mclean Jr for 3 years... in the last year he has left me come back, time and time again... never once admitting he was living hooking up with another. Even...
    t8ntd t8ntd 36-40, F Aug 14

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    I'm Married for almost 7 years, my wife suffers from CP (Cerebral Palsy), I remember falling in love and planing our wedding together, I would noticed she would stress out over...
    joepepe25 joepepe25 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    For over the last year I have been involved with an old friend who is married. We are having an affair, at least we were. A month ago his wife discovered his affair and he decided...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Mother didn't raise any wimps. Kidzone in Fort Sill Oklahoma...now THAT was the children's paradise! It looks so gigantic in my mind, but that's probably because I was so much...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 7 hrs ago

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    God help me! I am a compulsive liar. I got married to my wife in June after being together for 4 years. We always lived together, since she was my roommate when I attended...
    gotfoundout gotfoundout 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Please excuse my rant as this will be a long story. It was a given...all people lie. There are white lies that are harmless and real lies that can harm. White lies, I can tolerate...
    bittersweethermit bittersweethermit 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    So I just found out today that my married guys cell phone number has been changed after a little over a week of no contact. I'm sure it was his wife's decision. Now that I...
    AvaLennon AvaLennon 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Many years ago I had my first experience where a lie made my life better, atleast for the moment. Since then I have told many, many lies. To friends and family mostly. It's not so...
    Tooux Tooux 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I am a patlogical liar an a narrcist I wanna stop so I am reaching out for help I feel like I shouldn't be be in the free world I should be locked up an kept away from sosity I'm...
    ydobrrup ydobrrup 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm a terrible liar, that's why I don't lie. I can't lie because if I do I would keep thinking someone will find out or it'll hurt someone or hurt myself, so I just choose to not...
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M Aug 13

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    I had an affair with a married man who I believed loved me for 11 months. He was my best friend. He came to my Mothers grave with me, met my children, openly showed affection in...
    Faerylak Faerylak 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I found out after I separated from my husband that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I use to value the truth and be proud I held up to telling the truth no matter how hurtful but I have slowly built a web of lies. I am so shameful. I am married to a man and have...
    lilMsOakTree lilMsOakTree 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    My husband works pays for the bills I am a stay at home mom I take care of the kids n house work I feed em wash em teach em I cook and clean make sure he is also taking care of...
    faithtrustwishes faithtrustwishes 22-25, F 8 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    i don't hate liars . I hate bad liars . I hate people who can't remember their lies. I hate people who get caught and still lie. I borrowed my ex's phone for the day because I...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Marriage has a lot to offer to our lives. It may not be green always but it has it's own lessons to teach even with hardships. I wish all the married couples well in life...
    sweetgal42 sweetgal42 41-45, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Any bored lonely horny married ladies wanna have some fun
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M 16 hrs ago

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    Why is it that As soon as I get married some of the greatest men I have ever known are all now confession to me how much they wanted to be with me. An they are showing me that they...
    SpiritDancer4227 SpiritDancer4227 22-25, F 30 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    In actual fact, he remained seem his full existence. Then There exists Strength. It had been mentioned of him that he was a "busy" horse, always Lively and desirous to go. When...
    Temple2516ja Temple2516ja 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I want to yell at the top of my lungs and never stop. Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish...
    gem207 gem207 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Some say you should forgive and move on. Now i am not sitting all day and moping around. I am living my life. There are no intense negative feelings attached... No memories...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Has anyone else experienced this? When you're single and available, it seems like no one is interested. Then when you're in a relationship, guys come crawling out of the woodwork...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 days ago

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