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I Was Sexually Abused By My Brother And Sister

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    I was about 6 when my older step brother

    who is about 7 years older than me, sexually abused me. I've tried so hard to block it out, thankfully I only have a short memory of it. It was a game to him. And I went along with it. Knowing it was wrong. Over the years. Especially from about 10. I acted out terribly. I was so...
    nzm87 nzm87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Always Caught In The Middle...like The Middle Child I Am

    I was sexually abused by both my brother and sister and many people by the time I was 7 or 9 I had been abused by more than 4 people I think that is shocking in a way ... bill patrick my sister rose my brother john a friend peter a female nurse in 1975 I also sexually...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Older Brother

    I was when I was 7 and my family thinks that he protected me
    havenlee havenlee 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    My brother is 7 years older.

    . And I used to think It all was just some dream I had, but I have to many incidents and memory of it for it to be a dream. He never acknowledged it in any way, so I went of thinking nothing ever happened. But now I know something did, it was always when he babysat me and I went...
    LoveLustFaithDreams LoveLustFaithDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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