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I Was Sexually Abused By My Brother

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    I Was Sexually Abused As A Child?

    When I was a child me and my brother rarely got along, I loved spending time with him and playing with him and always wanted to spend time with him and his friends when they would come over to our house. It wasn't until I was ten that he wanted to play with me... When I was ten...
    AnastasiaOPI AnastasiaOPI 18-21 3 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Don'T Tell Anyone

    My brother caught me wearing my mom's panties when I was 7. He decided to use me "like a girl" because if I want to dress like a girl, I need to act like a girl. I didn't understand, but I did as I was told because I was promised if he told mom and dad that I was wearing moms...
    Tommytwelve Tommytwelve 13-15, T 3 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    Grrr

    From the age of 5 to 13........
    Sarahberrycakes Sarahberrycakes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    Fear

    I have been afraid of my stepbrother ever since I was in the 7th grade. He has done a few different things that now make me fear he's going to lash out at me and do worse. It was a hot afternoon after school one day. My stepbrother and I had gotten our homework done and we were...
    littlesis333 littlesis333 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I Was Sexually Abused Harassed By My Brother In My Childhood...

    [10:25:38 PM] Link: When I was around 6 my brother was 13, one day he showed me a book which had sexual images in it. Since that day my brother was sexually abusing, harassing me which was very uncomfortable. Also he made me do things I didn't want to do it went on for a couple...
    pikalink pikalink 13-15, F Oct 26, 2013

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    Hopeless.

    OK, I can't believe I'm doing this right now, but here I go: my brother has been sexually abusing me for almost a year now. Never did I think I would have to write this, but things change, and apparently so do people. We were so close, and I TRUSTED him, and then he basically...
    tinydancer14 tinydancer14 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    I was harmed by my older brother.

    I have three older brothers (all adopted, all of us are) – it was the middle one that harmed me (well, tried too). He never forced me, but he made me extremely uncomfortable. I'll call him Sam. Prior to being adopted into my family, Sam's foster parents had accused him of...
    macabremara macabremara 22-25, T Mar 14

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    He is dead now but I relive the memories almost

    every day. I was 5 yr old and he was around 19 yr old. He was supposed to be watching me while my parents were out. I wanted to go swimming when my parents came home so he told me to go put on my bathing suit. I thought I could do it myself, but I got stuck and called for my...
    indigoxo indigoxo 26-30, F Feb 17

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    Was Sexually Abused By My Brother

    My brother starting sexually abusing me when I was 13 years old. However things were already happening before then. I was sexually abused by a female cousin for a few months when I was 8 years old. My brother wasn't there at the time but I am sure my Mum told him because she...
    Alikat1 Alikat1 46-50, F Aug 11, 2013

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    Abused By My Brother For 4 Years!

    I was 10 when i can remember it first starting. My brother who is the oldest os 6 years older than me, came into the room that i shared with my other brother, he is a deep sleeper. I was asleep at first until i could feel someone next to me i awoke, but didn't move, when i...
    kennyMM kennyMM 22-25 Oct 27, 2013

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    My Brother Scares Me...

    It all started the summer when I was ten years old. I never FULLY told anyone this story but now I feel I have the **** gut to say it: I had already developed quite big boobs, My brother and I shared a bunk bed, he was on the top and I was on the bottom. One night he told me to...
    beancoco beancoco 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    My Brother Sexually Abused Me And Now Sex With My Husband Is Impossible.

    When I was 11 my older brother started sneaking into my room at night and using my body to fulfill his sexual curiosities while he thought I was sleeping. When he would do this I can only explain the fact that I didn't move or jump or yell out as being because I was frozen in...
    amomynous amomynous 31-35, F Aug 17, 2012

