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I Was Sexually Taken Advantage of

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    I Was Sexually And Emotionally Taken Advantage Of

    At the time it feels like nothing is wrong but then after, you think about it and it plays on your mind and makes you feel dirty so bad you sit in shower scrubbing yourself and punching and hiding all the parts of you he touched. i was 13 innocent, naive and vulnerable. my...
    iloveyou786 iloveyou786 16-17 Apr 12, 2012

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    I Have Been....

    I have been sexually taken advantage of. I have had men force me to have sex with them, or make me feel guilty into having sex with them, only to make them feel better about themselves. One time it resulting in an unwanted pregencey that led to, losing a child. Its a terrible...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    A Living Nightmare

    It was the year of graduation. I had become a hermit the entire year, not wanting to socialize keeping to myself and close friends, I was happy this way. I'd always been years ahead of myself ready for the world and always eager to get to the next stage in life. My graduating...
    jinnyweasley jinnyweasley 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    When I Was Single...

    there was this guy Scott I met through a singles ad. I had just moved back in with my mom and step-dad after leaving this guy Jeff I lived with for three months. My mom and step-dad were eager for me to move on. They had met through a singles ad and pointed Scott out to me in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    5 Years Of Suffering And Confusion

    5 years ago, I was 19 years old and very naiive. I had a mild to moderate case of what I guess you could call "social anxiety disorder" and was bullied from middle school through my senior year of high school for "being too quiet", "Not ever talking". People seemed to think I...
    HannahPickle HannahPickle 22-25 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Foggy Mistakes

    It was the summer going into my senior year of high school, to be exact, it was one week ago. I was hanging out with some friends, who also included my ex (who I've had a complicated past with) we were at my house drinking, and smoking weed and my ex (who I will name Robby...
    Emrose3 Emrose3 18-21, F Aug 16, 2013

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    Blame It On The Alcohol

    When I was younger, I went through a serious phase of binge drinking. I spent weekend after weekend at friends' houses getting plastered. I was always the youngest one in the crowd. I met a lot of people. I loved the attention I got from being the shiny new toy everyone wanted to...
    AribelleG AribelleG 22-25, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I'm Tired Of Being Hurt

    I feeling like everyone is put too hurt me. Every guy I meet turns out to all be the same just want sex. My sister who I've always been there for marry that man that rape me when I was 12 I'm 21 now. It's like she deepen a wound that never close. I feel alone in this world but...
    Coldcoldworld Coldcoldworld 18-21 2 Responses May 30, 2012

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    Lost And Dissapointed

    Tough Life… I dont whine… I dont forget.. I get flashbacks ofcourse… I realize just  how clueless and gullible I am.. Because of this  hae led to situations that have really scarred me… I have let people harm me.. just like the vulnerable person that i am.. The...
    xvulnerablerealization xvulnerablerealization 13-15 4 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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    Two Faced

    I have no one else to tell so i write this with the hope that maybe you will listen to me and i can try to release the weight that has been on my heart. It started one weekend when i went out and partied at a guys house, i barely knew him yet when i got drunk we ended up sleeping...
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    Young , Drunk , & Tooken Advantage Of At Age 14

    It was two weeks before my 15th birthday & i went to my friends house who had his own house. When I got there i saw all my friends there and they were already very intoxicated. The first thing one of friends did was hand me a bottle of liquor and I just drank it straight wanting...
    Rosespink Rosespink 18-21, F Dec 29, 2012

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    I Don't Know How To Feel.

      I was recently dumped, and haven't exactly been taking it well. I've been trying to keep myself busy and not alone. I've also been drinking a -lot- more than usual. Last night a guy friend that I've been friends with for 2 years came over with a bottle of rum to hang out...
    demonfaerie demonfaerie 18-21, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Massage Gone Awry

    A little background info. I'm 38 year old woman in a 7 year mutually exclusive, committed relationship. My BF is great - he's calm, understanding, smart, funny, etc. We have no major issues in our relationship. We go out to eat at a particular restaurant quite often where we've...
    guiltridden2 guiltridden2 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    I Was Taken Advantage Of But Didn't Realise Until Afterwards.

    It happened a couple of years ago, I had been going through a bad time and doing a lot of drugs. One night I had a party and I had been drinking a lot, smoking a lot of weed and taking speed. This guy (I'd known him for about 6 months) was trying it on with me for most of the...
    victoria18 victoria18 22-25, F Apr 23, 2012

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    Lust Or Affection

    I really honestly don't feel comfortable posting my story on here. I haven't ever used this site...I'm scared to post it. I'm afraid the people that took advantage of me will find it and post a counter reply. They will say something like "You're just a *****..." "you're the one...
    jigglewiggle jigglewiggle 18-21 Mar 3, 2010

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    What It's Like

    I have already posted my story "The Problem With No Solution" but i didn't really go into much detail. I think i'm ready to now. There was a party where i used to work, and after my shift i went downstairs and a friend of my co-worker followed me. I had my back to the door as i...
    JordynS JordynS 16-17, F Mar 22, 2012

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    I Didnt Understand Untill It Was Too Late...

