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I Was Raped By A Friend

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    I am also in the group of people who aren't sure if they have been raped or not. I was kinda stupid. I was online looking for people who like to spank other people. I know it's weird, but I like to be spanked. I met this guy, Sam, online and we chatted for a while, before he...
    Wynn42 Wynn42 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    Stolen Innocence

    There was this very cute 'older' guy (late 20's) that moved in a couple apts down from me with his wife back in 2003. All the kids/teens in my neighborhood looked up to him because he acted a lot like a kid himself. He loved video games, sports, being silly. We all became friends...
    WolfChick WolfChick 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    The Ex That Wouldnt Take No For An Answer.

    i was that unlucky 80% that gets raped a second time. I was about 13 had my second boy frined he hadhad alot of other girlfriends befor me. THat didnt scared me at all at first we were fine as we started dating longer and longer he wanted more from me i llet him finger me but i...
    nicole518 nicole518 18-21, T 3 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    He Took Me To A Party Drugged Me And Who Knows What Really Happened?

      I needed help studying for physics Sam got an A in physics so he said he would help me. I struggled with a physics problem for 20 minutes and sam looked at it for 12 minutes did not help me and went online. I kept trying to figure it out. He closed my books and said he needed...
    Agirlforgiven Agirlforgiven 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    He Was 10 - I Was 9

    He & his friends took me behind our elementary school. They knew exactly where the teachers patrolled. I was pushed down onto my hands & knees, & with his friends watching he raped me.  To him it was just another way to humiliate & bully me. Every time he could get me alone...
    GentleTears GentleTears 36-40, F 8 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Loosing My Innocence

    did you know that 80% of women who are raped or molested as children will be raped again as adults by a differant attacker..... reality sucks some times the first time it happend to me i was three i wasnt raped i was molested. my dad was having a football party i dont exactly...
    nicole518 nicole518 18-21, T Aug 22, 2012

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    Rape By A Friend Or Old Friend Is No Joke

    I always have been interested in detective work, psychology, things like that. So I know much about the psychological side effects that rape can do to someone. Of course I never knew that I could consider something rape when it's done by someone I had a previous sexual...
    re4409 re4409 18-21 Aug 22, 2012

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    What She Did Was So Wrong...

    I missed her, we hadn't hung out in so long... She brought over my favorite rum and we started taking shots, her and I, while my boyfriend drank beer... I remember walking down to the bonfire, then leaving to pee, then coming back... And nothing. Next thing I know I'm alone...
    mommadre mommadre 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    U Were My "friend".... :"(

    i don't know from where to begin...i had alwayss considered him as my friend,.. as my close friend....i trusted him more than anyone else... :'( (as i don't want to disclose my or anyone's identity, let my name be grace & my friend's be tedd ) After our mid-sem examination, we...
    jmeJustMe jmeJustMe 18-21 Oct 13, 2012

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    A Night I Will Never Forget

    I was 17 and just out of high school and going to a tech school for MA so on the weekends that summer my BFF Teri would bring her truck..a beauty black with flames on the hood... and we would go the next town over every friday and roller skate... Of course we had to get drunk...
    elderwitch47 elderwitch47 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    My Teenage Nightmare

    When I was 14 (I am 18 now) I was dating a boy named Thomas. Days later I found out he was also dating my best friend is I broke up with him. He refused to let me go, continuously telling me that I could pleasure him right. Disgusted I left. He showed up at my door and forced...
    MayDayKacy28 MayDayKacy28 18-21, F Jun 4, 2012

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    As She Lay Lifeless He Stole Her Innocence..

    So, i guess you could say he was an ex bf or just someone I hooked up with before. But he knew things had changed, I was engaged to someone else who I love and did not want to be with anyone else. I just needed a place to crash because It was late I was tired and I couldnt see...
    asaywhatsup asaywhatsup 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    My Friend Changed My Life

    Hi My name is Star I am 13 years old. i heard about this group Tow weeks ago and i think i can tell you my painful Nighmier of what happend too me . It was november 19 2011 Me and my Friend Walked home from school together becuase we live next too eachother and we always Walked...
    starbar101 starbar101 13-15, F 17 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    How Do I Know If It Was Rape?

    A friend of mine basically raped me. I just don't know if it is considered rape. I am addicted to sex. I kept telling him not to touch me. He wouldn't listen and eventually I gave in, I never wanted to kill myself more in my whole life. I cried and tried to think of the guy I...
    IvyOrchid IvyOrchid 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Scream Of The Butterfly

    A creature made of sunshine Her eyes were like the sky Rabbit howls like something old as we twitch to her lullaby The scalpel shines in god's sunshine Street lights whisper pain Down here near the poison stream our god has gone insane She smiles like a child with flowers...
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2013

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    Lost 2 Friends In 1 Day

    I was raped a year ago by one of my best friends. Kye and Shane where like my brothers, I'd known them both since we where 3, when this happened we where 17. The 3 of us where at Shane's house just hanging out in the lounge. The door bell rang and Shane went to answer it, 2 guys...
    Lozzie23 Lozzie23 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Well I got drunk at a party

    and didn't stop drinking.. All I remember was going outside with a few guy "friends." Next thing that happened was that I don't remember anything. Didn't even know I went home that night.. I blacked out very badly and two weeks later I found out that I had sex with some boy I...
    cryssy1 cryssy1 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Friend, Turned To Fake, Turns Into Trust Issues.