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    When i was a very little girl, between 2 - 5 i think. My daddy left us. Us being me, my brother, and my mom. She worked very hard to take care of us. Therefore I never had a lot of...
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    My brother is 7 years older.. And I used to think It all was just some dream I had, but I have to many incidents and memory of it for it to be a dream. He never acknowledged it in...
    LoveLustFaithDreams LoveLustFaithDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    A few years ago my dad had alcohol addiction. One night he was so drunk he crept into my room and you know the rest.
    loveVictorandDumas loveVictorandDumas 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Is it wrong to only want to speak to women about my abuse? It was a man who did it, I just feel more comfortable this way. :(
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    where do you start... at the beginning I guess. It all started when I was 4, I can remember trying to tell my mother about it,, She either didn't want to except it or didn't...
    wnme wnme 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    The overwhelming majority of people who are in my situation are women. It makes me feel like I shouldn't complain. Why should I? Women have it worse, are more likely to be...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was sexually abused when I was 11 at a piano school for the visually impaired (my brother attended). There was this teacher who would always be upstairs where I played while my...
    Jackiebh Jackiebh 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I was sexually abused by my older brother and I told my mom but she didn't really seem to take much concern and it honestly kills me inside to ever be around him
    hellandtoast666 hellandtoast666 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I was sexually abused and I feel like no one else knows how I feel x x x
    elizabethjay elizabethjay 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    This is a sensitive subj to talk about, when I was 5-6 I was sexually abused by my uncle, I still remember everything although in 16 now. I never did something about it, I still...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    When I was five years old, a man sexually abused me more than twice. I'm afraid to tell people, because what if they see me differently or disgusted??
    samjuliah samjuliah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My foster mom had me sexually abused in the hospital. By a "doctor". I was seven. I had many many hospital stays growing up, treating my chronic lung condition. I'm a victim of...
    iMinnow iMinnow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    i was sexually assaulted by my cousin. we recently started getting close as we now are at the same school, i thought it was how family relationships where supposed to be as i am...
    englishfear englishfear 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My stepfather abused me weeks after we moved in with him. I was 16. He screwed me behind my moms back for two years. He just died, I am not sad.
    caitlintells caitlintells 36-40, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Never talked about it more then two or three times in my life and yesterday I just said it to my best friend and I saw his reaction then I knew I never told him that I was abused...
    Dengel85 Dengel85 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My brother abused me for 7 years. I just recently was able to find that courage to tell someone. Now I'm free from the physical abuse but I'm still scarred. It affects my life so...
    xaliroox xaliroox 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    When I was 14 I had been put on a work experience project by the school. I was working for two weeks in a hotel. The manager there was in his mid 20's and after the placement was...
    monstahmash monstahmash 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I was around 4 years old, my biological parents began to abuse me for no reason. They called me a devil's child and use to torture and starve me. I remembered they use to tie...
    Lucas14 Lucas14 18-21, M Sep 6

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    I used to have this dream. A haze of white and gold covering everything the entire "video" of what was happening. When I was young this dream happened a lot and I would wake...
    Astelmarie Astelmarie 18-21, F Aug 26

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    This is again when I was young, around 8-10yrs, may be..... My cousin was staying in my grandpa's place and was working somewhere. He should've been in his early 20s. Whenever I...
    tickoo2 tickoo2 36-40, M Aug 30

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    my new baby girl was the result of long term sexual abuse... im scared she will look like my abuser or be violent or something... she's also had cystic fibrosis and there is so...
    ana097 ana097 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    It was in school a few years ago . it was after school and I was walking home when I decided to take a short cut through the ally way and it wasn't dark it was during broad...
    youngandhorney123 youngandhorney123 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I had just gotten done scrubbing our downstairs white tiled floor. I had a tiny section left and he was helping a little bit here and there, etc. We started having a convo about...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    this boy I sat next to in english. we were best friends.. if you want to know more you should talk to me (: I swear I'm not mean.
    juliaarosee juliaarosee 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    There is a lot of self pity when something like that happens to you. I understand. You sit in the shower feeling dirty. Afraid to touch yourself. Not wanting to. But please don...
    MadMint MadMint 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I posted my experiences about my sexual abuse so people knew they weren't alone and that I'm truly willing to help. I hate that people attack me and say I need help. I'm the way I...
    xaliroox xaliroox 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Tips on how to not be scared of relationships? I'm terrified of them but I also really don't want to die alone. I want a boyfriend but after what's happened I freak out every time...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    My mother is the most evil person I ever met! No one have treated me worse in my whole life. My mom is a total ***** who is trying to destroy my life every day, her biggest fear...
    afreespirit afreespirit 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 2

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    Where do I start? My dads an alcoholic My older brother hates me My mum doesn't even talk to me I was sexually abused by my grandad from the age of 6 to 12/13. I may write more...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    Welp.. Here goes nothing At the time I was only in the 4th grade.. My mothers brothers and sisters only had boys.. So I was pretty much the only girl (at the time) me and my 2...
    ThebeautBird ThebeautBird 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My sister (3 yrs older) sexually abused me when I was 11. She was abused by my grandfather. I get flashes of her holding me down kissing and touching me - I felt guilty, sick and...
    lulumonta lulumonta 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 17