    I was too young to know, at least at the beginning that they way he was around me wasn't normal. to say the least my parents are not the most hey how was your day at school parents. all they cared and care about is what there doing and why... I raised myself and never had that...
    unfound unfound 18-21 2 Responses Oct 15, 2010

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    Had A Party ... And Got A Little Too Drunk

    So my parents went out of town and i decided to have some friends over. There was only 9 of us for a while. My aunt bought us alcohol and i got the most drunk out of anyone. My bestsfriends , boyfriends brother came over. The first thing he did when he got there was makeout with...
    BaileeNoelle1 BaileeNoelle1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    My Secret

    It was the summer of fourth grade going into fifth grade. My next door neighbor was a year older and much more worldly than I. I was naive and didn't know anything about anything sexually or otherwise. She did though. She would coerce me into doing things I didn't want to from...
    thisaccountishereforonereason thisaccountishereforonereason 31-35 May 24, 2013

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    Because I have a soft heart and can't really say no to people or shout, some tend to take advantage of me..... how do I harden up.... saying I should just say no is easier said...
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    When I was around 10 my brother sexually abused me. I didn't know what he was doing and it scared and confused me but I went along with it because I trusted him. I don't hold...
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    where do you start... at the beginning I guess. It all started when I was 4, I can remember trying to tell my mother about it,, She either didn't want to except it or didn't...
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    If I were to die today I don't know what would become of my family. They would surely make it financially, but would they ever cook, clean, or tend to the home in any way. I am...
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    The overwhelming majority of people who are in my situation are women. It makes me feel like I shouldn't complain. Why should I? Women have it worse, are more likely to be...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I used to have this dream. A haze of white and gold covering everything the entire "video" of what was happening. When I was young this dream happened a lot and I would wake...
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    When i was a very little girl, between 2 - 5 i think. My daddy left us. Us being me, my brother, and my mom. She worked very hard to take care of us. Therefore I never had a lot of...
    CleverSiri CleverSiri 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    It was in school a few years ago . it was after school and I was walking home when I decided to take a short cut through the ally way and it wasn't dark it was during broad...
    youngandhorney123 youngandhorney123 13-15, M Sep 13

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    Is it wrong to only want to speak to women about my abuse? It was a man who did it, I just feel more comfortable this way. :(
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    My brother is 7 years older.. And I used to think It all was just some dream I had, but I have to many incidents and memory of it for it to be a dream. He never acknowledged it in...
    LoveLustFaithDreams LoveLustFaithDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    AlphahatesOmega AlphahatesOmega 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I don't really know if this counts as sexual abuse but he used to not stop when I said stop...and held me down and did things. And would act all sad afterwards and say sorry so I...
    danixy danixy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I had allowed myself to believe it was just two kids (my brother is two years older than I am) experimenting, but now I'm coming to realize that what I thought was normal was...
    coffeeIover coffeeIover 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He didn't notice how much I was worth until I was gone. Since I've left him it's like he thinks I'll come right back. Things never turn out the way you want them to.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    I need to ask a question for any women my age. Please understand that I'm not trying to make you feel uncomfortable or flirt, nothing like that. Just looking for some feedback. How...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    For the past few weeks I've been seeing a new therapist and just talking about my past a bit for context, even though we talked about what happened also. I leave feeling tired and...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm trying to talk about it now and it's like pulling teeth. Body parts are "there" and events are "when, thing, you know". I physically have a lot of trouble just saying it. I...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    As a child I was sexually abused by my father it went on for year I was eight when it first happened nine when I ended it first I really didn't know what was going on he would call...
    Somechick47 Somechick47 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I was 16. He was 40. I had just entered my Junior year of high school and I was having issues with my father. The normal teenager bullshit of not wanting to deal with my fathers...
    perilousindenvers perilousindenvers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I was sexually abused and I feel like no one else knows how I feel x x x
    elizabethjay elizabethjay 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    Where do I start? My dads an alcoholic My older brother hates me My mum doesn't even talk to me I was sexually abused by my grandad from the age of 6 to 12/13. I may write more...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I was sexually abused by my older brother and I told my mom but she didn't really seem to take much concern and it honestly kills me inside to ever be around him
    hellandtoast666 hellandtoast666 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    This is a sensitive subj to talk about, when I was 5-6 I was sexually abused by my uncle, I still remember everything although in 16 now. I never did something about it, I still...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Freddieqk2494 Freddieqk2494 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I had an older mentor. I was 14 and he was 25. He sounded very smart to me and very helpful. But then he started to take advantage of me. It was over the internet but even so it...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    22 Alternatives to Punishment by Jan Hunt -- The Natural Child Project Many parents recognize the harmful effects of physical and verbal punishment. They know that yelling...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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