    Last December, i made a new friend, his name was Dom, i trusted him with my life, he promised me he'd never hurt me, he was 18 and i was 14. My dad warned me too make sure this boy wasn't out for the thing most guys were, and that was sex, so i asked him, to be completely honest...
    thatgirl11910 thatgirl11910 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    This is pretty weird,

    I've never shared my secrets with anyone besides my friends but I can't share this one with them and I need some answers... I was an exchange student for my senior year (2013-2014) in Michigan I made really good friends there and i decided to come back to visit this summer for...
    Veero14 Veero14 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I Trusted You

    In 1996 when I was 9 Years old my dad got an assignment to Dubai to live there for two years. We made friends with a petrol attendant and invited him home for dinner. Then he came regularly and we used to hangout alot. In 1997 when I was 10 years we decided to go for a swim and...
    Speed61 Speed61 26-30, M Jan 22, 2013

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    I Told My Boyfriend Of My Past

    I finally told him the whole story... figured i had to let him know... at least now he understands my awkward hesitation for doing anything to mature in the sheets... It felt like a relief when i was telling him, as if i was getting burden of mt chest... But how he feels i will...
    drscorpio drscorpio 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    I Blame Myself

    We had been friends for a while and he came to my house one day to hang out. We had spent days together a few other times before so I wasn't really concerned about anything happening. He held me down and told me all about his plan to kill me if I betrayed him or didn't do as he...
    leahdarling leahdarling 18-21 8 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Lost

    I've never felt so lost or confused or helpless in my life. I'm so scared to reach out to anyone and feel as though this may be the only place I can tell my story without being scared of bias or judgment. (I am going to change the names of the people in the story to protect my...
    1 Response Jan 28, 2013

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    Unexpected..

    4:03 am. Me and a very dear friend were driving to drop his date at her place after we went out clubbing, I've known him for 3 years and i trusted him dearly he was my ex's best friend, except his attempts to try and kiss me whenever he gets drunk (which should explain it all...
    emilyvaldes emilyvaldes 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    March 22 2012

    hey you may not remeber me but few moths ago i told you guys a story about my rape well something worst happend to on March 22 2012 Mike said he was sorry for what happend for what he did too me i said to himi dont know is ill ever forgive you and then i left Around 4:00 i...
    shamestar shamestar 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    Friend

    We walked into the living room. A Man was sit talking with my mom, on the sofa. Not worried Alex , my best friend from preschool, and I Whent in my room to study. Now Alex and I are like brother and sister. Our parents let us sleepover at one another's houses. When the other was...
    0313lizzy 0313lizzy 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    The experience itself is elsewhere on my

    profile. I don't feel like sharing it again here, but I will share some thoughts now that a year has passed since it happened. I accept to this day, that I still care about him, and will always care about him. I owed him so much for being there for me, which is why I agreed...
    purplemessenger purplemessenger 18-21, F Jun 3

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    When I was 10 years old I was raped by my friends dad. Repeatedly for 3 months. I would spend the night over her house almost every weekend , so her mom set up a room for me in...
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    I just feel like dying right now.. As you all know im a lesbian. There was this boy who kept asking me out at uni. I kept on rejecting him and i finally told him the about my...
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    It was me and my best friend Isabella the year after we lost our virginities together. We were walking in the woods where "the beast" lives and 2 guys jumped us and raped us.
    AudreySluttyEmoBitch AudreySluttyEmoBitch 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was 16, he had just turned 17. He was my best friend, and it was his birthday. He invited me over to hang out with a couple of our friends. Sadly, he lied, and it was only me and...
    Shekinarose Shekinarose 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I was 13 and was walking home with my "boyfriend" we stopped by his house and he asked me to come in. He lead me to his bedroom and said he had to get something. 2 boys walked in...
    bluepanda111 bluepanda111 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    My brother raped me when i was 15 and idk what to do i love hi but i cant even soeak to him
    Goth66princess Goth66princess 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    His name was Andrew, and he was 19 yrs old.. He was my best friend. I could tell him almost anything! But I never knew he'd do something like that after I told him everything. I...
    CalderReed CalderReed 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 22

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    "If you were really that upset about your rape you wouldn't dress and act the way you do. I tried to tell you this kid was just using you for sex why would you sleep with him after...
    VolleyBallPrincess14 VolleyBallPrincess14 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I haven't been able to talk to anyone about it but ive tried. I've tried telling my best friend but every time i try i let things get to me and i cant. I just got the courage to...
    rhianon22 rhianon22 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I was 16. He was 40. I had just entered my Junior year of high school and I was having issues with my father. The normal teenager bullshit of not wanting to deal with my fathers...
    perilousindenvers perilousindenvers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    It started when I was 5 years old. My grandpa would always have me go into his room so that he could touch and violate me. He'd pay me money, and give me gifts just so I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    It all started late one night when I was safe in my bed. My father had been out drinking all night at the pub and when he got home mum had locked him out of their bedroom so he...
    beckles007 beckles007 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    my older brother.i was 12 and he was 17
    heypeoplezz heypeoplezz 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 30

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    .. And I know it isn't my fault, but I constantly feel like it really was. I know they tell you that it's never your fault. But six is too much, and 4 of them were all in one...
    xdka xdka 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    By my (now ex) boyfriend... Everyone found out about it because we live in the same apartments so things spread around to everyone. Well it's now 7 months later, & I was hanging...
    allthegirlsaresinging allthegirlsaresinging 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    It's embarrassing, I feel so bad.
    Dyylaanxx Dyylaanxx 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    i duno im sure to write this here, but ive not written this down before and hardly ever told anyone. when i was 15 i was walking home from gymnastics and went across an open area...
    lamaragymnast lamaragymnast 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    I dated this guy for seven months, felt that it was the most passionate,exciting time of my life and then i was raped by him and two of his mates. He also drugged me on four...
    teapotclock teapotclock 46-50 1 Response Sep 6

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    This was five days ago. I told one of my "best friends" I've known for a long time not to take advantage of me while drinking (I'm a struggling alcoholic) since I won't be myself...
    Lucile199 Lucile199 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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